Why Dowry Trend is Increasing Among Rich Indians? Dowry in India | UPSC Mains
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- New StudyIQ Channel - / @upsccsestudyiq | Subscribe Now for Exclusive Videos and Amazing Content. In this video, delve into the perplexing rise of dowry practices among affluent sections of Indian society. Analyze the underlying factors contributing to this trend, its societal impacts, and its implications for gender equality and social dynamics, all in the context of UPSC Mains preparation.
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Sir aisa sirf isliye h kyunki females ko equal right to father's property nhi milta h. Isliye isko dowry k jariye thoda bhut compensate kiya jata h. Girls ko na equal education milti h, na proper balanced diet. Isliye sirf jo marriage k time money milta h wahi ladki ka hota h baki usko jb ghar jati h tb kuch de diya jata h.
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The irony is all the Civil Service aspirants do write essays against dowry systems in the mains exam and after cracking the exam they are the one who demands for heavy dowry😂😂
Exactly. 😂😂😂😂😂
UP Bihar mein toh fixed price hai. 13 crore lete hain.
@@Hamarimayi13 crore jada ho gaya bhai😅
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@@fire9707 Ha ye thoda jyada ho gaya.. 13 crore 😂 Lekin 2-3 crore Group A ke liye normal hai. UP-Bihar me.
North india dowry system,,,, bohut jyada hote hai.....
Dowry should be taxable. Rich people give dowry as a gift to save taxes and middle-class people give it to show their richness.
you got the matrix right
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Mai bhi bachpan se DOWRY/DAHEJ ke khilaf tha,
pr jabse ladki walo ki shaadi ke time PAISO KI BESHARAM BHOOKH dekhi main bhi DOWRY ke support mein aa gya hun aur ise Men's ka Basic right maanne laga hun theek waise hi jaise Ladki aur uske gharwale GOVT JOB/15-25 Lac kamane wale/Metro city mein apna khud ka ghar wale ladko / ALIMONY ke liye Laar tapkate firte hai .
All gals always marry men much higher status to them, bas ladke hi pagal hai jo hmesha apne se neeche status ki gal ko bhi easily accept kr lete hai.
Men needs to now learn from them and Give all these gold diggers the real EQUALITY they begs for all the time.
Admi ladkiyon ke lifetime free ATM nahi hai!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@oshomrityunjay8nahi karna padega
@@vickyAlwaysI totally Agree With YOU 🙏
1 ips officer frm Andhra Pradesh married a fellow girl in aryasamaj while he was preparing for it and they both started living together in a room. she got a railway job n helping him in upsc preparation fr 2 yrs after clearing the exam he packed his lauggage n left to d home by saying I'll come n talk to the parents ...
but he fixed the marriage with another upper class girl and took dowry 3 crore and 5 acres of land
Wife went to police but they refused to do justice...
her husband warned her n her family, I have support frm entire police department so don't make issues
It was big news fr few days later everyone said Aryasamaj mrg is not valid..he kicked her out of his life , who supported him in hard time
Soo sad 😢 she should get the justice she deserves
That's the reason you should never support a struggling man darling
There's absolutely no guarantee that he will succeed or he will stay faithful to you after his status increases
Never fall for this trap "may be I am struggling now but I'll treat you like a queen if you stay with me in hard times"
NEVER I repeat NEVER risk your life for a struggling man
Most of the time they come out to be HYPOCRITE
@@random_person_on_internetwoman r way to naive to support these kind of man. maybe too many bollywood😂
@@pennyc8252 yeah right
Too much manipulation goes on in movies and fairytale stories
When life is exactly the opposite
Proud to be from Uttarakhand, I cant say about some cities in Uttarakhand but, In hilly areas there almost no dowry asking, whether rich or poor , parents from bride side can give furniture as per their chice if they want, 20+ yrs, still seen no one to demand for dowry neither asked, but In Haryana ,RJ & Bihar, and rich class, Dowey is so high
same i am also from uttarakhand, they just give some clothes to family and gold jewellery to their daughter, nath by mama ji
These days marriages are become so scary..I can relate to most of the points from video..I'm in a govt job under the Rajasthan Govt..my parents are also searching groom for me but the mindset of people are so shoking specially If I talk about our Marwari community where people still want the homely girl..if educated then also good..but they are not favour in the job things.People asked my parents if I can leave my job or if I want to work I can join their family business.I belong to a middle class family not only this job is my dream come true but also it was essential for me. Talking about the criteria it's actually a problem..We are searching a groom within the Rajasthan due to my job..also from the same cast..so it's become so challenging..my only wish is to be working..I really don't mind if the guy is unemployed or less educated all I want with whom I can live my life peacefully but seriously I think this is too much that I ask..my friends who are CA's and got married they are also facing issues.. the double responsibilities..TBH that's why be it a girl or boy we are really not interested to get marry..sabko ek hi life mili hai or usme bhi bas dusro ki sunte raho or apne Mann ko marte raho aise kyon or kab tak..?
