Great leadership comes down to only two rules | Peter Anderton | TEDxDerby

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  • @harrydaplatypus361
    @harrydaplatypus361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +511

    #1. It's NOT about you
    - "A good leader inspires people to have confidence in the leader, a great leader inspires people to have confidence in themselves" => good leader shows the way in the dark, great leader shows the way in the dark and commends the team on it
    - 5 levels of leadership (why people follow you):
    +they have to
    +they like you
    +you deliver
    +you help them grow
    +of who you are and what you represent
    - "The best leaders don't create more followers, they create more leaders" => firstly teach the team rule #2
    #2. It's ONLY about you
    - "I couldn't change others until I change myself" => try looking within for the answer to change. e.g. meditating
    - "If we want to bring about change in those around us it starts with our behaviors, with who we are;
    because the environment that we create around us is simply a reflection of our thinking and of our behaviour" => focus on the environment we are creating. e.g. does my environment attract success?

  • @PeterAnderton
    @PeterAnderton ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Please can you do me a favour? Various MBA and Graduate programmes around the world are using this talk as part of their module on leadership, which is a great way to spread good ideas! I'd love to know where it's being used, so if you're on an MBA or a graduate programme and that's why you're watching this talk, please (a) add the name of your course and university in reply to this comment and (b) like this comment to keep it at the top so we can keep it up to date. If your course is already on there just like this comment rather than adding a comment. Thank you, and have a great week!

    • @Oldman1912
      @Oldman1912 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am pretty sure you are the only one who liked your comment

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Oldman1912 I think you're probably right! 🤣

    • @Oldman1912
      @Oldman1912 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@PeterAnderton you got my like too 😁

    • @TaniaAdams_crAzyalwayswins
      @TaniaAdams_crAzyalwayswins 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am a leadership coach. I use your talk as a starting point with my clients who are new to leadership or who want to grow as leaders

    • @hanfo420
      @hanfo420 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do you know that the video is used as part of a module on leadership when you ask people here to leave a comment when it’s used? A bit contradictory.

  • @swishersnaaake8208
    @swishersnaaake8208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "Mastering others is strength, mastering yourself is true power"

  • @driveanddive4173
    @driveanddive4173 6 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    Beside the 2 rules, what I really loved was "We live in a really complex world that is crying out for simplicity"
    Thank you Mr. Anderton

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you. Interestingly enough - you could go as far as saying that the two rules are not really about leadership - they are about life!

    • @gerulais
      @gerulais 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PeterAnderton I agree. We can apply those rules even in our relationships. I was just thinking about my marriage when I was listening to you.

  • @sarbhoskinson9995
    @sarbhoskinson9995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Too many people call themselves leaders, when they purely dictate and order but what today's leaders promote is exactly the realization that "Its not about you, and it's only about you" Very powerful - Than you Peter Anderton.

  • @anilagrawal2057
    @anilagrawal2057 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Wow, Peter Anderton, you have distilled the complex subject of leadership into such simple, yet apt, rules: "Rule#1: It's not about you; Rule#2: It's ONLY about you." And, of course, "listening" is the final key to being able to practice the two rules. If a leader (designated as one, or a self-styled leader) just takes the two rules to heart and drives his/her vehicle with the third key, he/she would leap high in their role of a leader. Thank you for such a simple message. Yes, I get it, "it's not easy" because our EGO is always lurking over our heads.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautifully put - thank you!

  • @thua4673
    @thua4673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The best 18 minutes about leadership available.

  • @kimberlymausbach1755
    @kimberlymausbach1755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hands down the best TED talk in a long while (and it is still circulating after 5 years)

  • @kennedytay1298
    @kennedytay1298 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    2 rules for great leadership:
    Rule 1 is it's not about you! Make complex into simplicity.
    Rule 2 is it's all about you! You can not change anything until you change yourself.

