High School Girls REVEAL SECRETS to Muslim Parents
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ก.ค. 2024
- OnePath Network sat down with Muslim Parents who read out anonymous confessions from Muslim High School Girls in Sydney, Australia.
This is what took place.
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I'm about to be a freshmen in high school and a revert going to a public school. I'm making dua every day that I will be guide threw the fitnah of high school and that I will not be tempted to do any thing Haram. Also, I hope I have a muslim friend in high school In Sha Allah 🤲🙂
Keep this in mind, no amount of pleasure in this world is worth loosing Allah’s mercy , through his mercy only do we all enter paradise . May he keep our hearts firm upon his guidance.
Ameen
Whaa! How d'you find Islam at such a young age!
May Allah Sobhano keep you steadfast and safe from all haram things. Always be mindful that Allah is watching and angels are recording each deed.❤❤
In shaa Allah you’ll get whatever you hope and wish for
The world became dirty and ugly, so parents must have a great connection with their children. Teach them and talk to them and show them what's happening in our country and teach them what Islam is the real Islam ☪️
Or just go into a Islamic country with Sharia law. Why you all prefer to live in western countries if you don't like them? Nobody force you!
Yes! The real Islam, not the culture Islam
The real solution is don't send them to the fitnah otherwise cry
@@DontOpenThisChannel agreed!
@@Avana20By "Culture Islam" you mean "How Western policies perceive Islam"?
As 20 year old girl living in this western society, I have seen so much and it makes my stomach turn upside down I’ve seen people close to me normalizing haram or making me feel bad about practicing my Deen. If you really want to protect your children from this western world then please have sabr on them and teach them Islam in a positive way and really have Islam in their lives. Because I had to find Islam on my own and I was really struggling with depression and nobody in my life knew about this and even if I told them they would just say that “ depression doesn’t exist for a teenager”, pleas don’t be that parent we children are also human know that!
Ma Sha Allah
I'm sorry you didn't find the support you needed at the time, I understand the severity of this situation to a personal level as me myself felt at times as if I the external influences of my corrupt society are hindering my own faith and my health! It's really tuff being on a self-bargane trying to distinguish between what's right and wrong even through the controversy of the sociatal norms. On the other hand I think this is why Allah swts words speak more truth to me then any other ideology out there, its the only firm and doubtless truth that I can come back to time and time again to affirm my beliefs. Even when there is known I feel close to convey how I feel and despite how much I yearned someone would have helped; I still learned and know that Allah swt is truly you're only guider and sufficer. I hope your doing alright now ❤
@@mxrl_413 exactly without Allah I would not have gone far, Alhamdulilah makes me not feel alone. Thankyou 🤍
Even though i am not a girl, yet i am passed your age so I have been through what you are going through, I did things what may make your stomach turn but Alhamdulillah I haven’t done enough to go astray, I have had enough fear of Allah to put a limit on myself and finally my Rabb guided me.
One advice I have for you is to learn sth very simple. Why or if Islam is the only true Guidance in the world? Look at the other religions or ideologies like liberalism and see how contradictory they are and how consistent Islam actually is. What this will do is that, it will strengthen your faith, you will have 100% confidence in your deen so you won’t “feel bad” no matter how much they try to make you feel bad, rather you will be confident and will know how to make them question themselves instead. You may feel bad for them but will never feel bad for practicing your deen In Shah Allah. Though you will be labelled a lot of things like terrorist, radical Muslim and whatnot lol, but it won’t bother you cause in your heart you will be content and confident that you are on the right path Alhamdulillah.
"Depression doesn't exist for a teenager" is the exact thing I heard as well. I was told i was too young and have any "real" struggle to be depressed. When I was diagnosed with clinical major depression suddenly everyone started to tell me it was a teenager phase and I'd snap out of it. Now I'm in my 20s and still depressed and constantly told, "Depression is a thing that hormonal teenagers have, you're too big for that!". People will always find a way to invalidate you. Just try your best to strengthen your connection with Allah (s.w.t). Only you and Allah (s.w.t) know your struggles and you don't need anyone's confirmation to make it real.
May Allah protect all of us from the evil of this world Ameen 🤲🏻🤲🏼🤲🏽🤲🏾🤲🏿
Aren't we the heedless ones? Haven't we forgotten the fact that we all will die one day and we all will be raised again on the day of Qayamat? If we are not the heedless ones, then; Aren't we jealous of our own siblings and friends
Aren't we worshiping idols (watching idol worshipers movies)Don't we marry our children against their will?Don't we cheat in our exams at school and college level?Don't we stare at women?Don't we involve ourselves in Pornography and masturbation and above that, proudly advertise it?Don't we count having many boyfriends and girlfriends as status symbols?Don't we destroy our lives in the name of love?Don't we dance in mixed gatherings in weddings?Don't we pray Salaat but ignore the rights of Zakat and Khums?Don't we gossip uselessly about everything and everyone behind their backs?Don't we usurp the rights of others?Aren't we involved in usury?Don't we respect people due to the amount of wealth, power and fame they possess, and not piety?Don't we use force against the weak and the poor?Aren't we rude with our elders and make fun of someone who is different from us?Don't we sell things at a higher price to take advantage of the situation and earn more money?Don't we hate each other, kill each other in the name of religion?Don't we visit darbaars and mazaars of Qalanders etc to pay homage to someone who has no role in deen, and as a bonus, witness prostitution and selling of drugs which take place at such places usually?Don't we give normal people and Sahabas, men who are answerable for their own actions, the rank of the Ahlulbayt, the people on who we send our durood?Don't we follow mullahs blindly, shia or Sunni, and believe everything which suits us, without any verification?
Aameen Allahumma Aameen
Ameen 🤲🏽
Ameen thumma ameen.
Ameen
My niece is 14yo. She told me that her classmate identifies herself as her dog. She even brings a dog bowl to school so she can eat from that. And the school supports her for that. The schools here are so scared of being hated by certain people that they are willing to change. Some even forced other kids to follow this ridiculous thing to "show support". Its absurd
Crazy
This is the stuff im so worried about i wont disclose my age but im still in the education system and ive seen too much of this nonsense.
