Q&A: You asked.I answered | AUNTY JOY-ish | relationship advice, financial tips and more

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  • @SharonMalonza
    @SharonMalonza 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I really admire how clear you are about what's for you and what isn't in all areas of your life that you talked about. Your self awareness and confidence really shines through.

  • @bluepapertrails9638
    @bluepapertrails9638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    When she answered the question on her weight I saw myself. I'm currently starting all over again after losing my job last year in May. I really want to be a content creator but I'm going through teething problems. I have a very small following and no brand knows me yet. So I'm as broke as she was back in the day and I hate burdening my loved ones too. I'm in a really dark and lonely place. It's tough but Joy just reminded me that it takes time but I'll make it eventually. Thank you soooooo much for sharing💛

    • @wairimu8611
      @wairimu8611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hugs, a day at a time. Consistency is the answer, it gets lonely but also remember it's lonely at the top and that's where you're headed. I send you lots of hugs...

    • @MyP.O.V
      @MyP.O.V 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💐

    • @OLYMPIALIZA
      @OLYMPIALIZA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @bluepapertrails XOXO you'll be fine

    • @bluepapertrails9638
      @bluepapertrails9638 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wairimu8611 thanks for the encouragement and this pov. Never thought of it this way. 💛

    • @bluepapertrails9638
      @bluepapertrails9638 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OLYMPIALIZA thank you and a day at a time 💛

  • @NameShalom
    @NameShalom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    She is relatable and inspirational, all love.

  • @styled_by_fash
    @styled_by_fash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Watching Joy’s vlogs..you don’t need to be in a hurry,you might miss a second and miss the vibe or something that will spice up your life ❤️.

    • @iam_fayii312
      @iam_fayii312 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know right… in Kendi’s voice ,’’you know wharam seyiiiing!’’
      Pure vibes

  • @lizinde
    @lizinde 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The Uni advice had me in stitches 🤣 why are you like this Joy😂😂 but also your advice was solid. graduating early doesn't mean succeeding in life, people should take their time and research scholarships they're so many out there---even if you aren't a genius🌺

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thankyou for this,I will def be finishing late than my agemates and I am scared I might never succeed

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Feel free to tell me a few scholarships you know of

    • @lizinde
      @lizinde 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sakuraesther6309 never say never. You'll get to where you want to be you just need to focus and work hard. I've been out of uni for a while but I suggest you look at the places you'd like to study and ask the unis to send you a list of scholarship options you can also Google scholarships for women etc. I know they sponsor African women arou d the world you just need to be prepared to write a compelling motivational essay. Good luck!

  • @mercymallel2074
    @mercymallel2074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love the living below your means part!

  • @Misskamuhia
    @Misskamuhia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I like what you said actually..3 years living with my partner we all buy things separately.like he will buy the fridge and i will get a microwave ...though if there is something I'd really want to get and i need a few coins chipped in he will still come through and vise versa.whatever works for you guys❤

  • @sadiadida3035
    @sadiadida3035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    'They call me thickarella!!!'😂😂😂 oh joy!!

  • @joyz_style
    @joyz_style 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Joy I love what you said about keeping your parents in the loop concerning an “unsafe” career! I think also the youngins are in the space of I wanna do my thung don't tell me nothing and the parents want them to just be safe.

    • @JoyKendiKE
      @JoyKendiKE  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly... they are not coming from a bad place

  • @jessey141
    @jessey141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I agree!! 15 yrs with my other half, we have both our own bank accounts and 1 together. In that way, my own account, since I work full time, since covid hit my mum&brother's business badly, I've helped them and thank God business is starting to pick. That way, he keeps his money and our joint one is for our house. Less stuff to worry about 😅

  • @ilhamjuma46
    @ilhamjuma46 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have a kasense of humour that just gets me...love you💕💕

  • @daisymarindany7392
    @daisymarindany7392 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the chat and yeah kindly continue with auntyjoy ish make it relatable ....love you

  • @WanguiNjeri
    @WanguiNjeri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you Aunty Joy😁. I really learned a lot from this vlog. You rock girl💜

  • @isadorascarlett1028
    @isadorascarlett1028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The advise on the living situation is so true.Some men will literally dog you when you don't have your own or contribute nothing.They start off open to sharing then the dynamic gradually gets weird .

