I just read your title and I got so emotional. Many people say they wish they were as skinny as me I tell them not to even have it in their wildest dreams. To some of us, it is a big insecurity we just can’t hide. Omg! I just want to gain weight and have some flesh on me. It has come with depression, loss of courage, self loath, loss of self esteem, poor eating habits and terrible performance in my work, terrible relations with my family and so on. Lord! Am so emotional. Thank God for you.
I think people should just avoid telling content creators "I like you better this way or that way"... I understand where such sentiments come from, but it is important to just let people be. I've had people tell me to share 'my weight loss journey' and there's none. I got sick lost weight and never gained it back. It's important to understand that we never know the whole story and unless someone comes forward and decides to share the story, just accept people as they are.
its should just be a life rule. even telling family, friends, coworkers. etc. but you are very correct. and I hope you are back to being healthy and no longer sick. and sorry for that.
I'm also going the hardest times in my life i've lost so much weight and i get hurt when people keep telling me "umekonda sana"it really gets to me...i hope one day everything will get better and i'll go back to my weight
I hear you, was there last year....am now starting to add weight. If you can get hold of adaptogenic herbs or plants, use them, I use maca root and it's of great help since May 15 this year.
@Rachael Maiche why would you say that? Is supporting a fellow content creator attention seeking?🤔😏, I mean I don't get it? What's the point of being salty? You're the one seeking attention here, stop trying it sooo hard, you're clearly fighting your anger off the keyboard.thats obviously an insecurity yelling at you, fix it!!☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️
I can relate , I was 44kg on my lowest days.............but I am now 56/57kg. People will keep commenting but I move regardless. These days I dont judge based on weight. You are not alone.
The smallest I have ever been was 51kgs, being 5'7" I looked skinny, but I wore a smile daily, even though there were days I hoped I would sleep and never wake up. The darkest time of my life, having been diagnosed with a chronical illness, I was also depressed and my body adjusting to medications. Now I am 62kgs after almost 3 years of eating everything to gain weight. I feel you and I hope people will stop talking about other people's weight, and mind their own business. You look beautiful and I love your body.
First all this is my story.. This is me... I am 5'7 and I was 50 kgs and lord I looked so skinny and people were talking ...... Now I am 60, still struggling to gain more weight though....
A lot of people on social media actually don't mind their business. They don't know what goes on behind the scenes. Thanks for being so honest about this. I can totally relate with this, especially with Brands and clients changing their mind. Sending you love and hugs!
I can totally relate to your fitness journey, I lost a lot of weight in my early 20s (went from a UK size 16/18 to UK 8) because I was so unhappy inside and I wanted to have control of something in my life, I became obsessed. A few years now I’m my mid twenties I’ve put on some weight (size 12) and I love my curves and my body. I’m not that unhappy women I use to be and people/family tell me I miss your skinny body and I look at them and think if I had carried on the way I was. I don’t think I’d be here today. Thanks for being so open and vulnerable. I’m glad your much better now from the inside because that’s what matters not what you look like!
It's so sad that people have the audacity to tell other people that they are fat or skinny but not the audacity to ask people if they need help losing or gaining weight.They will just make I feel insecure and depressed with their comments about your body!!
thank you for taking the time to speak on body positivity. You were so kind in your explanation and didn't rip that person to shreds over her comment; it just goes to show who you are
You tackled the pic issue so maturely, i dunno why most of vloggers always feel attacked or negative when told stuff that arent nursing their egos, not everyone means bad. YOU IS BEAUTIFUL JOJO
Thank you Joy for opening up because there are so many of us who are going through that unhappy phase, and you sharing now means better times are coming, like don't stop putting effort because someone will see it and pay you for what you're worth. So thanks again.
You are love and light!! I love love love your videos. you could literally put up a video of you just smiling and I would absolutely love it! Keep shinning sis!