Please please don't just shield your kids, teach them what is wrong and crosses the limits and what is right
@@vdyojunkie1229 I was homeschooled in kindergarten, then went to public school k-9th, from 2013 onwards, the remainder of freshmen year till the end. Considering that's when it first started getting bad, I'm glad I left.
I’m 14 and these are probably therians. Basically they have a theory that in their past life they weren’t a human and they identify as the animal they theorized they were in their past life
oh hell naw😬😬
I am shocked 😳 I am not from Australia, I didn't expect the first confession from a private Islamic high school!
They are not talking about Islamic high schools but about public schools
@@abdellatifhadfi9097 1:02 it's written "private Islamic high school"
tip to help with this filthy world: never be surprised, always prepare for the worst but also always hope for the best.
this helped me and still does where growing up life is far away from the best but that is ok most people don't have a good life.
@@abdellatifhadfi9097 1st two are private Islamic school, rest are public
this is some funny. islamic school they are enrolled in!
I'm glad we can talk more about these issues in an Islamic way, because it needs to be addressed. May Allah guide us all and heal the girls mentioned, amen
Girls are equally to be blamed, wake up and speak the haq
I seek refuge in Allah from the evil of that which He has created.
Surat Al-Falaq
Indeed he has made the evil as a test for us and our deen
Allahumma Aameen
Shayteen is everywhere
@@Allahjannah sure they are, hence why we should always seek Allah’s protection from them.
I took my daughter out of public school in high school and moved to a Muslim country and now she finishing her high school online, these schools are scary and are not a place for our kids if we care about them
My parents did the same thing and I'm very thankfull. Even as a parent you can't know everything that happens at school... May Allah reward you and please give your daughter the needed support and love as she is homeschooled now... Something I wish to tell my parents one day in shaa Allah ❤
Which country? Can anyone explain and help me as well please 🙏🏻
@@Aven2025
Tukey, bosnia, Qatar, kuwait etc are good options
Pray for me and my husband before we have Children we're scared of how Children are these days😢
good decision!
Hi assalam alaykoum I have 5 children I live in France I have never send them to school . They are all home-schooled and I have no regrets, I am their teacher. Though I wasn't excellent in every subject, I fought to understand everything so that I could teach them. Today my eldest has a degree in biochemistry.May ALlah protect all of our children. Please don't send them , fight for them, teach them if you can or find someone you trust to teach them via the internet
Its the best decision u could make for ur child
Mashallah
@@Confidantqueen yes I m sure may Allah protect our children
Allahuma Barik
in a way, schools are healthy because humans have to be exposed to other environments so they don’t suffer when they have to go into it. although, what’s going on in a lot of schools is disturbing and it isn’t okay, we shouldn’t have to hide children away from places like school, it’s supposed to be a place where we feel safe. it’s best to teach your children to tell you everything that happens, and teach them that telling the truth doesn’t mean you’ll be punished.
It's scary...may Allah pour His mercy upon all the Muslims!
Ameen Ameen 😢
Ameen
Ameen Thum'mah Allahumma Ameen Yaa Rab'bal Aalameen
Shayteen is real
the father almost made me cry because he imgined it was his daughter our muslim teen and kids are going through alot in school May Allah protecr them Ameen
Islam is the only religion which will protect you and your family.
Facts
Jesus is king 👑
Worship one God same way as Jesus worshipped and prostrated.
This is very sad .
Glad my children are in their 20s. No grandchildren yet .
I'm not a muslim but been seriously considering it for last 5 uears .
Think the uk has lost it morals .
People are lost and don't seem to care about right and wrong anymore.
@@uscitizen6623No
If you let your child loose on the dunya, you also let the dunya loose on your child.
That! Absolutely correct
Don't blame them sometimes it's the society that gives off negative energy and it influences the youth.
**poetic snaps** ... yes.
And I thought only my german school was like that... Astaghfuru Allah I could cry about this ummah for hours. May Allah help us all.
What's the situation in germany?
@@nusratjahansamia7099 trust me, the situation in Germany is better that the situation in much of the so called "islamic world". I live in a Muslim country and the youngs and also the adults here are unhinged. adultery is rampant, I know a lot of men who cheat on their wives and vice versa. In schools, they call boys and girls who do not associate with the opposite gender sick and mentally ill. trust me Germany is better than a thousand Muslim country.
@@tanmi628 did you live in germany?
@@nusratjahansamia7099 Part of their normal education is showing us films and videos or pictures about astagfuru Allah I won't say it. It's just super normal for them and I'm abnormal because I would never watch that stuff. They even start teaching things they shouldn't teach kids in grade 3. And the school next to mine had many many arabs who were also 'muslims'. They were smoking, buying and selling and doing dr.ugs and ofc every boy had his ten blondies and every girl had her ten boys. Lgbtq is spread like horrible and we're not allowed to say anything about it. We moved out of Germany shortly before 7th of October. Now Germany is arresting people for speaking up for palestine. And racism, discrimination and islamophobia are normal daily things. Not to forget what conversations I had to hear on a daily basis on a normal school day from the girls and classmates in general. Like I really don't want to know. Alhamdulillah I was raised right and I know how to follow my religion and stay on my deen and akhlaq. Many 'muslims' seem to have forgotten their religion in their home country. 💔
@@nusratjahansamia7099 Part of their normal education is showing us films and videos or pictures about astagfuru Allah I won't say it. It's just super normal for them and I'm abnormal because I would never watch that stuff. They even start teaching things they shouldn't teach kids in grade 3. And the school next to mine had many many arabs who were also 'muslims'. They were smoking, buying and selling and doing dr.ugs and ofc every boy had his ten blondies and every girl had her ten boys. Lgbtq is spread like horrible and we're not allowed to say anything about it. We moved out of Germany shortly before 7th of October. Now Germany is arresting people for speaking up for palestine. And racism, discrimination and islamophobia are normal daily things. Not to forget what conversations I had to hear on a daily basis on a normal school day from the girls and classmates in general. Like I really don't want to know. Alhamdulillah I was raised right and I know how to follow my religion and stay on my deen and akhlaq. Many 'muslims' seem to have forgotten their religion in their home country. 💔
Sadly many parents can't be bothered with connecting with their children. We commonly hear 'kids these days!', I can honestly say 'parents these days!!!'. Parents don't engage with their kids, they cant be bothered raising them properly and give them full access to social media from a very young age.
