Watch this video if you're a software engineer and you often feel lonely: 👉 How to connect with people as an introvert in tech: th-cam.com/video/_m55IjfDPWs/w-d-xo.html
I really appreciate this video. I'm such a social butterfly but ever since covid and all these lockdowns I've noticed noticed that I'm not as good with conversations and it's started giving me anxiety about being around people I don't know very well. I've made notes based on what you've said and already I'm thinking about how I could have extended conversations or elaborated more. Great video!
@@SocialConfidenceMastery Probably the tip to elaborate more. I'm usually very good at asking questions and listening, but some people might not be as good. So if someone does ask a question elaborating more which gives them more to go on I guess.
I will open up more and try to keep the conversation interesting. To be honest, I'm really afraid of showing my weaknesses, but the more I try to hide them the less things I have to talk with others. So bear with me, I will change.
Well explained and elaborated brother! This just gives me confidence to improve my social skills and remove my doubts. I appreciate this vid. Thanks a lot! 🙏
Excellent tips. I usually get the same questions when I meet new people, so I have come up with funny responses to them. But the responses could be different depending on the situation. For example when out to clubs if they ask how old I am I usually say: "I am 97 years young" but I dont say that if its a more formal gathering.
You kept saying “you need” like no I just want to. Introverts feel like they need to be more talkative which is exactly why they’re not. They already feel so much pressure.
Hllw sir....I just want to talk with u on this topic as i'm an introvert this makes me under confident and also people misunderstood me as they thought i've lots of attitude so i didn't spoke and now a days this prblm becomes more and more serious as I lost my friends...I feel lonely and sometimes this hits hard as I want to speak with anyone and i'll try but after some few words i'm totally blank and couldn't say anything and at that point our conversation stops sir.. I just want to over come this as soon as possible i saw each an every vdo on the you tube to be more talkative but whenever I try to use it in my day today life I make mistake and some time I said some rubbish things as the person in front of me get hurt...sir plzzz help me I want to overcome this and live normally without getting disturbed....sir I want to talk to u plzz tell me your insta id or anything else from which I can approach toward u plzz sir help...!!!
I say if you do drugs then stop bc drugs makes anxiety worse and living a sober life helps you accomplish way more but fighting that addiction is a different story you have to find something that’s willing to make you pursue a sober life for the better
Watch this video if you're a software engineer and you often feel lonely:
👉 How to connect with people as an introvert in tech: th-cam.com/video/_m55IjfDPWs/w-d-xo.html
I really appreciate this video. I'm such a social butterfly but ever since covid and all these lockdowns I've noticed noticed that I'm not as good with conversations and it's started giving me anxiety about being around people I don't know very well.
I've made notes based on what you've said and already I'm thinking about how I could have extended conversations or elaborated more. Great video!
I hear you for sure!
Which tip did you find the most helpful for you?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery Probably the tip to elaborate more. I'm usually very good at asking questions and listening, but some people might not be as good.
So if someone does ask a question elaborating more which gives them more to go on I guess.
I will open up more and try to keep the conversation interesting. To be honest, I'm really afraid of showing my weaknesses, but the more I try to hide them the less things I have to talk with others. So bear with me, I will change.
Well explained and elaborated brother! This just gives me confidence to improve my social skills and remove my doubts. I appreciate this vid. Thanks a lot! 🙏
Glad it was helpful!
this video was so good that it got first suggested on google
That's awesome!
Is that how you found it for the first time?
Excellent tips. I usually get the same questions when I meet new people, so I have come up with funny responses to them. But the responses could be different depending on the situation. For example when out to clubs if they ask how old I am I usually say: "I am 97 years young" but I dont say that if its a more formal gathering.
Love that!
You definitely have to calibrate your jokes!
thanks the video seems helpful and intresting I've never tried any of those I'll try starting those hopefully I can communicate more. Thank you!
You're so welcome!
Glad to hear you got value from it!
I'm so glad I found your channel
I appreciate the kind words!
Glad to have you here Jhomer!
Any requests for future videos?
Great video man 🔥
I'm happy to hear that!
Which tip did you like the most?
You kept saying “you need” like no I just want to. Introverts feel like they need to be more talkative which is exactly why they’re not. They already feel so much pressure.
Fair enough!
Add cc please
You sure close your eyes an awful lot, it's not even a subtle blink but a full eye close for 0.5 seconds each time lol
Thanks for your feedback!
LMAO
@@SocialConfidenceMastery it's ok, I hate contact lenses too, so I'm getting Lasik done soon!
Hllw sir....I just want to talk with u on this topic as i'm an introvert this makes me under confident and also people misunderstood me as they thought i've lots of attitude so i didn't spoke and now a days this prblm becomes more and more serious as I lost my friends...I feel lonely and sometimes this hits hard as I want to speak with anyone and i'll try but after some few words i'm totally blank and couldn't say anything and at that point our conversation stops sir.. I just want to over come this as soon as possible i saw each an every vdo on the you tube to be more talkative but whenever I try to use it in my day today life I make mistake and some time I said some rubbish things as the person in front of me get hurt...sir plzzz help me I want to overcome this and live normally without getting disturbed....sir I want to talk to u plzz tell me your insta id or anything else from which I can approach toward u plzz sir help...!!!
Thanks for sharing your struggles!
Have you seen my video on how to express yourself better verbally?
I say if you do drugs then stop bc drugs makes anxiety worse and living a sober life helps you accomplish way more but fighting that addiction is a different story you have to find something that’s willing to make you pursue a sober life for the better