@@rahmadmasnana1599 It means, don't try to change them. Only they can change themselves. If you can't take them as they are, then the relationship is not meant to be.
Wait, these people weren't stupid and "old-fashioned". They were practical and wise. Someone just wants us to think they're stupid and backwards. But they're not at all.
Interesting how they have knowledge of things that are still relevant today... this was made 73 years ago. But the knowledge these things teach are true for eternity.
Aside from the guys, I think it's cool that Mary was a good enough friend to Eve to take a risk and have a hard conversation and tell her the truth without making it look like it devalues Eve's worth as a person and tries to help her sort through it.
John's a beast. He's forthright, keeps his word, and knows how to have fun. She expects him to bend the rules for him? Nah. John has morals and ethics. She should have stuck with him!
@@TouchofShunshine Right? I'm amused by the idea that she wanted him to break his promise. A lot of people don't realize that if someone will break their promise to others, then they will also break their promise to you.
Is the fact that her name is Eve and she is tempting him with the apple lost here? It's so obvious that they're portraying her as the immoral, hostile woman and he as the mature, upholder of morality. Oh, and the threatening her with physical violence is a great touch. Critical eye, people!
"What were you asking him to do?" "Prove that he liked me" "That will never satisfy you" "Why not?" "That's not what you really wanted. You want him to do what you told him to do. That's what you always wanted Eve."
Yeah. I realized a long time ago, and, often voiced the unpopular opinion, that even without religious or health concerns being considered, it is still better to do things the old fashioned way of spending time in group settings as friends, maybe in each other's familial home, and, eventually, in public but otherwise alone, if what you want is a real relationship. Because, throwing sex into the equation too early gives people the false impression of being connected to, accepted by and understanding this person they are spending time with. So much so that they stop really trying and feel betrayed, later, when they find out the person is something other than what they thought they were after only a few dates.
Lol Rubbish do you know how many unwed mothers shelters there were in the US in the 50s??Tons.Trust me they were having just as much sex as they are now.
This film is a gem. Possibly the best social guidance-type film I've seen, because not only is it entertaining, but the message is timeless and 100% true. My husband of eleven years loves playing music as much as he loves life itself. I couldn't live without books. We both love cats and collecting. There's a lot of overlap in our 'likes' and values, but a few significant ways in which we're very different. We knew this when we married. Like in this film, we know we'll have to be friends as well as spouses for a very long time!
Steve is my favorite; he has a quiet sexiness about him. And while it's fun to go out and have a good time, it's also nice to stay at home and have a relaxing evening (i.e., listen to music, play board games, etc.) The one I have a problem with is Arthur. Arthur: "You're different from other girls." Eve: "That's what you think." Arthur: "You're smarter; you're almost like a man." Eve: "Oh no, I'm very much the woman." Arthur: "I don't think of you that way at all." OUCH!!!
These movies are so good to compare the lifestyle we lived with the 1960s. They helped me a lot, that is, these films bring wisdom, reflection and, in a sense, bring me a way to live better. Thank you for posting.
This is great.. I’ve been binge watching these 1950s educational videos for a month now and this is one of my favorites. I love the part where she says every experience whether pleasant or unpleasant she realizes things and learns about herself. Lots of wisdom in these videos.
You don't need self-help books, you need to watch these types of films and put their wisdom to action; maybe even read some of the books from that time period. They will make you a better person in no time.
@@thekatablueprint2189 I'd chime in, and say go through all the vids on this channel. Maybe even read the Bible, and then pick the Pilgrim's Progress written in the 1600s.
@@thekatablueprint2189”How to win friends and Influence people” is an amazing read!! As well as the two other books by Dale Carnegie. They’ve really helped me in my interactions and they’re worded beautifully!!
Wow the opening advice is literally the best life advice I've heard. And it's essential and yet not said enough. Plus they highlight different personalities and attitudes.
A woman with woman's beauty and man's intelligent, not bad at all. I know feminists don't like it, the top 10 best performers in math in the class are always boys, that's what my girl friend said.