  • @thomasarthurmaj
    @thomasarthurmaj 6 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Selflessness and Responsibility seems to sum it up. Fascinating insights, thank you!

  • @itsmyauditionitsmyaudition2537
    @itsmyauditionitsmyaudition2537 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great leadership must be contagious,because the world needs more leaders, who carry forward the legacy.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nicely put!

    • @bgjared7781
      @bgjared7781 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ?? Contagious hardly. Shared certainly.

  • @angelicasbestversion3301
    @angelicasbestversion3301 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Leadership is about service, but I must have a human revolution within myself first ! Thank you so much for this talk.

    • @peteranderton3224
      @peteranderton3224 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautifully put! Thank you

    • @petermcdonald7578
      @petermcdonald7578 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Serving others will lance your ego. You can't wash someone's feet - as Jesus did and throw stones at the same time.

  • @kadonsie
    @kadonsie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Thank you Peter. What an amazing gift you have and thank you for deciding to share it with the world. I stumbled upon your seminar whilest researching for my research paper (post grad project management EQ & leadership) and what I was hoping to say in it, you have so neatly packaged and substantiated and validated: If one just sits back and take into consideration the whole picture and listen carefully, the patterns amongst the chaos will present themselves. The basic truths in life are right there under your nose and it always has been - such as gravity and relativity. None of them are new. It's just that history repeats itself in seemingly new traits and every generation is convinced of it's own uniqueness and obsessed with itself. The human need to want to learn more is beautiful, but so often we want to recreate the wheel and become misguided with shortsighted competition and personal fame; costing us to unlearning the simple truths we already learnt and were originally yearning for. I love how you have looked at the whole picture and illustrated, as I had hoped to subtly demonstrate in my paper, that these "new wisdoms" are simply something we have unlearned through popular beliefs and media fads over recent history. Too often it is just the most controversial elements that shout the loudest that become fashion or popular belief. Thank you again for your passion and perseverance.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you Heike - I wish you every success with your research paper!

  • @santoshkumrouth8380
    @santoshkumrouth8380 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Spot On !! so very well thought & presented.... Loved the extract of Leadership - the 3 simple but powerful rules " Leadership is not about you but about others" "Leadership ...works only when you walk the talk" " Pay heed/Listen to what has already been said & successfully demonstrated by some of the Great leaders...and adapt it for effective results rather than trying to reinvent the wheel" Thanks for sharing this wonderful insight Peter...you are Amazing !!

  • @Therealshaunlott
    @Therealshaunlott 6 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I wholeheartedly agree with the rules (#1: It's not about you; #2: Its only about you)! It sounds relatively simple, but the challenge is defeating human ego. Our society has indulged itself in producing egotistical beings who find it impossible to conceive Rule #1. Unfortunately, our society rewards egocentric people with leadership positions because they produce results regardless of the carnage left behind. Yet, there is still hope! Thanks Peter and death to the key goblin!

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      It still plagues me today! :-)

    • @gerryscat
      @gerryscat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you

    • @francismuiruri9064
      @francismuiruri9064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your comment a year ago is relevant and has always been .

  • @brettlarson711
    @brettlarson711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very wise and I love that you close with the need to just listen. Listen to others, listen for the soft wisdom that lies below the surface, and I might add, listen without judgment either of others or of yourself. Great TED Talk Peter. Thank you.

  • @FRASERMCGREGOR72
    @FRASERMCGREGOR72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    What a wonderful and succinct insight into the true meaning of leadership. Too many people take on this title of being a "leader"without the necessary emotional and intelligent response to succeed. Thank you for putting this content out for us all to learn how to become better leaders.

  • @sgchester
    @sgchester 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I can listen to this all day! Very well written, delivered and conceptualized! Indeed, our world is crying for simplicity!

