With all honesty, hats off for Shaffie. Not that my respect to him matters but you have earned my respect and am so sorry for propelling,fuelling,the tabloid propaganda.
This three gentlemen have just made me realize I don't need to explain myself anymore, I was in the middle of the mtview story that has trended last three weeks.. It was full of falsehoods I was planning to speak my truth but now I have changed my mind.
As a new dad this just came at the right moment... Guys you indeed gave me a life lesson.. Been struggling emotionally but am now stable having listened to your conversations...
Respect 🙌🙌🙌 to these men and all the other unsung heroes doing right by their children and exes inspite of all else. Thank you Tamima for highlighting them.
when the dust settles people will start knowing the actual truth wow!!!!being a woman who never said anything to anyone about what exactly happened in my marriage and even after the horrible separation 5 years ago,took all faults because I never wanted to shame my husband,am thankful to listen and watch this today.thank you Burale and the rest cause as am writing this people had all the answers they wanted.Silence is the best medicine during breakups.
I totally agree with the great words,'Marriage is a Bond between a person Who never Remembers Anniversaries and another Who never Forgets them.' Great Conversations Gentlemen.On behalf of senior bachelors,we're still happy!
untill men and women start having honest conversation about who they truly are, what demons they battle with, where they lack and what the truly want, love will continue to be a temporary emotion.
Great conversation from the three gentlemen. I am going through a breakup myself and this couldn't have come at a better time for me. I have really learn't a lot. Thanks guys!
Marriage is not meant for everyone, Sometimes it's better to be alone and happy than go through all the heart break. relationship are piece of work nowdays and the society has exaggerated relationship/ marriage.
And he said it " you can't go destroying people's lives thinking you are the king of Zamunda trust me you will pay" karma . 💯💯...long live Shaffie Weru saying as it is.
I'm glad I've listened to this three guys who are talking about these naked truths. If I were in kenya I would love to meet with one of them. May God bless you as you help others to find themselves in the lovelife journey. Love you guys
Very true burale when men feel uncovered you might lose the chance to get him completely. It's good to learn how to control your words when dealing with breakup. I lost someone I would it wish to live without him but I learned so hard
MARRIAGE IS NEVER ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN GET. IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN GIVE. This Is For Beautiful Ladies... 1. Prayerful, Respectful and Telling The Truth 🤔
Burale you're a real coach...you got comforting words...have learnt alot from you guys ...i don't even know where to start n how to end it..but am surprised that men get hurts too...wow...hope from this i change to someone more better than i am n have learnt to always tame my tongue... Will start a program soon n will concentrate more on men n what thy go through..... In relationships, marriages n so all...
This is really good and big up to Shaffie those words are a nail deep in hammered . Am marriage to a my wife (EA) just came to an end and am back to Kenya broken shattered and damaged . I took her thru college and university . Further I didn't the same to her sister . Gave her family life . But when I was doing all things she was out there doing her things. Infidelity and all . Caught her twice . Forgave her and married her in her big wedding . And she never stopped. I have said enough after she came to me saying she is pregnant with another man's kid while we have a 6rs daughter . I moved out in Dec 13th 2019 and now this round table comes 1year . She has given birth to a baby boy and she now turns it and saying is my kind . How can I agree to this .. and what is your advise way forward . ? After a year and but my small investigation she seems to be in a relationship or something . But now what of my kind or kinds ?
Let it go!! You did your best,her loss ..move on with your head held high..her actions speak disrespect to you as a man.There is life after that break up!
Thank you Tamima for the lengthy talk..It's, way much better than those short, short vlogs. I have really learned a lot. Thank you GENTLEmen for sharing your experience. Note I wrote GENTLE because not every man is a gentleman..In the same breathe heartbreaks are hell..Mine is 2yrs down the line and am still nursing the same wound..I clearly need help.
Find someone to talk. Deal with your pain and trauma. Forgive, if you were wronged. If it's a divorce, I have had it said, that it feels like death of sorts. You will be fine though. Cry it out And don't be scared to letting people into your space
@@ZaiStoic thank you am very skeptical with people I talk to..now days it's hard to get someone you can have are talk with..it's was a 3yr rlship not marriage.
Guys am on a break up and the kids are involve. This is the hardest time in my life. I have broken down. 😭😭😭 . This interview has given me so much hopes. Kindly connect me with a therapist/psychologist
When people break up and there are kids, it becomes a fight of ego..maybe the former lady would use the kids to punish you, and you may feel like she can't control me over my own kids..this is a very typical problem. This will obviously degenerate to a custody battle. First of all calm down completely. Stress kills and your own body can turn on you. I wish I could talk to you somehow.
