Women also lead each other astray enabling a myopic view of what men want and empowering a narcissistic mindset based on solipsism. Not every fat chick is attractive or sexy but lacking in relationship prospects and not every attractive chick is relationship material
Actually, women exchange a lot of information and many times are more practical than men. Men are often too silent and do not exchange information. A familiar scene when I wait for the doctor - many women waiting for various doctors were exchanging information about healthy lifestyle, biology, the quality of doctors, various types of therapies, prices, how the health system works, and so on. Almost all the men were waiting silent like retards. Many times i saw a woman with the man, helping him to navigate how the health system works, asking questions for him, etc.
Women talk, just to talk. Listen to a group of women talking, just listen. Most of the time they aren't even listening to each other or talking about the same things.
I don't mean to sound harsh, but most of the modern women I've met today don't seem to show even the slightest bit of nurturing or compassion. Virtue-signaling is just narcissm, not empathy or compassion.
I agree....it's sad reality that job market values and promotes such cold, harsh and even aggressive women. Me, being compassionate and respectful, as well as open minded is seen as a child and bullied since school times (32 yo, so at workplace I'm also bullied)
Emotional intelligence = controlling your own emotions. Active listening is a male characteristic. Men listen to women telling the story of her day. Then the man tries to talk about his day, and his woman drifts off, falls asleep, or changes the subject.
When the man tries to talk about his day she deflects the conversation, derails, changes the subject, interrupts, or at best smugly sits there stubbornly and deliberately not listening.
I was in my thirties before I understood female nature. I’m baffled why nobody taught me these things from my youth. My life would have been very different if I only understood
@@disinformationstation2072they did actually. After I got redpilled a few years ago I was telling all this new found information to my dad and he laughed at me. He said "Everybody in my generation knows this stuff!" For the record he was born in '48 and is totally the man of the house. I think it was more a failure of our fathers to teach us these things properly. But they had a tidal wave of feminism in every form of media to fight against. We probably wouldn't have believed them.
@@disinformationstation2072 the internet has been largely responsible for revealing female behavior and it's largely to women's disadvantage because men are wakening up to it. Women will increasingly fail to get an easy, parasitical life. But they asked for equality didn't they? They had immense 'soft power' and advertised it enough when saying 'behind every famous man there's a woman's implying that she was the power behind the throne. Well what of that today now that they've revealed their manipulative ways and men avoiding them? I'm pretty sure there will still be powerful, rich and influential men without a scheming woman piggybacking on their back.
YES. I was at a bar the other night watching the Tyson fight. Of course most of us men around the bar were sentimental about Tyson and wanted to see him win. The female bartender said "I hope he dies." Obviously because of his sex history...no redemption I guess according to them.
@@Canadian_Eh_I That was an emotional response from that female bartender, and pretty evil. I'm pretty sure that most of the men watching that fight didn't say anything like that, because most men are logical. And i do believe that people who are emotional, can be easier to manipulate to do evil as opposed to logical thinking people. You see it with the post election reactions. They're literally saying that people who didn't vote their way should be poisioned. Emotional response check ✅ Evil check✅
Honestly; I completely believe men are more caring and loving than women are. We give up our life and freedom to try and make a women and kids happy. Women just take take take take take then say they aren’t happy. The man must….. give more
I'm so sad for you my heart breaks. you have to give up your freedom to be with a woman who constantly wants to cheat on you if anyone asks her and will do so if she had money and when you get older no matter how much time you spent together she'll happily replace you with a younger person. As you sit at home and raise the kids and even work outside, and bear with it all and she takes and takes and takes, she gets more desirable and rich as you lose your beauty and she constantly says you have done nothing for her and that being with you has made her lose her freedom even though you wasted your life and youth playing second fiddle to her.. oh wait I got the roles mixed up! As an irrational emotional woman I do that sometimes, I also get angry a lot and men fear me. Most women are even in jail just for failing to control themselves, like me! I hope one day I get better though and manage to be as caring as a man who leaves their aging spouse and kids to go have fun, and control my emotions well so I can not hurt others, and make others around me happy. Like men do. Pray for me brothers.
@@fictionaddiction4706 "She gets more desirable and rich" No, you completely don't understand how this works. Women rapidly lose value as they age meanwhile men become more attractive. Money adds nothing to a woman but everything to a man. And also, no, she doesn't have the ability to replace you with a younger man because no man wants an old woman.
I always tell my family that femininity is a luxury and masculinity is a necessity. All the feminine traits are only valued once all the masculine tasks are complete. Also psychologically women tend to be more agreeable, so they are less likely to be true to their word and more likely to be scheming to first survive and then thrive.
I agree, but my caveat is Male and Female traits are asynchronistic to a post modernist era , more so for female traits as women have been pushed more into roles that were more traditionally performed by males and find the roles very tough.
@@lindseyg9666 Women were not "pushed" into male roles, they chose them very often to shirk their own responsibilities because they find them demeaning.
My last ex When I was leaving I was telling her one of the locks on the garage door was broke. But I got another lock so she’s all good. She literally couldn’t stop screaming about how I was man-spraining. How it was broken And I calmly said no. I’m trying to show u I already fixed it. I had to call her sister from other side of the country to come and calm her down. One of her INSANE screaming rants she did while she was on a business meeting broadcasted on Skype. Blames me of course. Even tho all I did was walk by
My last ex When I was leaving I was telling her one of the locks on the garage door was broke. But I got another lock so she’s all good. She literally couldn’t stop screaming about how I was man-spraining. How it was broken And I calmly said no. I’m trying to show u I already fixed it. I had to call her sister from other side of the country to come and calm her down. One of her INSANE screaming rants she did while she was on a business meeting broadcasted on Skype. Blames me of course. Even tho all I did was walk by
Women do not and have never "loved" men, they only love what a man can do for them and for as long as they are able to do those things for them. The moment a man no longer fulfills those conditions, they will move onto the next man or simp who will.
