This was a good one. I used to be the over apologetic guy back in my 20s, until a woman had to ask me, "What do you keep apologizing for?" I had to clear that up, now, I stand by what I stand by and I stand on what I stand on. Everyone will not be pleased or agree.
233,who cares if any one will be pleased or agree ??? When I was in the military ( served in the navy and the army,tho,not at the same time-LOL ) I always spoke my mind to officers and enlisted,was never disrespectful,but,some people don't like it tho.I called out folks who were BSing or harassing my people,they got the hammer.If it were female personnel being harassed,they immediately came to me,because I didn't mess around with any BS or non-sense.
@@kerry-j4mGood for you! At my age , I really don’t give a shit. I set boundaries with people, and if they get hurt crossing my boundaries, that’s on them! They were warned. I will say this, there is strength in clearly defined boundaries. People may not always like it (and that’s their problem, not mine) but they tend to respect you as a person who will not allow them to try to take advantage of you! I rarely have issues once I press my clearly defined boundaries and limits with people. Also, there is a lot of power in having confidence and the word “no”.
@@ElegantSavage72 I salute you for standing tall and being firm and not letting people run over you. Once you set boundaries and stand firm on them ( like you said ) people will respect you.
I agree 100%! Excellent content! My son is only 8 and I make sure he watches your (age appropriate) content. Thank you so much for all you do and for being a virtual mentor, coach and role model to so many 🖤
Focus on improving your more conspicuous talents, you're deficiencies will follow in tow, and will improve in relationship to your strengths. You want your 'driving' wheels to be the ones in front... taking charge, not the relatively weak or ineffectual capabilities... which we all have.
@The Style O.G: Great video. You hit it on the head with these weak men traits. To be indecisive says you're afraid to make big decisions, and cant lead properly. Women look up to strength. Strength comes in many ways i.e decision making, ambitious, can handle bumps in life without panicking etc. Keep up the great work brotha!
Good topic O.G. now I know for a fact that I’m not cocky, I’m just confident in the things that I do. I’ll make sure I’m opposite of weak men. Thanks again and salute 👍🏾
Great video as always. As a 44 year old guy I always tell young men to practice their social skills EVERYWHERE, not just with women, to build their confidence. I honestly think it’s pathetic when a 25 year can’t even have a normal, simple conversation with a barista.
My relationship is ending now because I've ticked off just about every box. Not real clingy, but emotionally immature coupled with lack of communication. Oh man I really had never took a good look in the mirror. Thanks for holding that up for me.
And this is why i dont bother dating anymore..... you have to be all these things to women, when they themselves have even more negative traits.... Exhausting.
Your statement, "[women] have even more negative traits.... Exhausting" Puts women in a box in your mind, and in reality has put your mind in a box, so that you can no longer see or attract the women who don't fit your poor idea of them.
@@thegreyoneedwards6296 I ain't no woman hater dude, let's make that clear...I get a lot of action for a man in his 50's...But I don't do relationships anymore.
I’m 44 years old male and have all the qualities listed in this video. Because of this, I decided to retire from women. I had my first gf at 41 and was badly played and manipulated. When your weak, this is what will happen to you - taken advantage off. It’s hard for a man to be a man than a woman to be a woman. Being a man needs to be learnt when your young. You can easily make mistakes and be forgiven when your young but at my age you’ll be looked down upon for making dating mistakes. I told my ex that I wasn’t good enough for her many times but she refused to let me go. When I ended it, she told me we were only in a situation ship. Didn’t know what that was. She was an older Caribbean woman but never told me her real age and never met her friends or family. No idea if I can comeback at 44. I have no job, no friends and no life
Being angry is unattractive. Being insecure is unattractive. Being a criminal is unattractive. Stalking is unattractive. Begging for conversation and attention is gross - if you about something somebody will recognize it
For your next video can you make one based on advice you would give up other men or a nephew or son on how to navigate life's ups and downs..? I could use that right about now... thank you sir 😞🙏🏾
I think the only thing about the indecisive thing that more so comes out when women have that “don’t tell me what to do” attitude when you’re simply trying to lead. The other stuff isn’t that hard to work on.