Aww Joy, I also think she didn't mean bad. Thanks for being open with us. It 's always so magnificent when people come out of a bad place and become better and stronger through the struggles. Pole sana for what you were going through, we all have our lowest but thank God that He is there for us always❤
True they hurt I have had let's just say some-ish on my body &even on myself personaly we all make mistakes it's just a matter of growth,learning I accept correction nikikosea but also believe knowing a person whether friend-wise etc it's accepting them even in their bad,and allowing them to grow,change as you still stand by them but this days don't know if most do that....
Joy we truly appreciate you being real, raw & vulnerable with us your tribe. So glad to see that you are striving to be in a better place mentally & physically. We love you Joy!
You spark so much JOY (note that I will repeat this over and over) in our lives and you may get that alot but we are here to keep pushing together. Thank you for being so vulnerable with us ❤😊 Keep doing the best as you inspire alot of us who have struggled with tumultuous relationships, body weight, self confidence etc You are the SPARK OF JOY we constantly need to remind ourselves how beautiful we all are. So, THANK YOU 🤍
I love her she is just amazing literally....she responds to comments to us kawa peeps i was soo shook when she did...used to most celebrities ignoring...her skin is one of my goals and her bawdy she looks great in everything plus am curvy am happy to have someone like her on my side
I love her she is just amazing literally....she responds to comments to us kawa peeps i was soo shook when she did...used to most celebrities ignoring...her skin is one of my goals and her bawdy she looks great in everything plus am curvy am happy to have someone like her on my side
One can feel the sadness when you talk about that time when you were smaller. Thanks for sharing. Im not big on sharing my personal issues with anyone and im trying to learn by seeing how you do it...baby steps.
This just reminded me of the lowest point of my life. As an escape I started baking. After I got out of it I just couldn't stand baking anymore. Even looking at my cake pictures made me so sad that I deleted them (saved them elsewhere) People keep asking why I no longer bake, some force me go back to it......... What I'm saying is, I totally get you.
Sis I am you,you are me. Weight is such a big thing as we get older. I’m a relatively active person (I play basketball competitively) and everyone seemed to enjoy telling me I have gained weight like so you think my mirrors don’t work?!?its such a sensitive thing to tell someone you used to look so good in this picture. Not everyone is zen with where they are I their weight journey. Thank you for sharing this moment with us
I looove love love how you simply pour out your soul into your creative life and Annnnd grace us with all of that,......I ,we just love you JOY...fullstop!!
one of the main reason I follow you is because I relate to your body. It is real. When I look at you I see a real body like mine. We are just perfect. Dont change for anyone.
Mines quite the opposite..the saddest i ever was was in Campus,had just lost my Dad ,hated the campus i was in,didn't really care for the course i was doing..Girl,i was eating everything,added so much weight everyone would be like..Ghaaai,ni wewe,kwani unakula nini siku hizi..so this made me drink even more,and add more food on top of that,all my clothes never fit well..Now at 60kgs i feel much better,i wouldn't want to go less than 60kgs though coz i like abit of thickness.Wueh,what you said is true..i look at my pics from back then and i can tell i wasn't happy.
i totally understand how you feel...im also asked why i aint loosing weight after giving birth yet they don’t know i had a scary pregnancy which i had an emergency CS ....be happy for who you are☺️
Enjoy watching your videos - informative, humorous, and inspirational. Sorry to hear about the issues you were going through some time back. Don't let others get you down because you look fabulous! We are rooting for you so don't give up!
You are such an amazing human being. I wish you so much joy and continuous zeal to be who you fully want to be. Thank you for always sharing. Hugs and kindness.
You are beautiful honey, always have and always will be. I've followed you for years and you have been an inspiration for my life. It was a tough journey, but it has shaped you into the woman you are now and are continually becoming. You are gorgeous babe, GORGEOUS! I just wanted to let you know that. Also, yes to the editing video for sure!
I delivered my first child via cs seems my body got into shock cz I lost alot of weight...more than half my body weight...when I went back to work everyone kept asking me if I was sick or if I have a condition...the audacity...and each time I said I just delivered they will say watu hunona wakizaa...
