Here's Why A Man Sends You MIXED SIGNALS

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    Here's Why A Man Sends You MIXED SIGNALS... In this dating advice video, I will talk about why men send mixed signals and explain what to do when a man sends you mixed signals. You may start to see mixed signals from a guy on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips, and be sure to watch the entire video.
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  • @StephanSpeaksClips
    @StephanSpeaksClips  ปีที่แล้ว +2

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  • @veronicadaguanno7507
    @veronicadaguanno7507 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Sometimes it's because they already have someone

    • @Blah_blah810
      @Blah_blah810 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This comment the one ☝️ - I was waiting for him to say this reason lol

    • @fatimavargas
      @fatimavargas ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup! And I’m angry about it cause the man I like so much tried to play me when hiding from me that he’s married ! Damn!

    • @elizabethlumpkin9433
      @elizabethlumpkin9433 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👍👍👍

    • @lamia7891
      @lamia7891 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yupp its the Soultiess babyyy

    • @niyabeach3723
      @niyabeach3723 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That part😑

  • @fosterjanine5112
    @fosterjanine5112 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Don't tell me you love me with your mouth when your actions say otherwise!

  • @The_authentic_queen_
    @The_authentic_queen_ ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Watch their actions...If the words don't match their actions....LEAVE!

  • @amcartii1239
    @amcartii1239 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    A guy told me he doesn't love his baby mama he has been with for 8 years. I was like WTF. They already have two kids. You Soo right. A guy can marry you and still you aren't the one for him

    • @hawaiigirl8089
      @hawaiigirl8089 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No one is for him because he is an Emotional toddler

  • @chrissyo9669
    @chrissyo9669 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I would love to hear about a man attempting to better himself for the lady that he is attracted to and desired to be with her.

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Elaborate ma

    • @hiannahgus574
      @hiannahgus574 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I believe that is better for a person to want to better themselves primarily for themselves because otherwise they will not sustain the healthier behavior if it does not come from within. They will do it for a while for their partner, or to appear good for their potential partner, but then will take the “mask” (new behavior) off once they have you. My husband did this before marriage but once he “had me “, per his own admission, he no longer desired to maintain that healthier behavior, as it was never his true desire to be a better person or partner.

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@hiannahgus574 Super Facts! That's why I Always say we gotta try to find equally yoked spouses and partners.

    • @sheilawaddy3184
      @sheilawaddy3184 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That part lol

    • @hiannahgus574
      @hiannahgus574 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@jayc5756 The challenge is that someone can appear to be equally yoked, because they are masking, and then at a later point in time go back to who they truly are when they remove their mask. You are then blindsided by this completely new and worse version of the person you are in the relationship with, as you did not know that it was just a mask all along put on to keep you while you were their new special interest.

  • @Liz-dragon-street.
    @Liz-dragon-street. ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This year i found God 🤍 this year i found myself.
    The fact that we are here 2 learn, 2 heal, 2 make our self a better person 🙏
    The journey is worth it💫
    Much love ❤️

    • @Healingmakescentz11
      @Healingmakescentz11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too!!!!!! This year I truly found God and myself !!!!!!! This healing journey is so worth it!!!!! I’m enjoying ME!!!

    • @Rocanala
      @Rocanala ปีที่แล้ว

      Me 3!

    • @shayflowers8471
      @shayflowers8471 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me 4!!!

  • @Ikimberlina
    @Ikimberlina ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The answer is simple he’s unsure about you and ultimately you’re probably an option
    hard truth but choose your battles wisely guyss

  • @kfner23
    @kfner23 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    So basically, he don't want you

  • @TamishaGibson
    @TamishaGibson ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This was VERY informative. Thank you.

  • @tammy6452
    @tammy6452 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I don't get the idea of not taking and giving to relationships in your life at the level that the relationship holds. I don't believe one person can meet our needs for companionship. I would have missed so many opportunities for significant growth if I had taken the romantic ideal seriously. As long as I am not involved beyond my comfort level I will explore the boundaries of other people as long as they are not uncomfortable. My cut off is clear, and I stay clear about it. I am not romantic in any relationship or only one.
    We need to be clear with people. We need to be clear with ourselves.
    We need to stay within our boundaries for our behavior. Many of those are based on my spiritual beliefs.

