Yeah, he's got his head on straight. Why does he need to get saddled with taking care of a broken person when he wasn't the one that betrayed his family? Love how easy she got off too. So many people to take care of her and arrangements made to keep her comfortable and safe once leaving the hospital. If it was a man he would've have gotten thrown to the wolves for such a betrayal.
@corbzer601 I was referring to the lower part about how she got of easy but he was a good and kind man to let her go easy because only good and kind men do this
Honestly, it's good she didn't immediately rise to his rain invitation. She wasn't just trying to take first in line, she was actually trying to give him some momentum so he could go back to daily life. Hopefully they figure that out later on though.
OP's children need to understand and support his decisions. OP has every right to feel and act the way he does. If it were the other way around, they'd all be kicking Dad to the curb. Double standards
love this comment cause i read it and thought theyd maybe side with her or say to stow his feelings and get back with her or this or that. and then the real story is that theyr ejust uncomfortable with it because thats their mother and every adult views their parents the same way a little kid does. Seriously, this comment has no thought or care put into it and its like you commented on the wrong video
The OP literally says that they are being understanding right there. They are supporting him, not pushing him for anything. You just desperate for any chance to make out this is a gendered issue, as if this story didn't involve a male and a female *both* cheating on their partners.
Such evil. She made op drive her to the airport, kissed him goodby and told him she loved him. Then took the plane to meet up with her AP in a hotel where they screwed eachother. And then she tries to tell op afterwards that she's remorseful. No F***ING way you can do such a ting and then be truly sorry. Evil selfish psycho...
I met a girl online years ago before I got married. She drove several hours to meet me. We hung out and eventually had sex that same day. She asked me if she could stay the night. It was now 6pm. She got there at 12pm. She told me, let me call my husband and let him know I'm staying at a friend's for the night. WTF?! Me: You're married. What friend's house does he think you're at? Trifling Chick: A friend of mine Me: When he asks you what friend, what will you say? TC: A friend. I dont have to tell him. I'm not in prison. Me: WTF? Are you serious? You think your husband asking you what friend's house you're staying at OVERNIGHT is for prisoners/warden? Straight up, if I was him, you would be out on your ass. TC: Laughed. I had him look up the directions (back when you had to look up directions on a home computer) on how to get to your house while I was getting ready to come out here. Me: ...and he didn't ask what friend's house you were going to visit 3 hours away? How long have you been with your husband? TC: Since we were 15 (She was 31 then) Me: Then he should know every friend you know. TC: He TRUSTS me. Dude is an effing clown.
@@AlE-kc7yw he not a clown she just a master manipulator, although he been in a 15 year long relationship he doesn't have the experience to see the red flags cus he hasnt been with enough women. Poor guy some people such as TC are truly evil humans who deserve only resentment and no forgiveness
Cheating is immoral, but people still justify it, saying that they would do whatever it takes to stay in their other relationship without ruining their first one. It's like that domino effect where if one falls down, the rest of the pieces follow. You can never expect a peaceful life out of a situation like this. Once temptation bites you in the ass, stand up to it. Don't make any fusses. You're fully held accountable and responsible for any consequence that may come from it.
The one hill I will die on is that cheaters do not get a second chance. I’m not married, but if my future husband were to tell me he cheated on me, I will only say, “we’re getting divorced.” I will not negotiate, and I am going to ruin his reputation, as well as the AP if they were unaware that they were an affair partner. Any kids we have, I will try to get as much custody as possible. This wouldn’t be to spite him, it would be out of genuine fear that this bad behavior would rub off on them and they make think that cheating isn’t bad.
@@mariwa5286sex toys do not replace the warmth and love a human person can give. If you think it can you've only every known bad sex. Cheating is never okay think.
The SIL is funny asf and such a gem, he’s lucky to have had her in his life and the brother did find a great wife before his death, rip to the brother 💗
The woman he loved nevwr existed, the woman he sees now its her true self, a selfish, lack of integrity and one that never loved, him nor her children and grandchildren. All that happened to her ar consequences for her choices.
Children don't want their parents to divorce. It ruins the pretty picture in their heads. It many times makes life harder for everyone. They don't want their Mother alone while she is struggling.
