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  • @soobeanie
    @soobeanie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

    Feel like we could have talked for hours on this! 😛🤍

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Always 🖤

    • @nataliea968
      @nataliea968 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      We wouldn’t mind a part 2!😂💛

    • @CrashOverride332
      @CrashOverride332 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I think I disagree only on the family one at 17:03, some people have toxic parents and need to cut them off. I overall enjoyed this and would watch more!

    • @Piotr-f9o
      @Piotr-f9o หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joan_kim Hi Joan kim do you maybe have friends from Poland ?

    • @Piotr-f9o
      @Piotr-f9o หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joan_kim Joan do you maybe be in Poland ?

  • @elvinrichard5882
    @elvinrichard5882 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +257

    The biggest thing about being 30 is your standards increase but the dating pool shrinks as people pair up/ stop dating. However, if you have a healthy social life you eventually realize people can be happy without a romantic relationship.

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      🫶🏻🖤

    • @LamAnopro_
      @LamAnopro_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Eh

    • @slu9329
      @slu9329 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That’s a sad existence. People are too into themselves these days.

    • @alexlilano1931
      @alexlilano1931 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Maybe for women. Men dating pool gets bigger when they age. Women tend to date older while men tend to date younger. Men also get better looking and make more money in general, so men have actually have more and better options as they get older.

    • @arundhatifit
      @arundhatifit หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yessss 💃🏻

  • @chloes5043
    @chloes5043 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    The longer you're single and enjoying it, the more independent you become and your standards for dating get very high so it's even harder to find someone you're ready to adapt to. But I found that I started thriving in other aspects of my life, in my friendships, so now I'm like you Joan, I'm not looking for it and if it happens, it will happen. If not, I'm fine with that too.

    • @ADifferentVibe
      @ADifferentVibe หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chloes5043 are you sure about that?

    • @CNT536
      @CNT536 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      lonely cat lady cope is real

  • @thanhbuutran4101
    @thanhbuutran4101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    My friends keep asking me why I don't date, not on apps, not wanting to meet anyone... It's because I want to meet them organically hahahaha... In your 30s, it kinda doesn't happen especially when you work, exercise, and hangout only with your friends. I love you JOAN, we are the same. ❤

    • @doujinflip
      @doujinflip 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Organic meet cutes only gets more difficult the farther you get from school, meanwhile the other alternative of churches are increasingly seen as toxic and limiting. This collapse of safe spaces to regularly meet and potentially get to know random strangers is a big reason dating apps are becoming vital to rebuild a social network (not just for romance either) as old friends move away or start families and fall out of your circle.

    • @nathanp2007
      @nathanp2007 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@doujinflip Collapse of safe spaces? Huh? Take up some hobbies or go to classes/clubs for your existing hobbies! This goes to all the boring women out there whose personalities and hobbies revolve around shopping and the guys who spend all their time at home gaming: pick-up social hobbies!! Wanna meet people? Take cooking classes, baking classes, join a running club, join a hiking gym, take dance lessons, there are tonssssssssssssssssssssss of places and things to do/learn where you will be surrounded by single adults. And imagine how easy it is to break the ice with someone who shares a hobby (like baking, movies or hiking) with you.

  • @ashleybchoi
    @ashleybchoi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +185

    MY GIRLSSSS 🥹🥹 LET ME JOIN YALL NEXT TIMEEEE

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      YES PLEASE 🖤

    • @TygerBlueEyes
      @TygerBlueEyes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That would be crazy fun to watch 😊

    • @kimmielulu2293
      @kimmielulu2293 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      i would love to listen to one with all three of you together!