I don't even know you personally but i like you so much!! Watching your videos is so HEALTHY tbh. Your expressions are everything ! 😂😂😂Power to you sis. Congratulations to you for all the big things you've conquered and for those you're doing♥️♥️♥️
I’ve been skinny and now I’m thicker. Totally happier now than when I had a 23 inch waist. The comparison to my early 20s (especially by family) gets on my nerves. You only have to look at dudes who couldn’t care less about weight issues to realize it’s more about other women being snide about your weight. I’m glad there’s a huge shift in what sexy means these days. Consolation Africans love us thick 😉 FYI there’s a whole period in my social media I don’t scroll through. Talk about triggers.
Love the Orange chicken recipe... A tip I have is to mix the flour with Royco chicken flavour instead it has cornstarch and it adds a BOMB Flavour as well. Also adds a bit of colour
How dare she?! The audacity 🤧Joy you're so radiant and full of life, be whatever size you want to be. I'm on the smaller side but you're one of the thick girls that don't make me feel like I gotta be thick, always sharing so much self love energy. Keep winning queen, we love you💛💛💛
I don't think she came from a bad place... but that's also why I don't tell people how I what them to look or what I want them to do...just cause its what I prefer. I get it
The first time seeing you sad😑😑Incase you dont know you have impacted my life ..I have learnt to accept myself the way i am...each time i feel sad i always remind myself that its okay to feel what i feel
Omg I cried a bit when you were explaining about the picture. Am sorry you went through that. I just love your confidence and you just look amazing ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Joy dear, just do you! Some people will always find ways to pull you down, nkt! I don't understand why the sentence "mind your own business" doesn't ring a bell, but I think with age, most of us don't give a damn! Kendi dear, keep rising...yeeeeehhh
Love everything about these quarantine vlogs❤️❤️ . The recipes ,workout time lapses , the makeup looks ,the humor and the chit chats . hey linda 😁. Halafu i feel like i know your apartment ,like the way you familiarise your movies surrounding
I totally relate...I'm a bit thick now compared to a few years back when I was in depression...and for the same reasons as you, I wouldn't want to go back! Self love baby!!
Sis said a little turmeric and proceeded to pour almost half the tin 😂😂😂 also the issue of people offering unsolicited opinions on things like weight should really stop. You don’t realize the impact you are having on someone’s mental health. I remember starving myself to 50kgs just because someone kept making comments about my weight. I was miserable. Let’s normalize minding our own business and keeping unsolicited opinions to ourselves.
I really enjoyed this and I definitely agree that as one gets older the confidence comes. I also prefer coming up with concepts and looks, that's the fun part. I think that's why I really love TikTok because it allows me be more creative.
Am not one to comment much but I loooooove you joy.......and I love love love the fact that most of ur videos have some food recipes ur doing a great job
I just read your title and I got so emotional. Many people say they wish they were as skinny as me I tell them not to even have it in their wildest dreams. To some of us, it is a big insecurity we just can’t hide. Omg! I just want to gain weight and have some flesh on me. It has come with depression, loss of courage, self loath, loss of self esteem, poor eating habits and terrible performance in my work, terrible relations with my family and so on. Lord! Am so emotional. Thank God for you.
This is exactly how I feel
This is exactly what am going through....when I see certain posts on Instagram, I wonder when I'll ever be that confident with my body....
This is so me 😭 it hurts
I think people should just avoid telling content creators "I like you better this way or that way"... I understand where such sentiments come from, but it is important to just let people be.
I've had people tell me to share 'my weight loss journey' and there's none. I got sick lost weight and never gained it back.
It's important to understand that we never know the whole story and unless someone comes forward and decides to share the story, just accept people as they are.
its should just be a life rule. even telling family, friends, coworkers. etc. but you are very correct. and I hope you are back to being healthy and no longer sick. and sorry for that.
i feel you i was in the same place
Yes
True sorry you got sick hope your getting healthier and doing good now
So true let people live
I'm also going the hardest times in my life i've lost so much weight and i get hurt when people keep telling me "umekonda sana"it really gets to me...i hope one day everything will get better and i'll go back to my weight
Me too dear
I hear you, was there last year....am now starting to add weight. If you can get hold of adaptogenic herbs or plants, use them, I use maca root and it's of great help since May 15 this year.
