How To Start A Conversation With Attractive Women
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- Starting a conversation with an attractive woman can be challenging. In today's video, Jeff from The Style O.G. discusses 9 easy ways to start a conversation with attractive women.
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Talking to attractive women is exactly the same as talking to average women, only you are more afraid. Casually converse with all the women you can, not just the ones you want to impress. Cultivate genuine interest in other people without expectations of it leading to anything. The more practice you have, the easier it gets.
great tips!
Timeless advice
Very sensible comment. World needs it.
talking to "attractive" women is like talking to anyone because attractive is subject to opinion. Treat her like you ALREADY KNOW HER.
Spot on. I've learned this same process through years of trial and error.
Just don't be intimidated, looks Fade personality doesn't So come strong with yours.
appreciate the input!
Thank you for writing your statement, it's a challenge for men & women to start conversations & ask for dates or whatever the situation.
Here's a breakdown of the tips discussed.
1. Talk about a common activity or event.
2. Ask what is her opinion.
3. Ask open-ended questions.
4. Ask for her advice or help.
5. Complement her in a gentle manner.
6. Talk about something you both have in common.
7. Talk about a current event or trend.
8. Use a light joke or some humor.
9. Be direct and honest.
Thank You 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
I used to coach my younger coworkers on this challenge. I told them to practise talking to all women, old, young, attractive, unattractive married, single and divorced. That way, when you meet the girl of your dreams, you won't become tongue tied plus a lot women like you. Some have attractive friends!
I like it Doug!
It's hard to make friends in the 2020s too many fakes disguising
Maintain eye contact,Dress well,& hv on a cologne than drawls them to you…
works for sure!
I find a simple "hello" usually works. Just talk to her naturally, as you would anyone else. This way it makes it easier for her to say "NO"! LOL!
Great tip!
How about talking to just women. I, personally, find all women appealing until they prove themselves otherwise. What makes a woman attractive depends on who is observing her.
LMFAO 😂😂😂
That won't do, herein LA.. Brawds Ruff round this Camp! # Clown Town
The Style O.G., great content keep up the great content
Will do!
On the topic of compliments. My story... I was at a location to take care of financial paper work in person. And the financial agent I was talking with was a very attractive lady. I didnt compliment her on her beauty but what I did was this... Tapped her on her finger nail and gave her a thumbs up gesture. Thus complimenting her finger nail make-up job. She smiled, giggled, blushed while saying "Thank you... No guy has ever done that before. You are very kind". And we still talk till this day.
Tried and true methods. But you should know when to walk away. Especially if she's playing the distance game. Don't focus on the one attractive one in the room. Keep eye contact if walk away.
Good point!
OG, I wanted to tell you that because of you, I’ve invested in an all black Fossil watch, and I feel it has definently added to have a more mature sophisticated look. I hope to one day see you suggest a Nexbelt as a stylish belt made for “carrying”. Enjoy the weekend 🤜🏼💥🤛🏽
You as well!
Like 2pac used to say, "somebody gon have to tell me why I aint got sh*t." LOL
Keep shooting them shots..
@TheStyleOG, whass hammin bro! I asked a sista how does she balance out working 3rd shift and dating life? Her reply was, I manage. I was looking for a better response from her. I asked a good open-ended question instead of assuming or putting words into her mouth. I just don't understand why it's so hard to get a decent conversation with my sistas out here. Signed a single black man.
Learn how to talk to everyone. Simple.. It will become like second nature to hold a conversation for a few minutes. And if it's an attractive woman you will be more natural and at ease.
good point!
I believe it’s natural for me. But I’m still all ears.
Style OG sportin’ the seersucker coat for summer! Lookin good! Shopping for one myself.
Thanks!
Most men just stare, lol
Cuz most girls just reject that’s why 😂🤦♂️
A beautiful woman, is still a person, just like you. Don't overthink it and approach with a warm hello and your name. If she's not at least receptive to that, perhaps you should carry on elsewhere. ✌
appreciate the input!
@@TheStyleOG Appreciate your vids, you're a class act, OG! 👍
All great tips, but DIRECT approach is best -- and also the most challenging. Didn't have the stones to do it on the NYC subway 3 months ago and still regret it a little to this day, talking myself out of it for a number of Sorry reasons, chief among them that I was already talking to a few other women from elsewhere and didn't need the extra action. Plus, I was rationalizing about her "energy", which was a little 'flaky', tbh. There was ZERO context here, mind you: it just would have been a straight-up Holla after a few minutes of checking her out after a few stops . . . .
Single Gents: Please challenge yourself to follow thru if the urge to do likewise comes up in your travels, when you see someone you like. Nothing ventured, NOTHING gained.
Okay . I get it. What’s your agenda? Most attractive women are use to men approaching her because she is attractive. I have found that treating attractive women like a real person and ignoring her beauty works. Don’t be pressed.
Women especially Beautiful Women Love to Laugh!!! Personality goes a Long way with a Lot of Beautiful Women. Y'all should See the Star I met at a Jazz Festival on Saturday 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
good stuff!