  • @lauriepeifer7297
    @lauriepeifer7297 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Because they are 100% selfish

  • @phoenixrising8007
    @phoenixrising8007 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for the distinction of desire from the male perspective 👌

  • @debrajordan6514
    @debrajordan6514 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well, this is just my perception, just what I believe at the moment. I believe that when two people meet or you meet that special person there is just something deep inside that there is just that knowing. And you have to really know you, because I have met men who show serious interest but, that chemistry is always off. And I just know this ain't it. Just saying.

  • @SD-qo2jq
    @SD-qo2jq ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ugh, I still don't get it. I'm dating someone now and its confusing. I think I need to get rid of some of these expectations that make me frustrated. Or he's confusing me for a reason. I just don't know.

    • @888hereandnow
      @888hereandnow ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A Godsent man will bring you peace (let the peace of God be the umpire of your heart) other men will bring you chaos and confusion....

  • @fromaqueensperspective
    @fromaqueensperspective ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was a great video! ❤️it Stephan! God bless!

  • @hakimkiseeka
    @hakimkiseeka ปีที่แล้ว

    This is guy has good relationship skills I have watched him for time now

  • @roserowley911
    @roserowley911 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sending much love from England xx

  • @carmenlopes9758
    @carmenlopes9758 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have turned myself into a man then..Becouse there are men I can sleep with ,but they are not the one for me and I know it .And it’s good to be real.But the problem that comes with that men do not want to hear it ,they take offence .So..it’s still hard to even find somebody to sleep with becouse they rather hear lies to feed their ego.It’s messed up.

  • @BerryDivine33
    @BerryDivine33 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m always meeting this kind of man.😒😮‍💨I just want to meet the one for me.

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 ปีที่แล้ว

    I absolutely love my peace ,show the love then keep it moving bless

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Stephan, thank you for being obedient to GOD!👑
    GOD BLESS YOU, IN JESUS’ HOLY NAME!🙏🏽❤️
    As my relationship has grown closer with THE LORD GOD in JESUS through THE HOLY SPIRIT, I understand the mind of a man! They need to feel special too! I thank GOD I understand today what I should tolerate/accept from a man! I’m starting to feel and know in my spirit that I deserve the best man/kingdom husband GOD has for me!❤️

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My question is why women want you to be honest. And when you do they block you or unmatch you. Like y'all wonder why most dudes hold stuff in. Darn if u do darn if u dont.

  • @lynettenorwood2864
    @lynettenorwood2864 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good point🙏😊

  • @LittleMissHoop
    @LittleMissHoop ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So the answer to Why a Man Sends Mixed Signals is essentially "He's just not that into you" !!!

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All Facts!

  • @lilliankillian7366
    @lilliankillian7366 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😢what about if we are in late sixties not looking for marrige togeather for over 3 years and we care about each other and his actions say he cares but he does not verbalize.. what hat does this mean. Pl reply with what u think ty

  • @GoddessYvonne3
    @GoddessYvonne3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Right stop wasting your time with gift of gab

  • @amourliaa1981
    @amourliaa1981 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t know why he started. We were Fwb, ended it remained friends, and then it’s the hot & cold mixed signals ish. I ended the fwb situation and never wanted to be with him. But we were cool so I’m confused af

  • @diamond9223
    @diamond9223 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The man just needs to be honest with her.

  • @gemmaburns6407
    @gemmaburns6407 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have one for you? How to tell if he’s in the closet way in the closet?? Anyone out there plz give any input!

  • @lisajones-franklin3574
    @lisajones-franklin3574 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏🏾🙌🏽❤

  • @Butterfly_757.
    @Butterfly_757. ปีที่แล้ว

    🦋

  • @tiffanyrivera3648
    @tiffanyrivera3648 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are amazing Stefan you're awesome God bless you

  • @tiffanyrivera3648
    @tiffanyrivera3648 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You don't got time for the game you just move on with your life you don't got time for no God damn mix signals just let God find the right one for you and life no one got them mixed signals if a guy don't love you he don't love his self he got m************ issues

  • @tiffanyrivera3648
    @tiffanyrivera3648 ปีที่แล้ว

    What happen if the guy say he want to build a life with you do that mean he all talk???