Be brave and modern. Think out of caste- proportion of suitable bachelors will shoot up 10 times for you. Atb.
Go to matrimonial and ignore caste. You will get greter and better matches
It's very common in this country to look for a bride or groom within the same caste or community...but if you can convince your parents to look for someone from other states whether eastern or north eastern states not giving too much importance to their caste .. there's a possibility that you might find someone much better..
These lower castes try to bait upper caste women for marrying intercaste just like love jihadis do. Shame on these desperate mørøns. Nahin karni tumse shaadi, samajh nahin aata kya
@@sarthak6556✅
my friend's sister got married recently, they are quite rich as a family also the girl earns well too, but his sister insisted on giving dowry just for her own Pride, so the reality is rich girl families are more willing to give dowry even if the boy families say no. They think it is a matter of Pride to give a lot of money with their daughter. So the reality is quite different
Which state and city are you living in to talk like that?
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She should be educated...only for sending garbage we pay money...not a precious gem
I agree one of my friends sister asked a flat for herself with her Ex MLA father
I am blessed because I born in Buddhists society. There is no such curse of dowry.
Marriage in Buddhism?
Every religion has its own issue even christan and Buddhist. Plus the Buddhist grrom has to pay dawry which is no better making it a feminist society which is as doom as toxic male society
I am a Hindu but my family is against dowry.
I m also from Buddhist society but here we take dowry
Stop generalising Buddhist society
Stop nonsense
My father himself gave dowry of 20 lakh in my sister's wedding. I begged him to marry my sister to someone who's status is similar to us. But he paid no attention to my advice, he thinks it is important to show off in the society. Sick mentality and ego. Now's we are in debt of 5 lakh.
Atleast you study or learn any skill hard and becoming high earning girl, that is the only way to get rid off.
@@erabhinandan5935 Yes..
Not the case with every one
Yeah and in India families , they will put this debt usually on their son & he will start paying the debt and will end up making his life a torcher for him 😢 while his sister lives a great life, she won't even take care of their parents! Poor sons..
@@BlueBerry-bc7yp aisha kuch ni hota sapne se niklo, baap ki property tmhare poor bete hi hadapte h aur phir maa baap ko puchte tk ni
अभी मेरी एज 27 की है और अब पता चला मुझे की लड़की के पेरेंट्स भी दहेज देने के लिए मरे जा रहे है, महिलाओं में एकता जैसी चीज पाई ही नहीं जाती । वो चाहे तो 1 साल में दहेज सिस्टम ही खतम कर दे ,लेकिन उन्हें भी धनी फैमिली के लड़के कब्जाने है।
Mai bhi bachpan se DOWRY/DAHEJ ke khilaf tha,
pr jabse har jagah ladkiyon and unke gharwalo ki shaadi ke time PAISO KI BESHARAM BHOOKH dekhi main bhi DOWRY ke support mein aa gya hun aur ise Men's ka Basic right maanne laga hun theek waise hi jaise Ladki aur uske gharwale GOVT JOB/15-25 Lac kamane wale/Metro city mein apna khud ka ghar wale ladko / ALIMONY ke liye Laar tapkate firte hai .
All gals always marry men much higher status to them, bas ladke hi pagal hai jo hmesha apne se neeche status ki gal ko bhi easily accept kr lete hai.
its high time Men needs to now learn from them and Give all these gold diggers the real EQUALITY they begs for all the time.
Admi ladkiyon ke lifetime free ATM nahi hai!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
आजकल शादी करना गुनाह जैसा हो गया है, मुझे तो सिंगल रहने में ही भलाई लगती है 🙏✅
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In interview candidate: Dowry is social Evil
Rank holder: 5 crore chahye
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Inke khilaff koi karvyi nahi hoti
Simple policy: dowry lo, invest kardo stock market main.Agar divorce hota hai, stock bech k alimony dedo nahi toh budhapa dono sath main ache se guzaro😊😊😊😊😊
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Stock investment karne ke liye bhi financial knowledge hona chahiye
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Aur divorce nahi hua to. Bhikh me husband Dowry rakh le.
Everything is fair in this today's world..... Dowry no dowry.... Everything is give and take or take and give....
If dowry is punishable then interim maintenance is also immoral and should be void.
India has more cases of dowry than interim maintainance
@@kushaltiwari3668 lol it's obvious cause India have the lowest Divorce rate of the world.
@@sahilbhardwaz4852 exactly so other is bigger issue. Because your mother gave dowry but did not took alimony
You are correct. Interim maintenance also must be removed as it is biased and one-sided
Searching for sarkari damad to.
