By making these video you are trying to influence others. You are not realistic, you just try to add propaganda in the youngster. Marriage is not for everyone. In real world girls are spoiling the life of boys. I see a very good people left job because his wife is not caring the babies. You donot know what problem boys are facing in current economic scenario. I see old people like you are saying to make baby, human being is not for reproduction only. One couple should have one or zero babies because giving birth is not only responsibility of father and mother, one should think whether his child will survive in the next world where AI and ML will take all jobs and finance.
Donot take platinum membership. People like this having good speaker can influence and make money for himself. Please update you view after 2-3 months if you already subscribed to platinum
Todays meme: itna sach nhi bolna tha. Uncle ko khud counselling ki jarurat padd jayegi 😂 😂😂. I had to add this. I don't wanted to show 'edited' here.. bt its ok. He has same reasons & examples everytime. All cliches! Aisa hai there were many working & Independent women but suffered in marriage and Money is very much imp bt still rich ppl & celebs are the best examples of lots of divorce cases tht also show there no direct connection btwn happy married life with money, carrer,independence etc..Some ppl may try to spoil marriage. They can be anyone & anyside infact they themselves too! but still it comes up for the couple & their trust & understanding.
@@shiprasharma4449 संन्यास स्वतंत्रता है। संन्यास घोषणा है इस बात की कि मैं अपने जीवन को अपने ढंग से जीऊंगा। मैं वैसे जीऊंगा जैसी मेरी अंतःप्रेरणा होगी। मैं दूसरों की मान कर न जीऊंगा। मैं दूसरों का अनुकरण करके न जीऊंगा। मेरा जीवन एक अभिनय मात्र नहीं होगा। मेरा जीवन प्रमाणिक होगा, मेरा होगाः मेरी निजता से जन्मेगा, स्वतःस्फूत होगा। और संन्यास का क्या अर्थ है? अपने ढंग से जीऊंगा ताकि परमात्मा के सामने जब जाऊं तो यह कह सकूं कि तुमने जो प्रेरणा मुझे दी थी उसके ही अनुसार जीआ हूं। झुका नहीं, समझौता नहीं किया। और जिस दिन तुम जानोगे उस दिन तुम चकित होओगे कि बवंडर, तूफान, विरोध सब तुम्हें सहारा दे गए हैं। The Great Osho
@@shamchandravanshi3098 bhai mere friends ki problem dekhar mujhe khushi horahi hai haa main dukhi tha 38-39 kyunki samjh dabata bahut hai lekin ignore karna unko
Video muze convince nahi kar paya😅. Comment padh kar pata chala mere jaise happily single log bohot hai. Muze single rehne ke liye confidence badh gaya😂
Aapki baatein hi mujhse sbse behuda lg rhi hain sir ..bht izzat se yeh baat keh rha hun.... main regret krna psnd krunga but itna dukh aur doglapan ke rishte ko na nibhaunga
You are right ye faaltu ka views badhane ko gyaan de raha maine kitno ko unmarried dekha door mat jaao padosh me hi aise kayi hai jo unmarried hai Jo Khushi she life jii rahe.
Sir I respect you but on this topic I don't agree with you sir .Ek sawal he kya insan sirf shadi aur bachche aur settle hone ke liye peda hua he kya ?? Insan ko bandhano se mukti ki jarurat he faltu ke tante palkar khud ko aur kisi aur insan k bandhan mat badao . Life sirf maje marne k liye nhi hoti he .
@@vivek8580 that's OK bro but don't you think that shadi k bad life jand si ho jati he, roz ki vohi khatpat, mathaphodi , ldai jhgda , aap kro to bhut sochsamjkar krna kyuki me bhugat chuka hu shadi ki barbadi aaj bhi nind nhi aati , goliya khani pdti he .
@@vivek8580How many ambitious women do u see around? There are only 20% of women who has India’s workforce participation. Many women leave their job after getting married or discontinue after having children while men aren’t allowed to do that. And those ambitious women look for ambitious men who earn more than them. They don’t look down. This uncle tells everyone to find a career oriented/working wife but he should know the statistics of working women population.
@@vivek8580 i di really appreciate the things you have said but one thing i need to point out that having a family and baccha ko palna is not actually low level goals but may be they are basics .....
@@pankajtanwar155 shaadi zaroori nhi h but aapke jaise kehena toh stereotype h Sir. Most of couples ki compatibility nhi hoti, acche lgne ke baad zindagi hoti h, sbko apne life se alag cheezein chahiye hota h, sbki react krne ka tarike, rehan sehan alag hota h. Duniya mein har tarike ka insan hote h, atrangi falana dimkana, wo ladka ladki dono mein hoti h. Toh aapke jaisi khayal jis ladki ki hogi, usse aapki banegi. Sath rehena lambi time tak aur shaadi, farak nhi h. Agar farak h toh bs social responsibilities aur security ki darr. Aapke kharab experience ka mtlb ye nhi shaadi kharab, partner galat chunte h bs. And also many indian girls and guys in many states or cities i have seen has a specific mindset or behaviour, jisse pati ya patni k sath bnti nhi h, toh apne dimension expand karo, search for someone outside ur boundaries, i have seen many indians marrying foreigners and staying happy. So dont restrict ur thought to one section in society
I am turning 35 next month still not ready for marriage and terrified by my friends situations who ended up in bitter divorce and separations , I am happy with little things that God has blessed me with he's gonna take care of me 😇.
Yes, you are right. I am also a 37 years old person. I am single and I am happy in my life. I just surrender myself to God and I am sure he will take care of me.
देखिये, आज शादी कोई तभी करेगा जब उसे सुख मिले। क्योकि ये कोई जिम्मेदारी नही, और ना ही कोई ठेका ले रखा है पीढ़ी बढाने का। जिनका मन कमजोर है वो करे शादी। वरना आज के समय शादी का कोई लाभ नही बल्कि हानि होने की अधिक सम्भावना है। विशेषकर आज के परिवार विरोधी कानूनो मे। अब तो यही सबसे बडा सवाल है की शादी क्यो करे? मिलेगा क्या ये जिम्मेदारिया उठा कर? मरना तो एक दिन वैसे भी सबको है। क्यो ना निश्चिंत होकर जिया जाये। बेहतर है कि अंत समय आध्यात्म का सहारा ले ले। आज ढेरो संस्थाए है जो वृद्धावस्था की व्यवस्था करती है। कोई दिक्कत नही जाती, जीवन आराम से हसी खुशी बीतता है।
@@englishclasses1665 ok..ballia backward area hai kafi, jada se jada 2 saal aur fir apki shadi ho jaegi apki community mai.. Isse acha hai koi ladka khoj khud hi karlo.. Aap UPPCS k taiyari kar rahi ho isliye apke parent ruke hue hai 100%
@@K9_Jerry it's because of our unrealistic demands. everyeone wants minium 2bhk flat in posh society. shiny privates school for children. parties, holidays. once you die without child your whole money unfortuntely goes for the same people who have more than 2 child.
@@sortcapsregulatory7911 if you till 16-17-18 completed 12th after that graduation if your further studies in law,ca, doctor then it takes a lot of years from study to proper stablish that profession . Have you entered job market ? How to earn- multiple sources of earning money? Any there for step by step guide you,help you? Any fruitful relationship? How to raise child? how psychology effect on child till 25-30? Have you enough money+ knowledge to have choice to raise your child or save your partner in any way? Are you street smart? You have to play that part eventually. It's 60 years plus togetherness more or less.
@@animeshupadhyai4057 condom + rapid testing kit aati h bhai .. Or me medical line se hu …to pata h symptoms ..thodi research karo … Koi option h kya … jail..mental torture… adultery..slavery… apne assets wealth gawane se accha hi h … Koi option nahi h … Or bhai prostitute bhi ek se ek hoti h … Firends with benefits wali gf bana lo …
I married 7 years back and have a child...but I lost my job, my parents, my childhood home, my confidence and everything....and I got abuses ,violence, depression, anxiety, migraine .......so decide very carefully
No one speaks about this enough. Women shouldn't marry unless they have savings enough to buy property and to live without income for a year or so. You can always freeze your eggs and procreate later if you want kids.
In India the women who don't earn mostly are treated as slaves, telling by how my mother was treated Now she is in clinical depression Never leave your job for marriage,or even if your husband earns much more Job gives a women confidence and security against any abuse that she may have to face from in laws or husband, also one make friends in job Which is important for mental health
For me,, if people reject you only because u don't have job, then they don't deserve to have u in their life. They r lifeless people... Atleast I don't ever include those in my life.
@@dr.shakshigupta5879 No worries at all. That's why it was said, " chal akela".. i follow the same and a very few people i take with me, only gems... 😀 Remember, when u meet 100 people , hardly 10 belongs to you & it happens everywhere.. u join any academic institution, meet 50 people in 1 year, when u leave institute, hardly 5 people will be in your contact in future.. 😊
What a stupid statement. Firstly you have no respect for someone older then you. Secondly, if you don't agree then chose the right path yourself. He is giving some suggestions based on what his own observation.
No need to marry....its just a compromise ....market is father of your child.....5-6 relationships before marriage.....then dulha and dulhan into traditional dress😂😂😂😂
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Marriage is a failed institution in current socio-economic scenario where men and women earn same and are independent. Neither of them would want to compromise, (and why should they?) Marriage cannot work without compromise, you see in past times when women were limited to household, they had to compromise because they were financially dependent on husband, however modern woman will not compromise (and why should they?) Hence marriage is a failed social experiment.
My suggestion: Don't make marriage compulsory but optional. Having the opposite gender into your inner space needs much rethinking if you really are prepared for this institution. There are still many individuals who are doing great in personal and social life without marriage and even being single.
@@TheMonkNZ women are more happier coz they don't have to deal with exploitation that come with marriage; ladkon ka kya hai shadi k baad v kuch saal taak apne life ; apne entertainment mai focus krte hai
This is exactly where u are COMPLETELY WRONG. I know the reason why u dont want people to remain single(Business). Marriage laws are completely biased towards women and they can file any fake rape,dowry cases and alimony is there waiting for them to grab it. U gave e.g how people die from accidents, so should we stop driving on road. My answer to u is that at least roadrage laws are fair and not favoured towards women. If a woman kills a man in accident then woman will go to jail but if a marriage fails then why only man has to suffer fake rape,dowry cases and alimony even when both are working?
