Why Women Fall for Pirates and Vampires - Prof. Jordan Peterson
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- Psychology professor Jordan Peterson refers to the book “A Billion Wicked Thoughts” by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam and explains the fascination many women have with pirates, vampires, werewolves, surgeons and billionaires.
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I love that thumbnail btw.
Thank you!
the clue is in the words.. 'thoughts' and 'fantasy'.. the werewolf is not a real man. It is the animal energy required for fucking that is the turn on. The nice guy she lives with doesn't make her heart race. Why don't guys ever get this.
Psyche Matters I love your video's. They are amazing.
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One word:
Wattpad.
Finally! Someone!
Thank you I was searching for this and I’ve never been more proud
Yep
Okay।। I am Wattpad reader too..
Ooof it's allll from waattpad folks! AAAH that website produces trash content jeesh
Vampire: Mysterious masculinity (in the dark, unexpecting, cunning)
Werewolf: Animalistic masculinity (primal alpha, pack leader, strong, fierce)
Billionaire: Status masculinity (living the high life, luxury, comfort, assurance)
Pirate: Adventurous masculinity (fear no danger, break the rules, dream seeker)
Surgeon: Intellectual masculinity (precise, dependable, trustworthy, between life and death)
You summed it up perfectly. I love vampire, werewolf, and billionaire romance and this describes why. It's not so much an ego thing as finding these types of masculinity very attractive.
you´re so right
Pretend is not right😂😂😂😂😂
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Masculinity is the common factor here and I agree. Nothing’s more sexier than a masculine man who is bad to others but cares for her lady.
I love that billionaires and surgeons are listed among pirates, werewolves, and vampires
Yep. Success and Danger directed at the woman in a positive way is the key to the female fantasy. Billionaires and Surgeons are the epitome of success trait in the minds of many. Who doesn't want to marry a doctor or have a billionaire jet you around the world in the lap of luxury?
Billionaires are risk takers with disposable income and surgeons are dangerous because they literally hold life in their hands
That’s the money factor. Women in to varying degrees want fancy and shiny things.
Women are much more likely to pick the rich, obnoxious, douche canoe man than the one who would actually treat the woman with respect and love.
Sometimes, women are their own worst enemies.
Yeah surgeons are one of the leading jobs for sociopaths
@@stephentrash8579I can't blame em. You have to become that to operate... I used to be a cleaner and I tell you, I've cleaned up some nasty shit(literally)
“you’re actually blushing, that’s very funny” is one of most favourite quotes
Yes indeed lmaooo
Imagine the mingled embarrassment and bragging rights you get out of being that one girl in Dr Jordan Peterson's lecture
And who even quotes that?
@M J Why the heck would such a bot exist? What would be the point of that? To bully people?
@@fafka1445 Yes.
@@fafka1445 me
Twilight: one young woman's choice between bestiality and necrophilia
😂😂😂
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Also almost pedophilia, Edward is a couple hundred years old whilst Bella is barely legal
Underrated comment
A bestiality who's also a pedophile! Hahaha
Did you know that if you whisper, 'Dominance hierarchy,' into a mirror three times Jordan Peterson will appear and clean your room?
lmao
Hahaha 😆
Close, but what he'll really do is provide a 45 minute explanation for why you ought to clean it your damn self!
@@rizu4044 roughly speaking
Na, he will probably tell *me* sternly to clean my room through the mirror.
As an engineering student, this makes me proud of my kind and hopeful that my studies might actually contribute to society at large!
Then you should realise that his interpretation on the given data is false
@@user-zu6ts5fb6g I am curious about how you come to that conclusion?
@@ismarchew42 He is essentially looking at a subset of data on a very specific group of women, then goes on to claim that all women crave the same as that specific group
@caprice.t Yes, but the title suggests that all women are like that. Not only is the title misleading but looking through the comments people are taking this information as if it is absolutely correct. He generalizes his analysis beyond just this group. The overall message of this video is therefore meaningless.
@@user-zu6ts5fb6g glad to see someone with a very valid counter point to the video! It's sad seeing all these people resorting to denying facts and namecalling.
As an 18 girl, I think there's a lot of relationships where the "I can fix him" mentality can be really detrimental. It's one thing to want to "fix" your partner, and another thing to want what's best for him, you might not always know what that is, but it's important to try and help him to figure that out.
Though I totally do get the appeal of helping your partner become a better man, but it's important to grow alongside him
Agreed. Growing allong side your partner is the healthy way. But through both books, movies and series I notice that the “I can fix him” mentality is literally being pushed onto women. It’s always the guy not being able to behave or is incredibly dangerous to the people around him but only that one special woman can stop him and calm him down. Making girls/woman believe that that is their job (taming the beast) :/
Btww is that Kieran in your pfp 👀
YES haha i love PH, even if the main romance has the exact dynamic that this vid is discussing @@choxo.v260
Yeah and in most of the contemporary literary stuff the love interest doesn't actually fix him, the love interest becomes part of the toxic protagonist world and has to navigate the consequences of being with him
Is like a hot romance story that always ends badly, like anna karenina for example, it was made to actually lecture women of the time of the dangers of not conforming to societal expectations of the time
One thing a man cant stand is a woman who wants to change him. Instant disaster
Hey ladies, I'm a werewolf vampire billionaire pirate surgeon. How you doin?
does your pirate hat fall off when you transform into a wolf?
also does your howling sound like AWRRRRRRRR or more like a traditional wolf?:D
Me panties are so moist now o_o Imma reada sexa boi >;3
@bookmarkthis They certainly like humor
Server 333, that made me cry!
Melo Boy
Genius! 🤣
*When you show up to a first date with vampire fangs and an eyepatch on.*
The eyepatch thing is ok, cause you can pretend that you are an actual pirate. But the vampire fang thing is not cool, cause everybody knows vampires don't really exist.
