17:45 "It is this way of respecting our blood relations that separates us from the animals, don't you think?" Actually, most animals *do* help and support their blood relatives. It's helping and supporting anyone who is *not* a blood relative that's very rare in the animal kingdom. (Interestingly, one of the rare animals which does show altruism to other members of their own species who are unrelated to them? The vampire bat.) 🦇
People like brenden think their spouse won't be able to make it without them, like bruh she was obviously doing fine without you Before you were together she'll be fine after😅
YOU BETTER THAN ME - Once I'd see that moving truck, I'd be packing my things and dip before it gets violent; HELL, since Mommy's Boy is SO adamant about her living there with him, I'd hide my U-Haul, Pod rental, or the storage key and get ready to get outta there. And DUDE, did you FAIL economics class? What gets exchanged with the sell of the house - MON-EY; who the F*UK'S gonna be broke? NOT HER!
15:11 "But I don't think my mom is going to like being made to wait so long for an answer." "Brendon, I just gave you an answer. The answer was NO. Now you take that answer back to your mom right now, or I will tell her NO myself."
Yes! I’m glad she asked what she would have to gain from helping him. All these villains demand favors from their victims and I wish the victims use their power over them to ask what they have gain. Make the villain squirm and beg
SARAH, get ready to leave that place, but if you own the home you’re living in, then they need to leave. If you don’t own it, get your stuff together and move out!
As the DIL you are NOT obligated to take care of your husband's mother and/or father. That is HIS responsibility, whether your own parents have passed on or not. Stop taking on other people's responsibilities especially when the responsibility is an asshat.
If inherited money is placed in a joint account or invested in a joint business or the partner has established long term residency in a property and made improvements to it, if you have unfortunately signed an agreement allowing the other person access to the money, if the inheritance was not properly and officially handled at the time of distribution, in other words it was just handed over, as per agreement between the survivors, if there are citizenship and child custody questions, that and more may make a judge declare an inheritance marital property. My best advice is to get lawyered up. Also inheritance laws vary from country to country. There are countries in the world where the husband owns everything his wife owns outright, in other words a female has no property or inheritance rights at all.
The husband and the mother-in-law is trying to use the wife and that's probably why he married her. She needs to walk away she doesn't need to take his abuse he's no good and the mother-in-law is going to use her like a slave
I would not put up with his disrespect (or the MIL's, either) for nearly so long. For MIL, I'd either shut off my phone or ignore her calls. For him... divorce. When my hubby got unreasonable, I looked him in the eye and told him that 'things are going to change, or things ARE going to change.' And I meant it. And did it.
@gaylyngreen7282 I'd be passing word around that the mother didn't raise a son, she raised a replacement husband. Watch them get the looks and accusations of incest.
Hey Brendon...who owns the house you live in?..Have you forgotten it's your wife's house...So now you can take your dear mommy...and get the hell out!..
7:05 is where you pull the divorce card, honestly probably before that. If your partner can't understand such a deal breaker that changes both of your lives drastically than divorce is the only option. "This didn't need to be as long as it is, tbh
I'm living with my daughter's family. The experience can go both ways, e.g., I have a place to live and they have a back-up for the 9 year old's needs. That saves them valuable time off from work when school is on a break. I also help with some bills. And the dishes...
I agree it can be a positive experience as long as everyone in the family respects each other's individuality, needs, and wants. As well as showing love and gratitude for each other. I am so happy that you are living a good life with your family. ❤
I know I am blessed. I live with my son, his wife and 2 teenagers. We get along nicely. We are polite. I help where I can. Laundry, dishes. My food tastes are different so I don't cook. The kids are well mannered and affectionate, and I always remember that this home is my daughter inlaws and respect her boundaries.
let the mummy's boy live with his mummy..she could keep her company every minute he is available...and his mom can tuck her little boy in bed every night..
This situation makes me so upset. If I were Sara, I'm going to tell him "get married to your mom. So, you can live together happily ever after". Without long discussions. Period. 😅
Why would a man marry a woman just to hand over looking after the woman that carries him for 9 months to his wife? She is only part of family by name! Look after your own mother.
