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“hey, I’m stressed”
“you’re only 13, there’s nothing to stress about”
That’s exactly the reason why. Cuz we’re 13.
@@woahbye7407
Eh, we are all 13.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same. Same. Same.
“What’s wrong with kids nowadays, they’re all meant to be happy, they’re young.”
I'm 13 too and very stressed
Mom
why do u tell me “u can tell me everything” but then u judge me every single time ?
Yup..
I’ve never related to a person so much
i can relate soo muchhh
Why... I always ask that to myself and if I bring it up I just get days of screaming in my face
Why is that so true tho??😢😢
me: *being too scared to tell my mom that i have depression because she will call me dramatic*
I feel you😞
I am going through that at the moment
u shouldn't, u can tell me I'm always here.
yeahh
i got your back...same is with me
Imagine talking to your mom without being interrupted LMFAOOOO
Would be my only dream
I can't even ask a simple question without her giving me a lecture.
My dream
I’ll never wake up.
LMAOOOO IM LAUGHING SO HARD OMG
"why are you talking back to me."
My mom uses: Im the mother, you're the daughter. So shut up and listen
Katrina It Be My mom yells at me to shut up
Danica Jurie oh my god that is literally me. My parents always shame me for my size. Why can't they accept me for who I am? I can't wait to move out.
Exactly 😭💀
Same but with my dad
**gets emotional, writes a long letter to mom, deletes**
Felt that 💯
@@ayyoolizzy1154 same
That's what I just did💀
So relatable!!!!!
Relatable
“I’m depressed, I need help...”
“You get everything you want, but when I was your age, I’d be lucky to even have food on the table”
My mom says this all the timee. I honestly can't even talk to her anymore. I can so relate to this one
@@sydneystark869 ikr i literally burst out crying
What a toxic thing to say to your child
Yea, sometimes I want to tell her she's a strong woman and I'm not. Actually some kids at her age had mental illness, they just didn't tell you and acted perfectly normal infront of you.
I'm sad that ppl like my parents don't know every person is different from the others and needed treating differently. They always think just need to give birth and feed kids like animals and kids just like that grow perfectly normal without any "depressed and stuff" issue.
Facts
I cant even say "im sad" without getting yelled.
*hugg*
Facts my mom be like how do u think I feel watching all y’all me thinking what did u think that will happen with giving birth to 4 children
Me neither I’m tired of this mess
Me too
I always feel weak around them and I have no power to live my life the way I want to
My insecurities only became my insecurities when my mom pointed them out to me.
Wow. You're right.
This is too true for life
Oh how I can relate to this
True.
The same
I wish I could sit with my parents in the same room for 10 minutes without feeling suicidal.
ANKITA SHARMA right🥺😭
I feel you literally
Exactly
Same
Wow sMe
Parents dont understand how hurtful their comments can be and what ut can do to us
Facts
exactly.. and when i say somethings... they think that I am the worst daughter...
Yeah, they just don't understand how they hurt us as kids and how its affecting our personality and our lives.
Im so glad I’m not the only one to realate
Hi guys this is part 4 so basically my dad bought me an Samsung monitor and u know what my 🤡🤡 brother did he punched it and off what did my parents do nothing and then on Christmas I get an msi 165 hearts monitor and not even after Christmas my brother broke it and my parents and other family see me crying and u know what my mom doesn’t do nothing and watches me cry while my grand mother was thief for me and off my brother didn’t get hit or nothing tbh I’m crying typing these stories cause of my life so anyways yeah my life is bad and this is all real part 5 coming
I hope I will treat my future kids better than my parents raised me , I will make them feel loved ,comfortable with their own body and positive in general ❤
Update : decided to never have kids lol
Beautiful. If all were like you it would take only one generation to heal this wound. ❤️
@@LucasDanielSantoro ❤️❤️
me too
I too will do the same, I can't let my future children suffer the same.
me too
if I could tell my mom this without getting screamed at that would be the best feeling
Same
Same but it would never happen
Omaygash hahah same
same...
Amanda Lalla me too.
I wish I could tell my mom anything without being interrupted or yelled at.
