I Just Finished College with No Job and I Feel Lost

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  • @TheRamseyShow
    @TheRamseyShow  3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

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      @adriansmall9828 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @JERRRY26
    @JERRRY26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    College & education as a whole needs a serious revamp in this country.... you can learn SO much from literally just TH-cam

    • @AshleeTuck
      @AshleeTuck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 yup

    • @extropiantranshuman
      @extropiantranshuman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      or OCW or MOOCs - google them

    • @no-ms4kj
      @no-ms4kj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      But how will you get hired with your youtube degree.

    • @agees924
      @agees924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s true but you can’t really provide proof of your knowledge. College is basically your credentials.

    • @blacklyfe5543
      @blacklyfe5543 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah

  • @MrBrewman95
    @MrBrewman95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    Man this reminded me of me when I graduated. I felt lost, went on a over a dozen interviews and they weren’t good or the right fit for me, felt completely worthless and had suicidal thoughts. Luckily the job I had now is something I enjoy and have been there almost two years. Pay is okay but the work/life balance is unbeatable.

    • @matthewisonfitness
      @matthewisonfitness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hang in there @Brad !! There’s always light at the end of every tunnel. Count your blessings and keep your head high! Look to God if u feel lost 👍🏼 praying for u my man!

    • @riverdaletales8457
      @riverdaletales8457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nice , sometimes it’s not about how much you make but if you’re happy and enjoy yourself.

    • @geooo2
      @geooo2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dang if you were still in that position you should right away make your resume better an more professional. That will catch the employers eyes. And then dress up professional for the interview

    • @michaeljobs5796
      @michaeljobs5796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm literally in that same position that you were in man. Feels good to see that I'm not the only one.

    • @ElizabethAmanna
      @ElizabethAmanna 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@michaeljobs5796 me too. Left my fam business and literally never thought about what to do either than the restaurant

  • @MillionaireMindsetClub
    @MillionaireMindsetClub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    The issue is that these "entry level" jobs require experience as well. How can a fresh graduate have work experience? Some of the entry level job requirements are ridiculous!

    • @IamtheGL
      @IamtheGL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Facts

    • @abhim9221
      @abhim9221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      only way is to lie, use projects you did in school as "work experience" or do internships

    • @fsmoura
      @fsmoura 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Nice way of saying "they don't want to pay me what I feel entitled to get." Here's another one: "I can't get a job because I'm _too_ qualified."

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is nothing new.

    • @ashinkledinkle
      @ashinkledinkle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The experience they’re looking for is internships

  • @esonon5210
    @esonon5210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    I feel bad for him because he had no guidance whatsoever. No one in his family ever told him being a photographer doesn't require a degree, even at 25.

    • @LIVdaBrand
      @LIVdaBrand ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He should have googled it tbh.

    • @esonon5210
      @esonon5210 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@LIVdaBrand When you don't have good guidance to fall on, it's easy to be so gullible.

    • @timchang6559
      @timchang6559 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's a big lie when advisors tell kids "Do what you love" and the job market is not even recruiting for those jobs.

    • @Florence3121
      @Florence3121 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@timchang6559 When you know what you love, you find a way.

  • @Carlos-sh6iu
    @Carlos-sh6iu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Speaking from experience, I think it’s the fact that going to college and getting a degree is pushed so much in HS. And they sometimes shame you for not doing so. There are plenty talented folks out there who are wasting their time in college. They should also keep in mind that their “dream career” might start off as a side hustle, whilst they work a job to put food on the table etc

  • @DaddyDebt
    @DaddyDebt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Still young, lots of time, I'm glad you asked for advice!

  • @maxpetrosky2887
    @maxpetrosky2887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I do freelance photography in Pittsburgh and know folks in Philly. I'd love to help this man out some way.

    • @DanielMooreDJ
      @DanielMooreDJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am a 20 year old photographer from Northern Ireland and only making £6000 a year really struggling

    • @maxpetrosky2887
      @maxpetrosky2887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@DanielMooreDJ Unfortunately I don't know anyone over the pond but if you're interested in chatting about freelancing I can give you my instagram. My initial advice would be to work full-time and build your book of business on the weekends.

    • @DanielMooreDJ
      @DanielMooreDJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@maxpetrosky2887 Thank you I would be interested in having a chat with you on Instagram 😃

  • @untouchable360x
    @untouchable360x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Could’ve just spent $15k on camera gear. $10k on coaching sessions. $10-$20k on business. Still cheaper than that piece of paper.

    • @bloodserpant
      @bloodserpant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Definitely, most people are scared to invest in themselves other than the traditional college.

    • @foxdays
      @foxdays 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Spot on... 😬

    • @fantastic180
      @fantastic180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      60k only the tuition, you still need to add up living expenses and textbook expenses and other fees.

    • @augustusplays7896
      @augustusplays7896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Who gives him the 60k?