@@puppyaids6937 or do they
Should be a fun halloween costume
@@puppyaids6937 that's just what the vampires want you to think...
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As a lady, for me, its not the being dominated or taming a beast thing...its the world. The adventures, the magic, the danger a world like theirs can give. Normal life is dull for most people. Being in a world with Pirates, vampires, or werewolves is exciting and different. Same thing with elves...not traditionally masculine, beasts to be tamed, or dominating. Lots of ladies just loving the difference of a fantasy world and having a man to be with within that world. You remove the special worlds these men come from or the secret worlds they exist in within our own and you get what? Greg the vampire that works in accounting and only feeds on the weekends...not a lot of ladies, if any, will thirst over that. Even the fantasy of being with a billionaire is fueled by what money like that can open up for you. The fashion, travel, status. Its erotic escapism. We just go from daydreaming about prince charming to something with a bit more edge and sexiness as we get older.
So women want to live in childlike fantasies and cannot handle the realism actual men give them.
Being in that world is also filled with drama and b.s. no thanks.
THIS. this it it.
Wait, that's a p*rn?
Wow this was brilliant and um reassuring as a man. Thank you. I wish the girls and guys in my country had your kind of brain. Would be a hell of a lot more interesting to talk to.
I think the whole concept of women wanting to "tame" a man is actually about their egos. Women sleep with players because they want the ego boost of making him settle down and stop sleeping with other women. If a woman can get a hot man who can sleep with anyone he wants to choose only her then that implies that she is better than everyone else. It's all about validation
"Want you to make me feel like I'm the only girl in the world" - Rihanna
Not ALL about validation, though that may be part of it. There are serious consequences to a mate sleeping around with other partners. He could bring home diseases to you and the children, he could spend the family's money that is needed for food/housing/medicine wooing someone else, and he could cause a divorce or child support payment to come out of his take home pay. All these are very real threats to a mom who is depending on a partner to help her raise the kids.
Both want dominance.
@@purrfection2208 I dont understand what you mean
@@lazygam3r183 if you wish to change someone then you are trying to establish dominance over them. "I tamed the beast".
Telling someone who's blushing that they're blushing does nothing but make them blush harder
that's half the fun lol also love the channel name!
@@sorrowdusk5068 Yours is pretty awesome too
@@freezysyahz thx, I made it for an oc, it's super cringe but now it's just stuck with all my internet stuff, names cool, the reason is just embarrassing.
Just one word WATTPAD
He knows.
One of the terrible side effects of blushing is someone telling you... you're blushing. Oh god.
But it's soooo cute, for men and women alike
A Saul I don’t know, some people only get red cheeks but when you become a big sweaty tomatoe head I don’t think it’s cute anymore lol
@@simon6495 i can get so red that people actually think they need to help me when im just shy and blushing. Thats the worst shit ever i rather get made fun off in the moment than having multiple people being scared for my health 💀
Yeah I'm surprised he didn't know that. Or worse, did, yet still put her on the spot
Lucky for me my skin is dark enough to hide most of it.😅😂
As a male my fantasy is a government that would just leave me alone with my liberty.
Well said bro
Damn commies wanna take my freedom
@@zyzzbandicoot 😂😂😂🤝
My girl definitely "tamed" me, I was going nowhere good in life. Constantly fighting, drugs, alcohol and involvement in crime. She saw the little good that was in me and taught me how to make that who I was, taught me to to be a better person and I am grateful for everything she did for me. I still have my vices but she without a doubt saved me from becoming the worst version of myself
Most people take it as an insult to be "tamed" because it proves that something is wrong with them, nobody wants to admit thier flaws.
I think it's a little egoistic to want to tame someone but it's also kind of beautiful, seeing something good in something "bad".
@@annrosentiaCause tame has an almost negative connotation to it. People tend to look at it as emasculating or submission
New fanfic idea
That's a very rare situation, but I'm glad in your case the outcome was a good one.
Lord love you and bless you lad. That's tough
I love how Peterson has no problems laughing at people, but its never truly mean spirited
I sense some kind of guilt in his laugh, almost like he worried that the girl will be ashamed..
That's coz he's approaching the concept with the aim to finding the truth out and not because it could make people offended.
Being offended at a factual statement is just stupid.
Primordial Pete so when someone calls you ugly you aren't offended?
@@lastigesoma6126 Not if it is the truth and they have a proper empirical reason to call me so.
@@PrimoPete I don't know. "Stupid" implies some kind of culpability. You can choose how you respond to something, but emotions, generally, are natural. So, for example, you cannot help if someone makes you mad, but you can choose how to respond. Calling someone 'stupid' for being offended seems stupid in itself. No offense.
I’m surprised mafia king isn’t one of them
Right?
I think billionaire will cover that ..
I was also thinking about the same thing
no honey, this one is exclusive for wattpad
Prison Mike who started the fire?
I just sent this to my girlfriend because it's so spot on. She casually jokes about marrying for money first and love second, she was crying while watching Grey anatomy last night, and we've seen all the twilight movies together. I always talk to her about JP and now she's finally going to witness his brilliance lol
Dude, run away from there. No one "casually jokes" about marrying for money...
@@huracan200173Of course you can joke about smt you don't think is good or bad.For example I don't want to have a relationship before I have my own money and financial independence but I joke every time about this topic
@@huracan200173people joke like that all the time. I don't know why it's such a horrible joke. Men have literally joked about way worse. Also why do so many guys hate that women consider money when dating...money is a huge part of dating and marriage? So ofc a woman wants a man who is financially stable. The same way a man wants a woman who is attractive. Like this is just biology
@@aenlainaknoa you know why we use humor in life? We use to tell uncomfortable truths. There's always some true in what the humorist says, and that's in part why we find it funny. Don't say you weren't warned afterwards...
