My thoughts on modern day feminism | Dr Ade van Heerden | TEDxGreshamPlace
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Dr Ade van Heerden dived into an interesting topic of "Why modern day feminism is bad for our mental health", addressing amongst other topics, phenomenons such as women empowerment and how they affect a typical woman's psych Best known as former Miss South Africa 2017, Ade van Heerden is also a medical doctor who had her internship at a Military Hospital in Wynberg, Cape Town. Despite the glamour, she believes that medicine is her calling and her impact on lives has been through that platform.
At the Miss South Africa 2017 pageant competition, she emerged as the first princess, stepping in as Miss SA when Demi-Leigh Nel-Pieters left the position when she was crowned Miss Universe. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
I love that someone disagreeing with modern feminism needs a disclaimer in the description box. That should tell you everything you need to know without even watching the video.
facts
feminism is a cancer to society just like cultural marxism is
its almost as if TED isn't really about promoting ideas anymore,
just putting them on a pedestal so they can be bashed...
@@benjipixel1438it has never been about sharing ideas, it has always been about sharing a very particular set of ideas. There is very little ideological diversity, so little that it discounts their overall message in my mind.
Odd that feminists never say anything about the extreme misogyny of 1slam. Like all lefties that cower when any real danger shows up. If feminists think they are not seen as infidels to be dealt with they are beyond delusional. Feminism was always about destroying the western world not woman's rights. Islam has misogyny built in that the western world has never experienced.Islam does not give a rats about white female privilege no matter the socioeconomic status or class. You have been played ladies.
She's nervous cuz she knows how women are gonna wanna rip her apart for spitting these FACTS. 😩 Stay strong and speak the truth! This video needs more views. 💫
Not only women. Have you ever met "male feminists"? They are the cringiest f*cks I've ever seen.
@@cancelled_user men trying to get laid will murder for the privilege
@@DennisNeijmeijer huh?
“Speak the truth, even if your voice shakes”
@@thegameranch5935 huh?
5:28 that bit about girls growing up feeling as victims because of their gender; We’re seeing that in men too.
This isn’t to take away from the experiences of girls/women, not at all. I’m trying to say that it’s something we can recognise on both sides. There’s a growing number of men, particularly young men, who feel that they are being treated badly or stereotyped for their gender, and it becomes anger, and a feeling of being a victim.
I’m not saying this as a competition, this isn’t a “who has it worse” competition. It just occurred to me that it’s a problem that affects both sides.
Anyway back to finishing the video :)
TED, remove this disclaimer. The entire POINT of a TED talk is to challenge currently held ideas and beliefs, has anyone who have watched this video see it as a threat to feminism?
please reply to this message if you think so.
I completely agree. Remove the disclaimer.
I don't see a disclaimer. Where is it in the video?
@@xarathos5168 description
Exactly! We shouldn’t have to put a disclaimer for subversive thinking. This isn’t hateful at all, and isn’t a threat to feminism either, just a healthy and well deserved critique
agreed.
Shame on you Tedx for needing a disclaimer for this video.
In a world where unproven truths are flashed around by untrusted sources, we need more of her.
the funny thing is it those established sources who have harvested people trust for ages are now in the ultimate place of power where they know that no one can question them and if anyone does question them they can easily discredit them by saying that they (their opponent) is not a credible source. This is the kind of stuff we see happening on twitter and instagram through "fact checkers"
Now TED is posting a warning that elements of this talk may be objectionable or distressing......
Facts can be very distressing to false ideals.
Trigger warnings.
You want to make a man angry? Let him catch you spreading lies about him. You want to make a woman angry? Let her catch you spreading the "truth" about her. There's your TEDx "disclaimer" suitably explained. It's an open apology for the gaping disconnect some women have between what they think and how they're actually perceived......only this apology's actually being given TO these women (by TEDx)...for allowing this unsavoury disconnect to be pointed out on their platform because they know it'll attract feminine "heat."
Great speech. A lot of extreme feminism is about vengeance and enforcing a matriarchy. Equality means equality. Superiority and wanting to bring men down are not the core values of equality. It's not fair to seek vengeance on a whole gender, play oppression Olympics, and calling any man who disagree with this form of extremism an incel, and misogynist. There are countries in the world where patriarchy is very much alive, but women have it pretty darn good in much of the west.
Are you okay with patriarchy?
@@AminaPhilosophy there is no such thing as patriarchy is the west. Men and women are equal is all aspects(except biologically obviously).