It makes things hard for family gatherings, because now around the holidays they have to make a choice on who they visit first. Usually the family gatherings happen at grandparents house, least in my family.
Kids are torn. And a big part of them probably just wants dad to take her back so the drama will end for them. The amount of care given to the women is just stupid though. She’s a cheating, deliberate planning and all, whore. Also, and I come from a military background where this is a thing, there should be professional consequences for AP. At least in terms of word of mouth, he’s the doctor that sleeps with married patients. But he shouldn’t be practicing anymore. I know that’s probably not a thing…but it should be.
Bro, the children are kicking the dad out of their lives. I get it, its hard that your parents are separating, but y'all are adults. Your dad has every right to do what he's doing. He's still being fair to the woman. If he wanted he could have easily broken her morw and been more petty. He's hurting too and the kids pushing him out of their lives just cuz he won't reconcile with a cheater is just crazy.
What rubbish is this? After her little secret got revealed, now she became a mental patient? 😂 Wow, this is all her drama i believe which she & her doc & others are making to fool OP to stay
Okay well ap is her doctor im pretty sure hes supposed to lose his job and probably his license for that. But idk why ap's wife would think she can go after op's wife's job
Wow. Can you imagine this happening after so many decades of being together? The amount of tainted memories… the sting when you reminisce about the time you shared. That would crush me.
TL;DR: GrandMa turns Garbage in Las Vegas. OOP spread Christmas cheer around. Garbage goes to the Hospital, thinks OOP died. Garbage got out broken. OOP insists on Divorce.
After 40 years… Jesus that is brutal you’d think once you get past a certain stage you can trust someone 100% but it just confirms my belief of never trusting anyone 100% except for myself, a sad but necessary truth.
I find it hilarious how everyone always says "You shouldn't have gotten him fired" he didn't get him fired. His work decided he needed to be fired after learning what he did. Society as a whole agrees Doctors that get personal with their patients should be fired. Why is OP supposed to keep a secret to protect him just because he could be fired for his own actions.
The sister in law is wonderful. She would fit in beautiful with myself and friends. He is very lucky to have gotten good advice and keeping his cool with all of this. I wish him good luck.
Why do I keep reading this post with Wilford Brimley’s voice in my head? For all you youngsters, he was an actor who always played a man’s man sort of role.
Yes and even though the app says it is 18+ there are a surprising number of unsupervised 14 year old screeching that they are upset that the subs aren't catering to them and want people to stop having adult conversations because they are too young! 🙄 like I know teens are going to ignore the age rules but at least don't be stupid enough to be surprised that the 18+ app is having 18+ conversations!
I am soooooo sick of the cheater playing victim and mental health issues. And the person who did right by The marriage gets emotional reverse psychology for forgiveness. Really. The cheater cheated.
She’s not a mess because she’s remorseful, she’s a mess because she was caught and had to face the consequences. She went along happily to that little getaway and would have continued lying through her teeth if she hadn’t been confronted.
Yes, he is acting rationally. He wasn't the one who betrayed his family, so why does he have to take care of someone who is broken? I also like how easy she was let off. She has so many people taking care of her, and plans have been made to keep her secure and comfortable after she leaves the hospital. Had he been a man, such treachery would have resulted in his being cast among the wolves.
I know. I die a little bit inside everytime I see new words getting unnecessarily censored. I have lived through some pretty horrible traumas growing up. And I've never expected the entirety of civilization to cater to me by censoring words that slightly bother me.
I haven't watched this to the end, so this could possibly be mentioned further into the story, anything accessed from the iCloud by the PI would not be admissible in court, on top of it being a crime. While PI's are afforded some rights beyond civilians, unauthorized access of an online service is not one of them
She screwed herself to become a mental case and got pampered for her Couldnt be me if i had all them assets youll get a house and pay rent to me and thats all the respect i got cause why u cheatin now u damn near50-60 years old WE ALMOST CROSSED THE FINISH LINE MA
lol yeah the morw you listen to these stories, the more you realize they all have a simmular typing style and grammer mistakes. I feel like theres like three guys that write these stories. My favorite is the ones that are like “ my friend told me about reddit” and then they correctly use reddit slang on thier “first post”
Judging by the age of the sister in law (in her mid - late 40's, IIRC), and assuming that his younger brother married around his own age, the brother should have been between 45 - 50 years old. Assuming OP was relatively close in age to his brother, and that OP said that he and his wife have been together for 40 years (not married, but had a relationship, so I'm going to guestimate about 5 years of dating), I'd say he's late 50's. Still plausible, me thinks lol. Especially considering ol' Playboy Heff himself was humpty-dumpty-ing into his 90s, I can believe this.
