Awkward INFP: Why INFPs Are So Weird
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infp culture is watching every infp analysis video on youtube to know how people see you without asking
Haha, so true 😂
I can't help it. I watched one of these vids and now they're all over my recommendations and I can't NOT click on them lol
This is soooo right.
i dont even have to ask. I have been told upfront that i live on a whole different planet so many times lol
Yep
To feel comfortable being ourselves makes us feel a sense of freedom
I know someone I felt like that with. Terrifying experience. Never again.
@@kassandrasabean6020 when they leave, it's horrible
@@kassandrasabean6020 how was it terrifying?
@@bigchungus2990 Mostly because that person lied but to be fair they didn't have it easy.
@@bigchungus2990 Because people always disappoint in you in the end. Rigged.
idk if it's an infp thing, but sometimes when i can't sleep or begin daydreaming, i come up with scenarios of people i made up and wish existed in my life and just watch my life play out with them in my head
Ikr
Me toooo
Yesssss i do the same 😍😊🤗
OMG! ALL THE TIIMEE!!!
SummerTyme Studios 👍 ya same
as an INFP I am an eternal loner lolol. I was already a shut in before quarantine....
Same here
My life hasn't changed a bit this year lool
There’s a quarantine? 😂
Same
Cindy L SAME omg I couldn’t understand how ppl would die to go out and hang out w friends again
People: What a strange guy.
INFP: What a strange world. Bunch of sociopaths weirdos.
Exactly.
😅
The outside world is shallow, fake and boring. Others could benefit being more of their true self and to think a bit deeper.
I agree
I kinda disagree. The world has many knowledge and mysteries. there has to be more than meets the eye.
Your perception of the outside world is what's shallow
Amen to that!
Yes!
Me finally realising that there are more like me!
Where are you all at? 😭 Its all sensors around me, ill go nuts soon aha i feel so awkward knowing some people notice even the tiniest gestures and analyze me, it makes me even more stiff and unable to express myself, anyone else feel that way?
-Fellow INFP
@@ijjekova yes, I have felt like that, it's not fun, I can relate sadly
Happy to see you all...😄😃INFP here!!
yes! and we're awesome :)
OK wow, I think I'm INTP
Hhhh 😩
No wonder I feel so uncomfortable towards people who doesn't understand me. Sometimes, being called weird can be a compliment for me. But when the person who calls me weird doesn't seem to get my vibe, I become insecure that's why sometimes I mask my personality by being the polite and quiet kid even though I still can't help but be awkward when it comes to conversations. I also daydream out a lot because it loses me from my focus in listening to my lectures.
Same
Same
i try to stop daydreaming but i cant help it so i have a hard time focusing.
damn thought i was so alone in this. I literally cannot focus on anything at all😭
It’s like we’re all living the same life I resonated with everything u said
Someone called me “aloof”’once and my heart broke into a thousand pieces because I genuinely love people and want to be kind. I guess I don’t realize how my day dreaming and need for alone time can be perceived as rude. I always thought my heart was full of joy and love and people must see that.
Now I am self conscious about how I come across and it makes me act even more awkward.
INFP life....the struggle is real.
I understand that 100%. My heart breaks everytime a child tries to interact with me and I'm just too awkward. I love children sooo much but I'm shy around them and afraid that they'll say something bad about me and make me feel disgusted with myself..😅
Relatable
I can relate. I feel like I have so much love and joy to share but it's just looked down upon and I'm considered naive for doing it. I always feel like having to mask it up and clown myself for the pleasure of others and having a sense of "belonging" - whatever that means.
My entire family calls me blazé which is true but that word has a negative connotation so it sometimes doesn’t sit well with me
This happened to me once. My brother-in-law called me aloof but then he later told my husband he was wrong about me and that once you get to know me I care deeply. Don’t worry...the people that matter will eventually come around.
I can't be the only Infp who thinks they aren't special in any way... Right?...
