So, he paid for her $70k in debt, then paid her another $40k, then helped her get a house she wouldn't have otherwise, then let her come to his family's thanksgiving and Christmas celebrations, all while she's out screwing some other married guy? And treating their daughter poorly on top of that. I'm surprised the wife wanted a divorce at all, considering how easily she can use him
You never truely loved someone then. He wasn't doing all this for her, he did this for his kkds. If they had no kids, then he would not have let it go as much.
At least his exwife is struggling and got beat up, so it's more like he wanted to get rid of her. Worst thing, he didn't bother telling AP's wife. It's clear that her wife won't get with AP, but is doing that out of spite even though he's doing well.
Me too. :/ If my spouse was sleeping with someone else, I'd want to know purely for the fact that I'd need to get myself tested for STDs. It's a sh**ty thing to do to someone to just ignore your partner cheating with theirs.
@@alexflosho His motives are a mistake though. Once the good Dr is outted chances are he breaks off with his mistress not his wife especially with kids in the picture.
Story 1 OP is as spineless as they come. Funniest thing is that he thinks he can see bullsh*t a mile away but that’s just not true. I want to feel bad for him but I think the guy is a misery junkie.
It is an emotional and life changing dicision and he eventually made it for the best. No one wants to believe they've been backstab. So you assume his an misery junkie and spineless for contemplating about what comes next for not only his life but also his family's wellbeing is just unsympathetic.
I don’t get why the parents don’t tell the kids their true reason for divorcing? They deserve to know that a normal relationship doesn’t have cheaters in it
I didn't tell mine, but they were 2yo and 3 mons. They were too young to understand. Once they were old enough, they found out. I've never sugar-coated anything, but I've also always waited until I thought they were old enough to understand.
I was the kid who wasn't told why the divorce was happening once. I already had guilt issues due to my abusive father blaming me for every wrong my brother did. Those issues came into play, and I thought the divorce was my fault, and I wound up in a dark place mentally for a while. When my mom found out, she told me the real reason for the divorce. It isn't about making kids pick sides all the time. There are some situations where the kids need to be told for their own sake.
Yeah, but it makes a good lesson to his ex, don't ya think? And the guy has people basically watching him all the time now. It's not the best outcome for sure, but in a weird way, it works. Maybe op will drop the bomb of truth down the line (assuming the story itself is true, that 4-5 job thing sounds nearly impossible).
When your significant other starts treating you like crap out of nowhere they most likely have someone else they feel you are getting in the way of having.
Agreed while yea i think the spouse should know i also dont believe in koral duty past respecting others rights morals dont obligate u to act only what nit to do
Normally, I'd agree, but STDs can kill. Wife who has the rich cheating husband doesn't deserve that for some petty revenge. The ex-wife is already happy enough that this revenge doesn't really work.
@@demonic_myst4503 I don't mean the cheating ex wife, I mean it's unfair to the wife of the AP of the ex-wife. The person ex-wife is cheating on OP with is also married, and *that* wife knows nothing about OP's ex-wife nor that her husband is cheating
For the 1st story... he meant he was WITH her for 21 years Which means they dated for (21-16.5=) 4.5 years before getting married for another 16.5 years
If he would force her to work 2 jobs while he worked 3 she would respect him. She didn't respect his sacrifices though. And women don't love men they don't respect.
Story 2 : OP is kind of dumb. In these situations, you need to ensure 2 things 1. Get as much evidence as possible 2. Don't immediately start confronting the cheater.
I know a lot of people might say he was stupid in allowing her to stay there despite what she did but there’s a saying “you have to love your kids more than you hate each other” he clearly acted in best interest of the kids
Wanted to correct something at the end of story 1: Dating apps only work when you live in a thriving high population area. Not one where half the county knows your full name and you encounter someone you know everywhere you go. Fml
Really just makes me wonder why would these women break a decade long marriage just for some hook ups? You dont even got a loving husband anymore and you just wanna give your body to dudes who dont care about you? And then she gets beat up for her hook ups, serves her right. All you had to do was be a faithful wife and all this could've been avoided. Plus his daughter is very smart, she caught everything real quick.
