Dowry पर बहुत बहस सुनी होंगी, लेकिन ये भावी दरोगा आपको बहुत कुछ नया सिखा देंगे
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- In the Bijnor district of Uttar Pradesh, The Lallantop team interacts with students, who are preparing for government jobs. Saurabh Dwivedi talked to the aspirants who preparing for Uttar Pradesh Sub Inspector Recruitment on many issues including employment and education. The students spoke openly on issues like the tenure of the Yogi government, law and order, and the dowry system. watch video to know more.
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बड़ा रोष है लडकी के अंदर लेकिन सत्य बोल रही है पारूल 🙏
Parul ki baato aur expression se lagta hai ki usne ye sab jhela hai..
Main thing is change in mindset of society
Are wait wait..... Society mtlb tum, hn tumhari hi baat kr rhi hun jo padh rhe ho comment!
Society mtlb ham log hi hote hain, koi aliens nhi hotee
Aise kitne examples dekhe ho jha ladka ghar ke kaam krta ho aur ladki bahar acchi salary kmati ho?? Kya aise ladke se koi bap saadi krna chahega apni beti ki??
Jb wo ameer ladka dhundega to fhir ladka ka bhau to bhada hi rhega na.... Ladkiya jb acche se mehnat krke equal position pr aajayengi tb hi koi ladka koi nhi bol payegaaa
Khud me change laoo dusroo ko bs blame mt kroo
Yha pr is class me ye log preparation kr rhi police ki but koi dedicated nhii hai... Koi running nhi krta haii aur fhir aise kamzor rhengi, accha job nhi rhega to koi kyu value kregaa??
Kamzor logo ki koi value nhi is world me, chahe wo ladka ho ya ladki.... Yhi jeevan ka kadwa sach hai
Dusroo ko blame krne se accha khudme change laaoo
Thoda sochna bs is baare me
Dhanyavaad 😊
Good
#Lockdownclips
@@dipalikumari3440 perfect 👍
Kiska koi MATLAB nhi banta...😎
Priyanka is just in her own butterfly world 🤣 parul is just lit 🔥
@@wisdomhighlights9045 I guess u r wrong parul and priyanka could be right or wrong. There could be many possiblity. For ex u may think that muslims r mostly good people. And I think the same way because in my life time of 30 years, I have not find any muslim like the way shown by BJP supporters. But I met a person, who had such hatred towards muslim, u can not imagine. Then once he told that how muslims r living and treating hindus in his village. Then I was able to understand and it reminded me of my area how sc(chamar) were living. Some what similar. So that means every one has its own story. But we have to take the major portions of the stories. Priyanka just not experienced that, so she said that opinion. And parul on the other hand experienced it , so she said so. But that doesnot mean parul should generalise the men and safety. From everyone perspective in that class, we can generallise that it is safe to roam around if thier parents allows them .And not what parul said. So here I could say that parul is living in different world but I wont say that because I am not an idiot like u to assume that she can not have that experience.she might had some bad experience which made her to have that opinion. Its fine to have an opinion made from our own experiences but its not good to have the opinion made on others opinion like u do. May be.
@@Shiva-zj6od bro I understood what you said but on the other hand I would like to tell you that I am a person who believes in data and I also vote on the basis of data!
1. Every year 10000 women are killed or they commit suicide because of Dowry
2. In Every one hour, 4 women are raped
3. 1,50,000 Indians die in road accidents and 3,00,000 people are severely injured!
Yes I agree that we should be a good listener and I respect Parul’s experience,
Priyanka’s Experience and also those NCC girls who told their experience to Saurabh!
@@wisdomhighlights9045 Haan to permission mil to rahi hai. Aur true freedom bina apne pairon pe khade huye na ladka ko milti hai na hi ladki ko. Jab tak apne maa baap ke paison me paloge to unki permission to leni hi padegi. Aur maa baap jaante hain duniya kaisi hai to use usi prakaar ki permission dete hai. Ab ladkon ko bhi koi maa baap jua ke adde me jaane ki permission nahi dega. Ladkiyon par alag khatra hai. Fir bolti ho tum ki pura freedom nahi milta. Are pura freedom kisiko nahi milta mam. Mujhe freedom nahi hai ke mai apni crush ke ghare ghus jaun. Ya mai abhi afghanistaan chala jaun. Ya north koria chala jaun kyunki uss jagha mujhe alag prakar ke khatre honge. Sabke struggle hote hain. Bas ye hai, ki hum ladke apne struggle nahi batate kyunki usko koi struggle mante hi nahi hai aur dusre ladkiyon ke struggle sunte hain. Haan ladkiyan aur bachhe jayada khatre me hain iss duniya me to uss hissab se unki freedom bhi nischit ki gayi hai wo bhi unhi ki bhalayi ke liye.Aur iss ke liye natural alag hona karan hai. Logical socho har jawab milega. Aur freedom ka dekho alag alag hissaab hota hai. Ameer ladkiyan ko bhi gareeb ladkon se jayda freedom milti hai. Lekin koi gareeb freedom ke liye nahi rota.
Ek gehri baat kehna chahunga shayad hi samajh pao. Freedom agar tum khuli jagah pe bhi ho kar nahi milega agar tumne soch liya ki tum free nahi ho. Ye aasman bhi yumhe ek jail lagega.
@@Shiva-zj6od 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes u are right , priyanka devi ko apna najriya change krne ki jrurt h ,jis post ke liye vo nikli h ,parul is right 👏🙏
More power to Parul di..🙏 ..she was very right and crisp about her opinion..!she carry next level potential in her words❤ may she achieve her all dreams !
Yaar paarul is lit. 😂 Such innocence and such straightforwardness. ❤️
I think she is not innocent.( In positive way ) . It's just she is so frustrated maybe because of these things like staring and all shits.. and it looks like if she will get the chance she will swap her finger just to destroy the man.. but I know what it feels like... Bluddy hell..