I always think I'm boring to others...I could just do nothing all day and be in my head without any outside stimulation...not much fun
I think im specially useless lol
Well, I can admit I'm not special. But people said that I am. I mean like "Wow, that's weird."
Yep.. Maybe because I get told often before that I am worthless but yeah. I think I am just.. just another waste of space or smth.
yeah, and many people actually told me that i am boring
I love INFPs so much precisely because they are unique individuals with creative ideas, and I can be WEIRD AF around them too. Whenever that happens then it feels like FUSION and it's amazing really, we are vibing together. Keep being yourself, you are amazing, INFP.
Sincerely,
An ENFP
Thanks
Thank u o’ glorious extroverted one 🐿
Aw cuties in the comments! ✨🥰
thankieeessss
my bff is an enfp (and i'm an infp)!! and i actully feel so deeply connected to them,, thanks to y'all enfps, u are cool
this is so true. My friends, family, and classmates tease me for daydreaming almost every single second. They say I'm like someone taking drugs coz I'm always high lol .... I can't help it though, I've always lived in two worlds ever since I was young. The real world and the world inside my mind.
As a kid I had my own TV show in my head that I'd always go to when I was in church, or at school. The amount of joy I get from those fantasies are matched by only a few things in real life
Omg people think that I'm on drugs all the time too! I thought I was the only one with this problem T.T
My parents too. A little too often I’m asked if I’m on drugs or something... I’ve just began to accept it to see their facial reaction
Ya'll should watch maladaptive daydreaming Tiktok compilations, makes you feel valid. Just a tip
Thank you. REALLY. I thought i was something else. Like there's something wrong with me for always daydreaming. Like i have my own world within my mind and my mind only. Like i'm super imaginative. I thought i was the only one.
As an INFP-T, I am my own best friend & at times can be my own worst enemy. It’s a double-edged sword.
Being seen as weird is literly just a compliment for me now, I dont even care, I cant think of a reason to care so I see no reason to
That's the spirit. If you have friends that enjoy and embrace your weird self the world becomes that much more exciting to live! It's liberating
me too, my high school besties really helped me get out of my shell.. i remember a classmate of mine asked me if i was a nerd or a weirdo, i told them a weirdo, proudly
I have always taken it as a compliment!!
Yeah at first i used to have a hard time accepting that people called me wierd but at certain point i stopped caring, cause i know im wierd LMAO
same
I'm INFP and I like being called weird HHAHAHA
I have embraced it. Accepting that about myself has led me to see that there are many people who love my personality.
@@Verowatches it also shows that you’re memorable, since you stand out! Like David Bowie stands out compared to a lot of singers, it’s because of his weird flashyness 💖 I think it’s a good thing
same😂
Same, I take it as a compliment now.
I remember one time in high school a guy called me weird. I replied, "What's wrong with that? Being normal is boring."
I’m crying because I’ve never felt so understood...
Nice to meet you ☺️...
I'm happy for you❤️ I have cried too many times too bc reading infp stuff.. it is just somebody understands for real
@@siiri4564 same omgg
Yeaaahhh I kinda cried a few times when I did the test and saw my description as well :') It was a lot to take in that someone could understand what goes on inside me after struggling to really be understood for so many years. It feels like a blessing to know that my way of being just happens to be rare but that doesn't mean that I'm the only one or have to feel lonely. That I make sense and I can be a good thing.
I am 63 and just found out about the 16 personality types. I am an INFP through and through...a lifelong weird, awkward, unique gal. I have a lot of tears to catch up on!
INTJ here. I knew an INFP. When I described how exhilarating it would be to be a bird, and look down on all of us, she said, "The trees would look like circles from above."
I fell in love that day.
I’ve been building alternative worlds for me to daydream of since I was little because reality sucks and when I told my therapist she said I should work on living more in the real world instead of my imagination and Ive never felt so threatened in my life
I seriously do not like your therapist for that remark, it seems quite ignorant.
My therapist was like that but with my brother.
