This is my ideal relationship - I need to be with a person I can communicate with - I need to be able to freely say where we are & where are going without having to lie about things bcz my spouse have chip over their shoulders. I was thinking that Lerato was more like me in a way he articulate things (even his personality) - but omg I do appreciate Phetola's gracefulness (infused with wisdom) of dealing with the unexpected (if this is an act - guys you are good actors)...I love to see that you are not so alike & yet you can still communicate & make it work without an offence - having a relationship that has the ability to heal is incredible (only from God)...I wish you the best in your journey together, keep it up & may the good Lord continue to bless you in your amazing covenant...
one of the many many things i love about the Makhs is that they have completely different personalities but they work so well together.i think it speaks of how highly they respect and value each other.its never about 'if u dont do things my way then you wrong'.
You know when you're relationship is strong when you're asked where do you see the relationship in 5 years and your partner goes oh that's easy we're going to be just fine
I also live in my head and I'm blessed to have Sisters around me who remind me to embrace the current. Also, I am not my best in the morning. Anytime before 10:00 is not the best time for me. I'm at my highest between midnight and 4am
This was the first time on your channel and I'm so glad to have found it. These questions were amazing, thank you for keeping it real. May you grow beyond what you ever thought was possible.
These are risky questions but after answering them together you realize gore we are all human and motho waka ke bosso ,I would still choose him again. In relationships we grow and learn only when tap-on on those risky and uncomfortable topics. Mara time was not yet up tlhe, 50/60min videos are welcome.love you guys
Time's up????😧 I was still watching...ay no! Askies Pheto, I can see you were really touched but the thing about people who are eloquent like Lerato is that it becomes a gift and a curse because they are able to effectively express their thoughts or feelings so well that even when they articulate things that don't sit well with them, the delivery is consistent. I believe the words he used were to help you understand exactly how he's feeling and his hope was that it would be understood and not taken personally. Anyone who's watched you guys can attest to how he loves when you cheer him on or affirm him and he's vocal about it. My biggest take away from what he said was that he is fueled by your absolute trust in him, that he loves knowing that he's a dependable partner. And just by expressing that, he basically revealed the type of person that you are....you are loving, supportive and like he said, his "biggest cheerleader" and when your cheerleader forgets their pom poms sometimes it becomes a bit of a concern😘❤ all love fam, nitey!
Your authenticity and purity, together with the way you just speak with so much depth and clarity is going to impact a lot of marriages and relationships in an incredible way. One only hopes people who come here and watch you, do so with open hearts and minds hungry to learn a thing or two. I was on TH-cam just watching scholarly videos and then booom your video appeared on that Playlist..studying night turned into reflection night with my wife. Thank you.
It's the maturity for me. One thing I'm getting out of your videos is that relationships aren't perfect put you invest in them by building and just having grace for one another.
Hmmmmm this is soooo deep. I’m paraphrasing the last point Lerato made, ‘we love others the way we want to be loved rather than the way they want to be loved’. Thank you for the installment, with love from Nigeria 💕💕
I loved the whole episode but the highlight was the last question. Lerato's response was so deep and it really put a lot of things into perspective and just got me thinking about friendship and relationship dynamics.
Salute to Mr Makhs 🙏🙏, Hes so aware of madam's personality (sensitivity), and take it with sooo much grace . I truly appreciate it bcoz woow, The other Gender 🤦♂️😭 isshh can be cold .you guys are soo real and just know that, we truly appreciate what you are giving in your channel ...you are building ✊👊
When you guys said you think time is up my heart nearly sank because I was ready to listen for another 30 minutes 🥲 I love how you're always having such meaningful and insightful conversations. Thank you fam👏🏽💕 Lerato saying "you're an incredible wife" got me🥺
The OG is in the house 💃🏾 popoopooopooooo 🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊 let’s get into it. Dream Team Don’t forget to watch the Ads y’all. Registe signed; I’m gonna enjoy this one
"What is one quality you think holds me back?" I think this one is very important - even outside a romantic setting. To ourselves, we are perfect and always right and we need people who really love us to bring this up in the most constructive way possible ❤
"I wish you believed in me like you used to." That hit hard...Hubby has said that to me before. Still not sure how to reactivate that belief ngoba life has hit hard. 😕
Where trust has been broken,i believe,it is difficult to fully give/gain back. It'sxlike a chocalate that melts because of heat,even if u put it in the freezer,that "chocolate will not have its original shape.
