Kids Aggressive Behavior Towards Family

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ความคิดเห็น • 24

  • @lauraa5737
    @lauraa5737 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    If they do it again a month later?!? What if it’s a daily thing? Can’t they remember when it’s several times a day?? It’s not necessarily violence, but rough touching and saying unkind things.

    • @erincioe2932
      @erincioe2932 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same here. And the thing is when we do talk about it afterwards he seems to fully understand how wrong it is.
      But definitely good information that I'll try to implement.

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

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    • @ShifterArtz
      @ShifterArtz หลายเดือนก่อน

      same

  • @briannecaswell6204
    @briannecaswell6204 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is something I fear becoming an Issue. She is my bonus kiddo. But is the youngest. I up until recently had instructed my two kids 11 &15 that if she is violent towards them to not reciprocate. But come and let adults know so it can be taken care of. Until I realized that she does not care what her repercussions are. And continues to throw things at them and hit them. I know it's Alot on my older two who have NEVER laid a hand on each other in Anger. So I'm curious to see what the right way to handle this situation is. 😊

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would strongly suggest following this protocol before things become worse.

  • @Jelybelybertybtz
    @Jelybelybertybtz 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Im having a lot of trouble with my 5 year old son. Hes been super mean and agressive. He yells, screams, pushes, punches and kicks me when he gets upset about not getting his way. He doesn't like it when i tell him no on something or he doesn't get his way. He doesn't respect me at all and im at my whitts ends idk what to do with him and hes only 5! Hes acting like a full on rebellious teenager. Please help me!?

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Follow the protocol I outline in this video, as well as my videos about not giving attention to negative behavior.

  • @heedmydemands
    @heedmydemands 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Wow I'm so glad I randomly stumbled on this video. I will have to try this

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you found it

  • @ArshiKhan-nj6tb
    @ArshiKhan-nj6tb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Please advise
    I have a 17 yo son who has a bit of ADHD and has a bit of mobility issues too. He will be giving his year12 exam soon He is an average student and has all the potential to secure 50% marks. he understands the importance of scores and dreams of joining uni but has very poor inhibition control
    How can I help him to achieve what he is capable of

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      www.adhddude.com

  • @wendy8617
    @wendy8617 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Going to try this really helpful advice. Thank you

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching!

  • @FamilyFirstForevr
    @FamilyFirstForevr 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We are having trouble with our 6 year old. When she gets triggered she can become aggressive towards family, screaming and yelling in faces, throw things and run out of the house. Recently she has become obsessed with a neighbor girl, if she sees her outside playing she insists on going out to play with her. We tell her she cannot but she will go out by herself without us if we try to get her inside she will run down the street away from us and then become violent if we try to restrain her and bring her inside.

  • @munihmuni8814
    @munihmuni8814 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Are those Arizona mountains???

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They are!

  • @yuklya1991
    @yuklya1991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I do struggle with the support group part. I can’t think of anyone that my son would consider “important” enough that he wouldn’t want them to know about his violence. He gets exactly same violent with all the other people he seeming likes the most. And I don’t think he is that far ahead to actually feel ashamed about something. Is there a way to “stimulate” this part? He is 7 years old.

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Anyone who the child respects can be a supporter. This is covered more in depth in the program

  • @keysrawk
    @keysrawk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What about destructive behavior, like when my 8 year old threatens to scratch the car or destroy other things of value when he's dysregulated? Its very hard to walk away and not give the attention. I stay quiet but have to bare witness until hes calm. Very difficult.

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @Spmama444
    @Spmama444 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes now our therapists we have been seeing is recommended a couples group for ADHD a 8 week teaching course this fall!!!!
    Also did some neurofeedback therapy but … not working at the moment…
    I wish there was someone my son recounted he really has so filter anywhere anytime… n
    And also seeing a psychologist…

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's good, Dr. Ari Tuckman has some good stuff on couples where someone has ADHD.
      Neurofeedback is not a recommended treatment for ADHD. The research data shows it can help temporarily, but no long-term benefit.
      "Talk therapy" is also not an evidence-based recommended treatment for kids with ADHD: th-cam.com/video/KZIxXIw-lEk/w-d-xo.html
      The "filter" part is about perspective-taking skills: th-cam.com/video/Ma22zPsFuHs/w-d-xo.htmlsi=vv1NROVvLNJNer5F

  • @mariairfan9729
    @mariairfan9729 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My middle child has tantrums.,issues like comparison with my elder or younger child. Means its not possible he didn't fight with me( mother).insulting me.what is a solution. I'm worried because he's hit me ,push ,a lot behaviour issues. Now he's 13 years old.