I would feel the same
Get a new therapist
I get a lot of creative energy out by roleplaying, it let’s me express characters and worlds without worrying about never finishing it because roleplays don’t have a certain goal
You just throw your character and someone else’s together and see what happens
Even my friends would call me weird even if I said I get offended. I have 2 close friends, but the two of them are closer. I've always had this imaginary relationships in my head but it gets lonely sometimes, it's sad to think that we still have to face this world.
I hope you find friends that embrace you for who you are. I am often observed and called out for acting "weird" in public, but having friends/family by my side that can actually enjoy this, makes me that much happier. It's very liberating to just run around the place like you're a child and do whatever you feel like doing at that moment, without being judged. Please just try to stay true to yourself and you will attract people who appreciate it for sure
@@luc6284 I still cherish my child self that is still existing, so thank you for that🥺
I think that ‘best friends’ are not really a thing for me cause then the other person would feel awkward cause they can’t admit being best friends with me so I decided that I would call them my close friends!
@@whyyskiw me too! We haven't thought about calling eo bffs too.
Same sis, you are not alone
When i tell you everyone I’ve meet has called me weird or dumb...it’s everyone💀. Sometimes I don’t worry about it or care because I feel it makes me different. But then other times when I feel people are using it to insult me it hurts and I start questioning myself wishing I acted different. I try to not care what others think because I genuinely love my unique personality and I don’t want words to bring me down! I’m done listening to society and other’s opinions!
Some people don't trust people they "can't get a handle on." so they tend to try to bring us down, because they don't understand us. And after all, it couldn't possibly be THEM who is weird, could
it?
I like that energy you like your unique personality, me too!! Some people call me also weird or stupid but there are also people who say I'm cute for being 'weird'
Chloe Skinner same, my parents always every day 24/7 call me dumb
I think I found my spiritual sibling
@@btsandmrbeastforever2424 How can a parent call a child dumb? Don't they know it is emotional abuse?
It's really a problem for INFP to stay still in any one passion or subject . Atleast for me , I always feel like there are so many things to know and learn about and then it's impossible for me to feel passionate about any one topic . And also I am lazy more than lazy I think I am scared to be failed , that's why it's become so hard to take the first step . And when in any videos they tell me that INFPs are special . I am like REALLY!?
Same
The procrastination and “laziness” and fear of first steps toward starting something as simple as dishes is one of my worst struggles. To me, in my mind I’m always busy!
You just described everything I think thank you 🥺
I actually used to think that i wasn’t normal. I always cared about what other people think about me and i always made sure that people liked me and i don’t get that easily angry at someone. I daydream about performing or acting (which i really enjoy) but actually doing it? Not with my social anxiety 💀 I always make sure that my friends can pour their hearts out to me and tell me about their day but they never do that the other way around. Lol they never ask me how I’m actually feeling
If you wish to talk you can reply to this message I don't know you but we relate in terms of relationship. And if someone call you weird again Simply say in your heart "I am different and that is what makes me attractive hence I love it"
We must be twins, because I'm EXACTLY the same! I often daydream of me being a super famous singer..even though I had social anxiety.. 😅
this is literally me
OMG i thought you were me
@@sunnyside_up_up619 omg same. I often daydream I am giving an interview after a performnce too 😂😂😂
This is true lmao. I am very very awkward when I step out of the door. But when inside, I'm just crazy.
I can relate
Precisely, you are definitely an INFP like me.
@@sunhythen XD it turns out I was mistyped and am actually an intp 5w6. But I believe this trait is something a lot of introverts, especially INxP share in common. Thanks tho for replying, I got a nostalgic trip to the time I thought I was an infp
I remember once when I was like 14 or something, my sister told me that I’m charmingly awkward and that people are drawn to me because of that and idk why I’ve always remembered that but I always view my awkwardness as a good thing because she told me that
seems she's an ENFJ
You're so lucky, all my young life my older sister would say "why can't you be normal" ugh! To me, she was the definition of boring, just "vanilla", and a total sheep w/ no imagination who wore/wears anything "in style" no matter how ridiculous, and God forbid she wears something NOT in style at the moment, or different.