  • @jaclynexjaclyne4693
    @jaclynexjaclyne4693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lovely as always

  • @pabloristic
    @pabloristic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This vlog felt like I was having a conversation with my bestie on life, finances and more. You are a wise one dear and very true to yourself. Thanks for the Vlogs and keep them coming ✌💕

    • @JoyKendiKE
      @JoyKendiKE  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thank you so much hun

  • @missmiriam1682
    @missmiriam1682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this Joy. You are full of wisdom girl!! I enjoyed listening to everything. Plus you can be an actress of sorts. Keep soaring 👍

  • @susanogutu3799
    @susanogutu3799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an insightful talk! Impressive 🙂🙂🙂

  • @usajimary
    @usajimary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    On the weight point I can totally relate. It has been a journey, I have added weight and I love it. Just looking forward to toning my body but I would never want to be below 50kgs, ever again

  • @rosielifeinafrica
    @rosielifeinafrica 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When am happy...…literally paused with you because I know what happens on my side

  • @veronicawaithera9145
    @veronicawaithera9145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Joy is funny y'all 😄.
    Imagine getting educated and entertained at the same time..

  • @nashthediva3464
    @nashthediva3464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow wow...waira minute... I just found out through this Q&A that you are my people's....hay girl hay..... Meru' people😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥 I loouve it😀😀

  • @lynnekims6741
    @lynnekims6741 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know what took me soo long to start watching your vlogs ... I love everything, you are soo relatable you so interesting to watch and listen to.. My New favorite ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lydiaobonyo3662
    @lydiaobonyo3662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm loving your responses, goofy and informative.

  • @nellymckenna6552
    @nellymckenna6552 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    New subbie! Like how articulate you are...& the drama😂the heels testimony😂. Also, your mannerisms remind me of Bailey Sarian

  • @annk1169
    @annk1169 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The cookie part had me weak! LOL, honestly some people have way too much time HA!

  • @sarahnjenga1082
    @sarahnjenga1082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this💯

  • @tyjuma
    @tyjuma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First time watching you Joy - Amazing!

  • @krystyntyrone3949
    @krystyntyrone3949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You’re so relatable ❤️
    The part ya remaining na 200bob ..been through it

  • @Cinol-d8p
    @Cinol-d8p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That point on being a burden to people we are together. Am also trying to get rid of it. I just can't bring myself to ask for help. It needs to stop.

  • @annekimani4051
    @annekimani4051 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this...Totally relate to the heel situation.

    • @JoyKendiKE
      @JoyKendiKE  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      right.... we are not comfortable . we just love the look enough to suck up being uncomfortable .

  • @toototo
    @toototo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't even mind joint account. What I hate is a man who can't let go or get it in his head when the relationship is over.

  • @JOY-ig9ip
    @JOY-ig9ip 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I admire you so much I had to comment juu wee hati what thigh gap😂😂😂the expression was really honest. Love you big❤️. All the best with your new brand.

  • @pocahontas467
    @pocahontas467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i'm i the only who gets Joy Kendi Notification and i make a happy dance❤️❤️❤️

  • @Cinematic-Frenzy
    @Cinematic-Frenzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Started watching this at 3am. Gal, I love you 💕

  • @yvonnemaina7177
    @yvonnemaina7177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really enjoyed Aunty Joy moment
    Hope it becomes a series😊😊😊 love you advice moreso on the side of finances🤩

  • @nishynish1900
    @nishynish1900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We are here😜🎉🌻

  • @nothingheard
    @nothingheard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love when you say : "I learned this from my mom"
    I love our mom

  • @jayshiku
    @jayshiku 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was too much fun to watch ☺️❤️

  • @kananahhhh
    @kananahhhh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your content is always top notch and very informative. Love love the content of this video💯.Thank you.

  • @rosa629
    @rosa629 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wouw Joy, you are such the energy and relatable and human, love you,mwaa🌼🌸🎉👓... Karibu sana Tanzania

  • @msg9528
    @msg9528 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What an honest conversation! ❤️

  • @mariononyango6016
    @mariononyango6016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always love to see you here♥️

  • @sandradejesus9188
    @sandradejesus9188 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'M NEW TO YOUR CHANNEL AND I RECENTLY SHAVED MY HEAD WHAT DYE DO YOU USE? ALSO WHAT DO YO RECOMMEND FOR SALT AND PEPPER HAR? LOVE YOUR CHANNEL ❤

  • @bethkawira8619
    @bethkawira8619 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always enjoy watching your vlogs.so real

    • @JoyKendiKE
      @JoyKendiKE  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you soo much hun

  • @africanfusion8754
    @africanfusion8754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love your content 😍😍😍

  • @liliankim4127
    @liliankim4127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I actually enjoyed this vlog so much❤

  • @melissamalala
    @melissamalala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So relatable!

  • @the.unpredicable.soul_1002
    @the.unpredicable.soul_1002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this, very relatable and real.

  • @ms_olonje
    @ms_olonje 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is just the best content I have related to the entire day 🥰❤

  • @heatherwanjuguna4629
    @heatherwanjuguna4629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful skin. Nice vlog. Classy woman.