When women use the term "self care" they are talking about selfishness & narcissism. Just look at how many children are left fatherless by their "self care".
Most women of the west is totally ruined by the narcissism epidemic and have absolutely 0 empathy (they only pretend to have empathy because that is expected of women). ++65
From my experience, modern women's positive traits are based on the potential for a positive outcome for themselves. If there is no upside, their positive traits are mostly lacking.
Their whole reason in life is to gain resources they did not earn. When a woman sees a man has nothing more to offer her she cuts and runs, While a man will see a woman who is lacking and steps in to help her live a better life hoping she will see benefit in him.
@@elonever.2.071 Positive outcome is not totally resource based. It can also be based on the attagirl social validation. That's why they will show some positive traits towards Chad. Even if Chad provides no resources, she gains social standing points; making her feel good about herself that she was able to get the interest from a desirable man.
@@HateDietPepsi quote: "@elonever.2.071 Positive outcome is not totally resource based. It can also be based on the attagirl social validation. That's why they will show some positive traits towards Chad. Even if Chad provides no resources, she gains social standing points; making her feel good about herself that she was able to get the interest from a desirable man." Response: Agreed, Chad has value through confirmation bias, he may seem desirable due to providing nothing more than infamy and status, you see this when women talk about their prison boo bad boys, gush over mass murderers, and serial killers. I remember the first time I heard about this was Richard Ramirez how women of all walks of life including teachers, nurses, doctors, and lawyers were sending their soiled panties, letters, and reloading his commissary at the rate of 300-500 things per day (they didn't say how much money he was getting but it was implied he lived well in jail). Even Charles Manson got married and the girl had to go through a lot of hoops to meet up and do this, sick sick world.
6:07 im going to throw you a bone here john. When men are being logical, women call that misogynistic because when we are logical we can see through their lies.
So true. If you had a graph of all your peak stress points in life nearly every one would be caused by a woman. Other than holding down a job, life isn't all that tough.
@@tedwilson1477 the most amount of nonsense involving customer service was indeed women about 95% of the time, you can only imagine my sentiment towards those 5% men 🤣
When a woman says, "A penny for your thoughts," don't get sucked into feigned intimacy. All she wants is to readjust her mortar fire. Women respect a man of mystery.
In most cases it's because she gets resources in the form of welfare or child support so the kid has to appear cared for in western societies she can flaunt the child to show others how she's "strong" but provides "caring" for her child, when we know good and well it's welfare and child support. In societies where women get neither if they were single they'll kill the child and play off like they never had a kid to line up a husband, this is pretty common in third world countries without social safety nets. I've said this for years but custody should automatically go to the woman for the first two years if she breast feeds otherwise the kid should always go to the father. We see the damage of single mothers, but statistically single fathers raise kids as well as a two parent household showing how little women really do contribute after birthing the child.
I doubt it, I've seen tonnes of women outside completely ignore their offspring. I've been to plenty of households where women are irritated by crying babies while the fathers take care of the child.
I think teenage girls are preferable to women in their 20s and 30s, because most of them can at least still pair bond and have some sense of romance. The only girls I ever felt any love from were when I was a teenager dating girls that were like 15 and 16, but once I became an adult and went to university, all the women I met from then on were totally incapable of giving love. By their 20s, most modern Western women have had too many sex partners to be able to pair bond anymore. Plus, teenage girls actually enjoy sex as an act in and of itself, and like to make emotional connections before having sex. Girls in their 20s and older just use sex as a bargaining chip to get access to status and resources, it's all transactional. And teenage girls aren't so picky, they don't have insanely high standards, and they can actually choose a guy to be with based on nothing but his appearance and personality, without money being a major factor. From their 20s on, tons of women become obsessed with wealth and status. The idea of romantic love and sticking together through thick and thin appeals to the romantic idealism of teenage girls, who basically just have the natural tendency of women that haven't been socially engineered to be heartless and promiscuous like modern adult women. Social media and dating sites and universities and most of all feminism have made women totally unnatural and unpleasant on a scale that is historically unprecedented. Never before have women had such poor character. They have been coddled and spoiled beyond belief. Overcoming adversity is necessary for creating a decent character. And we just don't hold women to any standards anymore.
No, it's not semi-comedy at all and you know it. AI is not infected with the woke mind virus and anti male, pro woman propaganda that has not been challenged for a century or more. It can observe. Women rarely try to solve problems. They create drama and influence emotions to manipulate men into doing things for the pretty little dears.
Great video - If you consider everyone as just people, then the cognitive dissonance starts, e.g. the advantages their bestowed for no valid reasons, etc.
Glad someone gets it. We are acoutrements. Some have what they all want most do not. And all can be discarded depending on feelings, situations, needs. Past deeds have no weight in the balance. You and everything you have done will become void and she can convince herself something never was if it fits the new chapter of her life. The past does not exist and they work damn hard to make us see things that way or hide it from us.