Yaar pls stick to this decision my dad never wanted to marry but his family force him to get married he became alcoholic plus he stopped providing us for money because of this me and my brother's mental health is ruined I started earning at 19 and later provided for my family so for every guy who doesn't want loads of financial responsibility and is not willing to marry should stay single
In our Vedic times nearly 25% of population chose Bhramcharya after taking Deeksha ( Sadhna to channelise sexual urges/energy to some other things). It was because everyone is not suitable to get married. That was the wisdom back then. Compulsion to get married at present time comes from the Mughal period as security of females becomes most important and the way to secure them was to get them married.
Sir I watched ur whole episode thinking that maybe I missed something and that ur episode may force me to rethink my decision to never marry. But I think this episode was not for me. I still stick to my decision n still estatically happy with my decision. I took this decision 3 years back and not regretted ever since. I just turned 39. However m sure ur way of explaining various issues do help a lot of people. Thankful to God that people like u exist too. 🙏
@Sango Life Sutras I don't need to challenge u and I'm not. I respect u for the good work u r doing. All I'm saying is m not marrying for all the right reasons and none of the reasons that u mentioned for youngsters delaying or not marrying nowadays.
Wah sir ! 42 precisely kaise bataya apne aise konse biological changes ho jate hai 42 me...he's already 39 & happy...3 saal me uski dunia konsa upside down ho jaegi lol
Marriage without financial independence is scary for both boys and girls. Marriage is not going to die. But why should a poor boy and a girl marry and how would they support their children. Sociologically you are right, but what about individual's psycholgy.
I need more clarity on this. My parents are well Seattled we have own house and property. They are government servent. I have recently started my business but it's in loss. Growth rate is slow. It's my second year of business. But I have loyal customer, the always come back. But foot fall is very low. my current age is 33 . And I live with my parents because I am the only son. I am not financially strong my my own income so I am scared of getting married. But parents want bme to do marriage, they say they will support me and help me grow. I am unable to decide whether I should get married or not.
99% of people need marriage , what the hell. Reasons of people not wanting marriage are not so simple. Leave it to the individual. Marriage as an institute is on decline and will continue for a lot longer.
Sir, aap astrologer ho...yuga change kar raha hai...marriage paradigm is changing...abhi sirf earn, pay and bacche ke liye shadi nahi chahiye...now people are looking for something higher...they want a soul connection...plus in the new age or yuga the population will be far less...the initial phase has started manifesting with the younger lot not wanting to marry...perspective of life itself is changing and the young ones don't want to be stuck in the old paradigm... Aur aap shaadi ki old paradigm Ki baat kar rahe ho? You're an astrologer. The earth is ascending...new age is dawning...isko nazar mein rakhte huye guide kyun nahi karte ho?
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Kya uncle..Not getting married is not syndrome, this choice is EPITOME OF CHASTITY.....you are married may be...that's why you are saying marrital institution is good.....actually ...virginity loss to someone is not good if the person doesn't deserve....Overall , Unmarried life is the best life whatever whoever say....goddess always with us...Who will take care of poor orphans who are not getting proper education and food....you peoples think to expense on own biological child, selfish an selfish cann't become happy...Today's many young peoples are mature enough than your time due To genetic and environmental evolution..We know the cause and consequence of any thing, even marrital drama too..Don't confuse that Unmarrieds are single...they can enjoy more than married counterparts..... ""Marriage is nothing but a drama, an illusion and a Lousy thing. Life is far more than a marriage. He/She Who has self-confidence does not care about marriage , bahu beti sasu mama etc, they get busy in own realm of errand"" -- RITUPARNA
He is marriage consultant runs a marriage institution that's why he putting facts for marrige and children. Otherwise see comment I am 33 yo unmarried never been in relationship by choice and Happy.
@@mattcardin1796 circumstance and parents health play role in delay. I completed my grad @ 30 I lost my father this yr and mother is schizophrenic. So currently I have lots of responsibility and want to live life freely. Marriage comes with responsibility...
@GauravRajput-jx2xy bro ye admi apni hi baat ko kaat raha hai. Ye khud hi bol raha hai ki sex ratio kharab hai . Aur khud hi bol raha hai ki sabko shadi karni chahiye 😂
All logic wrongs. Har ek insaan aajad hai yha , wo apani choice or apane karm ke hisab se zindagi jeena chahata hai . Sabhi logo ko ek hi framework me nhi baithaya ja sakta ....... Sari bate gulamu wali h tumhari ....
Aap ko maharaj galat fahmi hai ki aap realistic h, aap apna mindset thop rhe h bs, pr samasya ye h ki is paki hui umr me aap ki counseling posible nhi h. Aap bicholiyon ki tarah bate kr r h😅
Bahut acha solo travel bahut acha hai music sunte hue ghumte firte time kat jayega kisi ke sath bhi ghumna backchodi karne se acha hai akele music ko enjoy karte hue ghumna
38 Y Old here, single , very much happy my own way. Society is just purely dillusion for those who are mesmorised. 1 Question only How many Girls really marry to boys ? Or wiseaversa (I think none) Most of marriages are based on Financial status, So, Just marriage is just with money 💰 not with the person. No matter How Good you are by nature, or what is your instinct. That does not matter. Matter is only Financial status both side.
शादी नामक संस्था की सच्चाई1.लोग सादी इसलिए करते है ताकि उनको यौन सुख मिलेगा ,जबकि 90% जोड़ो को योन सुख मिल ही नही पाता, क्योंकि माता पिता जो सादी कराते है ,बच्चे उनको कभी नही बता पाते है कि उनको कैसी फिगर वाली लड़की पसंद है या लड़का?के बार पत्नी पसन्द नही आती तो कइयों को पति ,अगर सादी से लोग योन सुख से संतुस्ट होते तो बाहर संबंध नही बनाते?2।लोग कहते है सादी करने से लोग सेटल हो जाते है ,जोकि की 100% गलत है सादी की बाद 90% जोडे एक दूसरे से अलग होना चाहते है,लेकिन एक एक दुसरे को दुख ना हो इसलिए मज़बूरी मैं अलग नही होते, मतलब सादी मैं फस कर आदमी ना निकल पाता है ना जुड़ पता है सिर्फ टेंशन मैं इधर उधर झूलता है,रही पैसा कमाने और सेव करने की बात है सादी के बाद बहुत अधिक खर्च होने के कारण लोग कर्ज मैं दुब जाते है और उधार की ज़िंदगी जीता है जिस के कारण डिप्रेशन ,टेंशन हाई बीपी,मोटापा ,हार्ट अटैक आदि बीमारी से ग्रसित हो जाते है।3 सादी से वंश चलता है आज के टाइम मैं ये बात भी निर्थक है ,क्योंकि भारत मे जनसख्या विस्फोट है ,सादीसुदा लोग बच्चे पैदा करके जलवायु पयार्वरण परिवर्तन खराब करने की लिए जिम्मेदार है लोग बहुत ज्यादा कार्बन उत्सर्जित करता है।4।सादी करके आदमी मानसिक और भौतिक रूप से गुलाम हो जाता है,सादी रियल मैं वास्विक जेल से भी खतरनाक जेल है।आदमी अपनी पसंद का कोई कार्य नही कर पाता, अपबे ढंग से सो नही पाता, उठ, बैठ नही सकता, खुद का अपना पैसा अपनी मर्जी से खर्च नही कर सकता,सादी के बाद एक आदमी की ज़िंदगी रिस्तेदारो,रिस्तो,सादी, विवाह ,बर्थडे मैं ही उलझ जाती है5सादी के आदमी का सवास्थ्य अच्छा होने की बजाये खराब हो जाता है6।सादी के बाद डॉक्टरों के ही चक्कर लगाने पड़ते है।सादी एक ऐसी बीमारी है जिसमे दर्द बहुत होता है लेकिन कोई चिलाता नही है ना कोई इसका कोई इलाज खोजता है।7 सादी के बाद कोर्ट कचहरी के चक्कर लगाता है और अपना जीवन बर्बाद कर लेता है।
Marriage is not a mandatory thing for survival or a happy life. You can live a perfectly happy life without marriage. Your points are nowhere logical neither convincing.
Zindagi me karne ke liye bahut kuch hai kebal saadhi hi hum indian ko first priorities after job dilkti hai ye saadhi aadhi tumhare sapne se badi hai kya zindagi me jo kuch socha hai pahle bo karo apne sapne hi poore karke na mare to kya jiye
Without money no one can full fill all the major responsibilities after marriage. I'm single 45. Staying with my parents happily. And can't take other person responsibility. I'm single but not by choice. Don't marry for a Marriage certificate, it is not mandatory 😊namaste. Shadi kar lo.. Shadi kar lo 😅mai kehta hu.. Paisa de do.. Paisa de do 😅
You are forgetting very important part that majority of the girls today have or had past lovers but because of family pressure or other didn't marry him. When they marry they settle for some nice guy for the resources but their heart is still with their ex and since they are self-sufficient they don't respect the husband and do affairs with their ex or someone they cannot have like a very good looking or rich man. Character is everything while selecting a wife all other things are pretty much useless without character.
@@happyplease4093 But if the guy cheats in a marriage and it leads to divorce, the girl doesnt have to pay alimony(the guy has to pay alimony) etc whereas if the woman cheats then still the man has to give alimony etc after divorce.
i agree with you sir, my brain agrees but you aren't looking at all aspects of practicality here. Ye apka zamana nahi hai. Yahan 14 saal ke bache sex krke baithe hain and there's barely any decent boys or girl left. Urban areas mein toh bhul jao even in villages people are Netflix soft porn addicts. I'm from Chandigarh for eg and people make fun of me for my thoughts. How come they judge me ki agar mai chd ae hun toh party karta hounga ya ladkiyan ghumai hingi? Ye sab toh ye bahar se aye log karte hain. Finding a decent old fashioned partner It's purely tukka these daysI can't trust my life on a chance and luck . I've seen to what extent girls lie these days. Why would i trust my life with any of them? Chandigarn toh ekdum gutter ban chuka hai imo. All these 16-25 yr olds heck even 15 yr olds school people are sexually active these days, Netflix softporn addicts(ofc people never blame it for some reason as if tv and the content you consume as so called entertainment has nobeffect on your character) How come a guy would accept any of this to be normal? Sure do whatever you want I won't judge but when it comes to partner selection like hell I'm gonna judge you. I'm 27 now and I'm so afraid to even talk to girls. This was never the case in college. These days idk man the world has gotten so weird and overly sexualised. The way people talk, the way they dress, their aspirations are simply not my taste. Im sure ill never find my mate and I'm kinda giving up on finding the perfect unicorn virgin as the cliche goes. Which again for some reason how come it's unreasonable for guys now to even expect a virgin? I know all the arguments I'm gonna get and intellectually I may agree even, but it's simply not right I feel. This whole "letting go" Of sexual past of your partner is childish and reckless which may affect ones marriage in future. Girls are too cunning these days. But no, people call desiring a virgin childish.