Parents didn't engage with their kids in prior eras either. The difference is that nowadays the parents and kids are exposed to the most extreme filth imaginable.
That's not to say such stuff didnt happen in previous eras but it was not recorded and put out for the world to see.
The minds of children and parents are polluted nowadays. It's very hard to overcome this. The only way is a complete ban on the internet. Even in Muslim countries, both the parents and children are exposed to the filth
Exactly
Every child is a reflection of their parents/guardians behavior and their actions. Kids need a framework to copy and grow up in their early years. So if their caretakers are corrupt, so will they be.
My parents are too busy arguing with each other or yelling at us kids for not being like their friends kids etc. I actually forgot that there are kids out there that can confide to their parents...lol could never be me. If I told them I once tried a vape and had an online boyfriend they'd just belt me. Probably wouldn't have done any of that if I had parents I could connect with emotionally. But I'm over it and I don't care that I don't have that. I have lots of other things so I'm not going to cry about what I don't have
@@Kepler10b
That's really sad .
How old r u?
I don't know how parents can be like that .
I have had similar experiences
{وَإِذَا قِيلَ لَهُمْ لا تُفْسِدُوا فِي الأَرْضِ قَالُوا إِنَّمَا نَحْنُ مُصْلِحُونَ * أَلا إِنَّهُمْ هُمُ الْمُفْسِدُونَ وَلَكِنْ لا يَشْعُرُونَ} [البقرة:١١ - ١٢].
Aren't we the heedless ones? Haven't we forgotten the fact that we all will die one day and we all will be raised again on the day of Qayamat? If we are not the heedless ones, then; Aren't we jealous of our own siblings and friends
Aren't we worshiping idols (watching idol worshipers movies)Don't we marry our children against their will?Don't we cheat in our exams at school and college level?Don't we stare at women?Don't we involve ourselves in Pornography and masturbation and above that, proudly advertise it?Don't we count having many boyfriends and girlfriends as status symbols?Don't we destroy our lives in the name of love?Don't we dance in mixed gatherings in weddings?Don't we pray Salaat but ignore the rights of Zakat and Khums?Don't we gossip uselessly about everything and everyone behind their backs?Don't we usurp the rights of others?Aren't we involved in usury?Don't we respect people due to the amount of wealth, power and fame they possess, and not piety?Don't we use force against the weak and the poor?Aren't we rude with our elders and make fun of someone who is different from us?Don't we sell things at a higher price to take advantage of the situation and earn more money?Don't we hate each other, kill each other in the name of religion?Don't we visit darbaars and mazaars of Qalanders etc to pay homage to someone who has no role in deen, and as a bonus, witness prostitution and selling of drugs which take place at such places usually?Don't we give normal people and Sahabas, men who are answerable for their own actions, the rank of the Ahlulbayt, the people on who we send our durood?Don't we follow mullahs blindly, shia or Sunni, and believe everything which suits us, without any verification?
@@Hellfire... Surah Az-Zumar (Chapter 39), Verse 53:
Say, "O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah . Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful."
Surah Al-Hijr (Chapter 15), Verse 49:
[O Muḥammad], inform My servants that it is I who am the Forgiving, the Merciful,
your last lines are dangerous brother be careful, companions(may Allah be pleased with them) of the messenger (peace be upon him) were the starting of the last revelation of Islaam that Allah willed, Allah has given some of them paradise and forgiven their future sins and they got the message when they were alive in this world ,these are the people who saw and learnt and heard directly from the prophet of Allah, i.e., Muhammad(peace and blessings be upon him),Quraan has verses about their affairs. If they are "some man" then who are you or me, why should people learn from you or me? yes scholars should be trustworthy and information should be authentic and when we know what is more authentic we should follow it generally and should back it up with evidence and if we are laymen we have to follow a trusted person in knowledge or more than one trusted scholar or daees to recheck until we gain some knowledge IN SHAA ALLAH.
@@Hellfire...Facts ❤
@@Hellfire...These are straight up facts
Yes, we do all these
Sadly, unfortunately
“Whoever asks Allah (SWT) Paradise three times (Allahuma inni as’aluka Al Jannah) Paradise says: ‘O Allah, admit him into Paradise’, and whoever seeks refuge from the Fire three times (Allahumma ajirni minan naar), the Fire says: ‘O Allah, save him from the Fire.'” - [Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 2572]
Also say: ‘A’udhu bika minan naar’
meaning “I seek refuge in You (Allah) from the Fire (Hell).”
Honestly people who just quote scripture feel so pretentious.
@@alyzak.8997 Hey, I get how it might come off that way. For us, sharing these quotes is just a way to remind each other of our faith and stay connected to our beliefs. It’s not about showing off, just about helping each other out. Hope that makes sense.
Thanks for the reminder, and don't listen to them, I'm plenty grateful when I see these kind of comments
The problem in Islamic schools in the western countries comes from families that don't give their children any Deen tarbiyah 😢. They are not practicing Muslims but they expect the Islamic school to culture their children. Children whom are exposed to fitna in their upbringing, unfortunately pass it onto other students in school. Problematic students whom have been exposed to unmoral behavior in public schools cause a humongous disturbance when they enroll in an Islamic school. One rotten apple will affect all the good apples. I volunteered for 10 years, witnessed it with my own eyes. Parents please do your job, connect with your child from day one! No one is going to raise your child for you. Never ever allow sleepovers and always attend functions with them. Remind them that they go to school to get an education and to keep socialization professional. Become your child's friend and keep them occupied, but please don't let down your guard. If possible always drop and pick your children from schools yourselves. May Allah swt make it easy for all of us.