This was sooo authentic and honest🥺🙆🏾♀️. Thank you for being vulnerable with us and schooling me. You are guys are honest, open and each other's safe space-you are communicating crucial things with love&maturity - l am not saying you are perfect l am saying you are doing great fellaz👏🏾❤️💕. P. S. I don't regret subscribing shame😆
Your video has been sitting on my list of recommendations for a while and today I listened/watched. Wow, so I wonder if this is South African or global. Jesus you guys are dealing the truth. Wow wow wow. God bless you.
The only person who can truly give you feedback about how love them is your partner. We may be giving our best but their feedback is the true measure❤️let's keep talking and asking
2. I’m with Lerato. Total freedom in a safe space is GREAT. I fear saying “I want 123”. I’m afraid of offending people, sounding like a freak, being judged, my true needs being leaked from the bedroom. That’s why I’ve been celibate for 6,5years.
on the last one, I get Lerato. I actually think this is where the whole TREAT PEOPLE AS YOU WANT TO BE TREATED comes from. When I lost my mom, I wanted to be left alone, di askies and o tla siama annoyed me. to this day I don't think I know how to comfort anyone grieving a loved one, which is kinda sad. I feel like if you need me you will let me know and that's whats important. I think the main thing though is we need to communicate better and express our wants and needs so we avoid miscommunication, because people arent mind readers. With that said, great video guys, psychologists might say Pheto was being defensive when she folded her arms but I love that you both were ready to receive what the other one had to say.
My "fresh" breath of air every time i return to your platform after being "away" . You both just light up. So much love form this Island gurl from Papua New Guinea
Yasssssss!! Just finding this page and am now going back to watch the other episodes. Aww I'm in love with yall. Sis's sayings alone has me hooked. Praying all blessings for this family!!
How did you come up with this idea of sharing ur life with us, I mean creating this TH-cam channel. What compelled you to do so. I have just watched few hours ago but I don't want to stop. Guys ur so amazing thank u so much
Loved this episode. Loved how real you both were and I personally identified with a few of Phetola’s personality traits. You guys are also very adorable.
I feel you Pheto in regards to young faith in God and as one grows we kind of have up and down faith...we translate that to our partners...you are deep😍
I could subscribe more than once to this channel if I could! The realest, most authentic content! Authenticity should be goals, not the perception of a 'perfect' relationship
Guys please don't mind going longer... You have amazing content and I personally would rather you continue then stop because of time. Love you guys🤗❤️🎊
Askies Pheto - I am with Ntate Makhetha - Freaking out is not something that sits with me. I am Pragmatic, practical, lets solve the issue, lets problem solve and move type person. Investing my energy and effort in "freaking out" ke fela matla, ha se ntho e ke hotseng ka yona. Always moving! Move mama! 😂😂😂😂
We love you guys even more because we looooove Tom Bilyeu!! Him and his wife Lisa have really good, thought provoking conversations.❤ Y'all are just amazing bathong ❤❤❤
I just discovered you guys and I love the amount of energy and time you have invested in the intro video The artwork and pictures of the family wow 🔥🔥🔥
The trust thing hit me, I feel like I will work on that so that my husband feels trusted. That point reminds me of men are from Mars women are from Venus I give my husband help because it’s what I would like but as a man I see how that may seem like I don’t trust him 🥰🥰 great content guys I will try the questions out
Oh man I love you guys and yho Phetola's laugh is contagious ya'll I'm here giggling like a school kid😂 Great conversation you have here and love love love the honesty. Till the next installment fam ❤️
His Faith can be a little further in areas that hers isn’t when it comes to being so planned , sometimes ppl need to not know every single thing it is a lot of spirits beneath , but on the other side not planning and preparing and too many risk is not good either . it’s important to pray , hear and commune with Our Father and not move to hasty ,
Waitse ke eng, it’s the honest, the unrehearsed and the risk for me🙌🏽. I was glad to hear that the channel will still be here in 5years because I heard no mention of closure😂😂😂. Pheto my dear, it happens to the most of us, o tla ba sharp, now you know, you are much better off😊
I love how they don't talk about materialistic things.
This is beautiful.
"Complete freedom. Safe-space. No inhibition. Complete expression of love and intimacy..." Wow.
Gave me goosebumps…
This is my ideal relationship - I need to be with a person I can communicate with - I need to be able to freely say where we are & where are going without having to lie about things bcz my spouse have chip over their shoulders. I was thinking that Lerato was more like me in a way he articulate things (even his personality) - but omg I do appreciate Phetola's gracefulness (infused with wisdom) of dealing with the unexpected (if this is an act - guys you are good actors)...I love to see that you are not so alike & yet you can still communicate & make it work without an offence - having a relationship that has the ability to heal is incredible (only from God)...I wish you the best in your journey together, keep it up & may the good Lord continue to bless you in your amazing covenant...