  • @glutinum
    @glutinum 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    “You’re less tolerant to bullshit”
    The older I get the more I can relate to this phrase
    I turned 21 this year and I’m so thankful that in 2019 I discovered your channel and instagram
    Joan is the BEST unnie🖤
    Have a happy September :3

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @kasia7743
    @kasia7743 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    currently in my 20s (almost 24) but I can relate to a lot of the things both of you mentioned!! definitely my favorite episode from this series 🫶🏾

  • @monicarith4838
    @monicarith4838 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    I saw “dating” i clicked immediately

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      🙈🖤

  • @Hakuismyman715
    @Hakuismyman715 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm 28 so not yet there in my 30s but I've definitely learned a lot throughout my years on what I'm okay with in relationships romantic and platonic. Thankfully as you get older you take less shit usually too.
    I want to add three other things to examine in a relationship to see if someone is a good partner or red flag is how they are with their finances, how they treat those struggling and their friendships. Do they impulsively spend? Are they secretive? Do they always save and never spend? Do they treat waiters terribly? Do they make fun or hate on unhoused people? Do they have friends? Do they take badly about their friends? Are their friends decent people?

  • @CarlaLciel
    @CarlaLciel หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Really enjoyed the talk! ✨
    I would like to share my perspective on dating apps. As a user it becomes very discouraging seeing all this single ppl and matching or not matching bcs you know they wouldn’t be your type. And it takes a lot of tries to find someone you’re actually interested enough to go an a date (could also be dangerous… etc). When I was single I always said I’m not playing games, dating apps it’s just a vehicle to meet someone who you wouldn’t meet on your day to day (specially if you’re introvert, busy with work, or hobbies that don’t include the other gender). If you decide to go on a date is bcs there’s mutual interest so no point in playing games. I think it’s good to be straightforward about what you are looking after (serious, thinking about marriage etc) so you can weed out all the ppl with different intentions and values.
    Of course, not all ppl have this goal when they use dating apps, that’s why we should always keep our standards high!

    • @ADifferentVibe
      @ADifferentVibe 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Standards high.... What does that mean? Expect princess treatment in exchange for nothing? Expect the man have to make more than 6 figures? Be specific.

  • @erinnberryy
    @erinnberryy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Joan the hair is hairing!! Also I’ve missed Soobeanie!! Please reunite with Ashley and make a vid with all 3 of you plzzzz

  • @mesencephalon90
    @mesencephalon90 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    please have a part two!! this is so insightful

  • @hoamy9405
    @hoamy9405 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    94 liner here and turned 30 in Feb! Just want to say, I'm such a 'Joan' vibe girl! So glad someone feels and thinks the same about relationships! 💝Love this and missing Ashley in the convo! 😀

  • @youniquelyy
    @youniquelyy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Joan you and i are literally the same person HAHAHA when you said the reason why you're single is because you're not open to anything, i laughed out loud because that's literally me 😂 thank you for this episode! Truly feels nice hearing 2 other single ladies' perspectives on dating in their 30s because turning 30 next year and still being single freaks me out esp with the society's expectations on getting married sigh

  • @puritakongim9960
    @puritakongim9960 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    joan you always be glowing!

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🫶🏻🖤

  • @ryu-x7ctsuki
    @ryu-x7ctsuki 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It was so short! Girls could talk more.
    Absolutely loved this one, audio is so good too😭

  • @jdz95
    @jdz95 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm nearing 30 and I just had a breakup a few weeks ago (right a day after my birthday gosh). Even though it was a peaceful breakup in which I got the clarity and conclusion I needed, there are times when I resent myself too. I felt like I shouldn't have put that much effort in that relationship to the point I felt like I was losing my self worth. And now that I'm single, the problem isn't about moving on, it was more on how to find the right person and where to find it. Because just like what you guys have discussed, as we age and as we went through different relationships, we ended up being more picky with our next partner. The part where you guys talked about how I will find someone better for sure hits me right through though. So thank you, for that talk! Wishing everyone here much happiness from within

  • @tinkernell
    @tinkernell หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i don't usually watch contents about dating coz I feel like I can't relate much UNTIL THIS ONE!!!! Joan you really put into words everything!!! I'm like yup that's ME TOO every time she shares her POV..If someone's gonna ask me what I think about dating, I'd show them this. 💯

  • @reginapoblete161
    @reginapoblete161 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    As a 50 year old married woman. I had a blast during my 20’s and 30’s. Did things like had a lunch date and mid day date and another dinner date in one day. It was fun and exciting and clean fun. My friends and I always talked about how the 90’s was so much better than today. My advice is you have to be whole as a person before getting into relationships. Imposing what you want is not always a right thing. There should always be a give or take on both. Sometimes you should allow the men to be the leader or the alpha. It is what makes them men. The worst thing that happened in the 90’s is Sex in the City. It really made naive women think that fun is sleeping around and being too carefree. It actually makes women more unattractive and insecure. So love yourself. Enjoy but be safe and and stay happy.