Same here
@Tish Tish true am trying too to gain but also what you have said is correct
Omg! Am 1st here today! Clicked so fast! 😁 Lots of love!
Same here... Hehhehe so early in the morning 😜😜😜😜
you came for the tittle...
Just found your Chanel last week , trust me I have watched all your videos .thumps up and much love
Babe so gorgeous, my phone knows where to find her.
@Rachael Maiche why would you say that? Is supporting a fellow content creator attention seeking?🤔😏, I mean I don't get it? What's the point of being salty? You're the one seeking attention here, stop trying it sooo hard, you're clearly fighting your anger off the keyboard.thats obviously an insecurity yelling at you, fix it!!☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️
I can relate , I was 44kg on my lowest days.............but I am now 56/57kg. People will keep commenting but I move regardless. These days I dont judge based on weight. You are not alone.
The smallest I have ever been was 51kgs, being 5'7" I looked skinny, but I wore a smile daily, even though there were days I hoped I would sleep and never wake up. The darkest time of my life, having been diagnosed with a chronical illness, I was also depressed and my body adjusting to medications. Now I am 62kgs after almost 3 years of eating everything to gain weight.
I feel you and I hope people will stop talking about other people's weight, and mind their own business.
You look beautiful and I love your body.
wow. thank you so much for sharing. we all go through soo much and have to put on fake smiles hoping things get better.
First all this is my story.. This is me... I am 5'7 and I was 50 kgs and lord I looked so skinny and people were talking ...... Now I am 60, still struggling to gain more weight though....
A lot of people on social media actually don't mind their business. They don't know what goes on behind the scenes. Thanks for being so honest about this. I can totally relate with this, especially with Brands and clients changing their mind. Sending you love and hugs!
I can totally relate to your fitness journey, I lost a lot of weight in my early 20s (went from a UK size 16/18 to UK 8) because I was so unhappy inside and I wanted to have control of something in my life, I became obsessed. A few years now I’m my mid twenties I’ve put on some weight (size 12) and I love my curves and my body. I’m not that unhappy women I use to be and people/family tell me I miss your skinny body and I look at them and think if I had carried on the way I was. I don’t think I’d be here today. Thanks for being so open and vulnerable. I’m glad your much better now from the inside because that’s what matters not what you look like!
It's so sad that people have the audacity to tell other people that they are fat or skinny but not the audacity to ask people if they need help losing or gaining weight.They will just make I feel insecure and depressed with their comments about your body!!
thank you for taking the time to speak on body positivity. You were so kind in your explanation and didn't rip that person to shreds over her comment; it just goes to show who you are
You tackled the pic issue so maturely, i dunno why most of vloggers always feel attacked or negative when told stuff that arent nursing their egos, not everyone means bad. YOU IS BEAUTIFUL JOJO
Thank you Joy for opening up because there are so many of us who are going through that unhappy phase, and you sharing now means better times are coming, like don't stop putting effort because someone will see it and pay you for what you're worth. So thanks again.
You are love and light!! I love love love your videos. you could literally put up a video of you just smiling and I would absolutely love it! Keep shinning sis!
We should normalize minding our own business as pertains to peoples weight and lives in general👀
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Aww Joy, I also think she didn't mean bad. Thanks for being open with us. It 's always so magnificent when people come out of a bad place and become better and stronger through the struggles. Pole sana for what you were going through, we all have our lowest but thank God that He is there for us always❤
she definitely didn't come from a bad place... at all.
If we only knew how much the words we tell other people hurt. You are beautiful just the way you are.❤❤❤
True they hurt I have had let's just say some-ish on my body &even on myself personaly we all make mistakes it's just a matter of growth,learning I accept correction nikikosea but also believe knowing a person whether friend-wise etc it's accepting them even in their bad,and allowing them to grow,change as you still stand by them but this days don't know if most do that....
I love you Joy ❤️ when you open like this, you speak to most of us.
