SHE accused YOU of being controlling? Pot, kettle…you know the rest. I’d have canceled her ticket the second she suggested she take over. Zero tolerance.
So a trip that would have been for the whole family you would cancel and punish everyone for what one person tried to pull in that particular reaction you sound more childish and petty than Bonnie has most of the story just punish the one person not everyone else you Dong head
Tbh rebooking was a way better option. The parents were manipulated, so not entirely their fault, and she'd be seething way worse seeing the rest of the family enjoying the vacation rather than having the whole thing canceled (which she'd obviously pin on OP)
No way, I would've cancelled everyone's but mine and went on the trip with a beautiful girl and send them photos everyday! What a f'd up family. "Thanks for the trip! You're not coming!"
Sister is a complete narcissist. She'll never apologize or admit she was wrong. They always try to turn everything around and blame others. Accountability is a four letter word for them.
I don't get how weird the parents are. They managed to parent two responsible adults but failed completly with a third. They had two decades to explain to their daughter how to behave but instead they enabled her bad behaviour.
That happens surprisingly often with "the third child". Parents see their older children become adults and independent and when they get the third one, they focus more on the providing and giving love side of things, because they miss that feeling with their older children
most family raise daughters sheltered and protected... sons are raised to fend for themselves kind of... you give them food, clothes, and some respobility they'll raise themselves to be well. this one is the only daughter and the youngest among 3 siblings.
I've asked female friends this many times, because they conveniently forget how unreasonable a certain gender can be. "Do you have sisters?" If yes, "do you have one that rarely hears the word no?" Boom, instant rant by them against their sister(s), usually the younger ones.
I would have cancelled mom and dads tickets as well. You want to support your daughter who cancelled your sons tickets - who just so happened to be funding the WHOLE thing - is beyond ridiculous. And Bonnie really thought OP would just let her get away with what she did. Those "parents" made a monster. This is why you don't enable bad behavior.
He should have never given her the password like WTF. Giving her a screenshot and allowing her to MAKE SUGGESTIONS that he then decides whether he accepts them or not - sure! But giving someone else access to your stuff? What was he thinking? He should have never given her any direct control over anything, though being open to comments and suggestions is totally reasonable. She should still be always the one making the call whether he wants to implement her ideas or not.
He absolutely is superior, not because he has money, but because he worked hard for it and takes responsibility for his own actions. Bonnie can bog off.
Parents enabled that behaviour for too long, she was well into her 20's so getting over it would be near impossible. She probably goes around telling everyone her family abandoned her, manipulating other people to feel sorry for her. She got enough chances to change, couldn't even apologise to the people who look after her.
OP should worry about any false SA accusation... Narcissistic sisters like that have a history of doin that... Or it could be i am reading too much of reddit stories... either way i hope the OP stays safe.
SA? Against a family member? Without any behavioral hints to make others believe you? Dude, she's entitled and spoiled but not THAT dumb to make such a blatant lie. Lol.
OP went about it completely wrong. Don't tell anyone you'll cancel their tickets if they dont agree. Who will openly disagree? OP should've just called everyone individually and asked if what bonnie said was true. I believe the brother was being honest but not the parents. They had already told OP "it doesnt matter who's paying all that matters is the family has fun." Im sorry, but if I'm paying for everything, I'd at least like to approve of any changes. OP mentioned Bonnie likes to take advantage when other people pay, what's stopping her from changing her room accommodations to the most expensive on OP's dime? If it were me, I'd cancel Bonnie's and the parents' tickets. Good on the parents for finally growing a spine and telling Bonnie to grow up. I habe no problems with people living eith their parents but mooching off them and not contributing is a huge no for me. In mexico its not uncommon to see 2, 3, or even 4 generations worth of people in one house. Everyone has a job that can work and will only move out if they really just want to have their own house.
naw. she will never learn. no stable job. orders only the expensive things on other people's dime while being cheap when it is her turn. she tried to get away with too much.
its half stupidity and half test of trust (being it the last test😂) at that age, dont you just wish family is intact and no beef was happening between the circle. not necessarily because it feels good but also because the world is so competetively dangerous and its so great to have one less enemy. too bad lil sis chose violence or maybe she has a broken brain😅
Wtf? No one would ever gift me an all expense paid trip to Hawaii. I couldn't imagine someone doing so and it still not being enough. That's absolutely insane Modern women have lost the plot and think the world revolves around them. I hope they had fun while she was miserable.