New UCC should cover dowry, marriage expenses..not just on marriage day, should cover all days on which grooms family with more than 10 guests..100 days before marriage and 100 days after marriage. Limit on gold and jewels given on mkt value basis as this will also reduce our import of gold.
No dowry affidavit + prenuptial agreement = protection for both sides of the marriage.
Bhai kuch log dowry nhi lete but kal ko ladki khrab nikle means external relationship mein aa jaye kissi ke saath toh iss chiz ka misuse krti hay pehle nhi li thi dowary abb mang rahe
@@KamalKumar-m1hlol 😆 😂 true 😢
@@KamalKumar-m1h - If you want to get married then the man will have to risk some legal trouble. The affidavit is supposed to protect you.
Prenuptial agreements are not valid in India
@@ghanshyam1990prenuptial agreements are not valid under hindu marriage act
I expect a video on equal rights of girls on parents property
In Arunachal Pradesh...
No dowry system ❌.. ❤ priority in love marriage💍.... 👫.
Because of Buddhism❤
@@littlebirdiee12345bakwas. 11 percent hi buddhist hai
@@WarWarWar4049 I'm secular person
@@WarWarWar4049 😂😂😂😂
@@littlebirdiee12345 naah
I am not supporter of dowry , but if taking dowry from girl is wrong then keeping unrealistic expectations from boys is also equally wrong.
Unrealistic expectations like a boy should have higher package,house,large farms,cars,rich boy with no parents,etc and never ending list.
I request you sir to please show other side as well.
Marry in the same standard. Simple
Everything is so perfect. Very informative and simplified and well researched.
If the dowry is tight, then the material is not right.
- Master Oogway The Turtle
because everybody wants to marry RICH INDIANS, thats why...supply demand ka khel hai bhaiya
Rich ppl marry other rich ppl. It's obvious
Educated, youth should opt for love marriages and end dowry.For young brides..dont marry mama s cradle boy in the name of tradition if he does not stand upto you..
What's about alimony
@@User_12s-18
In US before marriage both declare their savings, in case if separation on date of separation it is again taken.Any gain( current minus closing bal at time of mariage) in both accounts may be debt or income.Shared equally between two. Inheritence rights ends for inherited value.If inherited property from groom side is sold let s say x, already spent y, then (x-y)/2 is the alimony to be paid by other half during separation. Any kids, based on current type of school..and income group,half the price for remaining education should be paid by other half who does not take care of kids.
Marriage is a legal agreement, commitment anything entered during couples are together are bound by two equally.
If husband meets accident and one leg is lost during couple are together.Because of that for remaining expected life span he will undergo extra expenses, that also should be shared equally by two..since he lost his legs when they were together!!
Make it mandatory during marriage certificate registration declaration of assets and liabilities closing balance, jewels they bring in as gift at time of marriage.Dowry paid..even though illegal as gift to groom, amount spent on marriage by bride family can be a part of this statement.
Everyone is right 😅.
No one can change this system
This is nothing worse is some states panchayat or villagers conduct varginity test for women.
Marriage has become a problem nowadays for men also because the Judiciary favours women.
Sabhi ladko se kah raha hu Sarkar court kanun se koi ummid mat rakho sabhi purush mil kar ek militant group banao aur sarkar court kanun feminism ke viruddh hathiyar utha lo janwaro ke liye kanun hai lekin ladko ke liye nahi war me hum ladke mare tax hum ladke de ghuth ghuth ke Marne se accha hai ladkar hi mare 50 lakh ladke bhi militant group bana liye aur hathiyar utha liye toh Puri system change ho jaayegi
@@User_12s-18bhai ganja jyada piliya kya
@@User_12s-18 calm down
Exactly 💯. Accusing men for sexual crimes has become so easy in today's time.
Hyporcisy at Peak
DOWRY = WRONG
Ameer and Sarkari naukri wala Dulha & ALIMONY= RIGHT !!!!!!!!!!!
Dowry is basic right
आजकल शादी करना गुनाह जैसा हो गया है, मुझे तो सिंगल रहने में ही भलाई लगती है 🙏✅
@@nightflame9895 मुझे तो हंसी नहीं आई, मेंटल हॉस्पिटल में जाकर अपना ईलाज करवा 🙏
@@nightflame9895 tu jaake dahej juta shaadi ke liye
lol dowry is not your basic right.. like are you so poor, you need to sell yourself for money? have some self respect dude
@@meghanarora4136 NO शादी, आप Independent Women बनके अपने बाप के घर में रहो हम अपने पेरेंट्स के साथ रह लेंगे 🙏🙏
To stop dowry system we need to work on divorcé alimony as well….bcoz may be a well earning person refuse for dowry, but no family of girl side will refuse for alimony if possible….. secondly we can work on education of next generation and making their behaviour more toward self dependency than to just building and collecting more assets
Ispein kohi bat nehi kadega simple
@@biologytales5319 hypocrisy ki bhi koi Seema hoti hai..