Don't listen to the girls in the comments. If your girl comfortably jokes about marrying for money and stuff, your life will be miserable in the future. Every ounce of your energy will be spent on making sure that her demands are met. That's not a good thing. Leave her and find a better class of women.
"There's no fun in taming someone who's already tame ... plus when chaos manifests itself, what makes you think someone tame is going to be good for anything."
We're always told that women want a man they can fix or tame, I'm not sure that's really the draw. The draw is finding a man who has the capacity to be aggressive and dangerous enough so that you know they can protect you and your family, while also knowing they love and admire you enough to never use those powers directly on you.
Bam. You got it right. But when you're searching for porn, the story has to be a bit more concise lol
Lol. You just described 'taming'. Dangerous, but directed according to your desires.
Exactly! What do you mean women wanna tame and fix problems? like i dont want a hobo w drug issues, wtf?
No. They want animals. They are turned on by animals copulating. There are tens of millions single mothers, they only want an untamed brute, not husband. They want to breed, not to have family. Stop glorifying those animals.
True. But that's the lie. If a person is capable of harming one person, they are capable of hurting you in that same way too. And they more than likely, eventually, will bc the newness will end at some point.
As a wattpad veteran, I can confirm.
Veteran💀
😂😂
You know if I haven't gotten edicted to wattpad stories by myself, I wouldn't have believed it, you know 😏
Yeah for sure 😌
LOL SAME. Although I'd say tastes have changed!
I could listen to this man give lectures for hours and hours.
"Hello. My name is Aleister. Originally, I was a man. A man who helped to deliver children into this world. But, one fateful night, in a war ravaged land, my life and existence changed drastically. I was called upon to deliver the child of a soldier who was called to battle. His wife, a young woman of no more than twenty-five, was in labor when I arrived in their small cottage. I tried my best, as any man of medicine would. However, even though the woman survived, as well as the newborn girl, the hemorrhaging had an unforeseen effect. Little did I know, this woman was secretly in love with another being. A being of darkness. One who had set the transformation in motion before the labor began. The vampirism was in her blood. And, by contact with it, I myself became a creature of night. This is my tale.".
"Of course females are more complicated and thats no wonder because their lives are more complicated". Really intruguing statement, I wish he said more on that.
Periods, Pregnancy, Menopause, Cramps... Back pain... Periods...
@@AlyssMa7rin i think curiosity of female condition is obvious female advantage and disadvantage compared to males, which makes men wanting to use them and control them at worst, and females to manipulate them.
Women have to get their lives together sooner on order to create the life that they want. Especially if they have the desire to have a family...we have a time limit that men dont have. Therefore, we have to be educated, find a decent job, find a decent man that we would be willing to have children with, and be financially stable enogh....all before the age if 35.
Deb D not to mention we have to worry about not being kidnapped, raped or killed just for being a woman.
@@Ki11P0P1 yes....everyone has worries about their safety. .the world is most certainly not a safe place. We are our only defense against predator s in the world.
I love it when he said “Social scientists would never do that but engineers have no issue with it” 😂
1:58 i didn't catch the comicallity of it until you pointed it out.
but i am a female engineer 😁
that's totally the kind of data analysis dissertation a guy would do though. 😂
Sociologist : NO YOU CAN'T JUST DO THAT IT IS UNETHICAL
Engineer: I Forgot the part where it is my problem
@@mickolesmana5899 underrated!
Why?? I'm interested tho' not an engineer.
Wish I had that algorithm accesss
This is probably the cause, why engineers (and natural-scientists) play a much greater role in the further development of mankind than social scientists. In a world with only social-scientists we would still worship the moon and argue about how many genders there are and which pronouns we have to address them with.
As a woman, its definitely true that many women are drawn to the idea of taming monsters. Masculinity at its most extreme is pretty monsterous. Women are drawn to that as it is through nature but we also need to make sure the monster is redeemable to some extent for our own safety, comfort, and fulfillment. Also a monster that is tame only with us is the highest level of protection we could have. It also helps us feel special. Its layered. Basically be a beast but with self control and show your softest sides only to her to trigger her nurture programming and also stroke her vanity...and bam she is hooked for life. 😂 unless you found a really crazy one.
I wonder if this is why equestrians like to have a big well-hung stallion between their legs.
Imagine being in one such classroom with him teaching you in this way, i would surely top the class, no wonder why psychologist and neurologists are so well read and different from other people
"there's nothing more sexy than a werewolf, apparently"
Bradford Dean "roughly speaking", oh god now I'm thinking of erotica written in the style of Petersonisms!
.....in a dog-eat-dog world.
Bradford Dean a blood thirsty vampire, who only craves your blood, apparently
It's true. A Werewolf Gangbang is the most erotic situation you can be in.
Vladimir Tepes you are trolling wrong people
Leave it to engineers to figure this out. "It's for science I swear"
We are still all connected!!! In Jesus Christ name!!! AMEN!!!
@@godshardtruth7488 Uh.... what...?
Also WHAT!!?
It’s all in the name of science I tell ya!! XDDD
Madonna is all 5 monsters rolled into 1!
Im not taking notes i swear
I like his last statement: "females are more complicated, and it's no wonder, their lives are more complicated" -- amen!
Only because women complicate everything so ofc your life will be more complicated.
I’m only partially being sarcastic.
I don't think it's about aggression at all, rather it's about power. You get someone powerful on your side, they will protect you and ensure your comfort. All mentioned are just different types of power.
LOL he called that girl out
An later president trump entered the room an grabbed her attention.
That's a weird name for pussy.
You can do anything... Grab them by their attention
Lmao
Plot twist it was a guy
"There's nothing sexier than a werewolf... ApPArEntLY"
it's ok, professor, it's ok.
He's just sad that list doesn't have a professor in it lmao jk
@@_reutlinger Remus Lupin be walking on both sides
@@cecilianoda8510 haha yeah
@@_reutlinger He actually missed that, there's a lot of of Professor and student prohibited romanticism.