Yep cuz it’s allllll modern women buddy. I’m lucky enough that my father is paying for my family plus my brothers and his girlfriend to take us to Hawaii in about a year and a half and it’s completely up to my dad what we do. I know it’s his dream to have a family vacation like that and I’m not interfering at all. Whatever my dad wants to do we will do! I’m so excited just to be able to come with and give my son that experience with his grandparents as well.
This story is either a freaking essay or AI written. Few people seriously elaborate on the disappointment of the parents eyes or the tension in the air on a Reddit post
the fact that you let the parents go to hawai is incredible, this sister is also incredible i dont get it how most sisters in these stories are shit show people but normal sisters are good
No, I've heard that used before by younger siblings. She's probably trying to make herself look superior and/or more mature by calling him "Little Brother".
@@ayatthefish_ 1. If you feel the need to point out that it's fake, why are you even watching this video in the first place? You're obviously the type of person that feels the need to point out that movies are fake, too. 2. You really need to get out more if you think no one does stuff like that.
Except people like this actually exist and there's been many real life examples to know this happens regularly in certain families. Even the fake stories, where do you think the idea of the plot came from?
If EM wanted to go without OP, fine. Here's the bills for everything and everyone. I need those paid before everyone leaves in 20 minutes. Or like someone else said, cancel the whole trip. And when asked why, nicely tell them "Oh I wasn't allowed on the trip by EM. She said I have a "insert whatever here" attitude. If you have any questions or problems, please send your requests to EM.
Wow, there are so many inconsistencies in this story, the OP needs to proofread his fiction before posting it. Also take notes of important info that gets repeated.
Coming from a family that never had the extra money to take a family vacation to Hawaii, I have to laugh at this whole ridiculous, convoluted story, which is likely friction. You'd think a young man who had grown up in the house with a sister who was such a selfish deviant would have known better than to suggest such a family trip which included said troublesome sister while PAYING FOR THE WHOLE THING. Simply unbelievable, and I don't.🤣
Yeah, the problem is you guys ignore the whole golden child effect I mean she wasn’t just pampered by her parents but also by her brothers so this is not unexpected
I agree with you, Im just laughing at your typo of friction instead of fiction cus now your statement reads like the story somehow generated friction against a wall or something 😂
I blame both parents for Bonnie behaviour That's the result of spoiling to much a child Doesn't matter if the story is fake or not, things like this do happen and i advice parents to stop spoiling their kids to much, you're not helping them nor you are protecting them
How can the sister POSSIBLY forbid you from going on a trip that YOU are paying for? If I was in that situation, I would just laugh my ass off in her face
You’re correct. She’s a classic narcissist. You MUST set and more importantly enforce boundaries. The worst part is she needs counseling but will refuse because she’s a narcissist and “nothing is wrong with her” everyone else is the problem. I’d suggest the rest of the family get counseling together and come up with a way to have an intervention.
Narcissistic people are like that… true vampires who suck your aura and positivity… they don’t drink blood but your energy . I have one sibling like that… due to my dad’s intervention and ruining it more… than supporting me … he sided with her… cause she is married … has twins and has a job… but in the other hand I am still building my career. I have heard a lot of insults and names from both my dad and her… but idc cause I know my worth and have stood my ground always…. Which they absolutely hate… cause they know they can’t control me… note: my dad too is an egoistic and narcissistic person who loves to control people for the wrong reasons for his benefits and has been doing this for years… but me on the other hand, can smell that crap from miles before he even opens his mouth for anything…
11:22 lol, sound like “Maybe someday, I will see Putin, Ambraham Lincoln and a striper polar bear have a cage fight with “Omae wa mou Shinderu” as background bttle music”
It’s basic decency to not try and dictate what happens on a holiday that you’re not paying for. Unless the person paying is expecting you to do something dangerous or whatever, there’s no reason to change that.
sister: hey! Let’s cancel the plane ticket of the person who paid for the whole trip! And get mad at the people who raised me because they wouldn’t let me live in their house, even though they’re paying my rent!
