I think the curly haired guy did want to get back together with her, which is why he didn’t sleep with anyone else, but finding out she has been sleeping around hurt him enough to change his mind
And she admitted it so casually too like at least she was honest but dang… and they both thought it’d be cool to go on here when he just recently found that out? Drama lol
The dude in the beanie was so mature about it all. He knew his own boundaries he shouldn’t cross to help himself move forward, and he was protective of her when he was told about the “I love you” response. I hope he’s doing well.
@@chubsterwubster yea, because he didn’t go all out on her new boyfriend and bash her for being with new dudes after a breakup? Yea he seems soooo unusual rather than just a casual man.
@@ConsciousApostle999 he was kinda creepy, he kept nudes of her after the breakup (etiquette?) he's not close to getting over her (at least keep your distance then bud) and he was touching her after her call which would have been so uncomfortable Also he seemed kind of meddlesome with the text, if her bf doesn't respond to her saying 'I love you' she should be able to deal with it herself, she did not need him interfering and acting righteous about snooping over their relationship She's not a saint either, but he needs to stop involving himself
@@yungdumbnbroke6117 i understand that but in his defense he didn’t have them on his phone they were just in their texts and he probably hadn’t scrolled through through texts and thought to delete them
I could never, ever handle seeing an ex with someone else. Doesn’t matter how long ago the relationship was. I will feel a sense of connection to that person forever. I basically have to block them out of my life once the relationship ends. I don’t know how people can keep communicating with their exes after a breakup
@@aiskrimgoreng I'm a girl. I'm uncomfortable talking with my ex, mostly because of how he treated me and how much he's changed for the worst. my last bf also broke up with me but it's a complicated situation. we both still love each other, the situation just wasn't right. I'll have a much harder time getting over him and frankly i don't want to, since he also still has feelings for me I keep thinking there's a chance.
@@thickboynextdoor yea it’s kinda cringe. Can’t say I don’t understand it. If I were to break up with my Fiancé I’d want her back bad too. But I could never be casual friends with her after a committed relationship. It would hurt too damn much
@@SmokeyRoseWolf 😂 and my dumbass who is attracted to creeps was agreeing with the hat guy😂 I have such bad judgment with guys. So a guy keeping pics is a no no after a relationship?
Oh god that’s so embarrassing that they called the current boyfriend about not saying I love you and he still didn’t say it 😭 in front of her ex too and he had to comfort her, this is all too much
@@joaojoao6423 She looked like she regretted her choice. One thing I don't want while on my deathbed is: regret hoeing around and contemplating what if I never became a f-boy. Edit: 6:50
Both of these fellas are hurting. You can see it. Even the one who said he doesn’t want to get back with his ex. He was clearly bothered by the videos in her phone with other men. As men, its hard as hell to process a breakup cuz we always feel we have to keep a certain exterior. Homeboy with a beanie is in a world of pain and I hope he gives himself a chance and move on to someone who wants to be with him.
The Asian girl honestly fumbled like the guy seems so chill and when he said he didn’t sleep with any girls because he would feel guilty, and when she definitely did shows a lot between them
@@dev..beeism5487 yeah he was straight Cappin he would take her back in a heartbeat he just doesn’t want to seem like a simp. It’s okay to say you still have feeling but would rather move on. Clear as day he still wants her
Really wasn't. He's desperate and he needs to work on himself. Otherwise he will have women disgusted by him or keep getting walked over by women his whole life.
@@zubairkhan-wb5sy desperate for what ?? He’s cool he doesn’t need to change and a women will find him attractive and not walk all over him, other women might do so cause they bitches but he should not change
If I were in their shoes, I would have also said yes. Yes, it can hurt but it also helps to see the past and how everything is reflected today. Also it makes it easier to getting over it to see that they are with someone else. Its certainly not for everyone tho to join this.
This is some really sadistic sht to put yourself through when you are still going through heartbreak. I would never, i love too hard to ever want to do this
Who wouldn't love to have a Cameron as a boyfriend? He's so caring and kind, yes, maybe a bit reserved, but he didn't seem to have gotten much typical love from his family... I hope he finds love, he deserves it. Plus he's very cute! Loved his longer hair from the old pics as well.
exactly what I was thinking on the last question, the whole situation was kinda sad, she does seem to still have feelings but my guy knows what he is worth.
This whole experience probably changed his perspective on her. When they asked if they've been sleeping with other people, she answered "He hasn't because we've been seeing each other lately," so they were probably on the verge of getting back together, but not anymore after this experience.
@@Chris-px2gf what does her sleeping with other guys while they're broken up have to do with HIS worth? he's worth more than her because she sleeps with other people? why does that matter? if he actually genuinely loved her and WANTED to get back together with her, he wouldn't let something like that get in the way. they weren't together so the amount of guys she has slept with isn't his business and has nothing to do with his worth.
CUT you should do a series about how the different sexes take break up differently. Pull two exs into a room and just give them a straight up therapy session to vent how things have changed since they broke up. Do a 10 good 10 bad kind of thing. Before&after. Would love to see the results and test them against my own interactions.
@@wiseversa135 th-cam.com/video/IRVrNwitK44/w-d-xo.html yeah i found it but i think it would be even better to see the same couple being interviewed over the span of a few months to observe the changes. Since people deal with break ups differently i don’t think we will be able to see the process of how time changes things if it’s done with different couples.
Jean Luc doesn't trust Avery. He seemed very curious about her actions specifically in Vegas (while they've been engaging) and the results disappointed him, so yeah, sis, it's done. He seems like even completely held back from engaging with his co-worker that he was attracted to, as well.
He was right tho? She was sleeping with other dudes even though they are trying to get back. She said she still loves him and they started to see each other again recently. Thats why dude wanted to see if she waited for him as well which turns out she didn't.
