TIFU By Helping Ruin My Son’s Life Listening To My Stepdaughter + **Son’s Response Post**
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ต.ค. 2024
- Dad's post: TIFU by helping ruin my son’s life (u/bawron in r/tifu)
Son's response: Response to "TIFU by helping ruin my son’s life" (u/FailureFather626 in r/offmychest)
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So... his life is ruined, and she gets to move to another state for a fresh start where no one knows what she did. smh
well women dealing with their actions IS unheard of
Par for the course
Welcome to the Me Too movement.
No accountability
It's a fake story. You can't just move to Japan on a whim, without a job there. OP didn't even try.
Father: My son is the kindest, sweetest person I know.
Also father: I didn’t hesitate to ignore my son’s side of things and turned him in immediately, believing my stepdaughter without question.
Guess he was trying to gain sympathy points, and failed.
Wanna remember the worst part? He spent months in prison as a child (stepsister was 16) abuser. This type of accusation can get you "special treatment" from the inmates, though I'm not sure it happened to him. AND, despite the charges dropped, the record of s*x/child abuse will remain to every employer read and judge him for it. Going to Japan was a wise move, actually.
I mean... turning it into police is the right thing to do rather you believe them or not. That being said, there needs to be repercussions for false accusations.
@@N..P.. No it is not. if you can't for fact verify these serious allegations, because you can ruin innocent people's lives by giving them permenant records like this one, especially when these false allegations are turning more and more over the years to be way as loophole for psychos and sociopaths to destroy innocent peoples lives and get no consquences for their horrid behaviour just like the step daughter here
Believe every woman.
The worst part is that the stepsister didn’t have to suffer any real consequences or repercussions for her lies. Whereas OP had is entire life ripped away from him.
This
False accusations like this should carry a mandatory 25 year minimum sentence with no parole or early release
@@JColtF Terrible idea, especially in cases like this one where they are only proven false due to the accuser feeling remorseful, and coming clean.
@@Jafar545Why is it a bad idea. Why shouldn't a person who makes a false claim of assault(regardless if it is SA or not) be punished. Various crimes have mandatory sentences. Why not false assault claims.
@@lindah3803 the punishment isn't the problem it's the severity. 25 years with no parole or early release is the exact same as someone who commits first degree murder. Yes, a false accusation is horrible, but treating them the same as a murderer is going way too far.
@@lindah3803 They should be. The severity is the problem here. In cases such as this one, where it is word against word, it may very well lead to an unjust conviction with the only way of preventing it being the accuser changing their mind. Something they are rather unlikely to do if it means for them to spend the rest of their life behind bars...
Oh this one? Still pisses me off to this day.
To this freaking day....dad's the biggest douche!!!...breaks my heart
His dad deserves every punishment in Hell he can get.
@@VoiceOfTheEmperorAgreed
@@VoiceOfTheEmperor yea but kinda sad tho , i think he was just too scared to fight for his son at that moment that he just decided to side with the step daughter , or the step daughter put up a very good act. none the less all of this was unfortunate and it looks like his dad unalived himself.
@@VoiceOfTheEmperor FR
so in case anyone missed it. The dad off'd himself. The stepmom let op know.
Glad op is happily married.
@@Redesign24op said it himself
@HeoBaby24 huh the stuff after the dad balls his eyes out is new. I read this story a few years ago and in the comments of this one reddit page or yt video that told this story it was said the son well you know, not the dad. Well I'm glad the Son got a fresh start with people who do care/believe in him truly
Where can I read mom updated op?
@@stardustkevin7322 yah true but what pisses me off is that the dad did it.
like i would understand if it was his son but what reason do you have for offing yourself?
@@HeoBaby24 Being unable to live with yourself is quite a powerful feeling.
He WAS outgoing, funny, intelligent snd the kindest person you knew.
I'm still demanding that false SA allegations get punished severely. I personally want false allegations to get the same punishment as SA just so that people fricking stop doing it
Defamation and false charges are serious.
@@jackolantern147not really when it‘s about false SA by women
I get what you’re saying, but the result of what you’re suggesting would be that they would never come clean due to the fear of said repercussions and the victims would never have another chance at life.