@@chappanagent mujhe to darr bhi lgta bhai kbhi kbhi.... ki virgin wife mil bhi payegi ya nhi 😥 Maine to soch liya hai, km padhi likhi, km umar ki ladki se shadi krunga, jiska father tightly rakha ho usko Warna virgin milna luck hi hoga
Sorry I'm not giving up on my career for kids and husband 😏 Koi childfree dhang ka mila to mila warna hme s*x ki chul nhi hoti, bhad me jaye sab, unhealthy marriage se accha mai peaceful life bitau
Mujhe apse shadi karni hai mera bhi appke jaise hi soch hai Hum aur app sath me rahenge Aur successfull kam karenge sath me achhe se life jiyenge koi appko meri family ke taraf se pressure nhi hogi
@@sonujain2348 karna padega, abhi har jaogi to jindagi bhar pachtaogi isiliye tumhe jo thik lage karo aur apni freedom ke liye aakhri saans tak bhi ladna pade to lado
Jin ladkon ko sachmein aisa lagta hai ki hamein to ek free ki kaamwali pakad ke lani hai, unhein to sahi mein koi nhi milni chahiye, better ki wo single hi rahein, kyunki shadi karli to faltu ki expectations rakheinge. Main bhi ladka hun, pr if there is actually a population like this, and that population feels against marriage due to lack of such kaamwalis in the market, then they better remain single, even better that they think this is the right decision now.
Right I know my cousin who's getting married with this approach he earns 30k per month with home tuitions and he gets so pissed off when girls argue with him let's see how the marriage turns out for them moreon financially independent girls are not willing to take shit from men
Free me kaum aata hai yaar, Agar, food ,medical, insurance ,vehicle, electricity bill , child ki care , home , clothes jewellery etc lena hota To kaam karna hi pata, Vo kaam husband karta hai , Badle me house hold kaam karna padta hai To free me to koi nahi karta ghar ka kaam, Ye galafwhmi dimag se nikal do
Shadi hi nai bacche bhi nai karne ...look at thecost of schools just don't want to deprive our kids if we can't afford good education for them , don't bring them ...with the current inflation it's impossible
My life is going great & I don't feel that getting married is going to improve or add on anything positive in my life. Also, getting married in today's era depends on luck. Women have become great, I agree, but they have also become very good at hiding their true faces. My instincts are getting better these days & I have an instinct that my life will be destroyed if I get married. But my parents are still living in an era where women were good, feminine, loyal, caring, respected others etc. All I see in today's women are they look for multiple sex relationships before getting married & later when they get married to a decent guy, then file a fake 498a case against him so that she can continue to enjoy her "sexual liberty". It's only when she reaches 30 & her beauty starts to fade away, she starts thinking about stable married life.
आप को कुछ पता नहीं है आप सिर्फ शादी करने मे जोर दे रहे हो. शादी optional होता है जरुरी नहीं. आप की बातो से पता चलता है की आप ने अपने पिंजरे मे कैद हो. दुनिया के बारे मे ज्यादा पता नहीं🙏🙏🙏
Bhai jab shadi karke fas jao ge case me iss uncle ko call karke bulao dekhenge kitna help karta hai. Jitna idhar youtube pe bakwas kar raha hai jara isko bolo deepika narayan bharadwaj se bhi baat kar lijiye inko reality pata hoke ye bakwas video banake sirf views lane ke liye.
Shadi ek lailaz bimari hai, me bhugat chuka hu, divorce hone wala hai, jindagi jhad kardi hai, bros plz shadi karne se accha hai Sher ke pinjre me chale jao, kuch der baad to shanti mil hi jayegi. Om Shanti.
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
I am old enough and very happy being single. I am unmarried by choice and do not prefer having kids. I am successful and have other priorities in life. I personally know many people in India and abroad who are single and established in life, they all are in late 60s or 70s and are very happy. Regarding this video: I have seen this trend of intruding into other people’s personal lives in India only. Someone wants to marry or doesn’t want to marry is his/her personal choice and society should respect that. Anybody else’s comment on it is absolutely uncalled for.
I am 31 years old but I am facing pressure at home and relatives to get married it's like pressure But I am happy being unmarried and single also I am a working girl
Getting married and having kids is a personal choice and marriage is not everything for a girl They can work on themselves, focus on studies, hobbies and work on themselves and focus on career and work
Sir sometimes you just don’t find the right person. Many a times the person you were invested for the purpose of marrying with Break off the relationship. Life is unpredictable. And one cannot simply move on being logical and calculative at all times. Yes however, if one finds a good partner at the right age then by all means do not delay it. But life isn’t a straight road. And getting married just for the heck of it without Basic values being aligned, and a firm and through background check in case of arranged alliances isn’t fruitful at all. Baad mein jo hoga Woh to apple definitely akele jhelna hai. But be late then sorry.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 then why ready to entertain with your life. If you married someone,then it's 60years togetherness more or less. Then why for this so much hustle bustle
I agree with you. And the pain it brings of putting dedicated effort into a relationship so that it turns a long term innings of marriage can sometimes break a camels back. I also agree with Sir's point of cribbing nature of men. It can come in any form. I don't understand high earning men mentality. They want a trophy partner plus accomplished and should have the potential to be at the beck and call of the partner every single need. Forget parents they themselves are so emotionally demanding.
Take away beauty from women and money from men. And you'll realize that most of the humans have nothing to offer to each other. The great marriages happened at that age where "compromise" was a common thing. Good times, less salaries, and surrender towards each other. Thus, the success rate is 100%. Today, "compromise and sacrifice" is something that Youth see as a burden. Thus, unwillingness to marry. Uncle ji main topics par toh kabhi baat karte nhi.. jaise IT Job better hai ya government job. Basss, so-called practical gyan lelo inse.
Everyone is not suitable to get married. When people have unresolved psychological issues of their own, they project it on their spouse and children. Bringing a life into this world just for the sake of it and saddling him/her with your emotional neglect is not ok. Brining a new life into existence without understanding life's true nature, importance and purpose is a pure ignorant and selfish act.
@@AdityaBiswas-yz3cc lagta hai tujhe samaaj ka gulaam banne ka bada shauk hai🤣 aur ek baat sun tu kisiko janam deta hai toh maut bhi tu hee de rah hai!
Shaadi kyu karni hai sir iska reason to dijiye. ? Shaadi k Bina bhi Insan khush hai. Sir itna hyper competitive world hai ,career hi itna stressful hai. Usme shaadi aur bache kyu add kare.
What about the students life 🐀rat race in terms of career like every parents want their child to become doctor/engineer/chartered accountant, high paying job etc. ? I don't want my next generation to face such disaster. I want to be enlightened like Swami Vivekananda and never take birth in this earth🌎 again?
From a woman's point of view.... Initial days into marriage for a woman are just horrible..... It's like ragging..... It's a different story maybe if it's just मिया- बिवी staying together but with all the adjustments in a new home with the foreign bodies like सास, ससुर, जेठ, जेठानी n all it's horrifying time for the new bride in India......So first the mindset of the boy and his people has to change drastically......then only girls might get ready for marriage... Else it's wasting a precious life ........
@@SBH3356 Agree.... But still the interference continues....and the in laws make sure that the life of the newly weds becomes a hell.... Hence I feel that the mindset of the boy and his people has to change....
You are absolutely right...i married in my twenties..and after two years of continuous mental torture I decided to leave that house ..now I am so much afraid to do it again as the mindset of in laws and other relatives are same...jese ek bachari aayegi ..dahej bhi layegi aur sewa bhi karegi ...aur apne bare me kuch bhi nhi sochegi...what a ridiculous thinking...seriously..are girl made for sewa???
@@Samikshakomal Areee ye pagal admi na bakvas krna janta hai Actually ham logo ko jab shadi krni hai tab krnge aur sabki apni apni kismat hoti hai Jab iswar ne likhi hogi tab hogi jisse honi hogi tab hogi Unko bas bakvas krne ki adat hai
Saaaari galti aaadmi ki hain........saari losse talks aadmi hi krte hain..daaaru bh sirf aur sirf ladke hi pite hain...uncle ji ..aaadmi ki bh life pe farak padh taaa h shaaadi k 1 - 10 saal my......i request males..don't listen to him ...apne hi ghar my dekhlo...sab ...gharo mey bohot kalesh females k kaaran bh hota h!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!you got my dislike!
With due respect Sir, marriage is a commitment that not everyone is able to handle. Same with having children. Many people will still marry and even give birth to children, let's not object those who want to live without marriage or children. Also, I'd appreciate married couples being able decide whether they even want children or not, without others' judgement. [P.S. I certainly appreciate your explanation of the demography of sex ratio and its effect on finding a marriage partner]
Hum apna ghr chod k ate h sb chod k..shadi krne k bad hmare sath gnda behave kia jata h..pura din ghr ka kam krna bche smbhalne or saas chay ki ptti tak dene se mna kr deti h kyuki ghr ki malkin saas ko bna rkha h pti or sasur ne..to hume ek ek chij k lie bheekh mangni pde.. job kre to possible nhi ho pata becoz ghr ka bcho ka sara kam b hmare upr h..fir hme pse pse se mohtaj kia jata h..bhai logo sare sun lo..in uncle ne apni advic di thi its ok.but shadi love marrige ho ya arrange ..koi mt karna.isse to acha single rho khud k lie kmao..or shanti se jio..bahr desho me log hmse better h jo shadi ni krte.but india me to bchpn se hi shadi bche shadi bche dimag me thus thus ke bhra jata h shadi is a torture..i m 32 years old.nd apne expernce se bol ri ho.dont marry pls.
Ye dekh ke tu kisi ke bhi sar me dard ho jaye.Jiwan har kisi ka sirf shaadi, bache ke liye nahi hota agar hota tu ratan tata, anna hazare, lata mageshkar, A.P.J abdul kalam jaise log duniya me nahi hote.Earlier i liked your thoughts but not anymore after this video.
