@@jesusbarajas9444 No, he sounds like he'll do the right thing and take John's and Anthony's advice. He already said he tried to give her advice. She did what she wanted to do and it ended badly. She griped because he didn't help her financially. He told her he tried to tell her what she should do. He doesn't seem to feel he should help her pay her bills when she won't stay with a job. I like how Anthony said, "Give her the door that she can exit". I was thinking more like, "Tell her, there's the door . . ." or "Don't let the door hit you on the way out!" This girl needs to grow up before she gets into another relationship with anyone.
Yeah, don’t we all, but it’s not very realistic is it? I am a “ freethinker” too, but I have also worked as a nurse for the past 31 years. Is labeling herself a freethinker her excuse for not working or is that what you’re telling yourself?
In 10 years she's gonna be wondering why you wont take a second job to pay off the $40,000 in credit card debt she's racked up from online shopping while acting as a stay at home Mom.
As she should, who wants to be with someone who can't hold down a job and be financially responsible? Same thing for men -- it should have been very obvious to the caller early on that she was financially irresponsible, why didn't he end the relationship then?
Lots of girls love lazy men with the same mindset. I was with a bum for a while (first relationship lots of learning) . Girls lined up for him because he was always around due to not working. He cried like it was out of his control and my fault. He’s 30 now and has a 25yr old girl taking care of him.
@@Peppermon22 YES ive have falled victim to these guys too😂 Guys just like to play victim and act like they are really that unattractive but like don’t try to date women outta your league looks wise if its a problem for you.
@@spiritualmeli5014 doesn’t excuse the fact she expects other people to pay her bills... and refuses to keep a job even though she is well aware how much easier it would make her boyfriend’s life. She isn’t garbage, because we have human rights, but she is most definitely useless.
"She's more of the free thinker" no, she's more of the free LOADER 😂lazy girl just doesn't want to work...she needs a reality check. don't fund her laziness.
Honestly if it was me, I would be fine with a freeloader pet girlfriend ... however only food and shelter in my room will be provided. Only necessities to stay alive and healthy, so no money, not buying anything, not paying any bills. A good pet shouldn't demand things other than food or cause trouble for me. She is free to work when she is up for it again or sit at home all she wants
His girlfriend is quitting jobs, expecting him to pay her bills. She sounds crazy! She has access to jobs and chooses to quit them. It sounds like she thinks she is too good to work. If I were Dave I’d choose to leave! ✌️
You do realise it would be easy for her to get a sugar daddy and he would pay her in just one or two dates , sugar daddies can gives her thousands if she wanted she could have gotten a sugar daddy
Child....this is a girlfriend, not a wife, and if she was a wife you are being shown how she views your partnership to be YOU taking all the responsibility for HER state of affairs. You only quit a job when you have a better-paid job lined up or your business is starting to make income better than your current job.....the girlfriend stage is the best you're going to get and if that is causing you problems already....sad. I think the best thing you can do is allowing her to find her self and grow up. Run. Don't waste time or know how much time your willing to waste to allow her to mentally grow, but a leopard doesn't change is stripes it just covers it with makeup, and when it rains you know the stripes become visible again. Good luck.
@@untouchable360x You know, I was thinking of a comment like that! I was thinking more along the lines of a Chinese military parade -- or a Chinese flag FACTORY!
Yes and no. Maybe she meant to work? Maybe she needs to be a stay at home wife/mother. Or maybe start her own business? I just feel like their are multiple avenues in life and she needs to reassess things.
@@ModernSouthernBelle just curious if you would say the same about a man.. maybe he's not meant to work?? Doesn't really matter what if you need to eat
@@jcstang8952 Just the opposite. Rather than find a steady job, my boyfriend expects me to pay for his share of the bills. When he does work, he usually spends almost the entire amount on himself. So rude and inconsiderate. It definitely causes an argument, because I find it very unacceptable.
@@dianer8881 that's not as a result of ideology though. That's just a bad man. Men didn't cry gendered victim status and virtue signal like feminists do. You need to conflate and deconflicte things more aptly. This is an issue on the female side I've noticed all too often. Trouble with conflating things. Women's thinking process is getting dangerous this way. Like species survival dangerous.
@@dianer8881 Well the technocracy obviously hates both genders I agree with that 100%. But they do not promote men in their propaganda. See any media outlet. They actually make men a mockery. Make no mistake though, I'm not offended by this. I just point out their hypocrisy and ideas that do not work.
When I stopped supporting my family financially 30 years ago I stopped receiving invitations to family events. When I closed my wallet I got kicked out of the family. Should’ve done it sooner
OMG - wish I'd heard this call 20 years ago. Ex wife that I was dating had tons of bills. Asked me to help, I thought I was "helping". In reality, we spent the next 9 years struggling with money. She left, and eventually became homeless. :( I'm looking forward to a great retirement with the right lady the second time. My humble opinion, run like the wind.
What would be your advice for me. I'm married, my husband lives in another country, and my husband does not work. I've been supporting him even before we married.
@saintsgang8629 Yeah, you right. I did just that, too. I decided to invest in me, my goals, and keeping myself looking like the wonderfully and fearfully woman I was created.
