Loooove me some Aunty Joy, so many gems here!! Two things that resonated the most with me, keeping a consistent routine, that has definitely changed my life for the better when I know what I’m supposed to be doing next and don’t get too distracted. Also, don’t be afraid to disappoint society, I’m about to turn 35 and just got married, the kids questions are coming hard and fast 🙄, always be true to yourself.
This was amazing Joy, as always. Great take aways from this sit down especially listening to your body, accept aging gracefully and finances. We modern women tend to forget this last bit. Yes a man should provide, but its wise to have some money of your own as well.. Something I'm glad my grandpa always used to emphasize on. And as for kids,family and marriage,a modern woman is lucky to choose what suits her. And it's okay. We should normalise it! 🤗 sorry my comment was abit long....just wanted to share a Pov.☺
Love this ! i have suffered for over 20 years with my acne and the comments are always not very cool. especially the street doctors. but what they don't understand is I understand my over oily face and try as much as possible to keep acne under control. so yes they should keep the comments to themselves
I was waiting for you to say if I don't have a 5 year career plan I am doomed! But gosh! That's the one thing I wanted to hear in a very long time....cause I don't know shittt...
wowww i relate so much im 20yrs and i already know i dont want kids. it gets so annoying when im demonized for that or invalidated about being too young. i do get where theyre coming from but i do know im not carrying a child ever😌❤
I love you Kendi,so genuine it's refreshing... The point on getting married and babies😏 Someone didn't consult me when they wanted to marry or get babies,why do they want to have a say in my decisions!
You dropping gems sis...I made me think , question and want to change a lot for the better. Thank you for the lessons...Will implement to change for the better❤.
hey Joy thanks for this info. I absolutely agree 100% especially the confidence part (cz that's how pple view you always) that hit hard! I have struggled wit that .
One thing I wish I knew when I was in my mid twenties was saving and investing. Please listen to aunty Joy youngins! I'm in my mid thirties and one of my biggest regrets now is not having been better with my money earlier.
I also learnt alot about investing in my mid 30s. Now I am 36 turning 37 in September. I am not going to regret that I didn't know some things earlier because I didn't even have a source of income then. But now that I have I have saved and invested alot. Dnt regret make better choices.
Being rude to service providers this happened to me in an hotel on a first date the guy shouted at the waitress just because she forgot to bring us serviettes... I told him to calm down she is just human she can forget...the date was ok but after parting ways that day I blocked him I hate rude people... Met him last year in a mall ed he asked me why I blocked him ed I told him the truth he started saying how sorry he was for that but it was too late I had already moved on
You did the right thing , when dating always check how the person treats third parties coz they are busy pretending to be good to you but will show their true character with other people they are not trying to impress.
Love the vlog!!!! Oh I relate to the bad gynaecologist experience! I went to one to get birth control and he told me to bring my husband/boyfriend because he gets complaints from guys when their women get birth control!
How did you know about that issue with my tooth....no tell us how you knew....here for the patience...the problem with millennials and impatience is the glam of social media goes hand in hand with not letting social media get you broke... everything is just resonating.. love love
Ati Australian house spiders, that doesn't scare me much,...have you heard of their snakes problem,...weeh...! It's the only reason I could never live there, unless its in the city in an apartment i guess
Just experienced the "no one is responsible of taking care of your emotions &triggers" I'll never see the world the same😞
😂😂😂😂I love you my September baby mate.,Now I love you even more,September babies rock!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes boo September babes are the gem Libras and September Virgos are bomb
Loooove me some Aunty Joy, so many gems here!! Two things that resonated the most with me, keeping a consistent routine, that has definitely changed my life for the better when I know what I’m supposed to be doing next and don’t get too distracted. Also, don’t be afraid to disappoint society, I’m about to turn 35 and just got married, the kids questions are coming hard and fast 🙄, always be true to yourself.