1. For her to cancel the ticket she would have had to impersonate you thus committing fraud and identity theft. 2. She has no legal rights to spend your money on anything unless you ok it before hand. 3. Your father wasn't torn between you two he was angry that your sister couldn't even fake an apology and he was angry with you because you won't just roll over take it anymore. 4. You should have cancelled the trip for all but yourself and your brother as both parents and sister couldn't be trusted.
Yeah, this cant be real. Even if you are a shitty person, you wouldn't be so stupid. Bad people tend to be smart about it, its called backstabbing for a reason... No one is stupid enough to try treason head on.
That's why I never want to have any children. They will bring you more worry than happiness, no matter how old they are. Newborns won't let you sleep, children won't stop asking questions, teens have their hormones and often cause troubles... and adults still can do such crap like in this story. Yeah... never.
OP's fault. He handed the trip over to Bonnie!! He knows her very well and yet gave her access to his accounts. I have no sympathy for many of these OPs!!!
This reminded me of my sister. The only difference is we don't have a third sibling. My parents recognize my sister as evil (she stole mom's pain meds after she had surgery on her lungs) but mom still wrote her out of the will after dad died from a stroke.
my mum had a deal with my grandfather, which was then passed down to me. Get a job while living at home and you don't have to pay rent. I still help out with cleaning the house, buying groceries etc, stuff like that. I also offer to pay bills although my dads like " no its all good yadda yadda" thats why last year i just paid for the water bill while he was waiting for his pay day one time,so that he knows that if he needs/wants help i can help with Bills
This woman will likely become even more difficult, selfish, and emotionally unstable, remaining single as she grows older. The root cause lies with her parents, who overprotected her, allowing her to develop a distorted perception of how the world works.
That the same with my younger brother when me or my dad pay for dinner they will get the most expensive thing on the menu. And we are on vacation and he never paid anything. He lived with my parents his whole life and smooched of them. It sad when certain family members take advantage.
They shot themselves in the foot babying her, not giving her any stability, Discipline,and structure. They created this mess and their daughter became a Parasite. I heard a psychologist say Even though kids have the same parents, lived under the same roof they don’t get the same parent, do to different stages in life. This why children are different
OMG god my wife and I nearly laughed our selves off the couch . The part where Bonnie asked the brother to borrow money from him and lend it to her . That sounds so familiar where my mother called me up needing a little over a grand . I said well I will need to talk to my wife about this , but I didn’t see an issue . Then my mother called everyday , 5 days in a row . On the 5th day I routed the money to my mother’s bank account . Then I didn’t hear from my mother till 9 months later . I found out from one of my nieces that this was money my sister needed because she had blown their rent , and facing eviction . My sister is terrible with money and always spending rent money on events and such , and then wanting others to bail her out .
Ngl if I were in Bonnie's shoes I probably would not talk to the parents anymore. Like you spoil me and once you can't handle the thing you created you kick me out.
"i am divided between you 2" way too many parents favor a child even when they're shown that childnis a problem. There's nothing to be divided about. She abused op on this 1.
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SHE accused YOU of being controlling? Pot, kettle…you know the rest.
I’d have canceled her ticket the second she suggested she take over. Zero tolerance.
Assuming everything the op told about her is true, she prolly gonna go on onlyfans to try to _-RUB IT IN THEIR FACE-_
Cancel all tickets.
She wants to take over, fine, pay for it too.
Could just say no, but okay.
@@Sirpecker0426stuck up narcissistic females don’t take no for an answer.
I would have cancelled the whole thing once Bonnie pulled the ticket stunt.
So a trip that would have been for the whole family you would cancel and punish everyone for what one person tried to pull in that particular reaction you sound more childish and petty than Bonnie has most of the story just punish the one person not everyone else you Dong head
Yeah. U don't reward people with spoiled brat attitudes. Which she clearly was a spoiled brat.
Tbh rebooking was a way better option. The parents were manipulated, so not entirely their fault, and she'd be seething way worse seeing the rest of the family enjoying the vacation rather than having the whole thing canceled (which she'd obviously pin on OP)
I'd have cancelled the trip after the parents agreed with her.
No way, I would've cancelled everyone's but mine and went on the trip with a beautiful girl and send them photos everyday!
What a f'd up family. "Thanks for the trip! You're not coming!"
Sister is a complete narcissist. She'll never apologize or admit she was wrong. They always try to turn everything around and blame others. Accountability is a four letter word for them.
