I cleared all my USMLE exams with scoting in top percentile after becoming doctor in India. Would have gotten post graduation at a decent Hospital. But I left it my USMLE journey. And have started my NEET PG preparation ( Indian post-graduation exams for doctors). Your video had been of great help. Keep making videos, with much more deeper thoughts. Grate salute to you.
Im so glad to see you came back to India and when you said yahan dhool hai traffic ho par sukoon yahin milta hai. ❤️ true sir, I agree with the point that kids raised in India are far smarter and learn to deal with pressure and hard work! Very very good decision.
You summarized everyone’s feelings and emotions in words who are outside of India. After 12 years in Canada, we are planning to move back. Our daughter is 2.5 years old. It’s the best time to make this move. Thank you for this video.
Thanks for the videos. Very useful for who are in dilemma. As you rightly said it is a chakravyuh and we want to come out of it. Beautifully explained.
Thank you for posting this and your channel. 13:20 onwards really struck a chord. I’ve shared this with my friends now. Really appreciate Pawan ji your honesty and you taking the time out to make these videos. Really good to see your daughter happy in India after living in the US!
Sir I’m in Canada n analyse this trap daily in my mind. I have huge respect for u after watching this- as u spoke from heart, bahut kam logo maine itne guts hote hai 🙏
Dedollarisation? What are you smoking mate? India continues to make progress but it will be a while before India comes to being developed. Indians returning to India is no doubt a great thing.
it's actually sad that we middle class lndians had to look west few decades ago as our nation had no leadership no vision and hence we kept exporting our iq to the west
Hi Pawan , After hearing you looks like we have been pressing the snooze button for 10 years 😢 You are so clear and hats off to you . Each and every thing you said is so true .Emotional well being is something that kids are missing out and it is so crucial for their development. You are right that this is a trap , we keep delaying and delaying till it’s too late . You spoke from the heart , I agree with kids angle which is what me and my spouse are facing . How did you convince your daughters Especially Elder one to move back ? My only child girl is 10 but not open to returning to India but happy to visit . Please advise . Keep making more videos , you are helping those stuck in this dilemma of returning back 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks Jyoti ji for your comment and appreciation. To be honest with you I was also confused and in dilemma so went through exactly what are you going through🙏 I told my daughter honestly what we are trying to achieve and we need to help each other during this process. I am thinking about making another video about similar topic as few other requests are there.
🙏thank you Pawan . That would be great and eagerly looking forward to that . Adjusting to India especially from a girls perspective on how daily life has changed for them would be wonderful. Thanks for taking the time to respond !
Hi Pavan bhai. I am 40+ ( soon will be 41). Come from a small-town in India. Started job in Mumbai and left India in 2008. Till now i always have the zeal and inner wish to go back, but was missing the trigger. Almost simar to you. Things changed recently. I am getting the trigger now.. i feel my root is getting disconnected slowly. I have already lost my parents, but siblings and in laws are thr. If i want to go back to my home town, how can i cope with the job? How did you manage to get your IT job in Indor?
Hi Iquest, Thanks for sharing your journey. Return to India will come to every NRIs mind given the situation and trigger. IT job in home town comes with adjustments, which mean low pay. I am also not in home town and trying to be in home town as much as possible, but being in India gives you flexibility to go to home town and meet people more often then from US.
@@no-oneknows9236 thanks for your prompt response. I have many options in bangalore and hyderabad. That will be a better situation than in abroad. But I have the fear that life in these places will still keep me far from my town. If kids start living there, moving them again to my home town would be difficult. I feel that kids can have a stronger root and attachment in their home town.
@ravishingravi Yes, I agree. It could create agin a chakravyuh. I am getting myself prepared. We decided to go back in the next educational season, be it bangalore or my hometown, wherever i get whatever role.
@@iquestfind-ut1qm I am in the same phase. I have to move Bengaluru and life will be good. But mind playing tricks. I dont have children. I have possible cititizenship if I stay for 1 year. But then that was not my goal. It can be a challenge to let go at times. Soometimes, the intangibles in your environment change you. "Moh" ban jaata hai. Its not just this decision. In life, we keep getting entangled.
If NRI is a citizen of Australia or any country they are living in, they definitely can come and see if they like to live India after spending few years outside. Few of my friends are US citizen and living in India for a while and their kids going to college in India as well but some have returned back to US after 4-5 years in India. So different people different priorities but unless you try you won’t know at the same time leaving comfort zone and readjusting to new city would have some challenges. But again you are born here so you will figure out and would love to be back. Thanks Nisha for your comment. Please let me know if I can help with anything else.