@@voldemort225 yes, definitely she looks frustrated. May be because of the confinement she has lived in since very long, personal experiences of men misbehaving most of the times. But doesn't mean that she'll be the same always. New experiences and places and meeting a different set of people (like meeting saurav dwiwedi) might shape her thinking and outlook.
@@voldemort225 and personally even I do not have such bitter experiences, things have been tolerable till now but simultaneously I would never try to prove her wrong coz she is telling HER story.
Rest, best wishes for UPSC.
@@aditithakur5753 are u a upsc aspirant
@@aditithakur5753 Apna feminism ka randi rona idhar mat shuru kar dena.
Parul is not ranting!!
The girl has fire within her!!
She speaks so confidently and to the point.
Haven't seen such straightforward girl in a long time.
God bless you girl
Parul is definitely brave and good that lalantop supported her.
Parul said it correct, many girls have faced eve teasing.if few girls have not faced it then it doesn't mean that all girls have not faced it and blame girls mentality.
@@jyotidevi101 exactly!! It's good that you weren't or haven't faced that situation but that doesn't mean you start pointing out the victim and not the accused/perpetrators
Sabhi ka experience or point of view alag hota h
Agar girls ko boy Na dekhe to
Inka make up karna hi bekaar h
Agar ladko s dar lagta h to is coaching m Kya Kar rhe ho
Jab apni Bhai behan ladki ho to sab maaf
Agar doosro k ho to sari galti unki
ये अच्छा पहल है सर
जैसे एंकर लोग बड़े बुजुर्गो से बातचीत करते हैं,
वैसे ही युवाओं से भी देश के मुद्दो पर बात करनी चाहिए।
Ye logic “ jo diya beti ko diya”
Sabse khatarnaak logic hota hai.
😂😂😂😂
एकदम सही लाजिक है। लड़के के पिता की सम्मत्ती देख कर शादी करोगे और लड़की के पिता ने कुछ दिया तो दहेज हो गया। लड़की का नही खर्च होना चाहिए।
43 minutes ऐसा लगा मैं भी इस क्लास रूम मे ही भैठा हूँ और समय कैसे कट गया पता ही नहीं चला. It was full of social knowledge and nice ground reporting. एकदम लल्लनटॉप. 👌
बहन पारूल मेरी आशा, और शुभकामनाएं है कि आप जरूर बने दरोगा आप जरूर बदल सकते हो व्यवस्था....
Leken easke maa ko sarkari damad chaiye
अइत्मातोव
Sabhi ka experience or point of view alag hota h
Agar girls ko boy Na dekhe to
Inka make up karna hi bekaar h
Agar ladko s dar lagta h to is coaching m Kya Kar rhe ho
Jab apni Bhai behan ladki ho to sab maaf
Agar doosro k ho to sari galti unki
ये बिना नोकरी वाले से सादी kr लेगी क्या🤣
I think Parul is absolutely right..... And I can feel her pain.
True
Right
True hai .. par ... Berojgar se shaddi koi nahi karta ... Ya koi kam paisa
Sabhi ka experience or point of view alag hota h
Agar girls ko boy Na dekhe to
Inka make up karna hi bekaar h
Agar ladko s dar lagta h to is coaching m Kya Kar rhe ho
Jab apni Bhai behan ladki ho to sab maaf
Agar doosro k ho to sari galti unki
Each and every line of Parul di is correct....bina kisi banawati ke wo har baat ko rakhi h, seriously I am very happy to listen this btw lallantop is the best 👏👏👏
I have been working in defence sector since last 6 years and my maximum friends are from Jaat community. 95 percent of them have taken dowry . And the main aim of their family is to take dowry from bride's family. Love marriage is not allowed in their community because in love marriage groom's family can't get dowry. My maximum friends asked me how much I got in my marriage. And when I say that I have not taken any single penny in my marriage, instead I have given golden hearing to my wife in my marriage. They laughed at me....
I'm proud of you sir
Proud of you.
Golden ear ring hota h
Sabhi ka experience or point of view alag hota h
Agar girls ko boy Na dekhe to
Inka make up karna hi bekaar h
Agar ladko s dar lagta h to is coaching m Kya Kar rhe ho
Jab apni Bhai behan ladki ho to sab maaf
Agar doosro k ho to sari galti unki
मैं भी जाट समाज से हूं , मैने एक रुपया का दहेज नहीं लिया है , मैं govt सर्वेंट भी हु , 53000 मेरी सैलरी भी है !
क्योंकि मैं सतगुरु संत रामपाल जी महाराज का शिष्य हु और केवल और केवल एकमात्र संत रामपाल जी महाराज ही ऐसे संत है जिनका एक भी शिष्य ना दहेज लेता है , ना दहेज देता है ।
दहेज़ प्रथा बस निबंध लिखने के काम ही आता है, इसका विरोध तो सोशल मीडिया में सभी करते हैं पर असल जिंदगी में हरेक वर्ग के लोग दहेज़ लेते हैं..💯
@@ShivamVerma-it1gl ऐसा ही है दीदी
कभी आप अपने आसपास के माहौल में रहने वाले लोगों को देखो तो पता चले आपको
कुछ ही ऐसे अपवाद के तौर पे होते हैं जो अपनी असल जिंदगी में भी दहेज़ जैसी कुप्रथा का विरोध करते हैं...
@@ShivamVerma-it1gl चलो अच्छी बात है, कोई तों है जो इसे निबंध तक ना सीमित रखते हुए अपने जीवन में लाये हैं उन महानुभाव को मेरे ओर से दिल से धन्यवाद बाद ❤🙏
Correct
Apne bilkul satik bola hai
In ladkon se baat karo.. toh lagta hai sab bahut sanskari hain.... jaise inme se kisi ne daheej nahin liya
Asli mein apni mummy ke darr se chup chup baith jayenge
पारुल मैम बिल्कुल सही कह रही थी इनकी बातों में सच्चाई है कोई बनावटी पन नहीं है बिल्कुल निष्पक्ष
Let's Give Parul a Award.