@@MacAucha-kiltedbikerReptilian Oh no. Men have their flaws also. The difference is most of them still have reason and are accountable...often doubly so.
"Don't be sad, everybody dies" Well I think that just sums it all up. In my 61 years I've heard variations of this in all intense situations I've been in when a woman was around. Helped out at 4 horrible car accidents, 1 shooting, 2 stabbings and 2 house fires in my life. I held a guy when I was 19 as he died in one of those wrecks covered in blood not wanting to die. Some woman standing there was yelling "We need to do something" as she was running around like a chicken with her head cut off totally panicking. WE did try, but couldn't do anything he was just too crushed and broken. The paramedics told me after the fact they were shocked he even lived 1 minute not the 15 or so that he did after the wreck. It made me feel better that they said I did the right things that kept him alive that long. Still think about this at least once a week or so even all these years later. I can't remember what was exactly said, but it was woman at each spouting off some sort of unhelpful nonsense at each scene. Not all, but most women bring panic and screaming in these situations. If I am ever in a tuff spot I want a man coming to rescue me not a woman. Helpful platitudes don't save lives. I don't hate women they just shouldn't be in some situations.
I can only imagine how it must feel to hold someone as they die. You are a very compassionate guy to be there for him in his final moments, especially considering all the pain he must have been in
Once I was in a bar which my friend worked in, she invited us after hours to have private party. One of the guy friends which also worked there was missing for some time, I went looking for him, he cut his arms open and was bleeding in storage room with his "sorry" written on the floor with his blood. It was first time for me and I was suprised how I was able to be calm cool and collected whole time. I strangled his hands with towels and held his hands above his head as I was speaking with paramedic on phone because the women there was totally useless, screaming and running around like scared chickens. What shattered me was when we took him out of hospital few days later with that female they were sitting in back of my car, we were going in my apartment she whispered him that they should get away from useless human (me) and get somewhere private. This happend 10 years ago, didnt recovered yet, but saved other 2 ppl from death or beating, but lost all those friends I saved or helped. I guess God wants me to know, its nothing special and its my duty to save those lifes and protect them and anyone would do it.
With my experience, and knowledge of women, I can say with confidence that women can moderate their love for others, turning it on, or off at will, as well as their empathy.
That’s not true. Why do are men in the comments section generalizing. It’s different for all women. Should I say all men are abusers just because one is?
@@fastinradfordable: I concur. unlike men, women are need-driven, not love-driven. Whoever loves the least in the relationship controls the relationship, and 95% of the time it's the woman who wins, because she is an emotional self regulator. Men have no control over their love. They're stuck on the on position, until she turns him off.
As a boy raised by the Greatest Generation, I never got coddled. If I failed I was told to work harder or life will eat me alive. Over drinks, I asked my father why he never had an encouraging word for me growing up. He said, “If you weren’t doing anything wrong there was no need to say anything”
@@Tay.Rae773 Right. Boomers talk about how great/tough they are because they were raised by WWII generation. Yet they raised a generation of simps. Thanks for nothing boomers!
@@GS-zc4sk AI we have today is not really actual AI... It is a large language model which makes it an advanced chatbot, sometimes it can act like it is intelligent but all it does it take text humans have made and give you a reply that statistically is what majority of people say about the matter. Sometimes the AI is horribly horribly wrong... Like one time it claimed that water ice melt at -38c because it had been fed climate hysteria data.
I love and admire the women in my life, but I’ve noted many if not most of them seem to continually run in a circular state of perpetual crisis. I think the coddling and pedastalization (if that’s even a word), has stunted their ability to know themselves. Most of them seem to be complete strangers to themselves. They are constantly told if things don’t break their way, to look outward at what the people around you have done wrong, because as a woman you couldn’t possibly hold any accountability for the outcome or your own circumstances. They seem to run the same experiments, make the same decisions, over and over again and are constantly surprised at the results. I can so accurately predict what the women around me will do and yet can’t begin to grasp their motives. We’re told this is because women are “complicated” and “operating on a higher emotional plane” than men, but I’ve started to believe that they don’t understand their motives either. No one in society ever asks them to look inward. I think their ability to introspect has been deprived by a society more interested in pacifying them than teaching them how to look inward and grow. If every woman is “perfect just the way she is” then surely there is no room for improvement, right? Nothing left to learn? The inverse is true for men in society today. If they are struggling or failing or unhappy, they are told ONLY to look inward and to figure out what is wrong with them. This leads to men shutting down, because not every problem you have is because something is wrong with YOU. Sometimes you’re in the wrong context, the wrong community, the wrong job, the wrong relationship, etc. Most men I know seem to want most of all a stable and loving relationship with someone they can trust and depend on and build a life with. However, many are too damaged to make that happen in their current state. Most women I know SAY they want the same things, but for some bizarre reason, many of them act almost pathologically averse to any option that would actually provide those things.
Profound and resonates with my 64y of experience with women. I’ve completely given up on women, the same pattern I’ve seen time and time again is no coincidence, they never ever have any mental peace and quiet, that brain is constantly, feverishly busy with a million random thoughts, fears, frustrations, what have you, this must be exhausting. If you take out the sexual aspect there’s not much left to keep a man interested is there ?
John ,You don't sound like you hate on women. Quite the contrary, you understand female nature. Our society calls that and subsequently acting upon that understanding, misogyny. It's not. Thanks. Stay single lads.