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Single rehna achhi baat hai no stress no nuisance etc but when it comes to travel,outing,movies,eating out,attending grand events etc ni family, friends or relatives come to hang out n theres pure loneliness so many people change their mind and get married in late 40s so they can have a good company
Sir ,Agar shaadi timely na karwane me maata pita hi na chhaye to? Hai aise bahut maata pita jo 40 Tak bachho ki shaadi nahi karne dete aur agar khhud se kar lo bawaal, marte dam Tak muh nahi dekhte. Samajhte hi nahi aise maata pita ki unke bachhe 42 /45 ki umar me apne chhote chhote bachho ko kaise sambhalte honge. Sir it's a true of story of someone. Not everyone is against marriage, sometimes parents are responsible.
Bahut sahi baat kahi aapne... Agar mata-pita ya bhai behen ko lag jaye ye beti/beta or bhai/behen responsible hai, ghar ki sari jimmedari uthata hai, finance to everything, thn un logo ki shadi karwane ke liye koi ichchuk nahi hota hai...
किसी ने बिल्कुल सही कहा है- शादी एक ऐसा लड्डू है, जिसे नहीं मिले वो ललचाये, और जो खाये वो पछताये। हर शादीशुदा व्यक्ति के अपने अलग अनुभव हैं। उसको जनरलाइज करना मुश्किल है। जो शादी के बन्धन में लम्बे समय से है, उनमें झेलते झेलते इतनी सहनशीलता आ जाती है कि शादी की वकालत करना शुरू कर देते हैं। पहले एक कारण - बुढ़ापे की चिंता से लोग शादी किया करते, लेकिन अब सामाजिक व्यवस्था ही ऐसी हो गयी है बच्चे अपने बूढ़े माँ बाप कितना ख्याल रख पाते हैं? मनुष्य जितना अपने मन के सहारे जीयेगा, शादी के बंधन टूटेंगे। समय के साथ हमारा भी बिल्कुल west वाला हाल होना तय है।
Very practical video sir. But one question. I have been married for an year now and my husband is abusive. He is violent with me and recently he actually slapped me multiple times and was physically abuvie with me. Should a women tolerate this also or move out of such marriage.
It is easier said than done. My parents are like if this happens again and again than it is a problem otherwise the guy might have been in some othe zone. He was pissed, you might have taunted him. He might have gone berserk so it happened. No support from them.
When he is in good mood, in a respectful, loving at the same time firm manner, tell him this is not okay. If we want this relationship to be successful, he must refrain from such behaviour. When u do this, convey it in a manner that you are not demanding (although i accept you have all reasons to be upset), at the same time be clear about the fact that this behaviour hurts and upsets you a lot. I am in no way supporting any violence towards one's spouse, but it is a fact that some men are programmed in manner that it is okay to raise hand on their wife. Now what we can do here is, if we see a scope of him learning that it is NOT OKAY AT ALL, and he is willing to improve, then one can have patience and help him come out of his attitude. But if we see a person is abusive inherently and is never going to change his ways, there is no point suffering in such a relationship.
I love last 4-5 minutes of video where you mention how initially women have to take pressure & than men would play for later part of innings.
What is your suggestion for bald boys.
How can I get platinum membership? Please help
@@rishavsoni3680 get a wig
By making these video you are trying to influence others. You are not realistic, you just try to add propaganda in the youngster. Marriage is not for everyone. In real world girls are spoiling the life of boys. I see a very good people left job because his wife is not caring the babies. You donot know what problem boys are facing in current economic scenario. I see old people like you are saying to make baby, human being is not for reproduction only. One couple should have one or zero babies because giving birth is not only responsibility of father and mother, one should think whether his child will survive in the next world where AI and ML will take all jobs and finance.
Donot take platinum membership. People like this having good speaker can influence and make money for himself. Please update you view after 2-3 months if you already subscribed to platinum
Dear old generation, stop lecturing us. We know what the world is today.
Wahi to new generation k sath new problems hoti hai they don't know anything 😅
Right bro
Avoid marriage
Lolz…. True… n agreed. 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Lovely bro
i am 33 and happily unmarried :)
Aisa kyun bhai
Great decision 👍
Poor decision @@abhijeetpanda2765
Are you Virgin and happy too or Virgin and Regret ?
@@Harsh_Da_Greatnon-virgin and happy.Mgtow for life.
Log shaadi krenge to aapki dukaan chalegi. Single and happy person is not your customer 😅
😂😂😂
Todays meme: itna sach nhi bolna tha. Uncle ko khud counselling ki jarurat padd jayegi 😂 😂😂. I had to add this. I don't wanted to show 'edited' here.. bt its ok. He has same reasons & examples everytime. All cliches! Aisa hai there were many working & Independent women but suffered in marriage and Money is very much imp bt still rich ppl & celebs are the best examples of lots of divorce cases tht also show there no direct connection btwn happy married life with money, carrer,independence etc..Some ppl may try to spoil marriage. They can be anyone & anyside infact they themselves too! but still it comes up for the couple & their trust & understanding.
@@shiprasharma4449 संन्यास स्वतंत्रता है। संन्यास घोषणा है इस बात की कि मैं अपने जीवन को अपने ढंग से जीऊंगा। मैं वैसे जीऊंगा जैसी मेरी अंतःप्रेरणा होगी। मैं दूसरों की मान कर न जीऊंगा। मैं दूसरों का अनुकरण करके न जीऊंगा। मेरा जीवन एक अभिनय मात्र नहीं होगा। मेरा जीवन प्रमाणिक होगा, मेरा होगाः मेरी निजता से जन्मेगा, स्वतःस्फूत होगा। और संन्यास का क्या अर्थ है? अपने ढंग से जीऊंगा ताकि परमात्मा के सामने जब जाऊं तो यह कह सकूं कि तुमने जो प्रेरणा मुझे दी थी उसके ही अनुसार जीआ हूं। झुका नहीं, समझौता नहीं किया। और जिस दिन तुम जानोगे उस दिन तुम चकित होओगे कि बवंडर, तूफान, विरोध सब तुम्हें सहारा दे गए हैं। The Great Osho
trueeee
I agree with you bro
I'm 44 still unmarried and happily living and my friends are struggling and crying
You are a real man
@@MGTOWbrotherhood3 yup bro
@@GouravKumar-up4bg I'm thinking of making WhatsApp group for unmarried men
Bhai sahi sahi batao pakka HAPPY ho ya duniya ko happy dikhate ho lekin andar se dukhi???
@@shamchandravanshi3098 bhai mere friends ki problem dekhar mujhe khushi horahi hai haa main dukhi tha 38-39 kyunki samjh dabata bahut hai lekin ignore karna unko
Video muze convince nahi kar paya😅.
Comment padh kar pata chala mere jaise happily single log bohot hai. Muze single rehne ke liye confidence badh gaya😂
😅😅😂😂
😂😂😂kay bolto mitra, confidence badh gaya 🤣
Same here dost.
sach me dost aaj ke time me shadi matlab bohot bada risk he
@@umakantchabukswar403 पण घरचे लोक समजत नाहीत जबरदस्ती लग्न कर लग्न कर म्हणून पाठी पडतात🙂
Aapki baatein hi mujhse sbse behuda lg rhi hain sir ..bht izzat se yeh baat keh rha hun.... main regret krna psnd krunga but itna dukh aur doglapan ke rishte ko na nibhaunga
Sigma bro 🔥🔥
You are right ye faaltu ka views badhane ko gyaan de raha maine kitno ko unmarried dekha door mat jaao padosh me hi aise kayi hai jo unmarried hai Jo Khushi she life jii rahe.
Orr ye kya baat hai ki tinde ki sabji hi khani hai kuch Orr kha lenge koi jaruri hai kya whi kre jo sab kar rhe hain useless example
Sir smoking is injurious to health but marriage is injurious to wealth & health both 😂
😂
sahi bola
True
💯%
Bro 😂😂
Comment section padke aisa lag raha hai sir puri tarah fail ho gaye new generation ko marriage ke liye convince karne mai😂😂
Yes totally failed
Aise logo ko TH-cam allow kyo karta h. Kitna bevkoof h ye aadmi. Koi chup karao iss samaj k ghulaam ko...
ye budha pagal ho gya iski sun k zndagi kharab mat kro.
Koea asea chutiyo se leta bhi nahi hai advive
Bhaad me gyi shadi, bhaad me gyi ladki
Based
SAME HERE
Larki bhi yahi sochti hey bhiya ki sadai baadi faltu hey
Same
@@nishitarawatsituations is not same for all...atleast we should try our luck....and know what is written in destiny by god 😊
Sir I respect you but on this topic I don't agree with you sir .Ek sawal he kya insan sirf shadi aur bachche aur settle hone ke liye peda hua he kya ?? Insan ko bandhano se mukti ki jarurat he faltu ke tante palkar khud ko aur kisi aur insan k bandhan mat badao . Life sirf maje marne k liye nhi hoti he .
@@vivek8580 that's OK bro but don't you think that shadi k bad life jand si ho jati he, roz ki vohi khatpat, mathaphodi , ldai jhgda , aap kro to bhut sochsamjkar krna kyuki me bhugat chuka hu shadi ki barbadi aaj bhi nind nhi aati , goliya khani pdti he .
@@vivek8580How many ambitious women do u see around? There are only 20% of women who has India’s workforce participation. Many women leave their job after getting married or discontinue after having children while men aren’t allowed to do that. And those ambitious women look for ambitious men who earn more than them. They don’t look down.
This uncle tells everyone to find a career oriented/working wife but he should know the statistics of working women population.
@@vivek8580 i di really appreciate the things you have said but one thing i need to point out that having a family and baccha ko palna is not actually low level goals but may be they are basics .....
I completely agree
@@pankajtanwar155 shaadi zaroori nhi h but aapke jaise kehena toh stereotype h Sir. Most of couples ki compatibility nhi hoti, acche lgne ke baad zindagi hoti h, sbko apne life se alag cheezein chahiye hota h, sbki react krne ka tarike, rehan sehan alag hota h. Duniya mein har tarike ka insan hote h, atrangi falana dimkana, wo ladka ladki dono mein hoti h. Toh aapke jaisi khayal jis ladki ki hogi, usse aapki banegi. Sath rehena lambi time tak aur shaadi, farak nhi h. Agar farak h toh bs social responsibilities aur security ki darr. Aapke kharab experience ka mtlb ye nhi shaadi kharab, partner galat chunte h bs. And also many indian girls and guys in many states or cities i have seen has a specific mindset or behaviour, jisse pati ya patni k sath bnti nhi h, toh apne dimension expand karo, search for someone outside ur boundaries, i have seen many indians marrying foreigners and staying happy. So dont restrict ur thought to one section in society
I am turning 35 next month still not ready for marriage and terrified by my friends situations who ended up in bitter divorce and separations , I am happy with little things that God has blessed me with he's gonna take care of me 😇.