@@serdarbulbul1646 While I don't remember much of the video, I don't think it's fair to have that expectation to see if anyone will just "hold back or wait," or follow your own personal expectations without expressing your desire for them to do so. He needed to speak up more, as well as just observe. He doesn't know what the results would have been if he had just expressed to her very early about exclusivity and its importance to him in them rekindling. She can't bear all the fault.
@@Amina-cw1em nah. Its totally fair if you say you still love me and want to start again. She says they are going out to dates and still love him. He loves her too thats why he didnt be with anyone. When he find out that she sleeps with other people and keep videos of it he ended it right there.
Bruh how can y'all judge that girl for getting over the guy with a beanie. That guy sounds like a lot of work. I've been with a nice, insecure guy. It's a lot of pressure and you don't get much out of it if they're not putting the work in to help themselves. They can't get away with everything just because they seem nice at the end. She put three years of her life in you don't think she tried. Good on her for moving on and I hope he gets there to and finds someone more suited to him. Or gets his own confidence. My love and well wishes goes out to both of them
I know I’m late to the party, but one thing my counsellor told me that really healed me was ‘you are allowed to look. you are curious, it is natural. not allowing yourself to look will make you want to look more’. I think hat dude is perfectly fine to have those old photos bc he needs space to heal and deleting those/going cold turkey does not release you, it didn’t for me when I blocked those people, I just became more curious and would ‘punish’ myself for looking + having these bad thoughts about myself. But I was freed when she told me that there’s no harm in looking and wondering. I’m in a much better place now ☺️
I’m loving those videos it’s kinda impactful seeing people experience those type of emotions and speaking about them I’m currently trying to get over my ex/friend of 5 years and it’s incredibly hard everyday trying not to think of her or imagine her with someone else but as long as she’s happy I guess that’s worth the pain I’m going through right now.
@@SithMenace wow dude, ever been a long-lasting committed relationship? By your reply, gonna say that's a hard no. How about next time you have a shitty opinion you keep it to yourself. Cool? Cool.
3 years later and I’ve only just kinda got that full sorta “freedom” for my feelings for my first love - to anyone worried about it or upset over it, time does heal, but we have our own PCR and you shouldn’t be ashamed of it x
I can confidently say that I fully understand why none of these people worked out. I even feel confident enough to say I don't think their new relationships are gonna work out, either, especially after this.......
@@Scoop2380 it’s pretty obvious why. By this video alone you can tell who dumped who. Not to mention, their personalities seem very opposite. The girl seems a bit more cold and independent. But the guy seems kind of dependant and overly sweet.
@@lalag2927 their relationship remind me of me and my ex. I’m too sweet and dependent like this beanie guy and he was so independent, cold and charming. And I’m not over him too. And he didn’t give the reason why he broke up with me, he said ‘don’t ask this question’.
The guy with the beanie is such a sweetheart. You can tell he still loves her and is protective of her. He wants her to be with someone she deserves. When Eric was hesitant about saying "I love you" just his reaction and at the end him rubbing her back for support was so sweet even though he is still hurting. He probably looks back at the pictures of them two together... making it harder for him to get over it...
@@tfgrrl2042 yeah, I don't like when they send messages to anyone. The difference, though, is that you can come back from that. "It was a joke, dad, I was on a TH-cam show". There's no coming back from telling your crush you like her
@@tomaspeixinho4447 why wouldn't you want a girl to know you like her? Nothing's going to happen, otherwise. She did him a favour (even if it just shows the girl isn't interested, it's doing you a favour so you can focus on other people).
i don’t really feel bad for kameron, he subjected himself to this, i think he’s trying to convince himself he’s over her. i also didn’t feel like he was just being sweet, there was definitely some residual possessiveness, not to say that he bad intentions tho, he’s just very hurt.
am i the only one who sees right through green hat? he was enjoying the fact that the new guy hadnt told her he loved her and he wanted to stir up the pot like he def knew what he was doing...
guy in the beanie reminds me of a guy I briefly dated in high school. he seems sweet but they have too much "main character" energy, trauma dump and don't know how to read the room. they also act super entitled at times. but it's just a vibe. he could be rlly sweet. who knows tbh
Guys typically dont take break ups easy , i known women who gotten over break ups in like few weeks. That’s mainly down to the fact that’s men rarely get opportunities to get into new relationships meanwhile women can get bunch of men lined up in a snap of a finger
@@BurriedTruth and i know men who get over break ups in a few weeks. Honestly its more case by case if anything, however i noticed about the same behavior after breakups, just at different times after the break up. Also another note: very few women are that attractive to have a ton of men line up for them.
@@sakumaballs127 that last part is very true and im glad you brought it up, very person to person basis because some men even have lots of women or whoever they like lined up for them and even with that it doesn't guarantee you're "over" them either. like avery in this video who has slept with other ppl and is still clearly not over him yet.
I feel bad for him and her current bf. This goes out here accepting TH-cam themes with her ex, letting him keep nudes on his phone of her while simultaneously saying I love you to her current bf… like what fucked up reality is cut trying to create here 😂
She really asked him to not sleep with other women and he didn’t but she is sleeping with the kiwi dude. Then gets mad and sad when he doesn’t want to get back with her at the end. She is moving funny
if i didn't miss something then according to 6:40 HE was the one who chose not to sleep with other people because HE would feel uncomfortable. she never got angry at the end either (7:10), don't know where y'all got that from. she was literally understanding, just saying "mhm" and nodding her head..?
Honestly, I don't know how two exes can sit in the same room when they clearly are in different stages of their personal journey. I can't even imagine letting my ex going through my phone because it'll hurt him since I was the one who left him in a very messy state. Really hard to understand as I was watching them doing the scrolling, but I guess there's maturity here.
