ROBERT BURALE: Love Is Not Enough Reason To Marry
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This man is a "silver fox". He is dashing, debonair, and astute. This is the masculine equivalent to beauty and brains: Yass!! God's wisdom, knowledge, understanding and discernment are Key. Note: I do Not know him personally. I am just making conjectures based on what I see and hear with respect to him.
You are absolutely right!
Serious comment
And he's cute
@@positivesoul.9490 true don't say it loud 😂😂
@@mercylinenzaro1104 🤭🤭🤭
He is so brilliant and I can listen to him all day . Use your singleness effectively and develop yourself . So important…..
True. th-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/w-d-xo.html
His wow
There are real People out here who are Celibate I have been for a decade. My male friend has as well and some associates too. We are Holy Spirit filled over here. We don't play. We sleep, eat, and talk JESUS be encouraged.
He's lit but my hope in black men still hadn't been renewed and I dont know if it will🙂🙂🙂
Truth is, no one is perfect. There's nothing easy, even waking up in the morning can be tricky. The mentality that one person is perfect than the other is a recipe for frustration. You must be the right partner, stop looking. None of us have the power or ability to change another human being, you can only do what is needed in order to become the kind of person who is worthy of being in a good, healthy relationship. When you focus on your own behaviour and the way you treat others, I believe that a relationship is not about finding the right person, but rather about becoming the right person. Get ready for the thrill, excitement and most importantly happiness; it is an inside job. Additionally, patience is a virtue that we need to learn from our grandparents and our parents would definitely absorbed and stood the true testament of patience, in tough times & never gave up or quickly resulted to common place seperations, they never ran out of patience.
Amen
Well said. th-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/w-d-xo.html
Well said.
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@@nellymusamba2076 Awesome. Great video. th-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/w-d-xo.html
I enjoy associating with great conversationalist like Mr. Robert Burale. His conversation is not only mentally stimulating but relevant for the moment. Wish there were more Christian men of wisdom like this around.
God bless him❣
🎙👂📚👏🤝💗
I’m watching from USA 🇺🇸 for the first time and enjoying your program my brother
It’s GOOD to be single. Use that time wisely. Thank you Mr RB
The wisdom in this man ooo♥️
He expresses the same ideas, language as Bishop RC Blakes from.Houston, Texas!! Amazingly similar thoughts!!!🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲❤
Yes!
Yes I agree too
Blake is very wise
This man is talking sense. I wish he could have his own radio or Tv show about love, dating, and marriage.
Yes Bishop Blakes is the real deal 🔥
A woman wants a man with a VISION not a TELEVISION..,,,I love it!
I keep hearing that.. what vision ... coz i think all of us have some vision to do something build a house buy a house send kids to school .. and what our vocation is we have a vision to bettet that and grow it ... is that vision enough
Question is, what does the Woman do with it? A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands - Proverbs 14:1
THANKS TO THE LORD THAT I FOUND MY ONE TRUE LOVE AND IN A TRUE LOVE RELATIONSHIP YOU DONT NEED TO TALK MUCH BECAUSE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IS ALSO LOOKING FOR YOU AND I WAS LOOKING FOR ME AND I FOUND MY TWIN FLAME MY ONE TRUE LOVE SO GOD FIRST THAN HIM AND HE IS ALSO A GOD FEARING MAN ,THANK U LORD FOR
This is the first time listening to this man and l can’t stop listening.
Likewise here
Me too
Thanks
This man sure has wisdom and is an amazing teacher. Everything he says is right. Hes going to save us all a lot of heartaches and mistakes. Wow. This is worth hearing over and over again.
True. Well said. th-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/w-d-xo.html
Thank you
But you can never learn without mistakes... don't be too cautious... life won't be worth while
I am amazed how Mr Robert Burale talks. He is not just genius but spiritually enlightened. I agree that when a couple have misunderstanding we dont need to seek advice from anybody not even to your family. You must resolve it as a couple. I am a widow now . My husband died 3 years ago. we have live together for 48 years and my family never know my problem about my husband. i just kept it to myself.