Yes, you are right. I am also a 37 years old person. I am single and I am happy in my life. I just surrender myself to God and I am sure he will take care of me.
Yes I will not get married as well
I am regreting after marriage.
@@PawanKumar-nx3no may i know the reason ????
@@englishclasses1665 My wife is very decent and innocent. But my mother viewpoint and thoughts are evil, which I came to know after marriage.
देखिये, आज शादी कोई तभी करेगा जब उसे सुख मिले। क्योकि ये कोई जिम्मेदारी नही, और ना ही कोई ठेका ले रखा है पीढ़ी बढाने का। जिनका मन कमजोर है वो करे शादी। वरना आज के समय शादी का कोई लाभ नही बल्कि हानि होने की अधिक सम्भावना है। विशेषकर आज के परिवार विरोधी कानूनो मे। अब तो यही सबसे बडा सवाल है की शादी क्यो करे? मिलेगा क्या ये जिम्मेदारिया उठा कर?
मरना तो एक दिन वैसे भी सबको है। क्यो ना निश्चिंत होकर जिया जाये। बेहतर है कि अंत समय आध्यात्म का सहारा ले ले। आज ढेरो संस्थाए है जो वृद्धावस्था की व्यवस्था करती है। कोई दिक्कत नही जाती, जीवन आराम से हसी खुशी बीतता है।
GREAT THINKING
Right
apne bilkul mere ❤ ki baat bol di
Tum matt karna .... free ki advice hai 😂😂😂
@@jaibajrangbali3494 तुमसे ज्यादा समझता हूँ। 😁 क्या करना है क्या नही। ये निर्णय मैने बहुत पहले ही ले लिया है।
Mai 25 saal ki hu maine apne parents k behaviour ko dekh k shadi na krne ka decision liya h
If you are a girl then you are going to get married you have no choice.
@@Dhirajkumar-ls1ws no need
@@englishclasses1665 aap kis District se ho?
@@Dhirajkumar-ls1ws ballia
@@englishclasses1665 ok..ballia backward area hai kafi, jada se jada 2 saal aur fir apki shadi ho jaegi apki community mai.. Isse acha hai koi ladka khoj khud hi karlo.. Aap UPPCS k taiyari kar rahi ho isliye apke parent ruke hue hai 100%
I am 25 and worries about high inflation, climate change and AI.
So I decided not to get married.
Here I m turned 26 13 Jan ..and feel same
😂
@@K9_Jerry it's because of our unrealistic demands. everyeone wants minium 2bhk flat in posh society. shiny privates school for children. parties, holidays. once you die without child your whole money unfortuntely goes for the same people who have more than 2 child.
I wish i would married at 22-23. It is the best time.
After 30 all gone
@@sortcapsregulatory7911 if you till 16-17-18 completed 12th after that graduation if your further studies in law,ca, doctor then it takes a lot of years from study to proper stablish that profession . Have you entered job market ? How to earn- multiple sources of earning money? Any there for step by step guide you,help you? Any fruitful relationship? How to raise child? how psychology effect on child till 25-30? Have you enough money+ knowledge to have choice to raise your child or save your partner in any way? Are you street smart? You have to play that part eventually. It's 60 years plus togetherness more or less.
Sir I still choose to stay single and childfree for life 🙂
Then start seeking for money+ knowledge+ hobby (skills) +tasty food you will get true happiness
@@freedom4813 yes that's the plan
@@freedom4813 do exercise and yog also
Because you know u can not afford this challenge.
You will regret in later years for what you are enjoying now. Then it will be too late. Life cannot be filtered to enjoy only.
Not eka dukka 5-6 people in my family and friends are fighting divorce cases
sir shadi ki chodo... yeh batao 6000 ki russian kaha milegi.... ek video ispe bhi banao
Bhai thailand best h … cheap h affirdable 😊
@@chetan257 what about STDs? aur self worth bhi gir jaati hai is cheez se to be very honest.
@@animeshupadhyai4057 condom + rapid testing kit aati h bhai ..
Or me medical line se hu …to pata h symptoms ..thodi research karo …
Koi option h kya … jail..mental torture… adultery..slavery… apne assets wealth gawane se accha hi h …
Koi option nahi h …
Or bhai prostitute bhi ek se ek hoti h …
Firends with benefits wali gf bana lo …
@@animeshupadhyai4057 bhai 2 condoms lagate hai std hone ke chance nahi hota
Bro, Russia ka Visa laga le
Wahaan pr bhi aasani se mil jaayegi.
😂😂😂
Mujhe nahi karni shaadi, na bacha chahiye. Mujhe tinde hi pasand hai.
THE BEST REPLY ...😀
Listen to acharya Prashant to get more clarity and live for liberation
Average tinde enoyer
😂😂.. sahi
😂
Pata nhi saaala life hai ki koi task hai! Thk gya hun yr. Nhi khelna mujhe ye game😞
मुझे भी नहीं खेलना 🏳️🙏😣
I married 7 years back and have a child...but I lost my job, my parents, my childhood home, my confidence and everything....and I got abuses ,violence, depression, anxiety, migraine .......so decide very carefully
No one speaks about this enough. Women shouldn't marry unless they have savings enough to buy property and to live without income for a year or so. You can always freeze your eggs and procreate later if you want kids.
In India the women who don't earn mostly are treated as slaves, telling by how my mother was treated
Now she is in clinical depression
Never leave your job for marriage,or even if your husband earns much more
Job gives a women confidence and security against any abuse that she may have to face from in laws or husband, also one make friends in job Which is important for mental health
For me,, if people reject you only because u don't have job, then they don't deserve to have u in their life. They r lifeless people... Atleast I don't ever include those in my life.
@@Terminator-to3lp people may even reject you for your likes, hobbies, and also for no reason.....just works on their mood
@@dr.shakshigupta5879 No worries at all. That's why it was said, " chal akela".. i follow the same and a very few people i take with me, only gems... 😀 Remember, when u meet 100 people , hardly 10 belongs to you & it happens everywhere.. u join any academic institution, meet 50 people in 1 year, when u leave institute, hardly 5 people will be in your contact in future.. 😊
This video has an assumption that both the man and the woman are loyal to each other which is not the case in this modern society
Iss buddhe ki baat mat suno. Marriage in 2023 is a scam. It's not like the 1970s.
Shameful comment🖕🖕🖕
What a stupid statement. Firstly you have no respect for someone older then you. Secondly, if you don't agree then chose the right path yourself. He is giving some suggestions based on what his own observation.
Kaya hua bhai teresat
@@nimishmagar5551 Mat pucho 💀.
Dhruv shukla depend on the person
No need to marry....its just a compromise ....market is father of your child.....5-6 relationships before marriage.....then dulha and dulhan into traditional dress😂😂😂😂
situations is not same for all...atleast we should try our luck....and know what is written in destiny by god 😊
@@kkag6396Avoid marriage
I am also female 33 year old I want to stayy single while my life
Ya toh pati k sath bilkul alag raho ...nhi toh kbhi shadi mat karna .....
@@sonujain2348 Freedom is more important than "Samaj"
Right
@@sonujain2348to wa reh kya ho jab financially stable ho to alag raho unse
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Marriage is a failed institution in current socio-economic scenario where men and women earn same and are independent. Neither of them would want to compromise, (and why should they?)
Marriage cannot work without compromise, you see in past times when women were limited to household, they had to compromise because they were financially dependent on husband, however modern woman will not compromise (and why should they?)
Hence marriage is a failed social experiment.
Agree
My suggestion:
Don't make marriage compulsory but optional. Having the opposite gender into your inner space needs much rethinking if you really are prepared for this institution.
There are still many individuals who are doing great in personal and social life without marriage and even being single.
Right
@@ankita8354 Thanks for the response Ankita.
@@TheMonkNZ Thank you Monk!
@@TheMonkNZ women are more happier coz they don't have to deal with exploitation that come with marriage; ladkon ka kya hai shadi k baad v kuch saal taak apne life ; apne entertainment mai focus krte hai
I feel exactly the same !
I'm suffering from low self-esteem that's why I'm not going to get married..
33 year old
Do inner engineering you will have confidence with clarity
Dost please constlant from some therapist , I am gone through same problem get treated from AIIMS , now all is good
Bro good to be simple
@@kamalupretidelhi brother sometimes we just need to let go
@@jaibharat9686Avoid marriage
This is exactly where u are COMPLETELY WRONG. I know the reason why u dont want people to remain single(Business). Marriage laws are completely biased towards women and they can file any fake rape,dowry cases and alimony is there waiting for them to grab it. U gave e.g how people die from accidents, so should we stop driving on road. My answer to u is that at least roadrage laws are fair and not favoured towards women. If a woman kills a man in accident then woman will go to jail but if a marriage fails then why only man has to suffer fake rape,dowry cases and alimony even when both are working?
bolo uncle kya hua ab perfect answer
Sir
I want to take spiritual path and remain unmarried
Yaar pls stick to this decision my dad never wanted to marry but his family force him to get married he became alcoholic plus he stopped providing us for money because of this me and my brother's mental health is ruined I started earning at 19 and later provided for my family so for every guy who doesn't want loads of financial responsibility and is not willing to marry should stay single
In our Vedic times nearly 25% of population chose Bhramcharya after taking Deeksha ( Sadhna to channelise sexual urges/energy to some other things). It was because everyone is not suitable to get married. That was the wisdom back then. Compulsion to get married at present time comes from the Mughal period as security of females becomes most important and the way to secure them was to get them married.
Yess bro 🙏
This has changed. This is not Vedic time.
Tu vedic time me chala ja...yaha is timeline me kyu jee rha hai
Government survey k hisabb se 10 crore mahila ladkigaa UNMARRIED he nakii unko shadii nahi karnii
Unkii kwaisshee purii nahi hotii
This...sahi kah rhe hai aap
Marriage is a social conspiracy 😂 .