Its really hard watching this as I'm going through my first breakup myself, losing my girl of 2 years. It's ended on fairly good terms which I'm grateful for, and was just a toxic relationship where her anger and my newness to relationships worked against us. We became too attached (??) and dependant on eachother, losing sight of our individuality outside the relationship. There's no bad blood, and we're still planning to watch Spiderman: No Way Home together because it was supposed to be her birthday gift to me, its just gonna be hard as we transition to becoming friends, I can't believe I'm going to lose this strong of a love for her. She was my best friend and seeing this different type of love as friends was really raw and difficult to swallow putting into my own situation, but hopefully the light at the end of the tunnel can make us good friends and possibly reunite years down
@@lydia3528 agreed but not 100% it depends on the individuals tho as sometimes exes as friends do work out as long as u learn to distance urself when needed
Oohhh the beanie guy is still so in love with his ex :( ... Him seeing her pics like 🥲🥲 The other couple know it's too complicated between them. I think Jeanluc feels it's better not to get into a relationship cuz later it would hurt much more, idk might be wrong 😅
@@marcusgomez1372 he did answer it he said he still kind of does but he's taking baby steps and he's starting to move on but she still likes him when she seen the pictures of them reaction changes
He had like 3 nudes and said he didn't want to think of her that way anymore, meanwhile he's got like a folder full of nonsexual intimate pics with her from over the years 😂😂😂😂
@@theEduEnthusiast fax he still would take her back he’s just saying that for the cameras deep down if she said to him she wants to get back together he’s saying yes
He definitely said no cause she revealed she’s been sleeping with other people, especially because prior he told her he wouldn’t because they have been seeing each other.
Why do this shit… it has to hurt. Knowing someone you like is sleeping with someone else feels terrible. If you break it off just break it off. This friend’s shit only hurts.
Why is there no safe word? (Or is there?) some of these people seemed mad uncomfortable with letting certain texts be sent out but they didn’t completely stop it… at caramba
The guy with the cap is in soo love with her....he was gonna literally cry out bt he didn't!... finding all those moments pic eith her..can describe it how much he loved her ❤️❤️you need a hug man!.....❤️❤️
Slept with other guys while seeing him still after the break up. Would you like to get back together at all? Whispers yes, donny pulls out the X with the arms 😭😭 emooooootional damage
nah i think it's more about the audacity to say she's bothered that he has a crush on somebody when she's been sleeping around with people. Now im not saying it's a bad thing since they broke up but they have been seeing each other recently. I think it's selfish of her cause imagine how he feels especially after seeing those pictures and videos. Avery wants to get back with him again so does jean luc but then sleeping with other guys while they were trying to "fix the relationship "kinda ruins everything. It would've been understandable if she slept with other dudes , if they weren't seeing each other. It's unfair to her ex boyfriend who really thought they could've been something. Ending things and making it clear u aren't going back together would've been a better solution instead of making high hopes to the guy cause clearly she has feelings for him but it kinda makes you question everything
I grew up in a broken home so when I met a girl who felt like home and I fell for her even though I never believed in love I really thought she was my person. 2 months after we broke up I did the dumb thing of looking her up on twitter because I missed her and found out she made an onlyfans. Its crazy how someone can make you feel so warm and smiley but at the same time they can be doing nothing but living there life and some how make you feel like you have a giant hole in your chest.
I thought i was bad finding out my ex was already moving on after 2 weeks we ended our 3 year relationship (me after a year still can't) but finding out your ex made an onlyfans is just in another level for me, can't imagine how hard is for you brother... Stay strong !!
The guy who texted his exes dad is toxic as hell. That’s a crazy thing to tell someone’s father. He’s all butt hurt bc she has a thing with another guy but he’s acting like he’s all cool with it
damn, being in a healthy relationship makes this so weird like you can see the connections but they’re fighting it so hard because… life? people are so complicated
Nah people aren’t complicated, these people are just young and shouldn’t be dating in serious relationships when they’re clearly not mature enough for them. Mainly speaking on Kendra’s part. It’s extremely toxic for her to be letting her ex keep nudes on his phone of her and encouraging that while simultaneously telling her new bf she loves him…? Weird as hell. If this were coming from any healthy relationships, and you’re in a new relationship and have the opportunity to delete your old nudes you sent on your exs phone… you’d take that opportunity and control to delete them.
I think the curly haired guy did want to get back together with her, which is why he didn’t sleep with anyone else, but finding out she has been sleeping around hurt him enough to change his mind
yes, totally agree
I agree
And she admitted it so casually too like at least she was honest but dang… and they both thought it’d be cool to go on here when he just recently found that out? Drama lol
YESSS!!
Well.. It always happen, I guess. A couple broke up and the girl gets new bf much faster than the guy gets a gf.
He said "I want her to be treated well" *that is maturity*
nah, that just what exes says to each other
@@eejjoo4954 especially when they or one of them is still in love
Yeah that’s just what someone says because morally that’s what you’re “supposed” to feel
No, he was faking that.
@@channelx8493 yea what else is he supposed to say? “I hope she’s treated poorly” lol
Imagine your ex still consoling you when your new bf can barely say he loves you.. I’d be so embarrassed 😭
for reallll ☠
lmfao fr😭
Fr
The girl doesn't deserve him, he's too nice for her😌
yeah like hes dying to be with her and p sure he gives her alot of attention but of course shes gonna like the asshole
The dude in the beanie was so mature about it all. He knew his own boundaries he shouldn’t cross to help himself move forward, and he was protective of her when he was told about the “I love you” response. I hope he’s doing well.
he was kinda creepy tbh
@@chubsterwubster yea, because he didn’t go all out on her new boyfriend and bash her for being with new dudes after a breakup? Yea he seems soooo unusual rather than just a casual man.