What a brave women she is. Jhasi ki Rani.
Parul- I m sher
Priyanka-i m Babbar Sher
😄😄😄
दहेज पर निबंध लिख कर आईएएस आईपीएस होते हैं, जब हो जाते हैं तो करोड़ रुपये दहेज़ मांगते हैं।
Ek dam sahi kha or इंटरव्यू देते हैं तो कितना शालीन दिखते हैं कलेक्टर बन जाते हैं रुतबा दिखाते हैं 😂😂😂
लड़की क्लर्क भी हो तो आईएएस चाहिए,फिर लड़का दहेज मांगे तो अपराध। अगर लड़की आईएएस हो तो आईएएस कभी दहेज नहीं मांगेगा ।
निबंध लिखने के पैसे😂
Right
Kya likha hai sir ❤️
पारूल एकदम सही बात कही,,, समाज में ऐसा ही ही होता है,,,
U are right bhai 🙏☺️👍
Main thing is change in mindset of society
Are wait wait..... Society mtlb tum, hn tumhari hi baat kr rhi hun jo padh rhe ho comment!
Society mtlb ham log hi hote hain, koi aliens nhi hotee
Aise kitne examples dekhe ho jha ladka ghar ke kaam krta ho aur ladki bahar acchi salary kmati ho?? Kya aise ladke se koi bap saadi krna chahega apni beti ki??
Jb wo ameer ladka dhundega to fhir ladka ka bhau to bhada hi rhega na.... Ladkiya jb acche se mehnat krke equal position pr aajayengi tb hi koi ladka koi nhi bol payegaaa
Khud me change laoo dusroo ko bs blame mt kroo
Yha pr is class me ye log preparation kr rhi police ki but koi dedicated nhii hai... Koi running nhi krta haii aur fhir aise kamzor rhengi, accha job nhi rhega to koi kyu value kregaa??
Kamzor logo ki koi value nhi is world me, chahe wo ladka ho ya ladki.... Yhi jeevan ka kadwa sach hai
Dusroo ko blame krne se accha khudme change laaoo
Thoda sochna bs is baare me
Dhanyavaad 😊
@@dipalikumari3440 puri ram katha. Likh dia
@@anurag4884 😂
Parul was so confident yrr she tells everything true
मैं भी जाट समाज से हूं , मैने एक रुपया का दहेज नहीं लिया है , मैं govt सर्वेंट भी हु , 53000 मेरी सैलरी भी है !
क्योंकि मैं सतगुरु संत रामपाल जी महाराज का शिष्य हु और केवल और केवल एकमात्र संत रामपाल जी महाराज ही ऐसे संत है जिनका एक भी शिष्य ना दहेज लेता है , ना दहेज देता है ।
Jai shri ram
Parul voice is already in 2x without 2x
🤣🤣 when she started explaining her point I checked if my speed is more than normal or not😅
Right 😂
Ratta marti hai
Correct..🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
मुद्दा तो इस बात की है की नौकरी वाली लड़की बेरोजगार लड़के से शादी nhi karti hai😂😂😂
How many men are ready to cook ,and caring kid at home while women bringing earing
Kyu kare.sahi faisla hai girls ka
हर काम हर कोई नहीं कर पाता है सब के अपने अलग अलग विषय है 🙏
😁😁😁😁
@@g8tjtt525 so many because You have to do any work either in Earn money or do household work and its responsibility of Parent that to give both education as well as houshold work to both girl and boys
पारुल बहुत ही सुन्दर बात की हैं 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Saurabh sir and puri lallantop ki team, mai apke lallantop ka bahut bahut abhari hu, aap logo ke karan meri wapas samachar mai ruchi badhi hai, nahi toh yeah aaj tak, india news channel ke dikhawe bhari smachar prasaran sai maine samachar dekhna hi chod diya tha. Aur na kewal apke channel se meri jaankari badhi hai, balki meri hindi mai bhi ab kaafi sudhaar hone laga hai, bahut sare shabd jo maine padhe the, parntu dainik bolchal ki bhasha mai upyog nahi hone karan mai bhul gaya tha, ab mujhe wapas aane lage hai.
Apne desh ke yuvaao ke vichar sunkar accha laga, aur yeah bhi samjha ki sare bacche, yuva tiktok instagram ki chapet mai nahi aaye hai, kuch abhi bhi vastavikta mai jee rahe hai.
Ek yuva ladki ne jo kaha, ki yeah desh se dahej wali mansikta nahi jayegi kabhi bhi, mujhe uske baat mai saccha aur vivashta dono najar aayi, par mujhe lagta hai ki agar yeah pidhi nischay kare to 2 pidhiyon mai ise jad se khatam kiya jaa sakt hai
Parul's words are each and every girl's words 👍
Waise wha bhi baaki ladkiyon ne bhi bola.... To aap each and every kaise bol skti hain??
Aur sbse bdi baat ladkiyon ko educate nhi krte family wale aur job nhi krwate... Agr job krle ladki to kon dahej mangega?