He is trying to rationalize her situation instead of just removing his self from the equation. New flash buddy you are not her husband or father. Do not help her pay her bills.
@@Mr.Legend_Speaks Hahaha! I know what you mean. This guy needs to enjoy the single life until he can realize his value and the lack of values these females often offer.
Yep. Nothing else matters! If she can't manage her self before your married. It's only downhill from there. Unless she can correct her character and abilities on a dime. Don't look back.
Every time I listen to this show I'm amazed at the unending stream of entitled people in the world. 😬😬😬 I would never expect a boyfriend to pay my bills. 😳
Problem is that for every one of you there are about a 100k people who are entitled. You see this largely with women who operate under this idea that her money is her money and her bf or husbands money is “our money”
Interesting 🤔 how does one prepare to be a wife and ask for support? The video right before this one we’re giving the cheating wife money🥱 this one girlfriend gets nothing but was working 😂 it’s all rigged
I was with a girl like this. she had alotta emotional issues and quit every job she had within months. to top it off she constantly disrespected me. glad I left bet
She's your girlfriend and she feels entitled, just imagine as a wife.... You'll probably end up divorcing her and she'll leave you broke... run now that you can....
Sorry my bf wanted to help me pay my cc and I told him no. My debt, my problem (he wanted me to transfer mine to his) I told him I could walk away from him and it would be his debt. Haha he has been my silent cheerleader. Please run she wants a free ride. If she's the one not staying at a job and not doing anything to improve, run. You've offered to help and she's already said no. Walk away before it's too late. If you get married she will want you to support her.
I was in a similar situation over 30 years ago. A woman who I dated for just three weeks and then wormed her way into my bedroom after that third date, wanted me to help her pay her bills shortly after that. She said, "that is the least I can do for her because we were sleeping together". I "kicked her to the curb" in an instant! I also vowed then to NEVER "sleep" with another woman until I knew everything there was to know about her, even if it took many months. That over the years has worked out a whole lot better for me.
Good advice. All he should do is show her the way of doing things. Everyone deserves the right to improve but if she's not listening then you better run.
I was in this same situation for 6 years with a woman. She was a total disaster when it came to finances, would not hold a job simply because she didn’t like it all the while I’m working OT every week trying to save and invest for a future for us. But she constantly held me back by needing me to pay her bills and like an idiot I did because if I didn’t she would dump me and threatened to move away and i’d never see her again. Finally she did that anyway and now 2 years later she’s conning some new fool and my finances are better than ever now that she’s gone. I wish I’d left her so long ago would have save a lot of money and heart ache.
Rani P because I fell for her hard I was young and stupid and easy to manipulate and she saw an easy target. I’m happy to say it’s been 2 years since getting dumped by her and I’ve completely turned my life around, found a good woman who’s isn’t a financial wreck and my financial situation is better than ever.
6:55 A man protects and waits until he is married to provide for their family. A boy tries to impress a girl. Almost like it’s straight out of Proverbs.
Man won't be able to get married to a woman who he has demonstrated patronising attitude to and is willing to expose on international broadcasts in order to control her and diminish her. Gf is probably stressed and came for help. He kicked her in the teeth.
“Why didn’t you help me” his girl Your answer should have been “because I’m your boyfriend, not your husband and not your wallet.” Leave her. She wants to be a child, let her suffer until she grows up and let’s all pray she doesn’t get pregnant. Which is something this guy needs to watch out for.
How is it his responsibility to help her get out debt? I’m so confused! I mean, he can do it voluntarily but for her to have that expectation is just nuts!
To the caller, I was really in the exact same situation but I acted stupidly different and I paid off her debts, then things got pretty well for her and she convinced me to get more loans to be able to afford our life together now she dumped me and I am drowning in debts and I was stupid not to see what kind of person she was, I learned my lesson the hard way, this is the first time sharing my story, but I feel you bro and please don't do the same mistake, she's using you as she's so selfish and won't stop until she drains you dry, get rid of her asap, good luck bro anyways
Right. My husband had a good job (good money) that he hated, but kept at it to support our family. When our responsibilities were not as much, he left that job and did what he wanted.
Love these guys. As a single lady, would love to find guys like this with integrity, chivalry and common sense. As far as the caller goes, sorry guy cut her loose and move on. She's dead weight. Don't think she's changing.
I lost my software sales job at Nvoicepay making good money 💵. I took a week then decided to get a job at domino’s pizza 🍕 delivery 🚚. Still trying to get into the technology business
I got a buddy with a wife like this guy's GF, and nothing changed when they got married and had a kid. Their house is a catastrophe, and their finances are F****d. I'll try to be there with kind words when they inevitably implode.
Before I even watched the video I was thinking she's not on the same maturity level as this young man. Dump her and find someone on your level because you can't make her grow up
@@nicktanner8231 I agree. However, this is a girlfriend, not a house wife. As housewives/stay@home moms our job is to keep up on the house chores, raise healthy/happy children, keep food in the house, and have meals ready for when hubby comes home. Men who are cool with having housewives/ stay@home moms have to do their part too. Make sure that the $$ is coming in, pay attention to the family, and stay on budget.