Same but my mom says she wants me to clean and cook and blah blah blah I don’t want to live my life cleaning and cooking if I decide to drop out will I get support? If I marry someone that is different from me will I get support? That’s why I’m gonna get a job when I’m old enough and at 18 move out and don’t look back I’ll love her send her gifts on her birthday but I’ll always remember the past thanks for reading me rant anyway good luck with your mom and ya cya 🙂
Same here
Same
Same
Me to 😔
Mom : literally yelling at me
Me *starts to cry*
Mom: why you cryin
Me- because you yellin at me
Mom: OH I'M NOT
THANK YOU THIS HAPPENS TO OFTEN ITS RIDICULOUS
True
Will give you something to cry about ☹
YES EXACTLY
Wait you cry infront of your mom..?
My mom: Gives me a lecture everytime I try to spend time with her
Also my mom: wHy wOnT oUr kIdS SpEnD TiMe wIth uS
I thoUght i only related to this
Exactly.
i’ve had this exact conversation with my mom
My mom uses this quote
When i die then you will want to spend time with me
😂
@@mohhkvyouvycycvyub175 this words make me devastated tbvh
her: “I need you to have my back.”
me: *casually sitting on the toilet crying silently*
same here
miracle same here,a lot of people know this feeling and it’s the worse
miracle awh 🥺 I’ve been crying so much it’s ok 🥺
miracle riggins bro I’m literally on the toilet watching this
Same here🥺
Me: *makes a whole speech about how my mom treats me*
My mom: tHaTS nOT TrUe
MARY SIBURT 😔
Same lmao, rants like this never work with mine, she just rolls her eyes and goes and cries to my dad about how her only daughter doesn’t love her.
"it's because of that damn phone"
I squirm at every "It doesn't matter!" whenever I dump facts/confront her. And she wonders why I can't trust her anymore...
And she calls me a liar
*tells my mom something
*her trying to say anything so “she’s right”
I literally cried .being a teen we need moms support in every choice we make but sometimes they just dont understand us . And be disrespectful to our bodies 😭
I understand how you feel because I was having the same issues with my mom and then my daughter started having the same issues with me. I wrote a poem to try and explain why mother’s do that and apologized. th-cam.com/video/11VPefbk_eE/w-d-xo.html
and here i don't have a mum
I'm afraid to tell my mom my problems, because she will think I need attention.
SAMEEE
Purple ivy I told my mom about my depression and she said I'm only doing for attention 😭
That's what my mum doe when I'm in my room crying she thinks I'm having a tantrum
I'm sorry but I'm not really good with my English, but...
Your mother aren't the only person in the world, exist more people that they will listen and they will be able to support you unconditionally. Although many people are trash, there are many that are worth.
You are special, everything goes
Same
I wish I could ask my mom some of these questions and more, but I can't without her yelling at me and telling others everything.
Chibi Sanyo same :(
Chibi Sanyo SAME
And then throwing it all back at you in every argument
I know how you feel...
Yea. I never got my period before but I tried testing my mom and I faked that I did get it but then when she got mad at me she said in front of my whole family at thanksgiving
I won't let my child think that she can't say these to me, I promise.
Same.
u r a nice mom.. or maybe you'll be a nice mum siso... i'll be like that too
I too......
Make it so she never has to.
You must not tell lies either
i wish i could tell my mom:
-my insecurities
-my real feelings
-why she treats me like im a child but also an adult
-why she compares me to other kids
-why she doesnt let me wear certain clothes and makeup
"Feminism isn't a stick to beat other women with"
-EMMA WATSON
*NO HATE*
The queen has spoken
QUEEN! QUEEN! I STAN A QUEEN!
@@dr.sangitachauhan969 lol yeah, it’s a stick to beat us men with hahahaha
TOXIC FEMININITY.
Yes it about giving women choice. It's about freedom. It's about liberation
i couldn’t say half of this without getting interrupted and yelled at
*Cries in strict Hispanic mom*
Dies in Arabic mom
*snickers in north african mom* I couldn't get to the third line
weeby weeb same agh
even if I wanted to say these things, she wouldn’t understand.
I wish i could say this to my mom everytime she shout at me
"THEN WHY DID YOU GAVE BIRTH OF ME!"
Cause she thought she could handle it
@@Void_Dweller7 basically
Mom: “I DON’T CARE WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH! *YOU* RESPECT *ME*
True story..
Wow...
True story
This is very true. Parent's don't understand how much words hurts, and how verbally abusive they can be.
Skylar_05 very true. But if i say something that hurts one of my siblings she notices and says its wrong. Well maybe she should tell herself that.
Nahh not to me tbh i dont care what anyone thinks about me eg atrangers or anyone
Word.
True. I love them so so so much but they do!