It’s because women can’t separate the two. If they feel a guy is inferior, weaker or lower in some aspect to them they despise him. Men can understand how weak women are, irrational, and tons of other traits that aren’t perfect and not have an emotion associated with it. We don’t hate children for acting like children.
It's because they need to sell themselves, and I don't mean this in a sexual way. They need social acceptance to survive while bringing little valuable skills to the table. So they, to put it mildly, exaggerate and sweettalk, they're better at it when believing in themselves and, as you can probably guess, they get angry when you expose it. This is the reason they've been cuddled for millenia.
@@khaledhussain3214 It is an act for women. If they desire your resources they can be very convincing, Once they have those resources they can be brutal.
@@ChondroMani too was annoyed by this comment saying the acronym without saying what it means. Then i was like why am i mad when i have 99% of all human knowledge in my pocket and all i have to do is tap on the screen a few times to learn literally anything i want. Sometimes i disappoint myself.
When I was very young, I used to “fight” with my younger sister. All the adults used to tell me, “Go easy! You don’t know your own strength!”. I’m 43 now, and I definitely know my own strength. My sister NEVER got the same advice.
Although AI seems interesting, we don't need it to inform us about female nature. A wise man learns from other's mistakes, a smart man learns from their own mistakes, and a fool keeps making the same mistake.
@@kwk111 No. You don't need to swap the wize and smart. Because wise people become wiser through jusst observing others and their experiences, where as just a smart guy will dive into action first with no wisdom and gain wisdom as he goes. Unfortunately, there are people that are just naturally born wiser than the mass. This difference can be seen even from kindergarten.
Yeah, I am done playing the fool. It took the second attempt for the same results to get it through my head. Vows to them are situational, optional. A Vow to them is merely a signed and stated current preference, that's all. If and when a man does that, he's a dirt-bag. When a Woman does it, she is soaking up all of the sympathetic support, validating reassurances and help that she can get and usually does. Little, if any of these things are extended to the Man. Usually none. They're expected to "suck it up and move on, you man you. Take care of yourself!" That's right. Take care of yourselves, men. You have to. It all starts there. Besides, you would have to in order to be in any position to help anyone else. Then, only help those who are helping themselves, whose actions are congruent with their statements. If they lept to you in order to be in a better position than their current situation, they will do so again. Or, they think that they can do better going off on their own, but they still need your support until that happens, of course.
@@Eric-dd8bk Exactly. Just because someone has experience doesn't mean they are wise. There are many men who have been married and divorced many times. Sure, they have experience, but they do not have wisdom. A wise man, on the other hand, observes the other man's self-induced suffering and learns from that.
If I was in a foxhole with someone who didn’t have some self care like hygiene that’s available? One upping is more of a male trait. Women want fantasy and to be safe. Most have the maternal instinct. Men usually have to learn what their purpose/legacy is and how to achieve it via sacrifice. Hormones. Fear, ego. All affect us and the survival instinct is subconscious. Every day is combat taking a walk in the park 😂
@@Hope_Boat True emotional intelligence is understanding what triggers you and what gets you excited and why they do this. Then recognizing these traits in those you interact with.
The concept of emotional intelligence is nothing more then stoicism and what they describe as emotional intelligence for women is nothing more then being driven by your emotions 24/7. So it's obvious if you will be emotional all the time. You will understand other emotions with them telling them it's called experience I think but there is no benifit to it because humans have language to share problem and being driven by emotions. lead you to dipression
"Intelligence" from what I get from IQ tests is pattern recognition. Emotional intelligence, if I understand it, is being able to tune into someone based on body English or vocal expression. Women think they are better at manipulating others based on their emotional intelligence. Men on the other hand, I think, recognize the emotional state of others, but rather than exploit it, try to either redirect it, or ignore it. This Stoicism is misunderstood as a lack of recognition rather than a different approach to reacting to a situation. I don't think women would appreciate men reacting to a crisis like women do, but are eager to claim a superior emotional intelligence to men while looking to them for a source of stability.
@@johnweir3168There is no such thing as EQ. Intelligence came in one form which is G loading. If you do better then in one you will do better in all. EQ is not a thing because there is only one intelligence used in different ways
They are hormonal and breeders. Relying on female reproduction instincts. Now, they identify themselves with masculine traits. It's a no-win situation long term, so don't get married.
@@JariSatta Right, the point is understanding them, not yourself. Personally speaking, if you wouldn't die for someone I don't consider you loving them. And honestly, I wouldn't die for someone who'd cheat on me for $100.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned - This is the value of emotion that a woman brings. I find that a lot of modern women have no forgiveness or compromise. Its there way or no way. After you cross their emotional barrier it is a fight to the end. No compromise, no forgivness.
It's interesting how often he says "If I'm wrong let me know" or something like that, showing empathy and humility... When was the last time anyone saw a woman online or in the media show an attitude that even approaches that mentality?
They show empathy by speaking in a way that allows the other feel validated by the emotions being felt. They show humility by showcasing and underestimating their current social standing versus others cause it also validates others emotion from showing that you care about how they may feel threatened by self empowering immediately.
"Women have no sympathy and my experience of women is almost as large as Europe. In having sympathy, women crave being loved, not for loving. They scream out at you for sympathy all day long, they are incapable of giving any in return, for they cannot remember your affairs long enough to do so. They cannot state a fact accurately to another, nor can that other attend to it accurately enough for it to become information." --- Florence Nightingale, 1861
Being good is something you have to learn. But they taught girls that they just are good. In general we have been taught that passivity and niceness is good.
