Things you should know about migraines... [CC]

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  • @jbeargrr
    @jbeargrr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1889

    A migraine is "just a headache" as much as a category 5 hurricane is "a little wind and some rain". And a tsunami is "just a big wave".

    • @Arlothed1no
      @Arlothed1no 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      A tornado is just a little wind.

    • @celticphoenix2579
      @celticphoenix2579 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Best. Reply. Ever. Thank you for this, I shall be using it when my friends and family tell me "it's just a little headache, snap out of it"
      Little headaches do NOT require costly visits to neurologists when nothing is helping except that weird medicine combo (that robs you of your memory and ability to function day to day) that your GP put you on because all he heard was migraine and decided all migraines are the same and I clearly don't need a functioning brain. Thanks Doc.
      Credit where it is due though, when I demanded to be taken off those meds and the actual cause of the migraines found, he did sort of help me and he sent me to a Neurologist who is also helping me. Turns out I have an inflammation disorder (which my GP knew about because of the condition which causes it which he treats me for) and it has gotten worse in the last three years resulting in brutal migraines that start at a seven on the pain scale and trend up. They render me incapable of talking, opening my eyes, walking, breathing or really doing much of anything except rolling on the ground clutching my head, weeping, panting for air during the lulls in the waves of pain and begging my partner to make it stop. Fun times.

    • @andromedaspark2241
      @andromedaspark2241 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yes! I've had migraines worse than natural childbirth (except the last hour of labor.. that was worse). You just pray to be unconscious.

    • @celticphoenix2579
      @celticphoenix2579 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@andromedaspark2241 if migraines are indicative of the pain levels in child birth then I vote to be unconscious for that since I'm told I can't have epidurals with my condition 😢

    • @Sarah-pl8rp
      @Sarah-pl8rp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Celtic Phoenix No epidurals?? What?!

  • @CelebrianUndomiel
    @CelebrianUndomiel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +701

    "I might lose more of my brain but let's not panic because that's not productive" ...is the most British response to a serious problem ever, I love you

    • @KaitlynHatch
      @KaitlynHatch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is so true.

    • @megangironda7109
      @megangironda7109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Gives whole new meaning to “keep calm and carry on”

    • @martina-f-l
      @martina-f-l 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I loved that moment ❤️
      And it basically sums up my own coping mechanisms 😂

    • @AlyssMa7rin
      @AlyssMa7rin 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Things are getting a little sticky" *They say while being overrun by 10:1 odds*

  • @AnnikaVictoria24
    @AnnikaVictoria24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +696

    Coping strategy is using glasses that block blue light and making my house as orange-light as possible. I'm really affected/triggered by light haha

    • @cetkat
      @cetkat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thanks, that's good to know. I'd actually been suspecting it could be the blue light (in particular) that makes looking at my phone such a problem.

    • @JaniFerraz
      @JaniFerraz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Annika!! Good to see you here 💛

    • @aliyahk0069
      @aliyahk0069 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Which glasses did you buy?? I think the blue light glasses that I bought don't work

    • @illfayted
      @illfayted 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@aliyahk0069 They're from Axon Optics, she has a video about them on her Instagram with a discount code, but I don't know if it still works.

    • @samminyoonki7535
      @samminyoonki7535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      HIIIII Annika :D viewer here ~~

  • @ijwashere
    @ijwashere 4 ปีที่แล้ว +499

    What's the difference between a migraine and a headache:
    Headache: well this is uncomfortable
    Migraine: *I am dying because someone has hit me with a cricket bat, drove over my head, poked my eyeball out with a kitchen knife and I'm about to throw up*

    • @lizlmarchand8618
      @lizlmarchand8618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Although, I get tension headaches which are sometimes worse than the migraine that gets triggered by the muscle tension!

    • @flootzavut30daychallenge
      @flootzavut30daychallenge 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lizl Marchand oh that happens to me, too! Tension headache + migraine is just The Worst.

    • @christinelawrie3476
      @christinelawrie3476 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have a white hot drill drilling inside my skull.

    • @lilyokeeffe-coles6202
      @lilyokeeffe-coles6202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@flootzavut30daychallenge ooh I completely agree! 😭 You have my sympathy

    • @missjibbfully
      @missjibbfully 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh, my brain and left eye tries to change places, with a hot knife poking the eye through the optic nerve while the left side of my face is totally numb... Very interesting feeling

  • @andreapatron9754
    @andreapatron9754 5 ปีที่แล้ว +768

    I've been dealing with chronic migraines since I was 14 years old (I'm 23 now) and I hate hate hate when people think it's "just a headache".

    • @shedoesconcerts5762
      @shedoesconcerts5762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I don't know if it helps any, but I'm in the same boat age-wise, and I've found that explaining your migraines in terms of frequency, symptoms, and impairment works much better than simply saying 'migraine'. I've also found that a lot of people know someone with a migraine disorder & so often they have seen first hand how bad they can be... but at the same time if they know someone with very mild and infrequent migraines, it becomes important to explain the breadth of the migraine spectrum.

    • @annaswanson5903
      @annaswanson5903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      sending hugs to you for this, I know exactly what you mean

    • @nightcorelove2626
      @nightcorelove2626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Andrea Patrón Me too, but I`ve been dealing with it since I was 7 years old

    • @elenecktra
      @elenecktra 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@nightcorelove2626 I started at 5. :(

    • @huesofkai
      @huesofkai 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Totally I once got a migraine in class and started crying and the teachers like go take a drink and come back LIKE LADY IM GONNA FAINT!!!

  • @LisaWatsonFilm
    @LisaWatsonFilm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +432

    When you start to get dark spots in your vision and you buckle down for the storm 💀 only ppl who get migraines will understand

    • @catyfaurie9446
      @catyfaurie9446 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Whizper2me I call it the floating headache stage. You don't have any pain yet, but you feel it floating there just waiting for you to trip, or a loud sound, or someone touching you unexpectedly.

    • @ChloeGrace0Mortez11
      @ChloeGrace0Mortez11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Also, interaction with people are impossible because you feel this sort of bubble wrap around your brain which can pop any moment, making your tongue unable to move. Or at least that's just me.

    • @elizabethmonk2205
      @elizabethmonk2205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      When you start seeing lights but you can't tell if it's from your tears or the storm that's about to come

    • @yunamishi7915
      @yunamishi7915 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That moment your just minding your own buisness,and your brains like oh- yo ima just HEY YOU WANNA SEE? NAH IMA GIVE YOU BLACK SPLOTCHY VISION FOR ABOUT 1-2 MINUTES
      and so you just slowly swt and hope it doesn't turn into a migraine that has you fuckin dieing on the floor

    • @evansavage4222
      @evansavage4222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yunamishi lucky you! I get the splotchy black spots for hours and hours at a time

  • @LobbsterSockrates
    @LobbsterSockrates 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1034

    My solution is literally to just go to sleep
    Is it a practical solution for every situation? No. Do I do it anyway? Yup.

    • @that2amvagueexistentialdread
      @that2amvagueexistentialdread 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same.

    • @Sam-cw9wv
      @Sam-cw9wv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I did that this morning. Works great for reducing the intensity of it usually. For me anyway

    • @Pavlinka__
      @Pavlinka__ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I try to do that whenever I can but it feels more like losing my consciousness in a controlled environment than sleeping hah

    • @maggie1400ave
      @maggie1400ave 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      same. the worst ones are the ones that meet me in the morning as well

    • @marianasalgado9288
      @marianasalgado9288 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Personally, i can't fall asleep with the pain )): only when it eases.. That's about 3/4 hours or more after it stars..

  • @ariadneschulz8822
    @ariadneschulz8822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I'm so glad you covered childhood migraines in here because 1. that was me and 2. almost no one believed me so standby for story time. I'm lucky enough that once I hit puberty the frequency of my migraines plummeted. I still have them maybe once or twice a year, but even then it's often sans pain *touch wood*.
    So, story time: I was diagnosed with migraines when I was about four years old and it was largely because I had CVS and was describing the classic migraine aura and pain. So my doctor prescribed me medicine and gave me strict instructions on how to take it. When I started going to school though they would not let me carry it with me. It was stored in the principal's office and I was expected to ask to be excused from class to go get it. Well ... despite being an absurdly good student most of my teachers thought I was just being troublesome when I asked to be excused to get my medicine so I would have to wait until recess or lunch or what have you.
    So one time my teacher did actually let me go to the office but the administrator decided that "children don't have migraines," and so she didn't think I should have access to my prescription medicine. As I mentioned previously, I presented with CVS. Sooooooo I threw up in her wastepaper basket right in front of her. And then in her absolute brilliance she decided I had the flu, and not a migraine so she called my mother to bring me home. When my mother got there and found out she'd withheld my medicine she congratulated me for throwing up, told me next time to aim for the woman's shoes and then verbally ripped that administrator a new one and insisted that I be able to keep my medication on me at all times. It would have been rather funny if I hadn't been in so much pain.

    • @astaiannymph
      @astaiannymph 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It's remarkable how many people don't believe prescription meds are currently appropriate for people. Like I don't know anybody with medical issues who doesn't have a bad medication story, and most meds aren't easy to get initial access to in the first place.

  • @MancIsSo4YearsAgo
    @MancIsSo4YearsAgo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    My favourite migraine was when I was driving home on a motorway, with 25% of my vision gone , trying desperately not to throw up on my steering wheel xoxo

    • @persephone060
      @persephone060 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Man....this is some crazy shit. I wish you the best in life and I hope you'll never have a migrane in trafic again! Only in these situations I realize how ungrateful I can be about my life. I wish you the best!

    • @MancIsSo4YearsAgo
      @MancIsSo4YearsAgo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@persephone060 thank you for the positivity!