Yes doctors and dentists can have busy schedules and have no open appointments sometimes months ahead. Why cant mom change her plans from right now to later? Mom won't accept dil being busy when she wants something and Brendon prioritizes his mother.
OMG she really just keeps going around and around and not getting ne where with him. First minute of their Conversation, and we all knew that it was going to be his way of the highway, that she could not have any say and his mom's grade, and all that good stuff, right? But yet she keeps trying to explain herself that drives me nuts
Demanding stuff is exactly how you find out you can't count on me; As for Brendon, that is an azz I would snap on; out voted? IN MY DAMN HOUSE???!!!! I don't THINK so
I hate the “ but I was just telling the truth,” excuse for being rude. My mother’s answer to that was “ You don’t have to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth unless you’re asked.”
Omg🤦😠wth did she expect from her husband when she already knew he was a mama's boy & that he will always put his mother ahead of everyone & she really just needs to put on her big girl panties & stand her ground towards those freeloaders who want to have her stuff & if shes so unhappy then just divorce that mamas boy & both of them need to just quit whining & go be single already 🤦😠😠 I swear couples like this really just need to go be single then they can quit complaining about everything 🤦😠😠
Stop beating around the bush to drag the story. This story doesn't last more than 10 minutes, not worth wasting another 20 minutes with same crap dialogues.
17:45 "It is this way of respecting our blood relations that separates us from the animals, don't you think?"
Actually, most animals *do* help and support their blood relatives. It's helping and supporting anyone who is *not* a blood relative that's very rare in the animal kingdom. (Interestingly, one of the rare animals which does show altruism to other members of their own species who are unrelated to them? The vampire bat.) 🦇
Cool info - thanks!
People like brenden think their spouse won't be able to make it without them, like bruh she was obviously doing fine without you Before you were together she'll be fine after😅
And it's usually the other way around. They don't realize just how much the spouse did for them until they are gone and no longer doing it.
The hardest part is that it's her house not his she should've locked him out to go and live with his mother
Daughter-in-law does NOT equal slave. Don't let her move in unless you are ready to move out or become less than a slave.
First thing I picked up is there both using her as a slave I hate these stories I can't wait to get to the karma part
These two are my favourite characters in these stories❤
She’s ok but him, he sounds stupid as hell
YOU BETTER THAN ME - Once I'd see that moving truck, I'd be packing my things and dip before it gets violent; HELL, since Mommy's Boy is SO adamant about her living there with him, I'd hide my U-Haul, Pod rental, or the storage key and get ready to get outta there.
And DUDE, did you FAIL economics class? What gets exchanged with the sell of the house - MON-EY; who the F*UK'S gonna be broke? NOT HER!
I would have been gone from the time he said, "you are the DIL". So what??!!!
Whenever I hear “what do you think you’re better than me?” I take great joy in correcting their grammar.
Yes he's a real Mama's boy. Hurry up and divorce this clueless man. Let him live with his mother
Just say NO, to the husband and the mil
15:11 "But I don't think my mom is going to like being made to wait so long for an answer."
"Brendon, I just gave you an answer. The answer was NO. Now you take that answer back to your mom right now, or I will tell her NO myself."
wow just say NO!! better still pack up and leave…
It always amazes me when blood relatives believe so much that a non blood relatives have more responsibility then they do
Brendon apparently didnt know that he has to sign his part of the divorce papers before it can even be used as a threat lol
My mothers DOCTOR scheduled 3 months out!!!! Miss it! Wait 3 more months! Not good if have Heart Issues!!!!
I just love when it's "That's my house b#$####"
Yes! I’m glad she asked what she would have to gain from helping him. All these villains demand favors from their victims and I wish the victims use their power over them to ask what they have gain. Make the villain squirm and beg
All doctors, Dennis, they're all busy.You're lucky to get any appointment in less than a month
SARAH, get ready to leave that place, but if you own the home you’re living in, then they need to leave. If you don’t own it, get your stuff together and move out!
As the DIL you are NOT obligated to take care of your husband's mother and/or father. That is HIS responsibility, whether your own parents have passed on or not. Stop taking on other people's responsibilities especially when the responsibility is an asshat.
“Foul drivel” is my new favorite phrase. It would make a GREAT name for an alternative band.