@@seadragon1456 You are right. And a good housewife often has the big picture in mind and think about her family's needs and budget before starting to sign up for costly subscriptions. This girl sounds selfish, she doesn't seem to even think about a future with him.
He’s actually trying to give her valuable knowledge about finances and how to budget(which a lot of guys can’t and won’t do) but she’d rather be dependent on another person smh
"can't and won't" are the key words.. The GF has already been confronted with her inadequacies in the past.. That is why she has the expectation that BF should bail her out of her ir-responsibilities
Find someone that shares your same values and is willing to better herself. Run this person sounds like she’s lazy and a user. Also find someone with a good heart and smart.
She wants to monetize her relationship with you. You’re the beta provider. I’m surprised she isn’t pressuring you into marriage. Then her obligations become your obligations and Dave will be on here talking about “our money” while you’re making 90% of it.
The guys that fall for this are usually the weaklings or those that want this arrangement as an excuse to control and dominate. The knife cuts both ways.
@@realphoenixking modern marriage and current female attitude?? Maybe for the type that you're attracting. My wife and I both make 6 figures and are debt free. Before you make statements like that, I would encourage you to put your energy into finding a high quality woman, like I have found. They really do exist.
He's going to learn through painful experience, and if he has a brain, which I think he has, he's gonna be more careful next time when he chooses a partner.
I wish I would have listened to this advice years ago. I found myself dating men that would have me pay for things bc I had less debt than them and guilt me into buying meals, paying for gas, trips, etc. I was such an enabler which stemmed from a childhood of bailing immature parents out financially and emotionally. It is so hard to break a bad habit of trying to "help ppl" but listen to us and Runnnn.
There should have been nothing to unpack, the questions should have been 1) do you have any children with this woman? If the answer is no then RRRRRUuUUUUNNNNN!!
6:47 I loves both perspectives and what Anthony said really was touching because it was filled with grace. It is still truth but with grace and that will be remembered.
@@ThreePuttBogeys88 It actually was a very good message if you listen to the lyrics. She was talking about a guy that was taking advantage of her. The bills she was asking him to pay for were bills that he ran up in her name: You're slowly making me pay for Things your money should be handling And now you ask to use my car Drive it all day and don't fill up the tank And you have the audacity to even come and step to me Ask to hold some money from me until You get your check next week Now you've been maxing out my cards Giving me bad credit buying me gifts with my Own ends Haven't paid the first bill But you're steady heading to the mall Going on shopping sprees perpetrating to your friends that you be balling And then you use my cell phone Calling whoever that you think at home And then when the bill comes all of a sudden you be acting dumb Don't know where none of these calls come from When your mama's number's here more than once
It's clearly a typical girl set up. she gets her a boyfriend who is doing well for himself, then magically quits her jobs, magically forgets to pay her bills and expects the guy to support her. my sister basically did this exact kind of thing.
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Short answer: Run!
Long answer: Ruuuuuuuuuuuuuunnnnnnn!!! 🏃🏃🏃🏃
😂😂😂
YAAAAAAAAAASSSS!!!!!!!!!
Hahaha well said!
Like a gazelle from the jaws of a lion! Ruuuuuuuuun!!!!
😂😂😂
If he gets that girl pregnant, it's over for him.
If somebody else gets that girl pregnant it will be over for him too.
TheBlackKnight .....problem is she can arrange that. He needs to speed walk outta there.
He needs to run, sounds like she will do anything to trap him in order to not have to take responsibility for her finances.
Bro i said the same thing. She is setting the trap.
How could he get her pregnant? They aren't even married.
The second she said
Why haven’t u helped me pay my bills.
I’d be so gone.
As a woman, I'm telling you my good man, RUN FORREST RUN.
Agreed
I completely agree!!!!, this guy need to run and bloody fast!
As another woman, I echo this. Run as far and as fast as you can!
Helen H great advice! 😊👍🏻
As another woman, I agree & liked this comment.
The irony is that “helping” her financially would only hinder her as she needs to go through this and learn.
I don't see him leaving her.... until it's wrecked him financially or she cheats on him
@@jesusbarajas9444 No, he sounds like he'll do the right thing and take John's and Anthony's advice. He already said he tried to give her advice. She did what she wanted to do and it ended badly. She griped because he didn't help her financially. He told her he tried to tell her what she should do. He doesn't seem to feel he should help her pay her bills when she won't stay with a job. I like how Anthony said, "Give her the door that she can exit". I was thinking more like, "Tell her, there's the door . . ." or "Don't let the door hit you on the way out!" This girl needs to grow up before she gets into another relationship with anyone.
C G yours are wise words that apply to extended family that is constantly hitting me up for money.
Socialist love free money. Work avoidance is their mantra.
Radius Compensation umm, something on your mind buddy?
“She wants to do what she wants to do”
Aight, imma head out.
Yeah, don’t we all, but it’s not very realistic is it? I am a “ freethinker” too, but I have also worked as a nurse for the past 31 years. Is labeling herself a freethinker her excuse for not working or is that what you’re telling yourself?