  • @christina4465
    @christina4465 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I can relate to the both of you! When I was in my late 20s, I felt the pressure, but not anymore. I think of it as a part of life, which things don’t turn out the way as expected. I guess marriage and children are not an option for me, but I am really happy for others who found their person. This was a really interesting and important subject to a lot of us, so I appreciate this conversation a lot! Thank you, thank you to SooBean and Joan! 😄🤩🩷💝💕👍🏻

    • @miryeongk
      @miryeongk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      "I guess marriage and children are not an option for me" ... but are you sad about this?

    • @christina4465
      @christina4465 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@miryeongk I’m at peace with that decision many moons ago. I have a great support system, my family and loved ones. We are all responsible for our own happiness. I am grateful for what I have! I hope you all the happiness in the world! 😄👍🏻💝🩷💕

    • @miryeongk
      @miryeongk หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@christina4465❤

    • @miryeongk
      @miryeongk หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    • @miryeongk
      @miryeongk หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@christina4465 ♥

  • @minhthifresh
    @minhthifresh 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    27 and got broken up with, decided to postpone dating until my 30s and this video affirmed to embrace my singlehood :)

  • @Sarahalfal
    @Sarahalfal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Joan your literally glowing

  • @trinakins
    @trinakins 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    same here.🙃 i have no game, not flirty, and also can't catch if guys like me. even when they told me they like me, i still have no clue... i was like-- you like me? as a friend???!🤣
    i seriously need help.🤣🤣🤣

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hahah wait same 😅

  • @hchung155
    @hchung155 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love Joan's alpha energy hahha. Please do another episode on dating with Ashley!!

  • @cor_cordium
    @cor_cordium 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    the more I watch and listen to your videos the more I get the feeling it might be a scorpion thing? especially your reasonings and mindset on dating it was super relatable for me hence why I'm also single for so long :D

  • @joodi8888
    @joodi8888 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i loved this episode so so so much joan i can’t thank you enough for starting this series cz even if im 21 it’s helping me prepare for my 30s and i’ve taken so much helpful advice honestly love you so much love your personality and mindset and all your guests as well i wish i had u as a friend irl ur the best😭🫶🏼

  • @facebooksmith1269
    @facebooksmith1269 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My favorite philosophy when it comes to dating is - "Men are as faithful as their options" - the Great Chris Rock.

  • @soggybiscuit6098
    @soggybiscuit6098 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Feminism has single handedly solved housing for stray cats

  • @TheiaShi
    @TheiaShi หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My girls rock! Loved the subject and your matureness!!

  • @genuinetallguy6318
    @genuinetallguy6318 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Joan you are truly a sophisticated, beautiful woman. You make thirty look like 20. Great interview with Subin. She's a cutie too. Great job. ❤❤❤

  • @miryeongk
    @miryeongk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Joan, I was just like you in my mid-thirties and had the same philosophy on relationships. For me, I never really struggled with loneliness or the desire to get married or be in a serious relationship. Part of that was because I was more concerned with my career, financial security, and discovering my identity. But that all changed and now ... 🙃

    • @ADifferentVibe
      @ADifferentVibe 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Now what? Are you unhappy?

    • @shotdang12
      @shotdang12 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ADifferentVibeshe’s focused on finding someone

    • @miryeongk
      @miryeongk 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ADifferentVibe Not at all, only that mindsets can change.

    • @miryeongk
      @miryeongk 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@shotdang12 No, more like letting people find me 😇

  • @aininadhrh
    @aininadhrh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When joan said she like to meet person naturally I was like girl we're sister I mean for me its ok to be late as long as Iam happy with the process..

  • @krstnanana
    @krstnanana 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Its a fun topic to watch! I cant wait for the next one! Thank you!!