What do you mean "four letter word"?
@@NotGamingwithA1 I think they meant foreign.
@@NotGamingwithA1shit
@@brendonsimpson3566 ohhhhhhhhhhhh
I don't get how weird the parents are. They managed to parent two responsible adults but failed completly with a third. They had two decades to explain to their daughter how to behave but instead they enabled her bad behaviour.
That happens surprisingly often with "the third child".
Parents see their older children become adults and independent and when they get the third one, they focus more on the providing and giving love side of things, because they miss that feeling with their older children
The last child is always babied.
Plus she's the girl. Sometimes with boys, you are a bit more hard in parenting than with girls (or some parents the other way around)
most family raise daughters sheltered and protected... sons are raised to fend for themselves kind of... you give them food, clothes, and some respobility they'll raise themselves to be well. this one is the only daughter and the youngest among 3 siblings.
I've asked female friends this many times, because they conveniently forget how unreasonable a certain gender can be. "Do you have sisters?" If yes, "do you have one that rarely hears the word no?" Boom, instant rant by them against their sister(s), usually the younger ones.
The minute Bonnie started trying to boss me around I would respond with “Shut TF up or don’t come!”
"I can see the disappointment in my parent's eyes." On the plane, to hawaii. Apparently not too disappointed. Lol
When you have an issue with the Golden child, you can be sure it will become an argument between you and the toxic parents.
Parents finally opened their eyes to the monster they created with their favoritism
My mother favors youngest and 2nd.
Better late than never
Monster is right
I would have cancelled mom and dads tickets as well. You want to support your daughter who cancelled your sons tickets - who just so happened to be funding the WHOLE thing - is beyond ridiculous. And Bonnie really thought OP would just let her get away with what she did. Those "parents" made a monster. This is why you don't enable bad behavior.
You thought this was real. 🤦🏻♂️
@@vincedibona4687I don't think you're real.
@@vincedibona4687I just like the idea of the stuck up female getting put in her little place
@@Lobsterwithinternet cold
You do realize the original idea was for the parents right?
He should have never given her the password like WTF.
Giving her a screenshot and allowing her to MAKE SUGGESTIONS that he then decides whether he accepts them or not - sure!
But giving someone else access to your stuff? What was he thinking? He should have never given her any direct control over anything, though being open to comments and suggestions is totally reasonable. She should still be always the one making the call whether he wants to implement her ideas or not.
Agree, that was completely foolish. It was like giving an 8 year old his car keys.
The second brother sound like the only normal guy.
Op was too weak to stand up to his parents the brother was just done with all of it
The parents are enablers in her behavior and this dude is a friggin door mat.
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He absolutely is superior, not because he has money, but because he worked hard for it and takes responsibility for his own actions. Bonnie can bog off.
Parents enabled that behaviour for too long, she was well into her 20's so getting over it would be near impossible. She probably goes around telling everyone her family abandoned her, manipulating other people to feel sorry for her. She got enough chances to change, couldn't even apologise to the people who look after her.
10:20
Correction: it was a family vacation BECAUSE there was no sister there
OP should worry about any false SA accusation... Narcissistic sisters like that have a history of doin that... Or it could be i am reading too much of reddit stories... either way i hope the OP stays safe.
SA? Against a family member? Without any behavioral hints to make others believe you?
Dude, she's entitled and spoiled but not THAT dumb to make such a blatant lie. Lol.
OP went about it completely wrong. Don't tell anyone you'll cancel their tickets if they dont agree. Who will openly disagree? OP should've just called everyone individually and asked if what bonnie said was true. I believe the brother was being honest but not the parents. They had already told OP "it doesnt matter who's paying all that matters is the family has fun." Im sorry, but if I'm paying for everything, I'd at least like to approve of any changes. OP mentioned Bonnie likes to take advantage when other people pay, what's stopping her from changing her room accommodations to the most expensive on OP's dime? If it were me, I'd cancel Bonnie's and the parents' tickets. Good on the parents for finally growing a spine and telling Bonnie to grow up. I habe no problems with people living eith their parents but mooching off them and not contributing is a huge no for me. In mexico its not uncommon to see 2, 3, or even 4 generations worth of people in one house. Everyone has a job that can work and will only move out if they really just want to have their own house.
naw. she will never learn. no stable job. orders only the expensive things on other people's dime while being cheap when it is her turn. she tried to get away with too much.