Agreed, anyone that makes this type of allegation falsely should get same prison sentence that the one they accused would have been sentenced to if found guilty. Step sister got pretty much no consequences. People need to know this will happen if they accuse falsely.
100%, if someone gets SA they should go to the hospital immediately. We live in a day and age where we have enough information to no longer say 'we didn't know'. Anyone saying that is just plain stupid or has something to hide.
I really hate the language from the father. "I, I, I, ME, ME, ME" man didn't give his son one single thought. just shipped him off to prison. all because for what his stepdaughter said. no evidence, no kit, nothing. this dad is stupid and delusional
*was.
He was delusional. Offed himself when he finally realized saying "Sorry" over and over again would not work.
@@RandomTrinidadian good
It gets worse. A past version of this story left in the part where the dad was forcing and gaslighting a “confession” from the son
He said he was super duper sorry though. That HAS to mean something... 🙃🤡
@@RandomTrinidadiantoo bad we couldn’t get a twofer and add the step sister into the mix. Hell I’d even settle for a hat-trick and add the step-mom into the mix.
Step-Daughter starts a brand new life in another state. She will likely make up a story how she was mistreated and be viewed as a victim at her new destination.
And some random idiots will believe her sob story
@@doctorquacks87 do you think anyone who sends innocent people to prison for petty reasons to cover their ass is capable of remorse?
We live in a patriarchy am I right ?
@@orctrihar yep 😂, in most countries default by law male are guilty even sometimes proven innocent 😂 yes literally even if a male is victim and if the opposite is female i bet the male will be called guilty by the law, it take lot of money and lawyers and proofs to even prove yhat he is a victim first and for second to get the opposite female punishment is another battle to fight but yet after that the punishment will be just 5% when conpared to what males get,
Yet this is patriarchy😂, yeah 👍 good,
Many women needs these law support but most men need bare minimum is to atleast to explain before announced as guilty 😂 because most women use this law as a revenge, way to blackmail, destroy or collapse someone life while only very very few women use is properly to protect themselves what which that law was actually created 😂
@@orctriharno you're not right 😑
I wounder what the mother thinks her own child cost her a family a dead husband and a stepson that hates her.
Now she's got a bunch of money, a house, and her child's father is taking care of her. She's living on easy street
@@darthbiscuit That's what you think. Insurance doesn't pay out for suicide. She has to deal with property taxes etc., so if she didn't work, oh well, she can start slinging hash now. Why think her daughter's father will take care of her knowing what his daughter did? Yikes.
It's almost like women shouldn't be able to boat, hold power, or have any sort of legal weight behind their words (and tears)
They're very good liars, & sympathy baiters.
prolly doesnt care and even pushed the dad into beliving her daughter
@@EBaker-bz8gx Insurance will pay out for suicide as long as it’s not within the first year or two of getting the policy, although it will take longer to pay out.
The sad thing is that Dad wanted to fix everything but is doing everything wrong.. His su****de is on step sis. I hope she knows that and lives with it forever.
@@Autisticwandererthe son said he ended things.
Kinda implied he killed himself
Confirmed@@HeoBaby24
@@HeoBaby24they also say they heard from their dad. You can't really hear front he person who ended it in that sense. I interpreted it as his dad ended things with his step mom and step daughter/sister.
@@WoopsieWooper yeah it was before he committed suicide
@@HeoBaby24what's the time stamp of the dad committing suicide? I relistened to the entire end but from when he says the last time he heard from his dad he finished things (the part I referenced) until the end but he never mentioned his dad offing himself. That part I referenced is the only part that could be construed that way but then it would be weird to hear his dad offed himself... From his dad. I less this video just worded it strangely.
1:38 Me when I heard the father say "he is the pride and joy of my life" then why the fuck you sent him to jail
"He was the pride and joy of my life"
This guy is braindead
Cause stepdaughter and new wife were more shiny new and more important to him at the time
Heard this one before. Again innocent until proven guilty is very important for this exact reason. His life has been ruined over this. So unfortunate.
He should sue her
Agreed.
He'd have to sue his stepmother or the father of his stepsister since she's sixteen and therefore can't be sued.