That disgusting wife that cheated on her husband on their anniversary and then tried to guilt trip the husband to forgive her should have read the same cards of love he wrote her before she decided to cheat! I hope he divorced her and move on without her. It is bad enough she cheated but on their anniversary so couldn’t even be faithful! 😡🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮
10:12 this is such a good angle, you never see this in these, i was thinking he is wrong but is such a good point, if they are broke you tell the wife, if they are rich keep in the shadows
Already? So how long is the required waiting period for being allowed to move on? Also can’t believe I have to say this again he’s a single father with 2 kids
In one of his Netflix specials, James Acaster tells the story about seeing a woman across the room and announcing that one day he’s going to marry her. And of all the women he tried that trick on, it actually worked for her. (James obviously was much more funny in his delivery. Because he’s a professional comedian.)
Yeah. We get it. You don’t need to bitter and try to be positive and have a positive outlook out of negative situations. But that doesn’t mean you gotta be a damn WHITE KNIGHT for your ex-wife like the OP.
Damg each verse gets progressively worse. Goes from dang that a bit harsh to wow that witch should be in jail for assault. To wtf dude run and don't forget your credit card on your way out. 😅
Why would her aunt need to cosign for her if she has an 800 credit score and no debt? That's a top tier score and she still can't get a loan? I call bs
Bro actually thinks he would have to pay for the house as it seems they both payed the morgage so the wife would have to buy the ops portion of the house
So, he paid for her $70k in debt, then paid her another $40k, then helped her get a house she wouldn't have otherwise, then let her come to his family's thanksgiving and Christmas celebrations, all while she's out screwing some other married guy? And treating their daughter poorly on top of that. I'm surprised the wife wanted a divorce at all, considering how easily she can use him
Hey, simps like him are easy to manipulate if they’re THIS spineless and pathetic.
This is pretty common not surprising
You never truely loved someone then. He wasn't doing all this for her, he did this for his kkds. If they had no kids, then he would not have let it go as much.
@@walkingDaLine100he was just weak
At least his exwife is struggling and got beat up, so it's more like he wanted to get rid of her.
Worst thing, he didn't bother telling AP's wife. It's clear that her wife won't get with AP, but is doing that out of spite even though he's doing well.
"we have been married for 16.5 years, with my wife 21" 🔥🔥
not super important to this story but how the fuck does someone work 4 jobs and a side hustle???
I'm done with you and your multiple stories per video, padding your play time for adds. Finally blocking this channel
Story 1: I love how his daughter called her own mother out on her bullshit.
180 likes and no replies let me fix that
That daughter is a gem, he has raised her well.
That daughter is a menace and I love it
OPs daughter is a good child who obviously cares about her father
W child honestly
I HATE when they don't tell the other betrayed spouse. Especially knowing how it feels. It didn't sound like a happy resolution.
Me too. :/ If my spouse was sleeping with someone else, I'd want to know purely for the fact that I'd need to get myself tested for STDs. It's a sh**ty thing to do to someone to just ignore your partner cheating with theirs.
I do too but i also understand the motives behind it in this case
Sometimes you gotta be selfish
@@alexflosho His motives are a mistake though. Once the good Dr is outted chances are he breaks off with his mistress not his wife especially with kids in the picture.
@@TheBluePhoenix008yeeeaaaahhhhh no
"how dare you read my phone messages" - proceeds to read his emails
Story 1: His daughter is more of a man than OP.
Well. She undoubtedly has a different personality type than him. That's ok, men and women can have different personality types.
Yeah he's a doormat
This type of guy is destined to get cheated on repeatedly.
Story 1 dude was just a doormat
Story 1 OP is as spineless as they come. Funniest thing is that he thinks he can see bullsh*t a mile away but that’s just not true. I want to feel bad for him but I think the guy is a misery junkie.
No he was talking about the daughter and that rude to call someone a junkie
It is an emotional and life changing dicision and he eventually made it for the best. No one wants to believe they've been backstab. So you assume his an misery junkie and spineless for contemplating about what comes next for not only his life but also his family's wellbeing is just unsympathetic.
I don’t get why the parents don’t tell the kids their true reason for divorcing? They deserve to know that a normal relationship doesn’t have cheaters in it
They don't need it. While being trasperent is good forcing them to pick a side by telling them would sometimes lead them to a bad choice.
I didn't tell mine, but they were 2yo and 3 mons. They were too young to understand. Once they were old enough, they found out. I've never sugar-coated anything, but I've also always waited until I thought they were old enough to understand.
@70o07 that's extremely stupid.
I was the kid who wasn't told why the divorce was happening once. I already had guilt issues due to my abusive father blaming me for every wrong my brother did. Those issues came into play, and I thought the divorce was my fault, and I wound up in a dark place mentally for a while. When my mom found out, she told me the real reason for the divorce.