    • @Bildgesmythe
      @Bildgesmythe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It was the loss of vision that freaked me out. I also was driving. Scary!

    • @hannahdouglass7991
      @hannahdouglass7991 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That happened to me while I was driving on a highway in Atlanta! Scariest thing ever!

    • @daivahataka
      @daivahataka 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I worry about similar with ice pick headaches, they're very short, usually only a few seconds but all I can do is grab my head, grit my teeth, squeeze my eyes tight and curse a few times.
      If that happens while driving it could be a disaster. Thankfully not happened so far.
      This is where the whole self driving cars could help.

  • @rileyjenkins3150
    @rileyjenkins3150 5 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    It feels like your brain is trying to fight it's way out of your skull through your eyes.

    • @mads9966
      @mads9966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      riley jenkins and like there’s hands in your head squeezing your eyeballs from the inside

    • @xFarahh
      @xFarahh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yesss!

    • @elizabethh560
      @elizabethh560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Sometimes I'd just want to cut my head open to get rid of the pressure.

    • @annaswanson5903
      @annaswanson5903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@elizabethh560 totally agree

    • @Cleromanticon
      @Cleromanticon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes. Or like there's a very strong man trapped in your skull, and he's trying to bash his way out with a sledgehammer.

  • @bellakaminski5692
    @bellakaminski5692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +525

    Me: going about my day
    My upcoming migraine: I’m about to end this mans whole career

    • @Skip6235
      @Skip6235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ugh, I feel this. Literally, I had a boss who told me to "take some tylenol and get back to work". Glad I got out of that job. . .

    • @celticphoenix2579
      @celticphoenix2579 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Skip6235 You worked for my mom? Small world :P (just kidding). Seriously though your former boss sounds like my mom when I was a teenager suffering a migraine so brutal I could physically not remain upright, couldn't see, could barely breathe and when I lay on the sofa to try and get some relief she told me to stop milking a headache and get back to doing what she needed done. So I got up and tried, doubled over in agony and collapsed fighting not to puke.

    • @SaluAlin18
      @SaluAlin18 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@celticphoenix2579 sounds like my mom too. She'd always tell me "I had a migraine once, just take a ibuprofen and it'll go away." And I'd be lying on the floor, unable to move because my whole body hurts and I'm close to vomiting. My migraines also trigger seizures for me and she'd still just tell me to get up and go to work or school. My bosses were even worse. I'm 27 and they're just getting worse and tend to last 2 weeks at a time. And because doctors can't find a reason I get dismissed as being dramatic

    • @celticphoenix2579
      @celticphoenix2579 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SaluAlin18 that sounds awful. My longest migraine lasted 9 days and it sucked. May I suggest that your doctor tests you for autoimmune disorders that have inflammation as a symptom? My neurologist has just put me on anti inflammatory medication and it helps a lot. My gp had me on topalex and trepiline which also helped but had unbearable side effects. Start with a visit to a good neurologist and tell him/her everything about your health so they can do a full workup.

    • @SaluAlin18
      @SaluAlin18 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@celticphoenix2579 my neurologist told me they were chronic abnormal migraines and told me to take 500mg Magnesium and 500mg riboflavin (which I have been for 6 years) and had me taking 100mg of something that started with a T but I cant remember the name and that made me violently I'll and I dropped weight very fast and the migraines would stop for a month then come back worse then before. I've brought up everything and they still seemed stumped. As soon as I can get insurance again I'll be asking them to check for auto immune diseases. Because since I started getting migraines my hearings been going too and I've had alot of joint, nerve and food issue as well. But doctors in California never seem to listen to me when I ask them to run more tests. Thank you for the advice by the way.
      And yeah migraines that last longer then a day are the worst. Currently nursing one rn but had to work instead of resting. TGIF

  • @fafniricedragon5832
    @fafniricedragon5832 5 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    "They get worse during the middle age"
    Me: 😱....

    • @catzb37
      @catzb37 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Seriously! I was told they'd lessen with age, that has not been my experience! They're longer and more painful.

    • @SelinaENTE
      @SelinaENTE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      MAGNESIUM Is the answer! I used to have migraines almost every 2 weeks. Big Trigger is dairy and my solution is magnesium! 200mg per day, you can even go with 400mg or more, because you can't have an overdose of that magical lifesaver!!! the last 2 years I only got 3 migraines. Probably also because I went vegan, didn't drink alcohol or coffee and my day and night rhythm is stable.

    • @undinae
      @undinae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@SelinaENTE Glad you found your answer. But magnesium would be the answer only in those people with a deficiency. There are many different causes of migraine, and they are not yet fully understood.

    • @sadee1287
      @sadee1287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The opposite for me (thank god!). Started getting them at the age of 8. Bloody awful. Got them once a month or so around my period. After I went through menopause, they scaled back significantly...grateful for that. Tried Zomig, which never helped. Just agonizing through whilst trying not to throw up (although it can sometimes make it slightly better..smh) until it passes....no aura, so I never knew when it would come. One thing......aspartame makes it happen more, so I have to severely limit diet drinks.
      Wish we had a decent migraine clinic where I iive...most doctors don't take it seriously enough, 😣

    • @MissMeganBeckett
      @MissMeganBeckett 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My mom has migraines more frequently since she went through menopause. She recently saw something on the internet about using a specific dose of dissolving aspirin at the first sign of a migraine starting, I don’t know if it worked better than other things would have but if you can find whatever information my mom found it might help some. I think the dissolving aspirin is marketed for eating to much leading to a stomachache, it has another ingredient in it that protects your stomach lining since aspirin is hard on your stomach.

  • @tishmore5682
    @tishmore5682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    I always get confused when people ask me what causes my migraines because it feels weird to say, "My migraines are caused by chronic migraine."

    • @HeraldHealer
      @HeraldHealer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      the &^#%&&&%%#%$ things cycle in on themselves.

    • @finchhawthorne1302
      @finchhawthorne1302 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, I know it’s meant to be helpful in a “is there something I can remove from the situation to improve your experience” way, but it just happens anyway a lot of the time.

    • @cetkat
      @cetkat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah, I mean, sometimes you can identity triggers.. but doing so doesn't mean you can stop them from happening. One of mine is weather and pressure changes - yeah, that's totally under my control.

    • @CristalianaIvor
      @CristalianaIvor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cetkat same.
      Also mine apparently is stress?
      Well missing out because of your migraines makes you have to do even more to catch up after the migraine passes, which increases stress which increases your likelyhood of migraines 🤔😂

    • @cetkat
      @cetkat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CristalianaIvor Truth. You're not wrong. Some people think that if only you can identify the triggers, they'll disappear... but that's not how it works. It is good to know, but it doesn't help me to stop them, only, at best, prepare.

  • @kcisme144
    @kcisme144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +341

    my coping strategy is laying in bed crying and trying to sleep because if I'm asleep I can't think about the pain (:

    • @lannasmith284
      @lannasmith284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sometimes the pain even follows me in my dreams o.e

    • @jadeauburn9220
      @jadeauburn9220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's a good idea, I try to take my pain medicine so that I can make it through the day and fall asleep when the pain starts coming back again.

    • @Lavender_Louis
      @Lavender_Louis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's why I hate getting a migraine in the morning. Migraines generally make me very fatigued and I fall asleep after a while but not if it's still the morning..

    • @e_kychkina9170
      @e_kychkina9170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lanna Smith that’s my case, too. I can always feel the pain while sleeping, so sleep doesn’t help me

    • @ashleyrowe9967
      @ashleyrowe9967 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is this me? 😅😭

  • @MaiuLunekund
    @MaiuLunekund 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    1) FL-41 tinted glasses for preventing the migrane
    2) cold on the neck, eyes and/or forehead
    3) dark and cold/window open room and trying to sleep
    4) soulder rubs from a loved one
    5) head massage with slightly pulling your hair with your hands close to the roots
    6) but most of all just figuring out my triggers and situation where migraines come and just avoiding them at all cost!

    • @xzonia1
      @xzonia1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      #6 Figuring out my triggers was the key for me to get rid of my migraines. Whistling and scents are migraine triggers for me, and the only triggers I have that I cannot control (though I am very bold these days about asking / demanding people to not whistle around me because I never want to get another migraine). Scents are the hardest. I just have to leave the area.
      Great advice!

    • @Holzider
      @Holzider 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      so much yes to #6, this is strengthened by my sensory processing disorder...

    • @victoria4309
      @victoria4309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have to keep the brightness on my phone down so low because i get migraines if I don't. I hate having to have my light on because it makes me nauseous

  • @kissenxundxdecke3749
    @kissenxundxdecke3749 5 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    I had my first migraine when I was 9 years old. I remember crying in bed and begging my mother to make it stop. She has migraines herself, so she knew immediately what was going on. Our doctor says its probably genetic.
    Fast forward to now, I used to have a teacher that would come to school at least once a week being like „Guys, lets be quiet today, because I have a migraine!“ She NEVER had a migraine, it was just a regular headache. And whenever I had „the aura“ and knew I had about 30 minutes to get home and take my medication or lay down in a corner and wheep like a child, every other student and that particular teacher would be annoyed and make fun of me. Because „Look, the teacher has migraines too! SHE is not whining though!“
    Speaking of „normal“ headaches, I actually have headaches at least once or twice a day. I just try to go on with my day, I am actually used to that kind of pain. So when people call me a p*ssy for needing a break when I have a real migraine, I feel very hurt. They dont know about the pain that I endure every day.