Skylar_05 yes i have the same and she says it will help me but i dont think so
Tbh i wish i could tell my mom anything without being yelled back at
Sofia Bakhti me too
Sofia Bakhti definitely can relate
Sofia Bakhti I don't even tell my mom my personal life
Same.....
Or being told "are you talking back to me?" Yes I am this is a conversation.
“Your young, you have nothing to suffer about or be stressed about”
Parents say...
I literally had a talk with my mom, she yelled at me when I said "I'm done" she said "there is the door, leave!" She yelled at me. I'm 16 If I leave I have no where to go, but Honestly I'm thinking about it.
If I could I will leave
Dear mama,
I'm really sorry I'm not as perfect as my sister. I'm not beautiful, I'm not skinny, and I'm not smart. but I'm your daughter too...
I can relate with every word.
I can relate
Aww😩❤
U are beautiful.. U are loved, by me, and everyone else . Ur awesome, and coming from a stranger might seem like utter bullcrap, but just trust me
flower child you are a flower 🌸 no matter what I can relate your not alone
I can relate..
I see so many comments on here saying "Your mom knows best" and " you shouldn't complain about your mom", well how about parents shouldn't degrade their children? We ALL have feelings and we all know that those closest to us can cut us with their words and actions the deepest and those wounds can be the WORST to try and get over. And also, the language used by the mother goes deeper than being just addressing issues of a young woman's body and sexuality; a lot of this plays on trying to protect your Black daughter from the harsh stereotypes placed on Black women in general. Still, there is an appropriate and non-degrading way to address that issue and it doesn't involve the word "slut".
MeMoTie no. The fact that you're policing her body, saying her shorts are too short, is the problem itself. You're sexualizing her, reducing her to the clothes she wears.
It doesn't matter how it is said, but what is said.
I think the point of this video went over your head.
MeMoTie exactly. It's all about how you say it...
+Raka Mukherjee i can clearly see the major point is that her mother hurts her with the way she speaks to her. but i do not think that the advice even though it's delivered in the wrong way is bad.
here's my personal thoughts: my body is something i want to keep for myself to see and for my love interest. why would i want someone other than him seeing most of my body? and why would i want others to see his? our bodies are for us to see and i wouldn't like others seeing it (i'm talking about being completely naked or mostly naked in case you didn't know)
if my future daughter grew to disagree with me i would be disappointed but i wouldn't mentally abuse her or anything. it's likely that i won't even say that I'm disappointed actually. i don't want to hurt her.
it's her own mind and she wants to believe whatever she wants to. i would want to leave an affect on her but if she doesn't want that then i wouldn't force it upon her.
same thing goes to you. if you disagree with me it's your own choice. i won't argue and sometimes i'll continue to talk and ask because i want to understand. i know what you're going for since i already asked someone else with the same opinion as yours hence no need for me to though.
if you think me wanting my daughter to cover her body more is restrictive, it isn't. she has a vast amounts of clothes to choose from even with my opinion saying she shouldn't wear short/tight clothes in public. she is free to choose those clothes i dislike because i know that even if i restrict this harshly she will still get the money to buy them anyways.
it's like this: i don't like those clothes on you but it's your choice.
how is that restrictive? i will try to leave an impression but i will not try to force anything.
i still won't exactly reduce her to what she wears. people will do that and you know for sure a lot of people are judgmental and they can go as far as publicly insulting her. i want to protect her from the pain of being judged. you would say that people's opinion's don't matter. i wish they didn't matter. but they do. they will bring your mental health down if you care too much and no one will like you if don't care at all. it will also make it harder to meet people because of that. if you stop caring they will be stating their opinions to each other and some will go as far as creating rumors. my opinion is that being a ghost who nobody notices is better than a person who everybody lies about and hates. it all can happen from not caring about what they think and wearing clothes that don't cover your body enough.
i would explain all of this to her in detail so she understands. if she still refuses to listen to me that's her choice. even if it makes me sad she doesn't agree with me
there is something that i hate about a lot of parents. not that only their pride stops them from trying to understand their kids but that they also force it upon them and they don't tell their kids why so they understand why they are doing what they are doing it. and even when they try to tell them and fail at it their kid will at least understand that they would do it for their own good.
sorry. i just wrote an article "̯
UPDATE: i fixed my spelling mistakes. I'm not typing article length comments on my phone again..
MeMoTie I agree with everything especially the ghost example and your last paragraph about parents just commanding without saying why. I'm not a type of person that likes to show my body mainly because I'm insecure and because as a Christian the bible says that we should dress modestly. But even if I wasn't a Christian or insecure I'd still wouldn't want to advertise my body so much like some girls do.