@@biologytales5319 Continue dowry until alimony is removed...
I have a PRIVATE job of 20 lakh per year package but iam unmarried because girl families demand govt job boy having less than 6 lakh per anum but govt job boy families demand too much dowry we do not demand dowry but still we are unmarried😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
Bhai log pagal h.. aur sahi keh rahe ho aap. Saala private job wala chahe 20 lakh in hand bhi kyu nakama raha ho, nature and family kitni bhi acchi kyu na ho uske liye rishte hi nahi h
@@shivankgarg2311 or bhai or govt me koi station pe chai bech rha uske b bhot riste aate h
Search for someone, who is not materialistic. Then marry her with minimum or negligible dowry.
@@machinegun2965Mai toh love marriage kar lunga apni batchmate se hi .not interested in sarkari naukri I want to become a big bussinessman then big minister 😀.
Lmao😂
it is not possible to remove dowry as in a family if a father gives dowry then he also wants a hefty amount for his son
So it will never end
Dowry & Alimony are social evil, but if anyone is offering then why to say no..😅
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Bruh no-one what's to offer it ... They have to .....
Only if men family is good family or else ...
@@aishwarya2130 Why Ambanis always wear expensive Diamonds? Why Isha Ambani was given heavy diamonds? Bcoz Piramal family is not good?
SHOCKING...I'm so speechless.
Assam me bohot sara tribal communities rehte hain...unhi ke sath rehte rehte hamlog bhi kafi inspired ho chuke hain..hamare yaha dowry system na ke barabar hain...meri ak mama ne to reverse dowry dekar saadi kia tha❤🥰
The most fundamental thing to be done is to define what dowry is?? We might be giving it "to our daughters" as a gift but might not be realising it. Its of utmost importance therefore about what is dowry and its components??
Dowry is linked to female foeticides by lots of researchers. Whoever supports it support that
dowry is giving gifts and money to the guy's family on their demand. Inheritance should be equally divided among children irrespective of gender
What about Alimony??
You are a great elder brother. Respect .
If dowry is immoral and we need to remove it in the name of 'gender equality' then we should also have prenuptial agreement. Gender equality cannot be used only when it's favourable for women
Aggreed
Matlab tumko lagta hai ki divorce rate 100% hai? Ki shaadi ki to divorce hona hi hai.
Agar wife self sufficient hai to ha maintenance nahi hona chahiye mere hisab se
@@66shreerangvilla Bhai jab America jaisa haal hoga tab samjhoge kya
@@SahilSharma-ug7xv bhai me mana nahi kar raha.. bs mera point ye hai ki abhi ke time me Dowery is bigger menace than divorce maintenance as currently divorce rate is 1% while dowery rate is much much much higher
Why is a prenuptial agreement even needed?? If u start a life talking about divorce, I can understand how good that family life would go!!!😅😅😅 I wonder would u say the same to ur sister!!
माना दहेज लेना जुर्म है लेकिन सरकारी नौकरी वाला दामाद ढूढना कहां का न्याय है.......🤧🤧🤧
Or divorce ke baad alimony lene kahaka nyaay hai? 😂😅
Sarkari nakuri waale ko kushi kushi dahej dete hai.😅
Ladkiyan ladko ke liye apni maa baap ko bhi chorke jate ushe bari baat kya hogi ...agar sarkari Naukri karti bhi tho usme ladke ke hi faide naa ki ladki ki
@@Hijjjsjnshsnnshshsshhs sarkari naukri karta hai husband iska matlab ladki ka financial future safe hai ye fayda hai ladki ka thoda dimag laga
Rahi baat ladki kaa ghar baar chodke aaneki toh konsa sasur tereko gharjamyi banake rakhega bata? 😂 baat to sochke kia kar
@@Hijjjsjnshsnnshshsshhsmadam real life mein aisa hay nhi na jo ladki job krti hay woh cahti hay k ghr ussi ke mutabik chle aur fr Contradictions bhi bd jate hay Aur yeh baat bilkul shi hay k 89% ladkiyan apne Sas sasur se hate krti hay aur yeh Contradictions aur bd jati hay.
Aur agar ladka 10000 kma raha hay usmein itna Ego nhi hogi jitna ladki m hota hay
Dowry is in trend because it saves taxes. Any gifts received in marriage is tax free, so people use marriage as money laundering tool and thus dowry is actually prefered by the girl side ofrich family.
Dowry is also maintained to deal with too demanding females or to cover unfaithfulness ,Maurya case is an example
I agree with you ✅
That means every women and there families are like these ........
@@aishwarya2130 who knows about girls past affairs and future also 🤣🤣😭🤨
@@aishwarya2130 YES, शादी मत करना। Independent Women बनके अकेली रहना सीख लो 🙏🙏Okay!