  • @ADifferentVibe
    @ADifferentVibe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Soobeanie says don't look at the potential and don't try to change the other person, but on Korean Pizza Club podcast, she says she'd try to change the other partner's parents if they are overbearing... So, idk

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      In the way of “ changing the other parents” I think people took that out of context . It was in the context that I would try my best for them to like me “if” they didnt like me. Ideally it would be best if I meet future in laws who would love me for me, that would be the best..

    • @ADifferentVibe
      @ADifferentVibe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@soobeanie makes more sense. Thanks for the clarification!!

  • @marisol.gum87
    @marisol.gum87 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What an amazing episode! It was so short and interesting! Need you guys together again on another video! 🇲🇽🤍 So much love from Mexico

  • @PadeeTinaKong
    @PadeeTinaKong หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    30 flirty and thriving✨🎀💗

  • @thanhbuutran4101
    @thanhbuutran4101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Also, please more of these series! I always rush when you have a video up! ❤🎉👏

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Love and enjoying this!!❤❤❤❤

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hehe thanks for watching 🖤

  • @todayis_Rachaa
    @todayis_Rachaa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Happy bday for Christine 🎉🎉🎉

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Our Virgo queeeen🖤

    • @todayis_Rachaa
      @todayis_Rachaa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joan_kim hearts for both of you 🩷🩷 .
      And i'm an Aqua Girl in my 30s 😬 .
      Soon 35 ✌️

  • @RinoaHearlty
    @RinoaHearlty 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this episode 🥰 more of this pls!! Also Joan I gotta know what lipstick you’re wearing 😍

  • @GoodOldCinema
    @GoodOldCinema 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're getting more and more beautiful every time I see you, Joan.

  • @kenneseyl2819
    @kenneseyl2819 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i’m relate to Joan soooo much literally we’re same person 🥰🥰🤍✨😄

  • @lovehope2877
    @lovehope2877 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my God! I'm going to binge this whole series

  • @손새봄-b1e
    @손새봄-b1e 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    늘 잘 보고 있어요 조안 님 목소리가 너무 멋있는 거 아시나요..

  • @blancabaeza5541
    @blancabaeza5541 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was waiting for this video ❤

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you enjoyed it 🖤

  • @narunikonaru
    @narunikonaru 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg love this girls talk… Im a very complicated person and i just date to date and I hope in the process of dating I fall in love…. Wich never works and I end up breaking the relationship because I just can see my future with that person and iIm in my 30s, Im 30😅 all the person that i have dated want to get married in a future but they just don’t know the mess I am, I just think I have never fall in love with somebody. And the problem is when the family have money have to be extra careful who you date. So much in my head, dating in 30 is better but complicated.

  • @chains1436
    @chains1436 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    let's get ashley with u both next time 😭😭♥️♥️

  • @beneathesea
    @beneathesea 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a person who just turned 29 and has never been in a relationship, I feel y'all.

    • @jamilateef6392
      @jamilateef6392 หลายเดือนก่อน

      (best wishes for your septmbr)

    • @PurpleDoritos666
      @PurpleDoritos666 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Jeez how high are your standards?

    • @beneathesea
      @beneathesea หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PurpleDoritos666 I'm asexual/demi-sexual.

    • @Crystalbomb321
      @Crystalbomb321 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@beneatheseaHas anyone decent asked you out? Are you just not giving anyone a chance

    • @beneathesea
      @beneathesea หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Crystalbomb321 Outside of the occasional creep w/ catcalling? Nope, never - I WFM as well, so I'm not outside often like my early 20s. I've only found ~3 men physically attractive in my life. 2 are idols (in NCT), 1 is just a musician (who idk irl). I mostly just experience aesthetic attraction and exercise at my home-gym. 🤷‍♀ lol

  • @BfeverYara
    @BfeverYara 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Joan im totally you when the subject is Dating. ❤

  • @DaizyandMelon
    @DaizyandMelon หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The amount of “YEAH” in this podcast hehe

  • @elizabethsseoul2382
    @elizabethsseoul2382 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Joan, we are the same age and I have to say that we are vastly similar in terms of being self-sufficient and independent. I lived in Korea all throughout my 20s and let me tell you the amount of bullshit I encountered from men. I just returned to the states this year and have taken a break from being single, lol. I am dating now, and let me be honest it's been a STRUGGLE.
    I've been incredibly selfish because I don't want to end up where I was in my 20s emotionally. But I'm dating a person who's emotionally intelligent and he's teaching me how to love again.
    I will say the Korean dating pool damaged my mental health and I'm slowly recovering from it. Right now I'm learning to trust again, but it's going to be a long process.