@@AminaPhilosophy there is no such thing as the patriarchy is western society
@@DaRThVadAr314
Sorry to burst your bubble but there very much is still a patriarchy. The gender pay gap is still very much a thing in the west, gender based violence and the silencing of women's voices. Men who grow up thinking they can get away with violence and misogyny because they were born male. What world are u living in?
Modern day feminism doesn't only set back women, but especially men
Modern feminism is quite radicalized into misandry
Very power full and thought provoking, thank you for reminding us of the “I am kind of in control and out of control at the same time” quote.
I find the disclaimer in the description distressing and objectionable.
It basically supports a victim mentality
That is what you call a real woman .. when she knew the truth what’s really going on with modern day feminism She had to put a stop to it and spilled a lot of beans in the process 🫶🏽
This talk was logical, factual and amazing. However if you want to improv the society then have justice for men especially in divorce cases. These dodgy lawmakers will never want justice
Man she is spitting facts 💯, need more like her bro
Equality mean equal oppertunity, not equal results. Equal results comes from not only hard work, but playing smart, improving yourself, taking on resposibility and accountability. Those last two things are yet to be seen by many.
Isn't equality of outcome a mith, that could never be achieved without forcing woman to "work with things" and forcing men to "work with people", because men are not as sozial and more interrested in things than woman?
@@touchgrass7834 it forces women to work for it, but the harsh reality is in an actual equal pace and oppertunity, many will find sadly working the career field is ultimately highly unfullfilling (unless youre lucky enough to land in a job you semi dont mind), plus material possesions arent everything. The ultimate downfall of this movement its like being forced to the plantation without even knowing it
And more to that, equal opportunity won't lead to equal outcome because people choose differently. Women are less likely to choose careers that are rather physically demanding.
So let's just pretend that meritocracy is a thing yeah
have not finished the video yet, but i love the objectivity of this talk so far and i am inspired, it is not what people want to hear really but it is necessary that we all have a much open mind to absorb the reality of what is happening around us.
@@STARSALL011 Tell that the judge who desided, that the mother should be parenting the child, but not the father even if the kid is 7× more likely to get pregnant before the age of 18 (if it's a girl), more likely to commit suicide, more likely to end up homeless, more likely to commit crimes ect. when growing up without a father. We also have to say, that these numbers could be simular, when the father is parenting, but what it tells us is that fathers aren't parents 2. class, but should be equally likely be the one parenting, if the parents are divorced.
Minus the simplistic criticisms of modern feminism, nice words of encojragement for girls.
Thank you so much for sharing with us your thoughts on modern day feminism and talking deeply about this topic. I love watching and listening to you here on the top of the mountain in Italy, thanks to technology, TH-cam and TEDx.
Yes! A very strong and inspiring message! I am a psychologist and the core of human sufferings is in our beliefs. "World is dangerous and I should not trust men" and "I am a victim and society is against me" is not exactly helping women
Thank you for this speech. The 4th wave feminism has a lot of conflicting views around it.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you Dr van Heerden, it needed to be said.
I'm just curious, is the stat about south africa at 4:20 comparable to that of say north america or the uk? What is the difference between those stats? Is there a reliable source I could look at regarding threats in the US?
Equality of opportunity not equality of outcome.
You'd be surprised how many women I've said this to have a problem with it in principal. They either don't understand it or they want everything to be given to them on a plate.
Maybe the average iq in the US just Low. I think it's below 100. But the brainwash strong there though. I mean it's kind of like religion or politics. When the belief intersects with their feelings, they most likely won't reflect and agree with logic.
Of course outcome shouldn't be given on a plate, but outcome absolutely matters. If women, men or any group are getting a worse outcome then it needs to be adressed.
For example, male suicide rates are a lot higher, despite men and women having equal rights and access to psychological/psychiatric help ( and DESPITE the fact women's troubles tend to be dismissed as irrational, overall health not taken seriously, look it up).
Nevertheless, isn't men's outcome concering? Similar to women having worse outcomes in other areas.
Outcome absolutely matters on a societal level. As a society, we should prioritize that for people who achieve identical paths from similar starting points besides gender that the outcomes should be relatively similar. The problem lies in not acknowledging the starting points.
Certain expectations in society exist for men and women that are corrosive to this project, but at an individual level don’t seem that bad until you come to that problem of “all else equal” comparisons. For example, men being the only eligible draftees in some countries of course leads to earlier death with all else equal comparisons.