Wo to ladko ko lgta hai ki wo job krke superior hain isiliye dahej chahiye hota hai to equally work krke us level pr hi pahunch jana chaahiye
@@dipalikumari3440 you don't know group level reality. Job karo ya na karo dahej to dena hi padta hai. Agar aapke saath aisa nahi hua iska matlab ye nahi ki aisa samaj mein hota hi nahi hai!! We can't close eyes and let it happen to others. Question ye nahi ki aapke saath hua ya nahi Question ye hai ki aaaj ke date mein bhi dahej liya jaata hai. Aaj ke date mei bhi patriarchal society exist karti hai. Aaj ke date mei bhi rape dowry deaths honour killing hoti hai aur most cases mein doshi ladki ko bol hi diya jaata hai. It's disastrous mindset of society which needs urgent attention. I'm living happily doesn't imply that all girls are living safely. Har roz rape ho rahe hai aur cases badhte hi jaa rahe hai. We have to fight back this mentality as a whole and we can't be so selfish right
Ryt... 100% ryt boli h o...i agree 👍👍
@@ranibhatia748 you showed the real truth of our society . Kitna bhi padh lo dahej to dena hi h
Bitter but truth
@@astutitripathi8823 Aap log Dahez dete hi kyun ho... Shadi karna itna jaruri hai kya..? Aur agar karna hi hai toh atcha family dhund ke shadi nahi kar sakte kya. Kuch bhi. Aap log dete ho isliye Mangtey hai. Jis din se dena band karenge change usi din se ayega. Lekin nahi, denge bhar bhar ke..
A girl pulling down other... the one contradicting Parul's PoV just for sake of it. Saurab ji did what best a facilitator can do and brought balance. Kudos 👏👏👏
Hats off to Parul. She must become a police offer.
After listening to parul my mind is trained now 😎
पारूल चौधरी सही कह रही हैं इतना बोलने के लिए हिम्मत चाहिए I salute पारूल चौधरी
📺 k
Parul aap ka bhi bhai hoga uska kya wo shadi ke time pe yahi kahega jara bataiye hame
Sab jagah ladke bhi galat nahi hote hai jese thappad girl
Parul Mam lgta hai apne ghar walo ke restrictions se hi pareshaan hai lgta, Independent!!
@@georgeferris976 Abe teri soch restricted hai. Wo apna point sahi rakh rahi hai.
Parul ke concept ekdm clear hain zindagi me…not a single doubt she had about the topics👍🏻👍🏻well done
Marvadi h ,pesa lene ka kaam hi hota h😂😂
Sirf blaming game khel rhi thi didi solutions oriented mind hona chahiye
@@nikhelgurjar5495 Solution de to diya bechari ne -Job karo independent bano.
Blue waali ladki ke hisab se Auratein safe hai is samaj me, aisi ladkiya har class me Hoti hai. Sacchaai se Koso door, taalio se kaafi khsush
Parul ji is right about society , if Priyanka ji said she didn't feel uncomfortable with boys and she never face eve teasing , that's her point of view . That can't define the mentality of society . I feel bad when boys clap when Priyanka speak not on parul . She also said the truth . Ek sikke ke do pehlu hote hai . Ek sahi bol rha jaruri nhi dusra galat bol rha hai.
Parul is right about eve teasing, staring and general perception towards modern women. She is right candidate for becoming part of police force as she understands the basic issues very well. She can empathise with people's problems which is the ultimate requirement to be in public service roles.
Abe noob tujhe pata haii kya inn sab ke baare mein
@@Nikhiledits27 Tu bata "Intellectual aadmi" kya galat kaha Ravi bhai ne?
Most of the students praised the present govt, this gives all the answers to toh questions 😂, the lallantop khush toh nhi hue honge
Sabhi ka experience or point of view alag hota h
Agar girls ko boy Na dekhe to
Inka make up karna hi bekaar h
Agar ladko s dar lagta h to is coaching m Kya Kar rhe ho
Jab apni Bhai behan ladki ho to sab maaf
Agar doosro k ho to sari galti unki
Taking dowry is crime but giving dowry is also a crime no one change the mentality of men....they r legends
Bilkul dahej lena dena dono apradh hai
@@khushboosingh5143 ji bilkul ap bhi maat dena..
Main thing is change in mindset of society
Are wait wait..... Society mtlb tum, hn tumhari hi baat kr rhi hun jo padh rhe ho comment!
Society mtlb ham log hi hote hain, koi aliens nhi hotee
Aise kitne examples dekhe ho jha ladka ghar ke kaam krta ho aur ladki bahar acchi salary kmati ho?? Kya aise ladke se koi bap saadi krna chahega apni beti ki??
Jb wo ameer ladka dhundega to fhir ladka ka bhau to bhada hi rhega na.... Ladkiya jb acche se mehnat krke equal position pr aajayengi tb hi koi ladka koi nhi bol payegaaa
Khud me change laoo dusroo ko bs blame mt kroo
Yha pr is class me ye log preparation kr rhi police ki but koi dedicated nhii hai... Koi running nhi krta haii aur fhir aise kamzor rhengi, accha job nhi rhega to koi kyu value kregaa??
Kamzor logo ki koi value nhi is world me, chahe wo ladka ho ya ladki.... Yhi jeevan ka kadwa sach hai
Dusroo ko blame krne se accha khudme change laaoo
Thoda sochna bs is baare me
Dhanyavaad 😊
@@hiteshini6826 hm toh denge nhi lenge bhi nhi na 1 rupaya Dena na lena
@@dipalikumari3440 WOW! Aapko teacher hona chahiye... 🤗🤗🤗
Ekdum point pe nishana.. 100% valid point.
Parul is so aggressive 🤣🤣🤣
Parul ka gussa jayaz hai ..inko Daroga banna chaheeye ..
सौरभ सर, आपका बहुत बहुत आभार। आपने नवयुवक बेरोजगारों से मिलकर, उनकी समस्याओं का जिक्र किया।
दारोगा के लिए "पारुल" पूरी तरह से तैयार है 😃😁 अंदर से भरी पड़ी है
Daroga bna do bhai ise
😂
Mujhe bhi yhi lga ratta maar k tyaar hai
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thoda aur kuch puch lete to ro deti parul 😂😂
ऐसे ही इस देश के युवाओं की बात को उजागर करते रहे। सर आप बहुत सही काम कर रहे हो। भगवान आपको बहुत लंबी उम्र दे
Parul is v sincere and wise girl.She has practical knowledge.