    • @Anonymous-ld7je
      @Anonymous-ld7je 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or you can join the military and get the piece of paper for free. That's what I did. Graduated not only debt free but with a nest egg and have a good job. If someone really wants to go to college and not have to take loans to do it, options are available. You learn to be proficient in your field in the workforce, not in a classroom, but I assure you that in many professions that piece of paper is very important to get your foot in the door. Application gets thrown in the garbage without it. Wouldn't be where I am without mine.

  • @louib716
    @louib716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    I dont think you should go to college if youre not sure about what you want. 60k is a big price tag for something you don't even want anymore. So many four year degrees have such bad returns. If the job you want to get with your degree doesn't clear any debt you aquire in school in less than five years, its automatically not worth it.

    • @bighands69
      @bighands69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He could start up a business but could have done that with no degree. His debt is high but he has no mortgage.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bighands69
      He got caught up in that degree trap.

    • @walshdog61
      @walshdog61 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Get a math education degree - one of the most versatile degrees there is.

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      exactly. I'll only push my kids to get a degree if they wanna go into the medical, law, engineering or math/finance field. I unfortunately have African parents who forced me to go to college. Only way I wasn't going to college is if I had a successful business turning over like 100k a year. And even then they'd probably tell me to get a degree "just in case". However I'm glad my degree is somewhat respectable (economics), so I can likely get a decent job, then fund my investments & business ideas.

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@walshdog61 what do you thin about an economics degree?

  • @moviesxmusicxlove
    @moviesxmusicxlove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Im 23 with a masters and bachelors degrees. It doesnt get easier but you have to keep going. Ive been job searching since september.

    • @pokeman316
      @pokeman316 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It’s been three years and I’m in your shoes. How did things go?

    • @RandomPerson28337
      @RandomPerson28337 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's over bros

    • @moviesxmusicxlove
      @moviesxmusicxlove 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@pokeman316 Hello, i just saw this. I did end up finding a job that I stayed at for a year and sadly laid off. Then I job searched for another 5 months and found a new job which wasnt great and didnt pay well. I then found a new job which im in being paid the most I ever have been paid!

  • @dylancrossfinance
    @dylancrossfinance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Some degrees are just not worth a college education...

    • @lexithompson7426
      @lexithompson7426 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice comment .... Where are you from ?

  • @Faithspective
    @Faithspective 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for this video. I am in the same situation as your caller, and after three months of waiting, applying and being rejected, I thought the answer was to start my own essay coaching business. But my parents that I live with wanted me to start working at Amazon in customer support. I wanted to cry, because I thought that by taking that job, I’d be walking away from my dreams for good. Your video made me look at this differently, clearly, and actually put things into perspective. I’m better now, and I’ve put Mr. Coleman’s book in my cart. From the bottom of my ❤ thank you!

  • @DrSneakers
    @DrSneakers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    He didnt say better than i deserve when asked how he was doing!!!! 😱😱😱

    • @AndrewChedid
      @AndrewChedid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ILLEGAL !!

    • @dbpiano2
      @dbpiano2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Where you been? He’s stopped saying that a while ago

    • @Mrtkm
      @Mrtkm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He said new year new me

  • @adriancastellanos226
    @adriancastellanos226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I didn't have anyone to tell me why I shouldn't go to college. My parents are in Mexico and it was the only thing my counselors said I do without having to continue working in agriculture. I got a communications degree but have not been able to get any gigs in Public relations. Currently work for a call center, but on the weekends I have been working as a photographer and booking clients on the weekend. It took me a long time to finally get clients paying for sessions. What worked for me was also working with local businesses and providing social media marketing for their companies. I work with a Taqueria providing drone videos and pictures of their monthly specials as well as food photography. It's been almost a year and this is one way I am adding value to myself with my degree so when I land a job as a social media marketer or photographer I have some experience to help me add to my resume. You can do this, it's gonna take a lot of work but its possible.

  • @redbird4747
    @redbird4747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    All about how you plan. I recommend starting at a community college to ensure you can pass classes and study ( all while cutting tuition cost). Then, move into a IN-STATE university. Study hard, get grants and scholarships. I did it this way and graduated with zero debt to my name. Graduated making 55k a year.

    • @TLM860
      @TLM860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What is your career?

    • @threadhoney9445
      @threadhoney9445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do you mind me asking, what is your major?

    • @ExtraordinaryFate
      @ExtraordinaryFate 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh it’s so much easier said than done. I graduated with very little debt, only a couple thousand, but this is not a win all situation for everyone. It’s great it worked out for you, but that’s not always the norm.

    • @redbird4747
      @redbird4747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ExtraordinaryFate No situation is ever really the same. Everyone has their own deck of cards. Still, PLANNING, determination and resilience is key.