@@TiffWafflesThe son mentions it has been several years since the damage was done, so it’s right up his alley to sue his now-adult step sister but I doubt it’s going to happen because, by now, he’s a naturalized Japanese citizen.
Edit: and probably has moved on with his new life there
Most courts nowadays are sexist and they favour women. So I don’t think he would get shit. He’d most likely have to pay court fees and a fine
I was thinking the exact same thing
Describes how good of a person his son is. Believes a blatently malicious false accusation. Brilliant father.
Failure. Likely liberal.
@@saurecono need to bring politics into this
The concequence of feminism
@@Mik_Aerospace
Unfortunatly it’s literally what maked it that way
@@orctrihar I'd blame it more on human nature than simple left and right politics.
Why didn’t the father sued the stepdaughter for false allegations and defamation for ruining his son’s life. He was very quick in reporting him to the authorities.
She was 16 he’d essentially would be suing his wife and or her ex
Sue her for what? She was a teenager.
Because feminism
I don't blame the son for feeling betrayed. He was betrayed repeatedly, and was left with nothing.
The father can't fix this. He has to live with the consequences of his actions.
Kinda hard for the dad to do so when he committed suicide
@@ravenblackheart555 That's the consequence the dad chose.
@@EBaker-bz8gxthat's not facing the consequences, that's quitting, he was a piece of shit and a coward til the end
@@ravenblackheart555 he did?
I feel bad for him he didn’t deserve it and he did find a great woman and in laws. Ruka sounds like a great woman
Btw; OG post is 7 years old and the sons post was posted a couple of months ago
Oh...that's why I thought that the timelines don't match. So I thought maybe the son's post is probably reply to some other story.
I don't think so son's response matches with dad's. The reason it feels disconnected is that dad deleted his account so dad's post is brief one not a full post
The original story wasn't long but ended after the "T" comment. There was more details than here but not by much.
@@SecretVoices25 -- Son's response is also an obvious fake. I've posted why in my own response on this page.
@@smallpseudonym2844 If I recall the original account from the dad posted a small update that revealed that the son made a noose and used it. Then as a result he deleted his account due to the fathers utter stupidity >_>
It crazy that the toxic waste of a human being step sister got away scot free after jailing and ruining her stepbrothers life and tearing a family apart
"Believe all women" - The Me Too Movement.
@@braddorcas9363huh
The father said hes sorry but what if the stepsister never confessed? OP would be doomed to a far worse fate.
How could he ever trust the father who never showed trust in him when his whole life was on the line.
the father probably thought about this too which may probably be why he unalived himself.
The son doesn't HAVE to forgive his father, he's not his prop.
Personally, I think the stepdaughter should have been arrested for false SA allegations.
She was a teenager at the time so it wouldn't happen, nowadays maybe
The logic of the stepdaughter is mind boggling. I don’t want to get caught having sex with my boyfriend so I’ll accuse my stepbrother of SA. What!?
She had to have secretly hated him.
Sadly, SA victims do this a lot. They'll blame somebody else... In psychology they're a "safe" target. Or some kind of BS I've heard.
“He is the pride and joy of my life”
Was that’s over and that’s the fault of you, your wife, and especially the stepsister
Ruka(spelling most likely) is a real one and I love her for OP’s son’s sake 👍🏾 and as a father the image of the father crying for losing his son still kind of got to me because that would’ve been the absolutely worse case scenario in my mind but he made his bed. I prefer evidence over feelings and I’m glad my mind has always functioned like that. Blame it on a mild form of Asperger’s but it helps me to stay calm in so many terrible and some absolutely horrific situations
This is the worst absolutely awful saddest thing I’ve ever heard. They will never have any clue the actual damage this did to this young man’s life. The sister literally got away with murder. She killed someone’s life.
She practically killed two people cause the dad committed suicide after
Don't worry, it's fake. You can't just randomly move to Japan on a whim. They have immigration laws.
@@OWnIshiiTrollingif he married into her family it could be believable, also this is allegedly from a few years ago before covid and some new laws
@@sguizzoooAt the time of moving they weren't married or even dating. I'm usually skeptical about these stories, especially ones with substantial time skips.