I can watch and listen to RB 24/7 how he expresses himself, the oozing wisdom , his calmness he his a true gentleman
Gentleman, only his ex can confirm🙃
@@joanmiksabel3598 you can be a good person and unfortunately marry wrong ...we can't judge not unless we hear the other side of his ex
@@zainardorcas2610 that's what I meant. Because one had a platform to speak, he can't be assumed to be a gentleman. That said, we can't portray his ex to have been the problem unless we hear why they broke up too. Alfred mutua and Lilian gave the world an impression of a perfect relationship yet now its rumoured he was physically abusive !
And as he says, he learned from his past mistakes so we can't blame him for his past...... As long as he admits it. The lady might have been the best too.
@@joanmiksabel3598 True, don't be gullible at face value yet you've never met or known the individual.
I always love this Man
He is a true mentor
I am a divorced woman as well and trying to date now
I feel contented with his words because I have learned and know exactly what am looking for in a man especially after the past relationships
Thanks Mr. Murale
I hope you find someone too
We love you
He's a great mentor I would also recomend you Bishop RC Blakes.Hes awesome too with massive knowledge about relationships focussing mostly on ladies.Watch him and you'll thank me later.Be blessed
No relationship is the same, people are different. Thw question you should be asking yourself is this, "does the Man I am looking for exist?" secondly what have you learnt about yourself that is likely to put you in a path towards finding that Man.
The guidance of the Holy Spirit's discernment is key to recognizing your mate. Stay spiritually focused. Great conversation ☺
First time I listen to this man .Lots of what he said resonates with me.
At first when I heard the word ,divorce,,,,I was uncertain of what I can get out of listening to professor burale ,but after 2 minutes, listening to what he had to say to the whole wide world....i,am convinced that....we don't have too many of him on this planet,,,,,every 100 years god put someone like him in this world ❤👏👏👏👏
This coach is very loaded with devine wisdom. God bless you sir..
You are not a lot for the point of divorce. I too when I heard "divorced man", I wanted to turn away to some other channels. But after deciding to continue listening Abit, I was amazed. The man has a lot of wisdom.
Too much wisdom this man is oozing, presence of the holy spirit is allover you RB..I can listen to you 24/7, stay blessed man of God.
Thank you Esther
Taking notes, RB overflows with wisdom.
Oh my God where I have been all this time I never heard or know this man or these show thank you so much I love you to put this topic out here
This is timeless teaching for any age and generation my African diamonds you are such a blessing.
I,am so happy that I popped on the video of such gentleman....and I learned so much on top of what I already knew ❤🍀🌿🌹🌿🌿👏👏👏👏
I am not only taking mental notes but I am sharing and passing this TH-cam video on.
This is so true, I was telling my colleague to listen to people who are older than her, because they have life lessons and they don't want her to make the same mistake they did.
I love how God’s wisdom is bigger in His son Mr Robert . May the Kingdom you serve keep bless you with more wisdom Sir . Am blessed and lifted up with this . God bless you y’all
R u sister to Munyangaju José Edouard (Elongi)...? And minister Aurore Munyangaju...
wow,what a wonderful advice..
I'm on my LDR situation, for almost two yrs, I'm happy,satisfy, comfortable and contented,soon we will meet to each other,I respect him,trust him, believe him and loyal to him.likewise he is to me as well.
Am glad I married my best friend 😢33 years and we are still best buddies
Pastor Robert you really are legit, generous, Rich with adquate knowledge, wisdom, experience woo you are what we need in the end time
Keep your eyes open and your ears on the ground..... love it@RB
Yoh, I am soo happy I stumble upon this channel :)
I am watching from South Africa, thank you for this. I have been taking notes, rewingng and sharing with friends. I thank God for you all, stay blessed.
Thank you
I think it is faith why I stumbled upon this channel. The conversation is quite enriching and educating. I would love to exchange thoughts with Mr. Robert. I know he may not see my comment, nonetheless, I would like to get to know him more. So tell him that a Jamaican woman has a crush on him, and we are both single, God-fearing, business-minded, among other similarities.
This is so good! Pastor Robert you are a gem! What is not seen is the reason behind what is being seen
So much wisdom here.RB,you're a blessing.
Robert Burale has just quoted the giant of African Music, a messiah in my view to us and that is Franco Luambo Makiadi in his song "NON". Robert quotes exactly what Franco spews in the lyrics of this song. Oh Luambo, may the Almighty bless you.