@@chubsterwubster I don't get why people are saying that. Can you explain ?
@@ConsciousApostle999 he was kinda creepy, he kept nudes of her after the breakup (etiquette?) he's not close to getting over her (at least keep your distance then bud) and he was touching her after her call which would have been so uncomfortable
Also he seemed kind of meddlesome with the text, if her bf doesn't respond to her saying 'I love you' she should be able to deal with it herself, she did not need him interfering and acting righteous about snooping over their relationship
She's not a saint either, but he needs to stop involving himself
@@yungdumbnbroke6117 i understand that but in his defense he didn’t have them on his phone they were just in their texts and he probably hadn’t scrolled through through texts and thought to delete them
I could never, ever handle seeing an ex with someone else. Doesn’t matter how long ago the relationship was. I will feel a sense of connection to that person forever. I basically have to block them out of my life once the relationship ends. I don’t know how people can keep communicating with their exes after a breakup
It’s that feeling of all or nothing, totally sympathize
is it only happening with boys? I wonder if girls will feel bad after they broke up by not having any relationship for awhile
@@aiskrimgoreng no. Girls feel too. Some do atleast i do
how do you date around then? if you are constantly bothered by that
@@aiskrimgoreng I'm a girl. I'm uncomfortable talking with my ex, mostly because of how he treated me and how much he's changed for the worst.
my last bf also broke up with me but it's a complicated situation. we both still love each other, the situation just wasn't right. I'll have a much harder time getting over him and frankly i don't want to, since he also still has feelings for me I keep thinking there's a chance.
The hat guy is so sweet, hurting so bad doing this, but wanting to make sure shes treated well.
More like he wants her so bad
@@AxxLAfriku your comments are always so annoying
Nah he a simp. I would be trying to plow thru all her friends if I were him 💯
@@thickboynextdoor yea it’s kinda cringe. Can’t say I don’t understand it. If I were to break up with my Fiancé I’d want her back bad too. But I could never be casual friends with her after a committed relationship. It would hurt too damn much
No, he's dirty macking. Slimy dude.
CUT is way too chill about these interviews
You mean they shouldn't?
I kinda think it's fake
Intrusive *
@@arnav4174 how? All of them knew that this kinda stuff could happen and they weren't forced
@@heavenlyesthetis9084 did you hear the questions?!😂
the hat guy seems like a good person and he’s madly in love but still not over 😭
He’s a good looking guy, no homo. I don’t know why he don’t have a rotation of thotties 🤷♂️
No, he was creepy.
Are you a guy? This was a no from the girls.
Not over what?
@@SmokeyRoseWolf ikr
@@SmokeyRoseWolf 😂 and my dumbass who is attracted to creeps was agreeing with the hat guy😂 I have such bad judgment with guys. So a guy keeping pics is a no no after a relationship?
The courage to be that open not only to your ex, but also to the public, wow
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they probably getting paid
Poor Cameron. I hope he is over her and focusing about his life at the moment. I understand the pain. Huge respect to him
You can tell Avery’s heart dropped when John Luke said “NOoOoO.” When asked with they still love each other.
:(
She didn’t care lmaooo
she's already sleeping with other people though, actions speak louder than words
@@MrXNITROx I mean sometimes people do that to try to get over their exes tho
@@MrXNITROx just bcs someone sleeping w someone new dont mean they over it
I just wanna give the guy in the green beanie a huge hug. Because, he needs it.
I need it too.
Here u go. *Hugs tighty*
@@shenlanzhou3103
Wow..
I appreciate it.. Thanks a lot.
Stay safe.
No problem, you said you needed a hug and I gave you one. Thank you, and stay safe too.
He’s so sweet 😭💕 I feel like he still loves her so much, but wants happiness for her. I hope it stops feeling bad soon 🤞🏼
Oh god that’s so embarrassing that they called the current boyfriend about not saying I love you and he still didn’t say it 😭 in front of her ex too and he had to comfort her, this is all too much
i would die on the spot
I was about to cry
Its really not a big thing to not say ily.. idk why everyone makes this thing so complicated.
@@wiseversa135 if its not a big deal, he should've just said it lol... But yeah, I think she made it awkward by even bringing it up in the first place
@@wiseversa135 it's also not a big deal to just say it. we shouldn't really be rationing ily if you have feelings for someone
“it does bother me”
*also sleeping with other people*
you don't know this
@@imjsbroccoli she literally said that. She is a ho3 and he deserves better
@@imjsbroccoli she literally said she was
@@imjsbroccoli fr we don't know... (she literally said it in the vid)
@@Skaterptater no she didnt..... she literally NEVER said this
Cameron rubbing her shoulder out of habit and Kendra telling him it’s awkward (as she should) hurts🥲
Those boys are heartbroken. Sucks for everyone involved :((
I feel like Avery is heartbroken too, at the end she opened up about wanting to potentially get back together
@@matthewjones5719 heartbroken but was sleeping w/ other men while they weree talking
@@nakiro1646 yeah that broad is delusional
@@nakiro1646 thanks god she was. good for her to enjoy her life while alive.
@@joaojoao6423 She looked like she regretted her choice.
One thing I don't want while on my deathbed is: regret hoeing around and contemplating what if I never became a f-boy.
Edit: 6:50
Both of these fellas are hurting. You can see it. Even the one who said he doesn’t want to get back with his ex. He was clearly bothered by the videos in her phone with other men. As men, its hard as hell to process a breakup cuz we always feel we have to keep a certain exterior. Homeboy with a beanie is in a world of pain and I hope he gives himself a chance and move on to someone who wants to be with him.