For me the bottom line is just go for it and do your best. If she's going to like you, she's going to like you. If not, not. Take the L and keep it moving. But if you don't give it a go you can be certain nothing is going to happen. I had no lines or strategy at all when I approached my wife many years ago. "Um, hi" after three days of scheming on how I would approach her. And here we are, deep in love, 30 years later. Take the risk.
Don't take yourself too seriously, keep it easy, compliment her socks, and don't try to pet her dog (if applicable) without permission.
Great tips Jeff! 💯
You're looking dapper in your Seersucker blazer!
Thanks! 👍
Its so simple even a caveman can do it! 😂😂😂 Im not 🐃💩ing Im serious but it sounds funny!
Exactly what I needed, sir! 🫡 Muchas Gracias, mi hermano!!!! 🤜🏼🤛🏾💯
No worries
Great video Jeff. Fine suggestions and recommendations. Nice jacket.
Thanks!
I wonder if women watch 8 minute videos on how to talk to men? You take all this time trying to figure out how to get them to respond to you, then you find out they don’t even know how to hold a conversation.
Style O.G. is always on point with everything 💯💪💪
Salute!
Happy fathers day..much blessings 2 all dads
Thanks so much!
When you learn STREET Game you dont have to run behind a woman
Says the dude that gets no ass. STFU 😂
Count to 3 and go for it with just “hello” let her feel your presence. Don’t be tied to the outcome. You will be surprised by your results by just opening your mouth and not being creepy about it. Most women don’t get approached anymore. Get some eye contact and be a man about it..
I GOTTA BE MORE LAYBACK WHEN APPROACHING WOMEN THXS OG
Good information...glad to see your channel is still going strong. Men have to understand it's like consulting. The interaction must be conversational whether your style is indirect or direct. The key thing to do is to make sure you close. During the conversation don't be outcome dependent just like the Style OG said just flow and relax.
Very true!
Complimenting a woman’s shoes is always a good one
Agreed!
How about. "Hi, how you doing?" If you have to use pick up lines, then chances are, she's not the one for you.
where were the pick up lines in this video??
I agree with all of this. Check her vibes before going to far. Also don’t bring up sexual talk, let her bring it up
If you master dry humor, you'll never miss. Dry humor shows sophistication on your part and intelligence on hers. Be responsible.
Always find a common ground in conversation to lower her defense, be charming but mysterious. Be intentional about your attraction to her but not over the top. Remember women always want your validation
appreciate the input!
OG … keep bringing the 🔥
Sound, sound advice. Good one. I restrain myself of approaches because I stopped dating 20yrs ago; now I'm back on the free range... but my likings remain from 20yrs ago. And those likings give me the "sir" treatment.
Yup... i dont have "game", per se.
Juat charm, sincerity, and directness.
No, do not talk about things that are going on in the world that can start an argument. That’s terrible advice.
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Keep bringing that heat
Will do!
Women have to approach Men directly at this point period. (I refuse to risk my life along with everything that I built to get falsely accused, disrespected, me too, being labeled weird/creepy, having the interaction get posted online in order to clown you, etc)
You've been watching too much BS on social media and news. There are plenty of normal woman out there.
grow up
Right I was against this and was pro-cold approach but after I had encountered one crazy B, I thought it was gonna be over for me. I caught a chick recording me, and I told her in a joking manner “yo stop recording”. She denied it and lashed out on me even when I was calming her down and was telling her it’s fine I was joking whether you did it or not. She was screaming at public trying to accuse me I was like oh no what the hell is going on.
@@js83you’re right but the confidence we had had demolished thanks to these crazy accusers. I wouldn’t take a chance if it would possibly end worse than what happened to me.
What he didn't tell you is , that attractive woman had to has interest in you to even hold a conversation let alone answer a question
Exactly! Only if you match her atractiveness it will matter otherwise waste of energy. Nevertless, great aproach techniques to start a conversation and show interest in average women (or matching atractiveness).
Great information 👑👑🔥🔥👍🏾👍🏾
Thanks!
Great advice brother 👍🏾👊🏾💪🏾
Appreciate thatQ
Always avoid overly difficult chicks, trust me it isn't worth it I was attracted to something about her until I " was turned off" ,stay safe ☮️out
this aint for an attractive woman..this is for an attractive lady. a good portion of the western woman in 2024 dont care bout half this stuff. she ggot 2-3 kids and gets attention 24/7 (hence if shes attractive).ya a good portion of these will help u to stand out possibly but depending o nher lifestyle, type of dudes she used to etcetera; u could be setting yourself up for disaster too. Definitely dont wanna be too clowny n light hearted
Never show interest in her, she will see it anyway.
She knows how to test it just look in order
❤❤❤great topic
Jeff digging your seersucker blazer gotta get one. Thanks
Appreciate it!
I just walk up and say, what that thang like? Works 100% of the time. Try it out.