I don't have the grace to be single.i desire marriage.praise the most high God. Aleluah.the highest praise
I divorced 10 years ago and I have used this time to develop myself, my career. And have done so well....something I wouldn't have been able to accomplish if married!!
Proud of my accomplishments!!
Now ready to be in a relationship. But I don't/wouldn't compromise, ever!!!
If you don't/wouldn't compromise then the 10 years have been a waste. You've learnt nothing. Doing well is all about relationships, family and life.
@@CsMuia What we fall to realise is that marriage is only ONE PATH FOR GODS CHILDREN, AND AS WELL AS FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND GOD FIRST OF COURSE, WE DO NEED MONEY TO SURVIVE IN THIS WORLD. CAREER PROGRESSION IS NECESSARY FOR MOST PEOPLE, SO THEY ARE NOT LIVING THEIR LIVES IN EVERYBODY ELSES SHADOWS OR MINISTRY IF GOD CALLS YOU IN THAT WAY. BALANCE IS THE KEY ALWAYS, AS THIS IS WHAT GOD DESIRES FOR US. GOD BLESS YOU !
@@sharynannfrancis5035 God bless you 🙌
Be careful not to welcome too much outsiders in your union.
100% true, love is never enough but but of the major prerequisites. Compatibility, purposive intent, readiness, deliberate compromises and personality merge are the primary attributes in addition to what the awesome RB and BZ(Benjamin Zulu) mentions
Awesome. th-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/w-d-xo.html
Thank you RB. You speak it as it is. I'd like to date a friend first, so when love goes, friendship remains.
Nuff Respect great conversation greetings from Ghana
It's hard to be friends with someone you are attracted to and it's hard to fall inlove with someone you're not attracted to hence that's why you're just friends. Very complicated.
Good advice.There is no manual to life, marriage and job..unlike what is being advanced by other psychologists
Love is the ONLY REASON to get married, TRUE LOVE not superficial love! God's Love has it all to sustain marriage and lives!!!
Unfortunately, it takes more than love. Many people have left people they love because there were other issues especially if children are involved...
You can't be with someone who is unfaithful or beats you to ICU just because of love. Even Agape has its limit
I agree with you partly that one should get married for love.Now let me ask you! Did you read the story of Isaac and Rebekaa in Genesis chapter 24 ? Rebekaa accepted Isaac before she set her eyes on Isaac,what do you say about that? Sis,love is like a seed,you can nature it to grow.God bless you.
@@joseamericodealmeida8078 I agree... Gods love conquers all!
@@ruthmuturi I think that most people will fall out of love very quickly in those instances.
We all know it is wrong.
Even people who stay with partners like that know it is, speaking from experience of counselling someone who is with an abusive man, but she just won't leave !!
th-cam.com/video/qy0tjKb8178/w-d-xo.html
YOU have good opinion brut if there is frienship it Will be more solid
Wow! I can never have enough of this moG RB! He is so humble, so knowledgeable n has it all! I didnt know you can marry n marry, and never settle cos you are doing it wrongly! Am now getting it, n like he says thru the mistakes we have made we become better; so only remains i hope,we pray and open eyes around all over! Watching live from Boston US.
Amen🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wow! This Spirit filled experienced man is citing my personal values. Nonetheless, people usually condemn me because of my philosophy of dating and marrying. People said I'm too conservative. And said we are in a new age different from my youth age. I'm now a widow of 10years and I haven't found a man that appreciates my philosophy yet. So I keep to myself.
Thank you very much
I like the approaching of this man! Wisdom here and live experience! God bless him with the right partner!
Arnold is such a wise moderator , eloquent and smart.. Dr. Burale is so decisive with his responses ..enjoyable interview!!
The way u answered the questions, are so diplomatic and up on point
Robert, your information has blown my mind. It's my first time to listen from you and I really appreciate and learnt a lot. I am in a 16 yrs. old marriage which is on the rocks, almost breaking...
Stay blessed!
Thank you so much
Gosh, who is this man??? I love him and everything that he says coz most of what he is saying is what i've experienced. Wow!
Much love from Uganda 🇺🇬 am taking notes, enjoying while learning more Blessings wisdom knowledge and understanding 🙏
Identify crisis's in men lol
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Dating is for collecting data!! His vision..BISHOP RC BLAKES!! This is his twin!! Same jokes too.😂😂😂🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
Wow
I've enjoyed and Educated at same time..