@@yourmum69_420 werewolves kink are like half furries
I have always been a fan of a good werewolf or vampire romance and I definitely still get drawn in by the level of masculinity they bring. But honestly has I have gotten older, and I am only early 20s mind you, I have realized how much I personally don't want that sort of relationship. I married a man who did not fit into the "needs to be tamed" category because I discovered I wanted to be with someone who wouldn't induce a heart attack by acting out rashly out of protectiveness or just sheer passion. I married a guy who would act but with more thought to his actions and how they could impact our life together. What I am saying is no matter how attractive men that take care of the problem, or get aggressive can be, I myself am way too independent and practical minded of a female to want that outside of a book lol. My man doesn't need to change for me, we will both adapt as necessary.
Did you like twilight? I found that insufferable!
How boring.
Such a brilliant teacher!
I'm gonna write a romance between an innocent sweet debutant and a vampire werewolf billionare pirate surgeon. It's gonna make billions!
You could make him travel through time and be the different forms, but be the same person at heart. Would be an interesting read.
@@regularity2556 Gonna be complicated. We all know there’s gotta be at least 12 main characters. Like she’s gonna stick with him when there’s so many other options out there? Pfft now that’s a fantasy.
Hahaha smart
Lmao
its been 6 months. Where is the novel
it’s a fantasy no one wants in real life but it’s fun to experience it in fiction without being harmed
Yeah. Like getting stabbed in the gut with a sword. Awesome on paper! not so awesome IRL...
Cookie Di Angelo my stomach hurts now :(
yep... no one wants in real life surgeon or bilionar ! xDD
I definitely do want a vampire bf though
real talk.
It’s cool that he doesn’t just educate but takes time to learn and more over finds instrumental lessons like Google searches (meaning he is curious about the right kinda things in my Opinion:)
I'm 32 and Australian.... I still have some of these explicit romance novels I found as a teenager 😅 thank you for the insight
Like watching these videos but would hate to be in that classroom when he's staring into your soul for 20 seconds while talking about sex.
Jesus Christ LMAO right???
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Hahahahaha
i would love that specifically
Sarah Bean 🤣😂🤣
When he said, “you’re actually blushing.” I was like... How can he see my face??!!!
It was you??
Jonnejen jonne no I was just blushing at the same part that the girl was blushing when he called her out.
May i ask: As a women, what do you think about this video? Do you agree?
Myst Platinum Personally, yes.
I'm curious on which personality made you blush, I'm guessing it was the vampire or the pirate
Good content. Always happy with your work
My favourite 5 minutes of stand up anywhere! The Marge Simpson gargle of his voice only adds to the titillation. Then he finally says, "Surgeons, werewolves and vampires", and the punchline connects.
Guffaw.
For a second I misread the title as "Why Jordan Peterson falls for pirates and vampires" and it intrigued me enough to watch thr video lmao
You know its not true right?
Ahahahahahahahahahaahahahahhaha
😂😂😂😂😂
I'm dead lmfaooo
I generally think that woman just want to feel special to insure that their partner will stay with them .And if you are the "only person" that can "tame a beast" that makes you feel special.
Yeah.
Everyone wants to feel special.
@َ َ It is. Biologically speaking a woman is programmed to desire protection and stability as its most beneficial to ensuring her DNA successfully continues.
Who wants to tame a beast, when you can be the beast?
@@FirstNameLastName-wt5to My DNA says that I search for a sweet soft girl or boy to protect, love and play with, because I'm an alpha tomboy 🐺
Very sorry, but your "scientific" sources are wrong, Nature spoke aloud when she made me.
Every single Jordan Peterson video is better than the one before. If there is a better professor on TH-cam I want to know who it is?
At the age of 15 my best friend was obsessed with Jude Devereaux romance novels. She had an entire bookshelf full of them.
When will Dr. Peterson realize professor is also one of the fantasies...
Hahahahahahahahahhaha
Is this actually true? Because i dont think so
Professor, my grades are down and might not pass the course, how can I make it up to ya..*lip bite*
@bokudensuduharagmail i know about teachers but thats not Professor! Professor is not sexy at all, you just imagine a old man there
@bokudensuduharagmail well now im truly surprised damn, you know to be a real Professor you need many years, means you get pretty old and i tought its a old man fantasy rather then a Professor fantasy
"Literary vampire pirate billionaire surgeons!" - Alex Jones
TURNIN THE FRIGGIN VAMPIRES GAY
With mr. Jones being the wife-beater type.
I literally just spat out some of my meal. lmao.
Brilliant, thank you! :D
Literary Vampire/Werewolf hybrid, billionaire, pirate, surgeon. FTFY Alex.
No one asked, but I'm here to explain the vampire one in more detail. I don't think it's as weird or shallow as it seems on the surface 😅
It's important to note that women don't typically like *evil* vampires who are actively killing people. Women like *good* vampires. Whether we're talking about Twilight, Buffy, or any of the thousands of other vampire stories out there, women like noble vampires who willingly choose to abstain from human blood.
I think this is because the bloodlust vampires feel is a thinly veiled metaphor for sexual lust (or possibly any addictive sin). In other words, a vampire who can control his desire to drink blood is a man who can control his sexual desire. A good vampire represents a man who is strong enough to resist temptation and rise above his nature in an effort to protect others.
In my opinion, this is the primary reason the idea of vampires appeals to women (especially the more traditionally-minded variety). Good vampires are men with morals and values. They have the power to hurt others but they choose against it. They don't give into selfish, carnal pleasures at the expense of others, no matter how powerful the temptation may be.
Bonus: vampires usually live a long time (because they're immortal), so over the years, they've acquired wisdom, intelligence, and life experience. They're old souls. They're emotionally mature. They're civilized and refined. They typically come from an earlier time when chivalry was the norm. That gentlemanly nature seems to linger within them.