Ashley Crystal
i actually do get the urge to do that. my body is not bad at all (even though i'd be happy gaining a little bit of weight) but still I'd rather use my body for my future husband than to attract creeps and rapists. you can't really know the difference between a person who is really trying to.. i don't know, meet you? and them.
Mom, when you said, *"I wish God would've given be a better child, I never wanted you! Why did i get you?"* I've never felt so replaced and so unwanted, same goes for you dad. And it hurt me more because you knew what i was going through, you knew i was suicidal.
Damn, I’m so sorry dude/ or girl whoever you are.
You deserve bettter
Anything else? I’m really curious, sorry.
Sometimes all we need from our mom is a hug, and for them to say
"Everything will be okay"
But it's impossible without them being mad and asking what we mean
Me: mom.. Im depressed
Mom: it's bc of that damn phone!
that damn phone....
They blame everything on the phone
Trueee 😭😂😂😂
Yep that is 100000% true i had a headache today bcuz of my tooth my mom was like its bcuz of that phone
exactly, I hear music when I study and they blame the music if I fail by 1 or 2 or something...
"I have a women's body, and I will not apologize for that"
super cool guy i read that as she was saying it that's weird
maggie diaz me to thats weird
super cool guy
maggie diaz same here...
maggie diaz same omg
Me: Mom... I’ve been feeling sad lately. It’s been 6 years that I’ve been feeling this. Mom I-
Mom: stop being overdramatic Jackeline.
Army?
ARMY forever YUPP
@@jacki8428 💜
ARMY forever :))💜
Hey army! I hope you're having a good day!:)
me: i’m depressed
her:it’s because ur always on ur ps4
😅
😂😂 its funny cause it true
My life, but instead of ps4 it's phone for me
Dear Mom,
I wish I could tell you that I have depression, that just being alive hurts me. But I can't because you will think that I'm trying to start drama.
Damn girl you are not alone. Try to get psychological help
You’re not alone i’m here
Me too so related
You're not alone, I can relate
Me too...
Dear mom
Why can't I say anything to you without getting attacked or being called disrespectful
I know the feel
Every day
Its true
y e s
Omg samee
“So many things to tell you
But I just end up repressing those feelings
Because I know that you are gonna say the same and end up blaming it all on me
So why to bother”
A conversation with my mom;
Me : I’m stressed out.
Mom : What are you stressed about? School is nothing, work is harder than that. Your grades are important, you need A+ not A.
Me : Oh okay,love you mom.
By that point, I was holding back tears, she never looks on what I feel even If I look on how She feels...
I understand how you feel because I was having the same issues with my mom and then my daughter started having the same issues with me. I wrote a poem to try and explain why mother’s do that and apologized.
I have no problem with my mom.... Well maybe a little. But it's mostly with my grandparents
Dear Mama,
I'm sorry I talk back.
I'm sorry that I'm not skinny.
I'm sorry that I can never live up to your high expectations.
I'm sorry that it's *my* fault when I get sick.
I'm sorry I don't get the honour roll in school.
I'm sorry that I disappoint you.
I'm sorry I'm not like the other kids.
I'm sorry I get angry at you.
I'm sorry that I'm hard headed.
I'm sorry that I'm not perfect.
But,
The reason I talk back is I'm defending myself. I won't let you say the hurtful things you tell others.
The reason I'm not skinny is because I eat my feelings for all the times I've been hurt by others and by *you.*
The reason I can't live up to your high exceptions is because I'm not perfect. I'm sorry, that I'm *not* perfect..
The reason I get sick is not because I ask for it. I'm sorry I didn't wear my jacket the other day. I'm sorry that I can't stop my anxiety from happening, it's not because of my diet.
The reason I don't get honour roll is because I have no motivation. I feel like I'm doing this for you, not for me. The last time I got one, you wanted more. Like it wasn't good enough. Like if all the work I've done, wasn't good enough.
The reason I disappoint you is, well I don't know. I can't be happy and nice all the time. I wish I could, but I can't.
The reason I'm not like the other kids is, I'm not them. I'm me. I wish you would see that I don't need to be a clone.
The reason I get angry at you is because, I'm still hurt by the past. I can't keep letting you hurt me just to pick me back up again. Telling me you're there for me when I'm hurt, but you're the one who hurts me.
The reason I'm hard headed is because I started taking care of myself. I don't need someone to tell me I'm not feeling a sort of way when I am.