Thank you all who made this possible reaching me🤲🙏♥️
Amen 🙏 🙏 Mr Robert burale my first time to hear your talk so encouraging
What this guy is saying makes a lot of sense.
Don't know what you consider trophies but Sir Alex won 49 trophies Sir. Enjoying you though Robert. I fancy your messages a lot. Thanks for blessing us.
I was wondering too!
He was defending himself,, it's true Fergie won Manchester several trophies but himself never won atrophy.. As a coach you can help.. Your happiness is seeing other progress
The Lady in the studio - positive criticism polish the one way you phrase your questions - avoid interrupting when interviewee is talking. When asking questions go straight to the point.
RB good stuff - knowledge is power.
Thanks spicefm - good topic
True
I love Burale he speaks from experience and admits he made mistakes in the past and ready to face his future. I learn alot from him. Am your biggest fun. Keep inspiring us
Thanks alot be blessed all 🙏🙏🙏.Am so happy and appreciate I learned alot ...Thank you again
Thanks a lot, the woman you're going to get married to is going to be a lucky one cos you are not going to play games around.
I love it whn he says knw each other's love language n connections, its so important to connect before the bedroom 😍❤️💕i love tht n i love doing tht bt my partner 🙆♀️🙆♀️
I enjoyed the message and lessons.What a great Man.
More grace to you Sir.
Wow you have a clean brain, I like this educative show may the lord bless you and protect you.
Robert Burale is a gifted man with wisdom 🙌! Love from South Africa 🇿🇦!
Thank you very much
How is southAfrics
Wow may God give you a beautiful wife your brilliant may our almighty God be with your mr Burare
I love this episode its realy dripping to the main, best and exact point of advice. Feel likw want to apply this in my life. Full of lesson kudos to Mr Robert and godbless to this station.
Thank you Pastor Robert for what you are doing. Kindly Pastor Robert, find time and take us through on how couples deal with emerging issues like how to deal with empowered wives in a marriage and the generational changes that impact on marital relationships.
1 month later and all i can say is...FANTASTIC session! What very polite callers and hosts you have over there in Kenya. Please tell Mr. Robert Burale thanks for the wisdom he shared.
Robert Burale, u will always be my coach, am so proud of you.... 👌👌🙏
Violence should not be toloreted , you can't love someone and at thesame time enjoy seeing them in pain. Thank you for this session i am watching from spain.
A must watch and share... Coach RB is transformative!
Rb is always on point ..i love his talks
I love what he says about age gaps. When you are young the age might not matter, but as the older person ages and loses so much of his/her health and other faculties, it becomes a problem if you are not very committed. This man is a genius.
👍 true I am five years younger than my partner, he is now 72 and ageing very quickly, where as I am 67 but very different attitude to ageing,
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This is what godly wisdom looks like! What a fulfilling hour! Many thanks to the interviewers and especially to Mr Burale.
I love this "purpose"💃
OMG!! I love this man..
I’m a 24 year old and I’d love to marry you sir🥰
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i found this man...lawd....oh how I'm grateful for this lesson...thank you.
It is November 15th..Wednesday..@ 18:35pm 2023 ..am sitted wth pen & a note book .. enjoying free knowledge from this talk❤
OMG! Iam so grateful for this conversation! Min 34 was what I needed to hear!…. I’ve been picky about my husband’s looks because to my eyes he was handsome and after 20 years together he became ugly, while I almost didn’t change because I exercise,eat right and take care of mybody, and he did not…. I feel frustrated he didn’t do the same and chose eating junk food and cola instead of water, besides he is a hard smoker! Ive talked to him already but he won’t change…. Especially the smoking bothers me… I am afraid this might lead us to divorce, and I don’t really want that but Im starting to lose attraction to him….I don’t know what to do
I can absolutely relate sis, hang in there ,do more talking ,try to convince him to realise the importance of healthy living, hopefully he will change his lifestyle for good.
