loft apartment diaries | last few days here, low maintenance friendships, pack with me
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i personally enjoy working out in the evening. i like to think of it as a good way to destress from the day, let go of some energy, and it also lines up with my schedule as i prefer to shower at night. also, in the mornings, i like to keep it calm and focus on preparing for the day, whereas at night i like to focus on decompressing. you can look into your own personal circadian rhythm and preferences to see where it best fits for you. always remember to work WITH yourself, not against yourself, and do what’s best for you
Same! I came across the concept of "showering at night is better" because helps you wash off all the energy you have absorbed from other people and your environment during the day and helps you go to sleep only with yourself in a way (because of the associations and the benefits of water). My explanation was probably poor but I remember it made so much sense to me and I started seeing it as a self-care ritual so I adjusted my schedule accordingly and when I had to work out in the morning because of work or whatever I remember thinking "I miss showering at night" ahah
THANK YOU for talking about the concept of low maintenance friendships. I wholeheartedly agree. I am a very present person, and understanding of peoples own independence and situations. We don’t have to be in contact 24/7, but I’m exhausted of the absent/low maintenance friendships. If you don’t invest time, put effort, or reach out, how can this be a close friendship? The people I don’t speak with for months are the last I think about if I have an emergency or good news. Relationships take effort, Im so tired of this narrative honestly. thanks again!
You are so insightful. It really shows how far you've come in understanding yourself, your life, and the world around you. Wishing you satisfaction, and inner peace for 2024! ❤
a day with Tam is a good day
Been missing these videos! So sad we won't be seeing this loft but congrats on your move!
watched the 1st 3 minutes. very good points you are making. most people are accustomed to the easy way. anything that requires EFFORT is aside for something with a little more instant gratification. i appreciate you sharing these experiences. Many of us are trying to share for those in need of a sense of Empathy. good job. recently found your videos
congrats on moving! the process sucks but creating a new space is so rewarding :)
always enjoy your videos ❤
I am sick af rn but seeing u upload makes me feel better ❤
Get well soon 🥺🫂💐 thank you for being here!
@@TammyMai ty luv and ofc! ♥️
i had missed you omg 😭, welcome back tammy
idk i like working out at night because then im physically exhausted and sleep better and can mind+body relax at that point. definitely have been in your shoes regarding low vs high maintenance, keep going!!
Tâm! I found your channel 8 days ago and it has changed my days. Your videos calm me so much and remind me to take care of myself and enjoy the little things. Excited to be a new sub 🥰
So excited for the moving volgs 🎉
aw i'm glad you're here for it!
Girl I'm so happy for you and this new chapter and I'm so happy I can join along!❤ AHHHH New year new places to see!!😝😌💅
Been waking up at 5/6am for morning Pilates! My biggest advice is to have an early morning is to have a slow evening. Drink a cup of soothing and sleepy tea ( I like Pu'er which is a Chinese Tea) and make a nice nighttime ritual that can allow you to ease into good sleep so you feel well-rested the next day! Excited for the new chapter to come ☺
I’m so glad to hear you talk about the mis-contextualization of low maintenance friendship. I think there’s a fine line that separates low maintenance from absence and this is one thing I had to come in to terms with when revisiting some of my friendships in my early twenties.
Anyway, wanted to send love your way! Watching your videos gives off the same comfort as talking to a trusted older sister/friend 🖤
It feels like a new chapter is slowly starting Tam, can't wait to come along ❤
I hope the transition to your new space is smooth! Always love watching your vlogs, they're so insightful and thought provoking! Excited to follow you on your new journey! ✨
love your videos & how real you are. can you say more about how you’ve grown your confidence and got to know yourself better? what habits and practices helped you heal?
love this tammy! I always feel a little better after watching your videos! so thankyou so much, I have learnt so much from you
everytime i see u post i watch instantly
🥺🫶 sending you love!!
Personally i find low maintenance friendships good. Though i do understand your point. People just needs to understand eachother's boundaries and have control - know when you need to be assertive and when to step back, cuz in any rule of life too much can be too toxic.
On workdays, I work out after work. Because I enjoy slower calm mornings. On weekends, I don’t mind morning workout because I don’t have a set schedule I need to log into.
Your videos are so inspiring…❤
You're moving!!!!!!!! Exciting. Can't wait to hear all about it. Peace 🕊️
Ahhhh we've been waiting for a vlog 🥺 Congrats on your new move, we will miss the apartment especially your deco! Thanks for another lovely vlog, it was very relaxing and special ✨ Also omg you definitely should make your website, I can already imagine how aesthetic it would be 👀
Ahhh I been waiting for this (well the next video I guess) cause I saw the ig post ❤
7am workout gang!!
Amen to THAT (vapid friendships are outtttt)
tysm tâm i love ur content and i needed this today ❤ hope youre doing well
The hardest packing I’ve had to do was moving to another state twice. To save money you sell or give away a lot of things.
You talking your shit in this in video. I love it
Love this for you! Where is you black workout set from?
So excited for your new chapter!!! 🎉
Delayed gratifications feels meh in the moment, but feels great later
your music choice 👌🏽
I need this makeup look, I gotta know what products you use girly
MISSED U SM!
What was that lip product, please?! 😊💜 (when u were getting ready)
Your hair is looking so good! Did you add more red on top of the dark?
Eeeeee love ur videos so much, love the advice u give
wahhh thank you so much! sending hugs!! 🥺🫂🤍🤍
Beautiful ❤
Love This 😍💜 Girly
i missed you 💜💜
early to watch this satisfying vlog!
I miss youu❤
Hi you♡ i havent been here for long and may i ask what your Business specializes in?🥰youre an inspiration btw♡
Luck&Hugs, 💜💜arugula!! Safe travels 🫰🏼🥰
Love you Tam❤❤❤
sending love right back!
I love. Your sofa !plis tell me where is it!!😊
I love you so much🥹
ILYY
You remind me of young Hilary duff in such a good way
First baby❤❤
hiiiii
For me the look it's more like Shego, rather Kim Possible... but still super cute🤩🥰
hi ily i wanna be u when i grow up
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Glad to see your back, can’t wait for the new ride we’re about to go on 🩷
Omggggg end of a era.❤🫶wishing you all theee best for the moving Journey
you are so wise tâmmy!
thank you for sharing your journey and insight with us! I feel I am going through a year of discomfort as well (in order to get to where I need.)
us twenty something girlies gotta stick together 🤞🏾🫀
also! you might rly enjoy substack to supplement your personal site 🤍 I love it in terms of connection & minimal design
ty for answering my question tammy