This guy is a idiot to destroy his marriage to make his mother happy and now he loss everything
Sarah is too patient to someone like Brandon.
I don’t know if he is pretending to be stupid or he really doesn’t understand how dental appointments work.
Obvious this is going to end in a divorce. Hubs is insufferable.
Inheritances, whether it be money or real estate, is not subject to be split in a divorce, it stays with the person who received it.
In theory, it's wonderful. Yet my father-in-law walked away with my mother -in - law's inheritance, and the judge agreed. Smh
If inherited money is placed in a joint account or invested in a joint business or the partner has established long term residency in a property and made improvements to it, if you have unfortunately signed an agreement allowing the other person access to the money, if the inheritance was not properly and officially handled at the time of distribution, in other words it was just handed over, as per agreement between the survivors, if there are citizenship and child custody questions, that and more may make a judge declare an inheritance marital property. My best advice is to get lawyered up. Also inheritance laws vary from country to country. There are countries in the world where the husband owns everything his wife owns outright, in other words a female has no property or inheritance rights at all.
@reneepallo7779 all of it? 😢
She really needs to leave him.
Unless put in a joint account or name. So always contact an attorney to make sure inheritance is thoroughly separated and protected!
Stealth Wealth & Girl Power💪💪
These people threaten with divorce, many even have divorce papers then are shocked when they wind up divorced.
Never unholster, be it literally or figuratively unless you mean to use it.
These are people who think being married to them is the epitome of bliss and that the wife will do anything to stay.
Boy bye forget you and your mother. Go live with your mother.
The husband and the mother-in-law is trying to use the wife and that's probably why he married her. She needs to walk away she doesn't need to take his abuse he's no good and the mother-in-law is going to use her like a slave
I would not put up with his disrespect (or the MIL's, either) for nearly so long. For MIL, I'd either shut off my phone or ignore her calls. For him... divorce. When my hubby got unreasonable, I looked him in the eye and told him that 'things are going to change, or things ARE going to change.' And I meant it. And did it.
I think MIL should have to call sonny boy whenever she needs to go somewhere.
Mama's boy should never get married
Never go to a mother in law house and do her house work, you're not her maid.
@gaylyngreen7282 I'd be passing word around that the mother didn't raise a son, she raised a replacement husband. Watch them get the looks and accusations of incest.
Helping a mil with housework may have a place, but only if mil is sick and dil can fit it into her work schedule.
Brandon and his mom are both anxious to take advantage of his wife's inheritance. They both seem to consider wife a servant and he is the master.
Hey Brendon...who owns the house you live in?..Have you forgotten it's your wife's house...So now you can take your dear mommy...and get the hell out!..
Another spouse that thinks inherited assets are marital assets...
Brandon is the one who doesn't listen. The answer is no.
Really smart girl!!!
7:05 is where you pull the divorce card, honestly probably before that. If your partner can't understand such a deal breaker that changes both of your lives drastically than divorce is the only option. "This didn't need to be as long as it is, tbh
I really like the background video for this.
Doctors’ appts……. Mammogram appts too can be months in the future.
So very sad the greedy of some people good idea divorce is better then
How can he be so arrogant yet so broke? 😂😂
Brendon, I don't want to live with her, okay! I have things to do that don't include taking care of your "Mom"😂😅😊
My dentist is good and fast. And most doctors are very busy and schedules are difficult
Selfish excuses or whatever! If wife doesn't want mil to move in that's a no. Mil is always making snide remarks and talking about dil's inheritance.
Even though she treats dil like her pe.Ronald servant and chauffeor.
Exactly! And I feel Brendon was causing more problems than his mom sometimes too
Note that they didn't offer to share any of theirs, but quick enough to want hers
I'm living with my daughter's family. The experience can go both ways, e.g., I have a place to live and they have a back-up for the 9 year old's needs. That saves them valuable time off from work when school is on a break.
I also help with some bills. And the dishes...
