HOW I FOUND OUT MY SON HAS AUTISM *emotional*
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
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this is the story of how i found out my son has autism. he doesn't have his official autism diagnosis yet but we are going through the process. this is by far the hardest video i've ever had to film. it's really hard to talk about everything we've been through over the last year but ultimately, i am glad to have this realization that lincoln has autism. we can get him the therapy he needs and we can be more understanding and more patient parents for him. i'm trusting in the plan that i know God has for his life and for our life. i don't know what the future holds but i know the one who holds it. thanks so much for watching + please leave me a comment down below if you are going through this autism journey as well. we got this!
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Both my daughter and I are in the spectrum. My daughter really struggled to function as a child and we didn't know what her future held. Today she is 24, has an exceptionally high IQ, and is a senior software designer of virtual reality. She designs VR programs for the medical field and for law enforcement training. She is able to do extraordinary things in her jobs that neurotypical people cannot do. She works for two different companies, holding two "full time" jobs where she sets her own hours working at home because she can do the work in half the time that a non-autistic person would. Her autism used to be a huge challenge because she was always overstimulated, but now she made herself a peaceful home and life, and autism has become her superpower.
Thank you so much for your comment! This gives me peace 😌☺️
How to overcome autism
Jam e gëzuar për vajzën tuaj. Zoti e bekoftë🙏❤🫶🤗💯
There’s more awareness for autism now
Kids are a gift from God! He is perfect:) too cute and adorable! My kiddos has the same kitchen lol :) they're so cute!
Yes they are! & thank you! We love that ikea kitchen haha the best 🙌🏻
Love you Catherine! So glad that you are Lincoln's mom!
Love you too 💛
Autism momma here! I’ve been on this autism journey for a few years now. If you ever want to reach out with questions don’t hesitate, I love helping other mommas out. It can be very emotional at times, but the most important thing is that he is happy. Mine also received first steps and they did SO great with him. He still receives speech, occupational therapy, & physical therapy. Which has made a world of difference! Omg so much of what you are feeling is what I felt and still feel some days. I’m here for you mama💓
Ps there is a Facebook group made by autistics called embracing autism for other autistics and moms with little ones w/ autism, it’s called embracing autism & they are SO awesome!
Thank you so much for that!! I really appreciate the support. 💛 he’s just started therapy but we’re loving it already! & I’ll definitely look into joining the Facebook support group too! I’m in one other one & I like it a lot!
@@catherinelorene9914❤️❤️
Thank you for making this video
Thank you friend 💛
My kids were 14 months, 18 months and 21 months for walking. My kids were 2.5/3 yo for talking and did speech therapy .
How did the speech therapy go? We’ll be starting soon with Lincoln
Your story sounds so much like mine with some differences. I am in the stage of bringing things up to my husband and he keeps saying everything is fine but I just have a feeling something is not right along with things I'm seeing in my son. It's so scary to go through this. I was trying to see if you had an email address posted so I could send you a personal message. I don't know anyone that has a child with autism and I feel like it would be so helpful to connect with people that do. My son is only 13 months old but is def speech delayed. He is in early intervention but only because he was in the hospital for other issues when he was first born so he automatically qualified for early intervention. He starts speech next week so hopefully that will help. He's obviously too young to be diagnosed with autism but I def see some red flags such as the lack of pointing and not bringing things to me. Sorry for the long winded comment. I found comfort in your video knowing I'm not alone and we can and will get through this.
Just know you are doing the absolute BEST for your son. You are doing everything you can for him already, you have him in early intervention and you’re getting him in speech which is going to be amazing 🙌🏻 with your husband, it will probably just take time. It took a lot of time for Adam to come around and accept what was going on and I just had to give him space and he finally admitted to me that he was scared. He’s the best dad ever to Lincoln and he’s killing it at tackling all the special needs things with me now. I agree that you need other people in your corner that are going through the same thing as you are. Feel free to reach out to me ANYTIME!! my email is catherineloreneblog@gmail.com or you can dm on Instagram too it’s @catherinelorene. You got this friend I know you’re gonna keep killing it because that’s what we do. You’re a super mama. 💪🏻🦸🏻♀️🤍 sending all the love and prayers!!
I’ve missed your videos! I was hoping all was well with you❤️ I’m so sorry y’all are going through a rough time. I’ll be praying for y’all❤️ he’s such a cutie❤️
Aw thank you! I’ve missed posting too. 💛
Thank you so much for opening up and sharing about your beautiful baby boy!!
💛💛 thanks for listening
My little one is turning 4, and suspect autism as well. his evaluation is not until July. My oldest was diagnosed at 6, and I was at first in denial. It's funny how I still feel it is catching me off guard with little brother, because their personalities/!traits present differently. I feel that high functioning is so easy to brush off as goofy, stubborn, quirky...etc. much like you said, I've been looking back at videos, flapping, head banging, and spinning, putting pieces together I didn't fully see in the first couple years.
Hey mama ❤ My daughter is 7 and has FINALLY been screened and diagnosed ASD. If you’re in need of mama support, please reach out! I’d love to connect to support you, swap stories, swap strategies, and make a new friend. ❤️
I had a very similar situation. I had a gut feeling that my little boy Shade was not developing normally around 12 months. My partner and his grandparents insisted that Shade was normal, and that perhaps I had rather grandiose expectations for him. Many times it was suggested that I seek therapy.