RESPECT to you MEN n all alike out there, be blessed. To the boys out there its neva too late to transform...fatherhood is neva delegated, Children will always remember the effort U made.
The short stint I had as a receptionist in Radio Africa I came to learn that Shaffie Weru was a gentleman, he was kind and he would always say hi to me, I was a bit timid coz I had the perception that he has 'petho'.
I Guess this is exactly what I needed to hear... Might have lost it all with my feelings n in the process hurting innocent ladies every now n then. You guys spoke to me
Very mature talk. Thanks Tamima. I was very surprised by the guests too but a pleasant one. I love the fact how Shaffie weru(Big up bruh for sharing, sad& funny), Dr Ofueneke got vulnerable and real. Burale has had the biggest bash of it. It's tough to pick your stuff and walk, you literally feel a heart attack(not able to breathe) maaan does it not take time. You think you have healed then someone says something that triggers it off. It's 9 years of working on it...God help me, still solo&trying to get back in the game.
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Hey Tamima i need Burale's number
@@andrewbritandy7386 did you get burale. I really need him also
With all honesty, hats off for Shaffie.
Not that my respect to him matters but you have earned my respect and am so sorry for propelling,fuelling,the tabloid propaganda.
Shaffie's story is so real..big up king of zamunda
Thanks shaffi for sharing I respect you.for not saying bad things about the mother of your only children.am keeping that. For myself
This guy burale got a lot of wisdom May God bless him forever!!
Thank you Nelly
This three gentlemen have just made me realize I don't need to explain myself anymore, I was in the middle of the mtview story that has trended last three weeks.. It was full of falsehoods I was planning to speak my truth but now I have changed my mind.
It has come at the right time in my life, learnt a lot on my birth day.
'You cannot enjoy the intimacy that brought a child forth and run away from the responsibility'
Real talk!
True
whether am married, separated or devorced, I just wanna have peace of heart in my life, that's all I want, isn't that what we all want?
I can't lie, I've learned a lot from this conversion.you guys you've said it all.i would love every man to listen to this.wapi likes za hawa wasee
Hongera
I've watched this 20 time,passing trough shaffie situation
Men have been vilified and blanket-blamed for breakups. Big up to these guys for coming out and speaking for the most of us.
As a new dad this just came at the right moment... Guys you indeed gave me a life lesson.. Been struggling emotionally but am now stable having listened to your conversations...
Shaffie's story is similar to mine...reaches a point where you let the women be, and be on your own
Respect 🙌🙌🙌 to these men and all the other unsung heroes doing right by their children and exes inspite of all else. Thank you Tamima for highlighting them.
wow just WOW.. I appreciate these men and the beautiful Tamima for talking about this.
I really enjoyed this candid conversation. Hilarious but eye opening too!
when the dust settles people will start knowing the actual truth wow!!!!being a woman who never said anything to anyone about what exactly happened in my marriage and even after the horrible separation 5 years ago,took all faults because I never wanted to shame my husband,am thankful to listen and watch this today.thank you Burale and the rest cause as am writing this people had all the answers they wanted.Silence is the best medicine during breakups.
This was a healthy round table. It's good for the boy child.
I totally agree with the great words,'Marriage is a Bond between a person Who never Remembers Anniversaries and another Who never Forgets them.' Great Conversations Gentlemen.On behalf of senior bachelors,we're still happy!
@Robert Burale Thanks. May I know you please?
Wow! Am starting to love shafie even more. He's full of wisdom
I'm shocked, when i saw the thumbnail I was like why Shaffie?? But I'm impressed!
untill men and women start having honest conversation about who they truly are, what demons they battle with, where they lack and what the truly want, love will continue to be a temporary emotion.
Sure 🤦♀️
So true, we have to be Open with ourselves
I totally concur
As long as Adam and Eve ate the fruit . That will never happen
Great conversation from the three gentlemen. I am going through a breakup myself and this couldn't have come at a better time for me. I have really learn't a lot. Thanks guys!
I wish you all the best
Wish you the best Sammy
Join the broken arrow ship
Respect to tamima how she contacts the interview. And also the chat spot show need so much intelligence and maturity ,big up tamima ad the crew
A looooong video , I could not move every word from this wise men is important. Thanks to switch Tv.
Well Said guys am also a single father and it's not easy. However God gives grace to men
God will see you through
@@brendanasubo3571 (Thank you)
Shaffie is smart ! Relationship is not a competition
Wow I mean this was an hour full of wisdom and vulnerability in depth God bless you guys for sharing.