Avoid complaining about your everyday life, even if SHE brings it up. It makes you look somewhat weak, like a man who can't handle things. Leave all the complaining to the WOMEN. If she asked you about how your day was at work, don't go babbling about how rough it's been or how much you dislike your boss or whomever. Believe me, she's likely rolling her eyes at you on the other end of that phone.
He can mention the “problems” at work, life but a strong man will mention what he plan to do to solve the problem(e.g. change jobs, higher eduction,new skills). IMO
Salute OG. Please bookmark your timeline. You're not at the bottom of youtube influencers anymore. Time is money for your viewers who will appreciate it.
I don't date or have any plans for marriage. Sex is over for me too. I am 40 but I just don't want herpes, warts, hepatitis, or STI's.. At 40 It is over for me, I had enough sex from 15 - 32. I have free pron. There are great toys now. In Manhattan if my back pack is open a women will tap me to tell me my bag zipper is open. That's about it. My brother got married late in life had a kid after a fortune in IVF and an emergency abortion of twins. Horrible. My parents divorced when I was 18. Just don't have any Mojo or T maybe to do this. I had my T levels checked and at first the doctor said hey you are in good shape but your T levels. Then he did the blood again and nope they were fine and then he said we should do base line STI work up. OK?. Did that. Then he said I should do the STI blood work once year. Hell no. That was about 33 and I said forget it. I ain't getting married and divorced. I ain't doing this blood work every year. I am probably just not in sync with my generation. I avoid women as much as I can
Something that I think gets lost is that honestly there's no formula for this stuff...what works for some men won't necessarily work for others. Play up your strengths and yes confidence is key but there is a fine line between that and being cocky. Be the best you can be and know what you want and what you don't. Some of this is very simple and we overthink it all
I appreciate the content, but all these things about women and things like that is getting redundant, more fashion stuff less women related stuff. Nonetheless I like the fashion stuff .
Been Married for 43 yrs ..To the same Woman … He is correct fellows …. I learn some of these along the way .. i had 95 percent of these and learned the rest being with her !!! .. Quess what ??? She Still Complains about something !! Lol😅!! I am happy because i find out .. A MAN will never Make a WOMAN totally HAPPY !! .. i don’t care who or where she is From !! A MAN has to know who and what his purpose is in Life.. Quess what .. A good Woman who knows her purpose and know how to BE A Woman will stay with That MAN !! 72 yrs old… i must say .. i learn what this you man is saying at the ripe of age of 29 .. That ‘ s when i went to Church and MET “ my Good thing and Found Favor of THE LORD !!!!😅
Nah you gotta stop lying to the cuhs, cuh, women in a relationship dont like to 'share shared progress and growth' at all. They like men who already have those, case in point, they will never leave you for a less succesful man. Also, dudes, if your girl constantly pushing you to 'grow' in the ways SHE thinks you should grow, leave. She doesnt love you for who you ARE now so, why would you stay there?
1st marriage ended for these very reasons. Except it was with a sadistic narcissistic abuser who isolated me from all my friends and family and enjoyed crushing my spirit anytime I’ve tried to please him or make him happy. I’m glad I was able to get out of that marriage before it ended badly, for me and the kids.
This was a good one. I used to be the over apologetic guy back in my 20s, until a woman had to ask me, "What do you keep apologizing for?" I had to clear that up, now, I stand by what I stand by and I stand on what I stand on. Everyone will not be pleased or agree.
well said mr edwards
Great elevation on your part!
233,who cares if any one will be pleased or agree ??? When I was in the military ( served in the navy and the army,tho,not at the same time-LOL ) I always spoke my mind to officers and enlisted,was never disrespectful,but,some people don't like it tho.I called out folks who were BSing or harassing my people,they got the hammer.If it were female personnel being harassed,they immediately came to me,because I didn't mess around with any BS or non-sense.
@@kerry-j4mGood for you! At my age , I really don’t give a shit. I set boundaries with people, and if they get hurt crossing my boundaries, that’s on them! They were warned. I will say this, there is strength in clearly defined boundaries. People may not always like it (and that’s their problem, not mine) but they tend to respect you as a person who will not allow them to try to take advantage of you! I rarely have issues once I press my clearly defined boundaries and limits with people. Also, there is a lot of power in having confidence and the word “no”.