    • @pinklipstickx19
      @pinklipstickx19 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      KissenxundxDecke do you still have mingraine

    • @kissenxundxdecke3749
      @kissenxundxdecke3749 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Blackdiamond Recently not that often

    • @marthagregory3852
      @marthagregory3852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh my gosh! I used to get several headaches a day too! Now I'm off gluten and dairy and got my thyroid fixed (and drink a lot of water) it's much better but I still get migraines every so often 😭. My older sister and I started getting migraines around 10-11 but I think that was a dehydration/ heat exhaustion thing since we would always get them together (great bond we have!). I hope you figure out your triggers and help with your regular headaches and migraines

    • @justootired
      @justootired 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      me too! when i was a student i described the aura and how when it appears i need to just get home and lie down and put on some music and try to sleep so that i can be unconscious while the migraine tried to poke me behind my eyeball, whichever side it has decided that day. and i've had friends say that they get headaches too, and i shouldn't make a fuss about it every time....

    • @mlilac
      @mlilac 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah that sucks. Especially when you are a child and adults act dismissive about your pain. It feels so damn unfair and adds a whole new level of hurt
      I must admit I used to think that migraine was 'just a headache' too. Until I had my first one

  • @joyin9852
    @joyin9852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Jessica on the floor wearing a beautiful gown, pearls and makeup while fanning herself and wanting to die because of migraines is my mood right now xox
    bless you for this video x your videos are like asmr to me it really calms me down
    [Literally I’be been having migraines all week it’s great. Sarcasm]

  • @jessicaoutofthecloset
    @jessicaoutofthecloset  5 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Thank you for watching! What are your top tips for surviving a migraine...???
    (Also I buried a rather scary bit of news in this video. Warm words welcome!)

    • @andreapatron9754
      @andreapatron9754 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Coffee, dark room, no noise, no annoying people around me lol.

    • @life-gs7zr
      @life-gs7zr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      All right I know that my migraines were caused by vitamin D deficiency not genetics I just want to point that out

    • @angrybidoof847
      @angrybidoof847 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Black out blinds, sunglasses and a hot water bottle to the back of the neck.
      Helps me pass out/fall asleep, so I don't have to deal with it.
      Also some one playing with my hair, head massage?
      Also, also avoiding blue light, so eye comfort modes on phones ect.

    • @marinamarina7775
      @marinamarina7775 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Ice packs, ibuprofen and darkening my room

    • @larabryan1112
      @larabryan1112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Blackout curtains, and water!

  • @K.Kitbex
    @K.Kitbex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    I'm so wearing my finest dress and pearls next time my head hurts 😘

  • @Amy_the_Lizard
    @Amy_the_Lizard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    When I informed my ex-roommate that her scent-spraying machine's new scent was triggering my migraines and asked her to please change it, or turn it off. She said she would not change it or turn it off. -_- There were two weeks left in the semester - one of which was finals week, and I didn't want to stir up drama around finals, so I toughed it out, turned my air purifier on, and tied rags around my face to try and reduce the amount of exposure while I was in the room. It was horrible, and for some reason my nose kept trying to run on top of everything else. She took it home with her and used it up during winter break, and I thought that would be the end of it. The next semester, when I came back from spring break, the same thing happened. This time my mom and I offered to pay for the costs of the scent cartridge thingy if she didn't use it, so that she wouldn't have wasted money on something she wouldn't be able to use, and she actually seemed insulted that we tried to 'buy her out'. I had to actually get the RA involved, because I could not go through that experience again for over a MONTH this time. The RA was able to get her to change the cartridge, but afterwards my roommate tried to 'talk about it' with me, which pretty much consisted of her saying, "I get migraines too, so I know what you're going through, but I don't get why you can't just...deal with it?" I highly doubt that she had any BAD migraines, if she had actual migraines at all, which I am also skeptical of. And she was so patronizing about it...I responded with something along the lines of, "Your situation, and my situation are not the same thing. I could barely function last time this happened, and the only medication I have that can stop a severe migraine can only be taken once a week. I told you at the start of the school year that I had chronic migraine, and that I might need to turn off your scent thing if it started bothering me. You agreed at the time, but refused to actually DO it when it happened." She's not my roommate anymore for obvious reasons.

    • @adalovelacestan4640
      @adalovelacestan4640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I would of gone mad

    • @birdgirl8390
      @birdgirl8390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's stuff I'd throw hands over

    • @yourewearingthat3193
      @yourewearingthat3193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Next time, instead of vomiting politely into a bin, vomit on her bed, desk, clothing...

    • @Decrepit_biker
      @Decrepit_biker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I would of taken that scent thing and smashed it into tiny little pieces in front of her with a rather large hammer by the second semester. I am not even joking. That you would have to suffer excruciating pain just because of her selfish actions ..... no . Not on. And yes I also suffer migraine. It is Hell.

    • @Myrafly
      @Myrafly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i had a similar situation with a roommate and baby powder scented deoderant which caused athsma in me, of course she didn't believe me and tried to apply her personal sacrid sauce while I was sleeping of course I woke up gasping and went home to Mother, who had me call the RA who switched roommates, so I got to be roommates with the gal who needed to turn over once in a while at night (Which drove her roommate insane) and stinky girl went to live with light sleeper girl and I don't think I ever laid eyes on her again. (Luckily I didn't have to move, she did. :) I don't remember her name. I was so glad to have her gone.

  • @ErikaDraeug
    @ErikaDraeug 5 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Yeah, I love when my relatives Say : 'your head still hurt? It should be better by now'
    By all means, show me your doctorates people, and I'll gladly follow your Magic recipes.
    Until then, yes I still have a migraine. 👌

    • @jadeauburn9220
      @jadeauburn9220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's so disheartening to hear someone say that!

    • @HeraldHealer
      @HeraldHealer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I normaly ask people to sacrifice 2 goats, 3 chicken, and a lama, if they start to get obnoxious.

    • @cetkat
      @cetkat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep. A migraine isn't a headache. I used to have the pain part last 4hrs, now it's more like 24h. And that's not counting the before & after. I just hope it doesn't get any longer.

    • @HeraldHealer
      @HeraldHealer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cetkat I hope you have access to a good doctor. I found a tracking app, Migraine Buddy, that helped me show my doctor exactly how serious things were. They're the only one I saw in the play store that was fully functional on the free version.

    • @oliviasayshi7517
      @oliviasayshi7517 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here. I would have family functions once a month, the same time of month, which happened to be when I went on the placebo pills on my birth control, which would trigger migraines. It got to a point where they thought that I was avoiding them.

  • @bethisnotokay3746
    @bethisnotokay3746 5 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    I literally knew nothing except it was a "bad headache". This video is really educational, thank you. :)

    • @Eibarwoman
      @Eibarwoman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It is the worst kind, nausea and vision distortions.

    • @Avril.
      @Avril. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm glad for you that this video could be a starting point in helping you with possible migraine. On the other hand I wish none of us, Jessica included, knew what migraine is like.

    • @bethisnotokay3746
      @bethisnotokay3746 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@fayeverdunes that sounds awful, I'm sorry

    • @katekilgannon3567
      @katekilgannon3567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah when I get migraines I get confused, forget words, have trouble spelling, vomit, can't eat, can't handle sound, can't handle having lights on, sometimes can't stand, often can't walk because the pain shoots from my feet up (I often crawl to reduce the impact), my neck muscles lock up, I cry without reasons or even noticing, have trouble speaking (which makes calling in sick for work kind of tricky) and other side effects... it's good that people can watch videos like this and find out more about what it means when someone says they get migraines! I agree, this video is so awesome.

  • @PookyCreationsVODs
    @PookyCreationsVODs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    That moment when no one fully explained migraines properly before, and now you're connecting symptoms you thought were caused by something else. Bless you.

    • @aleka..
      @aleka.. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, here too, I need to look more into this... to confirm or rule out 🤷🏻

    • @kin2naruto
      @kin2naruto 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too! I never concidered "migraine" because I don't get the headache.

    • @daringcow
      @daringcow 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too. I actually learned from this and feel less bad about myself.

    • @kellyulrich6393
      @kellyulrich6393 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha same!

    • @_GreenSkies_
      @_GreenSkies_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kin2naruto there definitely is such a thing as a "silent" migraine where you never get the pain part

  • @lafeministe24
    @lafeministe24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    As a chronic migraineur who has also had children: yes, my migraines mostly went away in the 2nd & 3rd trimesters. That said, you have to get through the first trimester. Mine were so awful - combined with hyperemesis gravidarum - that there was actually a rumour that I was dying. The oven couldn’t be turned on without me puking. No food yet - just the oven. And no meds. So yeah. Fun times. Oh, and then the small fact that if you keep said child, you now have a small human totally reliant on you once all those chronic migraines return. No, no, I don’t have any trauma from that time of life. Not at all...

  • @turtle4llama
    @turtle4llama 5 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    I don't think holding as still as possible while crying is really a "migraine cure" persay, but it's what I do.

    • @sweetyetunrefined9335
      @sweetyetunrefined9335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      When I got my first migraine I read that it's pretty common for people to find relief from crying. Something about relieving pressure.

    • @sinabaur9150
      @sinabaur9150 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      sweetyetunrefined that’s interesting, for me crying makes it a lot worse

    • @laurengd
      @laurengd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I find this so interesting!! If I cry I usually get some of my most unbearable attacks that last for 2-3 days! (I have chronic migraines)

    • @LilyShimizu
      @LilyShimizu 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      sweetyetunrefined y’know sometimes this works for me. It’s uncommon that it does, but when I feel the tears coming on I give it a shot, and sometimes I do feel better. Not completely better but at least a little less miserable because I do feel some relief in pressure. It really depends, occasionally it may only make it worse.

    • @StaticCling99
      @StaticCling99 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sinabaur9150 same. It feels like crying adds still more pressure inside my brain/face. This is doubly awful, because migraines trigger horrible mood shifts for me.