They seem to be in their 50s. Married in their late teens, early twenties makes sense. They're very Christian, so it wouldn't surprise me especially considering the older gen of Christians got married young and stayed married unless there was infidelity/abuse
Yeah, he's got his head on straight. Why does he need to get saddled with taking care of a broken person when he wasn't the one that betrayed his family? Love how easy she got off too. So many people to take care of her and arrangements made to keep her comfortable and safe once leaving the hospital. If it was a man he would've have gotten thrown to the wolves for such a betrayal.
It's not that she isn't a man It's that he is a man a good man he can hate her but won't take her from her children or grandchildren
@corbzer601 I was referring to the lower part about how she got of easy but he was a good and kind man to let her go easy because only good and kind men do this
That sister in-law is an amazing sister
Sounds more like she's staking her claim. If she keeps him friendzoned, he'll never move on from his estranged wife.
@@nercksruledoubt
Honestly, it's good she didn't immediately rise to his rain invitation. She wasn't just trying to take first in line, she was actually trying to give him some momentum so he could go back to daily life. Hopefully they figure that out later on though.
@nercksrule I agree with your first sentence, not your second fully.
10:53 is why i like SIL so much
"It would have been easier to bury you than this"
_Scathing_ 😅
Disgusting
One of the most brutally honest things i have ever heard
Savage AF XD
A mental break does not absolve cheating, and it only happened after she was found out. Nope.
OP's children need to understand and support his decisions. OP has every right to feel and act the way he does. If it were the other way around, they'd all be kicking Dad to the curb. Double standards
Because alot of women have some sort of qualified immunity and it's completely bullshit but a sad reality
Fr no mercy for the man
love this comment cause i read it and thought theyd maybe side with her or say to stow his feelings and get back with her or this or that. and then the real story is that theyr ejust uncomfortable with it because thats their mother and every adult views their parents the same way a little kid does.
Seriously, this comment has no thought or care put into it and its like you commented on the wrong video
The OP literally says that they are being understanding right there. They are supporting him, not pushing him for anything.
You just desperate for any chance to make out this is a gendered issue, as if this story didn't involve a male and a female *both* cheating on their partners.
Such evil. She made op drive her to the airport, kissed him goodby and told him she loved him. Then took the plane to meet up with her AP in a hotel where they screwed eachother. And then she tries to tell op afterwards that she's remorseful. No F***ING way you can do such a ting and then be truly sorry. Evil selfish psycho...
She’s sorry she got caught as all cheaters are. Selfish pieces of shit.
I met a girl online years ago before I got married. She drove several hours to meet me. We hung out and eventually had sex that same day. She asked me if she could stay the night. It was now 6pm. She got there at 12pm. She told me, let me call my husband and let him know I'm staying at a friend's for the night. WTF?!
Me: You're married. What friend's house does he think you're at?
Trifling Chick: A friend of mine
Me: When he asks you what friend, what will you say?
TC: A friend. I dont have to tell him. I'm not in prison.
Me: WTF? Are you serious? You think your husband asking you what friend's house you're staying at OVERNIGHT is for prisoners/warden? Straight up, if I was him, you would be out on your ass.
TC: Laughed. I had him look up the directions (back when you had to look up directions on a home computer) on how to get to your house while I was getting ready to come out here.
Me: ...and he didn't ask what friend's house you were going to visit 3 hours away? How long have you been with your husband?
TC: Since we were 15 (She was 31 then)
Me: Then he should know every friend you know.
TC: He TRUSTS me.
Dude is an effing clown.
@@AlE-kc7ywThat is so sad
@@AlE-kc7yw he not a clown she just a master manipulator, although he been in a 15 year long relationship he doesn't have the experience to see the red flags cus he hasnt been with enough women. Poor guy some people such as TC are truly evil humans who deserve only resentment and no forgiveness
Sparky is one hell of a woman. His brother was unbelievably fortunate.