I was a little surprised to hear my name mentioned when shout outs were made😁😁😁 love you Fam!
Beautiful real conversation. Love the honesty and the "discomfort". You guys handled it so well. Love and respect even when there is disagreement.
one of the many many things i love about the Makhs is that they have completely different personalities but they work so well together.i think it speaks of how highly they respect and value each other.its never about 'if u dont do things my way then you wrong'.
As a single woman I’m pleased with coming across this content. This was so enjoyable.
You know when you're relationship is strong when you're asked where do you see the relationship in 5 years and your partner goes oh that's easy we're going to be just fine
Your communication is top notch, say the toughest things in a very mindful way.
Favs, I said a silent prayer for you guy's. May the Lord preserve your love and marriage. It's beautiful watching your installments❤️
I love it when he says “ I’m sorry, I’ll do better”
I also live in my head and I'm blessed to have Sisters around me who remind me to embrace the current.
Also, I am not my best in the morning. Anytime before 10:00 is not the best time for me. I'm at my highest between midnight and 4am
This was the first time on your channel and I'm so glad to have found it. These questions were amazing, thank you for keeping it real. May you grow beyond what you ever thought was possible.
You guys are so mature even in the discomfort♥️very very interesting questions, I needed this vid
Your candidness and openness is truly inspiring. Very much appreciated
These are risky questions but after answering them together you realize gore we are all human and motho waka ke bosso ,I would still choose him again. In relationships we grow and learn only when tap-on on those risky and uncomfortable topics.
Mara time was not yet up tlhe, 50/60min videos are welcome.love you guys
I realise how a relationship is an everyday journey 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Time's up????😧 I was still watching...ay no!
Askies Pheto, I can see you were really touched but the thing about people who are eloquent like Lerato is that it becomes a gift and a curse because they are able to effectively express their thoughts or feelings so well that even when they articulate things that don't sit well with them, the delivery is consistent. I believe the words he used were to help you understand exactly how he's feeling and his hope was that it would be understood and not taken personally. Anyone who's watched you guys can attest to how he loves when you cheer him on or affirm him and he's vocal about it. My biggest take away from what he said was that he is fueled by your absolute trust in him, that he loves knowing that he's a dependable partner. And just by expressing that, he basically revealed the type of person that you are....you are loving, supportive and like he said, his "biggest cheerleader" and when your cheerleader forgets their pom poms sometimes it becomes a bit of a concern😘❤ all love fam, nitey!
Your authenticity and purity, together with the way you just speak with so much depth and clarity is going to impact a lot of marriages and relationships in an incredible way.
One only hopes people who come here and watch you, do so with open hearts and minds hungry to learn a thing or two.
I was on TH-cam just watching scholarly videos and then booom your video appeared on that Playlist..studying night turned into reflection night with my wife. Thank you.
It's the maturity for me. One thing I'm getting out of your videos is that relationships aren't perfect put you invest in them by building and just having grace for one another.
Hmmmmm this is soooo deep. I’m paraphrasing the last point Lerato made, ‘we love others the way we want to be loved rather than the way they want to be loved’. Thank you for the installment, with love from Nigeria 💕💕
Yayyy!! Naija representing 🇳🇬
Very wise and sound.
I love Phetola shame, "I thought I was perfect".. 😂😂😂😂
I definitely love the rawness of this relationship 😭🙏🙏
I love the way he looks at her
I loved the whole episode but the highlight was the last question. Lerato's response was so deep and it really put a lot of things into perspective and just got me thinking about friendship and relationship dynamics.
I just love the way you guys communicate. Safe Space, Safe Space.
They respect each other sooo much
First watch on this channel and I’m hooked! Loving the authenticity! God bless your union
Salute to Mr Makhs 🙏🙏, Hes so aware of madam's personality (sensitivity), and take it with sooo much grace . I truly appreciate it bcoz woow, The other Gender 🤦♂️😭 isshh can be cold .you guys are soo real and just know that, we truly appreciate what you are giving in your channel ...you are building ✊👊
Hello😍😍
When you guys said you think time is up my heart nearly sank because I was ready to listen for another 30 minutes 🥲 I love how you're always having such meaningful and insightful conversations. Thank you fam👏🏽💕 Lerato saying "you're an incredible wife" got me🥺
Just discovered this. Love the content, the personalities. Looking forward to more real talk ♥️
The OG is in the house 💃🏾 popoopooopooooo 🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊 let’s get into it. Dream Team Don’t forget to watch the Ads y’all. Registe signed; I’m gonna enjoy this one
Awww Kamo relebogela topic suggestion. 💗
@@samkambule8899 I knew these two would come through with their consistent content. We love them for their authenticity akere
"What is one quality you think holds me back?"