  • @sourgreendolly7685
    @sourgreendolly7685 5 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    15%?? That’s so high for the percentage of people willing to dismiss my migraines 😬

    • @sourgreendolly7685
      @sourgreendolly7685 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      also I love Plumbella too 💕

    • @PurpleKhajiit97
      @PurpleKhajiit97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I had a “student success” class in college and the teacher said migraines are a poor excuse for missing class. Me and another student asked her “Have you actually ever had one??? Because it’s a very valid reason to skip class.”

    • @technicolorbarf6734
      @technicolorbarf6734 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good job

    • @strangekat2840
      @strangekat2840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@PurpleKhajiit97 yeah, I could definitely pay attention when I have a migraine. I totally don't fall over or faint if I don't lie down.
      Actually did that in a lesson at school once, that was a fun trip to A and E. Never had a problem after that. The nurse kept my meds and I had my own sick room because I'm so sensitive to light and sound. Wasn't actually technically mine , but essentially it was.

    • @GrowingPothos
      @GrowingPothos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And don't even get me started on mental health

  • @charlottearendt157
    @charlottearendt157 5 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    sending this to everyone who calls me lazy for needing to sit down when really, i have chronic migraines

    • @eykyra
      @eykyra 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I have the same problem. I used to miss classes because when I have a migraine I can't get out of bed or do anything. People used to be like «well I don't stop doing things everytime I have a headache» but they don't get it's way more than a headache.

  • @kimiko257
    @kimiko257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    migraines, period cramps, and dizzy spells are the bane of my existence.

    • @kathrinehmunk
      @kathrinehmunk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have all of those right now I feel like I'm dying...

    • @kimiko257
      @kimiko257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kathrine Munk you poor soul...

    • @fionafiona1146
      @fionafiona1146 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Getting my anemia close to normal mitigated some of it... Sex helped more, so that's "growing out of it".
      When I was a teen no one recommended abdominal massages and kegeltraining but those go 90% to mitigating the cramping parts of period pain.

  • @DragonPrincessAoife
    @DragonPrincessAoife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I've been in the 15% all of my life.
    I've developed the following fantastic explanation for those who call migraines 'headaches.' Its the equivalent of going up to someone who's been cut in half and saying 'yea, I got a paper cut once.'

    • @dfeuer
      @dfeuer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And then there are cluster headaches, which are said to hurt even more. Hard to imagine that. (My [family member] used to get those, though thankfully he hasn't recently. He'd be crying in the corner till his prescriptions came through, and then he'd be sucking oxygen to make the headaches bearable and taking seizure meds to try to end the cluster.)

    • @jmissesblac2006
      @jmissesblac2006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dfeuer Whew. I had a cluster headache once and I was bawling like a baby on my way to the hospital because I was sure I was dying and my right eye was going to pop. I feel your family member's pain.

    • @daivahataka
      @daivahataka 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And this is precisely why I don't consider what I get to be migraines even though others constantly try convince me.

  • @Kebabsmacker74
    @Kebabsmacker74 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    I always try to go to sleep before the migraine becomes bad. If I cant then I lay still in the dark

    • @DINGOlord
      @DINGOlord 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If I do that I just wake up 4 hours later with a banging headache with the ear drumming and blurred vision :(

    • @Kristina5652
      @Kristina5652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      that's my go to! until the sad days where I wake up and still have the migraine

    • @amymatusik972
      @amymatusik972 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh if I do that my migraine gets worse not better.

  • @ringwraith10
    @ringwraith10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    "My brain is falling out of my nose" is a direct quote from me when I'm having a migraine.

    • @katiejohnson5336
      @katiejohnson5336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mine is, "i want to scoop my brain outof my nose." Yes, direct quote of mine

    • @happypiano4810
      @happypiano4810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mine was “...uuuuuuugh *Incoherent mumbling*”.

    • @jenayayounger5909
      @jenayayounger5909 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I get runny noses during migraines and I thought it was just me until now.

    • @rachellevin9855
      @rachellevin9855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mine is” I think a nuclear bomb exploded in my head”.

  • @firewordsparkler
    @firewordsparkler 5 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    I really love that this channel is Gay! Vintage! Unexplainable Chronic Illnesses and Diseases that Medical Professionals Refused to Listen to Me About!

    • @EdenYell
      @EdenYell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Its an oddly specific, yet perfect niche

    • @Charlie.1066
      @Charlie.1066 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      and incredible relateable for us few gay historically inclined folk with weird disabilitys and an aversion to doctors who sound like broken records "i don't know come back in six months"

    • @aliyahk0069
      @aliyahk0069 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oddly specific for me! Aka the best niche

    • @kirchgirl
      @kirchgirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is literally the same cloth one of my dearest friends is cut from ❤️ Much love to all you folx ❤️

  • @annabjarnsteinsdottir6285
    @annabjarnsteinsdottir6285 5 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    I don't get migraines that often anymore (maybe one or two a month) but when it happens I start the following routine asap:
    1. brush teeth and hair
    2. take 800 mg ibuprofen and 1000 mg paracetamol
    3. take melatonin and magnesium
    4. drink a glass of water
    5. soft pyjamas
    6. in bed in total darkness
    7. ice pack on head
    8. hope it's gone when I wake up

    • @pishwa
      @pishwa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Anna Bjarnsteinsdóttir “hope it’s gone when I wake up” is such a mood

    • @Victory.In.Jesus95
      @Victory.In.Jesus95 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      800 mg Ibuprofen?! 1000 mg Paracetamol?! That’s a lot of meds 🤯 I’m not even able to get more than 200 mg of Ibuprofen at my local pharmacy 😐

    • @annabjarnsteinsdottir6285
      @annabjarnsteinsdottir6285 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Victory.In.Jesus95 well, the pills I take are 400 and 500 respectively and technically I am supposed to take one of each but I need two if they are supposed to do anything tbh. I have consulted a doctor about it and she says it's fine since I don't need it that often

    • @nancywillaert5129
      @nancywillaert5129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I cant have ibuprofen, react bad on them. Magnesium gives me other problems, but i have it sometimes it too. I have an autoimmune disease , Crohn’s and Spondylitis Ankylosis or Bamboopine it’s a rheumatoid. Sometimes i get a pain, at the base on my skull and it was determined that the attachment of pretty tiny 3 mm starts to hurt, for all my illness i have
      Neurotine 300mg
      Neurtoine 100mg
      Paracetamol 500 mg
      Contramal retard 50 mg
      Celebrex 100 mg
      Salazopirine 500 mg
      And add Tradonal 50 mg if pain is too much
      And cortisone, if it starts, take meds, and in bed. Hate noise, light, smell everything, can’t be touched. And please don’t give me food or even tea, just a bit of water or my dear husband gives me cola to give me a little of energy.

    • @Avril.
      @Avril. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I love the idea of brushing your teeth as it's starting. Once mine has kicked in brushing my teeth is a near impossibility. I've been kind of worried about how many times I've been missing brushing them. I'm on tender ground currently so off I go now to brush my teeth. Thanks!

  • @TheAmazingEevee
    @TheAmazingEevee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    See I’m very sensitive to light and sound during a migraine so I sit in a dark room with an ice pack in my head and listening to a podcast on low volume

    • @santaclara042992
      @santaclara042992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is me too!!

    • @SelinaENTE
      @SelinaENTE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I don't understand words when I have a migraine. Not even stuff I think in sentences makes sense.
      (edit:) MAGNESIUM Is the answer! I used to have migraines almost every 2 weeks. Big Trigger is dairy and my solution is magnesium! 200mg per day, you can even go with 400mg or more, because you can't have an overdose of that magical lifesaver!!! the last 2 years I only got 3 migraines. Probably also because I went vegan, didn't drink alcohol or coffee and my day and night rhythm is stable.
      EDIT: I just got the information that in one case magnesium made the migraine worse than before, so it is actually dependent on the individual if it works or not or if magnesium will even make it worse. For me personally it worked.

    • @vanessar.6085
      @vanessar.6085 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have a hard time processing anything that does not need immediate action, due to the pain the light causes. Want to know what's for dinner at noon when I have a migraine? "What? Din....Fffff...Just...Delivery. Aaaaaaugh!."
      I have to block the "extra light" with a heavy pillow even when it's dark. Somehow the small sliver of light under the door hurts my closed eyes.

    • @Berryballoons
      @Berryballoons 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can’t even do that anymore =\

    • @Berryballoons
      @Berryballoons 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My migraines are less frequent at 33 than 17-25 but now they are more intense.

  • @Joohorn
    @Joohorn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I've noticed that when having a migraine pressing something cold against my eyes or head helps the pain!!

  • @annabelyates5219
    @annabelyates5219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    How is this video so calming yet so stressful at the same time!? 😮

    • @heartyunho0716
      @heartyunho0716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel like you just described most of her videos

    • @pisiupo
      @pisiupo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel like this mood is peak British culture

    • @EdenYell
      @EdenYell 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tilly snuggling distressed Jessica in a ballgown

  • @Tenareful
    @Tenareful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    In so photosensitive during migraine it's like all my senses get turned up to max

    • @rachael4345
      @rachael4345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feel like a vampire who can't tolerate any noise. I once took a nap (my usual migraine cure) and my dad put some Sprite in the room for me to have when I woke up. Unfortunately, the carbonation bubbles were too loud so I woke up in pain and anger.

  • @tetsubo57
    @tetsubo57 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    The world may end but Jessica will look fabulous.