Sir I watched ur whole episode thinking that maybe I missed something and that ur episode may force me to rethink my decision to never marry. But I think this episode was not for me. I still stick to my decision n still estatically happy with my decision. I took this decision 3 years back and not regretted ever since. I just turned 39. However m sure ur way of explaining various issues do help a lot of people. Thankful to God that people like u exist too. 🙏
Wait for 42 yrs of age.
@Sango Life Sutras I don't need to challenge u and I'm not. I respect u for the good work u r doing. All I'm saying is m not marrying for all the right reasons and none of the reasons that u mentioned for youngsters delaying or not marrying nowadays.
Wah sir ! 42 precisely kaise bataya apne aise konse biological changes ho jate hai 42 me...he's already 39 & happy...3 saal me uski dunia konsa upside down ho jaegi lol
@@bansalprashant1 good decision
@@SangoLifeSutras
Bang on sir!
You regret not making this investment once you grow old.
Marriage without financial independence is scary for both boys and girls. Marriage is not going to die. But why should a poor boy and a girl marry and how would they support their children. Sociologically you are right, but what about individual's psycholgy.
True
I need more clarity on this. My parents are well Seattled we have own house and property. They are government servent. I have recently started my business but it's in loss. Growth rate is slow. It's my second year of business. But I have loyal customer, the always come back. But foot fall is very low. my current age is 33 . And I live with my parents because I am the only son. I am not financially strong my my own income so I am scared of getting married. But parents want bme to do marriage, they say they will support me and help me grow. I am unable to decide whether I should get married or not.
@@Ritez_ shaadi kar le bhai
best comment ever
true sir
99% of people need marriage , what the hell.
Reasons of people not wanting marriage are not so simple.
Leave it to the individual.
Marriage as an institute is on decline and will continue for a lot longer.
Marriage is not neccesary in life😊. He is a fool man.
True 👏
@@PREETAMPANTH-l6d so brave of you to call this professional problem solver a fool . What's your worth??
@@PREETAMPANTH-l6d He's not at all a fool. Marriage is necessary.
@@PREETAMPANTH-l6d right bro ❤❤❤❤
Sir, aap astrologer ho...yuga change kar raha hai...marriage paradigm is changing...abhi sirf earn, pay and bacche ke liye shadi nahi chahiye...now people are looking for something higher...they want a soul connection...plus in the new age or yuga the population will be far less...the initial phase has started manifesting with the younger lot not wanting to marry...perspective of life itself is changing and the young ones don't want to be stuck in the old paradigm...
Aur aap shaadi ki old paradigm Ki baat kar rahe ho?
You're an astrologer. The earth is ascending...new age is dawning...isko nazar mein rakhte huye guide kyun nahi karte ho?
if he supports the changes in modern society then for marriage who will buy rings and jems from him !!
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Kya uncle..Not getting married is not syndrome, this choice is EPITOME OF CHASTITY.....you are married may be...that's why you are saying marrital institution is good.....actually ...virginity loss to someone is not good if the person doesn't deserve....Overall , Unmarried life is the best life whatever whoever say....goddess always with us...Who will take care of poor orphans who are not getting proper education and food....you peoples think to expense on own biological child, selfish an selfish cann't become happy...Today's many young peoples are mature enough than your time due To genetic and environmental evolution..We know the cause and consequence of any thing, even marrital drama too..Don't confuse that Unmarrieds are single...they can enjoy more than married counterparts..... ""Marriage is nothing but a drama, an illusion and a Lousy thing. Life is far more than a marriage. He/She Who has self-confidence does not care about marriage , bahu beti sasu mama etc, they get busy in own realm of errand"" -- RITUPARNA
Lagta hai, abhi choti bachi ho.(not only age)Maturity aane me time lagega.
Apki itni gyanc###di k bad bhi me ni krna cahta shadi
शादी मत करना।।अकेले रहो सुखी रहो।।समाज मे रहकर कोई अच्छा काम करो।।दुनिया याद करेगी।।
सब हिन्दू शादी करना बन्द बच्चे पैदा बन्द दुनिया उनके लिये छोड़ दो!
Bakwasssssssd couple raho
@@mayurikarne5417 khud kuch ukhaad lo jewwan Mai bacche toh kutiya bhi paida karti hai 🐈🐈
Budape m tinde kha lunga lekin jawani barbad nhi krunga😂
Mental peace >> Women
Obv loyalty>>>>men also dogs>>> men the are loyal
@@vanshikakaushik6497 says a woman...
@@shivamupadhyay24 sorry I meant dogs are loyal
@@vanshikakaushik6497 hmmm.....says a woman.
@@vanshikakaushik6497
Women are more disloyal then men
As they have more options ..
He is marriage consultant runs a marriage institution that's why he putting facts for marrige and children.
Otherwise see comment I am 33 yo unmarried never been in relationship by choice and Happy.
How did you convince your parent
@@mattcardin1796 circumstance and parents health play role in delay. I completed my grad @ 30 I lost my father this yr and mother is schizophrenic. So currently I have lots of responsibility and want to live life freely. Marriage comes with responsibility...
How u kill fear of illness loneliness old age ...??
@@ashuvijay7031those who can't live with themselves (alone) can't live with somebody.
@GauravRajput-jx2xy bro ye admi apni hi baat ko kaat raha hai. Ye khud hi bol raha hai ki sex ratio kharab hai . Aur khud hi bol raha hai ki sabko shadi karni chahiye 😂
An overhyped institution🤣
This institution should end
Sirji
आप बागबान के जमाने के हो
जरा कंगना रानावत की क्वीन भी देख लो
उस फिल्म का भी damage बोहोत है
All logic wrongs. Har ek insaan aajad hai yha , wo apani choice or apane karm ke hisab se zindagi jeena chahata hai . Sabhi logo ko ek hi framework me nhi baithaya ja sakta .......
Sari bate gulamu wali h tumhari ....
Every one has their own comfort zone of getting married..but selection of right parter is very crucial otherwise it will waste whole life..
That happens rarely. If you are rich, you can live in comfort
Aap ko maharaj galat fahmi hai ki aap realistic h, aap apna mindset thop rhe h bs, pr samasya ye h ki is paki hui umr me aap ki counseling posible nhi h. Aap bicholiyon ki tarah bate kr r h😅
I am happy single.. Na sas nanand ki chik chik.. na bachhe karne ka social. Pressure... I am solo traveler.. Happy
Bahut acha solo travel bahut acha hai music sunte hue ghumte firte time kat jayega kisi ke sath bhi ghumna backchodi karne se acha hai akele music ko enjoy karte hue ghumna
38 Y Old here, single , very much happy my own way.
Society is just purely dillusion for those who are mesmorised.
1 Question only How many Girls really marry to boys ? Or wiseaversa (I think none) Most of marriages are based on Financial status, So, Just marriage is just with money 💰 not with the person.
No matter How Good you are by nature, or what is your instinct. That does not matter.
Matter is only Financial status both side.
Bro jyada si sach bol diya😢
Isiliye apna paisa apne upper enjoy karo
Do whatever makes you happy
This is what I truly feel. Accha laaga dekh kaar ki hum sabka Aisa hi viewpoint hain.
शादी नामक संस्था की सच्चाई1.लोग सादी इसलिए करते है ताकि उनको यौन सुख मिलेगा ,जबकि 90% जोड़ो को योन सुख मिल ही नही पाता, क्योंकि माता पिता जो सादी कराते है ,बच्चे उनको कभी नही बता पाते है कि उनको कैसी फिगर वाली लड़की पसंद है या लड़का?के बार पत्नी पसन्द नही आती तो कइयों को पति ,अगर सादी से लोग योन सुख से संतुस्ट होते तो बाहर संबंध नही बनाते?2।लोग कहते है सादी करने से लोग सेटल हो जाते है ,जोकि की 100% गलत है सादी की बाद 90% जोडे एक दूसरे से अलग होना चाहते है,लेकिन एक एक दुसरे को दुख ना हो इसलिए मज़बूरी मैं अलग नही होते, मतलब सादी मैं फस कर आदमी ना निकल पाता है ना जुड़ पता है सिर्फ टेंशन मैं इधर उधर झूलता है,रही पैसा कमाने और सेव करने की बात है सादी के बाद बहुत अधिक खर्च होने के कारण लोग कर्ज मैं दुब जाते है और उधार की ज़िंदगी जीता है जिस के कारण डिप्रेशन ,टेंशन हाई बीपी,मोटापा ,हार्ट अटैक आदि बीमारी से ग्रसित हो जाते है।3 सादी से वंश चलता है आज के टाइम मैं ये बात भी निर्थक है ,क्योंकि भारत मे जनसख्या विस्फोट है ,सादीसुदा लोग बच्चे पैदा करके जलवायु पयार्वरण परिवर्तन खराब करने की लिए जिम्मेदार है लोग बहुत ज्यादा कार्बन उत्सर्जित करता है।4।सादी करके आदमी मानसिक और भौतिक रूप से गुलाम हो जाता है,सादी रियल मैं वास्विक जेल से भी खतरनाक जेल है।आदमी अपनी पसंद का कोई कार्य नही कर पाता, अपबे ढंग से सो नही पाता, उठ, बैठ नही सकता, खुद का अपना पैसा अपनी मर्जी से खर्च नही कर सकता,सादी के बाद एक आदमी की ज़िंदगी रिस्तेदारो,रिस्तो,सादी, विवाह ,बर्थडे मैं ही उलझ जाती है5सादी के आदमी का सवास्थ्य अच्छा होने की बजाये खराब हो जाता है6।सादी के बाद डॉक्टरों के ही चक्कर लगाने पड़ते है।सादी एक ऐसी बीमारी है जिसमे दर्द बहुत होता है लेकिन कोई चिलाता नही है ना कोई इसका कोई इलाज खोजता है।7 सादी के बाद कोर्ट कचहरी के चक्कर लगाता है और अपना जीवन बर्बाद कर लेता है।
Uncle ji single life best
Marriage is not a mandatory thing for survival or a happy life. You can live a perfectly happy life without marriage. Your points are nowhere logical neither convincing.
Zindagi me karne ke liye bahut kuch hai kebal saadhi hi hum indian ko first priorities after job dilkti hai ye saadhi aadhi tumhare sapne se badi hai kya zindagi me jo kuch socha hai pahle bo karo apne sapne hi poore karke na mare to kya jiye
Shadi barbadi hoti hai. Aajkal divorce rate dekh rahe ho kitna hai. Maine bohot log dekhe hai jinki jindagi barbad hui shadi ki vajah se
Haan maine bhi dekhe hain aise log. Right.