When people talk about equality of opportunity, I really see a complaint, on an individual level, about the lack of responsibility certain people have about their starting situation. The critics of equal outcome believe that we shouldn’t just give a pass to folks who would benefit from those changes who may be benefiting from some other advantage of gender inequality. For example, Giving men the sole duty of being drafted engenders them with expected social respect or honor for service on behalf of the state because they took the risk. From personal experience asking women in America how they feel about being drafted, they acknowledge the tradeoff of their position and are often hesitant to accept the draft as a solution to gender equality because they are benefiting from not accepting the risk. However, That’s why patriarchy exists due to this agreement that both parties are content at an individual level.
That’s why we should 150% respect female volunteers because not only do they fight to give up the benefit of mitigating risk of death, but they fight for achieving some of the social benefits associated with service. (Which Hegseth ideologically is opposed to because of his own stake as a man and his sexist beliefs)
Equality of opportunity obscures that fact by stating people have the opportunity to benefit from their current scheme without acknowledging the cost. Paradoxically, this actually limits the opportunities for certain groups to have certain experiences. Fundamentally, everyone is in the game of accepting certain tradeoffs or exchanging benefits in one scheme to benefits in another. Ideally, a good solution to the draft is to not have one at all and pursue alternatives through volunteer recruitment. Otherwise if outcomes are to be achieved, we should institute a draft that does not consider gender. These would be the true equality in opportunity positions. Changes like these requires that people look at their situation, what they benefit from, and think about what would be socially beneficial for all. It’s about responsibility which unfortunately is obscured under patriarchy or frankly, any system of power that prioritizes the needs of a narrow identity.
She brought tears to my eyes...amazing talk
From "Equal rights" to "We don't need men" as a 35 y/o man I witnessed all the waves of feminism.
What's wrong with women being independent from men? Men were always 100% independent from women and it worked for them.
No one's saying men aren't needed in society. But that an INDIVIDUAL woman doesn't necessarily need a man in her life to achieve her goals and happiness.
@@Luna-ux9by you know nothing kid.....In India when a ngo that work's for men's mental and physical health proposed a national comission for men for India and took it to the supreme court a GROUP OF 100 FEMINISTS opposed it for no reason. Feminism is all about downgrading men nowadays
As a 35 year old , you haven’t been alive for those waves.
@@Luna-ux9bymost people will be in a relationship with a man at some point in their life, most women will need help form a man at some points in their life. Acting like women don’t need men is just a plain lie. We are supposed to be equal, and help each other out, so why are you acting like you don’t need any man?
@@jonasg.bisgaard1086 You completely missed the point.
So this woman is actually demonstrating 12 minutes long how she doesn’t understand the first thing about oppression, patriarchy, empowerment, and she is allowed to give a TEDTalk on feminism? I find it shocking that she was allowed to speak about a subject she obviously hasn’t thoroughly researched.
It sounds like the speech of the one reactive friend in the group who always has an opinion without knowing a single fact.
She said many good things but I would have liked her to say "I can no longer stand that feminism sow hatred in women towards all men because some of those men are our fathers, brothers, sons, husbands, teachers, workers, soldiers who They defend our country etc.
I don't usually comment, but this talk was really amazing...the title was a slight turnoff but I'm glad I watched it, srsly amazing.
P. S. Those shoes look painful
Why is there little clapping in the end compared to the beginning. Are people mad she’s right?
Probably because it was an incredibly weak and biased argument against feminism. I wouldn’t have clapped at that.
@@FionaColquhoun-st6mn uhuuuh. I think you're mad because you're the people shes calling out
💥💥This is aging better and better!! 👏👏👏👏👏
The simple fact that more boys are born than girls, yet in the West, by the age of 40, there are more women than men. Why? Because men are much more likely to die from crime or suicide or accidents on building sights, or as police, firefighters and men in the armed forces. Girls are better educated because we have gone from 60% female teachers in 1974 to 96% female teachers in 2019. Education has been feminized, with the lack of male teachers and lack of fathers involvement in their kids, young boys are adrift.
Thanks for sharing. I wish you all luck on finding the value and worth you deserve. 🙏
@Yin Yan thanks, I assume that's short for sincere intellectually motivated person. Have a Great day 🙏
@Yin Yan I was born with one that's really good so not need to look for another. I hope your having a lovely day. 🙏
Upload again...use a better volume.
Dang, only 4.5k views and just 30 comments in 6 months.
Very interesting to see 🤷🏽♂️
Not a popular message. The 3rd Matrix movie wasn’t nearly as popular because it told people what they had to do to solve the problem.