@@seanleith5312 My point was no woman likes to be told that they are a man. I’m not sure there’s a lot of truth in that statement that “The top 10 best are always boys.” I’m a girl and I’m the best in my class.
I love this video, it helped me think about what kind of a man is for me. They don't have this today, that's why there are too many conflicts between couples.
One problem I've noticed nowadays is that there seem to be a lot of people who would rather settle for less than be alone. Really, I think it's better to be alone than to be with the wrong person. Many people have lowered their standards due to the fear of being lonely.
This one is one of my more favorite. None of them compromise their selves wholy just to find a mate or to be in love. They all see a beauty in each other nonetheless and come to terms that everyone is made different and still deserving of love.
Its so encouraging to watch this and realise that I’ve been on the same path of thought and growth. Been single for nearly 2 years now for the sake of personal improvement, and the changes in me are impeccable
Yes! I just shared this with my sister as an explanation of what I meant by saying i liked men that are strong. John is confident. He's not bossy or domineering, but, he is dominant.
I think alot of women have these qualities just as some men have shadow sides. It's about being honest and looking at areas that need to adjust." Take people as they come or leave them alone" there's a heart mate who intergrates with our light and shadow. This is really deeper than alot of these comments imply
The world had more common sense then. They had more reasonable expectations and fewer high demands. Today many think they have a duty to change others. Maybe they need to leave other people alone if they are not hurting others !!!
I really, really like this little film. I love John. Kind of like the boat builder and math boy. But, no matter how many times I watch it, I will never understand how the football player's new girl is considered to be not as attractive as Eve. To me, she looks about 1000 percent prettier.
Regardless of the sexism behind the statement, it's so strange to say either way. Why would a straight dude compliment their girlfriend by saying she's like a man? I think Eve was justified saying that he was a bit weird.
@Sweet Pea Co If she represents MOST women, I am beginning to understand MGTOW more and more. I am not anything like that bossy little freak of a girl. Demanding that a man betray his friendship, being completely ungrateful toward the other man who loaned her the car. Nope! She's a creep. She needs to see she's a creep and fix her creepy little ways, because, she sure didn't like it when football boy was treating her anything like the way she treats others.
Funny how some people are freaking out about the "spanking"comment yet 50 Shades of Gray is the biggest selling novel in history among women. But then failure to recognize irony and lack of self-awareness often go together.
There are also several persons commenting that they want a man like John. However - and, I only know this from the little bit of reading I did on sites about how bad the writing is - that twit in 50 Shades of Gray is actually nothing like John. He's weak manipulative, constantly thinking about and fawning over the woman and willing to go to great lengths to prove she is desirable. He is a pretense at strength, but, really, a slave to the woman. So, many selfish women do not like John, whom they see as a threat, but, they like that other dink, because, he is a fun pet who will make a fuss over them. I knew men who were like John, some into BDSM and some not, and, women were always telling me that they were abusive. Yet, I was never abused by them. Because, what the women really meant is that these guys would not let them get away with whatever they wanted without consequences. They would be generous, but, not to the point of ridiculousness. And, they were the sort that if a woman tried to make them jealous, they'd let her leave and never look back. It's like with Sean Connery stating that sometimes a woman needs to be slapped and defining the circumstances. Which is if she is given the last word and she won't take it, repeatedly. And, he was talking about a little slap, to restore her to her senses, not brutality. Same as you would do if someone was in shock or getting hysterical. Women told me he was abusive. I told them his wife doesn't seem to think so. They told me if I was with a man like that, I'd see and realize how bad he is, the first time we got in an argument. And, I was like, "No. Because, I prefer not to argue and when there is a disagreement, I want to solve it, not get the last word in. So, he's never going to be slapping me. He's going to be slapping you! Therefore, the problem isn't him and it isn't me, it's you." Then, they got mad when I walked out on them for refusing to listen and think. And, I didn't even slap them!
No... fast forward to 2019 and someone like you thinks because men have more in common with men and women more in common with women, that should make us all queer. Your comment is the poster boy of why and how these times are so screwed up.