I felt so bad for both of those guy 💔
he’s cappin heavy, he kno he wants her back 😹why else would he still talk to her while she fuxkin other dudes 🤦🏽♂️😹
I feel a lot of people think that sleeping with other people helps to get over their exes faster.. it just makes it worse tho.. look at her:(
As people*
@@moneymakinmitch8130 still has feelings but smart enough to use his brain instead of his heart
The Asian girl honestly fumbled like the guy seems so chill and when he said he didn’t sleep with any girls because he would feel guilty, and when she definitely did shows a lot between them
Straight fax
he said he wouldn't go back to her so calm down
She’s over him homeboy knows it but it hurts him to believe it
@@dev..beeism5487 yeah he was straight Cappin he would take her back in a heartbeat he just doesn’t want to seem like a simp. It’s okay to say you still have feeling but would rather move on. Clear as day he still wants her
@Klarissa Andrade but they are exes that still hangout hangout and chill together
I think the guy in the beanie is probably a good catch, at least on an emotional level. He seems genuine, safe and kind.
the person with green beanie is so humble , and he deserves a hugggg
The beanie guy was so heartwarming😭
ROSS
Really wasn't. He's desperate and he needs to work on himself. Otherwise he will have women disgusted by him or keep getting walked over by women his whole life.
But also creepy
@@zubairkhan-wb5sy desperate for what ?? He’s cool he doesn’t need to change and a women will find him attractive and not walk all over him, other women might do so cause they bitches but he should not change
@@zubairkhan-wb5sy Do you realise how hard that is ? I agree with you but it really is alot easier said than done.
If I was Cameron, aint no way in hell im doing this lmao, this already seems like cruel and unusual torture to do to yourself
This hurts to watch, both guys were heartbroken. You can see the pain in their eyes. Why would anyone agree to do this
Thats what im saying. For what cost too? Just more hurt
If I were in their shoes, I would have also said yes.
Yes, it can hurt but it also helps to see the past and how everything is reflected today. Also it makes it easier to getting over it to see that they are with someone else.
Its certainly not for everyone tho to join this.
Lmao I don’t ever wanna go through an exes phone that shit would make me sick af
This is some really sadistic sht to put yourself through when you are still going through heartbreak. I would never, i love too hard to ever want to do this
Cut is selective in whom they choose. Only a vulnerable person would do this.
Who wouldn't love to have a Cameron as a boyfriend? He's so caring and kind, yes, maybe a bit reserved, but he didn't seem to have gotten much typical love from his family... I hope he finds love, he deserves it. Plus he's very cute! Loved his longer hair from the old pics as well.
6:48 thats so tuff for our boy, he wanted to get back with her
I’d rather sell my kidney than let anyone go through my phone
(:
same tbh
That's fair but what's on it
th-cam.com/video/SDRx4Kkytzo/w-d-xo.html The media don't want you to see
th-cam.com/video/SDRx4Kkytzo/w-d-xo.html The media don't want you to see9
Whats so bad that people could see ?
The fact that averi said she feels a lil way about him liking other women, when she sleeps with other men 🤣
Thats shid is funny
The nerve of some ppl
LMAOO RIGHT
What’s wrong with it? It’s normal to feel jealous even after a break up
@@mythical_arrow5246 not if you don't do the same
Jeanluc would’ve definitely considered getting back w Avery if she didn’t sleep w other guys fs
exactly what I was thinking on the last question, the whole situation was kinda sad, she does seem to still have feelings but my guy knows what he is worth.
This whole experience probably changed his perspective on her. When they asked if they've been sleeping with other people, she answered "He hasn't because we've been seeing each other lately," so they were probably on the verge of getting back together, but not anymore after this experience.
@@Chris-px2gf ong my guy dodged a bullet in the end and wasn’t a simp
@@lazzi2462 facts
@@Chris-px2gf what does her sleeping with other guys while they're broken up have to do with HIS worth? he's worth more than her because she sleeps with other people? why does that matter? if he actually genuinely loved her and WANTED to get back together with her, he wouldn't let something like that get in the way. they weren't together so the amount of guys she has slept with isn't his business and has nothing to do with his worth.
the guy in the beanie seems so chill. i hope he finds closure and happiness
Beanie dude seems like a sweetheart, he needs a hug
I can relate to what Cameron said about not feeling like enough sometimes because he didn't grow up with a lot of familial love.
Same , i relate :)
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CUT you should do a series about how the different sexes take break up differently. Pull two exs into a room and just give them a straight up therapy session to vent how things have changed since they broke up. Do a 10 good 10 bad kind of thing. Before&after. Would love to see the results and test them against my own interactions.
One recently after the break up then one a few months later and compare
@@selamwondwossen5818 Exactly! They could do recent (3-6months), mid (1year), and long (5years+). I think that would be super interesting!🙌
Idk if it was jubilee i guess.. jubilee has already done this.. or maybe cut
@@wiseversa135 I'll check but if you find it, do you mind tagging it?
@@wiseversa135 th-cam.com/video/IRVrNwitK44/w-d-xo.html yeah i found it but i think it would be even better to see the same couple being interviewed over the span of a few months to observe the changes. Since people deal with break ups differently i don’t think we will be able to see the process of how time changes things if it’s done with different couples.
Jean Luc doesn't trust Avery. He seemed very curious about her actions specifically in Vegas (while they've been engaging) and the results disappointed him, so yeah, sis, it's done. He seems like even completely held back from engaging with his co-worker that he was attracted to, as well.
How is engaging being used in this paragraph? I don’t understand what you mean
@@theroyal3rddd Engaging in this context = actively seeking communication
He was right tho? She was sleeping with other dudes even though they are trying to get back. She said she still loves him and they started to see each other again recently. Thats why dude wanted to see if she waited for him as well which turns out she didn't.