Yes we have been programmed to be that way. The good thing about programming is that it can be updated anytime you want. Remember women want men that do not want them so act accordingly. Always have options even if that means walking away.
You are absolutely spot on in regards to us fooling ourselves. We play along with these things either because we're scared of the consequences of not doing so, or because we feel kind of bad for them like we might feel bad for someone with a disability. Or both. There's a reason they're often referred to as 'perpetual children' you know.
Women are more emotional, not more emotionally intelligent. It is normal for women to be frustrated, for instance, and not even know why, how is that being emotionally intelligent? Or when they have trouble accurately remembering things based on the current emotion they’re experiencing?
Emotional intelligence is a term women have molded into meaning the man acknowledges and justifies any sort of bat sh*t crazy behaviour they commit as reasonable and beyond question so she can retain her perfect self image.
I’ve been pointing out for years that American men tend to treat women like these magical, mythical figures and that men are inherently the opposite and are lucky for the opportunity to be graciously redeemed by them. It’s absolutely absurd. They’re humans with all the flaws of being humans, not mythical magical beings.
Being on the earth for awhile we see things more clearly, the rose colored glasses come off. I used too hate to hear this saying. It is what it is. But that's true.
Good post. Women understand women…and they don’t like them. Accountability in women is a rare thing. To point out deficits in a woman is to be toxic, controlling, insecure ,etc…and part of the patriarchy. Women say they want simps…but they don’t. And somehow problems are always somebody else’s fault.
I simply treat them how they should be treated I mean their brain stops developing in their teenage years they can't help that they're criminally insane 😂
And they can't stand it when they get treated the same way (by those 1% guys) as they treat other regular guys. Don't get me wrong they love the challenge but complain about getting treated the exact same way they treat dudes they don't care for.
@Brent-z2s well in your research what does a brown sparrow do or have a particular evolutionary or reproductive strategy or? U said brown sparrow not magpie or seagull hahaha
@@williambowes-xt2sm several things they have a flying test then they keep around simps and betas as a possible replacement they have extra pairing copulation with other males away from the nest and about 20 percent of the offspring won't be his. They don't have divorce courts so they can't steal the nest.
John, you have been a awake- up for myself. 61 and single since 50. Survived 30yrs with a Narcissist. Had two heart attacks in 2019 and suffered from a chronic pain. I went down the opiate route for yrs. Since I found the channel. I have started the detox at home. Monitoring my bp and using another drug to ease me off the opiates. My goal is only to take my heart meds and nothing else. Got good healthy food today and waiting till I`m better with my health to get back outside. I was a big walker. I remember, when I got the boot in Newfoundland. I had to walk the last 15 miles to catch a plane back to Toronto. So Thanks again.
You know what’s crazy; I realized my xwife was a source of chronic pain; and constantly getting sick. She was such a drag on my life; after leaving and completely shutting off her side. I’ve started to heal in many ways.
I’m 54 years old and retired military. My life changed significantly when I discovered MBTI personality types and understood who I’m compatible with. Not everyone is the same and not everyone will value you the same. I was divorced after 20 years with a woman I wasn’t compatible with. I’m an INTJ man dating an ENTP woman. We’re considered a golden pair and it absolutely lives up to the hype. I recommend taking a personality test and figure out who you’re compatible with. The rabbit hole goes very deep on this. Good luck out there.
Ni/Te and Ne/Ti come at reality from extreme opposites - I'd say it may "work" in the short-term from a novelty aspect but at some point, it is just living in completely different worlds. Completely different values. But then, time will tell. Also if we are using the same math (basic shadow type) then INFJ (Ni/Fe) would need ENFP (Ne/Fi) as a "golden pair" by flipping the orientation of the first two functions.
@Yes, I agree we appear to be opposites. Our energy is very different and outlook on things is different but we complemented each other very well and have great understanding of each other. It’s really is like hanging out with my best friend.
You hit on something I've been saying for years... women are simply children in adult bodies. What is most frustrating as a man is watching the amount of coddling women get for making poor life decisions, and how much undeserved support they get for accomplishing basic life tasks. So yeah, it's like dealing with a child, you always have to make sure she feels important even if the things she is contributing are not.
@@CaptoCapri ---- exactly. A woman brags about having a job, paying her bills, doing the dishes, doing the laundry, cooking, cleaning, getting the car washed and oil changed, as if these are some world changing achievements and she is super human at age 45 because she's forced to do those thing since she divorced her husband two years ago. Men have been doing all that and more since we were 16 years old and younger
You instill all discipline in children from ages 18 to 24 months. The entire exercise is about teaching them the word "no". Baby girls tend to react emotionally and cry, and the lesson is over until they calm down. You can not reason with a crying baby girl, so you have to speak softly and emotionally to them. Baby boys tend to get angry, but you can use words to reason with them. In today's society, too many kids don't hear the word "no" and they are out of control as they enter their terrible 2's. This is how you get kids 2 years old and older drawing on the walls with their own sharts.
I've been having trouble with my wife for years. I've been working a lot on my emotions, thoughts and perceptions. It's led me to a place where I'm working on regaining some independence and autonomy. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR VIDEOS. They have really been helping me feel some groundedness.
I am glad they are helping you get through this rough patch. Relationships are the master class. You will get through this and you will be better no matter how it turns out. That I can guarantee!