  • @SpeakingBadger
    @SpeakingBadger 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Once I get back into my program, I'm about a year away from a PhD. in Organizational Leadership and I appreciate the clear way you articulated these two rules. It is pretty much on point with my thoughts on a lot of the theories I've had to study... You pretty much just articulated exactly what I have wanted to share myself, which has helped me to gather my thoughts a little better on the subject. Getting a better focus from another perspective is very helpful, so thank you for getting the simplicity of it and explaining so well.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Justin - my pleasure!

  • @tejalanandjiwala5876
    @tejalanandjiwala5876 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent ❤🎉 This simplicity is required in the complex world . Thank you 🙏

  • @feliciawhite1781
    @feliciawhite1781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Simplicity is the mark of brilliance..... It's not about you....it's only about you. Life Changing moment!!!!

  • @soniagaviraYT
    @soniagaviraYT 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Loved the history lesson - definitely simple and not easy. Interesting that we speak about rule number 2 in the context of things going wrong or needing to improve. We also need to recognise when they go well and we need to keep doing whatever it is that we are doing. And when people thank us and tell us things are going well, we need to take a breath and thank them.

  • @kenchoie3593
    @kenchoie3593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great ! Thank you, Peter.
    What you are saying is that people follow you
    (1) because you do something for them (i.e., it is not about you),
    (2) or because you represent their aspiration (i.e., it is only about you).

  • @delbertannis5642
    @delbertannis5642 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Finally someone who understands and put it simply and with humility.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Delbert - I am passionate about the simplicity of leadership

  • @speckofdust272
    @speckofdust272 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Breathtaking review of the definition of true leadership from over the centuries ... it’s awesome 👍👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! Glad you found it useful

  • @riveraf5053
    @riveraf5053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Its about the team! Making the work environment safe and fun

  • @neriarabit294
    @neriarabit294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    "I could'nt change others,until i change myself" -this is true

  • @insidedianeslife2456
    @insidedianeslife2456 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just 2 lessons. I love it and it makes so much sense to me. Thank you.

  • @HungNguyen-si2xe
    @HungNguyen-si2xe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your lesson is a guidance for many. Thank you so much for sharing. Best wishes for you and your family.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you - and for you and yours!

  • @veearya562
    @veearya562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Excellent and amazing talk on leadership! Loved it because I also have passion for leadership, was an engineer and completely agree with your talk.

  • @learnarabicwithease
    @learnarabicwithease 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Rule#1: it's not about me, it's about them. A leader inspires others to be at their best and doesn't try to create personality cult.
    Rule#2: it's only about me. A leader knows the values to which he and his followers hold on, and he tries to be a manifestation of those values before preaching them to others.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautifully put - thank you!

  • @love.family2892
    @love.family2892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love watching and listening to this man . you're a Good Leader

  • @MrsWilliamTheBloody
    @MrsWilliamTheBloody 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What an incredible public speaker. Wow.

  • @yfoog
    @yfoog 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great talk Peter. Thanks for bringing wisdom into the talk. You've inspired me, a good leader indeed. And now I'm hungry for hob nobs.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Appreciation is a good example of rule #2 - and you've just made my day with it - thank you!

  • @copper0
    @copper0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Save your self 8:20 seconds and skip to 8:24 for Rule #1, Rule #2 follows shortly after the explanation of R1.

  • @ml-ec5dw
    @ml-ec5dw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Excellent presentation! It's simple, direct and highly information 10/10 Leadership is empowering others through authentic service. I think Socrates had a method that would suit such an approach.

  • @winniew6742
    @winniew6742 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Simple, clear ,realistic and full of wisdom.

    • @peteranderton3224
      @peteranderton3224 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Than you Am - that's exactly what leadership should be!

  • @greatbbala5375
    @greatbbala5375 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Leadership explained in simple words, you can be a leader if you action the 2 rules with the listening skill!

    • @DebNKY
      @DebNKY 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Action? Apply, maybe?