Cheating is immoral, but people still justify it, saying that they would do whatever it takes to stay in their other relationship without ruining their first one. It's like that domino effect where if one falls down, the rest of the pieces follow. You can never expect a peaceful life out of a situation like this. Once temptation bites you in the ass, stand up to it. Don't make any fusses. You're fully held accountable and responsible for any consequence that may come from it.
This shows the lack of integrity a lot of people have
How fucking hard is to simply buy a damn sex toy, for real
The one hill I will die on is that cheaters do not get a second chance. I’m not married, but if my future husband were to tell me he cheated on me, I will only say, “we’re getting divorced.” I will not negotiate, and I am going to ruin his reputation, as well as the AP if they were unaware that they were an affair partner. Any kids we have, I will try to get as much custody as possible. This wouldn’t be to spite him, it would be out of genuine fear that this bad behavior would rub off on them and they make think that cheating isn’t bad.
@@mariwa5286 Some would argue masturbation is cheating tho
@@mariwa5286sex toys do not replace the warmth and love a human person can give. If you think it can you've only every known bad sex. Cheating is never okay think.
SIL is a diamond and OP seems really level headed. I hope he stays happy
"It would have been easier to bury you than this" man that was a hard hit in the face with a rock
So the wife is immortal and the father in law dies every Christmas. Interesting family.
Think It meant does not dies
@@elbantochadders4035yeah
Now if you put it that way.. 💀
😂
Wife sounds like a vampire 😂
The SIL is funny asf and such a gem, he’s lucky to have had her in his life and the brother did find a great wife before his death, rip to the brother 💗
Sparkplug is an absolute gem, girl wasn't having none of OPs wallowing instincts!
This guys sil is a gem, he has an amazing family
The woman he loved nevwr existed, the woman he sees now its her true self, a selfish, lack of integrity and one that never loved, him nor her children and grandchildren. All that happened to her ar consequences for her choices.
What makes you think that she never existed?
that's not true, people are not that simple
I disagree. People change. You aren't the same person you were.
She deserved the mental pain & embarrassment, next time LEARN divorce to lay up with someone else. The end.
@@murdock94she changed for the worse, and in her age changes are very hard... Now that IS her true self.
The last bit bother me why would the kids want their dad to make amends with their mother who done all that to herself?
Children don't want their parents to divorce. It ruins the pretty picture in their heads. It many times makes life harder for everyone. They don't want their Mother alone while she is struggling.
It makes things hard for family gatherings, because now around the holidays they have to make a choice on who they visit first.
Usually the family gatherings happen at grandparents house, least in my family.
Kids are torn. And a big part of them probably just wants dad to take her back so the drama will end for them. The amount of care given to the women is just stupid though. She’s a cheating, deliberate planning and all, whore. Also, and I come from a military background where this is a thing, there should be professional consequences for AP. At least in terms of word of mouth, he’s the doctor that sleeps with married patients. But he shouldn’t be practicing anymore. I know that’s probably not a thing…but it should be.
Most children will like to see their parents together!
@@lynettephillip2412 maybe its just me but i didnt, when my dad cheated on my mum I called him the c word and told him to fuck off.
Cheaters don't regret the cheating, they regret getting caught.
Bro, the children are kicking the dad out of their lives. I get it, its hard that your parents are separating, but y'all are adults. Your dad has every right to do what he's doing. He's still being fair to the woman. If he wanted he could have easily broken her morw and been more petty. He's hurting too and the kids pushing him out of their lives just cuz he won't reconcile with a cheater is just crazy.
What? I missed the part where they were kicking him out of their lives?
What rubbish is this? After her little secret got revealed, now she became a mental patient? 😂 Wow, this is all her drama i believe which she & her doc & others are making to fool OP to stay
They should've deemed unfit to leave the hospital ever and keep her imprisoned in the psychological ward
I think I'm falling for the funny SIL... "Junky Monkey" "The boys must breath" Fckng Hilarious
man. "It would have been easier to bury you than this" goes crazy
Why are the kids trying to get him to reconcile?
It's not they are 9 y/o and grow up without one parent.