  • @rez9126
    @rez9126 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I learned a lot in this video especially about the red flags! Opened my mind 🤯😂

  • @user-we9lx2si3z
    @user-we9lx2si3z หลายเดือนก่อน

    so insightful & ur both beautiful

  • @rizwanainam2349
    @rizwanainam2349 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm there with you on wanting to meet someone organically but i also never leave the house and dirty stare at anyone that shows me interest lol

  • @btlimaa
    @btlimaa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved this episode... I identified myself in so many parts and loved the advice!!! I found it a little funny and interesting also because the dating culture here in Brazil is very, very different. Congratulations on this episode, I loved it. More and more your fan. 🖤😘

  • @thanhbuutran4101
    @thanhbuutran4101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Okay, sorry for the all comments, commeting as I watch hahahha. Anger, arrogance, avoidance, addiction, and abuse.... This got my dying lf laughter. Thank you though, so good.

  • @lovetheory
    @lovetheory 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Omg never been so early 🥰 perfect timing for my lunch break

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hehe enjoy your lunch break 🖤

  • @nrxtkh
    @nrxtkh หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loooooove this so much 🙏❤

  • @daryllavapiez
    @daryllavapiez 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can definitely relate to everything Joan said. haha!

  • @ec5318
    @ec5318 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s okay to have babies in your 40s but… I am 48 (my youngest going to be 13) and I am starting to think ahead to retirement plans and what I might want to do once that time hits in 10+ years. Mainly bc I will definitely be ready to be retired or slowly gear up for the retirement life by about then and I am tired (good health but 40s and beyond body needs rest and tlc!) so..

  • @techgiantfan7014
    @techgiantfan7014 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Soobeanie checks all the boxes for a ideal GF for any guy ( Sweet/Extrovert personality, Family/ Career Oriented), wonder if she would give a Latino guy a chance, cuz im all in!!! 😉

  • @arahlimm
    @arahlimm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    watching this right after i turned 30. and the thing I'm most curious about people in their 30s was asked "do you remember your 20s?" lmaooooo okay I'm normal. love this in my 30s segment!

  • @heyitsrosie
    @heyitsrosie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Joan is so relatable 😅

  • @by.jyamae
    @by.jyamae 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Lol, I am Joan. I won't know or assume unless you say it verbatim 😂

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @MidlandsTraveller
    @MidlandsTraveller 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Missed those convo, girls. :) Love Soobeanie's energy!!

  • @dgonzales9360
    @dgonzales9360 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loovveee this❤

  • @ADifferentVibe
    @ADifferentVibe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I think Joan has become the man she herself is looking for...

  • @starkiller_alex1606
    @starkiller_alex1606 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel like if you want to get married by a specific age you lowkey have to “settle” for someone.

  • @doomdadadida
    @doomdadadida 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s oddly cute how Soobeanie often tries to finish Joan’s sentences. 😆

  • @_caitlin_
    @_caitlin_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like Joan is my extroverted twin. our views are the same on so many things outside of dating too 😂

  • @pinkyyuka9940
    @pinkyyuka9940 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Less tolerant to bullshit. Well said 😇

  • @lukevo6485
    @lukevo6485 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    2 single chicks in their 30s giving dating advice. Horrible, don't listen to people who don't know anything about successful dating.

  • @juliaohnmar4178
    @juliaohnmar4178 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I miss you so much

  • @5waterlilly
    @5waterlilly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg love the boots! 👢🤩

  • @ariayang2980
    @ariayang2980 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You have no idea how fast i clicked when i saw the notification 😅😂

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hehe hi🖤

  • @Ricccardo80
    @Ricccardo80 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is a great video, I was waiting for the collab with Christine. I wish you both a lot of happiness and success in life and happy birthday to Christine. #joandaysupremacy

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🫶🏻🖤

    • @Ricccardo80
      @Ricccardo80 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joan_kim ❤🖤❤🖤❤

  • @juliaohnmar4178
    @juliaohnmar4178 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I watched five times in this vlog 😂every week I checked your account but no update anymore 😢😢 I am so upset unnie❤

  • @Lawrencedimayuga
    @Lawrencedimayuga 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Soobeanieeeeeee! Take care Joan.