The son is just one of many victims of false rape allegations. He is lucky that he had someone there for him.
It’s mainly women that do that because all women in this generation have to much goddam power. They could literally point at a random dude and his life is ruined.
I remember hearing this story. Reddit tore OP father apart.
Glad to hear the sin is doing alright and actuslly laughed when i head the sperm donor ended it. I had zero sympathy for him back then and i still have zero sympathy for him now that he unalived himself.
Unfortunately, the "update" is likely a creative writing exercise, posted many years after the original post and in no way affiliated with it (the original account was deleted) and only after the post started to get read on TikTok and TH-cam.
@@nehcrumIt is absolutely fake. He says that he just randomly moved to Japan on a whim, completely ignoring that that is not how immigration works.
@@OWnIshiiTrollingwhat proof do you have that it's fake smartass other than your automatic assumption?
The parents don't realize what most certainly happened in jail if they saw his paperwork
God, this story really hits hard when you realize the stepdaughter got off with a figurative slap on the wrist.
And I am willing to bet $100 that the stepmother moved her daughter back home after her stepson left and her husband shuffled off the mortal coil.
This brat effectively NUKED her family because she was afraid to get hit with consequences; I really hope she feels the icy claws of guilt over the fate of her former stepbrother and stepfather for the rest of her miserable life.
Cases like this are great examples why would who deliberately make false accusations of rape should face the same legal consequences their victim would have faced
If you're actually sorry then you should immediately divorce your wife. You should suffer since he did. It was her daughter that lied to begin with. Apologies are worthless. If you're actually sorry then you should be willing to endure suffering as well.
step-daugter should have gone to prison for this
"Can't give you back the year you lost."
The son lost a LOT more than one fucking year.
OK, stepdaughter, needs to be arrested for that!
He was a happy out going person. Jail can change a person for the worse. It can take years to get over. And dad hasn't helped
Is there no law against false sexual assault charges
nope, but there should be
Technically yes. But it's called "filing a false report" a misdemeanor in the states
@@miceltusav88who gives a damn about technicalities?
Unfortunately, the law is very slow when it comes to adapting to modern times.
Not for man, the joy of feminism cause we obviously live in a patriarchy
Damn it must hurt, something similar happened to me (not to that extent though) when my brother lied to my mom about something I didn’t do and my mom didn’t even give me a chance to defend myself. Like if not you, then who is it that I’m supposed to rely on for to have my back at times like these? I was around 16 at that time but I’ve never been able to see my mom and brother in the same light again. Im 24 now and they’re always wondering why I never contact them much and they say they love me but everytime I can’t help but remember that moment of betrayal
Also the step daughter should not have had basically a fresh start
So you reported the kindest person you know (your son) to the police without evidence or second thought? 🤔
I don't like this, i know their a lot of hypocrites here, eho would do the same to their own kids, I've seen to many similar stories, their are liars in these comments, but i wish that you all are speaking truthfully, never betray your child
Not only would I not abandon my child, but if I effed up my son’s life THIS badly, I’d force myself to stay alive purposely so that every day that pain of being without him would be deservedly felt by means as a means of penance
The father literally took the COWARDS way out. End of story
I wish the son all the best and I’m happy he found someone who stayed with him. I’m happy one person stayed with him and believed him
He needs to sue that stepsister
I understand people wanna believe the victim.. But the fact they NEVER give the other party a chance to speak is what kills all attempts to "fix" things in the future...
That's why you go to the professionals IMMEDIATELY. As the average person and family, I see, lacks proper objective thinking and reasoning to give benefit of the doubt and remove their emotions and familial ties from the situation to make a concrete decision and read between the blatant lies.
So many lives destroyed from false allegations of SA or cheating that could've been staunched the moment it came out if more than one party involved was sane and reasonable
Man what a shitty father, glad that OP didn’t break down under pressure and actually made a life for himself instead of being a doormat forever to this family, i REALLY hope someone manages to get the father’s wife’s point of view, would love to see what she did to her daughter after her husband ended himself, also who did the father’s estate go to.