It isn't about making kids pick sides all the time. There are some situations where the kids need to be told for their own sake.
Wow! where can I get such a doormat for a husband?!
I wish he told the ap’s wife, maybe not right away but at some point. Really sucks, that poor lady
Yeah, but it makes a good lesson to his ex, don't ya think? And the guy has people basically watching him all the time now. It's not the best outcome for sure, but in a weird way, it works. Maybe op will drop the bomb of truth down the line (assuming the story itself is true, that 4-5 job thing sounds nearly impossible).
OP is weak af.
The way he goes about handling this is just embarrassing...SMH
Stopping the 8 year olds from saying first
THANK YOU
@@egg8492 you’re welcome
Thanks mr cat
Why you beefing with 8yr olds 😭
Thank you. You are a good person.
That's the most disrespectful shed I've ever heard about, clearly came from Lowe's.
When your significant other starts treating you like crap out of nowhere they most likely have someone else they feel you are getting in the way of having.
"There's two."
"Yes, there's two"
*Walks inside*
Fuckin Gigachad
Not telling the affair partner’s spouse because he didn’t want the wife to end up with a guy with money was actually a smart move.
Agreed while yea i think the spouse should know i also dont believe in koral duty past respecting others rights morals dont obligate u to act only what nit to do
I believe it was smart too real talk. Don’t give her the satisfaction of getting what she wants
Normally, I'd agree, but STDs can kill. Wife who has the rich cheating husband doesn't deserve that for some petty revenge. The ex-wife is already happy enough that this revenge doesn't really work.
@@hyperboles6563 the consequences of her own actions are her responcibility
@@demonic_myst4503 I don't mean the cheating ex wife, I mean it's unfair to the wife of the AP of the ex-wife. The person ex-wife is cheating on OP with is also married, and *that* wife knows nothing about OP's ex-wife nor that her husband is cheating
Not telling the AP makes you complicit in the devious act which is a really fucking weird position to be in
For the 1st story...
he meant he was WITH her for 21 years
Which means they dated for (21-16.5=) 4.5 years before getting married for another 16.5 years
OKAY THABK GOD
OHH ALR ALE
Damn the daughter did a better job at calling the mom out, then the father😂
"Sure you've worked 5 jobs and a side business at times, and 3 jobs now, but you're not doing enough!"
If he would force her to work 2 jobs while he worked 3 she would respect him. She didn't respect his sacrifices though. And women don't love men they don't respect.
This has to be the lowest form of entertainment on here and i am all for it i love this garbage
i feel bad for this guy but i still think he is a bit of a doormat.
Never be the good guy to a Cheater. She hates you. Stop standing up for her. Your a Door mate. I see why she left you. Your just sad.
Story 2 : OP is kind of dumb.
In these situations, you need to ensure 2 things
1. Get as much evidence as possible
2. Don't immediately start confronting the cheater.
To be fair, dude seems pretty well off. Not sure if he'd be that bothered about the divorce.
Says a virgin
You shouldn't have to wait 17 years. It's already a waste of time.
You were first!
"I been married 16 and and a half year with my wife. 21"
😵
the comment i was looking for
Can't cheating do serious damage to the reputation of a doctor? In some places they will lose their job.
I know a lot of people might say he was stupid in allowing her to stay there despite what she did but there’s a saying “you have to love your kids more than you hate each other” he clearly acted in best interest of the kids
Wanted to correct something at the end of story 1:
Dating apps only work when you live in a thriving high population area. Not one where half the county knows your full name and you encounter someone you know everywhere you go. Fml
Second story is cut abruptly
Op sounds like he thinks he’s way smarter than he actually is
i dont think i can do like the husband in 1st story
This is what happens when you look at someone and decide to marry them within 2 minutes
The second you say your favorite band is third eye blind. It’s over.
Guy does not know what apostrophes are
Really just makes me wonder why would these women break a decade long marriage just for some hook ups? You dont even got a loving husband anymore and you just wanna give your body to dudes who dont care about you? And then she gets beat up for her hook ups, serves her right. All you had to do was be a faithful wife and all this could've been avoided. Plus his daughter is very smart, she caught everything real quick.
So he's been married for 16 years with his 21 year old wife... Something here ain't matching bud.
I think he meant he married her
when she was 21
Critical thinking is hard for you huh… married her at 21 for 16 years 🧠💀
🙃 listen again Mike!!!!