The reason I'm not perfect is, no one is.
I love this and I'm sorry you live that life
I will always be here for you If you ever need a shoulder to cry on because I will most likely also be crying. I may not be a physical being to you but feel free to vent to me if necessary. Please don't say I'm fine when you are actually an emotional mess because I will try to comfort you even though I am horrible at it. I will be here for you.
I'm not one to reply to comments very often. But this one touched me. I cannot tell you how much I relate, and it actually is very comforting to know that someone else has been through the same as me. I'm truly sorry, from the bottom of my heart, that you've suffered like you have. Unfortunately, I do know what it feels like. Just keep being strong, remember that you ARE enough, and you are unique, and amazing just the way you are. Don't you ever let anybody else tell you otherwise. I wish you all the best in your life x
***** Thank you, same to you. :)
👏🏻 you just won the award for the best comment ever, congrats and, if you live a life like that, I'm sorry 👏🏻
Even if I have a point in my argument
I'm always wrong
Me too they never admit what I say is the truth
When i was 7 years old she told me that when she was pregnant she tried to kill me but it didn’t work and she wished that she did it in the right way..well i wished that she did it in the right way cuz it’s to much to handle..
I'm sorry...
@@ihalicia7494 thank u,I'm in a better place now♥︎♥︎
@Alice Namer thank u I really appreciate that I'm in a better place living alone and starting new life♥️ ♥️
my mom always gets mad at me for arguing back and using attitude but she always gives attitude and doesn’t respect me so i’m only giving her the same treatment back
My mum is an amazing travel agent.
If you're looking to take a guilt trip down memory lane.
It's very impressive
thesheepthatwentmooo omg thats the best comment! I see you everywere, people say you have good videos. I'm gonna check XD
Did you come up with that or get it from somewhere
thesheepthatwentmooo Can I replace "Mom" with "Grandma?"
Ollie Langdon ii
Daysha just needs to write a poetry book about self-confidence. Who else agrees?
YASSSS
I do. Like look at this, this is on of the deepest videos of buzzfeed
YES!
A poetry book is an understatement, she needs to write a play.
I would buy a copy for myself, my friends, and my family.
I wish i could tell my mom that she's the reason of my depression and anxiety
I'm really sorry this happens. My mom has always been supportive and I'm so thankful. I'm sending prayers down to anyone who goes through this. You're never alone
I get so jealous of all these girls at school, they always have such close relationships with their mothers that they could talk about anything and it not be awkward or embarrassing. I can't talk to my mother about anything, I mostly just find it hard to trust her because she always goes off and tells her friends, and she isn't good at keeping promises.
Story of my life
Those relationships are not always what they look like in public. I have a lot of people telling me that theu like my mom and that my mom and I have such a good relationship. We act right in front of people. We avoid conflict in front of people. She doesn't tell me that I have a stupid expression on my face in front of people, but at a home she will. We won't argue about my choices in front of people
my mom is the same way:(
I feel the same way, but I actually physically can't talk to mine. I hope you and your mother get to talk soon enough, though :))
Zofi Xoxo my mom is the same don't worry just remember life gets better just tell her how you you feel don't make the same mistake i did
Mom, you raised me to stand up for myself and never tolerate disrespect.
So, why do you get mad when I stand up to you for being toxic and disrespectful.
I don’t get it.
Narcissism
My mom tells me to be assertive & confident, but those words that come out of her mouth don’t exist anymore when I stand up to her.
She makes me feel guilty for the things my siblings & I want, I know the things we need are more important than the things we want, but making us feel guilty about it then not understanding why we are afraid to ask you for anything is just- I don’t know anymore.
My mother does the same... Even smilling and looking at her annoys her... Everything I do is wrong, the things I say the way I say is wrong... She says I do that on purpose so just to annoy her... She says she would throw me out of the house for just telling her that she is wrong... That she cannot tell something like that to me... She gets mad and frustrated at every little thing that I do... This is not fair that she expects me to be a perfect girl fit for the society... She taunts me, passes mean comments... She knows that these things trigger s me and makes me sad but she doesn't care
It sounds like your mom is a hypocrite.
I think everyone got this one:
Me: Mom, I'm tired…
Mom: You're just 13, you can't be tired!
It’s so sad how mother’s actually treat their daughter’s this way. Smh 🤦🏿♀️
Dear mom, I’m sorry for being a disappointment...
*But I haven’t seen you apologizing for it either*
You copied this from softforkook...