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Assalam Aleykum. Peace be upon you. You are absolutely right! My children do not attend an Islamic public school, but they go to Sunday school at our local mosque. I once volunteered at another Islamic Sunday school and noticed the same thing. It feels like some parents treat it as a recreational party, dropping off their kids so they can run errands. Some parents, especially women, don't show respect for the mosque as they are poorly and inappropriately dressed when dropping off their kids. We always have to remind them to dress their little girls more appropriately. It's disheartening to see parents disengage from their role. May Allah help us understand that we send our kids to these Islamic schools to nurture the good values we instill in them at home, as nurturing should start from the home. May Allah assist us parents in doing our best for our kids. Ameen Ya Rab
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Ameen
Agree completely. The difference is very apparent which children receive Deeni tarbiyah at home and which ones do not. It cannot be stressed enough how crucial it is for all parents of children at every age and stage to immerse themselves in learning and practicing Deen themselves first.
Get every child to read Quran in the english translation from early on as well, a few verses daily.
may Allah protect our sisters
And brothers too ameen
@@Freetoughts why do you always have to do gender war?
@@nusratjahansamia7099 this is no gender war. I’m a muslima and I wish my brothers protection too. What is wrong with that? Do you know how many bad things happen to little boys and men too?
All of us insha allah 🤲
@@Freetoughts haha, you saying it as a female yourself gave him/her good response sister, she taught it is a war where clearly it is a good dua, ameen. May Allah guide me and all of us,ameen.
MashaAllah, I love these type of content. Some of these conversations are really uncomfortable, but need to be had in our community, considering the state of this world. We need to be better family members, neighbours, and community members - especially to the vulnerable youth.
No school is safe things happen in schools that are out of our control and a lot of the times kids don’t want to talk to their parents about these things because they are afraid of judgement and punishment right away. Parents living in the west if you can homeschool your kids we cant shield them from the world but private school or not I have heard and seen horrible disgusting things. Also ensure your kids can always talk to you about anything that happens or people that make them feel uncomfortable its seriously so important. May Allah guide us and grant us righteous offspring ameen💔💔
OMG, theres a lot of fitnah. Especially for Muslim boys that are in public school especially Middle school or high school its very hard for them to lower there Gaze WALLAHI it is! When I'm in my school and my school is a very very good school and I like my school but the everywhere I look in my school there half naked people walking. Look up they are there, look down and you will see there half naked legs, look to the right side you see them, look left and you see them and if you look at high up you will see there hair and all there makeup on there face so it's basically impossible to lower your gaze and as Muslims boys, Boys have a bigger tempt of temptation then girls that's why girls are asked to cover but boys are asked to lower there gaze. Girls don't like to look at stuff as much instead they like it when they look beautiful and boys LIKE what they look at and they love it so much but they don't care as much if people are looking at them and how they look and that's why Girls have to cover themselves completely and boys have to completely lower there gaze. Muslim boys in High School want to get married but they can't because it's not the appropriate time to get married and there still studying. But because of the Fitnah and the tempt for your desires and your haram temptations is the reason why they want to do haram. Wallahi it's the hardest thing to fight over your haram temptations.
If you can like I will appreciate it because it took me a while to write this but not that long where it took too long.
Teach your children what is wrong and right and help them have good friends.
Don't stop or limit them from the world but teach them whats the right thing.
Inshallah everything will turn oit fine.
Islam is growing , we are incredibly enabled nowadays.
Problem is that, that parents dont speak and don't teach their kids, u can hear haram this haram that without explanation, teach them about these days teen-agers problems, politics, how solve problem,how recognise enemies and even how defence themselves. And u not just a parent provider ur protector as well in all kinda different way
Its funny to think its the parents fault. Every school child who has such experiences has a parent who thinks it can never be their child
I didn't say it's parents fault first, I said it's a problem because we as parents don't give full attention to our kids, myself raising 2 teenagers so when I say Ik what I say, I want to protect my kids. If U do care about Ur child U LL do the same, obviously kids make mistakes but from that they can learn more and parents too.
I agree
@@aamirkhan6692to be fair khabib was right
How much Time do you spend with your parents?
You go 10 hours everyday and indoctrinated by the school
And then only a few hours which you spend with parents or you don't because you do hw and stay with friends
Pray for me and my husband as we want Children but we're scared with all what we see and hear😢
I wonder why muslim in west don't run private girls schools and universities where muslim values and science will be tought.
Muslim community in west isn't too small.
Mostly moved west with an inferiority complex and impressed by white mans society
It wouldn't be allowed because the West wants boys and girls together and would be considered discrimination, otherwise!
They will not allow it to happen. They want the next generation to tolerate everything, stand for nothing, and say yes to everything. This way, when you only follow your desires, you are incredibly easy to be controlled fully by the system.
That is exactly what some of these schools were.check the last one!
And gal's schoolks and unis in muslim countries are rife with 🌈 activities
Ive been sexually harassed in childhood many times (by family members also) and i never shared this w anyone at that time bcs i was scared and confused but now i cant gather the courage just imagining how much painful it'd be for my parents to feel that they failed in protecting me. I wish i had the courage to tell this to them.
Same. I know they’d feel guilty that’s why i have kept this thing to myself.
I'm so sorry this happened to you sister. You seem like a great daughter ❤
@@hajirapvtltdSister please be careful of following kpop. A lot of sisters are becoming 🌈 because of it. And your past is an added concern.
@@Randomvids084 Hey listen! I just like kpop music. Im not into lgbtq stuff. Im muslim & i know lgbtq is haram :) im always careful regarding these stuff & very considerate towards my beliefs :) no worries
@@hajirapvtltd MashaAllah! Glad to hear! May Allah protect you! ❤️🌸
Hadith 22: Adhering only to obligations الاقتصار على الفرائض
Jabir ibn Abdullah reported: A man asked the Messenger of Allah, saying, “O Messenger of Allah, do you think if I pray the five prescribed prayers, I fast the month of Ramadan, and I uphold what is lawful and unlawful without adding anything to it, will I enter Paradise?” The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:
نَعَمْ
Yes.