Hello parul (pinky) if you are reading this, let me tell you. You done a brilliant job. You spoke so fiercely and bravely about your experiences. You don't need to feel demotivated. Also that ncc cadet grl was right in her opinion but her truth was not predominant truth of society so you don't need to feel bad about that. I really appreciate your courage. May god bless you make you more empowered.💐💐💐
Yess u r right .
@@astutitripathi8823
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Parul may be right.... But reality is girls are equally guilty as boys are
Sabhi ka experience or point of view alag hota h
Agar girls ko boy Na dekhe to
Inka make up karna hi bekaar h
Agar ladko s dar lagta h to is coaching m Kya Kar rhe ho
Jab apni Bhai behan ladki ho to sab maaf
Agar doosro k ho to sari galti unki
Don't wanna say anything wrong bro...either that girl is frustrated with something or she is rude...by the way points theek the uske
भारत देश में दहेज प्रथा कभी खत्म नहीं होगी जब तक दोनो पक्ष के लोग ज्ञान, शिक्षित ना हो।
Educated person hi to drowy lete hai.
Jab tak marriage khatam nahi hoti ..
Live in aane bala he next generation
👏👍👍
@Swadheenta soni 30% तो हैं जी अहमदाबाद जैसी बड़ी City में ज्यादा है बिजनेस के नाम पर ,...etc
@@pawanthakur1637 live-in se bhi kuchh fark nahi honewala, kyunki live-in mein bhi aise kanoon laaye hai jo kisi shaadi ke kanoon se kum nahi ... matlab India mein live-in koi bada sukun nahi laanewala ladkon ke liye.
Sir I like your all video.But this video which I like most.Ye hui na baat field me ye sabb Mudda hona chahiye ...
Great Sir.. Thank you 🙏
This show is awesome. Please do this kind of discussion again and again.
पुलिस थाना न्याय का पहला द्वार होता है! जब मैं दरोगा बनूंगा तो यही लक्ष्य रखूंगा कि थाने से ही उनको संतुष्ट किया जाए एवं उनको न्याय दिलाया जाए ताकि उन्हें किसी अन्य द्वार पर भटकना न पड़े!
👍
Hmm to khali ghush lenge chap ke🤣🤣
50 साल की उम्र हो गई है हमें अभी तक एक भी दरोगा ऐसा नही मिला जो रिश्वत न लेता हो।
हम आशा करते हैं कि आप जल्दी दरोगा बन जाए, हो सकता है एक ऐसा दरोगा हमें मिल जाए जो रिश्वतखोर ना हो।
वैसे जो लोग रिश्वतखोरी की कमाई पर नियत नही रखते वे दरोगा बनने के बारे में सोचने के बजाए प्राइवेट जॉब कर लेते हैं जिसमें दरोगा के मुकाबले अधिक तनख्वाह मिल जाती है
Main thing is change in mindset of society
Are wait wait..... Society mtlb tum, hn tumhari hi baat kr rhi hun jo padh rhe ho comment!
Society mtlb ham log hi hote hain, koi aliens nhi hotee
Aise kitne examples dekhe ho jha ladka ghar ke kaam krta ho aur ladki bahar acchi salary kmati ho?? Kya aise ladke se koi bap saadi krna chahega apni beti ki??
Jb wo ameer ladka dhundega to fhir ladka ka bhau to bhada hi rhega na.... Ladkiya jb acche se mehnat krke equal position pr aajayengi tb hi koi ladka koi nhi bol payegaaa
Khud me change laoo dusroo ko bs blame mt kroo
Yha pr is class me ye log preparation kr rhi police ki but koi dedicated nhii hai... Koi running nhi krta haii aur fhir aise kamzor rhengi, accha job nhi rhega to koi kyu value kregaa??
Kamzor logo ki koi value nhi is world me, chahe wo ladka ho ya ladki.... Yhi jeevan ka kadwa sach hai
Dusroo ko blame krne se accha khudme change laaoo
Thoda sochna bs is baare me
Dhanyavaad 😊
@@dipalikumari3440 e ka babasir likh diye ho dipali🤣
पारुल ने जो भी कहा वही आज भी ग्रामीण क्षेत्रों की हकीकत है, ग्रामीण तबकों मे आज भी लड़की को उसके पहनावे के आधार पर ही आंका जाता है .. She has clear mind set.. I hope she'll be able to remove such problems..
Par har koi asa nhi hota..kisi 100 ke wazah se 1000 logon ko judge krna bhi thick nhi hai
ग्रामीण क्षेत्रों की लड़कियां शहर आकर शहरी लड़कियों से ज्यादा उधम मचाती है
@@mahendrakushwaha5848 kis chiz mei
@@yashvashistha1845 हर चीज में
@@mahendrakushwaha5848 maine toh asa kbhi nhi dekha🙄..ulta unme zayada attitude hota hai shaher Kie ladkiyon se
Parul is absolutely right.
दहेज ना दिया जाए, तो ताना और प्रतनाए होती रहती हैं।
I am a UPSC aspirant.. I came here just to take a break for moment.. and I personally support the girl at 23: 55 min.. this is what a officer should talk like.. btw I have not seen any girl being harassed or molested till now.. maybe because of my place.. it's mumbai.. so it's all about choice.
@@rajabaliyan4245 why so , is Bijnor famous for girls harrasment city ??🥺
जो govt कह दे वो पूरा हो ना हो जो शुरू करे कम से कम उसे समय पर और सही से ख़तम करे। बस इतना ही काफ़ी है।
Mumbai is safe city
Me too
Hr ldki ne life m harassment dkha h
I am from Bijnor , I work in central government and what these students are saying about dowry and rate of grooms is 100% correct.