  • @proudtobeinvisible
    @proudtobeinvisible 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I once got a migraine due to an allergic reaction to some medication, I legitimately thought I was dying. I couldn't see, stand and threw-up until nothing was left in my stomach. And I have a high pain tolerance, I stepped on a five inch nail and kept walking, didn't scream when I needed to get stitches on my head, didn't cry when I had a ruptured eardrum. So my kudos, appreciation, love and support to everyone who has ever gotten a migraine or suffers from chronic migraines.

  • @Bec137
    @Bec137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    You, sooking on the floor, is the best description of a migraine ever.

  • @Olivia-tw3nm
    @Olivia-tw3nm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Me 2 weeks ago: dang I'm glad I've never had a migraine
    Me last night, seeing a glitching rainbow line in my field of vision and experiencing a piercing pain behind my eye: oh....oh no

    • @arsweetie1234
      @arsweetie1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this but it was me earlier today

    • @livyjohns8887
      @livyjohns8887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is what happens when I get migraines!

  • @kaimarkanday9507
    @kaimarkanday9507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    3 ibuprofen tablets and vapour rub on my temples helps if I catch it quick enough! Crying helps if I don't...

    • @olgachronics3273
      @olgachronics3273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Crying always makes mine worse but it's so hard to avoid sometimes cause it feels like my brain is being crushed. I need to try that vapour rub trick though.

    • @SilverHawk214
      @SilverHawk214 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wake up with mine so I can never catch it early. I've already had one for 1-2 hours by the time I wake up.

  • @_GreenSkies_
    @_GreenSkies_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    "Altered Mood" sounds like not that big a deal as a symptom, except that I become desperately angry and depressed, suicidal, sometimes paranoid, completely out of nowhere. Everything is going smoothly and then boom, probably time to just end it all after you finish making your coworkers uncomfortable and confused. I'll finally realize that I spent most of the day unable to speak/think properly and put it all together, but things are very dicey until that point.

  • @letyourselfrest8932
    @letyourselfrest8932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    Fifteen minutes ago me: I don't know if I've ever had a migraine!! (Thinks it's just a really shitty headache bc that's what everyone says)
    Me throughout this video: Oh so the weird mental shifts/emotions and sensitivity are part of a migraine? And the tingling and light thing? And maybe that thing where my left eye quits or when I stop being able to see much of anything? And ohhhhhhhh no. Have I had migraines nearly constantly my whole life?
    Me now: Yes, yes you have.
    UPDATE: I saw a doctor about it who Actually Listened to me and. Yep. Chronic ocular migraines babey, haven't seen a neurologist cause 'Merica but you know.

    • @sabrinalundquist5566
      @sabrinalundquist5566 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      If your eye stops working... check with a Dr just in case it isn't a migraine. I have a family history if migraine but luckily no weird vision stuff. The whole migraines are just intense headache thing is frustrating

    • @letyourselfrest8932
      @letyourselfrest8932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sabrinalundquist5566 I have checked with a doctor they say there's nothing wrong with my eye. They say it's "eye strain" :) I have had bifocals for a while because of it but they don't help *shrugs*
      Every doctor I've asked about all my symptoms so far think I'm lying or that everything is caused by my weight, so it's unlikely I'll receive treatment for anything anytime soon

    • @letyourselfrest8932
      @letyourselfrest8932 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sabrinalundquist5566 Thank you for the advice though

    • @vmtracy
      @vmtracy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@letyourselfrest8932 Any optometrist or ophthalmologist who says you lost vision in your eye from "eye strain" is lying through their teeth and knows it! They know perfectly well that that isn't possible. Go to another eye doctor. Oh and the iossue with doctors refusing to treat anything in "overweight" individuals is very common--call them on it. Write a letter to state medical board and cc the doctor. Change doctors as soon as your health plan will let you. Complain about the doctor to your health insurance company. Be an aggressive medical consumer!

    • @letyourselfrest8932
      @letyourselfrest8932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@vmtracy I haven't lost vision so much as it randomly doubles from time to time, leaving me unable to read or anything. And I can't switch doctors or do much since I'm a minor. Pretty sure I could slightly fracture a rib and my mom would yell at me about having to go to the doctor, and I haven't had a normal dentist checkup in nearly 5 years, so I gotta tread carefully. :)

  • @twistedkitty1958
    @twistedkitty1958 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Migraine Clinics are not very tolerant of patients having to cancel appointment due to Migraine!!! Thank you for this video.

  • @dakota5671
    @dakota5671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “Oh, it’s just a headache!”
    Tell that to me in high school when I literally passed out in the middle of class because I had a terrible migraine but didn’t want to tell anyone because “it was just a headache.”

  • @SDChick
    @SDChick 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    “Why don’t you drink?”
    “Because I would like to be functional the next 48 hours.”
    “Just a taste?”
    “NO.”
    Magnesium and folic acid have helped my migraines MAYBE 20? I’ve battled them since childhood. There is medical literature supporting magnesium and migraines. I hate them so much. What I fear most is not recognizing that I’m having a stroke because my migraine symptoms mimic a lot of early stroke signs.

    • @GeekmomD
      @GeekmomD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I understand that completely. One time I was talking backwards at work. Whole words forwards, but reversing their order. People were wondering.

    • @a.hackett8413
      @a.hackett8413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I get this which is terrifying as my epilepsy also made my face feel like it's drooping and the biologically female members of the family are prone to strokes. *screams internally*

  • @cDaisyx
    @cDaisyx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I have had migraines for a couple years now, and recently got medication for it... Only to discover that it does not work with my antidepressants.
    N i c e.

    • @LPNeogetz
      @LPNeogetz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah. Loving the can't take migraine meds because of other meds club. Kill me now.

    • @dangsood4945
      @dangsood4945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love that. I was given big boy beta blocker drugs on the highest dose of my weight which was supposed to help prevent the pain... and it completely cancelled out the effects of my EpiPen! Hooray!

    • @LisiLisichan
      @LisiLisichan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same, bipolar disorder and my medication hates the migraine medication. So more painkillers for me yay.

    • @argusgoose8758
      @argusgoose8758 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve been trying to get a migraine specialist meeting for almost a month now, I just wanna get pills.

    • @asz-themoonwalker2771
      @asz-themoonwalker2771 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So you feel shitty either way..
      That's hell

  • @New_Wave_Nancy
    @New_Wave_Nancy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I'm fortunate to have a partner who is a doctor - he understands that a migraine isn't a headache so much as a "neurological event." I'm in that 15% of sufferers too. I'm 46 and have had migraines since childhood. My migraines have changed over the years. I still get an aura, but the nausea has decreased and vomiting gone away. I was migraine-free for years after starting magnesium supplements. BUT then I had a brain abscess (unrelated to my migraines) and after that illness and brain surgery I started getting migraines again. Now I get about 5 a month whereas when I was young I could go months between having maybe 1-3 migraines in a month or so. My medication makes me exhausted but reduces the pain a bit. It doesn't make me functional ultimately. The pain is less than when I was younger but the frequency increasing makes that cold comfort. During the aura I can have trouble grasping language and during the postdrome I find it hard to focus my eyes and grasp the written word.

    • @annaswanson5903
      @annaswanson5903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      oh no, hopefully things get better again

    • @fardareismai4495
      @fardareismai4495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope it will decrease again after a while, best wishes.

    • @erinaa9486
      @erinaa9486 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why magnesium? My husband gets migraines so I'm wondering if it's something that would help him...

    • @polyanthesis
      @polyanthesis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@erinaa9486 I thought my neuro was being silly, but "Magnesium Prophylaxis" is a legitamate migraine prevention thing. Different research uses different doses. My neurologist prescribed Magnesium Aspartate, but she basically cycles through different forms if it hurts your stomach. Have your husband ask his doctor!

    • @New_Wave_Nancy
      @New_Wave_Nancy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@erinaa9486 Taking a standard dose of magnesium citrate was like a miracle cure for me for a few years. I still take it even though the abscess changed things in my brain.

  • @FoshFish
    @FoshFish 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I don't see many realistic videos of migraines that properly explain what migraines can be, not just what that one person experiences. Thank you for making this, I needed this solidarity!

  • @theweatherwitch2492
    @theweatherwitch2492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I am in Gen Z, and have been suffering with migraines since I was 7, and it took 6 years for people to realise that I was suffering from migraines, and not just an attention seeking kid. I have throbbing headaches, terrible periods, nausea, light and sound sensitivity, and become extremely irritable. Unfortunately, I also have severe hayfever, which one of the main symptoms is...A BLOCKED NOSE! So, from February to August, my migraines become so much worse. And this period also falls in line with when I am the most stressed. And I can't miss my schooling every time I have a migraine, so I have to suffer through it.
    Finally, I got a doctor who recognised my symptoms as those of migraines, so I got strong pain killers, and can now have some tests to see what causes them.
    Sorry for the rant, TH-cam finally decide to show me this video exists and I had to say something.

    • @laartje24
      @laartje24 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They did that with my asthma. Some people in middle school used "I have asthma" as a free card to get out of class. So when I said I had asthma and couldn't do something/needed to be careful, teacher/adults wouldn't listen and if I advocated for myself I would get punished for it. It was the worse. Eventually it came to a point that I passed out from a lack of oxygen, which was really scary. After that I was finally believed. It also made me flat out refuse to push myself too far even if that ment punishment because I was not gonna go trough that again.
      Edit: I'm an early millenial btw. I really hoped that the situation had improved by now, so I am sad to hear it is still the same.

  • @thekarategirl5787
    @thekarategirl5787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I rely on painkillers, random yt playlist on my phone (low brightness & volume, face down), no light. Maybe a hot water bottle or a teddy to hug.