Baaaaaaby that Kourtney clip edit!!! Chiiile DA shaaaaaade gurrrl scratch that, das a whole damn palm tree girl 😂😂😂😂
This is that big sister talk nobody wants to give you....Thank you Aunty Joy 😊
You had me at the goals point🤣.. I was prepared to hear 'my life will fall apart' or something similar.
Listen yo your body!
Comfortable in the process!
Also did anyone notice the like button Colors after liking👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Wow I especially liked when you said be kind to people around you..word
This was amazing Joy, as always. Great take aways from this sit down especially listening to your body, accept aging gracefully and finances. We modern women tend to forget this last bit. Yes a man should provide, but its wise to have some money of your own as well.. Something I'm glad my grandpa always used to emphasize on. And as for kids,family and marriage,a modern woman is lucky to choose what suits her. And it's okay. We should normalise it! 🤗 sorry my comment was abit long....just wanted to share a Pov.☺
Pretty insightful points Joy.
Takeaway point:listen to your body, find your routine, patience.
Love this ! i have suffered for over 20 years with my acne and the comments are always not very cool. especially the street doctors. but what they don't understand is I understand my over oily face and try as much as possible to keep acne under control. so yes they should keep the comments to themselves
Thanks for this talk big sis, Joy.
We needed to hear this.
Patience! Patience!! Patience!!!
I had to pull a chair coz sis! You were addressing me today and for that? Thanks a lot!👏am schooled🥰❤️
Yeayy September babies we here to learn...thanks for the talk
You are pure humble bundle love you
this was so engaging and real advice that i haven't heard elsewhere in videos like this
I love the fact that one should just do what brings them joy and not focus so much on the success. Patience is the key
Such a wholesome video. One word, PERIODTTTT!!!!!
I was waiting for you to say if I don't have a 5 year career plan I am doomed! But gosh! That's the one thing I wanted to hear in a very long time....cause I don't know shittt...
Always inspiring to listen to!! Keep on with the great content, sit down wisdoms etc
I love the 'Listen To Your Body' Part. Had the same exp. with the IUD. I thought it was a me thing.
And she started with a my biggest lesson. Patience is key
I have come back to this video twice now
Sooooo much wisdom... I love it!!!!!
Oh my goodness you are sunset dust, beautiful words and all the good vibes ✨💛💛
Kendi i love what you do!!!you inspire most of us..keep doing it.love you
Great wise words shared Joy. Loved it All! 💕👏🏾🥰
Love this💯
September hunnies! wuhuu!!...the gator facts though haha
Preach aunt Joy we are here for it ❤️
wowww i relate so much im 20yrs and i already know i dont want kids. it gets so annoying when im demonized for that or invalidated about being too young. i do get where theyre coming from but i do know im not carrying a child ever😌❤
Guy 🤗🤗
Reaaaaalllly enjoyed this video.You awesome.
Love love your attitude to life!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are a vibe.Love this
I love you Kendi,so genuine it's refreshing...
The point on getting married and babies😏 Someone didn't consult me when they wanted to marry or get babies,why do they want to have a say in my decisions!
You dropping gems sis...I made me think , question and want to change a lot for the better. Thank you for the lessons...Will implement to change for the better❤.
Informational and very entertaining 👏. You're such vibe, I can easily listen to you all day!
😂today am the first...love you joy.your content is golds
Great way to wake up to this wisdom . Thanks Joy 🎉🎉😘😘😘😍🎀
All 34 were amazing!!
Girl it is forbidden to call ourselves aunties if we are under 40 😫 I prefer big sis !
This is sooooo authentic!!!!! Bellissimo 😘
You’re stunning joy 😍
always authentic 😍😍
hey Joy thanks for this info. I absolutely agree 100% especially the confidence part (cz that's how pple view you always) that hit hard! I have struggled wit that .