Isn't it funny that when most of you men are experiencing issues with your women, YOU are the ones who have the problem that needs to be resolved ? Why isn't SHE working on herself? Why do YOU have to change? Psh. Please. You men are weak
I think the mythos around women used to be true because of the constraints that existed, the mythos of empathy etc. was as much clearly stating expectations of behavior. Those constraints have been removed, not true nature is allowed to emerged instead of being molded. It is a dark and bleak time. With the past constraints removed we now need a new approach to constrain the deeply rooted dark manipulative nature that has been revealed. We need to tell the truth and dismantle the mythos
@@kevindowell6003 Having strong boundaries is a huge factor in this endeavor. Never chase women and work on doing what makes you happy. You have to learn to battle like with like meaning all interactions with women have to be transactional. Practice saying "What's in it for me" and wait for an answer that you like not just can live with. If you are not happy with a woman 95% of the time move on. This will help you get rid of the fixer and provider mindset. The biggest transformation that you can make for yourself is to learn to say no and walk away. If she really likes you she will join your agenda if she doesn't she is trying to play you. Make a game out of knowing you will have to engage 100 women to find one that may have the qualities for a relationship with you. Always remember she may have those qualities today and lose them tomorrow so under no circumstances ever commit to them.
Men create the context in which women's contributions become valuable. You're conflating wartime with peacetime, imo. The real issue is that people forget what wartime is like, and that peacetime requires upkeep. So you get entitlement and terms like "emotional intelligence." "
My wife says I can’t control my emotions, which is erroneous. She expects me to completely suppress my emotions all together is what she actually wants me to do and I refuse to do that. In her eyes I cannot get upset about anything, ever. She literally locks herself in our walk in closet when I’m simply trying to talk to her about something.
She’s acting like a child and she knows it. Stop reacting at all good or bad. Just be indifferent and don’t try to point a finger at her. It will drive her Nuts. Just work on improving yourself without blame and keep the peace. She’s either gonna bend or break. Then it’s up to you. Hope you’ve war gamed an exit plan. “ just in case”.
Hi John, Great video, information, and analysis! I'm a high functioning autistic and don't have the ability to communicate non-verbally, including no ability to send or receive non-verbal communication via tone-of-voice or facial expressions. Feminists expect men to be "emotionally intelligent," which means men "get the message" by reading the unspoken expressions of emotion by women. At 69-years-old, I've experienced and increasing societal hostility in direct relation in increased influence of feminism. In particular, women tend to engage in "ferret out, expose, and challenge deep-seated bigotry" activism everywhere they go, including academic and workplace settings. Much of their activism is non-verbal, so people like me can't participate. Due to confirmation bias, the empty spaces of my autism are filled with the presumptions of feminism. That is true of anyone like me. We are seeing a huge surge in heterosexual, cissexual, white males being diagnosed as autistic and in need of "intervention." In reality, feminism and academia have created an environment of explicit focused hostility toward heterosexual, cissexual, white males, which is an implicit exploitation of disability and communication differences. Thus, feminist and academic activism has pushed some of us out full functionality into social disability. The feminist and academic problematization of heterosexual, cissexual, white males have pushed people like me from being a functional normal variant of human into something abominable and intolerable. From the feminist and academic perspectives, how can an autistic, heterosexual, cissexual, white male appropriately show non-verbal awareness, sensitivity, and humility? And, what about a blind, heterosexual, cissexual, white male? What about a deaf, heterosexual, cissexual, white male? In effect, the characteristics of disabilities are being exploited as "confirmations and deep-seated bigotry." I'm a retired software engineer. I retired early, due to increase workplace hostility and social exploitation of my disability. A young person like me, may never have a functional career.
As I watch this enthralling video, it resurrects the painful memories of my recent breakup-a relationship of three years that ended just two months ago. The Man who meant everything to me decided to leave, plunging me into a vortex of heartache. Despite my desperate attempts to reconcile, I find myself trapped in a cycle of frustration and longing, unable to envision a life without him. Despite my efforts to move forward , I find solace in expressing my lingering affection for him here.
Letting go of someone you love deeply presents a formidable challenge. I faced a comparable ordeal when my 6 year relationship ended. Refusing to succumb to despair, I relentlessly pursued avenues to reconcile with him. Ultimately, I sought solace and guidance from a spiritual counselor, whose intervention proved instrumental in restoring our connection.
I always prefer to talk to my father over my sisters and mother. My father is straight forward and logical when it comes to my problems and isn’t afraid to make me reflect on myself even if it’s negative. My mother and sisters literally just lie to me and try to make me feel better but it angers me more knowing the truth of a situation and having them lie to me. I don’t care to feel good if it’s not based off logic and facts. It’s just a lie.
This is the glory of the internet. It enables thoughts like this to be expressed. Could you imagine this content on PBS? Well, 20 years ago, PBS / NPR were as close as we could get to a deep discussion on this topic.
You’re not wrong about society propping women up to seem more important than they actually are. However, the real role women serve is to inspire men to be their best selves, bearing children and helping to raise them, and lastly to help foster a social networking in their community. TLDR. Men do stuff and women are the inspiration for men to do stuff.
There is a book called "the myth of male power" i think it will be interesting to hear what u gonna say after u reed it, even though there is a small chance of u notice this comment, i really admire u and i learn a lot from u
Also a good read. 'The Predatory Female' by Lawrence Shannon & 'The Manipulated Man' by Esther Villar (yes, written by woman, but fully and brutally exposing women's true nature). Both are great quick reads and can be found as free downloads.
you dont need AI to figure out that female empathy and emotional intelligence are highly contextual, depending on their mood, who they're dealing with and what they get can get out of it. there is no set of principles or morals that makes these qualities consistent. few women are truly defined by their caring, empathy and understanding.