    • @redbird4747
      @redbird4747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@threadhoney9445 I majored in General business (essentially a Business administration degree). Easy major in my opinion a simple, yet still a road business degree. Biggest step is to get experience at a well-known company STRAIGHT after graduation. Try and have a job lined up. College is great, but real world experience at a good corporation will be icing on the cake.

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I'm in a similar position but I've been lucky enough to keep my job. Although it's minimum wage, it's a lot better than nothing

    • @AnuragSharma-rq2tp
      @AnuragSharma-rq2tp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @AnuragSharma-rq2tp
      @AnuragSharma-rq2tp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am working like 70 hours a week. But thank god, minimum wage is good in Australia.

    • @markjester5621
      @markjester5621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      excellent,well-said, same here, just keep moving and Earning 👌

  • @fer-curium1650
    @fer-curium1650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Feeling lost is one of the worst things ever. Luckily when I felt loss I was in community college so I had the luxury and I say luxury because if I was in a Cal state or university at the time it would’ve cost me so much money. At the time I was in community college I felt loss and switch from business to history. Fortunately I ended finding my way out. I remember I felt so loss I would get to school and sit in my car almost wanted to cry, depressed asf. Luckily I ended up switching back to my business degree into marketing. Now I’m in a good job and in my junior in a cal state. It feels awesome. It’s a lot of work but I love it

  • @Rashad3000
    @Rashad3000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    College was the best time of my life. I didn’t know how much life would change once I graduated, but boy did it! Good luck to this caller!

    • @zaphill4346
      @zaphill4346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's great man. Honestly it was horrible for me, but things are somewhat better after I transfer to a vocational college. I still support college because it could be what that unique person needs. Still, glad you have an epic time. God bless.

    • @TechWithJayMcCall
      @TechWithJayMcCall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      College was a great experience for me as well. Would have been a lot better without having student loans! Finally got them paid off!

    • @oof8850
      @oof8850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hated it

    • @dabd8175
      @dabd8175 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Duck u

    • @Mel-tw6qv
      @Mel-tw6qv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too. Not because I had any fun. I studied all the time, day and night. It showed me what I was really made of.

  • @JohnsonKayla12
    @JohnsonKayla12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I say never go to college for a degree in the creative field. If you are talented you will make it without a degree in anything creative. Unlike being a teacher for instance where you won’t make a return on the college investment but its required for the job- you don’t need a degree to be creative or get a job (art, photography, film, etc).

    • @canderscc1129
      @canderscc1129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Preach Queen!

    • @sarah1484
      @sarah1484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯

    • @wii3willRule
      @wii3willRule 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are you working in art, photography, or film?

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      exactly. if it's not stem or finance/economics/politics, a degree isn't necessary. Honestly I don't think you need degree to get into the tech field either. you can do online courses & learn for free online

    • @timelessfeatures9630
      @timelessfeatures9630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@michael43567 no. You are wrong. My brother taught himself tech but due to a lack of degree he is paid small pennies. There are many companies out there that want qualifications.

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    You can take pictures without a degree, TH-cam University. Scramble mode buddy.

    • @bighands69
      @bighands69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @brandon
      Some fields are more about capabilities than qualifications. No body cares if you have a degree in art just that your art is good.

    • @multistack1502
      @multistack1502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Uh oh, Casey is back to spam the working man. We thought he was gone. Nope, SPAMMER IS BACK!!!

  • @JB-kx9bx
    @JB-kx9bx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    An old boss of mine had a communications degree and is now a VP at the construction company I worked at. He went straight to construction project management from college.

    • @robedmund9948
      @robedmund9948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Many if not most people never use the degree they went to college for.

  • @ttr8141
    @ttr8141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Saying this from experience since I’m also graduated college initially without a job myself. Degree in a career that make money to live on, use your passion as a side hustle until it overrides your main income. He should apply to as many jobs as he can that he qualifies for with his Communications degree. While he waits for a job, He can be a photographer as a side-hustle, along whatever work he can find temporarily (ex: Uber)
    I applied for 30, eventually got two, and took the one nearest me. (Accounting).

  • @WanderWisdomHive121
    @WanderWisdomHive121 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am 25 with a master's degree and still can't land a job, school is the biggest scam that teaches no guidance on how to land a job. I'm starting a business or freelancing service to pay off the loans.

  • @nnyv0040
    @nnyv0040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Our job does define us. Whether you are in a job you hate or unemployed and can't find work it really does take a toll on your mental health.
    I work for myself and when work is slow it takes a toll on my mental health because I worry when this dry spell will end, or if I am not good enough or if my business will survive.

  • @ianmowbray3284
    @ianmowbray3284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    He needs a job, not the job.

    • @ceecee8757
      @ceecee8757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      At this rate, $15/hr minimum wage makes high schoolers not even want or need an edumacation.

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ceecee8757 And that's sad. Why should anyone bother to be successful if they can just have it handed to them.