It doesn't work out that way, always, your blessed or lucky 🫠
I agree it can be a positive experience as long as everyone in the family respects each other's individuality, needs, and wants. As well as showing love and gratitude for each other. I am so happy that you are living a good life with your family. ❤
I know I am blessed. I live with my son, his wife and 2 teenagers. We get along nicely. We are polite. I help where I can. Laundry, dishes. My food tastes are different so I don't cook. The kids are well mannered and affectionate, and I always remember that this home is my daughter inlaws and respect her boundaries.
let the mummy's boy live with his mummy..she could keep her company every minute he is available...and his mom can tuck her little boy in bed every night..
This situation makes me so upset. If I were Sara, I'm going to tell him "get married to your mom. So, you can live together happily ever after". Without long discussions. Period. 😅
Why would a man marry a woman just to hand
over looking after the woman that carries him for 9 months to his wife? She is only part of family by name! Look after your own mother.
well i do not want her living with me ever
Step back and let mama's boy clean his mother's house.
Absolutely great readers! Thanks.😊
Move let them alone. They dont want you. No more fights. Forget it
Yes doctors and dentists can have busy schedules and have no open appointments sometimes months ahead. Why cant mom change her plans from right now to later? Mom won't accept dil being busy when she wants something and Brendon prioritizes his mother.
Another Mama's boy
Why wouldn't she block this fool
Brendon Do chores for your mom. Seee what it's like
Good morning, everyone from Alabama. Another crazy momma boy. I like my dentist too. He is a moron. Divorce means spliting the property and money
OMG she really just keeps going around and around and not getting ne where with him. First minute of their Conversation, and we all knew that it was going to be his way of the highway, that she could not have any say and his mom's grade, and all that good stuff, right? But yet she keeps trying to explain herself that drives me nuts
I know how Sara feels.
girl big red flags here this guy is a mammas boy so disasters ahead
Makes me wonder how Brendons grandma treated his mom. Was she a Slave driver also
Demanding stuff is exactly how you find out you can't count on me; As for Brendon, that is an azz I would snap on; out voted? IN MY DAMN HOUSE???!!!! I don't THINK so
Or sometimes doctors are accident a teaching hospital and are only available to see patients one day a week.
Darn spell.
Brandon, overriding all your wife's objection and calling her selfish,is NOT discussing anthing, neither is a sneak attack mature, or appropriate
How insensitive can someone be it's never a good idea to live with in-laws period and the husband is an ass
If you dont want that his mom moves in, say NO. You will clearly if your Hobby is a jerk or not. If run.
Start looking for a place of your own. & stop going to MIL on demand !!!
Oh Brendon...you silly sod...you think you're sooo smart...but are you really?..
then she can do it for you she is NOT GOING TO LIVE WITH ME
I hate the “ but I was just telling the truth,” excuse for being rude. My mother’s answer to that was “ You don’t have to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth unless you’re asked.”
Sarah would have a stronger argument if she stopped using the word "need", and start using the word "want" when referring to MIL's demands.
His wife is more important than his mother. She said NO. Get over it.
Divorce? Great all together now "Im H.A.P.P.Y oh Im H.A.P.P.Y I know I am I am sure I am. Im H.A.P.P.Y
Brendan is utterly selfish. Can't see beyond the end of his own nose. And his mind set is encased in cement.
Thumbnail title and this title are totally different. What's up with that?
Sure from a LEGAL perspective hahaha
Comment on 6 minutes in. "Yah, why don't you go live with your mom. (To brendon).
Did his mom have any kids that lived
Music too loud compared to dialogue. Stories would be better without it.
For the love of God he just opens his mouth and stupid falls out damn
Omg🤦😠wth did she expect from her husband when she already knew he was a mama's boy & that he will always put his mother ahead of everyone & she really just needs to put on her big girl panties & stand her ground towards those freeloaders who want to have her stuff & if shes so unhappy then just divorce that mamas boy & both of them need to just quit whining & go be single already 🤦😠😠 I swear couples like this really just need to go be single then they can quit complaining about everything 🤦😠😠
My mom...my mom...my mom...this guy sounds like a broken record...if he loves his mommy so much why doesn't HE quit his job and take care of her...
People get real divorce doesn't happen like that
had to stop at 8 minutes
Stop beating around the bush to drag the story. This story doesn't last more than 10 minutes, not worth wasting another 20 minutes with same crap dialogues.