Tum loge dahej😀
Sahi hai bhai
Sabhi ka experience or point of view alag hota h
Agar girls ko boy Na dekhe to
Inka make up karna hi bekaar h
Agar ladko s dar lagta h to is coaching m Kya Kar rhe ho
Jab apni Bhai behan ladki ho to sab maaf
Agar doosro k ho to sari galti unki
Then what is the value of low earned man ??????
Value of man depends upon on how much earned if that's man brother don't earn it's mean that man not havy value.
So girls are very wise
दहेज बुरा है लेकिन हमेशा सरकारी कर्मचारी को प्राइवेट वालो से जादा दहेज क्यो देते है ?
किसी आर्थिक रूप से कमजोर लड़के को दहेज देंगे ? उससे तो कोई लड़की भी नही देगा
@Introvert Sharat rarest ko nahi apni beti ko secure life dene ke liye karte hai , bs itna samajh lijiye sarkari nukari wala ladka achha khasa insurance plan hai jise lene k liye achha khasa installment dena hota hai , mai dahej ko support nahi krta hu
Ryt brother 🙏
@@adityamishra6891आपका मतलब private job wale secure nahi hote hai??
It was a great session, sab padhe likhe log, aaj k haalat pr bahut Acche se, khul kr share kr rhe hain good.. 👍👍
Her smile when she said ‘ they think mujhse nahi hoga’ that is so sad. Family ka support nahi. Shaadi toh hogi hi. Failed as a parent:(
मै बिहार से हूँ , और मेरे यहाँ भी प्रथा है लड़के को शादी और समाज , परिवार में मान - सम्मान के लिए सरकारी नौकरी का होना बहुत जरुरी है वरना कोई इज्ज़त वैल्यू ही नहीं समाज & परिवार बाले और ना ही कोई बाप अपनी बेटी का हाथ देना चाहता है 🤔 इसलिए सरकारी नौकरी करना हम बिहारीयो की मज़बूरी है 🙏 जरुरी नहीं
Not good mentality as nature of person matters the most as it is life long affair,money cannot guarantee good marriage
U r right
Ekdum shi kha bahi bihar me toh sarkari naukri ka carze hi craze hai.
@@apniyatra4462 sahi bole
मेरे भाई इसका कारण भी दहेज है। यदि यही प्रथा न हो, काबलियत के आधार पर सम्बन्ध चुने जाएं तो सरकारी नौकरी की डिमांड भी न हो। और माइंड न करना मेरे मित्र बिहार में जीवन जीने के लिए सरकारी नौकरी के अलावा कोई विकल्प नहीं है।
I still remember , When My sister was preparing for races, My father and mother used to go with her for running just for her security .
Exactly, it's very pathetic... Parent's has to teach right Moral to young boys,
That's good
आप जो भी न्यूज़ कवर करते हैं सब हमें अच्छा लगता है, ऐसा लगता है कि जैसे गांव में बैठे और चाचा ताऊ कुछ कहानी या ज्ञान की बातें बता रहे हैं, सौरभ जी आपका स्टाइल एकदम लल्लन टॉप है 🙏🙏Keep going, keep growing and keep shining
I love this episode....first expression to see d timing of this episode was like....nowayyy bahut jaada tym ka video h...but when i have started to watching...then i was enjoying d show....great episode..nd well said "Parul"😘
Thanku dekhne ke lie hmari video
My dowry story,
2 years ago when I was earning 20k ladki wale aye and rejected me and also insulted me infront of relatives. Now when I am earning more than 60k the same family came and fixed the alliance...
So, now we should take dowry...
Nothing wrong
@Introvert Sharat 10k ki redmi 7
Don't take dowry ....but refuse to marry thay girl whose family insults you for your earning...
@@ilmarehman2909 very sensible answer but now I couldn't do anything. I have to marry that girl or they can sue me
@@assamteabyvinay why they sue you ....it's your individual right. ...😥I feel bad for you
@@ilmarehman2909 we did engagement after that I got to know something about their family and tried to break the alliance but now it can't be done. I have to live with this..
Hats off to Parul Ji. 🤗🌸 Yehe exactly mentality hai India ki,Dowry to kbhi nahi jaane wali India se. Aap bhar gye ya ni,but aapko pure India k baare me bilkul sahi knowledge hai.
Aap aacha bol rhe ya bura smjh nhi aaya
@@parulchaudhary8561 Acha hai.
Sabhi ka experience or point of view alag hota h
Agar girls ko boy Na dekhe to
Inka make up karna hi bekaar h
Agar ladko s dar lagta h to is coaching m Kya Kar rhe ho
Jab apni Bhai behan ladki ho to sab maaf
Agar doosro k ho to sari galti unki
For govt jobs time limit for filling the vacancies should be fixed in ibps clerk or officer exams within 4 to 6 months process is completed and appointment is scheduled
पारूल दीदी सलाम है आपकी हिम्मत और जज्बे को इतना सच बोलना हर किसी के बसकी बात है
सौरभ सर और पूरे ललनटाप टीम को युवाओं के साथ इस बेहतरीन चर्चा के लिए बहुत बहुत सम्मान और धन्यवाद🙏💕।। देश के युवाओं को अभी इसी तरह की चेतना की आवश्यकता है।। 🙏🙏
जितने भी भाइयो ने इस दहेज़ मुद्दे पर अपनी बयान दी कैमरा के सामने उनकी वो भावुकता है.
बाद मे इस मामले अधिक से अधिक घरवाले अपनी मांग प्रस्तुतीकरण की भूमिका निभाते है.🙏
आपने यह वीडियो बहुत ही सुंदर बनाया है इससे समाज को बहुत सीख मिलेगी
Mari khud job hai OT mila kar 50000 ke aas pass salary ati hai ..mai dahaj nhi lunga per koi 20000 ki job wali ladki bhi nhi mil rhi 😭😭😭
Sahi kaha .. 20000 kamaane wali ladki 2L kamaanewale ladke ki khwaish rakhati hai.