Love your channel, how you are just reading the text, no music, no comments, no overediting, no cartoon avatar on screen.
Perfect.
OP stupidity gave control to bonnie 😂
its half stupidity and half test of trust (being it the last test😂)
at that age, dont you just wish family is intact and no beef was happening between the circle. not necessarily because it feels good but also because the world is so competetively dangerous and its so great to have one less enemy.
too bad lil sis chose violence or maybe she has a broken brain😅
@@susandinosaur732 well if u lived with these kind n observe too much bout people you'll understand blood related or not its all the same
bro gave it to a animatronic!?(jokes)
Unnecessarily rude. No one needs the negativity.
Lol, OP thought I’d was “a little harsh when dad finally cut off the golden child. She needed a dose of reality a long time ago.
Wtf?
No one would ever gift me an all expense paid trip to Hawaii.
I couldn't imagine someone doing so and it still not being enough.
That's absolutely insane
Modern women have lost the plot and think the world revolves around them.
I hope they had fun while she was miserable.
Yep cuz it’s allllll modern women buddy. I’m lucky enough that my father is paying for my family plus my brothers and his girlfriend to take us to Hawaii in about a year and a half and it’s completely up to my dad what we do. I know it’s his dream to have a family vacation like that and I’m not interfering at all. Whatever my dad wants to do we will do! I’m so excited just to be able to come with and give my son that experience with his grandparents as well.
This story is either a freaking essay or AI written. Few people seriously elaborate on the disappointment of the parents eyes or the tension in the air on a Reddit post
Its AI, these channels are just money farms
The full dialogue is soo Ai made up it’s crazy 👍
the fact that you let the parents go to hawai is incredible, this sister is also incredible i dont get it how most sisters in these stories are shit show people but normal sisters are good
Seems like the brother did the parenting the parents should’ve done.
I like the brother. Only normal one in the whole bunch.
Biggest fake flag of the story: OP is 29 and Bonnie is 24, however when waiting at OP's place in the rain, suddenly she calls OP "Little Brother".
No, I've heard that used before by younger siblings. She's probably trying to make herself look superior and/or more mature by calling him "Little Brother".
It’s entirely possible that she’s using the term in a demeaning and patronizing way to feed her sense of superiority.
@virtuousphi its fake and nobody does that...
@@ayatthefish_ 1. If you feel the need to point out that it's fake, why are you even watching this video in the first place? You're obviously the type of person that feels the need to point out that movies are fake, too.
2. You really need to get out more if you think no one does stuff like that.
@virtuousphi dont know bout you but purposleh misgendering a girl by calling her "little brother" its normal. And whats up w you being defensive
I would have cancelled the parents' tickets too.
I would never have invited any mofo that criticizes a trip that I AM PAYING FOR, let alone change the activities I was planning using my money.
In op's shoes, I would have changed my acc password, then asked who agreed with Bonnie, and proceed canceling tickets.
Did you not listen to the entire thing..?!
Maybe you did not listen the story lol 😂😂
I love how she says something inside her broke but then proceeds to do exactly the most normal thing you should do in a situation like this
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I can’t believe she tried to forbid you! Good for you for standing your ground 💪
Matching outfits is cool for 1st day to find each other.
That's it.
I have no sympathy for OP as she was stupid enough to give bonnie any access let alone control to change anything without her
Him op is a male Bonnie is the only daughter appears may be middle child cuz OP is the younger brother.
@@fuyukazemi OP is eldest brother
“ChatGPT: write me a dramatic story about a conflict between me and my sister over a family vacation”
I always listen to these stories and they all sound like bs to fuel people into anger😂
Except people like this actually exist and there's been many real life examples to know this happens regularly in certain families.
Even the fake stories, where do you think the idea of the plot came from?
If EM wanted to go without OP, fine. Here's the bills for everything and everyone. I need those paid before everyone leaves in 20 minutes. Or like someone else said, cancel the whole trip. And when asked why, nicely tell them "Oh I wasn't allowed on the trip by EM. She said I have a "insert whatever here" attitude. If you have any questions or problems, please send your requests to EM.
No good deed remains unpunished
Wow, there are so many inconsistencies in this story, the OP needs to proofread his fiction before posting it. Also take notes of important info that gets repeated.