This story is fake and bullshit, moved to Japan? What a load of crap, they don't allow you to suddenly move on a whim like that
@@uberbyte7467 yea even i think its a fake story , in the original post dad clearly said that his son was all alone in his room , he had no friends as they all left him , if he had atleast 1 close friend i think the dad would have definitely mentioned about this friend or atleast about him hanging out with this friend. + its just wayyy to good to be true why would this random japanese family take this guy to japan ? he says only rukia knows the truth but none of the others do ?.
Pathetic dad could even off the step daughter too before offing himself. Dude was a complete failure as a father. People that give false SA should get the same punishment as offenders would have gotten.
I genuinely think this is the worst father in history your son was accused of a crime and you're not even going to try to defend him or get his side of the story you're just going to call the cops to get him arrested this dad deserves no sympathy he sucks
He's dead. Offed himself.
@@Blurgamer17 and he shouldn't have done that I know I'm going to get a lot of hate for saying this anybody who has children and a family who kills themselves based on their own actions is a coward instead of trying to make it up to his son for the rest of his life he just decided to kill himself I know it probably wasn't discussing the story but he must have hurt his new wife and all of his friends people should think about the consequences before they kill themselves and think about how many people love and care about them and how much they'll hurt them when they kill themselves
@Michael-zi3kk He shouldn't have done it, period. Self-harm isn't a good thing.
However, I've witnessed and felt the effects of s*icide either among my family peers or friends enough to understand what goes on in their heads at the time before they do it.
Typically, their minds think of it as the most "logical" choice, seeing no other way out besides that. Maybe, for the father, his logic was that his death would give his son a demented sense of peace. (Or more or less karmic revenge/satisfaction) He was wrong.
@@Blurgamer17 I completely agree with you it's always wrong and nobody should ever do it they should think about the people who still care about them and how many people are going to hurt by doing that and regardless of the reason they want to do it they shouldn't do it and they should get help immediately
@Michael-zi3kk biggest problem with the victims who successfully attempted is that they are often left alone at the wrong moment.
My mother recently had to manage her team through a neighboring team members s*icide (worked in the same building but worked for a different agency [civilian contract vs defense force worker]), and one of her employees fully shut down during the day. She knew that this person, who wanted to go home, couldn't be left alone due to emotional reasons, so she called the workers' mother to take them home. This way, that person was monitored.
This is the biggest issue. Being alone is deadly for a s*icidal person, as there's nobody who could save you from a potential attempt.
I still don’t know why when some women who false accused innocent man gets a slap on the wrist while those innocent man guess a punishment that they don’t even deserve those women just gets away with it like nothing happened. That makes me mad till this day.
wow his dad took a big L lmao. off yourself is such a coward move
So.. His life is ruined. The stepmother just got disinherited and sent off, with no other real punishment. The son was arrested. His girlfriend left him. The school expelled him. His friends turned away from him. Sure, the father 'felt bad', after not believing the son that went the extra mile..
All it takes is a woman and one lie, and a man's life is ruined..
Stepsister should honestly be in jail.
You're lucky he came back to you at all and didnt just abandon you like you did him.
The only thing parents who believe accusations like this with no evidence deserve is "you chose your side" and nothing more.
Cruel? Not nearly enough.
They dont deserve a second chance after not even giving you a second thought.
I remember this story, but thanks to TH-cam been as trash as always it got deleted. Glad to hear from the son and that he managed to leave for a better life. I agree the father sugar coated the story so he could look more sympathetic. What gets to me is that the step daughter got away with murder and the supposed to be inheritance that she might be removed doesn't mean anything. She can get back into the inheritance if the parents are weak enough and she tires them with the enough lies and tears. Also the court system today is just as trash as TH-cam and Google so you only need a judge that uses the orders in the inheritance as toilet paper to clean his behind and give everything to the step daughter.
Honestly OP should try to stay in Japan if his new family has it good over there. Maybe get a good job or open a business. Heck maybe both ... Anyway good to listen to his side and hope that his new post gets a TH-cam video.
When the son said his father ended it, does it mean he killed himself?? This is sad.