@@ElegantSavage72 I salute you for standing tall and being firm and not letting people run over you. Once you set boundaries and stand firm on them ( like you said ) people will respect you.
Confidence is a must
Must!
Weak men don't create well-defined boundaries, and don't stick to them. You teach other people how to treat you, based on what you accept from them.
Truth!
They violate your boundaries!
Thanks O.G. This one hits home.
My guy!
OG, how you sum this up in under 15 minutes!!! Your content gets better and better. You are a true inspiration. Been a subscriber since 2020!!!
Myself since birth,decided to be a loner all my life
I try my best to put every man on this channel, not just young men but every man, Jeff is incredible😂💪🏾
You're the best!
Self improvement for men is a priority if you want to have success
Indeed!
Confidence goes along way and standing on principles is strength
I agree 100%! Excellent content! My son is only 8 and I make sure he watches your (age appropriate) content. Thank you so much for all you do and for being a virtual mentor, coach and role model to so many 🖤
Awesome! Thank you!
One has to be weak to develop strength. Strength does not come from strength. Strength comes from weakness
Focus on improving your more conspicuous talents, you're deficiencies will follow in tow, and will improve in relationship to your strengths.
You want your 'driving' wheels to be the ones in front... taking charge, not the relatively weak or ineffectual capabilities... which we all have.
OG man I love that jacket, clean to the max. I agree with all of what you spoke on about a weak man.👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
@The Style O.G: Great video. You hit it on the head with these weak men traits. To be indecisive says you're afraid to make big decisions, and cant lead properly. Women look up to strength. Strength comes in many ways i.e decision making, ambitious, can handle bumps in life without panicking etc. Keep up the great work brotha!
Will do!
Good topic O.G. now I know for a fact that I’m not cocky, I’m just confident in the things that I do. I’ll make sure I’m opposite of weak men. Thanks again and salute 👍🏾
There's still a line between being cocky and confident. Cocky people are repulsive and contribute little to a team.
Salute!
One of the best ones of late, brother! Salute!
Great video as always. As a 44 year old guy I always tell young men to practice their social skills EVERYWHERE, not just with women, to build their confidence.
I honestly think it’s pathetic when a 25 year can’t even have a normal, simple conversation with a barista.
Facts most of this Rappers can't have normal conversation
These are all on point!! Thanks Jeff!!
No problem!
Concerned about what women find "weak" is argueably "weak".🤔
If this concern is of the contemplative sort rather than the neurotic sort, there's nothing weak about it: it's just applied evolutionary psychology.
Amen
.@@classicallpvault
Ignorant comment.....most young man don't have a father figure to reach him these Important things in life......
You sound likr a little beta bitch who lives on the internet. Stfu. Igornant ass comment trying to sound smart.
@@oneilfarquharson-ifearthel3253Caring what women want is foolishness.
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
Thanks Michael!
I always forward your post to my three sons, because there is NO way I can offer this advice any better! 💯❤️
I appreciate that
This list goes both ways. However, you're on point!
My relationship is ending now because I've ticked off just about every box. Not real clingy, but emotionally immature coupled with lack of communication. Oh man I really had never took a good look in the mirror. Thanks for holding that up for me.
You got this Billy!
This is 🔥. New sub.
And this is why i dont bother dating anymore..... you have to be all these things to women, when they themselves have even more negative traits.... Exhausting.
we don't do what about ism over here...
What Jeff said. Plus...ain't nobody trying to be an incel, my dude. Are they crazy? Absolutely. But also, are they fun? 💯!!!!!
Your statement, "[women] have even more negative traits.... Exhausting" Puts women in a box in your mind, and in reality has put your mind in a box, so that you can no longer see or attract the women who don't fit your poor idea of them.
@@thegreyoneedwards6296 I ain't no woman hater dude, let's make that clear...I get a lot of action for a man in his 50's...But I don't do relationships anymore.
^i can concur!
Bro, you hit on every aspect of a wk man traits. This was on point. Great job❤
I’m 44 years old male and have all the qualities listed in this video. Because of this, I decided to retire from women.
I had my first gf at 41 and was badly played and manipulated. When your weak, this is what will happen to you - taken advantage off.
