How Feminism Saved Me | Shirley Graham | TEDxFoggyBottom

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  • @emmashubert
    @emmashubert 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think it's amazing that she took the time to pursue something else when her corporate life had her burnt out and detached. That kind of reinvention can be really scary

  • @silversurferdude
    @silversurferdude 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    feminism saving the speaker’s life is a powerful statement. shows the impact of awareness.

  • @salsadevrees
    @salsadevrees 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love that her friend was like "it's so obvious what you're passionate about" haha sometimes we just need that outside perspective to give us a little clarity.

  • @orlageary5104
    @orlageary5104 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Feminism has saved a lot of people and I wish there was more content that properly explained what it actually is

  • @clarasands8549
    @clarasands8549 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Her journey from feeling lost and burnt out to dedicating her life to gender equality is truly inspiring.

  • @AFitTraveler
    @AFitTraveler 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Feminism is such a powerful force for change. I love how she found her calling through her experiences and dreams.

  • @coopercrank
    @coopercrank 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The story about the little girl in the yellow dress was heart-wrenching. I can't believe this sort of thing happens and more so that there are people out there who would have bought her. There are probably even people who go to places like that exacctly for that purpose. Such a sad reality.

  • @faisalshaob
    @faisalshaob 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    the story about the girl in a yellow dress broke my heart. we need change.

  • @BrainLoon
    @BrainLoon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ireland's progress is hopeful, but there’s so much more to do globally. Hopefully more people can see the merits of what Shirley is advocating for here

  • @immayasass
    @immayasass 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's amazing how a personal epiphany in Nepal led her to change her career path and impact so many lives. Gender equality is indeed a cornerstone for peace and security globally.

  • @sheilalindsay
    @sheilalindsay 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The statistics about the decline of democracies and its impact on women's rights are alarming. It’s a crucial call to action for all of us to support and defend gender equality as a fundamental human right.

  • @notthatoneorthoseones
    @notthatoneorthoseones 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The point about women's inclusion in peace talks leading to longer-lasting peace agreements really stood out to me. It's a powerful reminder of the impact of gender equality on global security.

  • @IAmTheNeuroticSpy
    @IAmTheNeuroticSpy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So incredible how personal experiences can drive such powerful advocacy for gender equality.

  • @elviragabriele
    @elviragabriele 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I loved how she emphasized the importance of asking “where are the women?” in all aspects of society. It’s a question we should all be asking!

  • @babssinnerd
    @babssinnerd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Personal struggles always add depth to a discussion. It's a powerful reminder of the resilience neede to fight for justice.

  • @carstenberns7104
    @carstenberns7104 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Gender equality in peace processes is crucial. glad this was highlighted.

  • @iamtheyesmanallthetime
    @iamtheyesmanallthetime 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    the stats on gender equality and peace are eye-opening. more people need to know this.

  • @lauralegault
    @lauralegault 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I found the part about her counselor helping her uncover suppressed memories very powerful. It highlights the importance of mental health support and also shows the kind of breakthroughs that really are possible and all the benefits from it

  • @jordanbaslier
    @jordanbaslier 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hearing about the experiences of women in the Irish Defence Forces was eye-opening. It’s shocking to learn about the extent of harassment and assault. I hope this talk encourages more conversations and actions to protect and empower women in all sectors.

  • @robyncrosby666
    @robyncrosby666 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hearing about the progress Ireland has made in gender equality was uplifting. It shows that change is possible, even if it takes time.

  • @aldennoname
    @aldennoname 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I never realized the connection between gender equality and peace negotiations. This presentation has opened my eyes to the broader impact, thank you.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much for watching and for your interest, please feel free to share this information it is so important.

  • @IAmShootCute
    @IAmShootCute 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Her determination to follow her dream and change her career in her 30s is so encouraging! It just shows that it's never too late to find your true calling.

  • @merlemackenzie
    @merlemackenzie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The issue of gender-based violence is so prevalent, and it's crucial to address it. Your courage in shedding light on it is commendable.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much, the more we talk about it and bring it out in the open the more we break the silence and create change.

    • @merlemackenzie
      @merlemackenzie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@shirleygraham5853 very true...

  • @andididntknow
    @andididntknow 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The intersectionality of this story is really interesting, addressing gender inequalities both internationally and domestically really highlight how pervasive these issues are. It should serve as a wake up cool for our global community, hopefully people see this and answer said call.

  • @imnotq5509
    @imnotq5509 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The statistics on gender inequality are staggering. It's disheartening that progress has been so slow, but your call for action is motivating. Hopefully once more people become aware of the kind of stuff that goes on, there will be more progress towards equality.

  • @madelineley4605
    @madelineley4605 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have watched this presentation a few times now and take away something new every time. Gender equality makes peace and stability possible. Feminism can definitely save us all!

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching it a few times, Mimi! I am so glad you found the talk valuable.

  • @therealdualippa
    @therealdualippa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for highlighting the importance of women at the peace table! It's a reminder that diverse voices lead to more sustainable solutions

  • @brodyalexandra
    @brodyalexandra 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow, your journey from a corporate job to advocating for gender equality is commendable. It's proof that anyone can make a difference.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! I believe we can and do all make a difference in the lives of those around us 😊

  • @Elusive-Khan
    @Elusive-Khan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The story of the little girl in the yellow dress being offered from sale broke my heart. Surely it was just a matter of time before someone did buy her.

  • @VodkaforDinner
    @VodkaforDinner 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I appreciate the honesty in sharing personal struggles. It's inspiring how you turned your pain into a powerful force for change.