She loved me tho when she had kids because she had no clue how to interact w/ her children when they were between 2-8. She'd ask me "they love playing with you, what do you do"...I'd say back "I don't know, maybe it's my imagination (you stupid boring b!tch)
@@_ianjms she’s an ISFJ
She's the best sister ever. A number of INFPs lack such people in their lives, but you have her.
im learning to love myself
Our feelings are very strong and our emotional wounds go very deep. I'm healing and learning to accept my feelings. I don't know if it is an infp thing.
I always daydream and usually when I read novels, my mind immerse itself to the book I am reading.
Lately, I've been reading manhwas/manga/manhua. It is not moving nor does it have any bgm but in my head is a play. The characters are moving, breathing, speaking and there's music. There are also times that I am so immersed that I smell what the environment is, the food they eat, etc. So it's so strange when they finally got animations/movies then I watch it because I feel like I already did.
You have the spirit of a writer. I too I can see my imaginary character acting in my head as if they were alive. Have you ever tought of writing a novel?
same 😭
Same i am an infp-t i love anime since i was a child.. i am always who prefer to watch tv mostly animes than going outside reading manga/manhwa/webtoon makes me feel great after work
YES
@@rosettesionne9139 Wrong type..
We all try to write books, but we quickly get a new idea and grow bored of our old one
This repeats the same sentence in 50 different ways but thanks
Has any one ever asked you what's wrong with you? At my current job, where I don't fit in, I get looks and scoffs, and I keep to myself. They are all so fake. Does anyone else get so in their head that people walk up and startle you? A coworker took my phone and went through it - what they could, anyway. I put it in a drawer and walked off, my own fault. Now it is protected. Why would someone do that? Has anyone experienced anything like this?
Tell them to back off that's weird
I am an INFP....as a child I knew I didn't fit in this world. And had a family helped me feel that way. But as an adult I've embraced who I am and have friends who like me.
As an INFP-A I really don't care about social interaction. I'll definitely interact if someone wants to, and hang out if someone wants too. But if no one asks then I don't care and just chill by myself.
You know you’re an infp when every time you learn something new about yourself you accept it quickly and show it authentically. I realized I was bisexual and two days later I already told everyone and was super accepting of myself 💖
Wow. I grew up in a society where any sexuality that is not straight is demonic and evil. But I've come to think independent of all that, because I like putting myself in other's shoes. I know without a doubt that I'm straight, but I have no hatred for other. I've never been racist, xenophobic or tribalist, so I thought, why should I be homophobic.
Being an infp myself, everytime I feel bored or nothing to do I immediately start daydreaming, daydreaming about stuff I wish that happens , future plans that I know I’ll never be able to do , people I wish they’d talk to me . If I got the chance to do one of these stuff I just keep saying thank god it happened and completely forget how to cope with it and make it beautiful, I’ll just act awkwardly instead . I get misunderstood by people all the time and it feels overwhelming to explain what I feel . Sometimes I just feel to cut all human interaction and live in my own imagintive world .
I thought I was weird because as young as I can remember, I was okay with being alone in my own company. High school was tough in the sense that I could not connect with anyone because that’s the time when people are discovering their self and few were genuine. I often went to the library alone, ate alone, and did things alone. But I never felt lonely. After taking the mtbi test and my results ended up being infp-a... I started to feel better about myself lol I always thought something was wrong with me, but now I know.
I havent even watched the video yet because ive been reading these comments for 15 minutes straight i feel so safe here
I feel so understood and connected here. So refreshing to read all these comments from my people all around the world. I am and always have been a hardcore INFP. I grew up in a working class neighborhood full of men who were emotionally stunted wannabe tough guys and the mostly battered and abused women who loved them. I was picked on by both (including family members). I learned to hate my vulnerability but now finally embracing myself completely at 49 years old feels liberating. I am creating music and poetry again and more importantly finding people who embrace me and all my wonderfully quirky INFP qualities! My fifties are going to be extraordinary!