    • @Yugiboii
      @Yugiboii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@jimroscovius $15/hr is nowhere near successful

  • @dangerchcovich7249
    @dangerchcovich7249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Keep going. Life has always been hard, but you just have to keep going with it. At the end of the day it's important to create and stick to a plan, then evolve to the situation. The end goal is always the same, however the journey is different. Just stop trying to control everything, and focus only inwards

    • @extropiantranshuman
      @extropiantranshuman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wouldn't say 'keep going with it' if it doesn't work. That's really bad advice that just leads people into more debt - I bet many people got into a hole because of that bad advice. It's better to keep going in life, but if something doesn't work, do something that does - that's what brings success to me.

    • @dangerchcovich7249
      @dangerchcovich7249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@extropiantranshuman that's why it's important to create a plan initially. If it doesn't work, as I said "evolve to the situation". Which means, change your plan, so that it works, and keep going with it. Thanks for your feedback :)

    • @extropiantranshuman
      @extropiantranshuman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dangerchcovich7249 you have it backwards though, that's why I'm messaging - it's evolve to the situation and then form plans, but never leave the situation unless you're able to!

  • @teneshaanderson4761
    @teneshaanderson4761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This title is literally every graduate at one point

  • @leslierivera742
    @leslierivera742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    He says UH a lot for a guy that got a degree in communications

    • @Primitive_Code
      @Primitive_Code 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Agreed. In my communications class in college, the instructor would deduct points if we used words like: uh, um and like. Apparently they don't do that at his college.

    • @erikrohr4396
      @erikrohr4396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What is your degree in?
      Um......
      ...
      Communications.

    • @SoCalFreelance
      @SoCalFreelance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Primitive_Code Same, they are called verbal pauses. We got major deductions if we used them in my communications class. And he is a communications major, makes no sense o_0

  • @mrjack8849
    @mrjack8849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know too many people with communications degrees who have no idea what to do with it.

  • @tyndni
    @tyndni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Photography is also about networking. We chose our photographer based on personality as well as skill and someone who is organised and wants to hustle for their clients. Wedding photos are based on trust of the photographer.

  • @robnelson6545
    @robnelson6545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Communications degree says sales. You can make a lot of money in sales and your degree will be useful.

    • @bighands69
      @bighands69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Advertising, marketing, business presentation, websites and so on.

  • @Daniel-gs5wv
    @Daniel-gs5wv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl I worked as a line cook with was in a similar situation. The restaurant put her in charge of the social media because they were new and didn't want to do it themselves.

  • @Tkenny35
    @Tkenny35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    School is a waste in my opinion if it doesn’t directly impact your job. For example, you have to go to school if you want to be a doctor or a lawyer. So many people graduate and get no job and get depressed/discouraged when they have a mountain of debt and are working as a server in a restaurant. My cousin was a very smart girl in school. Business admin major. Graduated, had no job, and now teaches English in Korea trying to find herself still. I think she’s in a little depression from it and I hope she finds her way!

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But business majors get many jobs if they do accounting or finance

  • @lombardo141
    @lombardo141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Communications gives you so many options. Event planner , media relations, journalism, sales. Since he likes photography Event planing may be up his alley.

    • @mambofuego5101
      @mambofuego5101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Useless degree. Those things don’t need a degree.

    • @TroxMacgee
      @TroxMacgee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mambofuego5101 I have a B.A. in Communications and Journalism. Has not gotten me in the door anywhere. Most of the things listed are more impressive with four years of experience than the four year bachelor's degree to employers.

    • @lombardo141
      @lombardo141 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mambofuego5101 useless or not at least trying beats sitting at home doing nothing.

    • @mambofuego5101
      @mambofuego5101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TroxMacgee Sorry, but it may be helpful, but not necessary ..His time was wasted. Plenty of successful people in communications without degrees. Plus, unfortunately, I don’t think communication is a good fit for this gentleman. Especially when he wants to do photography.

    • @mambofuego5101
      @mambofuego5101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      lombardo141 Had he just sat home and done nothing, he would have been ahead.. with no school debt. He could have spent his time learning to actually communicate... Which is free...

  • @TheMechanicj
    @TheMechanicj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I know a photographer that makes a killing dude just has high school diploma about 15000$ worth of equipment a 14 year ole Honda Pilot which I am his mechanic and lives 20 minutes from gatlinburg tn makes a killing

    • @ceecee8757
      @ceecee8757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Even during the pLandemic?

    • @TheMechanicj
      @TheMechanicj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@ceecee8757 yeah believe it or not people still had weddings there aren’t the restrictions in tennessee like in the communist states

    • @rollingacresfarmstead206
      @rollingacresfarmstead206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheMechanicj tyrant timmy in minnesota says you shall not have fun... OR ELSE!😉

    • @waflletoast11
      @waflletoast11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ceecee8757 are you lost? fox news is that way -------->>>>>

    • @Mike-dd8bd
      @Mike-dd8bd 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well ya learning how to take pictures even at a professional level won`t require a degree.