She needed to be humbled
Coming from a family that never had the extra money to take a family vacation to Hawaii, I have to laugh at this whole ridiculous, convoluted story, which is likely friction.
You'd think a young man who had grown up in the house with a sister who was such a selfish deviant would have known better than to suggest such a family trip which included said troublesome sister while PAYING FOR THE WHOLE THING.
Simply unbelievable, and I don't.🤣
There's also a ton of inconsistencies. It's so fake.
Yeah, the problem is you guys ignore the whole golden child effect I mean she wasn’t just pampered by her parents but also by her brothers so this is not unexpected
I agree with you, Im just laughing at your typo of friction instead of fiction cus now your statement reads like the story somehow generated friction against a wall or something 😂
@@cameronmiyao2673 Might be a spell check function.
I sometime get weird typos on TH-cam.
That was a wonderful idea. ❤ Your parents should be proud! They should be pissed at their daughter.😮
Bro if she wanted the responsibility you should have also gave her the cost of the whole trip😂😂
What a lovely gift for your parents and your siblings😊
I don’t have any issues with my parents or a sibling who acts like this but I would cancel the whole trip
I blame both parents for Bonnie behaviour
That's the result of spoiling to much a child
Doesn't matter if the story is fake or not, things like this do happen and i advice parents to stop spoiling their kids to much, you're not helping them nor you are protecting them
Never take shit from family members that you wouldn't take from randos on the street. Family is supposed to treat you better.
I would have replied to all Bonnie's messages during the trip. With, "We're having so much fun. Wish you were here."
Yup. She had gone too far to exclude OP from the trip. She brought it upon herself.
I mean the parents could have paid for their daughter 😂😂
Tell the AI to stop putting in filler stuff. The story dragged on way too long.
Maybe it had to go to the bathroom
I just cant believe op was dumb enough to get their sister access.
How can the sister POSSIBLY forbid you from going on a trip that YOU are paying for? If I was in that situation, I would just laugh my ass off in her face
You’re correct. She’s a classic narcissist. You MUST set and more importantly enforce boundaries. The worst part is she needs counseling but will refuse because she’s a narcissist and “nothing is wrong with her” everyone else is the problem. I’d suggest the rest of the family get counseling together and come up with a way to have an intervention.
My god,if she is like this with her family, it would be hell for a man dating her.
This is an interesting story. I was almost absorbed in the story ☺️
A simpliest rule has roam the earth since the day currency system was made :
Whoever pays the gold get to decide.
Nah, not always
Narcissistic people are like that… true vampires who suck your aura and positivity… they don’t drink blood but your energy . I have one sibling like that… due to my dad’s intervention and ruining it more… than supporting me … he sided with her… cause she is married … has twins and has a job… but in the other hand I am still building my career. I have heard a lot of insults and names from both my dad and her… but idc cause I know my worth and have stood my ground always…. Which they absolutely hate… cause they know they can’t control me… note: my dad too is an egoistic and narcissistic person who loves to control people for the wrong reasons for his benefits and has been doing this for years… but me on the other hand, can smell that crap from miles before he even opens his mouth for anything…
11:22 lol, sound like “Maybe someday, I will see Putin, Ambraham Lincoln and a striper polar bear have a cage fight with “Omae wa mou Shinderu” as background bttle music”
It’s basic decency to not try and dictate what happens on a holiday that you’re not paying for. Unless the person paying is expecting you to do something dangerous or whatever, there’s no reason to change that.
sister: hey! Let’s cancel the plane ticket of the person who paid for the whole trip! And get mad at the people who raised me because they wouldn’t let me live in their house, even though they’re paying my rent!
1. For her to cancel the ticket she would have had to impersonate you thus committing fraud and identity theft.
2. She has no legal rights to spend your money on anything unless you ok it before hand.
3. Your father wasn't torn between you two he was angry that your sister couldn't even fake an apology and he was angry with you because you won't just roll over take it anymore.
4. You should have cancelled the trip for all but yourself and your brother as both parents and sister couldn't be trusted.
Would definitely have canceled the whole thing
At least i can sleep easy knowing not even OP could keep his story straight and remember the age of his fictional siblings
Update: Bonnie ded. Good end. 😂
Trust me, bonnie never gonna learned her lesson. A complete narcissist
Who cancels the ticket if the person paying?!