    • @strawberrybonbon5943
      @strawberrybonbon5943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unrelated but I read your username as ali is a race, and honestly that's a fat mood

    • @joyin9852
      @joyin9852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ali_is_ace I agree with all of that except I either borrow my dog, pillow or partner. Xxx
      EDIT: love your username x

    • @troymihoyminoy3889
      @troymihoyminoy3889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I also put a blue light filter on my phone

    • @thekarategirl5787
      @thekarategirl5787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@troymihoyminoy3889 mine's permanently on bc blue light causes headaches for me.

    • @AliA-cj7uj
      @AliA-cj7uj 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hot water??? I need an ice pack attached to my head 😭😭😭

  • @ilzavictoriana9497
    @ilzavictoriana9497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I “lost” an enormous amout of my 20s on my severe migraine attacks, thank you for making me feel understood. ❤️

    • @Zoe-rw1zo
      @Zoe-rw1zo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm in the same boat. I was diagnosed with chronic migraines when I was 20. It's been a very long few years

    • @allidoiscry4119
      @allidoiscry4119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same omfg

  • @morganaspery8802
    @morganaspery8802 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I put a damp towel over my eyes. This was really helpful I thought I was dying whenever I got the prickly feeling all on my arms and face

    • @jadeauburn9220
      @jadeauburn9220 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a great idea! I'll have to try that! I have this ice cold eye mask but it often feels too cold.

  • @bobtimus
    @bobtimus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    As a guy who's had migraines since I was a lad, I really appreciate this kind of video. I don't know how many times someone says to take aspirin and go lay down. My only tip is to limit your sensory intake when you're having one. Also, if you're at all able to stand taking prescriptions, I've found that the anti seizure medicine I take lowers the amount I have per month.

  • @EmmaSteelhand
    @EmmaSteelhand 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I've been having a migraine since I was 11 (am now 19) some days the pain is more like dull underlying buzz, and others it's like there's a massive thunderstorm in my head and everything hurts and I have to run a small towel under COLD water so I then can lay it on my eyes since it literally feels like there's something grabbing them from the inside trying to squish them🤕🤕🤯
    Thank you Jessica for this video I didn't know that you actually can have a continuous migraine over several years, even though that is what I've had to deal with! But to know that there are others who have experienced this phenomenon feels so validating❤

    • @theadoptedtenenbaum
      @theadoptedtenenbaum 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah you totally can. That's a chronic migraine. I never knew it was until I went to my neurologist and he explained that the dull underlying buzz that never goes away is just a chronic migraine never going away. I'm inching into three years of my chronic migraine but just started botox so here's prayin lmao.

    • @susanwilliams2392
      @susanwilliams2392 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yep, three years and counting for me, with the added bonus of twenty four seven aura and migraine level light sensitivity. It is not nice you are going through this, but. it is nice to meet others

    • @e_kychkina9170
      @e_kychkina9170 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’ll be fine, i hope botox will help.

  • @laurencreates359
    @laurencreates359 5 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    The first time had a migraine I thought I was having a stroke

    • @ohlemontine4838
      @ohlemontine4838 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The time I actually got diagnosed I thought I was having a stroke, after the diagnosis I realized I had, had many more previously, it was just that one that was the worst (and I was also 7-8months pregnant at the time so much more worrying)

    • @argusgoose8758
      @argusgoose8758 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      me too

    • @courtneyharris4857
      @courtneyharris4857 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too. I was in my mid 20s and left work because I wanted to stroke out in private. Go figure.

    • @moomeg62511
      @moomeg62511 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I did have a mini stroke because of a migraine...... I partly believe it was the Er Dr ODed me

    • @jaimebradley3244
      @jaimebradley3244 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      same xD

  • @Cyb3rDReI
    @Cyb3rDReI 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I've been dealing with migraines since I was ~14, so your migraine videos give me LIFE, considering how misunderstood they are. I cannot tell you how many times I've been told "it's probably just allergies," 🙄 sure, allergies.

    • @annaswanson5903
      @annaswanson5903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is so ridiculous!! I can't believe someone would say that!

    • @Cyb3rDReI
      @Cyb3rDReI 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@annaswanson5903 unfortunately, migraines are very misunderstood!! but yeah it can get tiresome ):

    • @annaswanson5903
      @annaswanson5903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nick Nack sorry you have to deal with this

    • @Cyb3rDReI
      @Cyb3rDReI 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annaswanson5903 thank you you're very sweet ❤️

  • @Ol_wia
    @Ol_wia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I laugh on the inside when I tell someone I get migraines and they say “oh I get them too, it’s so awful I get them a few times a year” 😐 I get mine multiple times a month, lasting for days. Had an app once that helped me track them, but it’s useless because it feels like I get a new one before the old one finishes. Absolutely nothing works to help them so it’s just trying to get through the pain alone. Chewing on ice can provide a second of relief for me though, a brain freeze hurts less than a migraine so it overrides the pain for a few seconds

    • @pinklipstickx19
      @pinklipstickx19 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oli have you trying just drinking water

    • @piro_the_cat
      @piro_the_cat 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, try to search orthotropics(?) or Dr. Meew (I don't remember if that is the correct form to write his name, sorry). He talks about good tongue posture. In my case having bad tong posture on my daily life was a big trigger of migraine. Is not like I don't have a migraine since I started working on my posture, but I really feel the difference. Now I have a bad week and months of tranquility. And that bad week isn't as bad as my migraines of a year ago.
      I hope this helps and sorry if my englis isn't as good as I wanted.

  • @SarahBent
    @SarahBent 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    So apparently those were migraines. Hooray. Because that's what I needed.
    I do either hot packs or ice packs on my face. (I've been calling them "a headache in my eye.")

    • @katiet2887
      @katiet2887 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s why I used to call them when I was younger and didn’t know it was a migraine! 😂

    • @EdenYell
      @EdenYell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@katiet2887 "I have a cheese headache" Because I knew it was different from a normal headache and associated it with the headache that happens when I ate cheese. I'm allergic to a common preservative in cheese and the allergy symptom is a migraine

    • @teebles47
      @teebles47 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behind the eye is typical of a cluster headache which I hear is more painful even than a migraine.

  • @andi-zk4kl
    @andi-zk4kl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Things that trigger my migraines:
    - Looking at screens for too long
    - Talking for too long
    - Strenuous exercise
    - Being on my period
    No amount of painkillers helped ever, they do nothing for me, except making me more nauseous.
    What I found that helped:
    - Glasses that block blue light
    - Artificial tears (eye drops that are only hydrating but do not contain stuff that causes addiction)
    - Remembering to take deep breathes when talking/exercising. Just doing “meditative breathing” in general helped me a lot (Breathe in for a count of 5, pause for 2 seconds, breathe out for a count of 7, pause 2 seconds then repeat).
    - Taking a magnesium supplement
    This is all preventative tho. Once the migraine hits, nothing helps at all :( But these steps drastically reduced the amount of times I get them

    • @DavyHulme
      @DavyHulme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It might be worth checking if the screens you're using use Pulse Width Modulation to dim them, that is they basically flash the backlight on/off at different rates for different levels of brightness, many people don't notice this but for those who are sensitive to it it can cause migraines, eye strain & fatigue, notebookcheck.net has/had a list. I'm exceptionally sensitive to flickering light of any sort & changing screens helped loads.
      It might also be worth discussing preventative medication with your health care provider, like beta blockers, there are quite a few different prescription meds available.

    • @RickyMaveety
      @RickyMaveety 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know this may sound silly, but I noticed a marked reduction in my migraines after my hysterectomy. I still get prodrome and aura, but the pain is much less frequent.

    • @carolin9697
      @carolin9697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had the same problem - I would always get a Migraine before my period (mine involve bad nausea and lots of vomiting...), but since I have no discernible Aura, my doctor prescribed me to take very small dosage birth control pills (micropill) every day - so no pauses to have your period or something - to basically avoid too much fluctuation in my hormone levels. I do have a kind of "background" cycle now and even a kind of small period now and then, but only lightly and not every month, which I am also not complaining about haha. I was able to reduce the amount of migaines through the year to 4-5 times, instead of every month minimum by that. And I can actually drink water and tea and coffee during a migraine and hydrate, which I couldn't do very well before due to just throwing everything back up from the nausea, and regularly needed to go to hospital to get hydrated around the second day.
      So all in all frequency and heavyness have been reduced quite a bit.
      No idea if it might be helpful for you, and of course a neurologist and a gynecologist would need to be in onto the plan.
      I also tried a magnesium supplement, but it actually turned out to be too high a dose and therefore causing more headaches and migraines instead. I can recommend making sure to get exactly the dose you need, and not too much more. (It DID help at first, but I don't know if there was a buildup, but it started to get worse after a while, and now I just drink water that was put through a magnesium filter, so really only a small supplemental doseage.)
      But yeah, once the migraine hits, it's only about getting through, and everyone has different things that help, of course.
      Wish you the best and sorry for the long comment! :)

    • @plutonianpretzel3802
      @plutonianpretzel3802 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The period one.... YES
      I ABSOLUTELY hate it

    • @Furbisms
      @Furbisms 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm glad to hear i am not the only one who can have migraines triggered by talking too much. Sometimes ill also sit down and watch a very funny video and laugh so hard it gives me one... Not fun, lol

  • @eevesjunkyard
    @eevesjunkyard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’ve never felt so heard in my life. I’m sending this to literally everyone I know because trying to explain how hard living with migraines are is exhausting. I didn’t even realize that you can have the symptoms of it that last for days even without the severe head pain, my personal favorites of permanent light sensitivity, smell sensitivity days after it’s ended, blurred vision on random days (always thought I was just tired and my eyes were blurry cuz of it, but most other days it’s 20/20 🤷‍♀️), and eye pain. But because “you’re too young to have migraines” most people, ESPECIALLY doctors, never take me seriously.