Yeah, he ended himself 😞
pretty cowardly move of him though, he expects to be forgiven so fast after he messed up his sons life.
Not sad, just pathetic
The only sad thing about this story is what the son went through.
@@SecretVoices25so not only he is a failure as father but he is a coward as well
The part that confuses me is how the post of the parent's perspective is the outright admit that the person who got accused was one of the kindest people they knew or whatever. But I'm like if that's the case then why are you so quick to believe those allegations despite knowing full well that this would be completely out of character for them?!
This was in hindsight after he realized what had happened.
@@theawickward2255 oh i understand thank you
God this is so awful, what the hell was going through that man's mind when he sent his own son to jail. Your own son. You have to FIGHT, until someone proves your child a monster you have to FIGHT for them. Without proof that man should have protected his son and shunned his daughter and if it cost him that step family then so be it. This might be the most tragic reddit story ive read
Good on the Japanese gal who didn't give up on him. She seems like the hero in this story.
She and her family trusted and loved him more than his actual father
But I think it's funny to report the son and send him to prison but not to find the stepdaughter interesting Because she has committed several crimes, false accusations, deprivation of liberty with perpetrators everywhere and a few more but she is not immediately sent to jail, more interesting Father
I played the game "Among Us" for about a year, and I realized how easy it can be for a person to be falsely accused, and how important it is to look beyond that initial claim.
The other thing I will say is that the families don't seem to understand, this action is not like closing a door that can be easily opened back up. It is more like burning the house down and then expecting it to some how be magically rebuilt just by saying "I'm sorry". It doesn't work that way. Betrayal does serious (possibly catastrophic) damage that takes years (or decades, or entire lifetimes, possibly more than one) to heal.
Make a sincere apology, do your best to atone for your mistake (knowing that you probably can't) and then GTF out of the way so the person can heal.
I want to know how the step mom is now? Did she get over it? Already married to another? Already forgiven her daughter after ruining lives? Is she still guilty? Is she miserable? Does she hate her daughter still? Or has she forgiven her now? Im just really curious.
That's the most F'D up thing I have ever heard..... 😢
What a failure of a father.
I thought the son was the one that unalived himself not the father..could’ve sworn I saw an update a long time ago before the sons POV
I've seen this one with several contradictory updates and replies. Supposedly the son offed himself, dad offed himself, stepdaughter got charged, OP got divorced etc.
This one is definitely fake. Posted another response on this page as to why. Short version: the grammar and vocab are horrendous for a supposed Ivy League attendee, and there is at least one massively glaring inconsistency in the narrative.
Could it be that his English degraded over time after living in Japan for 5 years? I doubt it, though. If he still used the internet, he would likely still be in touch with it. I'm not sure if this is possible for a native speaker.
@@hemendraravi4787 At most you'd get a certain accent, addopt speech mannerisms. 5 years is not enough to make you forget anything about your native language at all, and certainly not when you're typing words instead of speaking them.
If stepsister never confess he probably would be in jail… or do jailtime…. Not thanks father!!
Forget banning the stepdaughter from your home!! She needs to be sued for defamation for how much she instigated.
I heard rumors that the son killed himself because of how much his life is ruined but I got no proof of that.
If anyone can confirm if it's true please do.
The dad ended up ended his life cous of guilt the son will still deep down know his step sister f his life up and his own dad didn't believe him the step sister should be reminded everyday that not only did her lie broke op and broke w father and son's relationship over a lie she should be reminded it's her fault her stepdad ended his life I surly everyday remind stepdaughter off her actions everyday Serval times a day off her actions
Antidepressants won't help. His life is over now.
Why would you just automatically believe your stepdaughter over your son
Metoo#
because waaaaahmen never bad. Naive men are just infuriating
The fact that he just believed her right off the bat just shows how much of an have a so-called father he was
Never betray the people who loves you.
This is another version of a different story. The first half is almost completely changed, while the second half is almost copied verbatim. The original post had the Sun be accused by his parents, but was taken in by the older sister. They found underwear in his room, which he categorically denied was used by him.
Some acts do not deserve to be forgiven. Your son should never have anything to do with you again. YOU called the police on him? For a lie.