  • @amandaforrester7636
    @amandaforrester7636 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    If she's not the one for him, DON'T WASTE HER TIME. that's what makes me so angry about dating men. We have a limited amount of time to get our family and life together. Women know this, we have a monthly reminder of the passenge of time built into our bodies. Men act like they will live forever and time doesn't matter.

  • @blue85610
    @blue85610 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I don't continue with any man who gives me mixed signals. Just be direct to me what your intentions are to save time and energy

  • @lauriescott6601
    @lauriescott6601 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Its really selfish for a man or woman to hold on to someone knowing they dont want them! SMH

  • @hawaiigirl8089
    @hawaiigirl8089 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This WEAKNESS is an excuse for a SELFISH MAN who wanted to use you & waste your time

  • @hafeezabain6555
    @hafeezabain6555 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This makes me not want to date. I am chillin, in peace right now. Not deciphering signals and all the other stuff. #notinthemood

  • @kimwideload
    @kimwideload ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm almost fifty. I have always been the woman not being the right fit. Will I ever find the one for me? I'm trying to stay positive.

  • @audreygrace6464
    @audreygrace6464 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    They don't know what they want or what they are doing
    Lean back away from him
    Focus on someone or something else
    Don't waste your time

  • @JazzyJay263
    @JazzyJay263 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    No clarity, too much uncertainty, had to simply let go! I wish him well nonetheless...I need a GOD fearing man, who is willing and able to take the bull by the horns and lead...I'll follow!

  • @paulagillette3346
    @paulagillette3346 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yes, we’ve been married 18 years and still mixed signals

  • @kimfry4019
    @kimfry4019 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Usually when I see a guy act this way I usually back off and don't bother chasing them.

  • @mekaelaknodt1123
    @mekaelaknodt1123 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Great insight. I will apply it to my situation and put it in God's hands and let this man heal and figure out what he wants. Hopefully, we will have a life together in the future. 🙏🤟

    • @hiannahgus574
      @hiannahgus574 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I learned to say “If not this one, God, then someone better”.

  • @shawanahickman6952
    @shawanahickman6952 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Well please let him know to leave me the hell alone before I let him have a peace of my mind respectfully

    • @gwortman3515
      @gwortman3515 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Just don't give him a piece of your body...that will speak volumes to him.

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gwortman3515 Mmm

  • @antoniosaunders4529
    @antoniosaunders4529 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks for the info!
    Your Kingdom spouse should be
    proud of you bro.

  • @Foxie635
    @Foxie635 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So he’s using you

  • @Joanna.swiderska
    @Joanna.swiderska ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Pleas Sthephan could you do louder recording? Is full volume on my phone and I had keep phone at my ears as only yours video are so quiet 😭😭😭

  • @Sassyellechica
    @Sassyellechica ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Glad I watched this. I was interested in dating this guy I met and we've been talking and flirting but I'm gonna hold off. This was helpful

  • @Ohkeh640
    @Ohkeh640 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your videos keep getting better and better

  • @antoniosaunders4529
    @antoniosaunders4529 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good info, your kingdom spouse should be very proud my brother

  • @yuliyay3612
    @yuliyay3612 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The truth is that women also always know he is not the one or she is not the one for him. The difference is, women think they wont find better and men are sure they will. Both usually are wrong

  • @orarichman9948
    @orarichman9948 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He won't take it that far because he comprehend that everyone you meet isn't yours. Women don't comprehend that, a lot of them cling to the poor guy even after he says he doesn't want a commitment. Already trying to force him to put a ring on it and in his mind he just know that she is not the one. Men know what they want and are looking for, while women create these big ass imaginary ass relationship that the man didn't really want or ask for. Now I like to get on my siblings nerves by telling them Prince Charming is coming to my door to irritate their AZZ 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆But real talk, true love isn't based on romantic movies or cartoons and shit!!! Lol! Your love story doesn't come in line with some damn TV characters, hell it's just a damn movie that creates a fantasy of being loved and romanced.💯

  • @lashaundapoindexter4607
    @lashaundapoindexter4607 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That is exactly what happened to me. The guy said I was too good and he just couldn't do anything because he felt guilty but he wanted a relationship but you felt he was not ready for one with me because I deserve everything. But I got hurt anyway