Okay well ap is her doctor im pretty sure hes supposed to lose his job and probably his license for that. But idk why ap's wife would think she can go after op's wife's job
Wow. Can you imagine this happening after so many decades of being together? The amount of tainted memories… the sting when you reminisce about the time you shared. That would crush me.
The SIL is a Chad
Yup. Sil is a bro through and through. OP needs to keep her close
TL;DR: GrandMa turns Garbage in Las Vegas. OOP spread Christmas cheer around. Garbage goes to the Hospital, thinks OOP died. Garbage got out broken. OOP insists on Divorce.
“Since my father-in-law died every Christmas” ??? 😭
Guess he father in law is Jesus.
and the wife is immortal 😂😂😂
This is why punctuation matters
That got me too but i understood his point so i didn't bother commenting
He meant he does xyz since father in law died, every Christmas. Not that he literally dies every Christmas lol
That sister-in-law handled business
Like she said how the affair was like being an addict, well now she’s feeling the side effects
The sister-in-law is amazing. She is a wonderful person❤
6:35 i don’t even know why this is even a question, Ap didn’t care about his own family.
The 60s called line sent me into a laughing fit
Since when does *infidelity* need to be censored?
Think anyone who's been cheated on needs a SIL like this bloke has, she sounds amazing
The people aghast that he got the Doctor fired. Um... do YOU want YOUR doctor seeing your wife naked, knowing that's how he finds his dates?
So true!
Another well-known Reddit story that I always enjoy listening/reading to.
After 40 years… Jesus that is brutal you’d think once you get past a certain stage you can trust someone 100% but it just confirms my belief of never trusting anyone 100% except for myself, a sad but necessary truth.
I find it hilarious how everyone always says "You shouldn't have gotten him fired"
he didn't get him fired. His work decided he needed to be fired after learning what he did. Society as a whole agrees Doctors that get personal with their patients should be fired. Why is OP supposed to keep a secret to protect him just because he could be fired for his own actions.
The sister in law is wonderful. She would fit in beautiful with myself and friends. He is very lucky to have gotten good advice and keeping his cool with all of this. I wish him good luck.
"Ain't no man with a junky monkey stayin in ma house" - that line made me snarf and almost pee masen laughing!
Huge improvement with the parkour bro, way to stick with it even when you fail a jump 💪
Imagine Raw Dogging your sidegig so hard, you turn into a vegetable
1:53
OP's father-in-law _what_
sucks that he is being uninvited from family events because of her
Why do I keep reading this post with Wilford Brimley’s voice in my head? For all you youngsters, he was an actor who always played a man’s man sort of role.
👀
imagine finding out your grandma cheated on your grandpa 😭
Shes not remorseful for what she did shes remorseful she got caught 🤷🏾♂️
Lots of old people on reddit......
this surprised me
Yes and even though the app says it is 18+ there are a surprising number of unsupervised 14 year old screeching that they are upset that the subs aren't catering to them and want people to stop having adult conversations because they are too young! 🙄 like I know teens are going to ignore the age rules but at least don't be stupid enough to be surprised that the 18+ app is having 18+ conversations!
I am soooooo sick of the cheater playing victim and mental health issues. And the person who did right by The marriage gets emotional reverse psychology for forgiveness. Really. The cheater cheated.
This one is gonna be plump and I can tell.
She’s not a mess because she’s remorseful, she’s a mess because she was caught and had to face the consequences. She went along happily to that little getaway and would have continued lying through her teeth if she hadn’t been confronted.
“Since my father-in-law died every Christmas.” WHAT?!
I can't believe she tried pulling a Walter White on him. 😂
how is the cheater gonna have a psychotic break? she knew exactly what she was doing and continued doing it.
"you asked why" does it matter??? What is wrong with people??
She’s faking it 😂
Yes, he is acting rationally. He wasn't the one who betrayed his family, so why does he have to take care of someone who is broken? I also like how easy she was let off. She has so many people taking care of her, and plans have been made to keep her secure and comfortable after she leaves the hospital. Had he been a man, such treachery would have resulted in his being cast among the wolves.
SIL is the best example of a human being
I love the sister in law. She is awesome 😍
I love his sister-in-law!!