Hi Rahul ji, Sorry my intention was not to make you feel bad about your decision. USA or any other country you live in is equally good but I was not able to fit and was not content. II am just sharing my experiences and it may help you or someone else in some ways.🙏 Again the decisions we took to go to abroad was right at that time , to become financially better and career was. Today we may need to take some other decision based on conditions and our feelings. Thanks for your comment and hope you get what looking for.
Thanks for your comment @vinu552 , There is no place like hometown and you would always feel alienated in other towns but that feeling exemplified when living in other countries. You won’t be able to relate to many things in other countries like you would do in India.
@@no-oneknows9236 Yes sir i totally understand the way u feel in other countries... As it is a totally different world....at young age one can cope up .but after one reach 40..or up..and once family starts growing over there.. feel hard to live over there..one or other day one wants,( in worst sinerio atlist before dying) return to Home country...
You summarized everyone’s feelings and emotions in words who are outside of India. After 12 years in Canada, we are planning to move back. Our daughter is 2.5 years old. It’s the best time to make this move. Thank you for this video.
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I cleared all my USMLE exams with scoting in top percentile after becoming doctor in India. Would have gotten post graduation at a decent Hospital. But I left it my USMLE journey. And have started my NEET PG preparation ( Indian post-graduation exams for doctors). Your video had been of great help. Keep making videos, with much more deeper thoughts. Grate salute to you.
Thanks 🙏
Im so glad to see you came back to India and when you said yahan dhool hai traffic ho par sukoon yahin milta hai. ❤️ true sir, I agree with the point that kids raised in India are far smarter and learn to deal with pressure and hard work! Very very good decision.
Thanks Sehaj ji for your comment and appreciation.
Nothing like mera desh.
You summarized everyone’s feelings and emotions in words who are outside of India. After 12 years in Canada, we are planning to move back. Our daughter is 2.5 years old. It’s the best time to make this move. Thank you for this video.
Bhout he ghazab awaaz aur delivery hai!
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Thanks for the videos. Very useful for who are in dilemma. As you rightly said it is a chakravyuh and we want to come out of it. Beautifully explained.
Godlike
You talk from your heart.
Thanks Latika ji 🙏
Mann ki baat kar di aapne!!
Thanks Tushar bhai 🙏
Eye Opening. Dil baat kahi apne.
Thanks appreciate it 🙏
Amazing talk sir. I have true respect for you
Thanks @superstar 😀, nice name .. All the very best to you and family.
Thanks a lot for making these videos sir.
Thanks 🙏
Thank you for posting this and your channel. 13:20 onwards really struck a chord. I’ve shared this with my friends now. Really appreciate Pawan ji your honesty and you taking the time out to make these videos. Really good to see your daughter happy in India after living in the US!
Thanks Kishor appreciate it.
Sir I’m in Canada n analyse this trap daily in my mind. I have huge respect for u after watching this- as u spoke from heart, bahut kam logo maine itne guts hote hai 🙏
Thanks 🙏 , All the very best.
Loved your perspective in terms of things. So rightly summed
Thanks Rahul
True and agree with you.
we are in 2023...the process of dedollarisation has begun quietly and next 10 years l see more snd more lndians returning back....
Dedollarisation? What are you smoking mate? India continues to make progress but it will be a while before India comes to being developed. Indians returning to India is no doubt a great thing.
@@AkshatJha DE dollarisation is part of the ongoing geopolitical shift from unipolar to multipolar world its a slow process but irreversible
Exact feeling and realization....
Thanks Praveen
Thanks Dear ...
bahut sahi bola , mien kud video bannane walla tha but i dont think apseh acha bana paunga u have covered all things
Thanks 🙏 Please share your perspective it may help people.
Thanks a ton
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thanks alot!
You're welcome!
So awesome !
Thanks!!
we are living in times when after ww2 ....the world system is undergoing a change ...being in lndia is a better bet
Its called Matrix Brother. We all are stuck in it
it's actually sad that we middle class lndians had to look west few decades ago as our nation had no leadership no vision and hence we kept exporting our iq to the west
Hi Pawan ,
After hearing you looks like we have been pressing the snooze button for 10 years 😢 You are so clear and hats off to you . Each and every thing you said is so true .Emotional well being is something that kids are missing out and it is so crucial for their development. You are right that this is a trap , we keep delaying and delaying till it’s too late .
You spoke from the heart , I agree with kids angle which is what me and my spouse are facing . How did you convince your daughters Especially Elder one to move back ? My only child girl is 10 but not open to returning to India but happy to visit . Please advise .
Keep making more videos , you are helping those stuck in this dilemma of returning back 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks Jyoti ji for your comment and appreciation.
To be honest with you I was also confused and in dilemma so went through exactly what are you going through🙏
I told my daughter honestly what we are trying to achieve and we need to help each other during this process.
I am thinking about making another video about similar topic as few other requests are there.
