Also I just want to mention how absolutely normal it is to have a crash/depression like this after a huge exciting life event. I've experienced this multiple times in my life- not just with top surgery. All you want to do is re-live the experience, rather than accept that life isn't always so exciting. The good thing is, no one can take away that memory- but try not to let it prevent you from taking advantage of your present, and the chance to make new memories and experiences.
Hey man, for what it's worth I think your chest looks amazing!! I think its pretty natural to morn the loss of something, even if it was something you were uncomfortable with or unhappy with. I have always liked peoples scares I think they represent strength and bravery. good luck on your journey xoxo
This is another reason why I think it's so important for surgeries to be covered for trans people. So many people spend a huge chunk of their lives just focused on surgery as their #1 goal that they lose sight of the bigger picture. What you have to look forward to now is just life like everyone else. I know it's hard, don't get me wrong. Focus on a goal that's not related to being trans. You are more than your gender or your body. You'll get there
Man I feel you on the lower bits so much. I get depressed because I will never be a cisgender male and I'll never have a cisgendered male anatomy, even with the bottom surgery options out there, Eventually I do plan on getting lower surgery but the fact that it will never be like a cisgendered male's anatomy is still depressing for me. Heck misery loves company so I can be depressed with you too.
there's no reason. i just don't want to take t... i'm slowly considering it more and more tho, to deal with bottom dysphoria like you mentioned. but i don't want this to be the only reason why i go on t u know? it's not enough for me.
Also I just want to mention how absolutely normal it is to have a crash/depression like this after a huge exciting life event. I've experienced this multiple times in my life- not just with top surgery. All you want to do is re-live the experience, rather than accept that life isn't always so exciting. The good thing is, no one can take away that memory- but try not to let it prevent you from taking advantage of your present, and the chance to make new memories and experiences.
Hey man, for what it's worth I think your chest looks amazing!! I think its pretty natural to morn the loss of something, even if it was something you were uncomfortable with or unhappy with. I have always liked peoples scares I think they represent strength and bravery. good luck on your journey xoxo
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alex! i love when you comment. you always make me feel better.
This is another reason why I think it's so important for surgeries to be covered for trans people. So many people spend a huge chunk of their lives just focused on surgery as their #1 goal that they lose sight of the bigger picture. What you have to look forward to now is just life like everyone else. I know it's hard, don't get me wrong. Focus on a goal that's not related to being trans. You are more than your gender or your body. You'll get there
Man I feel you on the lower bits so much. I get depressed because I will never be a cisgender male and I'll never have a cisgendered male anatomy, even with the bottom surgery options out there, Eventually I do plan on getting lower surgery but the fact that it will never be like a cisgendered male's anatomy is still depressing for me. Heck misery loves company so I can be depressed with you too.
ugh this shit is so fucked up im so fed up with all of it :( love me
there's no reason. i just don't want to take t... i'm slowly considering it more and more tho, to deal with bottom dysphoria like you mentioned. but i don't want this to be the only reason why i go on t u know? it's not enough for me.
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