  • @LindaMary
    @LindaMary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeees to a Q&A 😍😍

  • @loreenmakdal6380
    @loreenmakdal6380 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Had to watch this one to the end🤗

  • @eunicewanjiru0607
    @eunicewanjiru0607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your content Joy🔥.

  • @sharonnabachwa2035
    @sharonnabachwa2035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Joy some tips on how you learnt swahili to become really fluent….it’s a struggle

  • @estherhadassahgitau5560
    @estherhadassahgitau5560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love her❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @teresiasyowai5156
    @teresiasyowai5156 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How you speak about your sister!wow lots of love there

  • @faysfancy6638
    @faysfancy6638 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need to like this video more than once. TH-cam make something happen.

  • @marynyokabi5036
    @marynyokabi5036 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish you came to Nairobi West to get tested...

  • @perisbahati8482
    @perisbahati8482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You always remind me of bonang

  • @winniealuoch2391
    @winniealuoch2391 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate to every topic in here.i never did a pap smear never knew about abnormal cells.did one, now am keen on the same.Joy is real I must say

  • @loribee858
    @loribee858 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love! Just subbed 💃🏾🌻

  • @andrewlemayian
    @andrewlemayian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I bet you already know this but u are literally so funny lmao!!!

  • @patrahgichobi
    @patrahgichobi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'social media Is a lie'.. 'thickorella'... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Gosh you are so funny

  • @maycee6910
    @maycee6910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoy your videos Kendi💯🥰🥰

  • @cherisherri
    @cherisherri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    AUNTY JOY💃❤️🤗

  • @happysoul7140
    @happysoul7140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh Joy!

  • @thepodzw
    @thepodzw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Joy, can you make your videos downloadable ? Please 🥺🙏

    • @dr.ohuruc.1511
      @dr.ohuruc.1511 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She mentioned in one of her videos its a youtube thingy after monetization

  • @monicahwanjiru6455
    @monicahwanjiru6455 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You can get a virtual Assistant

  • @damarismaina839
    @damarismaina839 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    who are the guys who did your covid test? so convinient that they come to you

  • @wairimukaruga8364
    @wairimukaruga8364 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol I like how you referred to Swahili as Swa

  • @JustScovia
    @JustScovia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First one😀

  • @shakie_my_love
    @shakie_my_love 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looking good mummy💚💙💙💙💙

  • @shikushi3286
    @shikushi3286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey dear 💓

  • @estherhadassahgitau5560
    @estherhadassahgitau5560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Let's get joy to 100k subbies 🙏

  • @cxllider
    @cxllider 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Joy really said pain is temporaray, drip is forever 33:00

  • @tannyouda5988
    @tannyouda5988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That my gal

  • @wambuiw.4032
    @wambuiw.4032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thickarella... 😂....like it!!

  • @annitarebornmamakeblessing1591
    @annitarebornmamakeblessing1591 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love u

  • @kathybenson3964
    @kathybenson3964 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello hunn....💕

  • @hannahkitchenkenya
    @hannahkitchenkenya 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The 50/50 part🤣😂😂

  • @missphina718
    @missphina718 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you baby gaaal daaaamn 😊😊

  • @angiemash_
    @angiemash_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The 200 bob part currently there but mine is literally 50bob 😭

    • @joyance
      @joyance 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We are in this together....don't worry gal😭

  • @nungariii377
    @nungariii377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SML mamaaa😍

  • @ayumasore6931
    @ayumasore6931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 Funny human being

  • @violajemutai697
    @violajemutai697 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤗💟

  • @bethanyopuka6479
    @bethanyopuka6479 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Joy when did you have 200 in your account?😭

  • @shikokariuki212
    @shikokariuki212 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👌👍✨👏.....

  • @margaretwanjiku7863
    @margaretwanjiku7863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You funny af

  • @charlsemusina9698
    @charlsemusina9698 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    32:19😃😃😁😂😝🤣thank me later!

    • @JoyKendiKE
      @JoyKendiKE  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      haahahahah. imagine issa thing

  • @jenngitongah9343
    @jenngitongah9343 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They call me Thickerella.........

    • @JoyKendiKE
      @JoyKendiKE  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      they do phahahaa

  • @caroeicon105
    @caroeicon105 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂😂😂

    • @caroeicon105
      @caroeicon105 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Woow!I look like a trash bag!"

  • @rotail4873
    @rotail4873 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does Joy have a bae?

  • @Torihappyness
    @Torihappyness 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would never recommend Nairobi women's.
    Please avoid ladies!

  • @nzilanimiriam1620
    @nzilanimiriam1620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We weigh the same kgs and i want to get to 68 too its been challenging but im determined. lets do this @joy kendi

  • @melissamalala
    @melissamalala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So relatable!