I think this one is very important - even outside a romantic setting. To ourselves, we are perfect and always right and we need people who really love us to bring this up in the most constructive way possible ❤
I just love Peto's laughter..so cute & contagious...keep laughing..
This was so real and informative thank you Makhs for being vulnerable with us, love love how you communicate.
i love it when you say "mmmmm" when you are paying attention . dont change who you are please
at 12:00 i think you are free spirited/ spontaneous / easy going which is good in most situations. we all can't be structured.
I’m actually dying at how touched Phetola is🤣🤣🤣nnete ya baba🌸 love your honesty fam. Thank you.
It’s the “I thought I was perfect” for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣💔💔💔I felt that one on my studio.
"I wish you believed in me like you used to." That hit hard...Hubby has said that to me before. Still not sure how to reactivate that belief ngoba life has hit hard. 😕
Askies sis. 🤗
@@palesakhoza7153 thanks Sis❤
That part hit me too. Like, I was so cold. Omo....
God is the answer ❤🙏
Where trust has been broken,i believe,it is difficult to fully give/gain back.
It'sxlike a chocalate that melts because of heat,even if u put it in the freezer,that "chocolate will not have its original shape.
This was sooo authentic and honest🥺🙆🏾♀️. Thank you for being vulnerable with us and schooling me. You are guys are honest, open and each other's safe space-you are communicating crucial things with love&maturity - l am not saying you are perfect l am saying you are doing great fellaz👏🏾❤️💕.
P. S. I don't regret subscribing shame😆
Real conversations.....never thought I'd have these convos but am ready, the candiness & honesty guys🙌👊👌thank you guys 😊
It took me days to finally watch this. I wasn't sure I was ready to engage the video. Glad I finally did
The way I love these two ♥️ you’d swear that I know them personally 😂🤣 great watch, thank you!
Phetola, sometimes i come here for your laugh, so contagious and therapeutic
Wow, honestly your family is a blessing to us. Beke le beke, we keep learning. Thank you so much ❤️🙏.
Your video has been sitting on my list of recommendations for a while and today I listened/watched. Wow, so I wonder if this is South African or global. Jesus you guys are dealing the truth. Wow wow wow. God bless you.
The only person who can truly give you feedback about how love them is your partner. We may be giving our best but their feedback is the true measure❤️let's keep talking and asking
" I WISH YOU BELIEVED IN ME LIKE YOU USED TO" - Lerato
Some of the words that changes a beloved to a stranger or gangster
2. I’m with Lerato. Total freedom in a safe space is GREAT. I fear saying “I want 123”. I’m afraid of offending people, sounding like a freak, being judged, my true needs being leaked from the bedroom. That’s why I’ve been celibate for 6,5years.
on the last one, I get Lerato. I actually think this is where the whole TREAT PEOPLE AS YOU WANT TO BE TREATED comes from. When I lost my mom, I wanted to be left alone, di askies and o tla siama annoyed me. to this day I don't think I know how to comfort anyone grieving a loved one, which is kinda sad. I feel like if you need me you will let me know and that's whats important. I think the main thing though is we need to communicate better and express our wants and needs so we avoid miscommunication, because people arent mind readers. With that said, great video guys, psychologists might say Pheto was being defensive when she folded her arms but I love that you both were ready to receive what the other one had to say.
Lerato's eyes on Pheto ge e bolela ka tsa kamoreng. Thank you for this one. Re leboga consistency aswell.
Shu! Open and honest as usual. 🙌🏾Thank you for the installment.
The shortest and most insightful 30mins ever on a TH-cam videos 🙏🏻
My "fresh" breath of air every time i return to your platform after being "away" . You both just light up. So much love form this Island gurl from Papua New Guinea
I am thrilled at how you seem to always be in each other's thought and this makes every video seamless and deep... God bless you fam ❤️🥰
I just stumble on this channel and can't hold myself to subscribe because of the content.
It's so amazing
So grateful for such platforms, This is beautiful guys.
Thank you so much. 💓
Hey sis ❤️👏
❤❤❤❤❤
I love her laugh its so soothing, she''s the friend and older sister one needs
I love how Lerato explained the silent wishes based on characters, hmm, makes a lot of sense. Wish the video was longer.
Even in winter you guys are glowing hle 🥺😍❤️🔥
Di favourite tsa Modimo
@@KamogeloB uyazi mos 😁
It's the "but this installment is going to be an hour now" for me🤣🤣🤣🤣. Great installment fam. God bless you.