@@serdarbulbul1646 While I don't remember much of the video, I don't think it's fair to have that expectation to see if anyone will just "hold back or wait," or follow your own personal expectations without expressing your desire for them to do so. He needed to speak up more, as well as just observe. He doesn't know what the results would have been if he had just expressed to her very early about exclusivity and its importance to him in them rekindling. She can't bear all the fault.
@@Amina-cw1em nah. Its totally fair if you say you still love me and want to start again. She says they are going out to dates and still love him. He loves her too thats why he didnt be with anyone. When he find out that she sleeps with other people and keep videos of it he ended it right there.
Honestly who doesn’t wanna date Cameron, he seems like such a sweet, kind good looking guy, he really reminds me of Charlie Heaton too lol
Bruh how can y'all judge that girl for getting over the guy with a beanie. That guy sounds like a lot of work. I've been with a nice, insecure guy. It's a lot of pressure and you don't get much out of it if they're not putting the work in to help themselves. They can't get away with everything just because they seem nice at the end. She put three years of her life in you don't think she tried. Good on her for moving on and I hope he gets there to and finds someone more suited to him. Or gets his own confidence. My love and well wishes goes out to both of them
Yes! I like how you worded it. This comment is so accurate to an experience I've had too!
The guy is pretty effeminate
yea definetly, we should not hate on either of those people or even judge them tbh
Switch the roles....then what
@@abbasthomas1678 same thing
Avery just screams heartbreaker. She's so cute but definitely a heart breaker
The dude texting her dad. And the girl texting a coworker. Maybe they think it's funny, but I can kinda see why they had problems.
The dude gave her the coworker’s Instagram
Worst 1 was him to the dad about her possibly being pregnant thats a boundary i would hate crossed
@@tinacameron5526Word, who in their right mind would do that?
These couples are so chill about the ex’s doing and saying whatever to whoever. I’d never let my ex do half these things as me on my phone 😂😅
thats the whole point of the video
my heart breaks for cameron he seems so sweet
I know I’m late to the party, but one thing my counsellor told me that really healed me was ‘you are allowed to look. you are curious, it is natural. not allowing yourself to look will make you want to look more’. I think hat dude is perfectly fine to have those old photos bc he needs space to heal and deleting those/going cold turkey does not release you, it didn’t for me when I blocked those people, I just became more curious and would ‘punish’ myself for looking + having these bad thoughts about myself. But I was freed when she told me that there’s no harm in looking and wondering. I’m in a much better place now ☺️
This helped me to go through something similar, thanks a ton! Great advice!😊
I’m loving those videos it’s kinda impactful seeing people experience those type of emotions and speaking about them I’m currently trying to get over my ex/friend of 5 years and it’s incredibly hard everyday trying not to think of her or imagine her with someone else but as long as she’s happy I guess that’s worth the pain I’m going through right now.
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Wtf move on dude. Don't be a simp.
It's gonna sound cliche, but with every new day it gets a little bit easier to not think about it.
You got it, dude 👍
@@SithMenace wow dude, ever been a long-lasting committed relationship? By your reply, gonna say that's a hard no.
How about next time you have a shitty opinion you keep it to yourself. Cool? Cool.
I hope you get to a place where you're genuinely happy again and don't feel pain when thinking about that relationship
3 years later and I’ve only just kinda got that full sorta “freedom” for my feelings for my first love - to anyone worried about it or upset over it, time does heal, but we have our own PCR and you shouldn’t be ashamed of it x
The guy wearing a beanie is so adorbs. I hope he finds his person. 🥺🥺
Jean is something everyone would ask for
He's too precious
Oh no! The back-rub at the end. Beanie man isn't over her yet.
That season 2 ending though. Can't wait for more episodes!
no shit he said that himself
What does it hold a big meaning? Do guys only give back rubs to girls they like out of nowhere? Asking for scientific purposes 😁🤣
These guys are so genuine!! I love how these exes treat one another☺️☺️ The guy in the beanie I just relate to a whole lot!!
ok but jean luc and avery look SO good together or just in general theyre both so pretty
I hate how Avery said it bothered her that her ex had a crush and yet she straight forward said Shes sleeping with other people
literally
I can confidently say that I fully understand why none of these people worked out. I even feel confident enough to say I don't think their new relationships are gonna work out, either, especially after this.......
Yep exactly that. Just seem very immature, all of them. But they seem to be very young still. They gotta figure themselves out first!
Especially Kendra
Why didn’t beanie guy and his ex girl work out?
@@Scoop2380 it’s pretty obvious why. By this video alone you can tell who dumped who. Not to mention, their personalities seem very opposite. The girl seems a bit more cold and independent. But the guy seems kind of dependant and overly sweet.
@@lalag2927 their relationship remind me of me and my ex. I’m too sweet and dependent like this beanie guy and he was so independent, cold and charming. And I’m not over him too.
And he didn’t give the reason why he broke up with me, he said ‘don’t ask this question’.
They're so nonchalant about everything 😂
Dude…poor Cameron. It’s hard to get over someone u have strong feelings for and I’m in the same boat as u bro…
6:00 not her saying it bothers her for him to like someone else, when shes been making out and sleeping with other people 💀
This hurts seeing the one way interest with both couples. I can totally relate and it hurts so much for me. God speed to them!
The "this was awkward" had to have killed him.
I love how they are so honest about their feelings
2:34 man !! I know this feeling 😭 the way he said "today" .. ughhh my heart 😭😭😭
The guy with the beanie is such a sweetheart. You can tell he still loves her and is protective of her. He wants her to be with someone she deserves. When Eric was hesitant about saying "I love you" just his reaction and at the end him rubbing her back for support was so sweet even though he is still hurting. He probably looks back at the pictures of them two together... making it harder for him to get over it...