As an INFP i like to search about being INFP to see if its true.
Since i now know that i have a rare personality type, now i feel even happier and special. I feel like i belong in this world with even bigger reasons. And most importantly i've found myself
_Hope you all are doing well_
Tbh, I take 'weird' as compliment. Like when someone called me weird, I'll say thank you.
I know right? So weird.
forget about relationships, i have trouble making friends. i really dont know what to say or how to act around people. im very misunderstood and idk how to change that, i cant put my feelings and thoughts into words because when i do it doesnt make sense lmao. idek but yeah i just feel lost
I just took the Myers-Briggs test today and I’m doing research to help understand why a lot of people find me difficult to be around. Thank you so much for posting this. Light and love everyone! 💓
We can have a proclivity towards being awkward. I am not a fan of this trait either but we have many compensating factors. We tend to be kind, respectful, empathetic and courteous to other people, often have special bonds with animals and children, work diligently when we find employment or volunteer work in the field we are passionate about. We have a propensity to perform at school as well as Intelligent/Emotion Quotient Tests.
Us INFPs' inner world is quirky and extraordinary. Someone commented on my video the other day that he'd be horrified and wouldn't believe it if a non INFP said they completely understood them 😅 We're peculiar like that and we wouldn't have it any other way.
My teacher once called me weird because of my introverted nature and now I'm known for being weird. I tried fitting in but in the end i couldn't so i gave up and continued my life as it was before.
Me, an INFP-T as well as a Taurus: *nods intensely*
I know 😂
Same !!
Im a sagittarius Infp
Me too😀😀
Same lmao
It's tough to be unique when society expects you to be a mirror ~ Me2020
You just know me huh?
A coworker once told me that I'm a walking fever dream
Shuuu...I'm kinda tearing up because it feels good to know that I'm not the only weirdo out there.
Nooo you’re not!
If I appear lost, I’m not. I’m simply connected on a wider scale. I’m aware of what’s going on around me even though I’m not directly engaged.
Honestly, I’m an INFP and I find it hard to relate to other people. So, people usually assume I’m a bitch which can be true but not 100%..
This type is rarely associated with being nasty.
I'm currently 18 and quite oppositely to a lot of people here, the more i grow up, the more i feel alienated from the rest of the world. I never really had trouble making friends when i was a kid because everybodys a bit weird and their personalities arent fully formed yet and I never really had trouble making friends as a teen because in high school n everything you tend to find weirdos you vibe with pretty easily,, at least for me. The older i get the more i am confronted to more "adult" situations (prime example: going to work) and this is where it kills me the most. I just sit in my corner at lunch and watch everyone whos like 5-10 years older than me talk about the most meaningless things and regurgitate stuff thats been said a thousand times..... and they all find each other funny ?????? or whatever????? like i dont understand how people can actually be invested in small talk and not fake everything ..? When im alone with a coworker and they start talking to me i feel like i have to meticulously think about every word i say and i always come out as disingenuous or distant when its never really been like this when i was younger,,,,,, When im with close friends or people in my art classes i dont really know i dont feel like this at all (or very little), i just feel like im 13 again with that whole "normal people scare me xdd" thing and i dont likr itttt
Whenever im with people i dont know now i really really really overthink everything i do. I feel like im stuck between finding how to fit in better, learn socializing tips, or just learning to accept who i am. I feel as if i spend a lot of time researching stuff like this it will just lead me to overthink everything even more and lose track of myself, but im very scared of just accepting the way i am bc its not treating me good right now. aaa i feel so stuck im someone who really loves humans and really getting to know people and whenever i have to do ANYTHING thats a bit superficial i always come off just so bad aaaaargh i cant do this yall 🥲
Oh God, being an INFP with ADHD Is even more complicated
When you're an Aquarius and INFP... Always the weird one
Aquarius rising INFP here.Totally understand.
Scorpio INFP here - complete contradiction of myself ;-P
Someone: You're sorta weird.. you're so strange...
