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I love the "Be interested in others" tip. You are likely not very good at talking, but this allows the other person to fill in the silence while also making them feel important to you.
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I would say small talk and carrying the conversation into something more interesting is pretty difficult, as well as coming up with things to talk about
@@SocialConfidenceMastery Definitely "Come up with with stories". Planning and writing out your own stories is not something we would do for conversation but is what we do for thing s like presentations and speeches, so it makes sense that it would work. I just never thought of seriously planning out. "Studying charismatic people" is a tip I find will be very useful aswell.
"Socially Inept" kinda harsh term, but ha-ha.... Yes Dude, I am "SI" I´ve been struggling with it since I was 9 and the thing is I am not even that introvert, I really like to talk to people I already know, but building new relationships, Hmmm.. It gives me the vibes As if I was Tom Cruise in Mission impossible and it feels like one; my body glitches and freezes, but I am trying to improve on that aspect of my life so thanks for the content.
It's a sarcastic mindset of mine, but if they made improving your social skills in our teenage years or adolescent years as part of the education system, soft skills, social dynamics, as part of school system, I feel those classes should be mandatory for men but optional for women. Because the way I see it, the person who has to initiate or begin an interaction, and lead the interaction, needs a hell of a lot more social-skills training than the person who responds and follows.
@@SocialConfidenceMastery reason why I feel social skills classes or soft skills classes should be mandatory for men but optional for women in our teenage or adolescent years as part of the education system is due to how men have always been expected to approach women or talk to women, lead conversations and interactions and that of course requires a lot more social skills training then for the person who is responding, etc. Also, men I feel need better social intelligence, understand social cues and social boundaries than women do is because, if a guy interacts with women in an awkward or wrong way he can be labeled as creepy or harassing, the reverse isn't true though.
Social anxiety can be cured through therapy. It’s not healthy walking through life always negative. People like that are boring to be around anyway. Afraid to leave the house. smh….
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I love the "Be interested in others" tip. You are likely not very good at talking, but this allows the other person to fill in the silence while also making them feel important to you.
You're so right! Do you identify as an introvert or someone who's shy?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery Both 😭 But i think I’m getting better with socializing
@@vanwagon That's great to hear! Which part of the interaction are you getting stuck? The approach? Small talk? Going deeper?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I would say small talk and carrying the conversation into something more interesting is pretty difficult, as well as coming up with things to talk about
Dude you can’t imagine how much you helped me you da 🐐for sure much love ❤️
I'm so happy to hear that!
Which tip from this video did you like the most?
Also, what would you say is your biggest struggle socially?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery my biggest struggle was talking to other people i was quite all the time now i talk confidently with everyone 👌🏻
This video has high quality info. I will definitely apply these tips!
Thanks for the kind words!
Which tip stood out to you the most?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery Definitely "Come up with with stories". Planning and writing out your own stories is not something we would do for conversation but is what we do for thing s like presentations and speeches, so it makes sense that it would work. I just never thought of seriously planning out. "Studying charismatic people" is a tip I find will be very useful aswell.
I love the content as of now!
Thank you Mexon!
What do you like about it now compared to before?
Your feedback will help me make better videos to help you out moving forward!
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I think you could tell a bit more of your story and why you feel that you where socially inept.
@@mrs.sutton4393 Thank you so much for your feedback!
"Socially Inept" kinda harsh term, but ha-ha.... Yes Dude, I am "SI" I´ve been struggling with it since I was 9 and the thing is I am not even that introvert, I really like to talk to people I already know, but building new relationships, Hmmm.. It gives me the vibes As if I was Tom Cruise in Mission impossible and it feels like one; my body glitches and freezes, but I am trying to improve on that aspect of my life so thanks for the content.
I appreciate you sharing that!
I can relate to you as I used to struggle socially myself.
I will try this tips tomorrow, i hope I can do it
That's great to hear!
How are things with you socially?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery sadly everything is the same, i wasn't able to do it and noww I'm sad
@@ishivale Where are you getting stuck socially?
@@ishivale Where are you getting stuck?
It's a sarcastic mindset of mine, but if they made improving your social skills in our teenage years or adolescent years as part of the education system, soft skills, social dynamics, as part of school system, I feel those classes should be mandatory for men but optional for women.
Because the way I see it, the person who has to initiate or begin an interaction, and lead the interaction, needs a hell of a lot more social-skills training than the person who responds and follows.
I'd love to hear more!
Can you explain further?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery reason why I feel social skills classes or soft skills classes should be mandatory for men but optional for women in our teenage or adolescent years as part of the education system is due to how men have always been expected to approach women or talk to women, lead conversations and interactions and that of course requires a lot more social skills training then for the person who is responding, etc.
Also, men I feel need better social intelligence, understand social cues and social boundaries than women do is because, if a guy interacts with women in an awkward or wrong way he can be labeled as creepy or harassing, the reverse isn't true though.
That's so heteronormative what-
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Social anxiety can be cured through therapy. It’s not healthy walking through life always negative. People like that are boring to be around anyway. Afraid to leave the house. smh….
Totally fair!
How are things going for you socially?
I’m doing steroids
Fair enough!
Glad to hear that!