Dude values himself and she doesn’t sleeping around devalues you
Sending that text to his crush was just cruel. Especially since they work together
The text to her dad saying she might be pregnant was pretty brutal.
@@tfgrrl2042 yeah, I don't like when they send messages to anyone. The difference, though, is that you can come back from that. "It was a joke, dad, I was on a TH-cam show". There's no coming back from telling your crush you like her
@@tomaspeixinho4447 agreed, I wouldn't want a crush to find out that way.
Well he gave them her Instagram handle… he basically approved of her texting his crush
@@tomaspeixinho4447 why wouldn't you want a girl to know you like her? Nothing's going to happen, otherwise. She did him a favour (even if it just shows the girl isn't interested, it's doing you a favour so you can focus on other people).
Haven't witness something this SAD in a long time . Thanks Cut
Is it Just me or do Avery and jeanluc have a real complicated rs and we just watched them be awkward for like 8 straight minutes.
No dude I’m with you - Averi from the vid
@@averichhang399 hope things get better for y'all
@@anika8030 Appreciate you for saying that! but we are good, we are just friends!😁
@@averichhang399 im sorry but whats your instagram🤣
Definitely lol
ugh the guy in the beanie is so sweet, i just wanna hug him man
5:21, well clearly there was a good reason for that
This is a painful watch
Cameron is great, he deserves so much more. Her loss, dude
i don’t really feel bad for kameron, he subjected himself to this, i think he’s trying to convince himself he’s over her. i also didn’t feel like he was just being sweet, there was definitely some residual possessiveness, not to say that he bad intentions tho, he’s just very hurt.
Yes. Especially seeing his friend's text.
am i the only one who sees right through green hat? he was enjoying the fact that the new guy hadnt told her he loved her and he wanted to stir up the pot like he def knew what he was doing...
guy in the beanie reminds me of a guy I briefly dated in high school. he seems sweet but they have too much "main character" energy, trauma dump and don't know how to read the room. they also act super entitled at times. but it's just a vibe. he could be rlly sweet. who knows tbh
This shows that not all guys take breakups as easily as you may think
yeah, still sad how only one guy cared about his ex.
Guys typically dont take break ups easy , i known women who gotten over break ups in like few weeks.
That’s mainly down to the fact that’s men rarely get opportunities to get into new relationships meanwhile women can get bunch of men lined up in a snap of a finger
@@BurriedTruth and i know men who get over break ups in a few weeks. Honestly its more case by case if anything, however i noticed about the same behavior after breakups, just at different times after the break up.
Also another note: very few women are that attractive to have a ton of men line up for them.
@@sakumaballs127 that last part is very true and im glad you brought it up, very person to person basis because some men even have lots of women or whoever they like lined up for them and even with that it doesn't guarantee you're "over" them either. like avery in this video who has slept with other ppl and is still clearly not over him yet.
And that not all women take it hard.
Beanie guy is truly hurt looking at Kendra’s reaction at the photos still on the phone. 😔😞😣
i feel like i just watched 4 people hurt their own feelings for 8 minutes
0:44 she smiled and wanted to say yes but she said no once she said no.
Cameron came in and caused chaos in her new relationship and everyone is saying he’s a good person 💀
bruh why are u the only sensible person saying this, everyone loves his annoying ass in these comments
I feel so bad for bro in the beanie lol but ole boy is definitely gonna bag that chick from his job
I feel bad for him and her current bf. This goes out here accepting TH-cam themes with her ex, letting him keep nudes on his phone of her while simultaneously saying I love you to her current bf… like what fucked up reality is cut trying to create here 😂
She really asked him to not sleep with other women and he didn’t but she is sleeping with the kiwi dude. Then gets mad and sad when he doesn’t want to get back with her at the end. She is moving funny
Double Standards
when did she ask him not to sleep with other women? when did she get mad? did i miss something
if i didn't miss something then according to 6:40 HE was the one who chose not to sleep with other people because HE would feel uncomfortable. she never got angry at the end either (7:10), don't know where y'all got that from. she was literally understanding, just saying "mhm" and nodding her head..?
@@changedmynamebcyallwouldnt.. then i don’t blame him for saying he didn’t wanna get back together.
@@diorv its not a double standard because she never got ipset and she never asked him not to sleep with anyone else.
AVERI IS SO PRETTY
Feel bad for the curly hair dude, so respectful yet his ex getting passed around like a blunt. Hope he finds someone worthy 🤞🏻
they all are clearly not over each other. some just hide it better than the others.
I can see the heartbreak in Cameron’s eyes 🥺
Honestly, I don't know how two exes can sit in the same room when they clearly are in different stages of their personal journey. I can't even imagine letting my ex going through my phone because it'll hurt him since I was the one who left him in a very messy state. Really hard to understand as I was watching them doing the scrolling, but I guess there's maturity here.
Its really hard watching this as I'm going through my first breakup myself, losing my girl of 2 years. It's ended on fairly good terms which I'm grateful for, and was just a toxic relationship where her anger and my newness to relationships worked against us. We became too attached (??) and dependant on eachother, losing sight of our individuality outside the relationship. There's no bad blood, and we're still planning to watch Spiderman: No Way Home together because it was supposed to be her birthday gift to me, its just gonna be hard as we transition to becoming friends, I can't believe I'm going to lose this strong of a love for her. She was my best friend and seeing this different type of love as friends was really raw and difficult to swallow putting into my own situation, but hopefully the light at the end of the tunnel can make us good friends and possibly reunite years down
@@lydia3528 agreed but not 100% it depends on the individuals tho as sometimes exes as friends do work out as long as u learn to distance urself when needed
I dunno if watching Spiderman with her is a good idea, unless you guys plan to get back together ..