  • @YouMeEvery1
    @YouMeEvery1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    When I have a migraine sometimes I will lay in a hot bath with my ears just under the water for about 10-15 minutes. I don't know if it's a pressure thing but usually at about minute 2 the pain subsides enough where I don't feel like my brain is trying to burrow through my right eye. It is, unfortunately, temporary relief. However, if I can catch the symptoms fast enough I can take my medication then take a bath. On those days I feel like it doesn't last quite as long and the burrowing is more of spoon and less of an electric drill.

    • @_GreenSkies_
      @_GreenSkies_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I honestly need to try this

    • @peanut9807
      @peanut9807 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I would do that, but it won't work for me ☹️. I have this type of migraine (sorry, don't wanna spell it) that lasts over 70-something hours and my longest has been 6 weeks long. I have to go to the hospital after the first 48 hours. I went to the hospital recently for a migraine and stayed a couple of days. They tried this new medication (for me) called DHE. All of my medications in the hospital are from the IV, and this one was the first one that worked! Unfortunately, I had an abnormal EKG and they couldn't give me anymore and it lasted another week. Sorry this was a long comment, I hope you find an even better way to deal with your pain, migraines suck!

    • @annekeschoneveld
      @annekeschoneveld 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I get my migraines behind my left eye always! I find ice with soft pressure helps a bit. I think the pressure on your eye is a real thing - just have to be gentle about it (obviously)

    • @pennydaytreasures8173
      @pennydaytreasures8173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you have frequent migraines and feel better in a bath look into Csf leaks. This is what I do daily to feel better.

    • @oliviasayshi7517
      @oliviasayshi7517 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is it just me or does anyone else get an insane amount of pressure around and in their ears?

  • @sheensg173
    @sheensg173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have experienced one migraine in my 20 years of existence, it was dreadful. I literally tried to smash my head on the wall just to feel something else other than the pain. 😩
    I can't imagine having it 20 days every month. You trully are a super woman.

  • @MissManicMuffin
    @MissManicMuffin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The best and somewhat only thing for me for my migraines (if not triggered by food) is:
    A dark room. Like blackout dark. Cold. Pantless, heavy medication, and a nap for 30 min to 2 hours (nothing more or less) and usually I am okay.
    If it’s a migraine caused by food triggers (fudge, cheese, wine, etc) and / or I’m in public: Crying in bathroom (with eyes closed because darkness) and as much caffeine legally allowed till I can go home.

    • @bib4eto656
      @bib4eto656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've read that a lot of caffeine can make it worse :(

    • @mabs4691
      @mabs4691 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bib4eto656 I can't take any medication with caffeine because it leads to me puking and it becoming 1k times worse. As soon as I start puking I know it's hospital time.

    • @bib4eto656
      @bib4eto656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mabs4691 crap :( I've never had to go to the hopsital because of a migraine. Hope it gets better for you.

    • @shainashumway458
      @shainashumway458 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bib4eto656 caffeine actually can help migraines. The way that it effects your blood vessels is similar to the way triptans work. It doesn't work for everyone's type of migraines but it typically is VERY helpful in large doses.

  • @CaptainKittyx
    @CaptainKittyx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I get terrible migraines from my anxiety, and my sister gets them almost 24/7 and ends up vomiting. Sucky stuff.

    • @ronilev33
      @ronilev33 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Captain Kitty Me too xxx

    • @pinklipstickx19
      @pinklipstickx19 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Captain Kitty I have anxiety and I’m scare to get migraines so I’m trying to learn to control it but I’m getting there cause I already get headaches

  • @gracefulspork
    @gracefulspork 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Feels great to have someone making videos validating the dibilitating pain I deal with. So many people don't understand how serious migraines are.

  • @derek3418
    @derek3418 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's always been so hard to explain that light doesn't make my migraines worse but smells do.

  • @crosbyishot
    @crosbyishot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I have chronic migraines, and my prescription meds work like 50% of the time, and sometimes they just get rid of the pain and leave every other symptom. Like the shaking and the loss of fine motor skills (yay I guess)
    I do use a combination of tiger balm (or peppermint oil) and a cooling cloth like runners use, so basically give the headache part a cooling sensation which helps a bit. Also, meditation techniques. Turns out I’ve been meditating since I was like 10 by doing controlled breathing to help the nausea and the pain. Usually it also helps me sleep.
    Also growing up my mom decided the migraines were a result of me not eating enough, and because of my anemia, and would force me out of bed to have dinner at the table....do not recommend this. Do not try.

    • @TheLadyWeaver
      @TheLadyWeaver 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I make oil rollerballs for my headaches! Peppermint and lavender. I joke with my friends that I make them like taco bell sauces - in hot, mild, and fire!
      But seriously if tiger balm/peppermint help, talking to someone who knows how to use EOs (not just an MLM lady) can help you tweak what you use and may help other symptoms. It could also do nothing, but you know, the peppermint already helps.

  • @nicolascharalambous5164
    @nicolascharalambous5164 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Dont u just love when you can't get any light on you, because it will actually make your head explode :))

    • @fiercerodent
      @fiercerodent 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Today's question: Migraine sufferer or vampire? Is there a meaningful difference? We may never know!

  • @florencebloem9033
    @florencebloem9033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    It is so strangely encouraging to hear someone voice every symptom I have with my migraines. Right now I'm trying to figure out life with chronic migraines (daily..yaaaaay), and your videos honestly help me so much, even just as simple minutes of joy.

  • @rosemarybruce6290
    @rosemarybruce6290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    oh god, “Migraine!Me” gave me flashbacks to my 2012-2014 fanfic days

  • @shushia1658
    @shushia1658 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Wow. I always thought I was imagining the feeling that my brain was being stabbed viciously.

    • @jadeauburn9220
      @jadeauburn9220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are not alone!

    • @cetkat
      @cetkat 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      As weird as it sounds, try rocking your head from side to side. Sometimes my icepick through the back of my eye headaches are the kind where movement actually helps. You'll know pretty much immediately if it's a good or bad idea & if staying still is actually making it worse.

  • @fiercerodent
    @fiercerodent 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you, I needed this! Had a particularly bad one Friday/Saturday, which caused my roommate to ask a bunch of very invasive and detailed questions, most of them variations of "it can't be that bad, can it?" and "is this your own fault somehow? I've seen you eat chocolate once."
    But now, instead of talking to her, I can just send her this video!

    • @lalaillustrator6295
      @lalaillustrator6295 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fierce Rodent I hope you’re feeling better now. Most of the time, when I have a migraine, I feel an immense sense of guilt. As if I should’ve tried harder to avoid it or as if I’m playing it up or something. I believe this is caused by ignorance from people saying that kind of thing, and maybe my own interiorised ableism? Anyway, I meant to say I know who frustrating it can be. It really sucks that they said that. It’s a great idea to send them that video, I hope it’ll give them enough information to understand.
      Hope you’re well😊
      I’m in the middle of migraine right now, sorry if this comment is a bit incoherent.

    • @fiercerodent
      @fiercerodent 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lalaillustrator6295 Aww, it's so nice of you to ask!
      I'm much better now, and I hope you'll feel better soon as well.
      I have that same sense of guilt, even though I know I can't really avoid the migraines, and I hope you know that as well of course.

  • @luisbeltran2177
    @luisbeltran2177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "I'll do it! I'll try anything!" "Exactly migraine me, and that's why I'm here to protect you!"

  • @roanc3709
    @roanc3709 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Showing my parents this video next time they call my migraine a “headache” (my skull is imploding leave me alone)

    • @susannalinshalm5638
      @susannalinshalm5638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'd like to show my dad and brother bc they always say stuff like "Now you gotta admit you're overreacting" or "What's so bad about it" when me or my mom have a migraine (probably got it from her).

  • @angrybidoof847
    @angrybidoof847 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I remember when I first heard about trepanation, I was confused as why some one would do that.
    Then i started getting migrains, and I get it.

    • @angrybidoof847
      @angrybidoof847 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jwb52z9 oh yeah obviously, not endorsing drilling a hole in your head, just saying I understand how they got to that conclusion.
      Also fun fact, is they do remove a part of your skull (like they're doing surgery, or there is actually swelling) , they implant the skull piece in your abdomen so they can reattach it at a later date (after the swelling as subsided).

    • @raeesmerelda
      @raeesmerelda 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep.

  • @jinxieunlucky
    @jinxieunlucky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    When I get migraines it feels like there's just so much pressure built up in my head, and I know it's not true, but I often feel like if I could just pop my eye out of its socket, it would "drain" the pressure somehow XD I like to use a cold cloth on the side that's hurting and lie down in a dark room. I also take CBD, which has been the only thing that's effectively relieved the pain for me that's non-prescription, though that's not necessarily available to everyone depending on the legalities of cannabis.

    • @kissenxundxdecke3749
      @kissenxundxdecke3749 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Selina Aguilar Same here! I put the cold cloth on my eye of the hurting side.
      Using CBD has actually lessened the amount of migraines I get. They are still coming though😫

    • @vedanti2150
      @vedanti2150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Selina Aguilar , i was actually thinking of scooping out my left eye ball today and took a knife to do it but someone stopped me:/

    • @echo2064
      @echo2064 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      CBD is not thc at all tho? So I thought it was legal everywhere?

    • @a.abarker8387
      @a.abarker8387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@echo2064 cbd is legal in most countries but it is a cannabinoid and some countries have banned all cannabinoids.

    • @natalieedelstein
      @natalieedelstein 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kissenxundxdecke3749 yep. Feels like my head is going to explode.

  • @lillelektor
    @lillelektor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This video is a life saver. I was finally able to connect the dots and speak to my GP about having migraines- turns out, I have really high blood pressure, and was prescribed medication on the spot! Five migraines yesterday, none today - I am sure it will vary with time but honestly. Thank you thank you thank you.