Parul pura frustration nikal diya 😂
Han😁bht frustrated lg rhi
😂 sahi baat achha hua Saurabh bhaiya pahuch gye
Nhi to frustration bhari rahti
@@azabgazab8800 warna *lucknow girl-2* bn jati
Chalo kisi ne toh bataya
Usne sach bola .. frustration hi ssahi ... Aisa hota h or bhut hota h agr aisa nhi hota agr ladkw ghoor ghoor kr nhi dekhte gande nazro se nhi dekhte aise comments nhi krte to rape hote hi kyu itne rape hote h 9 mahine ki bachi se lekh 70 80 saal ki mahila tk ..or aise ghoorte ki ladkiyaan insecure feel krti h and ghr make fun of female body shape particular body parts .... And it's highly shame to them
Parul toh bahut sakht daroga banegi no nonsense very good.... I hope sab support karein aisi ladkiyo ko.... I think Parul ko agar police ki job mil gayi toh transfer bahut honge.... Senior aisi dabangg officer tolerate nahi Kar payenge...
Haa sahi baat h, dowary is crime
Constitution ke hisab se beti aur beta dono baap ki jaidad ke malik hote h,
Babarab milni chaiaye dono ko,
Dowary is crime, mai iska khandan krta hu
@@siddharthsinghrana2373 haha,
Alimony bhi wahi hogi jha paisa hoga,
Bina paise k koi matha phodi nahi krna chat bhai.
Aaj dahej bhi vahi de rahe h, jo chte h ki beti khud ke paise pr claim na kre.
@@siddharthsinghrana2373 thoda tamij sikho baat krne ki .....tmse aise to baat nhi ki ambika ne .....
@@ambikajaiswal9939 job first business second 😂 waah
Are Bhai jo abhi dabang bn rhe h bs thodi der bad Raye badal jate h
इस क्लास मै सभी चौधरी है 😍😍
Choudhary kaun caste hai?
Parul bikul sahi boli rahi hai.. enki baato ke josh se hi pata chal rha hai unka experience.. all the best Parul .. hope ki mehnat kar ke es bharat desh ki kamiyo ko pura karne me madat kare.. 🇮🇳 society ko change karne me young generation ko aage ana hoga.. religion caste place gender rich poor pe hame discrimination na kar ke humanity aur scientific development ko support karna chahiye..
Respect to girls 🙏🙏🙏.
Parul ji you are great girl
भाई सौरभ द्वेदी कभी मेरे बिहार में भी आकर दहेज़ लोभियों को समझाइए 🙏🏻 यहां तो और समस्या है 😭
Bhai bihar me jada h
Bhai kabhi un ramdiyo ko bhi batao ki paisa ke liye kisi ladke se shadi nhi karna hai
@@kpgurjar3570 भाई बिहार में जिहाद नहीं,परंतु नेता लोग बुरा दिए हैं,वैसे भी बिहार के लोगों का मुकाबला पूरे दुनिया में कोई नहीं कर सकता ।
@@erabhimanyukumar1050 LP
Good speech
Parul ji ekdum straight forward, aur pura sahi baat...
Parul didi to bilkul serious hi ho gai😂😂😂😂😂
पारुल दीदी ROCKS 🤘🤘 उन्होंने कड़वी सच्चाई कह दी! सब जगह लड़कीयो को वैसे ही घूर घूर कर देखा जाता है!
Tum nae dhekte ho kya
@@Conquer..- itna time nhi h tumhaari trh nalla nhi hu
Dekhne aur sochne ka tari ka bhi alag alag hota h
Agree 👍
@R.S
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मैं तो बिना दहेज के दुल्हन ढूंढ रहा हूं मुझे दुल्हन नहीं मिल रही लड़की वाले का तो सरकारी नौकरी भाई मेरी प्राइवेट है
Ye dukh kahe khatam nhi hota re Faizal🙏
Kahi ni milegi ladki sarkari nokri chhin le kisi ki😃😃😃😃😃
Guys, we are already overpopulated. Please stay single and live a happy life for yourself.
I have a Nepalese guy as a cook, a domestic helper and sometimes I hire a male caretaker as well whenever required.
Life is easy, plz don't complicate it.
@@anewlife5846 what about sex life.....😀
दहेज का विरोध लड़किया करती हैं, और लड़के की माँ इसका समर्थन करती हैं।। दहेज के लिए लड़के और लड़की दोनों पक्ष जिम्मेदार है
India desperately needs to end the system of arrange marriages. It's good that dating culture is picking up in India or else we'll still be living in middle ages.
With all respect , u have such a great shitty mind boss... 😔
@@voldemort225 Who in their right mind will take the single most important decision on life purely based on luck
बहुत अच्छा संवाद था। सबने बेबाकी से जवाब दिया और समाज का प्रतिबिंब दिखाया
पारुल वहन जी ने १००% सत्य कहा । आज की जेनरेशन बहुत असभ्य हो गई है।हम भी यही हाल देखते है उसके लिए हम सभी पुरुष लोग जिम्मेदार हैं ।क्यू ना हम अपनी मां बहनों की तरह देखते हैं सभी को ।पारुल बहन 🙏🙏🙏इसके लिए हम खेद है।
Beautiful sharing 🌹❤🙏🏻
लड़की वाले नौकरी वाला दुल्हा ना खोजे खुद ही दहेज रुक जाएगी लेकिन ज्यादा जिम्मेदार लड़की वाले ही होते है लड़कों का ही रेट लगाते है
मजा आ गया सौरभ भैया सच मे एकदम लल्लनटॉप है 😍😍😍 🤘
Such me
saurabh sir ne jab dono ladkiyon ki baaton ko ye unka sach hai ye inka sach hai..
literally is baat par taali bajni chahiye thi...
hume sabki baat sunani chahiye..aur samjhni chahiye..