Just don't ever gift anything, end of problems
Yup, learn the hard way giving a present at 14 for my mom and she was disappointed.
So moral of the story is… dont spoil your kids rotten! Learn to discipline!
Why painfull? Id block her number the moment she tried to pull the fast one.
Another bs story
Yeah, this cant be real. Even if you are a shitty person, you wouldn't be so stupid.
Bad people tend to be smart about it, its called backstabbing for a reason... No one is stupid enough to try treason head on.
That's why I never want to have any children. They will bring you more worry than happiness, no matter how old they are. Newborns won't let you sleep, children won't stop asking questions, teens have their hormones and often cause troubles... and adults still can do such crap like in this story.
Yeah... never.
OP's fault. He handed the trip over to Bonnie!! He knows her very well and yet gave her access to his accounts. I have no sympathy for many of these OPs!!!
This reminded me of my sister. The only difference is we don't have a third sibling. My parents recognize my sister as evil (she stole mom's pain meds after she had surgery on her lungs) but mom still wrote her out of the will after dad died from a stroke.
Wow, this Bonnie lady ! Wow !
Never understood parents who take sides like this.
my mum had a deal with my grandfather, which was then passed down to me. Get a job while living at home and you don't have to pay rent. I still help out with cleaning the house, buying groceries etc, stuff like that. I also offer to pay bills although my dads like " no its all good yadda yadda" thats why last year i just paid for the water bill while he was waiting for his pay day one time,so that he knows that if he needs/wants help i can help with Bills
This woman will likely become even more difficult, selfish, and emotionally unstable, remaining single as she grows older. The root cause lies with her parents, who overprotected her, allowing her to develop a distorted perception of how the world works.
That the same with my younger brother when me or my dad pay for dinner they will get the most expensive thing on the menu. And we are on vacation and he never paid anything. He lived with my parents his whole life and smooched of them. It sad when certain family members take advantage.
She paid. So it's her choice. ❤
They shot themselves in the foot babying her, not giving her any stability, Discipline,and structure. They created this mess and their daughter became a Parasite. I heard a psychologist say Even though kids have the same parents, lived under the same roof they don’t get the same parent, do to different stages in life. This why children are different
It was their parents fault, they spoiled her rotten when she was a kid. That's why good parenting is important
OMG god my wife and I nearly laughed our selves off the couch . The part where Bonnie asked the brother to borrow money from him and lend it to her . That sounds so familiar where my mother called me up needing a little over a grand . I said well I will need to talk to my wife about this , but I didn’t see an issue . Then my mother called everyday , 5 days in a row . On the 5th day I routed the money to my mother’s bank account . Then I didn’t hear from my mother till 9 months later . I found out from one of my nieces that this was money my sister needed because she had blown their rent , and facing eviction . My sister is terrible with money and always spending rent money on events and such , and then wanting others to bail her out .
The parents Failed to raise Bonnie as a reasonable person! They enable her Narcissism and are why she was such an evil manipulative person!
Great reading voice 👍
In my family. As soon as she had said to give up all rein. The immediate and proper response. “Then you pay for it :)”
Bonnie is a terrible person. Leave her behind. Your parents are terrible people. I am so sorry.
You did the right thing !
This poor girl was so optimistic, then we got hit with the "Things got worse again" 💀
If this story were real, then the parents failed at their job.
Smh spineless siblings are a joke. SMH 🤦🏾♀️
And was furious with “her” parents for choosing me over her.
That line has me believing this story is bullshit.
Ngl if I were in Bonnie's shoes I probably would not talk to the parents anymore. Like you spoil me and once you can't handle the thing you created you kick me out.
This sounds like "The Fight Club"...with YOU also being Bonnie.....
As soon as the parents sided with the golden child, I would have completely cancelled all of the tickets, except for mine.
"i am divided between you 2" way too many parents favor a child even when they're shown that childnis a problem. There's nothing to be divided about. She abused op on this 1.
sometimes the right choice is the hardest one
Yup drop her ticket and tell her straight her days of dictatorship are over. Walk away.
As sad as the ending for her is, it is what you get for not putting your life together as an adult.
If she would have just declined a ticket I paid for and canceled from going to a trip I payed for? I would have cancelled the whole family trip