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 15, Grade: Sahih
Jazakhallahu Khairan
This is the biggest struggle for muslims in the west honestly 😢 i gave up my career to stay home with our 3 boys and 4th boy on the way in August inshallah. We removed our little boys from public school in 2019 and moved to Western rural Victoria to put them one of the best islamic schools Victoria has to offer..we teach our boys at home what being muslim requires, our character, behaviour, speech and manners etc yet they are children who come from very unislamic homes subhanallah, parents expect school to discipline their kids sadly😩 thank God the school is very strict and they expel certain bad behaviours, so far no vaping etc.. i have heard many islamic schools having issues with vaping unfortunately. May Allah protect our kids , we fighting shaitan himself.. we must educate our kids at home and instil the islamic values at home. One of the reason we never bought house or invested in Australia was to flee with our kids back home to our country if things get worse here. We dont wana be tied down here..more parents should take their kids back home to instil islamic identity and culture. Also I wish more mothers stayed home but sadly thats not possible for many households in the west😢..im grateful my boys can talk to me about anything n i listen n advice them when needed. They are 10, 7 n 5 and they ask us about the rainbow community n we teach them about the people of prophet Lut (pbuh) and their punishment from Allah n as muslims we should never repeat their practises..subhanallah children's innocence is being taken away by this evil society we live in..when they see 2 women holding hands in shops they say astaqfurallah n look away😂 we dont judge or stare others we make duaa that Allah guides them..plz spend time with your kids. 😢
May Allah bless you in your children, make your hearts firm in His religion, facilitate your birth, and grant you a righteous child ,sister 💗🫶🏻
Ur a responsible mom. But the responsibility does end here, u have to make hijra for u, for ur children.
You think the east is any better
@@zabirhussain way better than lgbtq
@@alwahabmedia5824 gay people exist in the east just as much as the west. Get over yourself
10:16 aww that made me emotional. People hating makes my faith stronger too.
We have been tested since the beginning of times, all the prophets (Alayhis Salam) and Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) have been tested with harsh conditions in this dunya, so as his ummah we'll continue to be tested. Ya Allah Rabbul Al Amin, make the Muslims stronger and ya Allah, please grant Jannah to all muslims
Aren't we the heedless ones? Haven't we forgotten the fact that we all will die one day and we all will be raised again on the day of Qayamat? If we are not the heedless ones, then; Aren't we jealous of our own siblings and friends
Aren't we worshiping idols (watching idol worshipers movies)Don't we marry our children against their will?Don't we cheat in our exams at school and college level?Don't we stare at women?Don't we involve ourselves in Pornography and masturbation and above that, proudly advertise it?Don't we count having many boyfriends and girlfriends as status symbols?Don't we destroy our lives in the name of love?Don't we dance in mixed gatherings in weddings?Don't we pray Salaat but ignore the rights of Zakat and Khums?Don't we gossip uselessly about everything and everyone behind their backs?Don't we usurp the rights of others?Aren't we involved in usury?Don't we respect people due to the amount of wealth, power and fame they possess, and not piety?Don't we use force against the weak and the poor?Aren't we rude with our elders and make fun of someone who is different from us?Don't we sell things at a higher price to take advantage of the situation and earn more money?Don't we hate each other, kill each other in the name of religion?Don't we visit darbaars and mazaars of Qalanders etc to pay homage to someone who has no role in deen, and as a bonus, witness prostitution and selling of drugs which take place at such places usually?Don't we give normal people and Sahabas, men who are answerable for their own actions, the rank of the Ahlulbayt, the people on who we send our durood?Don't we follow mullahs blindly, shia or Sunni, and believe everything which suits us, without any verification?
I see this happening every day coming from work, high school students from public schools will board simultaneously. most of them are of Muslim background. They use slurs, and foul language, curse each other, and also use the word Wallahi. How is that possible, they talk openly about having relationships with two/three persons simultaneously. They will talk about how they were during Ramadan and will back to regular life after Ramadan. I wonder what are their relationships with their parents. May Allah guide them, protect them, and show them the right path.
Dear parents, I would kindly ask you to make du’a every single day for your children. The du’a of parents will be that invisible shield that will protect them. Ask Allah to keep them rightly guided, to live their lives with piety. Ask Allah to protect them from committing faahisha and every other haram in this dunya, especially during their most vulnerable years of growing up. Ask Allah to make our children the coolness of our eyes. Remember this, when they become adults, they will attain maturity and become sensible, just as we did. And Allah will not turn down the sincere du’a of a parent. Have the strongest faith in Allah never ever lose hope even if our children appear to be misguided right now. And never turn away from your children just because they are not listening to you. They need our support and presence in their lives. May Allah guide our children through us, and make ease the challenges of parenting, ameen
I don’t even have children but I am already worrying about them and the environment they might get in. Ya Allah make it easy for all the muslim parents and their children 💔
Aren't we the heedless ones? Haven't we forgotten the fact that we all will die one day and we all will be raised again on the day of Qayamat? If we are not the heedless ones, then; Aren't we jealous of our own siblings and friends
Aren't we worshiping idols (watching idol worshipers movies)Don't we marry our children against their will?Don't we cheat in our exams at school and college level?Don't we stare at women?Don't we involve ourselves in Pornography and masturbation and above that, proudly advertise it?Don't we count having many boyfriends and girlfriends as status symbols?Don't we destroy our lives in the name of love?Don't we dance in mixed gatherings in weddings?Don't we pray Salaat but ignore the rights of Zakat and Khums?Don't we gossip uselessly about everything and everyone behind their backs?Don't we usurp the rights of others?Aren't we involved in usury?Don't we respect people due to the amount of wealth, power and fame they possess, and not piety?Don't we use force against the weak and the poor?Aren't we rude with our elders and make fun of someone who is different from us?Don't we sell things at a higher price to take advantage of the situation and earn more money?Don't we hate each other, kill each other in the name of religion?Don't we visit darbaars and mazaars of Qalanders etc to pay homage to someone who has no role in deen, and as a bonus, witness prostitution and selling of drugs which take place at such places usually?Don't we give normal people and Sahabas, men who are answerable for their own actions, the rank of the Ahlulbayt, the people on who we send our durood?Don't we follow mullahs blindly, shia or Sunni, and believe everything which suits us, without any verification?
May Allah protect our children from these dirts.