Me when Eve talk about most of the guys: Yeah..I can see why she thinks the way she does with that guy. Me when Eve talks about John: ....Well if you don't want him....*pushes Eve to the side*...Helllllllooooo John!
@@robinlehnerd1475 why don't you take the word of women who actually loved in that time, instead of your opinion. Women couldn't even have a credit card or bank without their husband's permission. Sure, they tooootally weren't repressed at all.
@@ingloriousbetch4302 Be clear about what I said. "They were not more repressed", I never said they were not repressed at all. But women are just as repressed now about different things.
@@robinlehnerd1475 Amen - far far more downtrodden, raped of themselves and doing infintely more with most women having VERY LITTLE GLAMOUR OR FEMININITY TO BOOT in their lives.
4:35 I think the people who are offended by this have little idea of the context these people lived in. I'm not defending him but we take for granted the light that we have. He wasn't malice but mislead.
mislead? no, anyone would make the comment.. if the majority of nerds are male and you have a female that doesn't look like she belongs to omega mu (see revenge of the nerds). Of course, even on the basis of intelligence and thinking types, we could note the differences between male and females... such as the divides in majors, research and employment fields. There's many women that would profess having a problem of having masculine thinking traits that it alienates them from having friendships with other women yet these are often the women in male dominated fields. Likewise when males are represented in female dominated spheres, we often see women view them as less than male or at the very least, perceive them to be gay, effeminate.
Okay, just the one more comment, because... John! Woo hoo! I feel like someone spliced a G-rated movie with PG-13. I had to scoot it back and start watching again, from "That's just like John." directly after he said "I doubt it" in the car. I want a man like John! Got that whole Sean Connery, real man vibe! But ... "She's not as attractive as Eve." ??????? She looks like a real live female with a pretty face and a good figure, who likes men, So, yeah, I think she's at least as attractive as Eve. In fact, I think she is far superior, in looks, to Eve. And, apparently, also superior in attitude. I hope John and Eve have a nice, organic relationship bordering on BDSM and enjoy their lifelong battle of wills together, though.
It's a good idea to change yourself first, if there has to be a change! Frank learned that in Junior Prom. Will Joe, from The Dropout? Was I too hard on Kay and her date-monging ways? Mmmm .. no. She wasn't changing herself. She was pretending to. Kay is still a nut job. But, I hope Frank befriends Joe, maybe they triple date with Jeff's brother (forgot his name) and a lesson will be learned by all.
You can't change someone, they have to want to change themselves. How to navigate this in a relationship, especially when you're both still learning how to be adults? Well, you can ask them if they would be willing to learn something new and apply it, or do something for you, and if they can't, then you can make an informed decision with dignity.
The man challenged the girl, complimenting her that she was as smart as a man, in order to compete with her. And the girl at that time refused to participate in the rivalry, leaving and never meeting that person again. ☝️He made a judgement according to his own abilities that only a man could be smart, while he devalued her “feminine” mental abilities by giving her such a statement. She is a smart girl!
"If any change is possible it must be changing yourself. You have to take other people as they come or else leave them alone."
Wise AF.
11:00
Unlike your language.
"You have to take people as they come or else leave them alone". So true.
What is that mean
@@rahmadmasnana1599 It means, don't try to change them. Only they can change themselves. If you can't take them as they are, then the relationship is not meant to be.
Wait, these people weren't stupid and "old-fashioned". They were practical and wise. Someone just wants us to think they're stupid and backwards. But they're not at all.
It would be nice to take all the good stuff from now and rewind a little.
Interesting how they have knowledge of things that are still relevant today... this was made 73 years ago.
But the knowledge these things teach are true for eternity.
Exactly
What the heck are you talking about ?!
Who told you people "used to be stupid" ... and you believed them?
😅
The Chinese have an agenda. A very special one.