That’s when most people check out
Several issues of logic and content here. 1) Many times more women die from domestic violence than men in the world. This is an indisputable statistical fact. Does this mean feminists go around calling all women -in general -victims? No. 2) One of the pillars of feminism is that women are overly sexualized and objectified. This lecture confuses a cultural issue or the influence of Hollywood for feminism. Uneducated Hollywood celebrities and behavioural trends in young women are obviously no source for what is modern feminism. Are there problems with modern feminism? Yes. But this talk did a bad job of addressing them.
I totally agree, she had some great points towards the end but a lot of confusion and generalisation.
This statement is a great example of exactly the mindset she was addressing, with her challenge to feminists who position women as uniquely victimized more so than men. Sure, many times more women die from domestic violence. But on the other hand, exponentially more men die from war than women. Many many times more men are incarcerated. Something like 92% of all workplace injuries and deaths are of men. The majority of homeless people are men. So to her point, unfortunately, there is plenty of pain and suffering to go around and women need to stop making a unique claim to it.
@@denisemewbourne6976 You are comparing apples to oranges. Men commit more crime, particularly violent crime, that is why more are in jail. Men traditionally chose riskier (better paid) professions. Men volunteer to go into the military in the West. These are choices, sometimes on a societal level. None of these things does anything to refute my criticism of this video. In fact, it goes to show how desperate some people are to deny how male violence is still a huge problem.
One myth she missed, that children will bring most woman more happiness than any career job or venture.
Kids sont bring happiness if you are broke , because being broke makes any problème much worse
You are speaking propaganda.
Women don't need children to be happy.
Of course I respect everyone's choice and I understand why parenthood is meaning of life to many people, but you are dead wrong if you say women NEED to sacrifice their carees, hobbies and everything that previously made them happy for children because it's what they are SUPPOSED to do.
If a woman has kids its fine. If a woman doesn't have kids its also fine. Both choices are VALID.
And some women are legitimately miserable being mothers and were never meant to be mother, but found out when it was too late. Women need to be informed of the decision theyre making, the risks of pregnancy, childbirth, post partum depression, sacrificing your life for another life.
Declaimers.. bad audio.. something doesn't feel right here TedX.
I am gonna have a debate tomorrow between traditional and modern feminism , am defintely gonna be for traditional feminism. Can any body tell me a country who supports traditional feminism??
While I don’t exactly agree with everything she presented, I do feel it’s important to listen and acknowledge different views on what feminism is and what it means to others.
This talk is right, yet so wrong. Right if aimed at a Western female audience. Wrong and horribly dismissive if targeted towards women living under poverty and oppression in third world nations and religious states. There's nothing empowering about their lives. People throw in stats all the time to spit 'facts' but facts in fact lie in between the lines.
Both men and women have their struggles to deal with. If we would stop downplaying our experiences and swallow our pride, I believe many people wouldn't commit suicide. Especially men.
Thank god for these women speaking up about their own community. God forbid a man point out these women's problems, they would get cancelled out of existence. Misogynist, sexist, ef u etc.
Wow, this is *incredible*. The moment we stop looking at our movements for equality critically is the moment we start to lose the battle. Brava.
Something seems a bit odd about the facts that women have earned more Bachelor's degrees than men for 30 years and yet occupy only 7% of top management positions. Can lack of ambition explain this huge discrepancy? Or perhaps the discrepancy is a sign that the deck is severely stacked against women, and they are responding to this by getting degrees in greater numbers.
But 87% of homeless in UK (Office for national statistics 2018) are men and 94% of all work place deaths are male (USA figure around 5000 per year).... see no point throwing out different stats about different things....0.0001% of people are in top management positions, the break down of male and female is independant of bachelor degrees or other things
In my final year in university we had 2 women in my field. Both married and got kids soon after they graduated. None ever worked in the field she studied for - which, in one case - is actually a loss because she was really, really good.
Bachelors Degrees for Arthritis.
Bad degrees. Can't do much with a degree in women's studies. And I know lots who end up staying home after having a family. The deck isn't stacked against women. If they want, they can rise in the ranks. If they embrace victimhood, they always have an excuse. Excuses get you nowhere. After I had my kids, work wasn't as important. I'm a manager now, but not sure I really want to be due to time commitments and kids activities. I like the pay though.
There are some 150 generally more degrees for women than men, many of them, like gender studies, is highly irrelevant and pretty unapplicable to most of society. College has, as an institution, taken advantage of a mindset that is nothing more than a bunch of women being duped by salesmen.