OMG, theres a lot of fitnah. Especially for Muslim boys that are in public school especially Middle school or high school its very hard for them to lower there Gaze WALLAHI it is! When I'm in my school and my school is a very very good school and I like my school but the everywhere I look in my school there half naked people walking. Look up they are there, look down and you will see there half naked legs, look to the right side you see them, look left and you see them and if you look at high up you will see there hair and all there makeup on there face so it's basically impossible to lower your gaze and as Muslims boys, Boys have a bigger tempt of temptation then girls that's why girls are asked to cover but boys are asked to lower there gaze. Girls don't like to look at stuff as much instead they like it when they look beautiful and boys LIKE what they look at and they love it so much but they don't care as much if people are looking at them and how they look and that's why Girls have to cover themselves completely and boys have to completely lower there gaze. Muslim boys in High School want to get married but they can't because it's not the appropriate time to get married and there still studying. But because of the Fitnah and the tempt for your desires and your haram temptations is the reason why they want to do haram. Wallahi it's the hardest thing to fight over your haram temptations.
If you can like I will appreciate it because it took me a while to write this but not that long where it took too long.
Ameen
I don't even know them but still somehow my heart is bleeding with anger and lots of emotions ...if anything like this happens to my younger brother or sister, I can't imagine the pain. May Allah SWT protect everyone and guide them.
All this coming from an Islamic school is crazy. May Allah guide the kids , the parents and those who have been entrusted to look after / teach these kids
Not really. The more strict you are, the more kids retaliate.
Aren't we the heedless ones? Haven't we forgotten the fact that we all will die one day and we all will be raised again on the day of Qayamat? If we are not the heedless ones, then; Aren't we jealous of our own siblings and friends
Aren't we worshiping idols (watching idol worshipers movies)Don't we marry our children against their will?Don't we cheat in our exams at school and college level?Don't we stare at women?Don't we involve ourselves in Pornography and masturbation and above that, proudly advertise it?Don't we count having many boyfriends and girlfriends as status symbols?Don't we destroy our lives in the name of love?Don't we dance in mixed gatherings in weddings?Don't we pray Salaat but ignore the rights of Zakat and Khums?Don't we gossip uselessly about everything and everyone behind their backs?Don't we usurp the rights of others?Aren't we involved in usury?Don't we respect people due to the amount of wealth, power and fame they possess, and not piety?Don't we use force against the weak and the poor?Aren't we rude with our elders and make fun of someone who is different from us?Don't we sell things at a higher price to take advantage of the situation and earn more money?Don't we hate each other, kill each other in the name of religion?Don't we visit darbaars and mazaars of Qalanders etc to pay homage to someone who has no role in deen, and as a bonus, witness prostitution and selling of drugs which take place at such places usually?Don't we give normal people and Sahabas, men who are answerable for their own actions, the rank of the Ahlulbayt, the people on who we send our durood?Don't we follow mullahs blindly, shia or Sunni, and believe everything which suits us, without any verification?
I don't thank Almighty Allah enough for sending me to a Muslim majority region, Alhamdulillah
Alhamdulliah a growing body of young muslims in the UK are bucking the trend and becoming more practising than their parents! Its a frankly remarkable phenomena. Do you have places like Saville Town UK in the US or Australia.
As Salam alaykum I feel just like the last guy subhan Allah that frustration energy can be put in a much better way. Putting all that energy and learning our diin it's Amazingly calming and beautiful.
I always say, if I have my way, I will ask every parent to volunteer in school at least 2 weeks to understand Schools can be like a war zone for our children. So if you are sending your child, then prepare them, understand them and support them!
Subhan Allah....what a powerful video!!!
Sad to hear but either you homeschool or made hijrah to muslim country. I couldnt imagine other options. This is sad to happen but we cant control the environment but choose other diff one. Even muslim country is not safe from this kind of things but not so prevalent. May Allah protects our future generation
Only sensible person here, people think there children can be saved after letting them be in this environment
I agree but you still have to connect with your children…. People say to just move to a Muslim country and everything will be fixed, in fact there is still lots of haram in Muslim countries, it’s all about connecting and being around the right people. I’m in Canada but I chose the good Muslim friends who prevent each other from going astray. I can easily see myself going in the wrong direction being around the bad friends which I had a couple years back, so I got to experience both ends of the spectrum but alhamdullilah I truly see the impact of having the right friend and May Allah swt help us all
Not to mention I used to live in Qatar aswell so I’ve literally seen it all
Do you honestly think all this doesn't happen in muslim countries? We need to stop thinking that the Muslim world is safe from this..
Most Muslim countries have become $#!t holes and corrupted
Thanks for this video.
Great video keep it up you're doing amazing things 😁👍
Why so shocked? Did you think these things don't happen in our muslim community. It's always been there. With muslims in the west and the east its always been there. Sad but true and nothing shocking. People are naive if they are shocked by this. May Allah protect us all
Exactly what i was thinking. Its surprising that people get shocked when things like these happens in a muslim community. Truly the end is near .Sometimes i really sit down and think to myself if i really want to have kids becuz of this. But then i remembered Allah and i know that He is the only one that can protect us, but a lot of times the fear still lingers.May Allah guide us and protect us all.
@@melanistic_being ameen
Yep western ideology only normalizes it and brings it to light
Not sad or shocking. Learn to accept humans and stop passing shame and judgement? Focus on your own life and blatant insecurities
@@miamilkyy it is sad and something we should feel sad about. But it's not shocking to anyone who knows about the world and the muslim community
I feel very bad for her.
I'm a Muslim girl, and I've seen a lot of disgusting degeneracy happen here in my school in Pakistan
I'm sorry to hear that sister. Do you see sisters dating eachother?
Do you see 🌈 activities?
My brothers and sisters who are having a very difficult time never ever forget you have allah swt to turn to. Allah swt is there for you day and night, 24/7, 365 days a year. Cry to allah swt, and allah swt will always listen and answer the way allah swt decides is best for you.
this is why my children are doing home schooling
As a recent revert, watching people do what i used to do i feel so bad for them, because ive been there and i know where it lands
this is shocking. May Allah protect everyone. Ameen.
I appreciate that you highlight
The problem is parents ARE aware. So many parents support this mainstream narrative and agenda on children know what's best for them and as parents we should only support them.
JazakAllah khair
I am quitting my job. Will home school my kids
I had 3-4 years of rough near traumatic childhood in secondary school. I had no safe space to talk to and that experience contributed to who I am today, currently aged 38.