That outfit!where can we get that, is it a kaftan or a dress, whatever it is. Looking great, please plug
Am loving all this 💯
👀me at 12:17 am watching Aunty Joy...(Then the no social media past 9 comes In)..💆
Very informative aunt Joy
Agree..specially forgiveness, my mum use to say "by not forgiving, you're blocking your blessing"
One thing I wish I knew when I was in my mid twenties was saving and investing. Please listen to aunty Joy youngins! I'm in my mid thirties and one of my biggest regrets now is not having been better with my money earlier.
I also learnt alot about investing in my mid 30s. Now I am 36 turning 37 in September. I am not going to regret that I didn't know some things earlier because I didn't even have a source of income then. But now that I have I have saved and invested alot. Dnt regret make better choices.
Goddess Kendi
Being rude to service providers this happened to me in an hotel on a first date the guy shouted at the waitress just because she forgot to bring us serviettes... I told him to calm down she is just human she can forget...the date was ok but after parting ways that day I blocked him I hate rude people... Met him last year in a mall ed he asked me why I blocked him ed I told him the truth he started saying how sorry he was for that but it was too late I had already moved on
You did the right thing , when dating always check how the person treats third parties coz they are busy pretending to be good to you but will show their true character with other people they are not trying to impress.
My favorite person
Had to pause at "Fast forward" 😂
Love love love this video such great advice taking notes❤❤
You just made my day
When she said grab a snack I knew it is about to go down 😂😂😂😂
You said it well Joy, your authenticity is key
I love the outfit and the décor❤❤
What HV grabbed.... Save save save.......🥰
Your sassy vibes. Wah me me me me 💯
Love the vlog!!!!
Oh I relate to the bad gynaecologist experience!
I went to one to get birth control and he told me to bring my husband/boyfriend because he gets complaints from guys when their women get birth control!
Wisdom lives here! ✨✨
Lotsa love ❤
Well put joy! Love it. ❤️🤗
Thank you Aunt Joy 💜
You look so young😩😩😩
She is young
Actually she's young
Contrary to popular opinion, 34 is a young age😅
This, was s much needed!🤗
Loved thiss!!! ❤
How did you know about that issue with my tooth....no tell us how you knew....here for the patience...the problem with millennials and impatience is the glam of social media goes hand in hand with not letting social media get you broke... everything is just resonating.. love love
Grab a snack❤❤❤❤💙💙💙.
I love this
Ati Australian house spiders, that doesn't scare me much,...have you heard of their snakes problem,...weeh...! It's the only reason I could never live there, unless its in the city in an apartment i guess
COREECTION TO THOSE OF WHOM PREFER AUNTIE JOY INSTEAD OF *SIS* JOY
#BLACK DON'T CRACK 🧡😭🧡
What a way to start the morning 🥳🥳🥳. Your edit is 🔥 🔥 🔥. We really needed to have this conversation. Thank you joy 💕
💯 agree
15:40 🤣😅
One word...YES
You just earne a new f****** subscriber 😭❤️❤️
i am a petty person i would have not worked with the girl from the start 😂😂😂😂if you are mean to me even in future please keep the same energy .
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Aunty Joy, i promise to buy sunscreen today
In my early twenties, I definitely needed this.
Thanks Joy
first. Hi Joy
I have scheduled your videos for every week. One day in the week, I learn what you have for us via your video
I DESPISE people who are rude to waiters,bartenders,watchmen,gatemen,House girls...etc
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Gosh...how I love Aunty Joy! I agree with EVERYTHING!!! 🙌🏾
Australia has scary things i just dont want to imagine
Hehe Joy, you are also a millennials. So "us" millennials, not "you" millennials. Thanks for doing this video and also being very proud of your age.
when auntie joy speaks we grab a snack and enjoy
Auntieeeee Joyyyyy 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Middle age look good you
34 is not middle aged WTF 😒
@Miss Lilith Um..no. (From Merriam Webster) Middle age (noun) Definition of middle age: the period of life from about 45 to about 64
Hold up.... that male gynae said what to you?!! Miscuuuuze me!!!!!! Surrrrrr???? Listen....... Literally so UNPROFESSIONAL MANSPLAINING BEING 🤡ery