She’s showing him how things would be if they ever got married. RUN!!!
Heinrich Himmler lol
You said it!!
Yes !
And it will be ten times worse once the legal contract of marriage is entered.
I’d flee !
The title should be "My Ex-Girlfriend wanted me to help pay her bills" this relationship should be past-tense. Dump her
Lol I said the same thing
Yes she needs to work on herself before she should be in a relationship
Well said, good bye Felicia!!!!
Some dudes are the dumbest ever bro.
@@TonyHernandez-wv5vi He probably has the feeling that he won't be able to find anyone as good looking as her again. Being a simp always hurts.
A easy quitter with jobs is an easy quitter with a marriage
Ain't that the truth!
Spitters are quitters
Redpill truth
@Jimmy McMuffin Your discrepancy is the void of job-hopping
👍I agree 100%
The biggest question is why is he still calling her his girlfriend
She must put out
That coochie got him on lockdown
The P is 🧨
Naw, y’all simps!
@Bobs Slong that is the best example of a simp
In 10 years she's gonna be wondering why you wont take a second job to pay off the $40,000 in credit card debt she's racked up from online shopping while acting as a stay at home Mom.
😭😭😭😭😭
Amen. Its like you can see in the future lol
And guilt you for not providing for your family.
and Dave Ramsey will be there to say it's the caller's fault too because he "wasn't involved enough"...
More like one yr!!!
if the tables were turned the woman would've left the guy.
Left him? Hah! She wouldn't even have dated him.
As she should, who wants to be with someone who can't hold down a job and be financially responsible? Same thing for men -- it should have been very obvious to the caller early on that she was financially irresponsible, why didn't he end the relationship then?
Lots of girls love lazy men with the same mindset. I was with a bum for a while (first relationship lots of learning) . Girls lined up for him because he was always around due to not working. He cried like it was out of his control and my fault. He’s 30 now and has a 25yr old girl taking care of him.
@@Peppermon22 YES ive have falled victim to these guys too😂
Guys just like to play victim and act like they are really that unattractive but like don’t try to date women outta your league looks wise if its a problem for you.
You'd be surprised
She needs a sugar daddy and you need a different girlfriend.
Right. They simply aren't compatible no big deal lol.
Voilà
@@Vanessabobessa10 she isn’t compatible for anyone. She’s garbage
@@ryanweston9677 that’s mean maybe she had a mental breakdown
@@spiritualmeli5014 doesn’t excuse the fact she expects other people to pay her bills... and refuses to keep a job even though she is well aware how much easier it would make her boyfriend’s life. She isn’t garbage, because we have human rights, but she is most definitely useless.
She sounds like she has a huge sense of entitlement.
You read my mind.
”Free thinker”
True
@@kp782 A polite way to say non thinker. 😂
@@kp782 😂😂
"She's more of the free thinker"
no, she's more of the free LOADER 😂lazy girl just doesn't want to work...she needs a reality check. don't fund her laziness.
😂😂😂
exactly, "free thinker" is usually another fancy name for "lazy bum".
Facts she’s a free loader
Honestly if it was me, I would be fine with a freeloader pet girlfriend ... however only food and shelter in my room will be provided.
Only necessities to stay alive and healthy, so no money, not buying anything, not paying any bills. A good pet shouldn't demand things other than food or cause trouble for me.
She is free to work when she is up for it again or sit at home all she wants
Lol!!! Good one!
Can't hold a job, wants you to pay. Why haven't YOU paid???? Pretty princess. Dude, RUN away like Forrest Gump!
Except really Forrest’s childhood sweetheart uses him when she is dying.
His girlfriend is quitting jobs, expecting him to pay her bills. She sounds crazy! She has access to jobs and chooses to quit them. It sounds like she thinks she is too good to work. If I were Dave I’d choose to leave! ✌️
She's probably kinda hot too especially since she was able to get hired 7 times in a few months.
A job has no value for her. Being a home maker would also have no value. Doubt she could be a wife either.
@@chrisreynolds6391 Them bosses giving jobs with the googoo eyes. YOu're hired!
@@chrisreynolds6391 so
@@chrisreynolds6391 not really
What she wants is a sugar daddy not a boyfriend, there's a difference.
Those type of people you should run away from. they are nice at first but not nice people in general. they are money takers
You do realise it would be easy for her to get a sugar daddy and he would pay her in just one or two dates , sugar daddies can gives her thousands if she wanted she could have gotten a sugar daddy
@@lotuswolf1518 Lol someone doesn't understand humor
I agree ✨️🍏✨️
I agree 💫🎊💫
How many red flags does this man need before he dumps her?
She's probably cute or he has low self esteem.
She has more red flags than a Chinese New Year parade.
About 3 Chinese & 2 North Korean military parades worth of red flags.
Maybe she's a communist. My bills? I think you mean our bills. She's a whole soviet parade of red flags
He probably needs more red flags than he will see in any NASCAR race! LOL!