What was so traumatic?
May Allah protect my Muslim brothers and sisters
i loved this video Allahumbarik you guys are amazing.
Ma Sha Allah another amazing video
"hasbunallah wani'mal wakeel"
Allahu Akbar
My god bless the makers of this video and this channel, ahsantum!
This is the problem if you're in non-Muslim countries, especially the West. Immorality and indecency have amassed great fame. Thus, as muslims, we should always be cautious of our surroundings and pray for the best.
Muslim countries aren't that much better either. Never been to a non-muslim school but I can tell you that they all do damage of their own kind
Same thing happened last year when my school was showing a poster dedicated to lgbtq with a hijabi wearing a rainbow hijab.
Guess which group is behind all this. Harvey Milk, former mayor of San Francisco had that flag designed. Look up which group he is from. This is warfare.
Astaghfirullah. Please be safe from it sister
@@rokiaa1 - My message saying that you should look into the religion of the originator of that flag - Harvey Milk - go deleted. That will tell you which group is trying to mock your faith and crush you all down. Don’t let them.
@@rokiaa1 may Allah protect us. Astaghfirllah...
I really thank Allah that he protected me during my early life and sadly this is mostly in majority of homes that they really are not aware of their children!
I swear to Allah I have been as all humanity during early years of life and I noticed that even good parents still do not know many things about their children
All what we need that parents need to be more aware and have real tools to be aware of their children and have a wise intervention before it is too late !
May Allah protect you all
This is a world problem not only in Muslims community but sadly this is entering our communities same the level of other communities and this should not be the case because Muslims parents they need to be more educated and wise than any other parents
The parents are the most important foundation of the house and society if they fail, all the society will have big chances to fail too and it will for sure damage a lot when many families fail and it will affect others who are trying so we count on you
I love this video and I hope to focus more in this kind of video and we want it as a culture to have these kinds of videos because we want parents to wake up!
Please my Muslim ummah specially the parents we want you to really feel the responsibility and the great impacts that you can do, it is a great opportunity and do not fall in the trap that you are knowing what to do when you did not really worked for reaching to the point
May ALMIGHT ALLAH bless all OF THESE MUSLIM PARENT SPEAKERS, THEY ALL DID SO WELL AND I LEARNT SO MUCH. THANK YOU SO MUCH🤍
please make more of these
amazing job.
This is so heartbreaking. Such issues should be brought up more frequently, because we forget and our children get ignored.
alhamdulillah, my parents worked hard to raise us, and so ive been going to an all girls muslim highschool, so i havent experienced or seen any of this. however, it breaks my heart to know that this happens to many muslims across the world.
Very useful video
Main Allah save us from modern fitnas
Parents and children should be able to communicate easily. Trust me, you would never know what your child is up to unless they want to be open to you, or worse something bad already happen and you heard it by accident
Amazing video!
Good video and good people
Everyone may help them, because even they have no any parents ti connect with them , they must know that they have most merciful Allah ❤ and Alĺah loves them more than all people . They need to learn about Iman
May Allah protect our children
As a teacher I can honestly say most parents if they are strategic can offer their kids much more than the average school can.I would say all their learning can be focused on a handful of subjects and skills and the rest they can learn through travel,day to day life, new experiences,sport,hobbies,documentaries etc.Which is why I am pro homeschooling although I’ve worked in public education for a long time.Parents can identify any areas of weakness in terms of subjects that are worth getting tuition for and that can be virtual and then decide which subjects you can tackle.Sign them up for a class if possible that isn’t traditional but about building a skill e.g sewing,woodwork,coding etc.Make dua for facilitation.Remember your kids don’t only mix with other children they mix with the adults those kids mix and those environments indirectly and also everything all those kids are exposed to outside school,online etc and a lot of parents allow their kids to do anything and everything.
Do you have any recommendations for a good curriculum homeschool option?
@@Naved1231 It really depends on what you want for them long term do you want them to have formal qualification like GCSE's and A levels if so then following the national curriculum is best but since they are homeschooled i think many people opt for IGCSE's as these are 100% exam based and don't require feildwork,coursework or practical componenents like GCSE's(meaning some GCSE's cant be taken privately for homebased students).Even when choosing the national curriculum and standards tests route you dont need to deliver this like schools do e.g you can start them on GCSE content early and hone in on the specific subjects they will do for their GCSE's much earlier instead as options and content for these start in year 9 or 10.Also rememeber alot of A levels and Universities ask for 5 GCSE's at a high grade but most schools make students take 9 or 10.But again you dont have to do it that way and you can essentially follow any curriculum or your own or none.It's important to think about what you want for them and what they are good at and how best to get whatever goal you have for them and ofcourse what they want too.
I really like what the lady wearing the niqab said about cultivating our own community because sometimes family is "limited in what they know and how to do things". Compassionate and wise advice. Subhaan Allah.
Something that I think is also super important and often forgotten is the fact that there's not much Islamic entertainment for Teenagers. Because of this gap in the media during such a tender age of development and identity where kids are often insecure or peer-pressured into situations by those around them. They need content of their own to look up to rather than the western ideals that are super harmful to them. Protecting kids is hard, especially in the digital age where there are so many traps on and offline. May Allah make it easy for the parents and the children to keep on the straight path, ameen.
I do want to re-state that Islamic content for teens is super important and a huge gap. If anyone has any resources please link them in the comments inshaAllah. I'm working on making games and shows for teens inshaAllah and also compiling a list of already available content and would much appreciate any sort of reference and guidance. Jzk
Are some of these confessions being made by 11 year olds, how are people this sheltered?
8:06 I can’t imagine the pain he fells while saying this it might not be his daughter regardless no one should be treated like this in any way
Inna Lillaahi Wa Inna Ilayhi Rajiun
May Allaah All-Mighty forgive us and guide us all worldwide to righteousness until our last breath or the last day, Allaahumma Aameen!
May Allaah All-Mighty protect and preserve our children and all the innocent, Allaahumma Aameen!
Jazak Allaahu Khayran
Allaahumma Aameen to all the Duas!