Gina Chong
Did you even read the rest😂
@@aa-qg5dj I know, but you could have just copied the first
Gina Chong
I *COULD* have. But I didn’t. I have no idea who softforkkook even is
QQQQQQQ YOU SAVAGE😂😂😂
this hit me hard af
This is what I want to say to my grandma. My mom is so nice but both of my parents do nothing and defend her. It's not fair and I am depressed because of it. I made you the way you are. Be proud of it. That's what she tells me every time I see her. I hate her so much
You are soooo beautiful 0_0
Yeah
Started crying 💯
It hurts even more when you can relate
This is a poem. Just look at the way the sentences end OMG!
I wish my mom could just understand that yelling at me won’t teach me anything and it will just give me more stress than I already have from school and all the pressure she’s putting on me.It’s like she wants me to reach these impossible standards and if I don’t reach them she screams at me and hits me.I don’t know how she doesn’t realize how stressed this is making me and she is putting me in a depression
Damn it hurt... Especially coz I can relate wayyy too much than I would like to.
This hit me right to the heart.
one day I am her sunshine, and the other day it's like "oooh look at you youve gained some fat!"
Honestly why do the fat comments hurt so much. If your mother knows you care to be slim, then she's just telling you, because sometimes you really don't notice. It's unhealthy to be too slim or too fat. If she tells you something like that, she might just want to alert you early before it's too much weight.
Runnah M I wish those comments were just alerts. She knows that I try my best to love my body, but she disagrees with my opinion. she doesnt like it. Idc about all the other people in the world, they can say whatever. but when my mom starts pointing stuff out it hurts.
Same
***** you don't get it...
The fact that I can relate is what hurts the most
Me too. There's a lot of things that I don't tell my mom because she doesn't really take me seriously
me to!
why yea
true
same here
*and it was at this moment, I realized..I have a wonderful mother*
“Everything that happens in this house, stays in this house. If you have a problem speak to your parents” - my mom, source of all my problems.
Mom: judges my interests, my friends, my body, My language, my choices, my hair, my thoughts, my words, my feelings, my actions, my problems, my ocd, the way I walk and talk and sleep and the way my eyebrows look when im angry.
Also mom: I DoNt UnDeRsTaNd wHy YoU aRe aVoIdInG Me!???
My mom's like that when I cut my hair to a pixie my dad on only said well don't start liking girls I didn't I just wanted my hair short because I didn't know what to do with it. And when I wanted to die it purple there like you better not be going emo. I like K-pop and they don't they hate it, like reading comics and they banned me from it. And judge me on everything.
Then they're like why you being so distant! So whoever you are wherever You are just know there's someone out here who cares about you and understands you.
My mum doesn't even care about that I m giving her attention or not 🐱
My mom literally judges me for laughing-
Me too
😭
Mom: Smile honey!
Me: I thought lying was bad?
Wxlfy Gacha
Ouch..
69 likes and I’m immature goodbye
Awhhhhh💔💔💔 i agree with you
Don't get it...
How edgy
It hurts so much when we stay by our moms and always show them that we love them what ever they do to us but why don’t understand us they just swear yell and only hurts us we don’t even have a power to go and speak to them we only know to do is put our heads at our pillows every night and tray to cry with out making nose’s some time we just wish that we wasn’t born.💔
Cherish your mother. My moms gone and I had so little time with her. I miss her every day. July 8, 1960 - June, 22, 2020
Parents, siblings, grandparents, etc.: you meaning well doesn't make it hurt any less.
I've struggled a lot with low body confidence (and a few ED tendencies, lets call them that...) after being called "chubby" and "fat" by my (loving and well meaning) family throughout my entire childhood and teenage years. Last year I lost a lot of weight, and for once I felt good about the way I looked. My family told me I looked "scrawny" and "ill"...
When the people that love you the most see flaws in you, it's hard not to see flaws yourself...
This video hits the nail on the head.
my mum called me lazy fat short stupid and she says I'm slutty aswell its horrible
This is exactly the story of my life and till now when I'm a one step away from having food disorder and being pale and having your hair fall they still say I look fat wow thanks a lot
I feel the same it really cuts deep you know
Yeah. Can relate. I even cried but they didn't care. They call it "speaking the truth" .
zmashd /
Mom: you can tell me anything! I’m your mother!
Also mom: stop complaining. I’m tired of hearing oh she did this she did that or this happened.
True tho
She always gets angry or annoyed when I cry
@@aileenchriscelia SAME
Yup she's that typical mom
True
Me : mom I'm depressed...