See this is real because it’s done like someone actually finding this out
Tragic stroy with wife but I think mantly would be envious of OPs great family. He's luckier than he knows.
look at her like you look at a new gun got me XD his sil kicks ass
So now we are sensoring infidelity? Where's the group of cheating Karen's crying about this word?
I know. I die a little bit inside everytime I see new words getting unnecessarily censored. I have lived through some pretty horrible traumas growing up. And I've never expected the entirety of civilization to cater to me by censoring words that slightly bother me.
5:58 *you mean IMMORALITY?
lol sparkplug sounds nuts.. but a good nuts
Love these videos ❤
The sil is freakin hilarious 😂 she's a 10/10 sister
Is this part 2? It seems to start without giving any description of what happened and just went straight to the aftermath of whatever happened
Why are 60 year olds aware of Reddit let alone this community?
It pops up on google all the time. Why wouldn't they? They can't bury their head away from technology forever.
Well you never suspected her in 40 years but she did it for those 4 decades.
Where was that stated that it was done their whole marriage?
Burying you would have been easier than this....wow. Not saying didn't deserve it however that is one hell of a line
"My father in law died every Christmas"
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38 years? more like 38 updates lol
I haven't watched this to the end, so this could possibly be mentioned further into the story, anything accessed from the iCloud by the PI would not be admissible in court, on top of it being a crime. While PI's are afforded some rights beyond civilians, unauthorized access of an online service is not one of them
Depends who pays if he does then he has the legal right
If he owns the device, then there is no right to privacy and could have that information obtained
The worst thing about this story is the 75 Dollar tie
That SIL is a fuckin real one
1:55 respect to the FIL for tanking it every Christmas
1:54 im sorry but i heard
"My father in law dies every christmas" 😭
30lbs in 3 weeks? Maybe I need to try the cheating-spouse diet.
“BHH” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That sil is just a rare breed
So the father in law dies every Christmas? Do they resurrect him every time and he dies after Christmas or something?
Hm he needs to dna kids, I don't belive this was her first time.
Seen a bunch of these videos now but I've never actually gone to the subreddit. Does "AP" mean adultery partner, or am I way off base.
I believe it’s affair partner. For some reason, it’s censored
Why the fuck is "infidelity" censored
Listen to the whole, story she got caught and claiming mental breakdown. Ok
Said every caught cheater ever
She screwed herself to become a mental case and got pampered for her
Couldnt be me if i had all them assets youll get a house and pay rent to me and thats all the respect i got cause why u cheatin now u damn near50-60 years old WE ALMOST CROSSED THE FINISH LINE MA
Guy really likes saying “craps”
My son said she looks like death 😂
Duluth stranding company. What a great brand. I think to myself wearing an underwear pants shirt and vest that are all from there
Aren't they the ones with extra room in the crotch?
His father in law died every christmas?
AWALT.
Ok wife gets 10% after dna testing the kids after that the grown ass kids can either accept you guys are not getting back together or look for a new
How old are they ? they must be in their late 70. This sounds kinda bullshit
lol yeah the morw you listen to these stories, the more you realize they all have a simmular typing style and grammer mistakes. I feel like theres like three guys that write these stories. My favorite is the ones that are like “ my friend told me about reddit” and then they correctly use reddit slang on thier “first post”
what does their age have to do with this?
Judging by the age of the sister in law (in her mid - late 40's, IIRC), and assuming that his younger brother married around his own age, the brother should have been between 45 - 50 years old. Assuming OP was relatively close in age to his brother, and that OP said that he and his wife have been together for 40 years (not married, but had a relationship, so I'm going to guestimate about 5 years of dating), I'd say he's late 50's. Still plausible, me thinks lol. Especially considering ol' Playboy Heff himself was humpty-dumpty-ing into his 90s, I can believe this.
They seem to be in their 50s. Married in their late teens, early twenties makes sense. They're very Christian, so it wouldn't surprise me especially considering the older gen of Christians got married young and stayed married unless there was infidelity/abuse
Op what happen of that ? Ap dream free life
Crap crap crap crap crap crap crap crap crap like damn bruv diversify your vocabulary, its repetitive as hell
6:17 rah
aaaah how sad but i dont care stop recommending me this youtube please i dont care about some rando stranger life
Bullshit he got a doctor fired for cheating😂
With a married patient... that's absolutely a violation of ethics as a doctor.