No, he meant WITH her for 21
Which means they dated for (21-16.5=) 4.5 years before getting married for another 16.5 years
Not possible. Imagine a 21 y-o having a 14 y-o 💀
That disgusting wife that cheated on her husband on their anniversary and then tried to guilt trip the husband to forgive her should have read the same cards of love he wrote her before she decided to cheat! I hope he divorced her and move on without her. It is bad enough she cheated but on their anniversary so couldn’t even be faithful! 😡🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮
He needed to tell the other wife... The affairv partner wouldn't want herb even single.
Every op after break be like - we go jim 💪
Would have appreciated the proper pronunciation of some of the words.
10:12 this is such a good angle, you never see this in these, i was thinking he is wrong but is such a good point, if they are broke you tell the wife, if they are rich keep in the shadows
The daughter is the strongest member of the family
"I don't know if I should tell my daughter". WEAK WEAK WEAK man
I guess the redditor didn't use ' cuz of the "shed" said by the AI
Hate how the channel uses the same gameplay over and over
16 months and already in relationship with a woman with 2 kids....bro...
That's a lot of responsibility
Already? So how long is the required waiting period for being allowed to move on? Also can’t believe I have to say this again he’s a single father with 2 kids
In one of his Netflix specials, James Acaster tells the story about seeing a woman across the room and announcing that one day he’s going to marry her. And of all the women he tried that trick on, it actually worked for her. (James obviously was much more funny in his delivery. Because he’s a professional comedian.)
Never marry a shed.
Last dude was a Third Eye Blind superfan & expected NOT to get cheated on? LOL WUT?!?!? 😂
0:18 16 1/2 YEARS AND SHE IS ONLY 21?!
WHAT THE FUCK
Shed
Yeah. We get it. You don’t need to bitter and try to be positive and have a positive outlook out of negative situations. But that doesn’t mean you gotta be a damn WHITE KNIGHT for your ex-wife like the OP.
We got to rework how divorce works because he paid off her debt she should've only been able to walk with 15 k
"Shed"
Damg each verse gets progressively worse. Goes from dang that a bit harsh to wow that witch should be in jail for assault. To wtf dude run and don't forget your credit card on your way out. 😅
Story1 One thing I don't like he let the AP got away without consequences 🤦💯
The only one who should get that was the 304 Wife
“No consequences” she lost her suport network snd eill learn her afair partner doesnt love her very fast.
The rich usually do.
Absolutely love the daughter from the first story! She's a little spitfire ❤❤❤
Why would her aunt need to cosign for her if she has an 800 credit score and no debt? That's a top tier score and she still can't get a loan? I call bs
Bro actually thinks he would have to pay for the house as it seems they both payed the morgage so the wife would have to buy the ops portion of the house
The whole two story thing is just lame bro , post one story and that's it , the other one stopped at a cliffhanger
Wait, so the mom is 21 and they’ve been married for 16 years am I right or wrong?
Fuck
HOW THE FUCK IS HE MARRIED 17 YEARS AND HIS WIFE IS 21 YRS OLD ☠️☠️
Im sorry you've been married 16 1/2 years with your 21 yr old wife
The OP here is a asshole for not telling the AP’S wife,but atleast he’s self aware about it
I hate when this AI is reading and the person who typed it has really bad grammar lol
Why don't you fix the spelling. This is cheap
So no one gonna talk about story 2 and how it's nothing to do with the title and it's incomplete
how old was she when she got married? Married 17 years and she's 21😳
Man....
There are a loynofnweak men on these atories but this guy takes the taco.
Shed be great. Shed be bad. Ummm the ai is on the Fritz again
So after bro got used abd abused in story 1 he decides to date a single mom 🤮 bro is a glutton for punishment
“Decides to date a single mom”…….. he’s a single dad though? So like….. what’s your point?
#2 doesn’t finish so avoid the blue balls
That last story ended very abruptly
Someone teach this man what an apostrophe is
Bros a third eye blind dj 💀 wtf 😂
Shed wasn’t a good wife
Shed instead of She'd kills me
This man has an unnatural strength
daughter cooked the mom
Cliffhanger!!! 😮
How is the wife 21?
shed and Hess
XDD
“I need more help around the house when I do absolutely nothing around the house” that’s when I divorce her
Never get married
Dude the daughter screaming at the mom made me tear up
I've seen worms with more backbone than that guy in story 1.
Story 1: *SHED*
"Shed be great"
Noooooo balls
Tool shed
Always tell the kids first and why it's happening.
I. B.
12:35 4!?! Dang
SHED