We’ll said, she’s the real example of what women before her worked to achieve, admirable!!!
Yess queen. Keep up the good work, imbokoto🇿🇦❤🔥🔥.
Real women are those who have guts to say these on camera.
I love her speech...
I’m sorry but young women are not being taught to be victims… they are being taught that it is there right to play both the victim and the empowered at the same time, then to place both feet in whichever camp will get them whatever they want the fastest or earn them the most money with the least amount of effort, openly saying in the streets that “all men should die”. They are being taught that this is okay to say such things, that it their right to do so, that these statements are fair and correct. Absolutely abhorrent behaviour. Never would any good man think such things let alone say them in public nor would they stand by listening to another man proclaim such foul statements.
Let's here talk about it when women are being drafted for war.
I think the topic was "My thoughts on feminism" not "my thoughts on women"
One of the great talks on feminism ❤
Thanks 🙏
This is the most beautiful speech that I have heard a women give another women in a very very long time 🙌🏻🙌🏻🥰🥰 congratulations
Represent Ade 🇿🇦
Represent who? The 1% in our country that have wealth and privilege? 😂 She's a medical doctor and beauty pageant winner... Not sure how she feels qualified to talk about what most women's lives are like in South Africa. She hasn't suffered a day in her life. Mammie en pappie het vir alles betaal en handjie vas gehou al die pad. Of course she doesn't think women are victims. I think the worst thing that ever happened to her was her R1000 nail breaking 🙄
Absolutely amazing! A hug from me. Loved it!
Talking about the rates of murder between men and women and forgetting to men who the murders are committed by is very disingenuous especially when talking about South Africa.
Totally….. one and the MANY omissions and oversights of this talk.
Equality of opportunity- yes
Equality of outcome- NO
Abide by that? Go crazy. I will applaud your success.
Minus the simplistic criticisms of "modern feminism" some nice words of encouragement for girls.
they really let anyone have a ted talk huh
Separating young people from friends and family makes them more dependent on a movement or "religion"
she was spot on bro..... modern women see themselves as victims in every aspect of life atp
This needed a disclaimer because??
I feel like modern feminism askes men to help them take us out
I think the issue when talking about gender-based violence, from both feminists and non-feminists, is how we frame it. Globally, and in many countries, there are more male victims of violence, but who is committing it all and what are the circumstances? Men are more likely to get into violent altercations as a result of pressures to embrace toxic masculinity. Women are also more likely to experience domestic violence, again as a result of toxic masculinity. So yes, women are not super-victims, but gender politics and feminism are still relevant.
Agreed
I. ABSOLUTELY. LOVE. THIS.
Same!
Feminism is not egalitarianism.
I'm so confused. Because she don't talk about the things feminism really fights for, but about the things that are popularized by media which feeds on drama.
Exactly. It was an incredibly weak and biased presentation that instantly reeked of religious brainwashing for me. Sure enough when I googled her ‘raised in a Christian household’ pops up. I knew before it ended. It’s almost like it was done at the request of her pastor it was so bad.
It didn’t speak about feminism at all.
@NerdinessD reproductive Rights, equal treatment, respect, modern women gets treat like sh*t in work and at home
@NerdinessD not saying that men don’t, not at all. But women get ra*ed and slaug*tered all the time because some guys can’t stand some woman didn’t want to give them a chance
@NerdinessD I am not an ordinary woman so it’s little bit different, but my friends have it on a daily basis, some inconveniences are very subtle and little some are severe, sometimes it’s just other mens laugh, sometimes it’s fear of getting hurt and taken advantage of. It really depends on who you confront and who you’re friends with, but the one I’m sure about is the mothers who aren’t taken seriously, these women not only work but do most of unpaid work ( laundry, home cleaning, groceries, cooking, carrying for kids and so on) and people still tell they do nothing, when husbands work and then mostly relax and have free time, not saying that they do nothing, they do much less. And of course it’s the generalization, some people are different but most families are just like I said.
@NerdinessD oh, now I remember, Emma Watson had very good speech, search that ❤️
Hi,great video,i have one question where would you drow the women lines on the glob? just for a let know i support women not loudly but i do also depends in what.
I don't like modern feminism but this woman makes many bad points and they are poorly backed.
I though so too. She mentions that there are more male victims of violence but doesn’t mention who those acts of violence are committed by (men), which is probably due to toxic masculinity. More women are likely to suffer from domestic violence which is also due to toxic masculinity, toxic masculinity comes from the patriarchy and what is trying to stop the patriarchy? Feminism.