  • @RoddieSimmons
    @RoddieSimmons 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Success is simply a Mind Set. I graduated in Communications and The Wall Street Journal came looking for ME. I was the first person at the School of Communications to be recruited. This came because I hustled so much that my resume was overflowing. NBC TV, NBC Radio, Brown University Radio, Local Newspapers, College Newspapers and more. You have to make yourself the Prize and hustle like hell BEFORE you graduate so they are all bidding for you when you graduate. 😎

  • @Autisticmusician715
    @Autisticmusician715 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel the same way, and I just graduated in May of 2024 with a bachelors in music, so I am blessed to have health insurance due to disability. I am starting to start my life with volunteering with a local band at a local school with someone I know.

  • @TheLuxeTraveler702
    @TheLuxeTraveler702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    He definitely needs more male mentors, needs to network , and put himself out there . Use the degree. It's a good degree, he can get into pretty much anything.

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love how Dave just casually mutes people lool. Poor Frank was talking to himself at 1:49

    • @redcomic619
      @redcomic619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I always wondered if Dave’s button was mute or hang up. Now I know!

  • @dynamichunter843
    @dynamichunter843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m in a similar boat, just graduated with a CS degree, no debt, but no job. I have a lot in savings but it’s so hard to find jobs rn

    • @a.b.2405
      @a.b.2405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      In a similar situation but with debt. I’ve been applying and applying.

    • @TheGuitarGuyCody
      @TheGuitarGuyCody 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here. No debt, but no job. Been applying for a year now. It’s very exhausting.

    • @a.b.2405
      @a.b.2405 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheGuitarGuyCody it is exhausting. It’s been more than a year for me. Try applying for an international internship. Look up CareerUp.

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Get an internship first paid or unpaid it will help, then you can put that in your resume and get an entry level job or apply for h.r position in a tech company

    • @Melbester9
      @Melbester9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lotuswolf1518 Why does no one like myself get told about internships these days. I lost my first job after my A.A and I got to college without no work experience for my resume but they give us no way to get experience. How the heck do you get experience for the job if you don't get the opportunity.
      Colleges and specialists don't help students out enough to get those experiences with opportunities. They just apply to jobs but they want experience? But you have to work to get experience? How? Then that's where internships come in.

  • @TitanMoon746
    @TitanMoon746 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    3 internships, bachelor's, some work experience, and an MBA student and can't find a job. Feel totally, beyond, fucked

  • @mao_lang
    @mao_lang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Communications degrees are common at digital marketing companies, check to see if any in your area are hiring

  • @gone.golfing
    @gone.golfing 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Graduated college in 2008 and never found a job. Worst time to graduate. Oh well, it just wasn’t meant for me to work.

    • @violet18
      @violet18 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I will say a prayer for you so that God will open doors for you.

    • @gone.golfing
      @gone.golfing 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@violet18 It’s been 16 years. And there’s no such thing as religion.

  • @TechWithJayMcCall
    @TechWithJayMcCall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You definitely need to research the incomes of different professions before you pick a major. You are essentially choosing the lifestyle you can afford by investing into your education. This is not something to be taking lightly. Good Luck🤞🏾

  • @ChristianSedaPlays
    @ChristianSedaPlays 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    He could start a real estate photograph buisness where he sells photos for ads on houses

  • @Jakecaseyy
    @Jakecaseyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wishing my man frank the best seems like a cool dude

  • @Drazorig2
    @Drazorig2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Unfortunately wasted my University degree on Art. Learnt a lot from that and now doing much better!

    • @robnelson6545
      @robnelson6545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lots of demand for UI and UX people in web development.

    • @bighands69
      @bighands69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Didar
      If you really want to make serious money from an arts degree go and learn painting and decorating after.
      Use that art then as part of the decorating trade and you will earn a fortune. Especially if you build a good portfolio to demonstrate to clients what you can do.

  • @RoseUnseen
    @RoseUnseen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    if your not making RICH FRIENDS IN COLLEGE your doing it wrong!

    • @zeroday7878
      @zeroday7878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it really depends. in the business world rich friends can be good but if you're in the STEM field it doesnt really matter

  • @borsfinance
    @borsfinance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    *Why do people jump right into College with no idea? It's a waste of time & Money*

  • @trevoraugustus2249
    @trevoraugustus2249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Real estate photography could be an option with lockdowns limiting weddings etc.

    • @TheLivedeath
      @TheLivedeath 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tons of other experienced photographers out of work are thinking the same thing. It's a hard career to get into right now.

    • @trevoraugustus2249
      @trevoraugustus2249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For sure. It’s a grind and not huge paying either.

  • @TheLivedeath
    @TheLivedeath 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Couldn't finish this video. With the caller showcasing his communication skills over the phone. He might as well leave his major off of his resume.