@@biologytales5319woh banda Sarcasm aar raha he😂😂
Dowry is outcome of Demand And Supply of government job grooms
मुझे एक बार बिहार के एक लड़के ने बताया कि उन्होंने कोई दहेज नही लिया लड़की वालों से सिर्फ शादी का खर्चा लिया उसके हिसाब से यह एक बहुत रिवॉल्यूशनरी कदम था, इस देश में सब गलत काम परम्परा के नाम पर होते है, इस देश का कुछ नही हो सकता
Girls be financially independent and make proud ur parents .
Nowadays Dowry is rare among Bengali People.
Daughter has no part in parental property, this is the most important factor for dowry. People think lets give dowry one time, in future daughter has not to do anything with parental property.
Who told you that hindu daughter have right in Parents property
@@preetiraut7700 you won't get anything in inheritance
Laws and reality and two different things
@@nousername1587 nah I have seen daughters getting equal inheritance like there brother. Nd also if husband want their in law's inheritance then he should equally take care of wife's parents nd family Just like wife take care of Husband's parents nd family.
@@preetiraut7700nowadays daughters can get inheritance only if her parents are willing to give her ....otherwise it directly goes to the sons....daughters have no right originally
Those men who willing demand dowry have lost self-respect. Its easy money for men. And some tough decisions will need to be taken to stop it. Actually why not stop marrying the one who demands dowry instead.
दहेज़ अभिशाप नहीं है,
औरत की नासमझी बेवकूफी नाकाबिलियत की क़ीमत है! 🙏✅
Tum jaise ladke ke shadi karne ka nateja hai ,
Uss aurat ki jindagi shayad nark ban jaye
@@aishwarya2130 इसी लिए मेंने शादी नहीं करी ताकि किसी पापा की परी की जिंदगी नर्क ना हो, तुम भी मत करना। Okay!
Dowry illegal
Alimony legal
Alimony is gender neutral
If husband is earning less then he will also receive alimony
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@@Indrajeetsingh_9444 Incel
@@JimmySpace69Abe lolu ledki pehele puchti government job ya private . Salary kitna .bo bhi one type of dowry ho gaya . Bo to paisa se sadi kar rahi he. Usi hisab se ledki se dowry Lana bhi zayez he
@@JimmySpace69Well-said👍🏻
more important issue is girls these days running away from cooking and prefer to give dowry and marry husband who doesn't have cooking preference.
Agar tum office jate ho to tum ghar mai cooking bhi karlonge or office bhi chle jaoge
I'm from uttrakhand.....we never take or give dowry.....that's why uttrakhand have zero female infanticide
@@vaishnavimandloi6259 har ladka ko cooking training deni chaiye in school basic necissty ha
@@dandez3126ghar mai mummy papa se bhi Sikh sakte ho... maine bhi apne gharwalo se hi sikhi h
@@vaishnavimandloi6259 Women bring nothing to the table. She is just a financial burden. However, if the girl is doing a job, her family never gives dowry.
Superbly Explained...
Jaise Dil ki baat zubaan pe aa gayi...
Bahut hi ache tarike se apne sabhi cheejo ko explain kia h . very helpful in GD also
Not dowry but sending one's girl with an unknown guy with it's unknown hidden agenda is a crime. Object is visible but what about subject. No one is eager to discuss on the same...🙏🙏🙏😊
That's boy also getting unknown girl
@@User_12s-18 True. And then the story begins. One is dowry lover and other is alimony...🙏🙏🙏😊
We need to think really hard if we can separate finances from marriage
No girl will ever marry an unemployed Guy. Girl side brought finances to the table. . .
@@abhinavprakash6996 that is why i said ,it takes finances to build a house and raise a family . So a house wife should bring something to contribute . However it should be in the name of the wife .
Equality is when bride equally chose employed and unemployed , also sarkari or private
Why a girl will chose an employed ???
Unemployed can't feed thier family
@@lordgeorgealichanso it is only male duty to fees their family?
@@RaahulKushwaha it's both husband wife responsibility
But Indian society will not accept unemployed guy who only feeds on his wife's or father income
unemployed guy will only get uneducated or defective girl
@@lordgeorgealichan why men has to feed ?? why women are not educated and go to work and earn for family ?? who is stopping them ?
Sure they will, if he cooks, cleans house & toilets and washes clothes & takes care of her parents and his parents.. sure she will.. why not??!!!!
Why alimony now popular by rich family
Because they took dowry simple
@@fire6915 so dowry is justified?
Right
GREAT EXPLANATION !!!
Ladki ka BAAP chahta he uska damad RICH, SUCCESSFUL ho but DOWRY na le😂😂😂😂😂😂garib ladke se apni BETI ki sadi kardo DOWRY nahin lega😂😂😂😂
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So conclusion : independent women means less dowry.......