Yasssssss!! Just finding this page and am now going back to watch the other episodes. Aww I'm in love with yall. Sis's sayings alone has me hooked. Praying all blessings for this family!!
Love this content!
I'm definitely going to be answering these questions with my partner
How did you come up with this idea of sharing ur life with us, I mean creating this TH-cam channel. What compelled you to do so. I have just watched few hours ago but I don't want to stop. Guys ur so amazing thank u so much
Guys you are so mature, I love it... I'm actually so teary right now.
Loved this episode. Loved how real you both were and I personally identified with a few of Phetola’s personality traits.
You guys are also very adorable.
I just love how the questions were not rehearsed.
I just love you two, I'm so glad I found this channel when I did. Real inspiration. True love exists. ❤️❤️❤️
That intro got me to subscribe, first time watching and am hooked....
Love from Namibia 🇳🇦❤
A recent subie. I've been binging on your installments ❤️❤️
We appreciate the transparency😍
They were soooo transparent, at some point I was panicking on Phetolas behalf. Mr Makhetha was really honest
@@thekhoabanesunfiltered8896 Yes and they both receive the honesty so well!
I feel you Pheto in regards to young faith in God and as one grows we kind of have up and down faith...we translate that to our partners...you are deep😍
I could subscribe more than once to this channel if I could! The realest, most authentic content! Authenticity should be goals, not the perception of a 'perfect' relationship
The transparency of it all💯
I love their transparency and realism 👍
Guys please don't mind going longer... You have amazing content and I personally would rather you continue then stop because of time. Love you guys🤗❤️🎊
The transparency... really learning a lot.Your content is bomb🔥🔥🔥🔥and top quality 🔥💯
Hello I did this with my partner and I never knew some stuff about myself which has allowed us to be more understanding towards one another.
Yho.. Phetola is me, I literally live in my head guys!! Like I'm hardly PRESENT 😭
Askies Pheto - I am with Ntate Makhetha - Freaking out is not something that sits with me.
I am Pragmatic, practical, lets solve the issue, lets problem solve and move type person. Investing my energy and effort in "freaking out" ke fela matla, ha se ntho e ke hotseng ka yona. Always moving! Move mama! 😂😂😂😂
What an amazing couple 💑😍... thank you guys... 😊 learning so much
You are amazing, just discovered you guys. M enjoying these conversations. I am learning so much❤
I really enjoyed this conversation… I can imagine how tough it is to be this transparent but that’s what sets you two apart. Thank you.
We love you guys even more because we looooove Tom Bilyeu!! Him and his wife Lisa have really good, thought provoking conversations.❤ Y'all are just amazing bathong ❤❤❤
The honesty here 👏 🙌🏾 Here for it❤
I am with you Pheto, it does not sit well with me either, addressing God as Bro
I just discovered you guys and I love the amount of energy and time you have invested in the intro video
The artwork and pictures of the family wow 🔥🔥🔥
I love that it's a conversation about yourselves and growth!
You guys are just TOO cute! Love ya'll and your ministry!
you guys are AMAZING!!!! happy yo have found you. Infinite blessings
Congratulations on hitting 20k my favorite couple. Keep it real you're such a vibe 😍😍😍
The trust thing hit me, I feel like I will work on that so that my husband feels trusted. That point reminds me of men are from Mars women are from Venus I give my husband help because it’s what I would like but as a man I see how that may seem like I don’t trust him 🥰🥰 great content guys I will try the questions out
Oh man I love you guys and yho Phetola's laugh is contagious ya'll I'm here giggling like a school kid😂
Great conversation you have here and love love love the honesty. Till the next installment fam ❤️
Wifey's laugh is so cute!!!😭❤
Thank you guys for sharing yourselves with us. We are learning.
My beautiful couple, more blessings in Jesus name 🥳🥳
You guys are great. Can’t wait to tell my husband about you guys.
I love you guys🤗❤️ would watch you two the whole day learnt a lot from you.. watching you from Zambia ❤️❤️🇿🇲
Can we have a reality show because I need more of this
His Faith can be a little further in areas that hers isn’t when it comes to being so planned , sometimes ppl need to not know every single thing it is a lot of spirits beneath , but on the other side not planning and preparing and too many risk is not good either . it’s important to pray , hear and commune with Our Father and not move to hasty ,
Waitse ke eng, it’s the honest, the unrehearsed and the risk for me🙌🏽. I was glad to hear that the channel will still be here in 5years because I heard no mention of closure😂😂😂. Pheto my dear, it happens to the most of us, o tla ba sharp, now you know, you are much better off😊
AM SUBSCRIBING BECOUSE OF THE NUMBER OF TIMES PHETHO MENTIONS GOD....BLESS YOU SIS