    • @scott7521
      @scott7521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hate to be mean but I agree

  • @theparrotchannel2625
    @theparrotchannel2625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bad advice to solicit to the customers on the floor of a retail outfit like Home Depot is a fast way to get yourself fired

  • @socalgolf9978
    @socalgolf9978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    College graduates think it’s a free ticket to any job that pays 100k to start

    • @spinloki
      @spinloki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      STEM majors: "Yes."

    • @EfrainMeza
      @EfrainMeza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I second this as a sophomore in college lol

    • @starscream6629
      @starscream6629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just came off a video where someone was whining about having a mental breakdown about the fear of having a mediocre job to start once graduating. Colleges are producing people who are are insanely fragile and feel entitled to extravagant jobs with no real world experience and effort put into EARNING these jobs.

    • @Melbester9
      @Melbester9 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@starscream6629 Unless they do internships.

    • @yihannajohnson3711
      @yihannajohnson3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, rent and ish ain't cheap.

  • @zylo6283
    @zylo6283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    When you go college you have to have a plan or this happens 😟

    • @bighands69
      @bighands69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What is far more important than a plan is determination. I seen people with very poor academic records do extremely well because they were so determined. It is something you can actually develop your self.

    • @asims1988
      @asims1988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, a life lesson I learned the hard way. Always have a plan.

    • @Native722
      @Native722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Even with a plan, it can all go wrong

    • @novastryke1379
      @novastryke1379 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Native722 facts

  • @SA-5247
    @SA-5247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Know how it feels man. You’re just getting started so know in a year from now things will be different.

  • @edwardlomax7842
    @edwardlomax7842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I went to college in Philadelphia in the 90's. At that time, if you were a Communications major and you wanted to get into the Radio/TV/Film industry, it helped to be a graduate of Temple University and you had to join the union. If you had relatives or friends that were union members that was a bonus.

  • @dychondra
    @dychondra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That’s great advice! I was a bit stumped as to what I’d tell the caller. I hope he finds his way.

  • @alladreamwedreamed
    @alladreamwedreamed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I bet Frank knows how to use social media platforms. If he knows photography he surely can edit and resize jogs. Social media marketing and management is a job in itself for many companies...even remote work.
    Family portrait and wedding photography is not the most interesting work but it pays well and people still want someone to capture their special moments even if gatherings are limited.
    Hustle Frank!

  • @Lexethan2011
    @Lexethan2011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He couldn’t communicate to save his life.

  •  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great discussion dave

  • @Aggie4life77
    @Aggie4life77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    When it comes to college, it’s all about picking the right degree! For my younger people, do your research on what you think you may want to do beforehand. I would stick to Stem, anything related to medical, finance and law. If you only want to teach then you can entertain other fields.

    • @Hamza_Aziz
      @Hamza_Aziz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dont forget Computer Science, IT or software development! Thats a great investment as a degree

    • @j.d.waymond6355
      @j.d.waymond6355 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Hamza_Aziz I'm about to graduate with a CS degree and, though I've had a few internships, getting a full-time offer seems hard. Starting to seem like a bad investment.

    • @zerohero5753
      @zerohero5753 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@j.d.waymond6355 I've learned that companies would rather outsource programming work in cheaper countries. Also the job is tough since you always have to adapt to evolving technologies which gets hard the older you get since the work is extremely stressful and tiring.

    • @saminuddin6853
      @saminuddin6853 ปีที่แล้ว

      but i struggle with math.

    • @JavierSaenz-gz1kg
      @JavierSaenz-gz1kg 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      STEM is oversatured

  • @grindhardlio7814
    @grindhardlio7814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dave the 🐐.

  • @97I30T
    @97I30T 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He just needs to get any job right now to tide him over until he gets the job he actually wants. A degree in communications actually is a pretty solid degree. He will find another decent job again in time.

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No communication is normal , he should have gotten pharmacy degree we always need people in medical Jobs 👍

  • @dustyowl2448
    @dustyowl2448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Call me an idiot, but I think that not all students in high school realize that their studies are preparing them for college, not life.
    I didn't realize that I had no idea what I was going to do after high school. I got a degree in management (feels like underwater basket weaving to me), and I'm not sure what to do or what I enjoy doing as a job

  • @talemire258
    @talemire258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    (reads title) Yep, sounds about right. I had the shirt too. "I graduated, now what?"

  • @michelhanson1500
    @michelhanson1500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Degree in communications.........thats rough buddy

    • @mph5896
      @mph5896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You could tell in Daves face thats exactly what he was thinking. Then he had to push a congratulations.

    • @oaoskey6051
      @oaoskey6051 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s**** spell correctly before you make fun of someone else.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@oaoskey6051
      He said he went to school for four year degree in communications costing $60k.
      You listened to this call.
      Any comment someone make will be like making fun. No way around it.
      Saying the opposite would be sarcasm.
      And I don’t understand the photography thing. That’s more of a hobby or part time.