It’s hard for a man to be a man than a woman to be a woman.
Being a man needs to be learnt when your young. You can easily make mistakes and be forgiven when your young but at my age you’ll be looked down upon for making dating mistakes.
I told my ex that I wasn’t good enough for her many times but she refused to let me go. When I ended it, she told me we were only in a situation ship. Didn’t know what that was.
She was an older Caribbean woman but never told me her real age and never met her friends or family.
No idea if I can comeback at 44. I have no job, no friends and no life
Being angry is unattractive. Being insecure is unattractive. Being a criminal is unattractive. Stalking is unattractive. Begging for conversation and attention is gross - if you about something somebody will recognize it
I was the passive kind and boy did I suffer.
Don't be passive.
Always a pleasure tuning into your channel my brother. You be having necessary content to be learned.
I appreciate that!
The Style OG Jeff is Mad underrated!
Appreciated !
You giving these women too much credit because no one can live up to a woman standard because they will change overnight
For your next video can you make one based on advice you would give up other men or a nephew or son on how to navigate life's ups and downs..? I could use that right about now... thank you sir 😞🙏🏾
Thanks for the idea!
From one OG to another. I love that jacket! Where can I go to get one similar??
Great video Jeff!!!
Powerful video Jeff. PEACE AND BLESSINGS OG.
Peace Al!
This one hits home 😢
Hope it helps!
This video TRULY speaks to me and defines me well!!! I need to work on those and these have exposed me as being a loner
I think the only thing about the indecisive thing that more so comes out when women have that “don’t tell me what to do” attitude when you’re simply trying to lead. The other stuff isn’t that hard to work on.
Great content.
Avoid complaining about your everyday life, even if SHE brings it up. It makes you look somewhat weak, like a man who can't handle things. Leave all the complaining to the WOMEN.
If she asked you about how your day was at work, don't go babbling about how rough it's been or how much you dislike your boss or whomever. Believe me, she's likely rolling her eyes at you on the other end of that phone.
She better not complain that her man didn't get the promotion that he was upset about 😢
What about a mans feelings?
He can mention the “problems” at work, life but a strong man will mention what he plan to do to solve the problem(e.g. change jobs, higher eduction,new skills). IMO
Thanks OG needed to hear this 💯 💪🏿❤️
💯
Great job!
100% correct. What's crazy is the traits you speak of are the EXACT kind of men lots of women chase after and end up having babies with 😂
Thank you as always OG🙏🏾🙏🏾
Salute OG. Please bookmark your timeline. You're not at the bottom of youtube influencers anymore. Time is money for your viewers who will appreciate it.
somehow my time isn't money as you ask me to provide more free labor..LMAO
Jeff OG, you are dead on point with everything 👌 you are saying what we call spitting game knowledge is power 👍🏾
Salute!
As always OG, you are spot on.
This is sooo true every thing you said .
What a great video!
One of your best videos, sir!
Thanks!
Dope cool great video man 🔥🔥💯
Thanks good content
I don't date or have any plans for marriage. Sex is over for me too. I am 40 but I just don't want herpes, warts, hepatitis, or STI's.. At 40 It is over for me, I had enough sex from 15 - 32. I have free pron. There are great toys now. In Manhattan if my back pack is open a women will tap me to tell me my bag zipper is open. That's about it. My brother got married late in life had a kid after a fortune in IVF and an emergency abortion of twins. Horrible. My parents divorced when I was 18. Just don't have any Mojo or T maybe to do this. I had my T levels checked and at first the doctor said hey you are in good shape but your T levels. Then he did the blood again and nope they were fine and then he said we should do base line STI work up. OK?. Did that. Then he said I should do the STI blood work once year. Hell no. That was about 33 and I said forget it. I ain't getting married and divorced. I ain't doing this blood work every year. I am probably just not in sync with my generation. I avoid women as much as I can
Awesome video. 🫡
Hey OG! Can you please leave a comment on your fall coats you are wearing during the post they are awesome!
Dope vid Og
Great content 👌
Thanks Kenneth!
I’ve definitely struggled with indecisiveness and being passive. I know it effected at least on of my pass relationships.
Keep working!
Indecisive?!?
First thing?!?