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Totally relate to the feeling of checking the archives and getting raw feelings of the space you were at. Glad that you're now in a better space ❤❤❤
thank you so much
I haven't finished watching and I'm already in tears. Thank you for sharing with us being this vulnerable 💗🤗
Joy we truly appreciate you being real, raw & vulnerable with us your tribe. So glad to see that you are striving to be in a better place mentally & physically. We love you Joy!
Thanks Joy kendi for sharing your experience
You spark so much JOY (note that I will repeat this over and over) in our lives and you may get that alot but we are here to keep pushing together. Thank you for being so vulnerable with us ❤😊
Keep doing the best as you inspire alot of us who have struggled with tumultuous relationships, body weight, self confidence etc
You are the SPARK OF JOY we constantly need to remind ourselves how beautiful we all are. So, THANK YOU 🤍
your vulnerability in this video was just beautiful, love you Joy ❤️
You shared something that so many girl out here struggle in silence dear it's worth the share
Yes please! To the editing process
Joy when I watch your videos I never want them to end you really inspire me my dear thanks
I just about died when she said add a little bit of tumeric 😂😂😂😂yaasss sis till the ancestors tell you to stop
😂😂😂
Ikr....yessss
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It was a whole bottle
So someone else saw that 😂
Teared up,when you got emotional.(hugs). You are awesome in all aspects and inspire a lot of us , just do you.
thank you. hug backkkk
YESSSSS..... THAT EDITING VIDEO NEEDS TO BE DONE ASAP!!!!.... BUT JOY SI NAKUPENDA TU...WHO ELSE PLS??
Same here girl, motivate us sis yasssss ❤️😘
I love her she is just amazing literally....she responds to comments to us kawa peeps i was soo shook when she did...used to most celebrities ignoring...her skin is one of my goals and her bawdy she looks great in everything plus am curvy am happy to have someone like her on my side
I love her she is just amazing literally....she responds to comments to us kawa peeps i was soo shook when she did...used to most celebrities ignoring...her skin is one of my goals and her bawdy she looks great in everything plus am curvy am happy to have someone like her on my side
One can feel the sadness when you talk about that time when you were smaller. Thanks for sharing. Im not big on sharing my personal issues with anyone and im trying to learn by seeing how you do it...baby steps.
This just reminded me of the lowest point of my life. As an escape I started baking. After I got out of it I just couldn't stand baking anymore. Even looking at my cake pictures made me so sad that I deleted them (saved them elsewhere) People keep asking why I no longer bake, some force me go back to it.........
What I'm saying is, I totally get you.
thanks mma... I completely get that. its a negative association thing.
Sis I am you,you are me. Weight is such a big thing as we get older. I’m a relatively active person (I play basketball competitively) and everyone seemed to enjoy telling me I have gained weight like so you think my mirrors don’t work?!?its such a sensitive thing to tell someone you used to look so good in this picture. Not everyone is zen with where they are I their weight journey. Thank you for sharing this moment with us
I looove love love how you simply pour out your soul into your creative life and Annnnd grace us with all of that,......I ,we just love you JOY...fullstop!!
I love you joy and I can't wait to see you hit 100k.i had to come back to look for this video to remind myself about body positivity.
one of the main reason I follow you is because I relate to your body. It is real. When I look at you I see a real body like mine. We are just perfect. Dont change for anyone.
Yes to the editing post
Mines quite the opposite..the saddest i ever was was in Campus,had just lost my Dad ,hated the campus i was in,didn't really care for the course i was doing..Girl,i was eating everything,added so much weight everyone would be like..Ghaaai,ni wewe,kwani unakula nini siku hizi..so this made me drink even more,and add more food on top of that,all my clothes never fit well..Now at 60kgs i feel much better,i wouldn't want to go less than 60kgs though coz i like abit of thickness.Wueh,what you said is true..i look at my pics from back then and i can tell i wasn't happy.
i totally understand how you feel...im also asked why i aint loosing weight after giving birth yet they don’t know i had a scary pregnancy which i had an emergency CS ....be happy for who you are☺️
Joy kumbe ata wewe ni #TeamSossi.. Totally love the minced ones.. 🤗👌👌
Yes we want a video for editing
Enjoy watching your videos - informative, humorous, and inspirational. Sorry to hear about the issues you were going through some time back. Don't let others get you down because you look fabulous! We are rooting for you so don't give up!