Completely Disagree
Without money no one can full fill all the major responsibilities after marriage. I'm single 45. Staying with my parents happily. And can't take other person responsibility. I'm single but not by choice. Don't marry for a Marriage certificate, it is not mandatory 😊namaste.
Shadi kar lo.. Shadi kar lo 😅mai kehta hu.. Paisa de do.. Paisa de do 😅
Hahah😂 so good
Paise de do
Paise de do
🏳️🙏😂😂
Sir Hume woh Dukh Kyu de rhe ho jo aap khud seh rhe ho??😄😄😄
Bhai hum ladke hain hamare saath aisa hi hota hai aur inke jaise mahanubhaav uncle yaha gyaan de rahe hain 😂
SAHE BAAT
Only tension marriage life first tfoll that finicial promblems,health promblems,tension for kides😊
Ghulam bnane ki prakriya he shaadi
Sambhog se samadhi
You are forgetting very important part that majority of the girls today have or had past lovers but because of family pressure or other didn't marry him. When they marry they settle for some nice guy for the resources but their heart is still with their ex and since they are self-sufficient they don't respect the husband and do affairs with their ex or someone they cannot have like a very good looking or rich man. Character is everything while selecting a wife all other things are pretty much useless without character.
*right on the point. In our relatives happend with 4 good guys ,their wives hardly stayed for few months and now demanding for Alimony*
@@snehalt.channel992Thats why girl’s past is important.
Very much agree
@@rohans7194 boys also have past....boys have multiple affairs......play boy
@@happyplease4093 But if the guy cheats in a marriage and it leads to divorce, the girl doesnt have to pay alimony(the guy has to pay alimony) etc whereas if the woman cheats then still the man has to give alimony etc after divorce.
i agree with you sir, my brain agrees but you aren't looking at all aspects of practicality here. Ye apka zamana nahi hai. Yahan 14 saal ke bache sex krke baithe hain and there's barely any decent boys or girl left. Urban areas mein toh bhul jao even in villages people are Netflix soft porn addicts. I'm from Chandigarh for eg and people make fun of me for my thoughts. How come they judge me ki agar mai chd ae hun toh party karta hounga ya ladkiyan ghumai hingi? Ye sab toh ye bahar se aye log karte hain. Finding a decent old fashioned partner It's purely tukka these daysI can't trust my life on a chance and luck . I've seen to what extent girls lie these days. Why would i trust my life with any of them? Chandigarn toh ekdum gutter ban chuka hai imo. All these 16-25 yr olds heck even 15 yr olds school people are sexually active these days, Netflix softporn addicts(ofc people never blame it for some reason as if tv and the content you consume as so called entertainment has nobeffect on your character) How come a guy would accept any of this to be normal? Sure do whatever you want I won't judge but when it comes to partner selection like hell I'm gonna judge you.
I'm 27 now and I'm so afraid to even talk to girls. This was never the case in college. These days idk man the world has gotten so weird and overly sexualised. The way people talk, the way they dress, their aspirations are simply not my taste. Im sure ill never find my mate and I'm kinda giving up on finding the perfect unicorn virgin as the cliche goes. Which again for some reason how come it's unreasonable for guys now to even expect a virgin? I know all the arguments I'm gonna get and intellectually I may agree even, but it's simply not right I feel. This whole "letting go" Of sexual past of your partner is childish and reckless which may affect ones marriage in future. Girls are too cunning these days. But no, people call desiring a virgin childish.
Totally agree with you bro
@@AnkitKumar-kk3iw haina?
@@chappanagent mujhe to darr bhi lgta bhai kbhi kbhi.... ki virgin wife mil bhi payegi ya nhi 😥
Maine to soch liya hai, km padhi likhi, km umar ki ladki se shadi krunga, jiska father tightly rakha ho usko
Warna virgin milna luck hi hoga
Yes you're right 😊
@@vivek8580 Usne slave ki baat bhi nahi kri bhai.....& yes, why would he marry a h*e ?
😂 Shadi is Gambling 50 50 chance either hell or get burdened
Sorry I'm not giving up on my career for kids and husband 😏
Koi childfree dhang ka mila to mila warna hme s*x ki chul nhi hoti, bhad me jaye sab, unhealthy marriage se accha mai peaceful life bitau
Mujhe apse shadi karni hai mera bhi appke jaise hi soch hai
Hum aur app sath me rahenge
Aur successfull kam karenge sath me achhe se life jiyenge koi appko meri family ke taraf se pressure nhi hogi
Hello listen to my brother
@@sonujain2348 karna padega, abhi har jaogi to jindagi bhar pachtaogi isiliye tumhe jo thik lage karo aur apni freedom ke liye aakhri saans tak bhi ladna pade to lado
After reading your comment I wish no guy will ever have to marry someone like you. 🙂
@@fatmanfrommillennium7369 men are too scary to marry 💀
Jin ladkon ko sachmein aisa lagta hai ki hamein to ek free ki kaamwali pakad ke lani hai, unhein to sahi mein koi nhi milni chahiye, better ki wo single hi rahein, kyunki shadi karli to faltu ki expectations rakheinge.
Main bhi ladka hun, pr if there is actually a population like this, and that population feels against marriage due to lack of such kaamwalis in the market, then they better remain single, even better that they think this is the right decision now.
Right I know my cousin who's getting married with this approach he earns 30k per month with home tuitions and he gets so pissed off when girls argue with him let's see how the marriage turns out for them moreon financially independent girls are not willing to take shit from men
@@vanshikakaushik6497 exactly
Free me kaum aata hai yaar,
Agar, food ,medical, insurance ,vehicle, electricity bill , child ki care , home , clothes jewellery etc lena hota To kaam karna hi pata,
Vo kaam husband karta hai ,
Badle me house hold kaam karna padta hai
To free me to koi nahi karta ghar ka kaam,
Ye galafwhmi dimag se nikal do
Shadi hi nai bacche bhi nai karne ...look at thecost of schools just don't want to deprive our kids if we can't afford good education for them , don't bring them ...with the current inflation it's impossible
😂 don't take serious guys. Listen osho and chill.
My life is going great & I don't feel that getting married is going to improve or add on anything positive in my life. Also, getting married in today's era depends on luck. Women have become great, I agree, but they have also become very good at hiding their true faces. My instincts are getting better these days & I have an instinct that my life will be destroyed if I get married. But my parents are still living in an era where women were good, feminine, loyal, caring, respected others etc. All I see in today's women are they look for multiple sex relationships before getting married & later when they get married to a decent guy, then file a fake 498a case against him so that she can continue to enjoy her "sexual liberty". It's only when she reaches 30 & her beauty starts to fade away, she starts thinking about stable married life.
👍
Ispar video bnna chahiye
इन भाई साहब का धंदा शादी होगी तो ज्यादा चलेगा
अगर दिमाग हो तो शादी मत करना guys
जमाना बदल गया है
आप को कुछ पता नहीं है आप सिर्फ शादी करने मे जोर दे रहे हो. शादी optional होता है जरुरी नहीं. आप की बातो से पता चलता है की आप ने अपने पिंजरे मे कैद हो. दुनिया के बारे मे ज्यादा पता नहीं🙏🙏🙏
Bhai jab shadi karke fas jao ge case me iss uncle ko call karke bulao dekhenge kitna help karta hai. Jitna idhar youtube pe bakwas kar raha hai jara isko bolo deepika narayan bharadwaj se bhi baat kar lijiye inko reality pata hoke ye bakwas video banake sirf views lane ke liye.
Shadi ek lailaz bimari hai, me bhugat chuka hu, divorce hone wala hai, jindagi jhad kardi hai, bros plz shadi karne se accha hai Sher ke pinjre me chale jao, kuch der baad to shanti mil hi jayegi. Om Shanti.
Sir apki Saadi ko kitna time hua hai
SHAADI TO MUJHE BHI NAHI KARNI....43 SAAL KA HOGAYA HU...AB TO AKELA REHENE KI AADAT SI HOGAI HAI ....AUR AKELA HI KHOOSH HOON
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Bhai,aap saadi kyu nahi karna chahte?reply plz .
43 year ke ho chuke ho ab koi itna jaruri nahi shadi tension free freedom se raho
I am old enough and very happy being single. I am unmarried by choice and do not prefer having kids. I am successful and have other priorities in life. I personally know many people in India and abroad who are single and established in life, they all are in late 60s or 70s and are very happy. Regarding this video: I have seen this trend of intruding into other people’s personal lives in India only. Someone wants to marry or doesn’t want to marry is his/her personal choice and society should respect that. Anybody else’s comment on it is absolutely uncalled for.
If someone married you, your child will be ugly.. it is better to stay away.
Well said
Well said😊
I am 31 years old but I am facing pressure at home and relatives to get married it's like pressure
But I am happy being unmarried and single also I am a working girl
Getting married and having kids is a personal choice and marriage is not everything for a girl
They can work on themselves, focus on studies, hobbies and work on themselves and focus on career and work
Him : Main qualified hu , achhe se smjhauga
Also him : behudi bat mat kro , badme roke tinda khaoge .
Every average uncle in the neighbourhood
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sir sometimes you just don’t find the right person. Many a times the person you were invested for the purpose of marrying with Break off the relationship. Life is unpredictable. And one cannot simply move on being logical and calculative at all times. Yes however, if one finds a good partner at the right age then by all means do not delay it. But life isn’t a straight road. And getting married just for the heck of it without Basic values being aligned, and a firm and through background check in case of arranged alliances isn’t fruitful at all. Baad mein jo hoga Woh to apple definitely akele jhelna hai. But be late then sorry.
I agree
@@ashitmukherjee5934 then why ready to entertain with your life. If you married someone,then it's 60years togetherness more or less. Then why for this so much hustle bustle
Exactly 💯 💯
@Raspberry I agree!
Sometimes he seems very robotic & ignorant of human emotionalities. Life is not just black or white, Sir.
I agree with you. And the pain it brings of putting dedicated effort into a relationship so that it turns a long term innings of marriage can sometimes break a camels back.
I also agree with Sir's point of cribbing nature of men.
It can come in any form. I don't understand high earning men mentality. They want a trophy partner plus accomplished and should have the potential to be at the beck and call of the partner every single need. Forget parents they themselves are so emotionally demanding.