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Always 🤍 she takes care of me a lot

  • @SouthSurrey604
    @SouthSurrey604 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm pretty sure, when Joan became a Mum, she must be good care or postive toward them. Because her voice and aura would fit for mum.(she is also into NBA, fellas might be wanting significant partner with her😅.)

  • @KY-xv9oc
    @KY-xv9oc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    IE represent!

  • @yanggang1068
    @yanggang1068 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm in my mid 30s and I'm giving up on dating. People can't still carry conversations and most importantly they do not know what they want. I do not want to waste your time so please do not waste mine.

  • @maknaeficent1
    @maknaeficent1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me too 😢 you have to be very specific with me that you like me or else I would think you’re just being friendly. I cannot flirt to save my life.

  • @juliaohnmar4178
    @juliaohnmar4178 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I miss your beauty and travel vlog😢Why don't you take those vlog😢😢

  • @jeeen8
    @jeeen8 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you girls are so funny!

  • @juliaohnmar4178
    @juliaohnmar4178 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Are you with rosie theam .I am so excited rosie album I can't wait I like too much APT❤ Actually I wanna know you and rosè relationship because you are my favorite TH-cam vlogger you are my first who watched TH-cam vlog and rosè is my favorite Blackpink member Please could you tell me you and rosè relationship friends or cousin ❤❤

  • @mklf626
    @mklf626 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Soobinee, with all due respect, please be mindful of the overuse of the word “like” in your conversation. It gets a little distracting and can be reductive.

    • @soobeanie
      @soobeanie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Omg I 100% agree I didnt realize til I wanted it.. we shall be fixing that in my 30s ❤

    • @mklf626
      @mklf626 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@soobeanie It’s awfully sweet of you to reply so positively!👏🏻
      The substitute teacher in me….😁

    • @NiolaVianni
      @NiolaVianni 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait until you hear a Singaporean speaks 🫣 Anyway, love these women 💓✨

  • @kimmielulu2293
    @kimmielulu2293 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    okay, but why am I like Joan? 😅 I cannot pick up cues when someone is interested in me 😂

  • @irtaoctasila6588
    @irtaoctasila6588 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm team Joan. I LIKE YOU 😂

  • @Garnishes
    @Garnishes หลายเดือนก่อน

    How old is Joan Kim? She said she was single for most of her 30s

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  หลายเดือนก่อน

      32!

  • @yueliangmei12
    @yueliangmei12 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hahhaha at least I'm not alone, I'm so Joan hahaha that's why I'm single too. I don't even want to talk to other people, only to the people I know.

  • @eycieee399
    @eycieee399 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hyper independent - same, bestie 😢

  • @chains1436
    @chains1436 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just love u both plz ♥️

  • @todayis_Rachaa
    @todayis_Rachaa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My mom gave birth to my younger brother in her early 40s as well .
    About dating Apps for me is a biiiiiiig No

  • @viviselvia4927
    @viviselvia4927 หลายเดือนก่อน

    IM NOT 30 almost there but i already feel like how joan feel is the SAME, I thought its only me :(

  • @tjayel9322
    @tjayel9322 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm the sameeeee! I wanna meet someone organically but it's not happening hahahahahaha.

  • @DavidDerryberry-h3m
    @DavidDerryberry-h3m หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I dated a few girls in my 3os

  • @inquisitvem6723
    @inquisitvem6723 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What is the age limit that you will date? How old and youngest will you date?

  • @dunaduna2686
    @dunaduna2686 หลายเดือนก่อน

    how are you going to find husbands in korea

  • @geekdiggy
    @geekdiggy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    beans!☺

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beans!!

  • @RVM133
    @RVM133 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🖤🖤🖤🖤

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🖤🖤🖤