    • @bighands69
      @bighands69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A communications degree is as good as any other degree.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bighands69
      I’m sure that’s what the college representatives say while pushing those student loans.

  • @jason18401
    @jason18401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    He got a degree in communication but can’t even communicate better than the average Joe

    • @rachelgooden9981
      @rachelgooden9981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I was wondering if it was just me 🙈

    • @Alex609able
      @Alex609able 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol yas

    • @situated4
      @situated4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes! Mr. Mumbles / marble mouth. Speak up and annunciate, son!!!

    • @kara2162
      @kara2162 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣

    • @calciofan2012
      @calciofan2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No need to be disrespectful

  • @dayvidsdays5644
    @dayvidsdays5644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a fellow Philadelphian, I feel for him. He should start building up his photography portfolio and start with some freelancing jobs. Then he can build up his brand/reputation.

    • @bighands69
      @bighands69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Even if he can only do $10 jobs it will be a learning curve and also build his reputation.

  • @rain73ful
    @rain73ful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice! This dude has to just hustle his way into success! It won't be easy, but I think he can do it! He should also have a laminated business card to give to people to advertise himself.

  • @littlebritian2822
    @littlebritian2822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    He got a degree in communications but can't communicate. Best of luck mate

    • @Libatis
      @Libatis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Communication is not the same as public speaking. The guy is struggling with his life situation. Give him a break if he has trouble describing everything perfectly.

  • @reverselee3218
    @reverselee3218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A communications degree literally means nothing. Enjoy your customer service calls.

    • @Jumperman12mac
      @Jumperman12mac 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Telemarketing probably if you want to annoy people.

    • @shantricejones5830
      @shantricejones5830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Actually some jobs just want to see that you have a degree. He could easily apply for a management trainee program and fast track to management.

  • @onebridge7231
    @onebridge7231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When are people going to stop getting degrees that are not in demand. We are failing our kids by not providing them with STEM skills. Most of the quants at my work are all foreign educated.

  • @bettysmith4527
    @bettysmith4527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    yikes, he isn't good at communication, maybe just nerves....

    • @xJayhawkFANx
      @xJayhawkFANx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah.. not very easy to understand..

    • @joseph_sse
      @joseph_sse 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      he said "hi Deev" definitely nerves

    • @TheLivedeath
      @TheLivedeath 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@joseph_sse His communications degree is supposed to teach him to overcome nerves to communicate effectively in any situation.

    • @xxxxMonkeyGirlxxxx
      @xxxxMonkeyGirlxxxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheLivedeath correct but he sounds very stressed and overwhelmed. He reminds me of me when I was in that situation many years ago.

  • @shawmeck9323
    @shawmeck9323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    45k for a house? Never thought I could find a house for that price.

    • @paulinoaz
      @paulinoaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      think mobile home

    • @bighands69
      @bighands69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There are houses all over America that can be had for that. Many are small and out side the main centers.
      You will not get something in a major city for that but outside that you will. People have even bought houses for $5000 and renovated them.
      I used to buy cheap houses decades ago and renovate them and make a good profit.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because many are lazy don’t look and assume everything is more than $200k so they buy what they can’t truly afford..

    • @tj8816
      @tj8816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As someone living in Philly... He most likely lives in the hood. 100% guaranteed a family member left it to him.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tj8816
      Has to be.

  • @jesterpew
    @jesterpew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Degree in communication. Says ums and uhs throughout the whole phone call 😂

  • @rickvangils100
    @rickvangils100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You don't need a 4 year bachelor to take pictures...

  • @JogBird
    @JogBird 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    once the stupid eviction moratoriums are over, he should rent out his house and go move to where he can find work.. no sense feeling bound to a place at his age.. lots of ppl would love to have a free house

    • @bighands69
      @bighands69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He could also sell the house and use it to get set up somewhere else. It really depends on what he wants.

  • @jaredbeckwith
    @jaredbeckwith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was lost too then I decided to do EEG which only took a year of college 😊

  • @Native722
    @Native722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    College doesn't equate to job

  • @leklekjasmine416
    @leklekjasmine416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Why go back to school at 25 for a field he wasn't even in. Shouldve stayed out of school or got a CC degree

    • @deepfakesforreal9487
      @deepfakesforreal9487 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My thought exactly. 18 yo can get a pass but a 25 yo should know better. But even at 29, he just wanna do what he enjoys, photography

    • @flemcoartzandfiggymitty2319
      @flemcoartzandfiggymitty2319 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WiseOnion Community college degree

  • @dbacks2023-
    @dbacks2023- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4:57 Are Dave and John suggesting he sabotage the wedding photographer to steal the gig lol

  • @biellaspointofview2054
    @biellaspointofview2054 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My advise to that kid is apply for any entry level jobs in brokerage industries. I work for a brokerage firm and your degree really doesn't matter as long as when you get an entry level job you study and pass your license exam.