Mom: it's the phone!!
If i try saying this to my mom, she would smak me with a broom
if i tell my mom my problems and cry to her she will just say "YOUR OVEREACTIVING,YOU ARE MAKING THIS STUFFS""
so i rather shut up and cry
I can relate 😂
Same
@@michaiahbestenbier3419 how is that funny?
Same.
True
Legit almost started crying
Bryanna I cried reading the comments
Bryanna I'm watching this second time and I cried both of them
Bryanna I did cry ╥◡╥ 🤚
Bryanna yep
Galactic Shipper Aphmau! And same!
It means nothing if strangers say it, but it means everything when it comes from your parents
My mom is my angel , im so gratefull for her she accepts me even tho in far from perfect and have done things that i hate myself for but she still says that im worth and deserve everything.
Shes always been there for me trough my depression and anxiety and kept sane.
I love her so much , i wouldnt be here without her
Things I can't tell/ask my mom:
I'm sad
I'm scared
I feel lonely
I feel insecure
Do you love me?
Why do you sometimes treat me like a child and sometimes like an adult?
I'm weak
I wish I could talk to you more often without getting yelled at
I feel mistreated
Do you think you are the only one that gets stressed?
I love having good times with you but why are they so rare?
I think our family relationship is kinda broken
Why do you hurt me?
Do you know that you're hurting me?
Mom, I love you
Same 😭😭😭i can Relate
Especially trying to talk to her and not get yelled at. My mom's a Christian,filled with the holy ghost,on her way to becoming a missionary and the worst mistake I ever made is following in her footsteps and getting baptized
😢 I can't ask or say that either
I can relate to all of these!!!!
Sweet BL Life I’m so sorry. I’m cried reading this, and I still am. God bless you, I hope you get in a better place ❤️
I CRIED THIS IS SO TRUE
Crystal Quintero OML FINALLY SOMEOME WHO UNDERSTANDS
Crystal Quintero
Same
I was okay, then BAM! I broke down
Erika Rodriguez 10 year olds can't cry?
Erika Rodriguez You never know, kids can understand lots of things like this. My mom also made me feel like a fat piece of junk when I was little. Plus, what if she's older than you think??
Crystal Quintero RIGHT
I listened to this and cried ...
I can relate to be honest
Me too.
Same
6 years later and I couldn't relate more to this video. Hands to you buzzfeed 👏🏾👏🏾
If I told my parents this I would just be so called acting like a victim
Exactly this is why I'm afraid to have a serious talk with them
Blue Berry I totally get it... My parents would say your generation just wants to make mountains of molehills and it was just a joke why do you take it seriously and other things like how we can't handle criticism etc etc gets worse
They would always say that I'm complaining .
I can’t have a serious talk about anything they do that bothers me because they’ll just say it’s a phase or that I’m sensitive and a victim. They tell me to tell the truth, yet when I do they tell me to be respectful.
my parents would just say "then go live alone and don't ever come back if you 'hate' me so much." they think they are the best. most important. everyone else against them is wrong and will suffer from their poor decisions.
the fact that my own mother treat my like this hurts how come that we share hatred and shame pass the generations is just stupid
Rosita Negra Hold your head baby we all matter and that's God's plan. I wish Godspeed.🤗❤🤗❤✊
Stay strong beautiful, god has a big plan for you in the future (:
Rosita Negra I Showed my mom this video again after 2 yrs and she said the same thing she did two yrs ago but worse
Rosita Negra my mom does too... I am 12 and underweight... she calls me fat😢😭😯
Rosita Negra same bye worst
Literally I thought that I was the only one in this world but now I feel very better that I am not the only one
Thanks a lot for making this video ❤️
I feel really fortunate n blessed to have a mom who knows me better than anybody else in this whole world....she is my best frnd...!!!...she understands me more than I myself...!!..she supports me for everything I do...she is my world...she makes me smile n always has my back...☺️☺️☺️☺️
Im scared that one day when i become a mom, what if im one of these moms. My mom supports me and calls me beautiful but what of I shame and critisize? That scares me
M Avila Probably not gonna happen if you're worried about it.
M Avila I'm the exact same. I fear the criticisms I've been raised with will plague my own parenting and hurt my children just as it has hurt me. I really don't want to contribute to that bad cycle of self-doubt and judgment. However, I think that our awareness of the crap we deal with is wrong will prevent it from happening again because we KNOW that it isn't a valid way of thinking. We just have to remember to love ourselves and love others how we would want to be loved and that will stay true throughout all relationships and slowly change this hurtful way of raising individuals and treating others as a whole.