@@lydia3528 I’ve seen some ppl make it work for about a year or 2
take distance trust me. you'll be happier faster & youll get a chance to tap back in with yourself
The green beanie guy is so cute I wanna give him a hug 😭😭
0:51 that girl thinks otherwise
Oohhh the beanie guy is still so in love with his ex :( ... Him seeing her pics like 🥲🥲
The other couple know it's too complicated between them. I think Jeanluc feels it's better not to get into a relationship cuz later it would hurt much more, idk might be wrong 😅
And she doesn’t give a fuck
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You can tell that Kendra's ex is still into her. Its obvious and he's trying to avoid it. It's kinda funny ngl
th-cam.com/video/SDRx4Kkytzo/w-d-xo.html The media don't want you to see9
He literally got asked and didn’t answer ... it’s obvious that it’s obvious.
@@marcusgomez1372 he did answer it he said he still kind of does but he's taking baby steps and he's starting to move on but she still likes him when she seen the pictures of them reaction changes
He had like 3 nudes and said he didn't want to think of her that way anymore, meanwhile he's got like a folder full of nonsexual intimate pics with her from over the years 😂😂😂😂
He needs to stop being a simp and just dm her friends on the low 💯
Avery being so considerate when she texted from the guy's phone 😂
So Jean Luke texted her father that she's pregnant with his child because he doesn't wanna be with her? Sure, bud. Keep thinking that 👍🏻
Nah I think he would get back wit her but he changed his mind when he figured she’s been sleeping wit other ppl
My guess is that he’s wondering what her dad really thought about him
@@theEduEnthusiast fax he still would take her back he’s just saying that for the cameras deep down if she said to him she wants to get back together he’s saying yes
@@youknowthedrill99 she actually did say yes at the end but he said no
He definitely said no cause she revealed she’s been sleeping with other people, especially because prior he told her he wouldn’t because they have been seeing each other.
both of the guys seemed really nice. i hope someday they would find the one for them
Why do this shit… it has to hurt. Knowing someone you like is sleeping with someone else feels terrible. If you break it off just break it off. This friend’s shit only hurts.
04:05 When you got yourself into a sticky situation once again but secretly love the drama 😂
Why is there no safe word? (Or is there?) some of these people seemed mad uncomfortable with letting certain texts be sent out but they didn’t completely stop it… at caramba
I feel so bad for the boys oh god :(
Of course everyone always cries for the males
@@curlyqween34 cuz the females in this vid are doin just fine while the dudes hurtin 😹😹 what you tryna get at?
@@curlyqween34 lmao
@@curlyqween34 true though why cry over anyone when u dont know the back story of the relationship.
Hat guy is werid asf for keeping photos of his ex after they’ve been broken up for years
The guy with the cap is in soo love with her....he was gonna literally cry out bt he didn't!... finding all those moments pic eith her..can describe it how much he loved her ❤️❤️you need a hug man!.....❤️❤️
Slept with other guys while seeing him still after the break up.
Would you like to get back together at all?
Whispers yes, donny pulls out the X with the arms 😭😭 emooooootional damage
Y’all hating on Avery as if she isn’t a grown single woman. It’s giving misogyny…
nah she ran through and then says it hurts that he is seeing other women while she literally sleeps with other guys, she hypocrite
you know it
nah i think it's more about the audacity to say she's bothered that he has a crush on somebody when she's been sleeping around with people. Now im not saying it's a bad thing since they broke up but they have been seeing each other recently. I think it's selfish of her cause imagine how he feels especially after seeing those pictures and videos. Avery wants to get back with him again so does jean luc but then sleeping with other guys while they were trying to "fix the relationship "kinda ruins everything. It would've been understandable if she slept with other dudes , if they weren't seeing each other. It's unfair to her ex boyfriend who really thought they could've been something. Ending things and making it clear u aren't going back together would've been a better solution instead of making high hopes to the guy cause clearly she has feelings for him but it kinda makes you question everything
criticizing a girl is now sexist? get over yourself lmao
Exactly males do it all the time and I bet clowns will be calling them chads 👀🙄
0:01 that dude is still in love
I grew up in a broken home so when I met a girl who felt like home and I fell for her even though I never believed in love I really thought she was my person. 2 months after we broke up I did the dumb thing of looking her up on twitter because I missed her and found out she made an onlyfans. Its crazy how someone can make you feel so warm and smiley but at the same time they can be doing nothing but living there life and some how make you feel like you have a giant hole in your chest.
Similar thing happened to me and I still haven’t got over it…its been 4 years and I still can commit to no-one because of it
@@panther7865 good luck brother/sister we will feel whole someday. ^_^
I thought i was bad finding out my ex was already moving on after 2 weeks we ended our 3 year relationship (me after a year still can't) but finding out your ex made an onlyfans is just in another level for me, can't imagine how hard is for you brother...
Stay strong !!
That guy with the green beenie has a big heart 😭
The guy who texted his exes dad is toxic as hell. That’s a crazy thing to tell someone’s father. He’s all butt hurt bc she has a thing with another guy but he’s acting like he’s all cool with it
damn, being in a healthy relationship makes this so weird like you can see the connections but they’re fighting it so hard because… life? people are so complicated
Nah people aren’t complicated, these people are just young and shouldn’t be dating in serious relationships when they’re clearly not mature enough for them. Mainly speaking on Kendra’s part. It’s extremely toxic for her to be letting her ex keep nudes on his phone of her and encouraging that while simultaneously telling her new bf she loves him…? Weird as hell.
If this were coming from any healthy relationships, and you’re in a new relationship and have the opportunity to delete your old nudes you sent on your exs phone… you’d take that opportunity and control to delete them.