"You exercise and I watch." LOL
I liked how everyone just dated and got to know each other if it didn’t wrk no animosity
"You're smarter... almost like a man..." I died.
ooh he gay lol
Tom Harper haha
It’s good to think like a man. Trust me.
@@arinaz318 he's not homosexual.
The video portrayed him as undesirable so they were definitely discouraging that macho attitude.
Aside from the guys, I think it's cool that Mary was a good enough friend to Eve to take a risk and have a hard conversation and tell her the truth without making it look like it devalues Eve's worth as a person and tries to help her sort through it.
these videos give me a feeling of relaxation or meditation if i name it right .
Ikr? They have the same effect on me.
They're calming?
You are right. I was thinking the same thing. Black and white movies have that same calming effect, I notice.
Yes same here!
Exactly 😊
"you have to take people as they come or else leave them alone." GOLD.
“Those forward passes could be used in two ways.”
I laughed at this bit of writing. Clever lol
John's a beast. He's forthright, keeps his word, and knows how to have fun. She expects him to bend the rules for him? Nah. John has morals and ethics. She should have stuck with him!
John is a man of his word. He is more likely to stay faithful, work to take care of his family, and etc.
@@TouchofShunshine Right? I'm amused by the idea that she wanted him to break his promise. A lot of people don't realize that if someone will break their promise to others, then they will also break their promise to you.
John is hot
Is the fact that her name is Eve and she is tempting him with the apple lost here? It's so obvious that they're portraying her as the immoral, hostile woman and he as the mature, upholder of morality. Oh, and the threatening her with physical violence is a great touch. Critical eye, people!
John's too good for her. He deserves a woman better than Eve.
"What were you asking him to do?"
"Prove that he liked me"
"That will never satisfy you"
"Why not?"
"That's not what you really wanted. You want him to do what you told him to do. That's what you always wanted Eve."
I love this. When sex isn’t in the way you are able to make wise decisions and walk away without “that” in the way.
Yeah. I realized a long time ago, and, often voiced the unpopular opinion, that even without religious or health concerns being considered, it is still better to do things the old fashioned way of spending time in group settings as friends, maybe in each other's familial home, and, eventually, in public but otherwise alone, if what you want is a real relationship. Because, throwing sex into the equation too early gives people the false impression of being connected to, accepted by and understanding this person they are spending time with. So much so that they stop really trying and feel betrayed, later, when they find out the person is something other than what they thought they were after only a few dates.
susan529 Absolutely! Everything is a Mess Now🙃
@@aliciayoung4348 - Everything is about instant gratification now. It's "me me me" and not a "you" to be found.
Lol Rubbish do you know how many unwed mothers shelters there were in the US in the 50s??Tons.Trust me they were having just as much sex as they are now.
@@chetyoubetya8565 no, they weren't. Check your stats
This film is a gem. Possibly the best social guidance-type film I've seen, because not only is it entertaining, but the message is timeless and 100% true. My husband of eleven years loves playing music as much as he loves life itself. I couldn't live without books. We both love cats and collecting. There's a lot of overlap in our 'likes' and values, but a few significant ways in which we're very different. We knew this when we married. Like in this film, we know we'll have to be friends as well as spouses for a very long time!
Steve is my favorite; he has a quiet sexiness about him. And while it's fun to go out and have a good time, it's also nice to stay at home and have a relaxing evening (i.e., listen to music, play board games, etc.)
The one I have a problem with is Arthur.
Arthur: "You're different from other girls."
Eve: "That's what you think."
Arthur: "You're smarter; you're almost like a man."
Eve: "Oh no, I'm very much the woman."
Arthur: "I don't think of you that way at all."
OUCH!!!
@Judy Wray you're just stating the obvious. gurl bye.
Good god!
DPO263 must be Scorpio
he meant it as a compliment.
@@MeadeSkeltonMusic He's not good at giving compliments.
These movies are so good to compare the lifestyle we lived with the 1960s. They helped me a lot, that is, these films bring wisdom, reflection and, in a sense, bring me a way to live better. Thank you for posting.