My teacher: LOL I just noticed that you're eccentric!
Me searching what was eccentric and after finding out I don't know anymore if it was a praise or insult XD
I tend to think I'm special because I rarely find people who like the same things as me, no matter how ordinary those things are. But that's also what makes me feel lonely at times despite having really good friends. Anyone else?
Yes. Cuz no matter how excited you get about something rare or cool....there is nobody to tell/share it with, cuz they don't see why it's cool or even interesting. Plus when they ask you to explain it you start to trip up on your feelings and your words and sound like a halfway crazy person instead of the well thought out intelligent person you know you are. 😅
my family @ me everyday: "you're so weird, why can you be more normal??"
As if we can control it. We had never asked to be different so there is no point been ashamed about it
My family calls me "alien" lol😂😂
ENFP here 👋 But can i just say: I'm not sure why exactly, but I really love INFPs. Most of my friends are INFPs, and I really appreciate their unique and wholesome behaviour as well as the emphasis on their core values (without being judgemental of others). Based on my experiences with INFPs, I click really well and in fact also look up to them. I try my best to be a comforting figure and respect their boundaries. And I must say I've been able to learn so much from the INFPs' pure nature
That girl running in the yellow flower field. I just want to do that.
Am I right?! 😅
I’ve always felt to be more open with my friends than with strangers
Being an INFP we enjoy our time with ourselves and our imagination ...... we r so skillful and creative tht why we r happily alone .......
nd We hate judgements.......
If anyone misunderstands us we start keeping our distance from them
Omg I truly can't relate to anything else than this. As an INFP I know that this is 100% correct.
As a successful INFP-A the two greatest things you can do are:
1) never underestimate the power of humor to seem more "normal" or at least "relatable". Especially in work environments when realistically our not-so-serious dumb founded looks don't make us first picks for promotion, even though we know more than the vast majority of the people working there.
2) set realistic boundaries, have realistic expectations, and make your needs known. Always remind yourself that everyone around you lacks the same level of intuition as you. Our idea of being obvious is completely different than what a normy sees. We may pick up on a slight change in pitch, feet facing a certain direction, eye moment, or even if someone's breathing changed....but normies just won't pick up on it and/or known what it means.
Very well said! 👍
Oh! A INFP-A. It's good to find another one. I feel like I'm the only one sometimes. Infp-t's seem so over focused on in the community. I always feel left out. We don 't get explained at all . "Assertive INFP? Do those exist?" Is the response I get. It's vexing.
@@spottedslash4256 I haven't been asked the question "do assertive INFP's exist" but I could see the confusion. "Assertive" people often mistaken as "aggressive" when really it's really just the having confidence to stand up for yourself, not be afraid to ask for what you want, and negotiation skills.
@@laverdadbuscador That's how I see it. I wish more people could understand that . We're not all over emotional and lacking confidence. Thank you for the response.👍
@@spottedslash4256 I'm more stoic actually. I'm just not interested in giving others the power to control how I feel. I tend to listen to understand rather than listen to speak.
Hello my stranger twins X"D I'll come back later to watch the whole video after I'm ready to face myself lol
XD this video is worth watching and I dont wanna spoil anything but its really good
*sees title* so you're saying I'm not insane?--
You are not insane. You are just different on a cute way
Lol definitely me. Oddly I’ve grown to be comfortable in my awkwardness. 🥴 I am who am and whoever doesn’t like it, can suck it!
I never find anything that is more accurate than this.
This was amazing to watch. It offered a wide perspective about INFPs. More people should watch this. Thanks for sharing!