Ok got it
Mai bhi bachpan se DOWRY/DAHEJ ke khilaf tha,
pr jabse har jagah ladkiyon and unke gharwalo ki shaadi ke time PAISO KI BESHARAM BHOOKH dekhi main bhi DOWRY ke support mein aa gya hun aur ise Men's ka Basic right maanne laga hun theek waise hi jaise Ladki aur uske gharwale GOVT JOB/15-25 Lac kamane wale/Metro city mein apna khud ka ghar wale ladko / ALIMONY ke liye Laar tapkate firte hai .
All gals always marry men much higher status to them, bas ladke hi pagal hai jo hmesha apne se neeche status ki gal ko bhi easily accept kr lete hai.
its high time Men needs to now learn from them and Give all these gold diggers the real EQUALITY they begs for all the time.
Admi ladkiyon ke lifetime free ATM nahi hai!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@thezoldics7648I agree with you
अपने बाप/भाई/पति जितना पैसा कमाना सीख लो तो कुछ दहेज नहीं चाहीए 🙏✅
@@BadGuy-bb1ut usse kuch sahi nhi hoga jab tk ye paise wale ladko ke peeche bhagna bnd nhi krengi tb tk inhe dahej dena hi padega. ek ladki chahe kitna hi kama le pr shaadi ke time fir bhikhmangi bnkr aur bhi jyada ameer ladke ke peeche hi bhaagti hai
@@vickyAlways सब ऐसी नहीं है, अधिकतर कमानेवाली महीला ऐसा नहीं करना चाहती। क्योंकि उसकी Independence छीन जाती है। तू जूठी में मक्कार मूवी देखी है ना?
Parents ko ldki ko dahej k lie pese dene ki vjai uski skill enhance krne or education k lie use krna chahiye..
Arre checha yaha skill or graduate to aaj kal sabhi hote hain. Lekin daily job per jaane ki sirdard kon le ( vese bhi har ladki mnc mein Kam nahi kar sakti) isliye rich ladke se shaadi karte hIn
@@Perry_the_Platypus____1 I am no saying ki ghar sambhalna bura km h...but sirdardi to usme bhi h + us km ko koi value bhi ni krta
@@Perry_the_Platypus____1 corporate me sar dardi t hai, but still financially dependent kisi pr nhi hona chahiye. husband and wife equal position pr nhi rehte agar ladki housewife h to
माता पिता दहेज देने की जगह अपनी लड़की को दहेज के पैसों से पढ़ने के लिए लगाएं ताकि वे अपने पैरों पर खड़े होकर अच्छी नोकरी करें और फिर अपने आप अच्छा पति मिलेगा क्योंकि माता पिता अमीर और अच्छा वर चुनते हैं तो बेटियों को पढ़कर ऐसा कर सकते हैं माता पिता के जाने के बाद लड़की का अपने माता पिता के संपत्ति पर अधिकार हो जाता है पढ़ी लिखी लड़की अपना अधिकार अच्छे से ले सकतीं है
Avoid maintenance
It’s been trending for years in rich family’s .. have see it first hand how it goes down n it’s really shocking how much in-rooted it is
Jinhe Govt job, paise wala son-in law chahiye unse dowery lehi hi chahiye
Funny thing is we have tax exemption on marriage (obviously first marriage of a person)
Sir,what about altarmoney
Alimony
Well i don't remember it clearly but i think that in 2021 or 22 there was an headline that states now there are more girls than boys
Yepp, Acc to NFHS data 2022
There are 1020 girls for every 1000 men..
But many people feel that it's incorrect cz in 2011 census it was 952:1000 and then in 12 years how can it change so drastically 😐
So we have to wait, till the next census for the correct data
Well girls not getting equal share in their parents wealthy
Why can't we think it's a girl's property rights and not a dowry?
If male gets car from his parents it's fine but it came from girl's parents it's dowry.
If they demand it then it's wrong but if they give it on free will how will it count as dowry?
That's the problem, it's extremely hard to differentiate whether it's a gift or a "gift"
Qki iski vjh se kuch log apni daughter in law ko mentally torture krne LG jate h....or...gift or dowry m differentiate krna mushkil h
everything they give a gift should be in their daughters name. And from what i have seen, it's better to not give anything for a year or two and monitor the guy's family and their greed
@@meghanarora4136 become independent and marry the guy of same status
No dowry needed
Dharti pr rhte ho ya kbhi kbhi swarg se utrate h aap
Shi baat h sir ,samaj me dahej san ka baat h ki kis ko kitna mila ,jisko jitna mila wo utna layak h 😢
India me dowry system kbhi khtam nhi ho skta ku ki ladki ko yha property me hissa nhi deya jata hai society ke according isliye dowry system kbhi khram nhi hoga or isme kuch galat nhi hai ha ye hai ki jyada mang karna galt hai ...isko samajne ke liye property rights ko samajna hoga
दहेज लेना समाज में सम्मान दिलाता है इसलिए यह इस देश में कभी खत्म नहीं हो सकता है
Firstly, sthri dhan should be registered along with marriage certificate, with signatures of both parties officially. If at the time of talks, boys side ask for some amount of money, and if girls side is ok to give, then I think, there is no problem in that. Because, if girls parents can not give that amount, then can look for some other boy with in their budget. I think, we should not call such scenario as dowry or social evil etc. But after the marriage, if boys side start harassing girl to bring in more money from parents, that is evil and should be punishable.