  • @thomasaquinas2600
    @thomasaquinas2600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's so different: what makes you a good leader, versus how we should respond to others who are leaders. For ourselves, we should earn respect and not rely on designated authority. Plus, never appear to lack an answer or a task to perform. Turning that around as to how we deal with our leaders, remember Catch-22. Most leaders want one thing only: like us...

  • @patrickmork
    @patrickmork 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent. Simple and well spoken. Very practical. I'm preparing a webinar on Leadership in Moments of Change and this helps immensely.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm glad you found it useful!

  • @mauriceachach3351
    @mauriceachach3351 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great truths wrapped in simplicity. Great advice.

  • @marvely01
    @marvely01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing the simple yet powerful rules about leadership!

  • @zoegraham1367
    @zoegraham1367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Absolutely love this - thank you for a really powerful and interesting talk

  • @Thomasw540
    @Thomasw540 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The servant-leadership model of Army ROTC is lead by example and its priorities are Mission: Men: Self.
    The training design of the US Army Ranger School is role play employing these dimensions in a mission-oriented group dynamic.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Tom - that's a great way of looking at it.

  • @johnbrennick8738
    @johnbrennick8738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    And I also value the insights from the question “what environment are we creating?” (After the 16th minute)

    • @blankshaliburton277
      @blankshaliburton277 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The best leadership clues I ever came across so far. Thank you so much. Keep uploading such great videos.

  • @zulfchoudhary2746
    @zulfchoudhary2746 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Never a truer word said on leadership. Too many politicians peddling fears and channeling hatred, and calling it leadership.

  • @blankshaliburton277
    @blankshaliburton277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is just the right message for the season!

  • @briandebeer3391
    @briandebeer3391 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    FANTASTIC. SIMPLE POWERFUL MESSAGE

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Brian - I prefer simple!

  • @ninaphilippe
    @ninaphilippe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome speech!! Thank you TEDx!! Thank you Peter Anderton!!

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Philippe. Simplicity wins every time!

    • @ninaphilippe
      @ninaphilippe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PeterAnderton Very Pleased to meet you. Honestly, your talk deserves 10X more watches.. Thanks again! I added your talk to my yearly reminder on how to improve oneself and the others!!

    • @peteranderton3224
      @peteranderton3224 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ninaphilippe You've added a spring to my step today - thank you! Spread the word!

  • @ethanwright3475
    @ethanwright3475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My opinion, make it simple, Good leadership come down to one rule: Good leadership inspire people, not threaten people

  • @NewEarth25
    @NewEarth25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great well reasoned talk. Buddha, eg. led with wisdom & compassion, showing a way to liberation by inspiring transformation. His noble vision of mindful contemplative living, right livelihood, interdependence and 4 fold community (sangha) is coming back.

  • @nikunjgarg6636
    @nikunjgarg6636 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Was a very good talk, among the best one which I hv ever listened

  • @calinanguyen7511
    @calinanguyen7511 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It's such an inspiring talk. I like your idea of simplicity of leadership.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Jane - my pleasure!

  • @debbrown89
    @debbrown89 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent historial review of the evolution of leadership principles and insights into the most relevant facets of effective leaders! Highly recommend!!!!

  • @TheCuratorIsHere
    @TheCuratorIsHere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally a TED talk that's actually good.

  • @bien6662
    @bien6662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Indeed!! everything what we need, already laid down for us to consume. The only thing we have to do is to act and change ourselves.
    We cannot give what we dont have.

  • @dke7838
    @dke7838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Peter: after watching your excellent talk, I went to the store and bought a pack of regular and pack of chocolate Hob Nobs. Wifey brought both packs to the staff room at work today.
    The chocolate Hob Nobs vanished like gangbusters at morning coffee break! The staff gobbled them up at a ratio of 3:1 compared to the non-chocolate biscuits!

  • @lenathompson4300
    @lenathompson4300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved your talk. Absolutely brilliant. Thank you

  • @vivekgupta17
    @vivekgupta17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Simplicity is art of solving compelxity. Thought provoking Video.