Mr. Griffin thank you again . I was kind of over these type of programs as my life is going very well however your angle is interesting. I would like to take woman serious and provide and protect ,love them however I just can't unsee the truth.
I also see a dual perception. When a woman stands up for herself against a man, it is praised by society. When a man does that in reverse, it is seen as bullying. In todays society women have a lot better chances for saying whatever they want to say without recriminations. However, most women will be still shy to say that, and they generally get bad treatment in many areas, so I do not think things are out of balance. Yet, on the whole, society encourages woman to be aggressive and punishes men badly for the same behavior.
Hi John. To simplify this, from a scientific, evolutionary, Darwinian perspective, just as hypergamy explains female desire, there is only one master concept we need to know to understand women's psychology: *neoteny*. Humans are more neotenous than other primates, and women are more neotenous than men. So, the trick is to take ideas from developmental psychology, such as Piaget's and Elkind's ideas about children and young adults, and apply them to the fairer sex. Relevant concepts to Google here include "imaginary audience," "personal fable," and "apparent hypocrisy." There are also higher levels of narcissism (in the emotional sense as an inability to process shame), which is correlated with low conscientiousness, magical thinking, higher levels of envy, etc., along with higher levels of disassociation, which is a reality-removing mechanism, like lying until it becomes the truth, and solipsism, which takes only the contents of one's own mind as meaningful. If you've ever made the mistake of arguing with women, this should sound familiar.
100%. People are still really asleep to this, but it will happen. The funny thing is I don't think AI / robots will be a substitute to women for men, since they won't have any social status or money to steal. Which is why in the future there will be a battle between men who like AI/robots and women who want them banned. In fact I have already heard women be disgruntled by the idea, saying it's sexist etc.
@@larion2336 Yea and those same feemales that are complaing ARE plugging toys into a wall socket and putting batteries into their seggs toyz. If a man finds a substitute the same ones I'm positive would shame him,.
Free internet porn and video games ,along with A.I. GF's has already replaced dating for many men. The amount of single w-m-n today that are ignored or at best pumped and dumped is crazy.
Women don’t seem to be very loving, at least in this world, at this time. But the thing is, love is the strongest, most important force in all of creation. Men are still capable of love. And they are absolutely craving it. And if men can’t find it in this world, then they’ll either create it, or find it in the next world. They’ll find it, one way or another. The idea of a robot girlfriend used to be a joke. It’s not. Love is something you can’t kill, because it’s an idea. It’s a dream. People always talk about “Disney movie happy ever after endings”. Walt Disney was an artist, a visionary, and above all, a dreamer. The artists who designed Disney films are actually dreaming up worlds in which women are genuinely empathetic, like in the movie Beauty and the Beast. It’s a movie about a woman who falls in love with a monster, which cures his curse. People can only dream that women were like that. In a way, men have already replaced the women in this world with the women in their dreams.
John, you are my new favorite creator in this space. Much of the value AI gave women are associated to the Erin Brockovich (sp?) storyline. Where it is the huge amount of empathy was required to fight that battle. Which I believe when women do act for others in the way those stories portray women is a great model for modern women. Unfortunately, I think there is a little bit of hidden darkness in most of those type of stories. I feel connected to the pain you expose in these videos. It is good you have your pets, the forced solitude is deafening at times. I applaud your courage, even though I do not approach the "why do they do this?" question from the same angle as you. I've decided to look at them as people that do not look at the world as I do. I create a filter in my mind when I want to behave in a particular way for a long term goal. Woman seem to use the same sort of filter, but it is set to how do I feel this event, person or item affects my life. I believe this "I feel" behavior is why they cannot engage in a general discussion about the state of womanhood without also expressing anecdotal stories related to how the discussion makes them feel. They are truly broken here in the west. I believe that if we tied a woman's right to vote to something similar to men going to war, then they may understand the meaning of consequences of their choices. Not positive how to change this craziness.,
All the facts of actual reality show women are not emotionally intelligent (typically). Most are an emotional mess. They flit from one emotion to the next in rapid succession. Like a child.
In short, narsisism... Most women of the west is totally ruined by the narcissism epidemic and have absolutely 0 empathy (they only pretend to have empathy because that is expected of women).
75 now, in Crazy Coastal Cslifornia for my whole life . Thank you , sir, for your articulate observations . Four kids and just one divorce ( I learned early ) . The kids were all under five , nice nee house in Capitola ( beach town ), newer Volvo , dream life . She tells me , “ I need to start my life over “ . At 34 yrs . Married 10 yrs . Good financially . No alcohol or drug problem . Result : 10 yrs in “ Family Destruction Court “ . Nutzo !!!
@@johnstephens101 Women show empathy for their own children... *if* they have children, *if* they want to be a good mother to their children, and *if* they wanted their children in the first place, *if* they aren't sick and tired of their children's tantrums... along with a great number of other ifs...