why should the boy's side ask for money?? what right do they have? are they selling their son
@@meghanarora4136why the girls side marry a rich guy, how a girl can get all of a man's property, what right does she has? Sharam bhi nahi aati apni beti ko vaishya banane mein. Chi
@@Riderop-dy6ycshadi krne se koi vaishya kese bna, zara Vistar me samjha na bhai
@@Riderop-dy6yc how and when is a woman getting man's property?? after marriage, all the inheritance the guy gets from his family remains in his name. I didn't understand your point, pls clarify
@@meghanarora4136 Why do women ask for money during divorce? Do they have any right on the money of the person they are not with?
whi Supreme Court dowry ko galat manta hai lekin father ki property mai ladki ke equal right ko shi...toh kya property leke burai krna shi hai ya jo pita apni ladki ke liye ek bar mai paise dekr free krta hai wo...?
dowry is wrong if it is taken forcefully after marriage.. 🤔
❤❤❤❤Single life mast life ❤❤❤❤
लड़कियों के पिता चाहते हैं कि उनकी बेटी की शादी किसी सरकारी नौकरी वाले से हो, या फिर अपने से पैसे वालों से हो,तो फिर उन जैसे लोगों से दहेज लेना कोई गलत नहीं।
Nowadays it's become new trend other than dowry grooms side asking to bride side to arrange marriage from their side plus gold on bride even for highly qualified brides , seen this trend in many of my friends , family marriages
Qualified kya hota h govt job karti h larki?
It's supply demand...you will not marry a men who do farming but you will do blindly with top level officer's..
& That types of men are less than 1% &
50% woman & her family want that 1% men at any cost
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@vickyAlways aisa Nahi hai Yaaar. Main Khud nri hu Par Har Indian ladka Apni Ex Gf ko Reason Batakar mana kar deta hai. I'm not talking Gov Job. I avoid that Type. Why? Because Gov Job mein Ladko pe Family ke liye Time NHi bchta. Private Wale toh mere Saath bahr aana hi nhi chahte. And that too no reason. Meri height with sptrs 5'7 hai, aur m phd linguistics m hu. But just imagine itna rejected hui hu. And age b 23 h..
IAS Grooms ke to highest rates hain market me😅
इसी लिए शादी एक सौदा है जो मुझे मंजूर नहीं है, सिंगल रहो मस्त रहो 🙏✅
@@BadGuy-bb1ut like me
Verrrrry interesting topic
Dowry can't uniformly situated to a particular class. As its prevalent in among all the classes, castes and communities. We say it's curse and it should be stopped immediately.
just look deeper into it, it's a kind of continuous process...take any example of family...like if u gave for your sister, you will definitely grab the amount from the next one.
Same in cases of boys, if u took in your time, you will obviously give at the time of your sister's wedding, as the society won't accept a 'dowry-free wedding',
Har baar girls and womens ke sath hi galat hota hai har baar aur usko wajah male dominated society hai
Tumhe bhi gov job wala chahiye lol
Meri toh hogi bhi nahi 😐 kyoki Mai mba wala rahunga love marriage hi bachi hai mere liye 🥴
Mene dekha he ki dowry se huye death ke bare me to ladke baat hi krna psnd nhi krte qki unki bhi to apni desire usi se Puri honi he
To become richer. 😊
It doesn't matter if dowry is taken or not. If female say so during divorcing you it's true . So agar fasna hi hai toh Paisa leke hi fase
Nice one 👍 👌 😎😎
Sahi baat
Gov job p less salary +marriage life p vedio banay
@thezoldics7648nope. IT has way more money than most govt jobs. Some govt jobs pay more than private not all.
@thezoldics7648what about top iits top iims guys
When brides parents wants a guy with good bank balance , high salary , own house , etc.
Without checking that is the bridegroom a good man ... (keeping salary and other necessities as normal)
Then why to expect such no dowry...
I guess men should also find a girl who does a govt job , and is earning so that girls will earn and learn too .
Great idea
Exactly go ahead and save many girl
@@nandaniraj8532 yess why not ... better rather than being a cruel partner
Aise aise bhi families hai Jo achha khasa earn krne wali ladki se bhi achhi khasi dowry expect krte hai.