For those wondering if that’s the extent of the dad’s betrayal, it’s not. The full post chronicles times the dad was forcing his son to confess before finding out the stepsister lied
It adds to the explanation as to why the father eventually took his own life. The extent of how horribly he betrayed his own son is equal to his horror of realization of how terribly he screwed up, the even deeper remorse & shame he felt when Redditors backlashed on him, and how his son’s final thrashing broke him into pieces.
The son may end up regretting his actions when he’s his father’s age.
>Pride and joy of his life
>Proceeds to accept that he is the worst kind of person, from literally one baseless accusation
Typical reddit parent.
Imagine calling your son the pride of your family and you believe your step daughter over your son terrible father
This is probs the saddest story ive ever heard from reddit
You ruined his life. Deal with it.
Sounds like the dad commited suicide, assuming that's what he meant when he said his dad "ended it" :shrug:
He couldnt. He offed himself.
I keep seeing on this comment thread that the stepdaughter didn't face any repercussions. There is one indirect consequence of her actions.
She lost her father. Her actions and stupidity ultimately led her to not only throwing away her brother, but inevitably drove her father to suicide.
Even if it was the fact that his apologies will never be enough and his son is gone, stepdaughter is the root, the source, of all this badness that drove him over the edge and into the pits of Hell.
She didn't lose her father. She lost her stepdad. She got sent to live with her actual father.
@@YourPal1 Still, she's gonna have to live with the fact that her actions indirectly killed someone who loved her dearly.
@@TheThunder115just because he cared for her doesn't mean she felt the same
Guess again. The lying little harlot ruined OP's life, drove her stepfather to delete himself, and wrecked a family. She is quite proud of herself, enjoying her best life, and having no lack of shits and giggles at everyone's expense. THIS is true female nature - THIS is the part that NEVER changes. Welcome to the wonders of half a century of feminazism.
After all these years it is wonderful to get an update to this story!
This is a horrible situation. The worst part is that if the father hadn't done anything, he would have been vilified for "not" believing the stepdaughter
Is kinda sad, the father traumatized so much that he don't want children
I"m curious why the step-sister did all this? Did she really get so scared that her parents would find out she was having sex that she pointed the finger at her own step-brother? There is something there that was not mentioned, but I guess we can only speculate. In the end though it doesn't matter. She got off way too easy.
I'm guessing parents are the type that say you can't have sex until marriage or until 18. Unless the stepdaughter was under 16 when she made the accusation. Whatever it is, seems like she just didn't want to get in trouble of having sex so she gets her parents to have their attention elsewhere so she wouldn't get caught.
@@YourPal1 And she ruined lives as a result. Just sad all around.
Or probably her partner was adult. She was protecting her boyfriend.
"Hes the pride and joy of my life" me:doubt
I have only made it to 2:15 you betrayed your child and you wouldn't even listen to him you and your wife are despicable horrible parents and I hope your stepdaughter goes to prison for filing a false police report
Classic overcompensation. Whether or not the stepmother was in any way informative of his decision, there is a pressure on step parents to be partial to the step-child for fear of being seen as treating them as less. It could have been true that his son abused that girl, but there was no evidence and he didn't even try to prove his innocence. Pathetic man. Must've typed this lying down because he clearly doesn't have a spine.
False allegations victims rarely get adequate justice let alone true justice.
I was falsely accused of racism but got a Asian girlfriend and I am a muscle bound Chad now
Still a racist from your lame sentence.
tbh, the parents were put in a horrible situation - it's an impossible choice to make who to believe. commenters support the son because they have the knowledge it was a false accusation. but how could the parents know at the time, really? if they didn't believe the daughter and she was really being hurt, then they'd also be monsters for letting the abuser get away with it and making her provide proof would re-traumatize her. damned if you do, damned if you don't. i have no idea how would i handle one of my children accusing the other of sa.
the only real monster was the stepsister who ruined her brother's life and destroyed every single relationship he had. how tf did it even make sense to accuse him? how did that accusation relate to her being intimate with her boyfriend? it wouldn't change anything if she was caught with her bf anyways...