Child....this is a girlfriend, not a wife, and if she was a wife you are being shown how she views your partnership to be YOU taking all the responsibility for HER state of affairs. You only quit a job when you have a better-paid job lined up or your business is starting to make income better than your current job.....the girlfriend stage is the best you're going to get and if that is causing you problems already....sad. I think the best thing you can do is allowing her to find her self and grow up. Run. Don't waste time or know how much time your willing to waste to allow her to mentally grow, but a leopard doesn't change is stripes it just covers it with makeup, and when it rains you know the stripes become visible again.
Good luck.
Exactly!
That is the truth.
Yeup!
Big facts
Well said man:)
"People are not puzzles to be solved, they are people to be with" - This piece of advice is Golden and I'll remember it forever!
Major facts.
Same! High maintenance people are exhausting! I’m done with that
RUN!!!! when someone cant hold down a job that is a HUGE redflag!
No sympathy or financial help for someone who quits seven jobs!
She has more red flags than a Chinese New Year parade.
@@untouchable360x You know, I was thinking of a comment like that! I was thinking more along the lines of a Chinese military parade -- or a Chinese flag FACTORY!
Yes and no. Maybe she meant to work? Maybe she needs to be a stay at home wife/mother. Or maybe start her own business? I just feel like their are multiple avenues in life and she needs to reassess things.
@@ModernSouthernBelle just curious if you would say the same about a man.. maybe he's not meant to work?? Doesn't really matter what if you need to eat
She made the bills, she has to pay for them. Don't enable bad behavior.
Feminists wanted equal treatment. Women can't shame men for not paying and also ask for equal treatment. That's called war.
@@jcstang8952 Just the opposite. Rather than find a steady job, my boyfriend expects me to pay for his share of the bills. When he does work, he usually spends almost the entire amount on himself. So rude and inconsiderate. It definitely causes an argument, because I find it very unacceptable.
@@dianer8881 that's not as a result of ideology though. That's just a bad man. Men didn't cry gendered victim status and virtue signal like feminists do. You need to conflate and deconflicte things more aptly. This is an issue on the female side I've noticed all too often. Trouble with conflating things. Women's thinking process is getting dangerous this way. Like species survival dangerous.
@@jcstang8952 Suppression is everywhere. Gender may be irrelevant.
@@dianer8881 Well the technocracy obviously hates both genders I agree with that 100%. But they do not promote men in their propaganda. See any media outlet. They actually make men a mockery. Make no mistake though, I'm not offended by this. I just point out their hypocrisy and ideas that do not work.
Don't do it! I did that and then even helped her family, now they always get mad when I don't want to support her family.
When I stopped supporting my family financially 30 years ago I stopped receiving invitations to family events. When I closed my wallet I got kicked out of the family. Should’ve done it sooner
OMG - wish I'd heard this call 20 years ago. Ex wife that I was dating had tons of bills. Asked me to help, I thought I was "helping". In reality, we spent the next 9 years struggling with money. She left, and eventually became homeless. :( I'm looking forward to a great retirement with the right lady the second time. My humble opinion, run like the wind.
Been there, done that. My current partner is so unbelievably refreshing to be around.
Oh man, I am also looking forward to a great new start with someone grown up who appreciates me.
Caller!!! 🚨 is you from the future warning you 🚨
A great retirement and the right lady are two mutually exclusive things. You can have one or the other, not both.
Good that you figured it out in time.
Run my man, run hard and far. You don't need a woman like that.
If he pays her bills he's not supporting her, he's enabling her.
What would be your advice for me. I'm married, my husband lives in another country, and my husband does not work. I've been supporting him even before we married.
@@ladyshenna967leave his ass!!!!
@@ladyshenna967 STOP.
@saintsgang8629 Yeah, you right. I did just that, too. I decided to invest in me, my goals, and keeping myself looking like the wonderfully and fearfully woman I was created.
@@ladyshenna967 that's f'd up. I"m glad you came to your senses.
This guy needs to run as far as humanly possible.
He is trying to rationalize her situation instead of just removing his self from the equation. New flash buddy you are not her husband or father. Do not help her pay her bills.
Absolutely
SIMP!
He probably had her move in by the second date lol!! Sucker! 🤣🤣🤣
@@Mr.Legend_Speaks Hahaha! I know what you mean. This guy needs to enjoy the single life until he can realize his value and the lack of values these females often offer.
Say it louder for the whole room!!!!
When you dump her and she turns out to be pregnant, because she WILL be pregnant, make sure to get a dna test.
Learned that lesson the hard way. Get away and make a note of the date when you left so you can do the math for yourself.
They aren’t married
YUP. Cuz I can guarantee that she isn’t asking her side dude for money.
Not if she dumps him first because he doesn’t pay her bills, and by the sound of it, she’s this type of girl
@@Bully____Maguire that would be doing him a favor.
Run like the gingerbread man 🤣
on fire
Yep. Nothing else matters! If she can't manage her self before your married. It's only downhill from there. Unless she can correct her character and abilities on a dime. Don't look back.
Absolutely sir lol
😅
This
This is the type of woman that will take everything, including the kids, after the inevitable divorce. Protect your future young King.
Most western women.
