Fortunately I didn't go too far down that rabbit hole. I just used it as a crutch sometimes when I wanted to take a break from dating. Now I feel much better without it and I have more natural urges that motivate me to go get the real thing.
I completely fell into this trap. Haven't been on a date in 8 years. Every woman i meet is unappealing and that make me have 0 interest in actually getting to know them. I have long reached a point where dating is not even possible, even tho that is the only thing i want in life. Quite the conundrum. But it is so goddamn true, constantly in a cycle of lies in my head all because i keep choosing the easy route. Great video my guy! Thanks.
corn is equivalent to dating sites and social media for women. both end up with distorted reality. the only difference is that corn is viewed as a bad thing by many women, and dating /social media is not.
I remember being 15-17yo in high school getting invited by girls to go to partys, whether they're birthdays or just weekend chilling, i rejected them all with excuses i can't go, it's too far, or i need to study etc. but honestly i was just beating my meat every day and not feeling any desire to go out and meet people, i rather played videogames and fap, that kind of lifestyle cost me social intelligence and not being able to get a relationship despite being good looking...
Appreciate you sharing your story, man. It can have severe impacts and I think a lot of people would be able to relate to your story. How are you doing these days?
@@itsdannyvera well, it's not good, really, when i say i'm socially awkward i mean it literally ret@rded, can't read body language, don't know how to act in public, and everything i do is cringe and is very noticeable... It's so disturbing when i get good experience in a new workplace for example based solely on halo effect from my looks, but after some time, it becomes really bad...
There is always hope mate. Personally, what worked best for me is to start therapy. That helped me identify why it became an addiction and then it all came up from deep insecurities and deep shame. Please keep up us updated !
Thank you for your experience and i like that you dont outright tell what u should do but give us the bad effects and allowing us to learn the lesson and it is very important especially for people ny age to learn this because it will destroy lives especially forbus guys and thank u because i am also in the same shoes as well j alsready admitted to my parents and now i need strength to remove my desire i know in doesnt go away easily but i want to change myself for the better for my family and for my future so continue your channel wether or not its small because there are people who might need this advice as well as me to improve ourselves thank u
Appreciate it brother 🙏 Stay strong and you'll eventually gain a ton of control over it and be better for it. Keep in mind that the more you starve the temptation, the more it loses its power over time. This link and subreddit may also be useful for you: www.reddit.com/r/pornfree/comments/2mfxyi/concrete_tips_for_staying_away_from_porn/
What do you, guys, think about watching it time to time with a girlfriend together? Is it harmful in terms of our relationship ? Does it lead to bad consequences as well?
That's a more complex issue that would take knowing both of you to really give an accurate answer. It can potentially open up Pandora's Box to issues if someone gets offended or starts watching a lot outside of time together etc, so you have to consider if you want to go that route. It's tough to answer with just a TH-cam comment, but some can manage it if they truly don't care about it other than using it as a tool occasionally
Fortunately I didn't go too far down that rabbit hole. I just used it as a crutch sometimes when I wanted to take a break from dating. Now I feel much better without it and I have more natural urges that motivate me to go get the real thing.
I completely fell into this trap. Haven't been on a date in 8 years. Every woman i meet is unappealing and that make me have 0 interest in actually getting to know them. I have long reached a point where dating is not even possible, even tho that is the only thing i want in life. Quite the conundrum. But it is so goddamn true, constantly in a cycle of lies in my head all because i keep choosing the easy route. Great video my guy! Thanks.
corn is equivalent to dating sites and social media for women.
both end up with distorted reality. the only difference is that corn is viewed as a bad thing by many women, and dating /social media is not.
I remember being 15-17yo in high school getting invited by girls to go to partys, whether they're birthdays or just weekend chilling, i rejected them all with excuses i can't go, it's too far, or i need to study etc. but honestly i was just beating my meat every day and not feeling any desire to go out and meet people, i rather played videogames and fap, that kind of lifestyle cost me social intelligence and not being able to get a relationship despite being good looking...
Appreciate you sharing your story, man. It can have severe impacts and I think a lot of people would be able to relate to your story. How are you doing these days?
@@itsdannyvera well, it's not good, really, when i say i'm socially awkward i mean it literally ret@rded, can't read body language, don't know how to act in public, and everything i do is cringe and is very noticeable...
It's so disturbing when i get good experience in a new workplace for example based solely on halo effect from my looks, but after some time, it becomes really bad...
Hahaha I was beating my meat to...😂😂that's why I never went out with them as well..
i never got invited to parties. didn't want to go anyway
Just found your channel. Starting from the beginning now
I have struggled with this stupid addiction for 16 years and now I feel like there’s no hope.
There is always hope mate. Personally, what worked best for me is to start therapy. That helped me identify why it became an addiction and then it all came up from deep insecurities and deep shame. Please keep up us updated !
8:10 😂😂.im laughing cause i have finally overcome the porn addiction. and you can too!
Yah P#rn All the Way 🙌
Thank you for your experience and i like that you dont outright tell what u should do but give us the bad effects and allowing us to learn the lesson and it is very important especially for people ny age to learn this because it will destroy lives especially forbus guys and thank u because i am also in the same shoes as well j alsready admitted to my parents and now i need strength to remove my desire i know in doesnt go away easily but i want to change myself for the better for my family and for my future so continue your channel wether or not its small because there are people who might need this advice as well as me to improve ourselves thank u
Appreciate it brother 🙏 Stay strong and you'll eventually gain a ton of control over it and be better for it. Keep in mind that the more you starve the temptation, the more it loses its power over time. This link and subreddit may also be useful for you: www.reddit.com/r/pornfree/comments/2mfxyi/concrete_tips_for_staying_away_from_porn/
100 on point!
It’s a free narcotic drug
# for the algo
What do you, guys, think about watching it time to time with a girlfriend together? Is it harmful in terms of our relationship ? Does it lead to bad consequences as well?
That's a more complex issue that would take knowing both of you to really give an accurate answer. It can potentially open up Pandora's Box to issues if someone gets offended or starts watching a lot outside of time together etc, so you have to consider if you want to go that route. It's tough to answer with just a TH-cam comment, but some can manage it if they truly don't care about it other than using it as a tool occasionally
why?
What if you don't want a, woman? A Quick rub out reminds me why I'm ok on my own.
there’s many other reasons why pron cosumption is bad for you
this not only applies to women but any social situation in general. porn makes you extremely socially awkward.