I just love how you say mmmh okay...its like the cutest thing ever...
So inspiring and real
Thank you for sharing your story
You are such an amazing human being. I wish you so much joy and continuous zeal to be who you fully want to be. Thank you for always sharing. Hugs and kindness.
You are beautiful honey, always have and always will be. I've followed you for years and you have been an inspiration for my life. It was a tough journey, but it has shaped you into the woman you are now and are continually becoming. You are gorgeous babe, GORGEOUS! I just wanted to let you know that.
Also, yes to the editing video for sure!
i teared up a little bit tbh.....i love you and your such a huge inspiration in my life....i really appreciate you...keep doing you🥰🥰🥰
I delivered my first child via cs seems my body got into shock cz I lost alot of weight...more than half my body weight...when I went back to work everyone kept asking me if I was sick or if I have a condition...the audacity...and each time I said I just delivered they will say watu hunona wakizaa...
that's horrible. people really need to learn how to keep their thoughts to themselves.
@@JoyKendiKE joy kendi replied!!! joy kendi replied!! Leo nalala na viatu. I love you.
I love you Kendi,you inspire me to be a better version of myself everyday😊
thank you so much
Yay for editing techniques!!!
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Awwwwwey Joy. You are so fabulous...I teared up a little.
Here for the editing videos!!! We love you Joy and you're amazing just the way you are ❤️ hugs 🤗
I don't even know you personally but i like you so much!! Watching your videos is so HEALTHY tbh. Your expressions are everything ! 😂😂😂Power to you sis. Congratulations to you for all the big things you've conquered and for those you're doing♥️♥️♥️
Yes to editing photos! Love your content ❤️
I’ve been skinny and now I’m thicker. Totally happier now than when I had a 23 inch waist. The comparison to my early 20s (especially by family) gets on my nerves. You only have to look at dudes who couldn’t care less about weight issues to realize it’s more about other women being snide about your weight. I’m glad there’s a huge shift in what sexy means these days. Consolation Africans love us thick 😉 FYI there’s a whole period in my social media I don’t scroll through. Talk about triggers.
Don't pay attention to the negativity. You look great just the way you are and your body is goals.
Watching as I braid my hair yaaas! 🤗Great content💕
Love the Orange chicken recipe... A tip I have is to mix the flour with Royco chicken flavour instead it has cornstarch and it adds a BOMB Flavour as well. Also adds a bit of colour
Im sorry who does she think she is to tell you how you should look in that size?? I mean??? You look fabulous now and always!!!
How dare she?! The audacity 🤧Joy you're so radiant and full of life, be whatever size you want to be. I'm on the smaller side but you're one of the thick girls that don't make me feel like I gotta be thick, always sharing so much self love energy. Keep winning queen, we love you💛💛💛
I don't think she came from a bad place... but that's also why I don't tell people how I what them to look or what I want them to do...just cause its what I prefer. I get it
Thank you for sharing your fitness and health journey. You seem really happy and healthy, and that's what really matters. Keep doing you boo.
Imagine someone commenting on Joy's Body..The kind of body that everyone wants to have..Anyway I love you sis🥰🥰..Keep shining
I know... I wish she could slap that body on me. 🙉😍🤤
Yaani someone has a problem with a Goddess?? People are strange
Right!!!!!
Yes to the editing process content. 💯💯💯
The first time seeing you sad😑😑Incase you dont know you have impacted my life ..I have learnt to accept myself the way i am...each time i feel sad i always remind myself that its okay to feel what i feel
Omg I cried a bit when you were explaining about the picture. Am sorry you went through that. I just love your confidence and you just look amazing ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am loving ur vibe... I am vibing with u this days... Thanks for the content
I was just logging onto my TH-cam saw this first and am like what I was looking for can wait!!!!!!😂😂😍😍😍😍😍
Always, always, I love you. Watching with my friends and they've loooveed it! ❤❤❤❤.