If he needed his bills paid, she’d call him a bum and leave him
Every time I listen to this show I'm amazed at the unending stream of entitled people in the world. 😬😬😬 I would never expect a boyfriend to pay my bills. 😳
Exactly! Good for you!
Smart
Problem is that for every one of you there are about a 100k people who are entitled. You see this largely with women who operate under this idea that her money is her money and her bf or husbands money is “our money”
Exactt,just the majority of our dates. Bills? No
Interesting 🤔 how does one prepare to be a wife and ask for support? The video right before this one we’re giving the cheating wife money🥱 this one girlfriend gets nothing but was working 😂 it’s all rigged
She’s free to think about how broke she is.
😂😂😂
Thanks for the laugh
🤣🤣🤣
I was with a girl like this. she had alotta emotional issues and quit every job she had within months. to top it off she constantly disrespected me. glad I left bet
Seems like these girls are always the same.
@@justinx9892 ikr I'm enjoying being single
@@michael567jober yeah just smash and pass. And if you find one that’s not an emotional wreck than date her.
@@justinx9892 lol which is rare. I just keep the ones around I like but won't pursue anything serious
MGTOW4LIFE
She's your girlfriend and she feels entitled, just imagine as a wife.... You'll probably end up divorcing her and she'll leave you broke... run now that you can....
Must be nice to be able to find SEVEN jobs...
She did not say that the "seven jobs" were bj's for guys in cars who were cruising the area.
Her looks are likely getting her by. Hope that holds out til she ties some sucker up .
It's amazing how easy it is for attractive phemales to get past HR
Female affirmative action.
Haha seriously
The host is being polite. That male needs to leave his girlfriend.
I’ve had many times where I struggled financially and have NEVER asked someone why they didn’t help pay my bills
Time to start saying "My ex girlfriend was mad I didn't pay her bills".
This call is literally a forest of red flags. Run, my dude.
He Basically has a daughter disguised 🥸 as a girlfriend
2/3's of all relationships.
No, she has a sponsor disguised as a boyfriend.
Sounds like a scene from Phub...
Pennsylvania, not West Virginia. But I guess it's possible. Whatever she's 'doing' to keep him around can be done by many others. RUN, brother, RUN!!
Sweet home Alabama
Sorry my bf wanted to help me pay my cc and I told him no. My debt, my problem (he wanted me to transfer mine to his) I told him I could walk away from him and it would be his debt. Haha he has been my silent cheerleader. Please run she wants a free ride. If she's the one not staying at a job and not doing anything to improve, run. You've offered to help and she's already said no. Walk away before it's too late. If you get married she will want you to support her.
Mighty principled of you
Nice
He needs to ghost her before she becomes pregnant and names him the father.
I see what you did there
She needs to dump him before he gets her pregnant and doesn't bother to support her.
@@abcxyz-kc7ch don't do drugs kids
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This is super underrated. I’ve only recently discovered how frequent deliberate paternity fraud is. It is a bad time for men right now.
I was in a similar situation over 30 years ago. A woman who I dated for just three weeks and then wormed her way into my bedroom after that third date, wanted me to help her pay her bills shortly after that. She said, "that is the least I can do for her because we were sleeping together". I "kicked her to the curb" in an instant! I also vowed then to NEVER "sleep" with another woman until I knew everything there was to know about her, even if it took many months. That over the years has worked out a whole lot better for me.
Smart. Too much sleeping around and shacking up with this generation. Letting hormones make decisions for you
funny how those shoes just showed up under your bed huh? lol same happened to me
Good advice. All he should do is show her the way of doing things. Everyone deserves the right to improve but if she's not listening then you better run.
Seven different jobs in one year, I don’t think she’s willing to learn yet.
Sounds like it’s time to find someone else!
Leave her she's not you're dependant
I was in this same situation for 6 years with a woman. She was a total disaster when it came to finances, would not hold a job simply because she didn’t like it all the while I’m working OT every week trying to save and invest for a future for us. But she constantly held me back by needing me to pay her bills and like an idiot I did because if I didn’t she would dump me and threatened to move away and i’d never see her again. Finally she did that anyway and now 2 years later she’s conning some new fool and my finances are better than ever now that she’s gone. I wish I’d left her so long ago would have save a lot of money and heart ache.
Why in the world would you be in a relationship for 6 years with a woman like that?
Rani P because I fell for her hard I was young and stupid and easy to manipulate and she saw an easy target. I’m happy to say it’s been 2 years since getting dumped by her and I’ve completely turned my life around, found a good woman who’s isn’t a financial wreck and my financial situation is better than ever.
@@Simpleharmonica I am so happy for you for turning your life around. That's great 👍
@@Simpleharmonica Too bad it took getting dumped by her for you to realize that. You should have dumped her instead. Lessons learned in life.
No kids with her....best thing
6:55 A man protects and waits until he is married to provide for their family. A boy tries to impress a girl.
Almost like it’s straight out of Proverbs.
Man won't be able to get married to a woman who he has demonstrated patronising attitude to and is willing to expose on international broadcasts in order to control her and diminish her. Gf is probably stressed and came for help. He kicked her in the teeth.
@@abcxyz-kc7ch simp spotted
“Why didn’t you help me” his girl
Your answer should have been “because I’m your boyfriend, not your husband and not your wallet.”