Bro this is when USA was on the up and up
This is great.. I’ve been binge watching these 1950s educational videos for a month now and this is one of my favorites. I love the part where she says every experience whether pleasant or unpleasant she realizes things and learns about herself. Lots of wisdom in these videos.
You don't need self-help books, you need to watch these types of films and put their wisdom to action; maybe even read some of the books from that time period. They will make you a better person in no time.
Do you or anyone else reading this have any recommendations on reading material from this time period?
@@thekatablueprint2189 I'd chime in, and say go through all the vids on this channel. Maybe even read the Bible, and then pick the Pilgrim's Progress written in the 1600s.
@@thekatablueprint2189”How to win friends and Influence people” is an amazing read!! As well as the two other books by Dale Carnegie. They’ve really helped me in my interactions and they’re worded beautifully!!
As far as Eve is concerned, it's All About Eve.
love cat lol true
Ha, well played!
I thought the same!
That's actually what most women are like;especially these. Like spoiled children 😁😊😁
The movie
How i envy their simpler life when you were not bombarded by digital junk and could have a peaceful time most of your days.
Same, friend, same
I agree with you! Man I wish I was born in the 50s..
Yes and also ww2 had just ended not too long ago. Memories of the war still fresh in lots of people of the time.
Exactly. Nobody takes time for reflecting or deep soul searching anymore. Too much "noise" and digital distraction 🤳
That's a real good friend, being nice but telling the truth which will help this girl for all her life.
7:24 “…and work out my troubles with my hands” GOLD
Wow the opening advice is literally the best life advice I've heard. And it's essential and yet not said enough. Plus they highlight different personalities and attitudes.
She's got more of a friggin social life than I do!
she's dead now
Tom Servo my great granddad was older than her in the 50s and he’s still alive. Still has a social life too.
Ikr? Drives, nature walks, biking, lolling in the sun...I can't IMAGINE having such a schedule!
@@janeadelaidelennox7193 is he still alive God bless him!
"You're different from other girls. You're smarter...Almost like a man!"
Me: Is that supposed to be some kind of compliment?! 😂😂😂
A woman with woman's beauty and man's intelligent, not bad at all. I know feminists don't like it, the top 10 best performers in math in the class are always boys, that's what my girl friend said.
@@seanleith5312 My point was no woman likes to be told that they are a man. I’m not sure there’s a lot of truth in that statement that “The top 10 best are always boys.” I’m a girl and I’m the best in my class.
@@sarahdragons861 You tell him girlfriend, the fact that some feminists can be assholes doesn't mean that sexism is right.
Moral of the story: The guy who threatens to spank you is always the correct choice.
The one who DOES spank you is the right one. 😂😂😂
@@amydecker6207 Eve is a sadomasochist and likes to get her freak on.🤤
@@brianmcdonald9502 hahahaha
This is the best comment of them all! Hahaha!
I will keep that in mind next time.
“...Someone aught to take you across their knee and give you a good spanking.” Such a mood. That guy was definitely for her lol
@@baronsorgi1 That's exactly what spoiled girls like her need...and like.
My wife likes when I playfully spank her during ***
She told him to do it...I wonder if he did, eventually...
"Maybe you're the one to do it" 👀
I love this video, it helped me think about what kind of a man is for me. They don't have this today, that's why there are too many conflicts between couples.
One problem I've noticed nowadays is that there seem to be a lot of people who would rather settle for less than be alone. Really, I think it's better to be alone than to be with the wrong person. Many people have lowered their standards due to the fear of being lonely.
This one is one of my more favorite. None of them compromise their selves wholy just to find a mate or to be in love. They all see a beauty in each other nonetheless and come to terms that everyone is made different and still deserving of love.
Why is her thinking voice so different from her speaking voice?
My thought was: why the hell do these young ladies have voices that sound like 40 year old women.
You know... you never sound the same when they record your voice.... "Is THAT what I sound like?" :^ )
It's her friends voice
@@kenbob1071 They probably smoked like 2 packs of cigarettes a day...
@@kenbob1071 All those Pall Mall smoke breaks between takes.