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yup!
Are u sure??
@@seabassmastermatt80 hmmm now that you put it that way...😂
Food and all it encompasses is far more important to women than us. We'll eat anything. Everything else we can be decisive on.
Something that I think gets lost is that honestly there's no formula for this stuff...what works for some men won't necessarily work for others. Play up your strengths and yes confidence is key but there is a fine line between that and being cocky. Be the best you can be and know what you want and what you don't. Some of this is very simple and we overthink it all
Beeing negative is always a bad thing. This is true for men and women.
Agreed!
All the way on point OG
Thanks!
10:55 conflict resolution skills is one too Og
🫡. Good Stuff as always, ✊🏾
True fellows !!
Sadly i have all of these traits. I try worked on them but i allways fall back. Been an insecure since I was a kid and cant seem to get over it.
Keep working!
Salute Mr Style OG
Salute!
Actually women like you to suggest places to eat so they can veto them all while saying anyplace is fine
I laughed way too hard at this 😂
Cheesecake Factory definitely a no go to the ladies. 😂
That's why that don't get veto power..
@@TheStyleOG lmao you know thats not true
@@noName-kn1lx This
This video was good.
OG what about being direct or straight to the point?
How do I make myself more attractive physically?
OG..OG! Where did you get that coat 🧥 from?! It’s 🔥🔥
Mr Porter house line
💯💯💯 Facts
Salute.
Salute!
I would add a man that's Too Agreeable.
Agreed!
I poscess good qualities because I make the effort to be better. The one thing I don't give much thought to is what women like. It's too subjective.
I appreciate the content, but all these things about women and things like that is getting redundant, more fashion stuff less women related stuff. Nonetheless I like the fashion stuff .
You got Sidney capri in the thumbnail nice
Been Married for 43 yrs ..To the same Woman … He is correct fellows …. I learn some of these along the way .. i had 95 percent of these and learned the rest being with her !!! .. Quess what ??? She Still Complains about something !! Lol😅!! I am happy because i find out .. A MAN will never Make a WOMAN totally HAPPY !! .. i don’t care who or where she is From !! A MAN has to know who and what his purpose is in Life.. Quess what .. A good Woman who knows her purpose and know how to BE A Woman will stay with That MAN !! 72 yrs old… i must say .. i learn what this you man is saying at the ripe of age of 29 .. That ‘ s when i went to Church and MET “ my Good thing and Found Favor of THE LORD !!!!😅
In my experience dont say sorry too much
All facts 💯 OG
Salute!
Wassssup mannn
Emotional Maturity is subjective because Women will not have a problem with a man who will Crash Out For Them.
my style mentor
Salute!
Might i add, not being too exigent, at least not when you’re 1st dealing with a woman Og
Weak men characteristic is: They are not subscribed to "The Style O.G." TH-cam chanel!
Tell em!
Also, men who are Go Getters and don't fear the unknowm.
Jacket game is too 🔥 🥵
Thanks!
That's the 1st thing that hit me! That jacket is cold.
Nah you gotta stop lying to the cuhs, cuh, women in a relationship dont like to 'share shared progress and growth' at all. They like men who already have those, case in point, they will never leave you for a less succesful man. Also, dudes, if your girl constantly pushing you to 'grow' in the ways SHE thinks you should grow, leave. She doesnt love you for who you ARE now so, why would you stay there?
so you think I should encourage a lack of ambition??
Salute
Tell them Babeeee!!!! 😜
Funniest thing about this is, everything you said women don't like in a man represents a everything about a woman.
good thing we don't do what about isms over here!
NOT SUBSCRIBING WITH THE O.G. .....REMAIN WEAK!
Easier said than done
1st marriage ended for these very reasons. Except it was with a sadistic narcissistic abuser who isolated me from all my friends and family and enjoyed crushing my spirit anytime I’ve tried to please him or make him happy. I’m glad I was able to get out of that marriage before it ended badly, for me and the kids.
That Jacket is mean!! 🫡
Thanks!
I think many of these tips apply to men and women. Be confident in yourself.
They do
Stay on your agenda & women will follow..
But couldn’t these be weak traits for women too though?
This video isn't about them, what about isms are for those who are deflecting..