  • @Libroscristianosdelayer-nl1jy
    @Libroscristianosdelayer-nl1jy ปีที่แล้ว

    When you come to the stage to say there is millions of ways to be a leader. Yet, you come here to say here is “the” way and is very simple. I have found this very interesting when people do this. When ever I get ask a question if I feel I have the answer I say, this is what has worked for me but there are other ways too.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for your feedback. The two rules are the foundation for all things leadership. Within those two rules there is scope for a range of different styles and approaches so you're right, there's definitely more than one way to do it. However, when you start off with this mindset, you are definitely heading in the right direction!

  • @davidnicholson8735
    @davidnicholson8735 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Peter Anderson thank you for the Ted Talk!

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you David - my pleasure!

  • @chelseachang8977
    @chelseachang8977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good conclusion and insights about the leadership.

    • @brianly6305
      @brianly6305 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He did say Sun Tzu was the author.
      "Not so far away, Sun Tzu was writing the art of war"

    • @chelseachang8977
      @chelseachang8977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh, I am sorry, I made a mistake. He talked about Lao's leadership wisdom and Sun Tzu's. Thanks for your correction.

    • @brianly6305
      @brianly6305 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chelseachang8977 🙏👍😁😁

  • @danas1299
    @danas1299 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Me new favorite talk! Fantastic talk from a fantastic speaker!

  • @yayaanetwork2530
    @yayaanetwork2530 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely brilliant video thanks very much

  • @zmj10086
    @zmj10086 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He is very right! Don't read the new books. Many of them are just product of marketing and media influence, instead read the old ones that are good enough to be passed down for centuries!

  • @sangeetamehta1717
    @sangeetamehta1717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A great leader imagines himself in the other's shoe before he tells him to walk his way. It's about understanding others before leading.....or better said "guiding". Not everyone is the same - a great leader understands this and helps to raise people to the same level....to start the journey together.

  • @umathapa6383
    @umathapa6383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! Absolutely love this🙏🏻

  • @mohammedkamara1513
    @mohammedkamara1513 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great lecture! Rule # 2: I could't change other until I change myself-- Nelson

    • @claudiamanta1943
      @claudiamanta1943 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A leader is a catalyst. Like in chemistry.

  • @daveoller2956
    @daveoller2956 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Maybe everything that we need to know about leadership and life was written down a long time ago"

  • @drlepora1
    @drlepora1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Leadership is about who you are."

  • @nestorgonzalez6078
    @nestorgonzalez6078 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow this was extremely insightful. I'm going to change my job because of my boss and this was very educational

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton ปีที่แล้ว

      It has long been said "We join an organisation - but we leave a boss!"

  • @railzip
    @railzip 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great TED Talk. Thank you

  • @persianchris2451
    @persianchris2451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    0:35 "Leadership isn't about position. Leadership is about who you are". Maybe "Who you are to the environment"... because if I am wealthy, selfish, and I "grope" women, does that make me a "Leader"? For me it's "Leadership isn't about position. Leadership is about positioning" - How I grow other leaders, how I make my decisions during what TIME and how responsive I am from a proactive & reactive perspective.

  • @renehenriksen1735
    @renehenriksen1735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    If you haven´t been a leader before, then you become it to a certain degree when you become a parent.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      René Henriksen absolutely - and never are the two rules more important than in parenthood!

  • @bhanusinghal1918
    @bhanusinghal1918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a well researched talk, kudos to you man!

  • @lorenacollins61
    @lorenacollins61 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Used this philosophy for our entire team.
    Thank you

  • @Elinsinba
    @Elinsinba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Leading and parenting share the essence.

  • @jimvasconcellos6419
    @jimvasconcellos6419 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please do not blame Taylor for the failure of Scientific Management. His approach to optimizing work was to ask the workers to tell him about how much wasted motion was built into their jobs, and what they would do about it. He went to the experts: the people actually doing the work. Command and control freaks turned that upside down and decided they knew better.