  • @seizuregirlllll
    @seizuregirlllll ปีที่แล้ว

    He wants it but he knows….never mind my mind was going somewhere weird lol

  • @nani92dv68
    @nani92dv68 ปีที่แล้ว

    Already with someone

  • @YahairaDelgado
    @YahairaDelgado ปีที่แล้ว

    💜💜💜

  • @be.A.b
    @be.A.b ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Men and women perceive “the one” differently, because men and women play different roles in the fantasy:
    For the woman, “the one” manifests into her life spontaneously. Even if he’s always been around, the woman spontaneously realizes he’s “the one.” All woman are promised “the one,” as long as they maintain a good character, and make compassionate decisions. A woman must burden herself with the responsibility of rewriting her path, to realize she has “always been worthy,” despite contradicting barriers. For women, “the one” is the final reward she has always been entitled to, beyond predetermined forces. The biggest adversity a woman will face in finding “the one,” is tearing down preconceived notions about “her one.” This is why women are more inclined to rationalize that someone is “the one”, despite red flags.
    An “opportunity” for “the one” is what manifests spontaneously in a man’s life. As such, a man must burden himself with the responsibility of engaging on a path to become worthy. For men, “the one” is presented more like a final prize earned after a great struggle, or journey on self reflection. No man is entitled to “the one.” True love is a rare reward for all men worthy. For the man, any simple misstep can ruin his chances at true love. Sometimes these are even uncontrollable circumstances, such as death, or other situational barriers. For the man to become worthy again, he must finalize his quest of discovery, or journey of self-betterment. The biggest adversity a man will face, is being “not ready” for “the one’s” affections. That’s why men are more inclined to “cut their losses” and move on, before a relationship is even initiated.

  • @hawaiigirl8089
    @hawaiigirl8089 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This how a guy who all but acts as tho HE loves me. For 5 years. He’s been in the military we’re lovers but he’s been GONE and stays in touch. When he came back I wanted more, he lives, stationed 3 hours away. He wont get more involved & then wanted to let go of me (mixed signal) yet HE keeps reaching out.
    We have a deep, unusual SOUL connection. I think he loves me but is younger than I am & he comes from Wealthy OLD MONEY 💰. STILL worried about family & peers.
    I KNEW the Vaxx was going to harm him. He got out of marines- due to the vaxx. Then he applied for his DREAM JOB- flying & DOD Contractor test pilot. He got cut out by another guy. I told him hang on because I had a gut feeling/ instinct the other guy wasn’t up to snuff & he’d get it in 3-6 months. He trusted me- got the Job exactly at 3 months. He took the first Vaxx / got sick from it. I’m kinda intuitive & especially with him. I’m a Christian- but he & I have an odd connection. I even know when he is going to call, text or, come down to my town.
    I WONT have sex with him unless he wants to date ONLY ME.
    Steven what’s this about- SOS 🆘

  • @tiffanyrivera3648
    @tiffanyrivera3648 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Men come and go in life it good to move on with life no stress in life it's good to be by yourself and take care of yourself you don't need a guy for what what are they good for to do mixed signals that's why you be better by yourself until you find the right one guys come and go you've been living your life without them and you will continue to live your life without them either if they're with you or without you

    • @tiffanyrivera3648
      @tiffanyrivera3648 ปีที่แล้ว

      The most important thing is to be honest with yourself that both need to be honest without honest in a relationship is no relationship without trust is no relationship without wanting to work things out with your partner it's not a relationship

  • @Hotmessmomsreadings
    @Hotmessmomsreadings ปีที่แล้ว

    Wooowwwwww

  • @tiffanyrivera3648
    @tiffanyrivera3648 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Like my man I've been with him for so many years and I tired of all these mixed signals he can go and be happy with whoever but not waste my time to better yourself in life then it's better off to get it somewhere else price is just a waste of time do I will do something I love to do it's my man is just miserable in life and he did he just don't get it sometimes you feel sorry for a man and you just go out with them because they're they're just you feel sorry for them that's why I go with God that I'm not really into because I feel sorry but because he got issues that I help them with I just try to be there for him even though he got issues and I think he needs to be seen by a doctor