Saurabh Sir is the best...
U have to be a strong girl just to go market yeah right... And about family support so when they will not support u will change your pov when in pressure in future... Ofcoz u r right gal
36:20 wala pakka bhakt hai 😂😂
Monty Chaudhary to bahut Khush hoga 25 rs jo badh gye ganne pr😄
😀😀
जी 25 को नहीं बोला था मैने 50 तो बढते ही कम से कम
@@montychaudhary7896 75 से 100 तक तो बढ़ने चाहिए थे।
अभी किसान आंदोलन है और up में चुनाव है तब इन्होंने इतने बढ़ाए। मतलब साफ़ है अगर सरकार आ गयी तो अगले 4.5 साल फिर नही बढेगा दाम।
@@Radhika_chaudharyy ji ha
जी ये सही कहा आप ने जो सही है बो सही है गलत गलत ही है
While listing to Parul I thought that she was speaking her heart out.
Parul didi op ❤️❤️....Parul didi ne ekdum sahi kaha....ek ek chiz dahej k alwa v I can feel her pain....ek ladki hona aise samaj me asan nhi h🥺🥺
Aajkal sirf Ladki hi nahi Ladko ke liye bhi samaj mein asan nahi hai 🙏
Main thing is change in mindset of society
Are wait wait..... Society mtlb tum, hn tumhari hi baat kr rhi hun jo padh rhe ho comment!
Society mtlb ham log hi hote hain, koi aliens nhi hotee
Aise kitne examples dekhe ho jha ladka ghar ke kaam krta ho aur ladki bahar acchi salary kmati ho?? Kya aise ladke se koi bap saadi krna chahega apni beti ki??
Jb wo ameer ladka dhundega to fhir ladka ka bhau to bhada hi rhega na.... Ladkiya jb acche se mehnat krke equal position pr aajayengi tb hi koi ladka koi nhi bol payegaaa
Khud me change laoo dusroo ko bs blame mt kroo
Yha pr is class me ye log preparation kr rhi police ki but koi dedicated nhii hai... Koi running nhi krta haii aur fhir aise kamzor rhengi, accha job nhi rhega to koi kyu value kregaa??
Kamzor logo ki koi value nhi is world me, chahe wo ladka ho ya ladki.... Yhi jeevan ka kadwa sach hai
Dusroo ko blame krne se accha khudme change laaoo
Thoda sochna bs is baare me
Dhanyavaad 😊
@@dipalikumari3440 are bolna kya chahate ho😂
Very nice sir, ye video yuva-yuvation ko prerit karne ka sahayata karta hai sachmuch me.thank-you
Mind blowing
Parul ji
All the best u will definitely achieve it 🔥🇮🇳
राजनीति में शिक्षित और अच्छी छवि वाले नेता को चुनने से ही देश आगे बढ़ सकता है
Kejriwal ko chuna hai delhi walo ne....unka to kat gya
कोई जरूरी नहीं, पड़े लिखे ज्यादा बेईमान होते है।
@@farmers_official जी मैंने केवल शिक्षित के लिए नहीं कहा बल्कि शिक्षित के साथ साथ अच्छी छवि के लिए कहा है
अनपढ़ चोर से ज्यादा नुकसान पढ़ा लिखा चोर पहुंचाता है
Very nice interview...it should continue. . Students condfidence will come
9:15 Wah ! Garda Monty Bhaiya! Please tell me anybody Does Jat comes in Backward Class or Get Reservation 11:35 Launda Sarkari naukari pe hai 14:20 Sahi bat hai household tasks are also tough & they deserve respect 21:08 oo Bhai tham ja ye to ekdum form me aa gayi ! 34:00 Wow! Salute brother! But! Daroga ke liye koi age limit nahi hai kya 40:07 Nice Reply ! Jai Yogi Maharaj
धन्यवाद
@@montychaudhary7896 Monty became my crush as soon as you spoke for the first time I am gay I want a respectful reply from you what you and society still think about homosexuality
Main Parul didi ke baaton se bilkul satisfied hoon ,,, 90% girls ke saath aisa hi dekhne ko milta hai chahe woh comments ya ghoorne wali baat jo didi ne bataya hai aor chahe woh dowry wali baat ho ,,, aor yeh sbse bdi baat hoti hai ki sach bolne ki himmat honi chahiye ☺️☺️☺️👌👌👌👍👍👍👍👍🥰👌👍👌👌👌👌👌🥰👍👍,,,, excellent 👌👌 video
स्टूडेंट़ो का ओपिनियन लेना बहुत जरूरी है ✌️
According to M.Premchand(Gila story)
👉 girl 's education+girl's job= Drowry dismiss
Agreed
लड़कियों को ऐसे लड़के ही क्यों चाहिए, जिसके पास धन-दौलत हो, दूल्हा सरकारी नौकरी वाला हो...हम गरीब लड़कों का क्या होगा
पारुल आपने जो भी कहा है सत्य कहा है और मैं आशा करता हूं कि आप ऐसे ही बोलती रहें समाज के लिए
Ladkiyan Jab SAS Banti Hain To Apne ladke ki shaadi Mein Apni Bahu se Dahej Lene Ki Baat Karte Hain yah
Awesome Group Discussion.!!
Absolutely agree with you pandit ji.!!
Parul di akdam sahi bol rhi hai aap daroga banane ke bad jarur sapport kariye girlls ko 👍👍👍👍👍
Sir apke video ke chalte mene class miss kr di
Bahut achi information dete ho sir aap
Or channel ke comparison me.
ये चौधरी क्लास है क्या?🤣😂
टीचर चौधरी, बच्चे भी चौधरी🤣😂
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Jativad 😂
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