@@bule678men are the most victims of non-reciprocal domestic violence almost twice as women.
Thank you for voicing the truth ❤
I have a lot of questions
Someone needs to tell her the difference between correlation and causation
Why do liberals hate facts
Soooooo true! 🤣
Yeah her brain isn't really braining...
Was looking for some genuine criticism of feminism but I guess I'm out of luck 🙁
Equity (equality of outcome) and diversity are absurd goals. Equality of opportunity is all that is needed. Everything else must fall in place organically based on human nature.
Modern feminism ? That's like stage 4 cancer. Maybe you should have had it removed when it was stage one.
Equality has to be in both field’s such as you don’t hit me I won’t hit you, Don’t expect to be paid equally when you work a different job. I could say more but let’s start there.
The western woman has become so obnoxiously childish and uncomfortable. This poor lady is sweating balls just to say the bare minimum. And TedX needed a diclaimer to protect themselves from today's women.
This video is getting unlisted & censored!!
tradtypes acting like ''old school feminism'' was not hated lmao
Look at the old anti-feminism propaganda posters. It was hated from the start.
Sadly, modern feminism isn't really achieving anything ☹️ just pushing men and women further apart. But her arguments are really bad yeah.
@@Luna-ux9bybecause many people who are apart of the feminism movement act like men are the problem, and that everything wrong in their life is because the world is against them.
Meh, who cares, Feminism freed men from the chains we never knew we had. You go girl, make your own money, pay your own bills so that men can finally live longer and retire earlier. Phew! Feminism for the win!
@@Sukunadagoat Avoid women as longer as you can and you won't be attacked plus get away from Karen's as soon as you see them and keep a camera with you
So you only care about how it affects men?
Men always knew about the chains, yet they kept exploiting women because they had much more to gain.
If all these historical men had to take care of their children would they really accomplish as much?
I have a daughter i definitely i want her achieve everything with all the challenges i as a man have it too so enjoy Singapore don't keep complaining .
College degree does not indicate how intelligent someone is the Wright brothers that built airplane did not even graduate from high school but accomplished something College educated people couldn't, Thomas Edison, Mark Twain, Charles Dickens and Dave Thomas were successful with out High School graduation also.
Remove the disclaimer !
Thank you🎉🎉
The talks are highly inspiring
The history of feminism, the first wave of feminism began in 4026 BCE, when the woman wanted to be equal to God , (Gen 3:5 ) God knows in the very day you eat from it , your eyes will be opened , and YOU, will be.. LIKE GOD , knowing Good and Bad For Yourself ,
First time I heard someone else make this connection
@@DreadlocksAndKeys.. Just returned from Houston Texas , as I went through LAX and Houston airports, I realized , other than myself , a few cowboys , and the pilots, there were only women ,wearing expensive, Wide Brim , High Top, Fedora mens hats, They've taken over the symbol masculine identity?
I swear everyone who gives a TED talk says woman, not women. I wonder why that is.
No one cares about you so makes no point caring about what you think, the universe don't care what you think
are you ok bro?
@@burritomaster2 are you ?
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South African women are obese and shocking. Time to go to Nicaragua to find a wife.
@@smeekle2000 AUJ 😭😂😭😂😭😭
👏👏 wow, great talk
Nothing but toxicity, insecurity, lying, manipulation, deceit, 0 accountability, rotten to the core, moral compass lacking and guilt tripping
Loved it!
Truly visionary content; akin to a book that introduced novel ideas. "The Joy of Less: A Minimalist Living Guide" by Matthew Cove
Such an inspiration. Thank you !!
TED with a disclaimer... huh
A disclaimer...
She needs to go back to a WGST course, she's talking about feminism like it's only one thing and not a wide spanning discipline taking inspiration from countless critical theories and praxis. Y'all in the comments also need to educate yourselves.
Nah, this "educate yourselves" thing is done. Feminism has rot to the point of being seen as nauseating.
Thank you for your braveness!
TEDx talks, you should be ashamed of yourself for furthering the victim-hood and weakened image of women with that asinine disclaimer. You've unwittingly made the presenter's point entirely.
Things like that disclaimer, and the presumptive reasoning that goes with it, are the problem.
You, Ted Talks, have become part of the problem.
Excellent video!
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
SA women have lost self-respect all in the name of feminism and to be honest men have no desire to show love to women who don't understand their own value. How can women expect us to love them when they fail to love themselves? Sleeping around is not liberation it's devaluing oneself.