I get your point, and I think we need a few more details, ie. did they ask stepdaughter any question like how long this has been going on or when the last 'attack' happened. Were there any witnesses. Things that they could use to verify the truth. If they did this and she gave plausible answers then their actions can be understood but if they did not then they have no one to blame but themselves.
hey, ok assume you have a son that you love and is accused of something serious what would you do A. ask him if its true B. Call the police on him and get him arrested and NOT EVEN BAIL him out, its sad that the dad in the post ended himself and fuck the step sis i hope this haunts her
@@JyyceKratohe is in a tight spot, even if his son said its not true, there was a chance he lied. we made judgment after knowing its FA, if stepsis was really SA and the father take his son's side, we would have blamed him so hard. Its a hard decision tbh.
@@nguri139 but you dont just abandon your own child you first ask them and then, by your logic anyone whos accused of rape should be thrown away but yeah it is
@@JyyceKrato "your own child" can lie to you as much as your stepchild can. Anyone who's accused are not automatically thrown into jail, there's always an investigation and then court hearing but sometimes innocent men falls prey to the incompetent prosecutors/detectives who want quick promotion. Also, this whole story is soooo fake.
She had no consequences only inheritance?
Simps make the worst dads
False accusations should land you the same punishment as if you did the crime yourself imo
Son's response post is a complete fabrication from someone capitalizing on the popularity of the first post. The author can say "well it's not" all they want. It's obviously not consistent with who the son was supposed to have been. He's supposed to be an ivy league attendee and has the grammar of a 14 year-old hick. eg. "Me and her got married" (She and I got married), confusing "asked" for "told" repeatedly. ie. "My dad told me where I was going" (My dad *asked* me where I was going), and bizarre word switches, like "ushered" when it should've been "uttered".
Other details just don't make sense. "Rukas's family didn't want my dad anywhere near me". Uh, no. That doesn't make sense, because later you say that none of them (except Ruka) knew about the false accusations. Why would they have felt so strongly if they had no clue? It's an obvious creative writing exercise, and a pretty crassly cynical one at that. I'm normally the guy defending the possibility of a post being real. And I have no way of stating the part the father wrote is fake. But the sons supposed response definitely is.
They doesn't make sense
@@VRDejaVu Fixed.
@@smallpseudonym2844 hum? I was pointing out how your comment is fake because you can't write for S.
@@VRDejaVu Ohh, so you're just a troll who doesn't understand that I wasn't claiming some high level of education and then having my writing be inconsistent with that claim. And also a troll who can't differentiate between a single slip and a consistent set of errors forming a pattern. Congrats, I guess?
Nevertheless, error fixed. That's what I get for assuming you were operating in good faith with your first response, though.
@@smallpseudonym2844 Damn, looks like a touched a nerve. I'm sorry if you get called on your BS logic so often that it triggers you this much. Still, it is a you problem. Maybe learn to deal with your own emotions before coming to a public forum.
Also, a single slip? Seriously?
"But the sons supposed response" Son's
"That doesn't make sense, because later" there is no place for a comma there
"eg." e.g
"ie." i.e, also it doesn't make sense where you used it
The 1st sentence of you last comment is supposed to have a "?" at the end for it to be grammatically correct.
Does this create enough of a "consistent set of errors forming a pattern." to you?
I still am on sons side, but it IS sad that the dad ended himself, its clear that he truly was sorry, :((((( but he already killed himself when he ditched his son
This is such a tragic story truly
"He is the pride and joy of my life"
Doesnt listen to his sons pleadings.
These AI stories are sure fun
The step mother and sister remain untouch
I would said that i would only forgive the father/step mon if he unalive the step sister
Then she would unalive and the father would be in jail making this the most fair ending
I'm usually gullible, but I think son's update is fake.
As I remember, father posted an update that his son unalived himself, but then deleted it with all the criticism directed at him because of what happened.
This is one of the worst ones because like... What are you supposed to do?
You are supposed to give cases like this to the police. Just blindly believing either side is a horrible idea (PS, almost every single parent of an awful kid says "they were the nicest kid you'd ever seen!!", so that isn't relevant), so you need to let the legal system handle it.
Why didn't they throw the sister in jail