It's 2024...... only boomers are doing this, i don't need to know her name or how her days going🥱. I simply tell her "i want the short stay special" and im in and out like Batman!! You old folks trip me out doing all this talking crap😫😆🤣🤣😅
It's people like you the reason why the competition is getting easier when it comes to dating. Thank you.
what he said!
You gonna get old too remember that
It's not hard to talk to attractive women it all comes down to confidence is no perfect line no pickup line to say stop it it comes from experience these young guys are always going to be nervous all the guys like us is no lessons
If a woman likes you.
.. you do not need any conversational skills. My experience!
so you remain mute?? lol
@@TheStyleOG not really but most of the time they are ones who initiates conversation and make things easy for you. My experience! However,you can go out of your way and start a conversation but i don't do that most often.
I'm a nobody but I found that talking to and interacting with attractive women is easier than the basic ones. They seem much more positive and open to me.
why did you start this comment by saying you’re a “nobody” ?
You just inadvertently realized you are more attractive than you think.
Its a reason they accept you.
Nice jacket.. Great topic.. Thanks again, Jeff. 🫡
I’d love to know how to start a conversation with a good looking man such like you ??❤😂
Step 1: Be attractive
Step 2: Have money
SALUTEEEE!!!!
Where's the smooth background music Jeff?
Topics to avoid anything involving politics. That for me is third date territory
Will you do some shorts for us or videos to see you in action 🎬? Also what do you think of pick up lines?
No woman is worth the investment, though.
Someone's bitter
Define attractive. 🤔
Where should i go to meet women or people in general? I try bars, but almost everyone there goes with other people.
Very informative
Glad you think so!
I,guess communication is key..
Great video, the advice you are giving is very informative and can be very helpful for the man that’s looking for that special lady. Keep up the good work and salute 👍🏾
Will dio!
Be direct, but respectful. Show that you’re attracted, but don’t obsess over their physical appearance and beauty. Like the OG said, they know they are attractive and hear comments about their physical beauty, all the time.
Maintain eye contact, but don’t look like a bug eyed psycho. An intense smoldering glance will convey everything you need to say, and she will understand your intentions. Don’t be crass or vulgar. I have watched men ruin their opportunities with beauty women just by their disrespect tone and language.
great input!
Some of them say you asking too many questions!😂
Can I please have a shoutout in the next video 😢😢
Jeff, all you saying is true. Many of the information that you shared, is how I meet my wife.
Sweet!
Walk away. Keep your money and peace
Just them what you want to do as quickly and clearly as possible . Most attractive women are used to men being verbal cowards so you have to be different .
Indeed!
salute
Salute!
I've never had a problem talking with beautiful women,but they often start conversations first!
Yall dating coaches need to stop pandering to women. Stop encouraging men to talk to unpleasant women. Times are different now. Time to shift gears and start teaching men how to chase their purpose and stop chasing women.
Where in here did I say anything about chasing women? You are new here obviously. I repeat on here that your purpose comes first and you then you identify a woman of Quality and then you directly pursue, but never chase. A word to the wise, do your due diligence before assume something about someone you’re unfamiliar with. Carry on
I'm not sure that asking for advice is a good idea. It puts you in a position where you appear to be looking up to her, and I don't think most women like that.
Love these tips
Glad it was helpful!
Salute🫡
Salute!
Great video Style OG! I agree with ALL of the 9 ways you explained and emphasize staying updated on current events and trends because that will show your knowledge of pertinent information that she can vibe with you on. Also, that same knowledge will benefit you if you’re hanging with the fellas, at a bar or on an interview. It will help to remove the fear of running out of things to talk about. Asking open-ended questions is major, as well, because when you spark that initial conversation many women are nervous and will simply give a one word answer, if you allow it, before she gets comfortable talking with you.👍🏾
Thanks!
I seen pant lie or blayzer cuhh!
Now, this is a very interesting title you've come up with. Is there supposed to be a separate conversation for an average woman versus an "attractive woman"? What makes a woman attractive? Is it solely based on superficial attributes. That's why things end up like they do sometimes. Is it possible to have good intelligent conversation and attraction based on mental stimulation as well?
this was specific to attractive because men tend to find it more challenging,..
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
Thanks Michael!
You welcome keep up the good work GOD BLESS 🙏
442, Go For Broke. (smile)
I think as a woman this is a great video😊. I'm glad I saw it.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Good morning...I'm saving this one ...I go through anxiety issues with this one..
Hope it helps!
@@TheStyleOG all of your videos help... Happy Father's Day From A Son You're Mentoring Online... Enjoy Your Day Sir #Salute 🏆🏆🏆
That jacket is looking nice! 👏
Thanks!
Great info!
Thanks!
👍🏾Good video...
Thanks 💯
The only thing that works these days is to immeadiatelyntellmthemnunmake 6 figures and u are willing to pay to get their hair and nails done… for starters! 😢😂😢
@TheStyleOG Just turned 51, not dating what tips you have for trying to get back out there.