This show just gave me life time lesson....... keep it up
Marriage is not meant for everyone,
Sometimes it's better to be alone and happy than go through all the heart break. relationship are piece of work nowdays and the society has exaggerated relationship/ marriage.
I love you Shaffie. So real really Smart. God bless you and your gorgeous family.
the is the best discussion have had on our media so far....
Finally men opening up !! This is great miss Tamima. Hongera sana to these men for being open.
This is a very good advice from the men, I wish every one would watch and listen to these gentlemen.
Thanks for the wisdom. Marriage is not a walk in the park. Parenting is eternal. Men we can do this💪
@Robert Burale is this you sir🤔. I have seen this message before word for word. Is this really you sir?
Why are you busting ofweneke....... These men are just real to the best of my knowledge...... God bless me with valuable friends in my life 🙏🙏
Shaffie was quite candid. Awesome dude.
Every moment I listen to this I get new strength
Get more men of national caliber with this kind of impact to the society
Amazing candid talk, my favorite gentlemen led by his excellency R.B
Ofweneke oozing wisdom..my favorite comedian
Weru at least you are honest "YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW"
I like Burale insights...
this girl is so smart
OMG this Is the real shaffe weru...
wow! I have to admit i thought he was different.
I just love how Tamima manages this talk. Had seen this video, it would have been great.
So true! Kenyans we are too ignorant....and the social media has really destroyed us.And it's even worse in the year 2020.....
I hope to see all of them happily married again.. They have learnt from their mistakes.. They are wise men
Candid conversation from the men. It would be unfair for me to ignore the adept host. Tamima you are the best!
Just here to listen to Shaffie Weru the one Kenyan man i adore and salute 😍👌🏿 rare gem.
And he said it " you can't go destroying people's lives thinking you are the king of Zamunda trust me you will pay" karma . 💯💯...long live Shaffie Weru saying as it is.
Did i mention he is a Muslim too ☺️
Shaffie made me burst out.. ati 'King of Zamunda' hahahaha.. thanks for sharing
I love Shaffie's honesty.
When you know better you can do better 😋😋....know your circle....very important
Shaffie Weru is real... I can't say the same on Ofweneke,
I share the same sentiments.
Ofweneke is as fake as his name
Men were built to be honored and respected, women on the other hand love,affection, protection and companionship..i learnt that late in life....
Thank you Tamima for addressing this issue. I always tuned in.
Respect jameni. These guys are very mature and I wish all men and women can be this mature. This talk has been very enlightening
This was a very good conversation, really enjoyed the interaction and inputs.
I'm glad I've listened to this three guys who are talking about these naked truths. If I were in kenya I would love to meet with one of them. May God bless you as you help others to find themselves in the lovelife journey. Love you guys
This is great . We need a part 2 of this.
Very true burale when men feel uncovered you might lose the chance to get him completely. It's good to learn how to control your words when dealing with breakup. I lost someone I would it wish to live without him but I learned so hard
Live from Uganda, thank you so much
I love this men. Keep doing this coz a whole generation of men and women who believe in love relationship and good vibe are right behind y’all.
Wow, shaffie's maturity is on another level
I watched this and I learned so much especially on co-parenting .. thank you tamima
That statement """MAN ALSO HURT ""Its deep.
Burale i like your advice i think it can teach many ...........
MARRIAGE IS NEVER ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN GET. IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN GIVE.
This Is For Beautiful Ladies...
1. Prayerful, Respectful and Telling The Truth 🤔
Burale you're a real coach...you got comforting words...have learnt alot from you guys ...i don't even know where to start n how to end it..but am surprised that men get hurts too...wow...hope from this i change to someone more better than i am n have learnt to always tame my tongue...
Will start a program soon n will concentrate more on men n what thy go through..... In relationships, marriages n so all...
Iam enjoying this and as well learning so much . Thank you guys for being there . You all are going far by the Grace of God .
Wonderful conversation with great men. Thanks Madam
CAN'T IS NEVER A MAN'S VOCABULARY! Shaffie. & Yes, There is Nothing You Can not Do.
This channel is full of interesting and intelligent programs....so much to learn . But hey do we even have channels like this in Nigeria?