Leave her. She wants to be a child, let her suffer until she grows up and let’s all pray she doesn’t get pregnant. Which is something this guy needs to watch out for.
Marry her. Everything will be just fine.
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hahaha! that's awesome
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Omg, yikes!! Lol
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How is it his responsibility to help her get out debt? I’m so confused! I mean, he can do it voluntarily but for her to have that expectation is just nuts!
There are women out here who use men for money. It happens a lot unfortunately.
@@ranip7644 this is sooo true & pathetic 🤦🏽♀️ we all have to fend for ourselves
This guy needs to drop her. He obviously intends well, but is clearly capable of being exploited by others. He needs to be single.
To the caller, I was really in the exact same situation but I acted stupidly different and I paid off her debts, then things got pretty well for her and she convinced me to get more loans to be able to afford our life together now she dumped me and I am drowning in debts and I was stupid not to see what kind of person she was, I learned my lesson the hard way, this is the first time sharing my story, but I feel you bro and please don't do the same mistake, she's using you as she's so selfish and won't stop until she drains you dry, get rid of her asap, good luck bro anyways
Your in the right place here with the ramsey show. I hope things are better.
Men need to read about your story. Thanks for sharing!!!!
That's a deal breaker! That's not his responsibility. RUN!
Ever heard of helping by not helping? If he helps her, she’s going to get used to it and not grow up.
She sounds immature. I can be a free spirit but I’m sure as heck going to pay my bills and keep my job.
Can’t help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves 🤷♀️
ILY hannah
Yup
I'd pay your bills Hannah!
A lot of people have held jobs they didn’t like until they were prepared for better opportunities. Stay the course!
Right. My husband had a good job (good money) that he hated, but kept at it to support our family. When our responsibilities were not as much, he left that job and did what he wanted.
Love these guys. As a single lady, would love to find guys like this with integrity, chivalry and common sense. As far as the caller goes, sorry guy cut her loose and move on. She's dead weight. Don't think she's changing.
"That's fine, give her the door that she can exit." XD LOLLLLLL YES
She not only wastes money, but wastes time.
Leave her now!
Please, for the love of God, don't you dare marry her. She will use the divorce courts to take everything from you. Run away!
I lost my software sales job at Nvoicepay making good money 💵. I took a week then decided to get a job at domino’s pizza 🍕 delivery 🚚. Still trying to get into the technology business
Man that sucks, good luck.
foxhound 34 thanks 🙏
Siswearyournatural & eathealthy thanks 🙏
good luck finding the right job for you.
Michelle Price thanks
I got a buddy with a wife like this guy's GF, and nothing changed when they got married and had a kid. Their house is a catastrophe, and their finances are F****d. I'll try to be there with kind words when they inevitably implode.
Answer: break up
Concerned that she can't hold down a job.
“I’ll take Dave is gonna get baby trapped for $500 Alex.”
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Im crying on that one 🤣😂🤣😂🤪😂😅
What is BABY TRAPPED?
Underrated comment 😂
It's the "DAILY" DOUBLE. I'll bet it all, Alex.
She’s looking for someone to take care of her. She’s a princess 👸 that will make you go broke. Go find another that is on the same level as you.
if she is looking for someone to pay her bills,she better be half as good looking as some of the famous trophy wives.
Yep, pretty much 75% of relationships.
This girlfriend sounds like my ex husband.
Run, man. Run.
Sounds like my wife. :(
@@71723 sounds like my ex-wife 😁
A man. Really
What Anthony was thinking but couldn't say out loud ..."RUN AWAY NOW!!!" lol
Before I even watched the video I was thinking she's not on the same maturity level as this young man. Dump her and find someone on your level because you can't make her grow up
Dude, get out of there! A real woman takes responsibility for her own finances and knows how to hold down a job. She sounds like a child. Run!
Disgusting viewpoint. Men protect, provide, lead.
@@nicktanner8231 I agree. However, this is a girlfriend, not a house wife.
As housewives/stay@home moms our job is to keep up on the house chores, raise healthy/happy children, keep food in the house, and have meals ready for when hubby comes home. Men who are cool with having housewives/ stay@home moms have to do their part too. Make sure that the $$ is coming in, pay attention to the family, and stay on budget.
@@seadragon1456 You are right. And a good housewife often has the big picture in mind and think about her family's needs and budget before starting to sign up for costly subscriptions. This girl sounds selfish, she doesn't seem to even think about a future with him.
He’s actually trying to give her valuable knowledge about finances and how to budget(which a lot of guys can’t and won’t do) but she’d rather be dependent on another person smh
"can't and won't" are the key words.. The GF has already been confronted with her inadequacies in the past.. That is why she has the expectation that BF should bail her out of her ir-responsibilities
ABORT. ABORT.
Danger, Will Robinson, danger!
MISSION FAILED: Better luck next time
Find someone that shares your same values and is willing to better herself. Run this person sounds like she’s lazy and a user. Also find someone with a good heart and smart.
Yup
Sitting here dealing with a break up for this same reason, finally feeling at peace, thanks for reassuring my decisions
She wants to monetize her relationship with you.