Its so encouraging to watch this and realise that I’ve been on the same path of thought and growth. Been single for nearly 2 years now for the sake of personal improvement, and the changes in me are impeccable
Loved this Ty ❤
I could've been wearing a little number by Dior, and he wouldn't have noticed. 😁😁😁
I like John - he had character and strength 2 very important attributes in a man.
He has that quiet dignity...like Gregory Peck. I would choose John.
@@Scampergirl Absolutely - good taste!
Plus, he wasn't a pushover and didn't take crap. Not all people seem to realize that being a pushover isn't actually the same thing as being nice.
@@lunamoth7044 Yup.
When it comes to Eve's telling of the stories, it shows a person's perception is their reality.
I think we've all known someone like Eve--self-involved and bossy!
I was experiencing deju vu!
probably her insecurity in the end
Yup, I'm sure almost everyone has dealt with an Eve at some point in there life.
I like John he was very good looking and very manly.
Yes! I just shared this with my sister as an explanation of what I meant by saying i liked men that are strong. John is confident. He's not bossy or domineering, but, he is dominant.
@@arlettasloan6453 Woman like to be dominated in a good way by a man they are romantically involved with, this I have learned. I'm a man btw
Oh god where has this video been all my life?! I needed this video so much. I'm so much like Eve ugh
I think alot of women have these qualities just as some men have shadow sides. It's about being honest and looking at areas that need to adjust." Take people as they come or leave them alone" there's a heart mate who intergrates with our light and shadow. This is really deeper than alot of these comments imply
I was genuinely surprised how good the advice was in this video. The writer was a woman, so that probably had something to do with it.
9:20, he's a dreamy-dreamboat!
Her voice is lovely
Each vintage song is a watercolor painting, depicting the most beautiful scenes of the past. 🎨
The world had more common sense then. They had more reasonable expectations and fewer high demands. Today many think they have a duty to change others. Maybe they need to leave other people alone if they are not hurting others !!!
Im an addict! Of these videos! Lol
Me. Too
Great piece
Oh, my, if I’d only seen this as a young teen! I’m so sure I’d have picked just the right one 😢
I really, really like this little film. I love John. Kind of like the boat builder and math boy. But, no matter how many times I watch it, I will never understand how the football player's new girl is considered to be not as attractive as Eve. To me, she looks about 1000 percent prettier.
Agree!
I feel like we’ve all had a friend like eve... lol
I was thinking the same thing. 😂😂
Eve needs to chill.
I just love the dialogue its very special
I am surprised these video’s from the early 50 s are so psychologically and wise.
We have been lied to about this time and these people. They were so much better, nicer, cooler than we were allowed to know.
Still so true.
She is just like Scarlett Ohara from gone with the wind
Very Sound and Sensible Advice.🙂
The science guy grew up to be founder of microsoft......oh well.
A bore is a bore, but feel free to date him :)
Steve made a boat pretty damn quickly! LOL
That's some master boatbuilding if I've ever seen it😂😂
I’ve been watching these for 3 hours. Please send help
I am an addict too! What am I doing with my life!!
Hahaa
Lol....Intervention!
Wow..those outfits !!
This sure is a wonderful picture show.
At 4:38 when he says, you’re almost like a man, I almost spit my coffee out.😂😂😂🙈🙈
That ending was really sweet
He could have told her in advance that he needed to bring back the car before 6
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Steve was my favourite in this one. Boat building is fun!
He has OCD. He was sanding that same spot for weeks.
"Move over boss"
LOL
When people had manners
"You are not like the other girls. You're smarter... almost like a man."
I'm so glad that more women nowadays notice the malice behind this sentence.
And most man, we also know how fucked up that quote is.
Regardless of the sexism behind the statement, it's so strange to say either way. Why would a straight dude compliment their girlfriend by saying she's like a man? I think Eve was justified saying that he was a bit weird.
@@somewhereinspace2166 right, like dude, if you like men, just say that lol
Theres a lot of wisdom in this one...