The very fact that this has crossed your mind, that you have contemplated this, means that you know better. That you will be the best mother your child could ever know. Be proud of that. The people like you, who take the time to think of what you could be for your child, means that you will never be the person you fear to be.
Love yourself for that
Scarlett A Thank you thank you thank you
Your words was all I need to hear when so much fear are in my head.
M Avila So true. Just one word could be so hurtful and you can never take it back. That scares me too
I wish i could tell my mom:
•To Stop comparing me to other kids and say I should be like them
•That im not perfect
•that she cant forced me to dance and sing when i dont want to
•to stop being mad at me because i forgot to say hello
•to understand me when i say "i dont want to"
•to let me be myself and not another perfect princess
•to do something when i tell her that *im not fine*
• that im sad most od the time
• that im not good at math
•that i want to give up
•that im shy and she cant change me
•i dont want to speak Spanish with you
•I hate that you comment on me being quiet and not singing and laughing
That this is me.
And she need to accept that im not happy all the time.
And i can be perfect like all of my siblings.
I dont want to be in a special class for wise kids because its too hard.
That IM AFRAID she will hate because i still love her.
TAHIR _LOL yeah especially the “I don’t want” and “you should be like the other girls,they’re good at school they’re fit and take care of their skin” that’s the reason why I hated my face,my body😔💔
I relate to every one
100th like.
The comparison one always hurts me like why gave me life then hates me for not being like other teenagers I have my life to live I can't be like other teenagers it's very annoying and gross
And here I love dance and singing. But my parents don't support. 😒
this is so relatable. the ones who should make you feel that you are loved are the ones who fuel up your insecurities.
This really spoke out to me not because I and my mother are like this but because I got the true meaning of this video I felt so calm and at ease after hearing this video so thank you for making such a wonderful true heart melting speaking out video because videos like these show us their is more in life so just believe. ❤
I wish i could tell my mom
I am sad inside
She made me sad
Same
Hey you're a blessing to your mom to the whole world don't forget that . I love you soo muchh and Jesus loves you more ✝️💕💕❤
same.
Me too
Same😔✌
Omg
This girl
This girl is so great
DAYSHA FO LIIIIFFEEEEEE.
+Sarah Dao TRUE
She's amazing..
I agree
So true
This really made me bawl my eyes out CONGRATS on your success may you continue to achieve a lot of things in life your mom is there with you every step of the day❤🎉
I wish I could tell my mom this without her getting angry and beating me up. It's so hard not to cry because I relate to this so damn much😭❤️
I flat-out cried because I can relate...
My mom always comments that I eat too much and that I'm getting fat, and then wonders why I never want to talk or hang out with her.
I can relate 100%
same..
Same
Nicole J same with my grandmother and mother
my mom does that too
"but mama why cant you hear me"
my mom: “you can talk to me anytime”
her when i try to talk to her:” hold on, i’m doing somthing”
me: nevermind then
my mom: you are always such a brat
I understand how you feel because I was having the same issues with my mom and then my daughter started having the same issues with me. I wrote a poem to try and explain why mother’s do that and apologized. th-cam.com/video/11VPefbk_eE/w-d-xo.html
Reading these comments makes me appreciate my mother more for always being there for me and supporting me and being a close friend to me at all times❤❤
This has 7.2 million views and 334000 likes.
*Can you believe how many relate to this?*
it's really sad.. but nobody wants to admit that they treat their children like this... im so sad
Thats just sad then 😕
I wish my mom watched this
Mom:
my house, my rules.
I don't care about what you want, I'm always right because I'm your mom.
Also mom:
Why are you talking about moving out when you're 18? Why Do you want to stay away from us?
Mimi Brocco and then
Mom: if you want to move out so bad, if you want to get away from me so much, why don’t you do it? Just leave then! (Like all of her older children who moved out long before adulthood lol)
she is right when she told you that .. like for real why would you want to move ?
she said that because she love you
Exactly!
Ikr
@@thesoursquids6800 lol
I'm grateful to have a mother who doesn't make hurtful comments. I do understand if she stops me from presenting myself in a certain way though
Am I the only one who really can't relate to this? My Mama always hypes me up and I can talk with her about all the things I need to tell someone. In Moments like this I really feel blessed and grateful.
I am sorry for all the people who can't experience this. You are strong!!! ❤