@@sanskritipatkar9778 jis din log ladke ka bank balance Aur ldki ki shkl dekhne k bdle unke behaviour, sanskar aur character p dhyan denge toh yeh problems nahi ayenge Warna yeh sb chlte rahega...
less number of successful men and more no of women wanting to marry them simple case of supply and demand , women choose the best option for them in terms of financial security same goes for men the more a women offers in financial gain more likely she will get a lifetime of luxury , note -this argument does not justifies dowry , this is simple case of both parties choosing the best for themself's
But money is important factor here only rich girls can marry rich men ....
Money matters 🤧
Exactly this is what is happening....now in my relatives
Good video essay. Sorry to see that dowry persists in 21st century India. Marriage is literally a transaction in every sense of the term.
Jo dowry ke liye ladkiyon ko marte hain wo decent families kaise ho sakti hain
बहुत ही सुंदर व्याख्यान।🙏🙏🙏
If dowry is wrong then maitainance(alimony) is also wrong. Why no one is talking about maintainace. We men are not ATM machine
Bheek toh mangni ha na ...
Bruh u think all are going for divorce only 😂 treat girl right .....
@@aishwarya2130 dear psuedo feminist same logic applies u too. Treat boys right we r also humans
Zarori nahi divorce hoga hi magar dowry to zaruri bana rakhi hai
@@moonlight-qq1yo har Mard ek jasa nahi hota na behn ... toh thoda soch k bolo
ha I'm in telugu mujhe ek police wala aaya tha sub milke 30lacks dowry aur ek army wala 10lacks only money aur ek business 8lacks aur 5bigha place manga tha maine sub ko cancel karwadi .aisi dowry problem rehne se mai tho court petition apply karungi kyu mujhe beti na ho pehle abortion karwadu kyu ki mere bachpane pe dowry ko leke 2 ladeis ko sasurawalo no jalake mardiya. ladki logo ko janam lene se pehle abortion hojane chahiye nh dowry system khatam hojana chahiye
A man or his family taking dowry are Level-1 cowards. As the man himself has not done anything in his life to earn; s that he is unable to feed his family. Thus accepting dowry from a girl, and thinks that marriage is a business.
2:30 start
तो फिर सबको सरकारी नौकरी वाला आदमी ही क्यों चाहीए? ये दहेज नहीं है क्या??
ab to sarkari naukri ke saath sath metro city mein ladko se khud ka ghar bhi maang rhe hai besharm bhukhe nange ladki and uske gharwale. bhagwan ne ladki jaisi swarthi janwar bnayi hi kyu
@@vickyAlways I totally agree with you 💯😅😅
@@BadGuy-bb1ut mujhe to bhyankar hairani hoti hai jab dekhta sunta hun ki ladki wle bolte hai ki hme to metro city mein apna gharwala ladka chahie jabki unki khud ki ladki maa baap ke ghar mein hi reh rhi ho.
Kadvi sachai hai bhai ek ladka paida hota hai to mehnat krta hai tb jake uski shaadi ho pati hai apne se neeche ke status ki women se pr ek ladki ko sirf aur sirf isliye rich ladka chahiye KYUNKI WO EK BECHARI LADKI HAI.
hr ladki ka yahi haal hai aur workung women ki bhukh ki to koi limit hi nhi hai uspar to EXTRA WOMEN EMPOWERMENT ka bhoot sawar hai
Because those sarkari naukri wale aadmi want gharelu larki
@@svijaya1859 it's Impossible. पैसों से जितनी चाहे उतनी GF घुमाओ, कोई कुछ नहीं बोलेगा 🙏✅
Kuch log nahi. Sabhi log. Atleast in South India.
So people justifying dowry becausr of alimony, I want to ask then why you are opposed to women pro laws when history says indian women werr in past subjected to domestic violnce and even murder? Sab hi rehne do phir toh. Dowry, alimony, domestix violence, aur women laws.
Hi sir, vaishvik shanti ke liye jaruri hai parmanu hathiyar eske paksh or vipaksh me kya likhe sir please es par ek video banay
Girls father ko pareshan krti h vo khud bolti h mujhe bhar bhar k dahej do nhi to sasural me koi ijjat nhi karega 😅ye bhi koi baat h fir 498 ka misuse hota h
Meri sister khud dahej ki demand kr rhi h kya kare 😂
Sacchai to alag hi h sick mentality both family
Maximum Govt job employees demands dowry, especially UPSC guys
I'm from Nandigram, Purba Medinipur, West Bengal.there is not being system of dowry and I'm very happy.
But being a boy i strongly against on dowry .
My opinion that having compulsion of dowry in society India still developing instead of devloped country.
New name for dowry is gifts.
Yes, pese wale bhi car le rahe hai, ye keh kar car to gift hai.