Joy dear, just do you! Some people will always find ways to pull you down, nkt! I don't understand why the sentence "mind your own business" doesn't ring a bell, but I think with age, most of us don't give a damn! Kendi dear, keep rising...yeeeeehhh
I got comfortable filming without make up this year. With an acne face i really was struggling
How freeing is it?
Love everything about these quarantine vlogs❤️❤️ . The recipes ,workout time lapses , the makeup looks ,the humor and the chit chats . hey linda 😁. Halafu i feel like i know your apartment ,like the way you familiarise your movies surrounding
Yes please sis. Kindly show us how to edit photos.
Also, I'm sorry for the "slender body" comment. Hugs 🥰🥰😘
Hoooonnneeeyyy!!!! 🤗🤗 cheers to being the better verion and working towards being the best versions! #Joy2.0
I totally relate...I'm a bit thick now compared to a few years back when I was in depression...and for the same reasons as you, I wouldn't want to go back! Self love baby!!
MWahhhhhhhhh. I feel you boo
Sis said a little turmeric and proceeded to pour almost half the tin 😂😂😂 also the issue of people offering unsolicited opinions on things like weight should really stop. You don’t realize the impact you are having on someone’s mental health. I remember starving myself to 50kgs just because someone kept making comments about my weight. I was miserable. Let’s normalize minding our own business and keeping unsolicited opinions to ourselves.
Its true, I just get pissed off by nosy idle brats busy pulling people down with their nasty comments.
hahaha. keep pouring until your ancestors tell you to stop. hahahahaha
Sending positive light your way... You're JOY!! ♡
sending them right back
People always have opinions to others not knowing they are hurting you. Just do you joy be you.the rest will flow
Lesson: we do not know what people have gone through or are going through. You’re so beautiful Joy!
Hugs &lots of love ❤❤❤.I feel you totally. Glad u are doing ok now.
I love your receipes big siz..i always love watching you cook..Plz do more cooking videos
I used your creamed spinach recipe and it was a hit thanks for sharing
Back at work! Watching this as I take my lunch.
I really enjoyed this and I definitely agree that as one gets older the confidence comes. I also prefer coming up with concepts and looks, that's the fun part. I think that's why I really love TikTok because it allows me be more creative.
It's sad that sometimes we never understand that we are hurting people with our comments😭hugs Jojo❤️❤️keep shining
Yeah true I have experienced this too maybe even now....she didn't mean bad but yes I get what you're saying and it's true
At 21:00,I have cried too coz that is exactly what i am going through right now .Thank you for sharing.
I lost weight coz I was depressed and it kind of helped me as I used to walk and eating less food. I had hormonal imbalance and now I feel great.
Listen babe, you’re beautiful. Self love is probably what got you through that “mean” moment. It’s what winners do. Keep loving yourself.
I love your vlogs joy kendi❤️
They are THE BEST!!😁
And das on periodt!😊
I love you Kendi, and you are just a Queen👑 in this streets. Also your story has reminded me of STEPHANIE BUTTERMORE and her 'All in' process.
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You look so much like wambui Collymore😍
I just can't unsee this
Waaah true lol
Omg Even the voice, I was literally asking myself, who does this girl look like 🤣🤣🤣🤣
8am 😲 Am gonna be late for work today. Joy manze😔 sorry for what you went through. Keep winning 😉
Ooh Joy you are the big sister everyone needs😂😊yes make up or no make up who cares.
Yes please on that video on editing😊
Ohh am so so sooooo jealous of your flawless skin.
You’re very beautiful n thanks for talking about this. Wish u nothing but success and happiness. Love u my Kenyan sis🇰🇪💛
Beautiful video, we appreciate the openness and vulnerability! Stay gorgeous, I love your work.
Well I must say, I enjoy watching your vlogs...always!!!!
Just wonderful 💗💗💗💗
The editing videos yaaaaas
Sissssssss your skin is just goals
Exactly girl,...
Things are not always okey
And that's OOKEEEY!!!!
Am not one to comment much but I loooooove you joy.......and I love love love the fact that most of ur videos have some food recipes ur doing a great job
Am so sorry that you went through all that ,am truly sorry