🙏thank you Pawan . That would be great and eagerly looking forward to that . Adjusting to India especially from a girls perspective on how daily life has changed for them would be wonderful. Thanks for taking the time to respond !
Can you make a video on how much many is enough to come back?
I would say you should atleast have a 1 lakh rupees per month to live a good life
It was amazing listening to you. Where can i get in touch with you?
Hi Vedant , thanks for your comments.
Let’s start at nooneknowsr2i@gmail.com
but anyways very few get green card and citizenship...majority are on h1b...so always on tenterhooks till the employer wants you.
You not rong you're so right
Thanks Bhavin bhai 🙏
I dream of settling in Usa. I have never been there but it is tempting . Pls enlighten why u went to usa. What are pros and cons etx?
Thanks for your comment. What you do and how are you planning to go to USA?
Hi Pavan bhai.
I am 40+ ( soon will be 41). Come from a small-town in India. Started job in Mumbai and left India in 2008. Till now i always have the zeal and inner wish to go back, but was missing the trigger. Almost simar to you.
Things changed recently. I am getting the trigger now.. i feel my root is getting disconnected slowly. I have already lost my parents, but siblings and in laws are thr.
If i want to go back to my home town, how can i cope with the job? How did you manage to get your IT job in Indor?
Hi Iquest, Thanks for sharing your journey.
Return to India will come to every NRIs mind given the situation and trigger.
IT job in home town comes with adjustments, which mean low pay.
I am also not in home town and trying to be in home town as much as possible, but being in India gives you flexibility to go to home town and meet people more often then from US.
@@no-oneknows9236 thanks for your prompt response.
I have many options in bangalore and hyderabad. That will be a better situation than in abroad. But I have the fear that life in these places will still keep me far from my town. If kids start living there, moving them again to my home town would be difficult.
I feel that kids can have a stronger root and attachment in their home town.
@@iquestfind-ut1qmI dare say your fear is creating another Chakravyuh.
@ravishingravi Yes, I agree. It could create agin a chakravyuh. I am getting myself prepared. We decided to go back in the next educational season, be it bangalore or my hometown, wherever i get whatever role.
@@iquestfind-ut1qm I am in the same phase. I have to move Bengaluru and life will be good. But mind playing tricks. I dont have children. I have possible cititizenship if I stay for 1 year. But then that was not my goal. It can be a challenge to let go at times. Soometimes, the intangibles in your environment change you. "Moh" ban jaata hai. Its not just this decision. In life, we keep getting entangled.
What’s your thought on someone who has citizen ship of Australia?
If NRI is a citizen of Australia or any country they are living in, they definitely can come and see if they like to live India after spending few years outside.
Few of my friends are US citizen and living in India for a while and their kids going to college in India as well but some have returned back to US after 4-5 years in India.
So different people different priorities but unless you try you won’t know at the same time leaving comfort zone and readjusting to new city would have some challenges.
But again you are born here so you will figure out and would love to be back.
Thanks Nisha for your comment. Please let me know if I can help with anything else.
Thanks for your reply .Truely appreciate your videos .
After hearing you,i felt like I am loosing my values for some extra dollars
Hi Rahul ji,
Sorry my intention was not to make you feel bad about your decision.
USA or any other country you live in is equally good but I was not able to fit and was not content.
II am just sharing my experiences and it may help you or someone else in some ways.🙏
Again the decisions we took to go to abroad was right at that time , to become financially better and career was. Today we may need to take some other decision based on conditions and our feelings.
Thanks for your comment and hope you get what looking for.
@@no-oneknows9236 Thanks..I understood 😊
I am in India only but away from my home town.... living in different state due to job ...but i feel same as u...as if i live in foreign country...
Thanks for your comment @vinu552 , There is no place like hometown and you would always feel alienated in other towns but that feeling exemplified when living in other countries.
You won’t be able to relate to many things in other countries like you would do in India.
@@no-oneknows9236 Yes sir i totally understand the way u feel in other countries... As it is a totally different world....at young age one can cope up .but after one reach 40..or up..and once family starts growing over there.. feel hard to live over there..one or other day one wants,( in worst sinerio atlist before dying) return to Home country...
I watched your videos repeatedly....i. feel sukoon listening.. someone speaking from the heart......
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Thank Christ......don't forget to renounce your foreign citizenship!
Thank you Sir for this video. If I can talk to you….that would be great. If it’s ok…please share your number.
Thanks for your comment and understanding.
You can reach out to me at nooneknowsr2i@gmail.com and we can go from there.
You summarized everyone’s feelings and emotions in words who are outside of India. After 12 years in Canada, we are planning to move back. Our daughter is 2.5 years old. It’s the best time to make this move. Thank you for this video.
Thanks appreciate your comment.