The bottom line: vampires represent the female desire for men who can control their actions even in the face of strong temptation, have life experience and maturity, and behave like gentlemen. The interesting thing is that these are completely attainable goals for any regular guy (or girl--I'm trying to work on some of these things myself), and I'm thankful to know many real men who exemplify these qualities beautifully.
In fact, I'm blessed to be dating my very own "noble vampire." 😉
The abstain from blood bit isnt really right as abstaining kills them often women are ok with becoming vampires in those stories. For example I just checked the girl from twilight became a vampire I don't think I got past the 2nd movie or even the 1st. Many vampires also have castles Can Grant immortality to their partner and are hunted by vampire hunters. With a vampire it's considered good enough if they don't kill those they suck blood from
@@monkeymanwasd1239 Abstaining from blood doesn't kill them in any of the vampire stories I've heard of. Not in Twilight, Buffy, etc. They live forever regardless of whether they drink blood or not. And yes, in Twilight, Bella becomes a vampire but she never once tastes human blood. She chooses to become a good vampire just like the one she fell in love with. So yes, it still applies.
@@KylieMalchusArt The vampires I know can survive months or years without drinking blood but that's usually when they're in a coffin dried up into husks before they go off to murder several towns of people
What if i bite ur neck?
This is probably one of two or three comments best answers this question. This and the "we just love fantasy, think of elves" rebuttal.
... I don't know guys, you can listen to Jordan all you want, but I just don't get why you wouldn't ask women themselves directly if you really wanted to know why.
Although I do so appreciate your work, and value it highly. Would absolutely love to speak at length sometime. Thank you for the work that you do
This must be why girls like horses. A wild beast she can tame and ride around on.
great observation
This really makes sense . Thank you for this comment
That may be part of it, but there is also the power issue. Being able to control a horse gives the woman a feeling of power and control, nothing wrong with that. We all want to feel powerful and in control of our lives.
You're enjoingly disturbed
You mean Hoof
"I was reading this book called A Billion Wicked Thots"
😂
Brilliant
Dont know this has not gotten more likes ???
Underrrrrated!
How is this so fucking underrated
I literally just got recommended this and I feel extremely called out
Makes perfect sense, literature allows your mind to control how graphic a scene is.
I love how he pronounces “werewolf” like it’s the past tense of “arewolf”
Canadian accent
How is it pronounced then?
I'm Spanish and I think I also pronounce it like that :0
@@sakura5sango6 usually you'll hear people pronounce it like "where-wolf"! Interesting, I never thought people would have different regional pronunciations for the word "werewolf"
@@daphne-bai some people dont pronounce the R other dont pronounce the F. Depends on your accent.
@@daphne-bai Me neither, to be honest.
Though, as I said, it's not like noticed it haha ^^
Thanks for the info
Interesting that it includes "surgeon" as one of the 5, but if you think about it, it really makes sense. In order to compete in the medical field at such a high level, and to continue doing so, requires an exemplary degree of effort and complex action, which is an abstract of aggression. But where's the danger? What makes a surgeon as deadly as a vampire or pirate? Well, ultimately... perhaps more so than even a pirate, a surgeon literally has the power of life and death every single day... with one cut, they can save a person's life, or they can end it.
Too psycholgysts says many suegeons hace psychpath tendencies, manty are persons who like to rip people, and chose to earn $ through it.
I think they just thought than a lady writting "hot surgeon" was looking for her fantasy and not for the actor in a tv series
That is interesting
How does the billionaire fit in?
@@adamnesico Kinda makes sense. Let's face it, it's not really "normal" to go playing in someone's body, we do it for good, obviously, but it's not something everyone could do
Thank goodness for engineers and Jordan.
When I was like 20~ I loved reading books and I also favoured the 'bad guys', vampires and werewolves. I also questioned why I felt drawn to them and why alot of other women do too. And I think I found an answer that sounds plausible and right to me.
I think those bad guys represent things that a lot of women dont have. They represent what some women long for, what might bring balance.
Since young age, I and a lot other girls are taught to behave, be calm, show good manners, be empathetic, be good at school, do this, do that, in fact: be a good girl and you'll get praised. I know so many that grow up this way into adulthood. And if you happen to also be a shy girl, books can be an escape from this situation, this world, in which you feel like everything you are and will be is decided by someone else.
And then you meet those characters, the bad guys, the vampires, the werewolves. They represent all that: Independence, power, being unapologetic, free, wild, adventurous, special, being egoistical. Thats what (I think) a lot desire about those men. They want what they dont have .
I think it's more a 'only soft for her' kind of thing. Throughout history, females have not been very dominant, so having power over someone who has a lot of power is kind of, well, empowering. Knowing that you can influence someone to that level, where he didn't listen to anyone before you came along, it makes you feel special.
Even I consider the idea romantic, even thought I know, rationally speaking, that someone who is only nice to someone just because he's in love with her, is a bad partner to have.
Well what makes u think that a powerless being can control a powerful being with lust?? Powerful men know this fact very well and thats what makes them uncontrolable
@@jvjoon4333 I don't think that, exactly. But story wise, it makes kind of sense, doesn’t it? It's not about reality here, it's about novels and tropes and the psychological thought behind those tropes. It's where the whole Female Fatale thing partly stems from. Woman do not have power, but they are pretty. Men are strong, but everyone knows they are weak to a pretty face.
Besides that, isn't the whole idea of love- or at least, the most mainstream love- the idea of doing whatever you can for your partner, lust and seduction put aside?
@MimiBabe Right! Fiction is fiction for a reason. In reality, this is an immense red flag. Not only is your safety and wellbeing directly related to how much they like you- which means he decides enough is enough when you're living togheter or married, you're trapped, cruel people seldom or never see themselves as cruel. They see themselves as right. Which means they can still be in love with you and, in the moment you don't show your boundaries clearly enough, run over them like a freight train.