Unfortunately, Eve reminds me of myself.
Melissa Owen Then you don’t wanna read the comments about her..
Kiskin 😆
@Sweet Pea Co If she represents MOST women, I am beginning to understand MGTOW more and more. I am not anything like that bossy little freak of a girl. Demanding that a man betray his friendship, being completely ungrateful toward the other man who loaned her the car. Nope! She's a creep. She needs to see she's a creep and fix her creepy little ways, because, she sure didn't like it when football boy was treating her anything like the way she treats others.
Eve would be considered high maintenance in today's world.
@Sweet Pea Co She's a twatnugget.
Wise friends are the fine friends
U r exactly right, respect u from Pakistan,
Funny how some people are freaking out about the "spanking"comment yet 50 Shades of Gray is the biggest selling novel in history among women. But then failure to recognize irony and lack of self-awareness often go together.
gandy74 exactly! These are Snowflakes
There are also several persons commenting that they want a man like John.
However - and, I only know this from the little bit of reading I did on sites about how bad the writing is - that twit in 50 Shades of Gray is actually nothing like John.
He's weak manipulative, constantly thinking about and fawning over the woman and willing to go to great lengths to prove she is desirable. He is a pretense at strength, but, really, a slave to the woman. So, many selfish women do not like John, whom they see as a threat, but, they like that other dink, because, he is a fun pet who will make a fuss over them.
I knew men who were like John, some into BDSM and some not, and, women were always telling me that they were abusive. Yet, I was never abused by them. Because, what the women really meant is that these guys would not let them get away with whatever they wanted without consequences. They would be generous, but, not to the point of ridiculousness. And, they were the sort that if a woman tried to make them jealous, they'd let her leave and never look back.
It's like with Sean Connery stating that sometimes a woman needs to be slapped and defining the circumstances. Which is if she is given the last word and she won't take it, repeatedly. And, he was talking about a little slap, to restore her to her senses, not brutality. Same as you would do if someone was in shock or getting hysterical.
Women told me he was abusive. I told them his wife doesn't seem to think so. They told me if I was with a man like that, I'd see and realize how bad he is, the first time we got in an argument. And, I was like, "No. Because, I prefer not to argue and when there is a disagreement, I want to solve it, not get the last word in. So, he's never going to be slapping me. He's going to be slapping you! Therefore, the problem isn't him and it isn't me, it's you."
Then, they got mad when I walked out on them for refusing to listen and think. And, I didn't even slap them!
Who's freaking out about the "spanking" comment?
50 Shades sucks peanuts out of its own shit
@@arlettasloan6453 Good, because nowadays, you'd wind up in jail!
John was hot!
Steve too.
jon is my favorite
Where can i find a friend to go horseback riding with?
The real question is where do I find a horse to ride on
@@ginalentil3557 dont know about a horse but i got something u could ride ^_^
@@skyhigh1844 Thanks for the offer but I wanted a horse, not 'my little pony'
@@ginalentil3557 Bravo, Gina!
@@ginalentil3557 Would a tall Clydesdale be something you'd like? Mine is ready to come out of the stable.
Eve and Mary make a great couple.
Fast forward to 2019, the two women realize that they enjoy each others company more than they do any man ... perfect couple!
My immediate thought Tbh. Like yeah maybe there's a reason theyre not satisfied with the men around them
@@Hellooo134 Definitely a possibility ☺
John Muir 😆 oh man this is great commen t
@@oliveb6318 Thanks Bee B ☺
No... fast forward to 2019 and someone like you thinks because men have more in common with men and women more in common with women, that should make us all queer. Your comment is the poster boy of why and how these times are so screwed up.
John please....
"You are like a man "
" Im very much a woman"
" I dont think about you that way at all" 😂😂😂😂
Mary and Eve...cute couple.
Me when Eve talk about most of the guys: Yeah..I can see why she thinks the way she does with that guy.
Me when Eve talks about John: ....Well if you don't want him....*pushes Eve to the side*...Helllllllooooo John!