@@nnekaokonkwo8898 thank you very much indeed🙏🏾❤️ Im gonna try…. We’ll see….Im afraid though….. of making the wrong decision
Is he unhappy in the marriage and not verbalizing it so he's suffocating himself by eating poorly and smoking? You have to ask him frankly what he hates about your marriage and what he likes. Happy people don't self destroy themselves. You might be the only happy and satisfied half of that union.
If he says nothing is wrong prepare to be his nurse.
Cristal,continue to suggest he gradually change his lifestyle choices.
I had the same issue with my late wife.
She died because of her lifestyle choices.
As a man in America when you suggest to your wife to try and eat better and eat less it is considered verbal and emotional abuse.
And in America you are told to love a person as they are.
There are many liberal movements in America,one being body positively movements.
Because of the way the marriage laws in America I was limited to what I could do with jeopardizing my marriage.
So I went with the status quo.
Now I'm a single father.
BTW my wife was only 52 years old.
I'm former U.S. Navy and I visited Kenya in the late 80's.
Blessings from America.
@@bobbyg5615 thank you Bobby G, it all is just so sad really…..
I love you Mr Robert, you're an epitome of wisdom. If not that I'm a widow, I would've come down to your country to see you. Keep it up Sir.
The foundation of finding the right one is firstly being the "Right One"... You attract who you are
just woww. thank you Robert. alone, I found time to really know myself. and I am thankful for that.
Robert is brilliant! This guy is full of wisdom!
Robert Burale gives great insights in whatever topic he puts out . I have had the pleasure to listen to him for hours...The humour in his talks reveals his good personality.😊
Our generation needs such pple
This the first time seeing are hearing and listening to you and utube wow wow wow wow I have share with all my friends love you guys are speaking my words
This man is spiritually Enlighten. His mind is in alignment with the Holy Spirit.
Amem
Love love the content, thank you Robert!
I really like this wonderful person 🙏what a blessing mind is that ?
Wow. This is my first time Listening to this . Very positive way to spend one's time. This has been very inspiring and fulfilling. Very nice to hear such content in 2021. Kudos to you and blessings
This is powerful
Taking notes 📝
RB is my life coach...Great stuff
I like this, when you go to an expensive shop you identify what pleases you, pay and get the product for yourself. "There is no trying we know our products".
For the woman who talked about returning to a relationship because of her son, please remind yourself that your son did not make a difference before the end of the relationship and he will not make any difference if you return to the same situation. Find out what were the issues and if you can now live with it. You can not change people, therefore, he might not have changed and you may have to leave again
Most singles mothers are problematic
@@JohnPaul-nv8qh what about single fathers?
@@dorothyndobu3943 that's a good question 🤔
I cant wait for his next coaching,so amazing!
Wow we are blessed to have such men on earth RB may God bless you with more divine wisdom
Rb is just open and take his advice wholeheartedly..
A man has to have a purpose and a plan for himself for a woman to praise and encourage him. Potential without ambition, desire and determination will get no where regardless of the encouragement and praise the woman bestows on him.
Some women thinks they can build a man who has potential and it never works. Let the man become his potential before you get with him.
Men with a plan and a purpose wants a solid woman to maintain peace at home after he's out there pursuing his career. He wants respect, gratitude and appreciation from the woman.
Woman never address how they speak to men including the ones who are encouraging him when she's upset that same woman will cut him to pieces with words.
💯👏🏾👏🏾Man without a plan= Male/boy. When he has a plan then he is a real Man.
@@sisey99 A Man is still a man, the difference is whether he is good or evil.
@@CsMuia a lazy man may be a good person but if he lacks ambition he's not husband material.
He cannot provide. The woman would be the child bearer, the breadwinner and the cook. He's just a d e a d post in a woman's life if someone marries him.
Well said. th-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/w-d-xo.html
Well said. th-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/w-d-xo.html
I love her accent. so soothing and different. most africans are forcing to change their voice to be someone else's. sad
Great talk , very informative and enlightening, listening from MA USA
Excellent interview! The hosts asked amazing questions and Mr. Robert Burale was fascinating and on-point. I’ve learned so much from this. Thank you!
Thanks you Robert, first deepest conversations
THE RIGHT PERSON IS ENOUGH TO MARRY BECAUSE THE RIGHT PERSON IS GOD GIVEN AND NOT THE CHOICE OF OUR MIND
I love the constant reminder about reading books. Solver of problems