This trope of "he's only nice to her but awful to everyone else" is pretty egotistical in itself since it involves the feeling of being "special". It's never genuine love. Moreover real-life relationship dynamics like this always end up in some screwed up situation of a guy so obsessed he'd end up killing the girl because of some petty thing.
@@jvjoon4333 Many powerful men have fallen from grace and standing in their circle for love of a woman.
Jordan Peterson:
"That aggression is absolutely vital -- absolutely necessary"
Me:
So that's why Padmé wasn't turned off when Anakin slaughtered all the sand people
"They're like animals, and I slaughtered them like animals!"
Padme was not human
Hey man, it's not politically correct to call Tusken Raiders "sand people", lol 😉
Probably turned her on. “Oh Ani you so bad.”
Not just the men, but the women and children too!
I’ve only watched a few of his videos, but his Canadian is in overdrive on this one.
Thank you Jordan for pointing out my weak spots for Dwarven Kings, which you mistakenly left out, Elven Kings, whom you also forgot about, pirates like Capt Jack, and vampires in the vein of Gary Oldman’s Dracula. I’m laid bare but really have no intention of taming any of them!!
cause you know you can't
@@ozguraydn8407 wym?
To be fair, Orlando Bloom made a beautiful elf back in the day.. 😂
That triangle he makes with his hands is perfect. That’s what I took out of this video
Trying to give a hit🧐🧐🧐
#GOD'S HARD TRUTH what
@@crankyanker2682 😔😔😔
Yes lol I was impressed also. Does that make him part of the Illuminate ?
He's a secret Tutter.
If i can explain from a female perspective, theres something attractive about a male who has the capacity to be scary, tough, sexy (with lots of female options) BUT reigns it all in for you, and chooses you. That a woman would be worth being a better person for.
Unfortunately today very few women are actually worth it and if they manage to "tame you" you are now boring and they move on. As a male you must always be on edge to keep her interested which is just not worth the effort. As we can see from todays society women are way more easily influenced than men are and this smut has possibly caused irreversible damage to a generation of women.
@@mikolas4eva Also, she brings nothing but red flags to the table
yep, some milquetoast who is born soft and stays soft cannot protect you. they can provide sure but I don't want a servant, I want a fighting partner. Like peterson says, you're virtuous when you can bite back but choose to control it; you're just fucking weak if you cannot fight back, there is no virtue in that. It's great to hear him say stuff like that, gets me back in touch with a more realistic view of life that I once had back in East Asia. Western ideas are so god damn skewed and somewhat backwards - only celebrated as forward because it is loudest and widespread just because of economic dominance and its colonial past. And right? the loudest guy isn't necessary the best. Can you imagine how much eldritch knowledge is lost just because those people were not popular enough to be listened to? Just because people were not ready to hear it?
@@censoringcensor8433 you had me at betacuck 😂
It's like an attractive and kind woman that doesn't dress slutty and keeps a distance from other men when she's with you. Awesome. Self control and respect at work
Dr. Peterson is the father a lot of us wish we had.
I love this video so much.
I wanna marry a Billionaire Werewolf Surgeon
What about a Vampire Pirate? :D
I want a harem of blonde nurses 😂😂😂😂
That's a good goal.
sorry, i'm taken.
A billionaire werewolf who is a surgeon, a surgeon who operates only on billionaire werewolves or a surgeon who is a billionaire and only operates on werewolves?
Commas nigga
Dont necessarily have to be one of those. Just have the traits displayed by them:
Surgeon: Caring, compassion
Vampire: Mysterious, lonesome
Pirates: adventurous, do whatever they want
Werewolf: big, hairy, primal
Billionare: rich, stability
I think for the vampire one it could also be about power, depending on the type of vampire of course. Like if vampires were real and they are basically human+ except they can’t touch daylight, if we had the choice we would rather be the hunter in that scenario than the prey.
All of the above: assholes
I think also…
surgeon: the best at what he does, highly intelligent, and driven.
Vampire: powerful, holder of knowledge, able to grant the fantasy of “together forever”
Werewolf: virility, caring - but in a masculine “I’ll take care of you” way, family-oriented
And honestly, all of them are meant to be quite intense.
How many surgeons have you known?
A doctor can be caring and compassionate....
Surgeons are very often ego driven narcissists. Which my dad once said he actually prefers in a surgeon.
Also, to be able to do what they do they have to be able to separate themselves from their empathy and humanity or they'd break. There's an inherent danger in doing that. Surgeons and first responders and people with those kinds of jobs that are traumatizing are a special breed.
This is more relevant than ever with smut being even more popular than ever it seems
You can add another one to this - princes. Women love princes as well. If you look at fantasy romances for women audiences the male leads are commonly princes.
And I can agree with what other comments have said, I like these types of characters because they make you feel special. I also get a strong sense of loyalty, like this person won't cheat on me or betray me, because I am special and they only love me. And of course, I'll only love them and be loyal too, it's like a fantasy of true love and happily ever after.
princes are the billionaires of the past
Women want someone strong enough to protect and provide for them but “tame” in her presence as to be caring to her and the kids. PRETTY SIMPLE
Edit: I’m talking biologically/subconsciously. Of course we should all provide for ourselves
Women should provide for themselves
@Joann Woolley its not really ignored at all
Good try, but don't even you know what you truly want.
She should be looking for someone to protect her and the children for these disgusting pedophile priests.
@@streameant For millennia and in some countries to this day, men wouldn't and won't let us be completely independent from them. Much less rise as high.
Dominance and angst. That’s why monsters are sexy.
In my experience though, “seducing and taming” isn’t so much the focus of such fiction and fanfiction. It’s more about being desired and pursued by someone more powerful (hence the dominance). And it’s about being emotionally supportive to that being (hence the angst).