You’re the beta provider.
I’m surprised she isn’t pressuring you into marriage. Then her obligations become your obligations and Dave will be on here talking about “our money” while you’re making 90% of it.
That's a great way of putting it. 👍
Shhhh.... You're exposing modern marriage and current female attitudes.
I bet she is, as well as using a pin into his condoms
The guys that fall for this are usually the weaklings or those that want this arrangement as an excuse to control and dominate. The knife cuts both ways.
@@realphoenixking modern marriage and current female attitude?? Maybe for the type that you're attracting. My wife and I both make 6 figures and are debt free. Before you make statements like that, I would encourage you to put your energy into finding a high quality woman, like I have found. They really do exist.
The simpery is strong in this one
He's going to learn through painful experience, and if he has a brain, which I think he has, he's gonna be more careful next time when he chooses a partner.
Exactly. They know the game plan, have you pay their debts, then leave you for another sucker they can leach off of
@@SFbayArea94121 supply and demand lolz
He should’ve been left her
Lol
“People are not puzzles to be solved but people to be with” … wow that was a good line
I wish I would have listened to this advice years ago. I found myself dating men that would have me pay for things bc I had less debt than them and guilt me into buying meals, paying for gas, trips, etc. I was such an enabler which stemmed from a childhood of bailing immature parents out financially and emotionally. It is so hard to break a bad habit of trying to "help ppl" but listen to us and Runnnn.
Sounds to me like she’s for the streets and wants a sugar daddy bro. Leave her
Heinrich Himmler for what...
What’s wrong with NOT being a sucker.
Facts 👸🏽
@Heinrich Himmler 😂😂
Heinrich Himmler consistently? Or twice a month and expect her rent to be payed?
Heinrich Himmler I’m asking you, if a man pays her bills consistently, is he entitled to consistent WAP?
She gave you the best warning ever. What you do with this info is important for decades to come.
Dude, run. Get yourself an independent woman. They exist I promise and this is coming from a woman!
They claim to exist
Especially run if she claims she’s independent😂
an independent woman wouldn’t need a man, hence the independent part.
h_hill-mzy explains why I’m single lol
largely they are far and few between
There should have been nothing to unpack, the questions should have been 1) do you have any children with this woman?
If the answer is no then
RRRRRUuUUUUNNNNN!!
Both had really good answers… the 2nd guy tho hit the nail on the head
She's looking for a sucker to pay all her bills. After she's done using you she's going to kick you to the curb. I've been there!. Thanks
6:47 I loves both perspectives and what Anthony said really was touching because it was filled with grace. It is still truth but with grace and that will be remembered.
RUN LIKE THE WIND AWAY FROM HER AND NEVER LOOK BACK!
Destinys Child’s song “Bills, Bills, Bills” comes to mind when I read this title...
Haha exactly what came to mind!
Classic!! But I back then I didn’t realize how awful the message they were sending was!
Three Putt Bogeys oh, I don’t think a lot of people knew either so don’t feel bad lol
@@ThreePuttBogeys88 Never thought about it but yes that song, it turns out, really did mark a turning point in society.
@@ThreePuttBogeys88 It actually was a very good message if you listen to the lyrics. She was talking about a guy that was taking advantage of her. The bills she was asking him to pay for were bills that he ran up in her name:
You're slowly making me pay for
Things your money should be handling
And now you ask to use my car
Drive it all day and don't fill up the tank
And you have the audacity to even come and step to me
Ask to hold some money from me until
You get your check next week
Now you've been maxing out my cards
Giving me bad credit buying me gifts with my
Own ends
Haven't paid the first bill
But you're steady heading to the mall
Going on shopping sprees perpetrating to your friends that you be balling
And then you use my cell phone
Calling whoever that you think at home
And then when the bill comes all of a sudden you be acting dumb
Don't know where none of these calls come from
When your mama's number's here more than once
"Hey Dave Why Can't she hold down a job"
Boom, all questions answered with a question.
Her bills are not his responsibility 🤦🏾♀️
Sign of huge immaturity to leave a perfectly decent job when you have bills to pay because "you just weren't feeling it".
She’s definitely cheating on him. Bro just tell her to start an onlyfans. 😹
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But.... You're not wrong
Your profile picture is hilarious 😂😂😂😂
It's clearly a typical girl set up. she gets her a boyfriend who is doing well for himself, then magically quits her jobs, magically forgets to pay her bills and expects the guy to support her. my sister basically did this exact kind of thing.
Let her go , she needs to grow up and be independent !!!! No one on this earth is looking for a liability ...
4:04 'And my wife is probably going to hit the street too and go find a job.'
You may want to phrase that differently in the future.
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Had that trick up your sleeve huh
You know what he meant.
Dude. Caller: If you're reading this...dump her. I know it's sad but she's a bum. It's time for you to find someone you're more compatible with
Testosterone seldom leads a man to wise outcomes when a female is involved.
You're being nice.
If men always followed paths that led to wise outcomes, our species would go extinct.
Lisa B
Yep, just got taught this by friend on Saturday.