Wow wow wow... This is deep... The maturity is absolutely 👌.. Wishing you guys happiness and peace
This is really good and big up to Shaffie those words are a nail deep in hammered . Am marriage to a my wife (EA) just came to an end and am back to Kenya broken shattered and damaged . I took her thru college and university . Further I didn't the same to her sister . Gave her family life . But when I was doing all things she was out there doing her things. Infidelity and all . Caught her twice . Forgave her and married her in her big wedding . And she never stopped. I have said enough after she came to me saying she is pregnant with another man's kid while we have a 6rs daughter . I moved out in Dec 13th 2019 and now this round table comes 1year . She has given birth to a baby boy and she now turns it and saying is my kind . How can I agree to this .. and what is your advise way forward . ? After a year and but my small investigation she seems to be in a relationship or something . But now what of my kind or kinds ?
Let it go!! You did your best,her loss ..move on with your head held high..her actions speak disrespect to you as a man.There is life after that break up!
Shaffie..... realest OG...God bless
Thank you Tamima for the lengthy talk..It's, way much better than those short, short vlogs. I have really learned a lot. Thank you GENTLEmen for sharing your experience. Note I wrote GENTLE because not every man is a gentleman..In the same breathe heartbreaks are hell..Mine is 2yrs down the line and am still nursing the same wound..I clearly need help.
Find someone to talk. Deal with your pain and trauma. Forgive, if you were wronged. If it's a divorce, I have had it said, that it feels like death of sorts. You will be fine though. Cry it out
And don't be scared to letting people into your space
@@ZaiStoic thank you am very skeptical with people I talk to..now days it's hard to get someone you can have are talk with..it's was a 3yr rlship not marriage.
@@ZaiStoic raw talk
Pole sana
was I love this... So encouraged....wise men
Wise burale 💯well articulated
I've come to a conclusion that we men go thru alot it's only that we keep our eyes open and our mouths shut.
Because of your doings they never go unpunished.
Talking to someone helps a lot
I'm watching you from Namibia it's so powerful
Guys am on a break up and the kids are involve. This is the hardest time in my life. I have broken down. 😭😭😭 . This interview has given me so much hopes. Kindly connect me with a therapist/psychologist
God is in control it shall be well
God will see you through
Pole sana, God is in control n all will be well
When people break up and there are kids, it becomes a fight of ego..maybe the former lady would use the kids to punish you, and you may feel like she can't control me over my own kids..this is a very typical problem. This will obviously degenerate to a custody battle. First of all calm down completely. Stress kills and your own body can turn on you. I wish I could talk to you somehow.
Contact burale or Benjamin Zulu
I knew she would introduce Robert Burale first. He is calm cool and collected
Burale is the only professional counsellor among the 3 men
Burale is the only professional counsellor there in that panel
and also a know conman
@@s.k634 ala!
Things are rough for men in the 21st Century. If wishes were horses I would like to live within a primitive society in the forest.
I second!
Hehehe
Not only for men, on the other side its very rough to ladies
Hehehe sorry
RESPECT to you MEN n all alike out there, be blessed. To the boys out there its neva too late to transform...fatherhood is neva delegated, Children will always remember the effort U made.
Thanx wat if someone manipulates u u do everytin for the kid then hataki uonge na mtoi ,even hataki u b with the kid wen school are closed utado??
One of shaffies tois looks like Andrew kibe ..the show is lit though.. Very insightful
Marriage is not a walk in the park...thanx for this programme talk ..
Wow!!!you guys are amazing......I thought I went through this alone ......thanks guys am really build-up
Shafi and Ofweneke i had a very different perception of you. Wise words🕺
Shaffie talks alot of Debbie... The first cut is the deepest.. Don't play with the first love... 😎😎😎😎
True he still loves her.
High school love i remember they were always in the pulse magazine. I loved Debbie kwanza their group tatuu
So much wisdom in this conversation.
Such a refreshing conversation.
Indeed a candid conversation.
Great insights.This conversation is the real deal
So edifying. Thank you big brothers
I am not a father. But I have gone through a break up that almost lost me entirely. Hearing what I am hearing from shaffie. I feel better
The three of you are real gentlemen .
The short stint I had as a receptionist in Radio Africa I came to learn that Shaffie Weru was a gentleman, he was kind and he would always say hi to me, I was a bit timid coz I had the perception that he has 'petho'.
I Guess this is exactly what I needed to hear... Might have lost it all with my feelings n in the process hurting innocent ladies every now n then. You guys spoke to me
Wow
Very mature talk. Thanks Tamima. I was very surprised by the guests too but a pleasant one. I love the fact how Shaffie weru(Big up bruh for sharing, sad& funny), Dr Ofueneke got vulnerable and real. Burale has had the biggest bash of it. It's tough to pick your stuff and walk, you literally feel a heart attack(not able to breathe) maaan does it not take time. You think you have healed then someone says something that triggers it off. It's 9 years of working on it...God help me, still solo&trying to get back in the game.