Take away beauty from women and money from men. And you'll realize that most of the humans have nothing to offer to each other. The great marriages happened at that age where "compromise" was a common thing. Good times, less salaries, and surrender towards each other. Thus, the success rate is 100%. Today, "compromise and sacrifice" is something that Youth see as a burden. Thus, unwillingness to marry. Uncle ji main topics par toh kabhi baat karte nhi.. jaise IT Job better hai ya government job. Basss, so-called practical gyan lelo inse.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Everyone is not suitable to get married. When people have unresolved psychological issues of their own, they project it on their spouse and children. Bringing a life into this world just for the sake of it and saddling him/her with your emotional neglect is not ok. Brining a new life into existence without understanding life's true nature, importance and purpose is a pure ignorant and selfish act.
Bacche paida krke kon sa sukh mil rha hai bhai. Dekha hai ajkl ke maa baap ko koi baccha nai aata support krne agle 50 salo me kya haal hoga.
Wife daily husband me kuch na kami nikale gi.= Torture..
मेरी उम्र 35.साल हो गई है
में शादी नहीं करना चाहता
में भी नही, भाड़ में जाए बीवी बच्चे और भाड़ में गया मेरा बुढ़ापा, जो होगा देखा जायेगा
Tum dono kunwara, aur anath hi raho😂😂
@@AdityaBiswas-yz3cc 🤣teri kyu jal rahi hai
@@Rbn_1903 mera nhi jal rha hai lekin tum sab ko anath hone ka dukh jarur hoga😂
@@AdityaBiswas-yz3cc lagta hai tujhe samaaj ka gulaam banne ka bada shauk hai🤣 aur ek baat sun tu kisiko janam deta hai toh maut bhi tu hee de rah hai!
Shaadi kyu karni hai sir iska reason to dijiye. ? Shaadi k Bina bhi Insan khush hai. Sir itna hyper competitive world hai ,career hi itna stressful hai. Usme shaadi aur bache kyu add kare.
First you give reasons why not?
Abhi toh ruko beta Artificial Intelligence ki laat parne wali hai🤣
Most people are unhappy in their marriage. So what's the point of marriage????
What about the students life 🐀rat race in terms of career like every parents want their child to become doctor/engineer/chartered accountant, high paying job etc. ?
I don't want my next generation to face such disaster. I want to be enlightened like Swami Vivekananda and never take birth in this earth🌎 again?
Proud to see such comment here 👍🤝💪
From a woman's point of view....
Initial days into marriage for a woman are just horrible.....
It's like ragging.....
It's a different story maybe if it's just मिया- बिवी staying together but with all the adjustments in a new home with the foreign bodies like सास, ससुर, जेठ, जेठानी n all it's horrifying time for the new bride in India......So first the mindset of the boy and his people has to change drastically......then only girls might get ready for marriage...
Else it's wasting a precious life ........
@Jayashree Sathe foreign bodies 😂😂😂. You are correct, Yes mindset of boy and his parents has to change .
True
@@SBH3356 Agree....
But still the interference continues....and the in laws make sure that the life of the newly weds becomes a hell....
Hence I feel that the mindset of the boy and his people has to change....
You are absolutely right...i married in my twenties..and after two years of continuous mental torture I decided to leave that house ..now I am so much afraid to do it again as the mindset of in laws and other relatives are same...jese ek bachari aayegi ..dahej bhi layegi aur sewa bhi karegi ...aur apne bare me kuch bhi nhi sochegi...what a ridiculous thinking...seriously..are girl made for sewa???
@@Samikshakomal Areee ye pagal admi na bakvas krna janta hai
Actually ham logo ko jab shadi krni hai tab krnge aur sabki apni apni kismat hoti hai
Jab iswar ne likhi hogi tab hogi jisse honi hogi tab hogi
Unko bas bakvas krne ki adat hai
Saaaari galti aaadmi ki hain........saari losse talks aadmi hi krte hain..daaaru bh sirf aur sirf ladke hi pite hain...uncle ji ..aaadmi ki bh life pe farak padh taaa h shaaadi k 1 - 10 saal my......i request males..don't listen to him ...apne hi ghar my dekhlo...sab ...gharo mey bohot kalesh females k kaaran bh hota h!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!you got my dislike!
Tum purane genration kabhi match nahi sirf family family karte rehte ho.....
जब लड़कियों की सरकारी जॉब वाला ही लड़का चाहिए तो क्या ही कर सकते है।
Sirji, aapko takleef kyon ho Rahi hai? Population Kam hoga to environment ke liye accha hi hoga.
With due respect Sir, marriage is a commitment that not everyone is able to handle. Same with having children. Many people will still marry and even give birth to children, let's not object those who want to live without marriage or children. Also, I'd appreciate married couples being able decide whether they even want children or not, without others' judgement.
[P.S. I certainly appreciate your explanation of the demography of sex ratio and its effect on finding a marriage partner]
Its totally personal choice..... Those who can live alone and don't want to marry its fine
Right .
But nobody 😢 think like this
Hum apna ghr chod k ate h sb chod k..shadi krne k bad hmare sath gnda behave kia jata h..pura din ghr ka kam krna bche smbhalne or saas chay ki ptti tak dene se mna kr deti h kyuki ghr ki malkin saas ko bna rkha h pti or sasur ne..to hume ek ek chij k lie bheekh mangni pde.. job kre to possible nhi ho pata becoz ghr ka bcho ka sara kam b hmare upr h..fir hme pse pse se mohtaj kia jata h..bhai logo sare sun lo..in uncle ne apni advic di thi its ok.but shadi love marrige ho ya arrange ..koi mt karna.isse to acha single rho khud k lie kmao..or shanti se jio..bahr desho me log hmse better h jo shadi ni krte.but india me to bchpn se hi shadi bche shadi bche dimag me thus thus ke bhra jata h
shadi is a torture..i m 32 years old.nd apne expernce se bol ri ho.dont marry pls.
Mar jao but kbhi sahN n krna chahiye kuch I m also divorced but galat sahna nahi
Issi Darr ki Wajah se Shaadi nahi Kar rahi hoon❤
❤ sorry
Apko Kab aur kis age mee shadi hua hai....pls batayiye....
Ye dekh ke tu kisi ke bhi sar me dard ho jaye.Jiwan har kisi ka sirf shaadi, bache ke liye nahi hota agar hota tu ratan tata, anna hazare, lata mageshkar, A.P.J abdul kalam jaise log duniya me nahi hote.Earlier i liked your thoughts but not anymore after this video.
Sir, the way you get smile on your face with confidence when you say, I am the no. 1 clarity giver in the India is LAJAWAB.
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
muh miya mitthu he ye uncle..😂
Single rehna achhi baat hai no stress no nuisance etc but when it comes to travel,outing,movies,eating out,attending grand events etc ni family, friends or relatives come to hang out n theres pure loneliness so many people change their mind and get married in late 40s so they can have a good company
My lead is single. He is roaming in world tour with his single friends.
Sir ,Agar shaadi timely na karwane me maata pita hi na chhaye to? Hai aise bahut maata pita jo 40 Tak bachho ki shaadi nahi karne dete aur agar khhud se kar lo bawaal, marte dam Tak muh nahi dekhte. Samajhte hi nahi aise maata pita ki unke bachhe 42 /45 ki umar me apne chhote chhote bachho ko kaise sambhalte honge. Sir it's a true of story of someone. Not everyone is against marriage, sometimes parents are responsible.
apka aisa situation hai kya?
Mata pita ko chodo.....aur khud se shadi kr lo........bawal hota to hone do
Apni life ki command apne haath me lo
Bahut sahi baat kahi aapne... Agar mata-pita ya bhai behen ko lag jaye ye beti/beta or bhai/behen responsible hai, ghar ki sari jimmedari uthata hai, finance to everything, thn un logo ki shadi karwane ke liye koi ichchuk nahi hota hai...
As a homosexual I am blessed that I don't have to indulge in all this mess!
Inke alag hi chutyape he 🤣🤣
Oh yeah...😂
But all families don't tolerate the 'homosexual' behaviour in our society...😑
I am also homosexual but my perents and relatives forced me to getting marriage.
I am depressed.
Bhaiya aap log home me se..x karte ho Isle homose..ual ho
Yuck 😝🤢
किसी ने बिल्कुल सही कहा है- शादी एक ऐसा लड्डू है, जिसे नहीं मिले वो ललचाये, और जो खाये वो पछताये। हर शादीशुदा व्यक्ति के अपने अलग अनुभव हैं। उसको जनरलाइज करना मुश्किल है। जो शादी के बन्धन में लम्बे समय से है, उनमें झेलते झेलते इतनी सहनशीलता आ जाती है कि शादी की वकालत करना शुरू कर देते हैं।
पहले एक कारण - बुढ़ापे की चिंता से लोग शादी किया करते, लेकिन अब सामाजिक व्यवस्था ही ऐसी हो गयी है बच्चे अपने बूढ़े माँ बाप कितना ख्याल रख पाते हैं?
मनुष्य जितना अपने मन के सहारे जीयेगा, शादी के बंधन टूटेंगे। समय के साथ हमारा भी बिल्कुल west वाला हाल होना तय है।
Very practical video sir. But one question. I have been married for an year now and my husband is abusive. He is violent with me and recently he actually slapped me multiple times and was physically abuvie with me. Should a women tolerate this also or move out of such marriage.
Pls stand up for yourself
It is easier said than done. My parents are like if this happens again and again than it is a problem otherwise the guy might have been in some othe zone. He was pissed, you might have taunted him. He might have gone berserk so it happened. No support from them.
@@jattmoosewala83yes.
@prachi Tell your husband to get a girlfriend and leave. It will solve problems from both side. The husband and you both will be happy.
When he is in good mood, in a respectful, loving at the same time firm manner, tell him this is not okay. If we want this relationship to be successful, he must refrain from such behaviour. When u do this, convey it in a manner that you are not demanding (although i accept you have all reasons to be upset), at the same time be clear about the fact that this behaviour hurts and upsets you a lot.
I am in no way supporting any violence towards one's spouse, but it is a fact that some men are programmed in manner that it is okay to raise hand on their wife.
Now what we can do here is, if we see a scope of him learning that it is NOT OKAY AT ALL, and he is willing to improve, then one can have patience and help him come out of his attitude.
But if we see a person is abusive inherently and is never going to change his ways, there is no point suffering in such a relationship.
I wants to marry but i will not marry because of my family. My decision is totally depens on my family talks on me.