You said it best, Lynette. Fictional alpha men who are tamed by a woman to the point of emasculation is not appealing. The point of the taming (when done well) is not just about the woman, it's about bringing happiness to the alpha. The end of Dirty Dancing, Johnny is still macho, even though Baby has tamed him. In fact, he's more emboldened by the end, standing up to the "rich and mean" employers that he grovelled to as a hot-headed Alpha.
What's attractive about angst?
@@Grail_Knight simple.. the drama. It makes for an interesting life; rather than boy meets girl they buy a semi detached in the countryside
@@abominableangel Why is it so important to be interesting? And what's so interesting about drama anyway? To me drama is the opposite of interesting cause it's so just repetitive. Why do people make such a fuss over nothing? Do they not feel loved? What's making them so desperate for contact?
@@Grail_Knight Peterson pointed that out. You want someone you can work on and someone that can work on you so you both get stronger. The point of an Relationship is to make everyone better and stronger.
I love the indirect slights he throws out at the social scientists with how engineers actually discover things by "plowing through " without regards to ethical bs
"Stand and deliver!"
So, what he's saying is, if you wanna make a relationship seem more fulfilling to a woman, you should initially feign a bunch of character flaws that you later pretend she helped you overcome
This made me Lol. It’s kind of a solid plan!
Lollllllll. Too funny 😂
Then once she tames you, she'll be like "You've changed. You're not the man I fell in love with."
Spot on! I had a friend, who used to pretend to be deeply flawed in front of girls and then would slowly tell them a fake story about why he has grown so cold (could be how a girl broke his heart or how he has a distant relationship with his father, or things like that and he had to build up a hard shield around himself) but around her he felt comfortable and felt could talk about anything at all! LOL
I can't believe it worked every time.
@@anuraktisharma3664 omg you just discribed the relationship I have with my dad! Started out great at 11 years I stood up to him got the beating of a lifetime at 15 years I was fed and fought back 1 year later he tried making contact and ask me for a chance to meet once again. I told him if he treats and respect my mother I'll meet with you after 2 weeks later he was back to his old ways..He was'nt the best dad but that situation truely did make me financially succesfull as a business owner in life!
The pirate thing is hilarious considering pirates during the golden age were scruffy, filthy, stinking, suffering from a variety of ailments with bad oral hygiene. The smell in sailing vessels of old would make you vomit, these were ships where people shat over the side. Fresh water was also a serious issue.
Today's East African pirates aren't much better.
Apparently you've never read the back cover of one of those books. It's the romanticized version of a pirate. Not the real version. All those books are women's fantasies. Reality destroys them
@@michelebroyles6941 That was my point. It's all fantasy bollocks.
@@michelebroyles6941 makes your sexuality and romanticism very inauthentic.
@@louiss4672 isn't that why people call it "fantasy" though?
I think it's more the pirate captain with flowing feathers attached to a glorious hat that women are attracted to, and the whole assertion of dominance when he yells at the crew to man their stations etc
That's what i think, bc no one wants a partner with rotting teeth
@1:08 He mentions "Harlequin novels" though Harlequin is a Canadian publisher not necessarily a certain type of novel. I think what he meant was just _pop_ _romance_ novels of which Barbara Cartland was a notable exponent. She published with various companies.
One of the few times i have seen Peterson smile. He should do that much more XD
"Vampires..." Damn. "Werewolves..." Damn. "Billionaires..." Double Damn. "Pirates..." Oh sweet Jesus. "And surgeons..." I'm screwed.
LOL! GOT AS GOOD LAUGH. SOME OF THIS IS A FACT, HERES TO THE MONSTER/MANLY GENTLEMEN👍
😂😂 best comment
i was like wait. surgeons? all of this and then surgeons? im screwed!
I think the archetype of a woman taming a man comes from a woman’s insecurity. Beauty doesn’t make you special - there are millions of beautiful women out there. But if you can be the one woman who tames a man - who stands by him despite all of the negative things - who makes him see the light - who makes him love you enough to be better - well THAT makes you special. That makes you indispensable to him in a way beauty and sex and even a regular relationship doesn’t. You’ll be the girl who saw the diamond in the coal, the prince in the toad, etc. and when he transforms you’ll have a man that appreciates all that you did for him when no one else would. And if you can make yourself indispensable to a man, then he will never leave you - then you’re safe and he’ll treat you well... At least, that’s what the fantasy is. Reality is often quite different.
It's a nice fantasy, I agree. But the irony is that an alpha male can only be temporarily "tamed" by any woman. Perhaps 5-10 years at most. If he is desired by many women he will always have options and distractions.
The fun thing is, it becomes a game between her wanting to tame the man, and the man using push-pull to always portrait the image that he might simply leave at some point. Many call this "Dread". Keeping the dread makes the woman always try to dominate you, because through dread you express exactly the opposite - you are so untaimed that you might go for someone else.
Some might say it can be borderline unethical to play around such things, as it may easily classified as manipulation, but I would argue that the opposite is also very real and can real to catastrophic failures. A completely tamed man gets boring really quick, and she might as well try to find someone more interesting to start this taming Journey back again.
Dam man, that's a good explanation! I think Jordan himself would enjoy reading that
I agree with most of your paragraph, but i disagree when you said women pick agressive men because of insecurity. Women are just naturally attracted to dominance, an Alpha male is makes a suitable mate.
Great comment
I love how he calls out the girl with the Pirate-Kink lol.
It's the flouncy sleeved shirts, bro
Men have been simping for mythical women like mermaids, sirens etc for ages.