  • @rileyjenkins3150
    @rileyjenkins3150 5 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Hey jess I'm in that 15 % too

    • @life-gs7zr
      @life-gs7zr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same but I hate when people think headaches r migraines

    • @mads9966
      @mads9966 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me to

    • @rileyjenkins3150
      @rileyjenkins3150 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@life-gs7zr they are like the people who say they have OCD when they need to straighten a picture or the "I'm so triggered" girl

    • @aliceheartcott137
      @aliceheartcott137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same - I actually didn’t know it affected only 15% of the population - cos i know quite a lot of people (aka my extended family) having a variety of different migraine symptoms.

    • @life-gs7zr
      @life-gs7zr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rileyjenkins3150 amen I hate it

  • @toad41
    @toad41 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I use a chill max pillow and just put it on my face. It cuts out light and cools me down, it sounds stupid but helps for me.

    • @toad41
      @toad41 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I would recommend the pillow for anyone who heat effects their illness/disability

    •  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wait a cold pillow?? That sounds amazing, I have chronic tension headaches and they tend to respond well to cold packs but the cold packs always warm up. I need one of these.

    • @toad41
      @toad41 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @ yeah, you can get them on Amazon, they're around the size of an average pillow but quite thin.

    • @carolann811
      @carolann811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh, my God. This is amazing. I use ice packs but for a 72-hour migraine, it's either too many trips to the freezer for a new one or cajoling family to bring me a cold one every few hours.

    • @Eco_Hiko
      @Eco_Hiko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I sometimes use a face towel that's been soaked in ice water and then rung out. If you have a mop bucket and two towels you can keep them beside you in bed and rotate them. (Incase anyone can't find/afford a pillow. Or has a migraine whilst waiting for Amazon to deliver the pillow.) That pillow sounds amazing

  • @georgerobins4110
    @georgerobins4110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As someone who has headaches pretty much all the time, migraines are so so so so much worse. The only thing worse than migraines is cluster headaches (which is basically 5000 headaches stacked on top of each other)

    • @penelopesneezer
      @penelopesneezer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cluster migraines are the worst

  • @thatoneweirdkid1843
    @thatoneweirdkid1843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As a migraine sufferer, thank youuuu. People never understand how bad they can get. Also, taking magnesium supplements has helped mine

  • @critically.panned
    @critically.panned 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I've had chronic migraines since high school and I'm shocked by the sheer volume of information I've gained in one video. Thank you so much for uploading this ❤️

  • @georgecooper9766
    @georgecooper9766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I remember once while I had a migraine I decided I needed some food to help with the nausea so I started shuffling to the kitchen with a blanket over my head to reduce light and noise but then the light from the kitchen plus the effort of standing up was so painful I just ended up curled in a ball on the ground of the hallway with a blanket over my head. Only got halfway to the kitchen.

  • @stevenstev8726
    @stevenstev8726 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This video chowd me that what i thog all of this years that were 'just head aches' that i had and that 'i was been dramatic' were actualy migraines all this time

  • @sleepingroses761
    @sleepingroses761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy to hear that I'm not the only one who doesn't often get the actual headache, but still gets everything else. My hemiplegic migraines were initially triggered by medication (in keeping with my family's medical history).

  • @graysonj.8235
    @graysonj.8235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I love how you can see how much effort Jessica puts into her videos. And she’s so lovely and sweet!

  • @LolaGeek
    @LolaGeek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    ✋ Raise your hand if you're watching this with a migraine...

    • @jadeauburn9220
      @jadeauburn9220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      prodrome!🙋‍♀️

    • @88marome
      @88marome 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      More like: "listening to this video". My eyes hurt.

    • @uhohava379
      @uhohava379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You poor things,
      I know how much migraine suck. Luckily I don't have one right now but I hope you all are better my now!

    • @sandrasofia8120
      @sandrasofia8120 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh no, go to sleep and get well

    • @e_kychkina9170
      @e_kychkina9170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Chronic migraine 🖐🏼
      Have dull pain right now, nothing too bad

  • @audreybrunt7385
    @audreybrunt7385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    my friend just told me about her recent pots and vestibular migraine diagnoses and I just sent a bunch of your videos to her!! I've been a subscriber for a long time and am so thankful for you and your work!! I have suffered from hormonal/pms migraines for a long time so this is definitely one of the most relatable videos of yours for me that isn't about being gay haha

  • @NightshadeQS
    @NightshadeQS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh my god. I always lose vision in my right eye when a migraine is coming on during the aura phase. I had no idea that this could actually, like, become long-term blindness. Wonderful new things to worry about my migraines!
    (No, but seriously, thank you for this video! I've had migraines for years and it runs in my family too, and none of us were aware of the first stage at all! We assumed the beginning of the migraine was the Aura phase, since everyone's aura phase seems to be super noticeable and dramatic for us.)

  • @angellovely57
    @angellovely57 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Sleep, coffee, and a hot tub in a dark room with headache relief music. It feels so much better

    • @tammybushnell6920
      @tammybushnell6920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is headache relief music? I’m glad you have found some relief.

    • @angellovely57
      @angellovely57 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tammy Bushnell it is a type of music designed to help relieve pain, you can find some here on TH-cam

  • @meghan-daisywhite-romeo5306
    @meghan-daisywhite-romeo5306 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I use oxygen for my migraines it works really well that and epilepsy tablets

    • @annaswanson5903
      @annaswanson5903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I take an epilepsy medication regularly but still get migraines

    • @isabellamccracken645
      @isabellamccracken645 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If u feel comfortable answering, how does epilepsy medication work/how do the side affects affect u? I’m supposed to start using them soon

    • @annaswanson5903
      @annaswanson5903 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@isabellamccracken645 I take gabapentin. I have an auto immune problem and I get really bad nerve pain. I haven't had a flare since I started taking it and am not in anywhere near as much pain. I recommend taking the lowest does that works for you. I am so grateful for this medication and don't really feel I have side effects on it. There are a lot of people in my support group that take it too and a lot have complained that it made them tired, or that they gained weight (but they took 3x the normal dose). Also, if you stop taking it you do go through withdrawl. I could do a whole video on this, so if you still have more questions let me know

    • @Rosa_moon_J
      @Rosa_moon_J 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i had a seizure a few days ago during my sleep because i forgot to take my meds and had a horrible migraine afterwards. i still feel like i'm recovering now :/

    • @TheMadamDragon
      @TheMadamDragon 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Isabelle McCracken epilepsy medication can sometimes be affective for some types of migraine as they are caused by trigger cells in the brain stem and send out neurological impulses similar to that in epilepsy

  • @InGhostlyCompany
    @InGhostlyCompany 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have had migraines for 15 years now, and had never been told about the other symptoms......that I have clearly been having for around 10 years. Damn. So helpful, thank you

  • @elizabethbrill311
    @elizabethbrill311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Somehow the fact the dogs are so used to you on the floor acting like that drives home how constant it is for you even more than the numbers and physical effects :(

  • @zozomorl7804
    @zozomorl7804 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    i had a migraine in the middle of school and my teacher laughed as i was about to go home and said “it’s just a headache, you don’t need to leave for that” and sent me back to class lol.
    On my school forms was a warning that i’ve been diagnosed with migraines :)

    • @zoe_astra
      @zoe_astra 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Honestly the school system really needs to shape up when it comes to this, I've been through it and they were the worst years of my life, mostly because of how difficult my school made everything for me.
      I don't know where you live but in the UK migraines are now actually classed as a disability so it's illegal for schools to treat students who suffer from migraines like this.
      My attendance went down to around 64% at one point because I was terrified of having a migraine at school and being forced to remain in lessons, whenever I felt like my pain was starting to get worse I would just stay home.

    • @zozomorl7804
      @zozomorl7804 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Zoe they do, my school literally doesn’t take anything seriously, especially mental health. also, nice name lol :)

    • @zoe_astra
      @zoe_astra 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zozomorl7804 :)

    • @zincwell6503
      @zincwell6503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I definitely feel you there. My science teacher wouldn't let me leave class to go to the loo when I'd just started my period for the first time. I can't even tell you how humiliating that was and there was blood everywhere, on the seat, dripping down my shoes and I got bullied really badly because of that

    • @sadee1287
      @sadee1287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@zincwell6503 OMG that's horrible. I can tell you, if any teacher said that to me, I would just leave. They don't have the right to treat you with disrespect, ever. No way is that acceptable.

  • @weregrettoinformyou5676
    @weregrettoinformyou5676 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This was equally the most informative and hilarious piece I’ve seen.

  • @sylviadesloges6237
    @sylviadesloges6237 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I find that a quiet, dark room, a heating pad for my neck and shoulders and an ice pack over my eyes can be helpful. It’s not always completely effective but definitely helps to relax and lessen the symptoms. And of course my fur baby for comfort.

    • @Eisofice
      @Eisofice 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Coldness/pressure on my eyes really helps me! I use those eye masks that you can keep in the fridge or freezer

  • @sierram9573
    @sierram9573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’ve had migraines for as long as I can remember, at least 10 years that I’ve been aware of it
    And you are the only person who has described an aura to me in an accurate way that made me realize I do experience it. The way doctors explained it never sounded even remotely like what I experience
    Your videos mean more to me than you could possibly know. Not only have I already learned a lot since finding you just a few days ago, but you’ve made me feel SO much less alone. Thank you for making these videos ❤️

  • @bethcannon6435
    @bethcannon6435 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I always put a cold pack under my neck while lying down in a room without any light. (The lack of light is less for pain relief and more to encourage me to SLEEEEEEP)
    Edit: also I never realized how many people have migraines and also how similar the symptoms are.