    • @peteranderton3224
      @peteranderton3224 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you - that's a really useful insight!

  • @debbiemorin993
    @debbiemorin993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Timeless words of wisdom! Thank You.

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sometimes we need to stop searching for something new and notice what is already there!

  • @artscienceweekly
    @artscienceweekly 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Don't miss the last message..Listen..

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely! The challenge for most of us is that when we think we are listening to someone we are usually thinking about what we are going to say in response. A friend of mine calls that "listening to reload" and of course it's not really listening at all. Listening simply boils down to rule #1 - if we focus our attention squarely upon the person speaking it is amazing what we can pick up!

  • @SmilaZ
    @SmilaZ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LEADERS are the opposite of a boss and/or a ruler. LEADERS are love which grows wisdom. And yes they cause more love more wisdom growing. GOVERNMENTS are not leaders but dictators. Very few teachers are. Authorities are the opposite of leaders.

  • @jadenromero5738
    @jadenromero5738 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Briliant! Rule #1 - We- not- Me Orientation!

  • @georgeliu5009
    @georgeliu5009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is true that leadership comes from service, like Jesus, his passion is the son/servant of God,
    he cures the sickness people not for money, he teaches us how to love others like love myself. He changes people by giving himself in the cross.

  • @Perkeno
    @Perkeno 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a great talk. Thank you.

  • @amylefever2679
    @amylefever2679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you.

  • @abdulhafizMail
    @abdulhafizMail ปีที่แล้ว

    Just 2 lessons. It is about to guide the player to have they like you and work together Achieve the target. Other is about you that need to change yourself because you are the one that only can change and born other leader

  • @David-qs6dw
    @David-qs6dw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great teachings

  • @meerasunod242
    @meerasunod242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful!! Simple but not easy!

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed - it IS simple - but rarely easy!

  • @randamonium2894
    @randamonium2894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great job Pete and thank you!

  • @mehmood020
    @mehmood020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful and practical

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great n amazing talk. Thank you. Bless you n all your dreams come true

  • @christopherxgordon
    @christopherxgordon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. There's some really powerful messages here.

  • @Sussysi
    @Sussysi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rule #1 service to those you lead #2 cant change them but you can change yourself #3 listen to what is being said

  • @cassiodias1965
    @cassiodias1965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's not about you; It's only about you; and listen.

  • @mnmnew
    @mnmnew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Commenting so my teacher can see I'm here

    • @scottsiler2843
      @scottsiler2843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      One hopes you may have taken more away from this than just the grade for the assignment. This was one of the best talks I've heard in a while with some profound insights, even if they are some of the simplest things out there.

    • @michaelaldrich8994
      @michaelaldrich8994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Your teacher assigned this because he or she believes in you and that you have something to give to the world and people around you.

    • @rjeffers3726
      @rjeffers3726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did you pass the class?

    • @mnmnew
      @mnmnew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rjeffers3726 yep :)

    • @jordanacwisler8210
      @jordanacwisler8210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great leader is someone Inspire and leads by example !!

  • @KON4444
    @KON4444 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just follow what is true to me. Coz I am me. Just me, believe in yourself - thats how these peeps got there, somewhere. Just believe in you, its what you are, this is the one true truth, just me, just you, just life - be you! X

    • @PeterAnderton
      @PeterAnderton 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      “Whether you think you can, or you think you can't - you're right.” Henry Ford

  • @Sirracco
    @Sirracco 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just brilliant! Thanks for the talk.

  • @rosiepaiz1050
    @rosiepaiz1050 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A good leader, will motivate others to learn and guide them to success

  • @uniquebeautiful4273
    @uniquebeautiful4273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They have to They like you You deliver Have done for them Who you are and what you represent.

  • @fernandocortes1187
    @fernandocortes1187 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    11:00 leadership