  • @tabbybiddle
    @tabbybiddle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Congratulations on this brave, powerful and important talk, Shirley! Thank you for sharing your story, your expertise, your wisdom, and your ideas to help us end war and create peace.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much Tabby and for all of your support 😍

  • @perfectplanssampler
    @perfectplanssampler 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    her journey from corporate life to gender equality advocacy is so inspiring. It’s amazing how one dream can change everything!

  • @nina_plateroti
    @nina_plateroti 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Such a powerful and inspiring talk! Thank you for your continued commitment Dr. Graham!

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you, Nina! And for your commitment and leadership on women, peace and security issues.

  • @sarahfreeman10
    @sarahfreeman10 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Such an excellent TED Talk--I wish I could've seen it in person! Thank you for your inspiring words!

  • @aleenazirvi
    @aleenazirvi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Truly an exceptional and inspirational talk, Dr. Graham!

  • @loochbardooch
    @loochbardooch 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is such an inspiring speech. Feminism saves so many lives across the world, but I'm not sure anyone has framed it the way you have. Thank you for sharing your story- truly an inspiration, starting with me!

  • @chaddydescil
    @chaddydescil 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sending this to my mom, she needs it.

  • @fionaross2429
    @fionaross2429 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Shirley, you are a captivating storyteller, and your passion for helping others is amazing. Thank you for sharing your story and, most of all, for inspiring others to follow their true path.

  • @aaliyahstump6826
    @aaliyahstump6826 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for your work and commitment!

  • @emelybermudez3534
    @emelybermudez3534 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was outstanding and really touched on the complexity and intersectionality of feminism. It could not have been better said!!!

  • @shannonnikita
    @shannonnikita 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    it's concerning how slow progress towards gender equality is. we must do better.

  • @Stuckallthetime
    @Stuckallthetime 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    her honesty about her struggles with mental health was very brave. It shows that even advocates need support sometimes, something that I feel gets overlooked quite a bit

  • @Riya_Sharma2606
    @Riya_Sharma2606 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you, Dr. Graham, for your powerful words and drive. You continue to inspire me with all the passion you put into your work.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, Riya! And for your incredible leadership of the Student Consortium on women, peace and security

  • @diemorat
    @diemorat 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Right up there with the very best TED talks I've seen. Bravo.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks so much, Jeremy!😊

  • @the-coffee-lover
    @the-coffee-lover 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm impressed by the countries with fminist foreiqn policies. It's encouraging to see nations actively working towards qender equality.

  • @beckettt
    @beckettt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congratulations on following a powerful dream and answering your life's calling. An inspirational example for us all.

  • @nanburkhardt
    @nanburkhardt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I appreciate this kind of conversation around what feminism actually is. Lots of weird misinformation and resentment about it these days

  • @StarPointExodus
    @StarPointExodus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The review group's report on SA in the Defense Forces is shocking. Hopefully acknowledging the issue is the first step toward change.

  • @eleanorgreenbaum137
    @eleanorgreenbaum137 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such an incredible talk, thank you Dr. Graham!

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Eleanor! And congratulations on your recent presentation at the UN CSW 👏👏👏

  • @AnastasiaCostcalla
    @AnastasiaCostcalla 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The fact that 88% of women in the Irish Defense Forces reported harassment is shocking. We need to do better in protecting women in all sectors.

  • @vanessapearse6211
    @vanessapearse6211 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Well worth listening to.

  • @sushiladhikari9857
    @sushiladhikari9857 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    captivating and inspiring story and experiences dear Sherley. Thank you so much for sharing this to the world, and espeical thanks for mentioning Nepal..

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you Sushil, it was so wonderful to meet you last year in Nepal and to hear all about your voluntary work organizing training and finding livelihoods for women who have disabilities.

  • @mateomardenson3022
    @mateomardenson3022 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've seen so many tiktoks lately of these girls saying "I dont agree with you, I wear dresses and cook and blah blah." It's an absolute train-wreck and I don't know if it's just rage bait but the comments are full of people trying to explain what feminism actually is and how so many fought for her right to CHOOSE what she wanted to do and I think that's the whole point, really. Having the freedom to make choices. It's sad to think about how many women still don't have that right.

  • @mariamcconalogueharkin1967
    @mariamcconalogueharkin1967 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Inspirational Shirley! 👏🤩

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for watching Maria! 😍

  • @rosemerle540
    @rosemerle540 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can understand how frustrating for women peace keepers not being able to talk to men outside their tribes. Difficult cultural barrier to overcome.

  • @thephilosopher59
    @thephilosopher59 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh my heart!

  • @regissanford7104
    @regissanford7104 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This story is truly eye-opening. It's heartbreaking to hear about the challenges girls face worldwide. We need more advocates like you!

  • @barbsteele
    @barbsteele 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's very unfortunate but I think you can judge the development of a country by how they treat their women

  • @AnnKnowles-j8e
    @AnnKnowles-j8e 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    An excellent presentation of a thought provoking topic. Lets all do our utmost in whatever capacity we find ourselves to accelerate the process of gender equality for the benefit of all man/ womankind.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! I love that, thank you! 💗

  • @kanejsloane
    @kanejsloane 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When you think about what those inequalities translate to - like Iittle girls being sold off the street - it's actually so shocking, we need to do better

  • @kikiseegers2270
    @kikiseegers2270 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes, empowering women is actually empowering men to listen to their actual needs, to be able to grow real power. Real power is not based on suppression. It speaks freely from the heart.

    • @shirleygraham5853
      @shirleygraham5853 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wonderful, I so agree Kiki! Thank you :)

  • @FlameChump
    @FlameChump 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How terrifying for a chiId to be told they were going to work as a domestic and then end up in a brotheI.

  • @ayxanmamedzade8106
    @ayxanmamedzade8106 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🧐

  • @iamthefootyfan
    @iamthefootyfan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Technically feminism has saved all the women righht?