Hi fellow elf and an infp too ig 💙
@@vidhi9928 Woah, I came back to this video and I found your answer akdj. YES, I am INFP ELF. It's so great to find more 🥺 I hope you are fine, even now ten months later🤣
once my friend called me weird and i laughed. this does not bother me, i see myself as someone really unusual
Why are you insulting us
Your answer is incorrect ❤️
Bc theyre insecure. Or trying to bait us for a bigger plan. Like destroying our selves. To then "magically" slipping ads of bs all like," do you have thoughts of doubt? Sometimes even leading to suicide? Or possibly even thoughts of hurting others? Well, here at the bs clinic that we just forced on you, we take great pride in taking special care of our patients needs." Blah blah blah. Insert bs pill ad as well, thats not even fda approved. Or couldve been bc the fda is in on their own bs.
I dont see any other motive for those type gains. Other than the occassional, pls pay attention to me comments. & Or Help my channel grow. Yeah, this is how an injf, infp thinks 😁👍.
@@ahhwe-any7434 dude I was joking
Kxrrin LMAO KSKDKKX
Me : INFP
and i have always been looking for videos about my type so i don’t feel like i’m weird...alone. Like i can be weird, together with other weirdos and it’s a good thing somehow in a perspective. Thanks.
It is good to be weird with other people who are also weird because no one will ask to be normal
Am I the only one who love everyone but always search for common things in others to be friend with them? I mean even I feel and behave friendly, I always get upset when my friend can't completely agree with my morals and ethics. I mean I never say that they are wrong just bcos they don't have same belief like me, but its difficult to open up abt that belief to another cos of the fear of being criticised or cos of the thought what if they couldn't agree with me.
So I always want a partner and friends who can deeply connect with me in every possible way. Its unbelievable for me when someone date a person met yesterday and hang out with them and have a physical relationship, cos its so hard for me to move on frm person to person or have intimate relationship with them without achieving 100% compatibility. Its going to make me single for life lol...
I could say im pretty outgoing but I'm surprised to hear other people say I'm quiet and weird. There is that sense of isolation from people not getting where you're coming from. Being alone is the most comfortable to me since i dont need to adapt to anyone else's language or expression for them to understand me. When alone I can truly be myself not caring how I look, how I appear to act, or if I mess something up. Its freeing, but sometimes lonely of course. But that makes friends and lovers even more special, to act like myself in front of them, someone who could listen to my rambling late night thoughts or my pretentious manner of speech. And Im glad that im normal amongst INFPs. Nice video
If I feel that a relationship is not gonna work out, I get out of it first for I fear rejections.
I fail to express myself to people, like my facial expressions doesn't always sync with my emotions and mostly misunderstood so I come off as weird.
Yes! I'm a daydreamer and I make up multiple scenarios in my head and stay there.
And I'm super awkward af.
I'm indecisive and a people pleaser.. sigh!
Same
I’m deeply enjoy the sense of unity in this comment section as we freely complain on how hard it is being INFPs and getting our feelings out a bit 😄
Just found out im an infp-a and i feel sooo understood wtf
“And have a natural desire to be themselves and sincere” this is sooo motherfucking true, like u will never catch me being different. I’m always me. With everyone. And YUP i hate fake people.
“Goes against whats right even if thats what people expect from them” omg this is sooo true?? I always say my opinion and how i feel about things.
Also SO TRUE i seem like such a reserved girl on the outside and like a bitch bc of my rbf, but if u look approachable ill just talk to you and i’m so loud around my friends
I'm an INFP and yes, I'm a weirdo and socially awkward af. lol
OmG, I thought I was wrong. always afraid of being just me because the way I am is not the most fitting way of being, specially when I don't know that much the people I'm with. I think that I must accept who I am and stop trying to fit in
I think INFPs also seem unusual or get burned because we have the 4 traits society doesn't value. Also the need to be true to ourselves even if it draws attention.
Now this video is spot on when it comes to my INFP personality. Thanks you so much for this!
I'm not seen as unique lol i'm seen as an outcast
Everyone is unique so you are unique
You need to treasure yourself more. We all feel like that at times and yes it's challenging but we fail to see the bigger picture. I was bullied for the duration of my twelve year scholastic life. Why? I stood up for myself a handful of times but otherwise was silent and put up with the abuse. You don't need to. If I were you now I would engage in Boxing lessons and stand up for myself.