Arthur was “diffrent” all right.
Spinsters Unite!
Society today - irrecognizable from this video.
writeract2 La Principessa Anne missing all the repression eh? 😅
They were not more repressed.
It was just different.
Now women repress the things they used to express, and vice versa.
@@robinlehnerd1475 why don't you take the word of women who actually loved in that time, instead of your opinion. Women couldn't even have a credit card or bank without their husband's permission. Sure, they tooootally weren't repressed at all.
@@ingloriousbetch4302 Be clear about what I said.
"They were not more repressed",
I never said they were not repressed at all.
But women are just as repressed now about different things.
@@robinlehnerd1475 Amen - far far more downtrodden, raped of themselves and doing infintely more with most women having VERY LITTLE GLAMOUR OR FEMININITY TO BOOT in their lives.
Helloooooooo Johhhhnnnnn
why isnt this taught in schools today?
4:35
I think the people who are offended by this have little idea of the context these people lived in. I'm not defending him but we take for granted the light that we have. He wasn't malice but mislead.
mislead? no, anyone would make the comment.. if the majority of nerds are male and you have a female that doesn't look like she belongs to omega mu (see revenge of the nerds). Of course, even on the basis of intelligence and thinking types, we could note the differences between male and females... such as the divides in majors, research and employment fields. There's many women that would profess having a problem of having masculine thinking traits that it alienates them from having friendships with other women yet these are often the women in male dominated fields.
Likewise when males are represented in female dominated spheres, we often see women view them as less than male or at the very least, perceive them to be gay, effeminate.
"Every morning I exercise for 10 minutes." !!!
She came out last year, she's happy now.
How do you know?
@@Michelle77Va I'm 60, I know everything. Kinda like 13, but with more experience.
@@KidCity1985 Okay, Boomer.
Okay, just the one more comment, because... John! Woo hoo! I feel like someone spliced a G-rated movie with PG-13. I had to scoot it back and start watching again, from "That's just like John." directly after he said "I doubt it" in the car. I want a man like John! Got that whole Sean Connery, real man vibe!
But ... "She's not as attractive as Eve." ??????? She looks like a real live female with a pretty face and a good figure, who likes men, So, yeah, I think she's at least as attractive as Eve. In fact, I think she is far superior, in looks, to Eve. And, apparently, also superior in attitude.
I hope John and Eve have a nice, organic relationship bordering on BDSM and enjoy their lifelong battle of wills together, though.
Can't even tell who the sponsor is of this one
why is this lifestyle called bad its amazing
Its All About Eve!!!
He sounds like the best of all, the one who threatens to abuse you.
Did you get spanked growing up?
@@robinlehnerd1475 She wanted a good spanking to get aroused the kinky bitch.😉
You are so smart... almost like a man, not I am VERY MUCH A WOMAN.... ah
It's a good idea to change yourself first, if there has to be a change! Frank learned that in Junior Prom. Will Joe, from The Dropout?
Was I too hard on Kay and her date-monging ways? Mmmm .. no. She wasn't changing herself. She was pretending to. Kay is still a nut job. But, I hope Frank befriends Joe, maybe they triple date with Jeff's brother (forgot his name) and a lesson will be learned by all.
Eve and the narrator should have gotten together - by their riding date that was my impression. ❤
thank you
You can't change someone, they have to want to change themselves. How to navigate this in a relationship, especially when you're both still learning how to be adults? Well, you can ask them if they would be willing to learn something new and apply it, or do something for you, and if they can't, then you can make an informed decision with dignity.
The man challenged the girl, complimenting her that she was as smart as a man, in order to compete with her. And the girl at that time refused to participate in the rivalry, leaving and never meeting that person again.
☝️He made a judgement according to his own abilities that only a man could be smart, while he devalued her “feminine” mental abilities by giving her such a statement.
She is a smart girl!
“You’re not like other girls.” “You think like a man.” Oh look, a vintage incel lol
eve has huge leo energy
So did the first guy.
She struck me more like a Scorpio