  • @vincentbrumfield7434
    @vincentbrumfield7434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dave: Was it a customer, or were you working for somebody?
    Frank: Yes

  • @SelfMadeWealth
    @SelfMadeWealth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Musk doesn't care whether applicants have a college degree. They will have to demonstrate knowledge.

  • @Cheese_Meister
    @Cheese_Meister 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That boy is ready to become an photography officer in the military.

  • @laneblount9888
    @laneblount9888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He should go to every car dealership in his area and look for jobs there. They always need photographers for listing new cars and also for advertising

    • @paulinoaz
      @paulinoaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Car dealers just snap them with their phones, they don't have the time or the budget to pay for professional photographers.

    • @robnelson6545
      @robnelson6545 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      With his communications degree he could try being a salesman.

    • @bighands69
      @bighands69 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@paulinoaz
      The best car dealerships have great photos and not just some snap on a phone.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any individual can do that.
      Just take pictures with cellphone and have it in listing on auto-trader or whatnot in minutes.

  • @josephc4229
    @josephc4229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    worst advice I ever received was to major in communications

  • @Noadvantage246
    @Noadvantage246 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My advice would be to use the degree, pay off the debt, build up a savings. All while doing photography on the side. At the point photography is making you more than your day job or could if you went full time then quit.

  • @Waterinariver
    @Waterinariver 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Is management information systems a good degree?

  • @camixxx
    @camixxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Communications degree... People need to learn how worthless that degree is.

    • @NiceOCGuy1981
      @NiceOCGuy1981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      As many other degrees.

    • @eara8426
      @eara8426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He gets a degree in communication in order to communicate with Dave his student loan debt.

    • @rachelgooden9981
      @rachelgooden9981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oh no. Really? I had no idea 😂. Back in the day so many of my high school friends boasted that they got into that. I should check where they are now.

    • @eara8426
      @eara8426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@rachelgooden9981 They are communicating their struggles.

    • @swimlee7802
      @swimlee7802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I graduated with a double major in Strategic Communications & Organizational Communication, and I graduated December 2020 and now I make 40k/yr. It's a good degree for marketing, advertising, conflict theory, human management, etc.

  • @CrazyLocoInsane1
    @CrazyLocoInsane1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He can take pictures of his degree and sale that on OfferUp.

  • @jdstep97
    @jdstep97 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Either a day when the wedding photographer does not show up, or s/he forgot to put film in their camera. Either way, be ready to take your place as photographer and shine.

  • @mr.f8420
    @mr.f8420 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another idea, start getting on car forums, go to cars and coffee. People with cars love good photography.

  • @fernandomartinezreyna1836
    @fernandomartinezreyna1836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    $45k house??? How? I need to move out of California

  • @thethinkingstone9248
    @thethinkingstone9248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I can sympathize with this young man....HOWEVER, people need to stop taking these garbage and worthless degrees in college. The future is in the STEM areas.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The future is whatever marketable.

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      exactly. personally I like to say SEM because you don't need a degree for tech anymore. There's free info online, courses & companies like Google don't even care for degrees

    • @Flower26340
      @Flower26340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I disagree. Although the STEM fields are highly desirable, so is digital advertising. A person who knows the ins and outs of that and SEO is also highly desirable.

    • @js8430
      @js8430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s a good degree, you don’t know what you’re talking about. To say only STEM degrees are useful is ignorant

    • @gblyndensrandomreviews
      @gblyndensrandomreviews 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Communications in 2021 is ver relevant. It has to go with the right person though....

  • @tomdrummy4984
    @tomdrummy4984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Welcome to the real world........it begins after schooling

  • @adrianmechelle3784
    @adrianmechelle3784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A lot of us feel like we have to goto college to be something. I will say it’s kinda cultural. I’m personally against it. I only have 15k in debt but I don’t recommend college just for the sake of having a degree.

  • @callmeviper7723
    @callmeviper7723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Never even understood what “communications” even means? You can get a job talking on the phone?? Using a radio? Who decides to study communications???!!

    • @user-td7xf3gz4l
      @user-td7xf3gz4l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's general business and writing basically.

    • @therealmrsdiz4544
      @therealmrsdiz4544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Advertising, Marketing, Television, Public relations, Entertainment, Sales... There are a lot of lucrative jobs for communication majors.

    • @bighands69
      @bighands69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It tends to mean systems such as web pages, advertising and so on.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@therealmrsdiz4544
      Apparently this guy didn’t get the memo.

    • @insideoutsideupsidedown2218
      @insideoutsideupsidedown2218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@therealmrsdiz4544 yeah...sure

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Communications? Not tryna be negative here but that's not a great degree.

    • @SamWesting
      @SamWesting 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not a great major for someone like the caller, who doesn't seem sure about what he really wants to do. Students frequently fall into communications when their 1st choice major doesn't work out & they want to salvage a degree from all their credits.