My parents are religious and protective and they put me in a private Islamic school as soon as I reached secondary, I hated how I was the one with the strict parents and felt like my parents were overreacting until one day when I walked home from skl a man approached me and said some weird stuff to me whilst looking at me creepily so I quickly ran away but later on when I looked back I saw him taking pictures if me. It made me truly understand how much my parents truly cared for me and trued to protec5 me 💓
@@Dalia-xp6dk we don't always understand the value of something until we don't have it anymore.
@@shimmer4771 exactly what makes it worse is that our financial situation went as good so I was moved to a public school which is rlly bad where everyone vapes and is two faced
@@Dalia-xp6dk man. That's horrible. I couldn't imagine going to school there. When I was a teen, it wasn't nearly this bad.
@@shimmer4771 I’m just glad I learnt my lesson to be more grateful ☺️
May allah guide these schools
Please make more videos like these ❤️
Something I’ve recently heard to help us Muslims living with difficult times, the Prophets all had problems with their own families let alone the outside world. We’re all getting tested in our own ways, if our imaan is strong and we have sabr just like the Prophets did. Then surely Allah swt will reward us ❤
Jannah awaits for us inshaAllah Aameen ❤
1:03 it's crazy they'd see more things in a Private Islamic Highschool than a regular highschool here in England..
That's so weird and also.. Ironic?
It's Australia... Most muslim here are barely religious
That's not only happens in western highschool, these things also happens in Asian highschool as yound adult I am glad , I don't have to go university because I dropped out and self studying
Aameen Aameen summa Aameen Allahhumma Aameen Ya Rabalalameen
a lot of these comments say to relocate or homeschool your kids, and i totally agree with that but the most important thing is to actually talk to kids our age and teach us about our own religion. i'm 15, and i'm going to a public american high school with barely any muslims and as a hijabi, and i'll be totally honest, i've sometimes wanted to be like the other kids because i'm always alone, but the one thing that keeps me away from these temptations is when i think about hell.. it scares me so much. that and with the help of my mom, i've memorized so many duas and surahs such as Al-Mulk to protect me. without my parents forcing me, i don't think i would've been able to stay on the right path. sure, some people may say that forcing your kids in islam isn't good, but trust me, sometimes it's actually needed!! i hope everyone stays safe and that may Allah give all of us blessings
May Allah protect you
Please try to get married early. That will protect you from temptaion. 16/18 is the LA right?
@@Randomvids084be careful with that advice sister marriage early can be dangerous since your brain is not yet fully developed and your decisions can be improper, especially if its such a serious lifelong one like marriage
@@soupydoopie07 That advice is from the Prophet Muhammad SAW. And I trust him more than anyone else!
@@Randomvids084 im afraid my knowledge isnt the greatest, is that from the quran itself or from the hadiths, and if its from the hadiths what is the authenticity of it if youd please.
May Allah Azzawajal protect the Ummah of Muhammad S.A.W
6:55 that was a really nice thing to say. Saying that You're not responsible for this. Bcz people do victim blaming a lot it's like automatic response of our society. And this is the reason these girls can't share this with their parents or any other elder.
This is the reason, We all have to turn to Allah...Remember if we disobey Allah in the small things,
Allah will abandone us and our lives will be in such turmoil, Anyway Allah is forgiving and most Merciful. With tears in my eyes, May
Allah protect you all and give our children strength and guidance, Aameen
💐❤️
thought Islamic schools were largely immune to this kind of stuff, homeschooling seems very appealing all of a sudden
I once talked to a Hindu girl in a Bihar college in India. she was the only girl in her class and the boys had connections with MLAs. she was regularly sexually harassed in bathrooms and and in class in front of teachers and she had mentally accepted it. her acceptance of the whole situation traumatised me. there are many stories girls who study away from home getting sexually assaulted and parents who sent them away are responsible.
The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever among you sees evil, let him change it with his hand. If he cannot do so, then with his tongue. If he cannot do so, then with his heart, which is the weakest level of faith.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 49
@@WardaAafia I couldn't help her in any way, sadly. I made dua
Member of parliament
Member of Legislative Assembly
I've also heard such incidents😢
Women aren't protected in India at all.
Thank you all
I think the times we living in are crazy! Generally all parents should have a healthy relationship with their kids and help them through life.. give the kids time we all busy and want down time but Kids need us! They should be 1st priority and teach them the morals of life. ❤
Isn't high time you home school your kids? The Muslim community can put this together. May Allah rectify our affairs.
💔 Watching this with someone who isn’t able to have their young children in their life, has been extremely difficult and heartbreakingly, soul crushingly painful. It’s a pain I’m unable to describe.
I hate the fact that so many families are so broken because of how far away people are from their so-called faith and beliefs. When two adults, who apparently ‘love’ their children, can’t even let each other be apart of the child’s life is absolutely sickening and is an oppression that WILL need to be answered too by The Best of Judges and who is the All Hearing and All Seeing! They say they fear and believe in Allah but their actions don’t show it at all whatsoever!! It all starts at home! They actually parents are the first source of education for the kids!!! We all most be close and understanding towards them, BOTH parents!
I’m unable to even carry on with this actually, I can’t even bring it out of me.
Children deserve better and they are will a witness to everything!
Allah, you are the sole protector and guardian of us and our children, please please protect them from all the evils in both worlds and pardon us all… 🥺💔📿🤲🏼
Salam, I’m a guy and share the same sentiments as you. Parents in our day & age are a MESS. And then they blame the kids!
Do you have kids btw?
@@ARealOne-SBR I'm sorry this is going on. If your ex is keeping the child from you, I'm sorry, that's awful. So many sisters have sadly fell for the trap of feminism. It's what's breaking down America, Canada, and everywhere.
@@green1880 have been blessed to have children yes akh… 💪🏼📿
@@shimmer4771 it’s a horrid disease within our community unfortunately…. ❤️🩹🥺
May Allah SWT protect and bless the ummah of the blessed Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam, Ameen ya Rabbil Alameen 🤲🏻💖
Allahuma Barik to all these people in this video. They have strengthend my iman Alhamdullilah. I always have to put my trust in Allah and be thankful for every situation I am in because at the end of the day Allah SWT. is the almighty and best planner so the best thing we muslims can do is to put our trust in him and be patient even though it's hard. Alhamdullilah