I'm not exactly fond of females that like to cannibalise me after
I'm not a praying mantis Regina
Yeah but that comes back to men just wanting the most beautiful woman or female form. A siren is dangerous but the danger isn't sexy. The siren herself is supposed to look good for that whole thing to work. The same thing with a mermaid. That's just an inhuman level of sexiness. Lol
There is no difference between men wanting the most beautiful and women wanting someone they can nourish. While men tend to get distracted by physical beauty more often, women have to form a bond like motherhood so that men can never leave.
Of course this interpretation is for the sake of fun Freudian conversations.
@@reginanemo640 well yes... there is. The women are looking for the aggression, the danger. They want to tame the man so he becomes essentially a guard dog, projecting that out into the world and being soft toward the family. Men aren't attracted to any of that. The only reason they might like mythical creatures like mermaids is because they're hot. That's it.
@@reginanemo640 implying that women don't always try and go for the most handsome men all the time ...right...
So I'll grow a beard, wear an eyepatch and a black cape, have cash in one pocket, scapel in the other, go to the club and say 'Aaarrr' a lot and howl at the moon.
That should do it!
tsopmocful Good luck mate
So a homeless dude but without the cash?
No, no, no... you need to “Aaarrr” at the moon
tsopmocful ABSOLUTELY!!!! 🤣🤣🤣☺️☺️☺️
No, it won't work unless you're a _book_ describing yourself as all those things.
Now that I hear that I remember seeing it when I was doing the books when I worked in retail.
As someone who is training to go into the engineering field I can confirm that we just plow right through the ethics thing. It is fun for me to look at that but if I’m solving a problem or doing a project I’m probably not thinking about some ethics question. :p
Damn, so engineers have cracked the code on us, huh? Not gonna lie, not the group you think about when you imagine the ones to crack the female code.
Lmao imagine dedicating a good chunk of your life to getting a Master's Degree in Engineering only to be assigned to tasks like this
They did not. But neural networks crunching on big data will or already have. And those are designed by it engineers.
And maybe we don' t really need engineers for it to notice, do we? But it's a nice and simple proof
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😂😂😂😂
@@masonroyal36 You kidding? To a willing or vaguely interested one, "We're gonna investigate this data on female preferences in porn. Why? For science!"
This is also why women don't fall for "nice guys." Nice guys is of course a misinterpretation of passive males. You can be nice and have the potential to be threatening at the same time.
"Nice guys" are those passive males who get anrgy on the internet and complain about how women they were initally white knighting for are horrible and superficial simply because their being a "nice guy" did not get them laid.
Almost all my hook ups were from me playing the nice guy. Before I make a move I ask first. I still get what I want.
@@harmondraws or maybe it's because of your willingness to make a move
Nice guys always get laid.
The problem with "nice guys" is that they don't have any social skills other than being nice . Neither are they good at dealing with rejection.
Well. Ill put in my two cents. Im very attracted towards kind guys, quiet and seemingly passive guys. I love it even more however when theres confidence within that archetype. They feel stable and have potential for dominence. Overly passive and guys that would do anything for me is a turn off.
It's not so much be a bad guy but rather be centered and confident in who u are. If someone is too distant however thatll attract many anxious types so beware how cold yall decide to act as well. Just be nice and be interested. (was this too chaotic and rant y? Maybe idk)
One other group to whom I've noticed females are attracted are military special operators. Having watched this video, I can see characteristics that overlap with the "monsters" JP mentioned. These are;
- aggression
- dominance
- protective when chaos breaks out
One interesting aspect (this is only one story, mind you) that I was told was that, there was a group of operators on an operation in an African country doing security. The women in the village thought the men were traditional military and treated them with disdain, but when they found out the men were special operators, their reaction changed to attraction.
"Yarr harr fidelly dee, being a pirate is alright to be, do what you want cause a pirate is free, you are a pirate"
AND SO ARE WE!
Sorry, it bothered me that it didn't end with a rhyme 😂
I love how he made it about himself so he does not embarrass her
That's really smart move
As a female I can say he's bang-on.
cwaigasaurus You're fucking weird. Pathetic, even.
@Etta James Is that not allowed?
@Etta JamesSearch for a video titled 'Toxic masculinity in boys is fueling an epidemic of loneliness'. What does the woman in the video do?
@Etta James men are better at explaining women than women themselves. you can tell by the amount of comments by women figuring themselves out. there is no female peterson.
@@sturmgewehr449 well peterson himself has said that he understands men more than women, and even in this vid, he said that women r complicated
Following this train of thought is evident for me why Mma fighters always have gorgeous wives even when their faces are already scared because of their fights
They got money too lmao
For a lot of people looks and money just don’t do it for them. I think a lot of those that compete in combat sports have a very good looking wife because it’s something that takes extraordinary discipline and focus. Not to mention the best of the best tend to have the brain functionality/wiring that makes them that better fighter in the ring/octagon. I do competitive combat sports and only the top 1 percent have any semblance of money and most are actually much more attractive than the general public. Discipline to a craft IS absolutely sexy.
I used to wallow in self pity because I thought I was ugly and un-wanted. When in reality I was lazy and un disciplined and a giant cry baby. For those that think that, dedicate yourself to something, anything, and things like that will find you. It’s kind of like when you lose something and stop looking for it, it tends to show up faster than if you tore your house apart searching for it. That’s just my 2 cents though.
@@MidnightSommer oss i agre with you man
This is so true!
Add mafia and ceo on that list as well !!😂
Vampires, werewolfs are billionaire were all point on but I didn't understand why surgeon and pirot were on the list.. (I haven't watched or read anything related to those two so maybe that's why I couldn't relate...)
*BEST THUMBNAIL EVER*
Hahah, thank you.
"Nothing gets a bitch wetter than a wooden leg, hairy chest and a dislike of garlic" ~ Don Juan
Sbeast 😂
I can't find that quote anywhere, and who is don juan?
You forgot the parrot...lol you know how women love animals.😆
Could someone explain this quote?
Yarrr!
Drove the platform😳 wow that is AMAZING.