This was actually an attractive proposition and one I considered. Ultimately I couldn't accept it.
I took Shade to Vanderbilt to meet with America's foremost autism expert, and he was diagnosed. By the time he was 3, no one challenged this anymore, it was very evident that he was autistic.
Mothers should pursue their intuition. Don't let optimism inhibit early intervention.
Good for you for trusting your mom gut!! It is so frustrating when people don’t see what you see but you fought for him! 👏🏻 early intervention is key! You are a good mama!
Stores are so stimulating with sights, smells, and sounds. I'm a stealth autistic adults, and stores are my least favorite place to be, especially beeping at a noisy check stand.
Bonjour ,j'ai regardé votre vidéo .TARA LENISTON a son fils aîné qui est autiste.Il s'appelle DYLAN.Elle a écrit un livre sur l'autisme. Cela peut vous servir .Son TH-cam :Coming home to autism
Just like you we don't have an official diagnosis but we have taken the first steps in that direction and COVID has definitely made things bad for us too as we could not seek help earlier.
I can relate to your words soooo much, my greatest fear is that my son might not be independent as an adult and that he will be all alone after we are gone. However I do believe in God and I pray things will turn out good in the end.
I love your positivity, you are a strong woman and a great mum.
Many hugs from Birmingham !!
I’m right there with you mama, you’re not alone in your feelings & fears at all. Never hesitate to reach out if you wanna talk! Praying for you & sending all the hugs & coffee your way. We got this!! 💪🏻💛
Hey Catherine! I just followed you on Instagram and commented on FB. Thank you for sharing your journey. I try to share snippets of our lives as well while trying to protect my daughter's privacy and basically just share things from my point of view and just focus on Autism Awareness in general. Like you, my daughter was our first child, we did not know things were different for a long time. I was the one constantly googling things and checking on things. Our pediatrician did not notice signs until she was over 2. We did Early Steps and now do ABA therapy 30 hours a week. I had to come to my own acceptance of the situation and focus on our blessings. I have another daughter and like you, I can see the huge difference in their milestones. It is such an emotional situation as a mom, we just want the best for our kids. But I find joy in the uniqueness of our journey and the chance to share and spread awareness.
Hi laura! Thank you for sharing that. Sounds like we have a lot of similarities. I’m glad that I’ve been able to find a little community of autism mamas through sharing our story. It’s definitely important to be able to relate to each other through this journey. 💛
My almost 3 year old has autism. Sending you a big hug. Trying to help him the best I can, I hope I am.
Thank you, sending hugs back! You’re doing amazing mama!!!
Hope you will be bringing out more TH-cam videos soon! ❤️
Yes I will!!! 🥰🥰
I know my son has it too. On a waitlist for a diagnosis. God Bless you.
Sending prayers your way. You got this mama 🙏🏻💪🏻
I would love to have other autistic mom friends as well.
It truly makes a huge difference!! Try to find a community of likeminded moms & reach out if you ever need to talk! 🤍
My son is 2.6 yrs old, recently diagnosed and I am heartbroken and overwhelmed in need of hearing positive outcomes from therapies and the process of figuring out what works for my child . I would love more content ❤ thank you so much for sharing something so private its so helpful to feel like there's someone to relate to in this crazy thing called life just trying to do what's best for our babies and family while trying to care for ourselves. You are an inspiration
I’m here for you if you ever need to talk! I remember just how hard it was at the beginning, you will get through it! Lincoln is THRIVING right now… in aba, potty trained, talking like crazy, making friends, dressing himself… so much progress im so proud of him and im sure your son will be the same. New content & updates are coming soon!
Don't worry! Autism is a more highly evolved brain than a neurotypical brain. It's not an issue in a child/adult. It is an example of how people are all different. As a resuly, there is so much development and evolvement that occur in those lucky enough to be around these people.
Looking at this from how it presents spiritually, they have one foot in the spiritworld and one foot on the earth plane. They are such a gift here.
I understand the following to support overstimulation and all other traits found to be challenging:
Dance
Movement
Art
Nature & Grounding of all sorts.
I understand the aim of these activities is to get them into their body as much as needed to bring down what those around them feel to be challenging behaviours, but just as importantly to allow them to have a smoother less emotionally turbulent life here by helping them to be on the earth by grounding them.
Sharing grounding ideas:
*Pat their body down when autistic traits arise/as a preventive.
*Walk or stand barefeet/body on the grass/connected with the earth.
*Buy a good quality earthing bedsheet/blanket so they are earthed all through the night reaping huge 'grounding' time.
*Dance
*Play root chakra frequencies for them from TH-cam - with earphones, if possible.
*Anything that involves movement.
*Buy sensory toys/items.
They are beautiful gifted individuals🙂
God bless your child
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We mothers understand our kids faster than our hubby. I never knew any of the signs of this until now you gave full details. please stay strong for him.
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His's so cute and handsome
I don’t have any experience with autism but I have a friend who has been healing her son with autism naturally over the past year and I have seen his improvements, if you would like to connect with her let me know 💛
Aw thank you I would love that. That sounds interesting, I don’t really know anything about that but I’d be interested to hear more