Be different means be better.
0:21 I don’t want to *be* pegged I want to be *the* peg.
am I the only infp who is awkward around their parents like I don't know where to look, what to do with my hands, if I should stand or if I should sit and how I should react to their words lol. so I avoid them
INFPs are definitely misunderstood but are actually so cool once you get to know them, they’re hilarious, down to earth, accepting, non judgmental and very genuine and sincere people. They’re deep thinkers They tell it like it is always and despite their issues (insecurity, mental health) they have such beautiful and pure hearts and I think that’s one thing a lot of people secretly envy about this personality type. Because their souls are so pure to this world they automatically assume everyone is like them. But that’s the problem. The INFP can be very naive but it’s not because they’re stupid, it’s because they’re pure. I don’t think they’re awkward they can be shy which isn’t a bad thing at all and they’re true to themselves but that doesn’t make them awkward or boring they’re the complete opposite once you get to know them just often shy
I read that there are lots of INFPs out there who feel exactly the same but can't find any other people of their type, why not making an IG group for INFPs where we talk about our issues and random stuff😊 But I am too shy to write my IG name haha😂
yup like a good forum
Being both an INFP and Enneatype 4, yes, I'm weird and I love it. It used to make me feel conscious when I was branded as weird and emo by my friends but when I grew older, I just accepted it and am now happy to be weird. Haha! It makes my Type 4 self happy that I maintain my uniqueness. 😍💖
I LOVE MY INFP PERSONALITY TYPE!! It's not easy and I definitely struggle, but the older I get, the more comfortable I become with myself.
It’s true . Sometimes I wish people would leave me alone
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I always felt different and I was thinking that there's something wrong with me. I love helping people but at the same time I'm afraid od them,cuz they tend to use me if I only give them a hand. I want to give all into every single relationship,but then I'm left alone and no one cares if I have problems. Sometimes I think that world is too scary place to live in, worlds into my mind are more safety places. Probably my mood is a reason why I'm thinking like that,cuz I spend next night all alone with my sis dog,my friend avoiding me and I don't even have anyone to talk to🍵📖 Sorry for that,I'm going back into my safety shell and go drawing 😂
I've been called Evil, Selfish and Proud by family even, at times. So weird is the nicest honest remark I can get.
This, exactly this. I always wondered why i clashed with people who (which i found out later) said extremely hurtful things about me behind my back. I didn't know for most of the time, but honestly, i may have already felt that they were dishonest with me.
Im always considered weird lol
All my class are UNHEALTHY sensors
I hate them literally they make my life miserable. I wish for once I could be understood
Lately, I've never known how to act around ppl just to fit in. So I've been acting and fooling around my coworkers, and see who I can trust or talk to, and it's hard, bcuz I wanna be quiet and withdrawn, yet I wanna be around ppl so badly. I've been getting out of my comfort zone lately, but it's hard, cuz then my negative self-conscious thoughts come in and make me think I'm annoying or boring, or just something bad about I'm starting to talk to ppl, yet at the moment, I'm afraid of messing up my chances
Lol it’s reminds me of my teachers wrote that I’m easily distracted and not focused in class and I admit it
Sorry teachers, but it’s fun 🥰
Excellent content, encapsulates the INFP individuality perfectly.
True to my heart... strong inner morals... doesn’t believe in comforting for others... while in a pandemic.🤔
Rather be called weird instead of boring.
INFPs seems weak or different bcs.. They don't have much friends.. And they focus on quality rather than quantity...
They never afraid to be alone or being themselves...
The love so much solitude...
They never say things unless they mean it.. They won't act excited or sad or happy if they don't feel it!!
They say what they think... Honest and it give kind of cruel impression..
They don't crave for others validation cuz they know their worth!!
And finally I learnt to listen to my inner voice no matter what after I went through one personal incident and it always reminds me to be who I am and do what my mind say to do!!
The people in the video look so normal to me. The superficial world is awkward!
(INFP) Yup, I'm weird and I love it 😁