This is my 2c after 41 years of living and feedback from your video, which was excellent. You are not being a complete jerk about any of this, facts are facts. Often women get upset at how something was said in order to dodge the initial truthful claim to face any chance of understanding what was said, as they might have to change their behavior which is an uphill task for any person. If you follow evolution and evolutionary psychology, it all makes sense. Why are women smaller in size than men? Cause for millions of years, men had to fight and do hard work to meet goals for the group/ civilization to survive. Doing minor tasks may be work, but harder work resulted that men have done, evidence in our larger bodies through sexual dimorphism, that’s science fact. Resources are finite and pursuit of them can create cohesion of groups through trade or fighting over resources. We had to fight, that’s nature and we’re a part of it, like it or not. Women have a vagina to receive copulation and become pregnant to bear children, then they raise them which requires attention and safety in order for them to survive, because our offspring are very dependent (like most mammals) to make it to adulthood to do the same thing again and so on. Is that the meaning of life? Well, without it, we have no people, which means no society, no culture, no humans, so in turn yes, it’s vital. Having children is vital to society continuing, for any living organism. That’s the basis of all the context. That being said, you don’t need to of great intellect to raise a baby.Mammals do it all the time on instinct and teachings from their forbearers, they had no books or tutorials, not ever in millions of years of evolution, it as all natural. So in the lineage of women, only a certain level of intellectual skills are needed to raise a baby, just be honest. , and even less physical when the males are doing the leg work for all of history. We’re sexually dimorphic as a species and because we are complex thinkers, there in comes the whole “social manipulation” from women. Doing whatever they need to do to get what they want, without little repercussions because they are valuable in the sense that they reproduce and are sought after by men for reasons of sexual drive to reproduce and partnership. Don’t get upset, but by no means does a man need a woman. The standards of doing things are measured by the absolute best you can do them, pure meritocracy, so if men can create and build the world, then we don’t need any help, except by other men. Myself and countless other men are fine examples of those who are successful and needed no woman to be part of that success to happen. So now with the advent of social media, you see women affected most with the social disorders because they were always the most vulnerable, they and children always have been. The men don’t receive attention in failing society until it’s far too late, and the red flags for women will have been there for far too long already to be fixed, which is why we are where we are and western society is failing. Rotting from the inside because the feminine liberal mindset wanting to be free of responsibility has indoctrinated society and been etched into the government. That why you are seeing all that you are seeing with men leaving the dating scene and women complaining about lack of men. All their own doing because responsibility has always been on the backs of men. You see it start in the female peers as a child, they always got it easy on whatever it is they did. It’s like perpetual helplessness. The pity, the crying, the drama, the screaming, the gaslighting and all the other social taboos, they cultivate and perpetuate, with very little pushback, in fact it is encouraged. Forbid you say the unspoken truth, the frailness of their sensibilities will only make them cry out more. Oh blame it on the hormones! But men are humans and have hormones too but we don’t get to use that as an excuse ever, right? That’s equity, not equality… Remember, the squeaky wheel gets rhetorical grease and most of them squeak constantly. I believe men and women are both capable of the same emotions, but men have much more control and that’s the difference.
I’m shocked to learn that I was so blind to women’s way of being. Grew up with cluster b parents. Raised by a bulimic nasty step mother and went on to marry similar. My sisters were bpd. Grandmother as well. Its no wonder I married a bpd woman. The hardest lesson is losing my relationship with my kids because of their toxic mother and my reactive abuse. Imo we learn about this way too late in life after the damage is done. So do I hate women? No..but I do see so many with these cluster b qualities. I kick myself for not learning all of this sooner. I sure hope my two boys learn this lesson beforehand. Thx for listening ❤
8:59 "Self Care" is 'Vehicular/Vessel maintenance' on all levels brother.🛠 It includes knowing WHEN to do it, and HOW to seek the latest tech to effectively deploy it for Maximum results, and WHY you need to scan the OPERATING SYSTEM for toxic trash! SELF CARE is about the inner and outer aspects of: - Stress = [👉includes crappy learned beliefs and meanings _we blindly hang on to_ like I'm not enough/ not loved/ worthless - and ALL the emotional darkness that contributes to the displacement of INNER PEACE] - Crucial factors we should ALL focus _Self Care_ toward! - Exercise - Diet - Sleep - Meeting _perceived_ Social needs - Drug/Alcohol minimisation
The fact that female integrity is tied to their values, which change according to their desire, rather than a moral compass is telling. As for emotional intelligence, men are more empathetic, understanding, compassionate, and willing to offer solutions.
The differences between women and men are quite profound. I’ve run counselling groups for both women and men for 30,000 hours. I’d not even try to talk about the differences. Getting us to get along will determine how many of us survive the crisis point of the sixth great extinction event. As a hint all the deaths happen close to the end of these thing in waves. The question to ask is how can we best help each other?
Years ago i left a comment on a similar men vs women discussion that was full of the typical vague lies about women's contributions to this world and i simply asked everyone anywhere in the world to look around them and count things made by men vs by women. That simple exercise is an easy answer, the walls, ceiling, floor, tv, computers, cars, plumbing, lights, appliances, roads, towers, etc. Made by men, women cook, take of children, lately work in marketing, hr and now onlyfans. Beyond the tangible men also contribute much more to philosophy, science and a large portion of the arts, especially throughout history. Most of what we and now ai "knows" about women are lies both men and women tell themselves and my apologies to believers, but the reason the invisible and non existent god is the greatest of all is the same reason empty human vessels such as women are worshipped by society. Only a blank canvas allows for a beautiful picture, both women and god are blank canvases suitable for men's fantasies, but feminism has been spraying all over one for the past decades, science has been spraying over the other and its getting harder and harder to paint beautiful pictures.
"emotional intelligence" is an umbrella term we do NOT use anymore because of how misunderstood the term is. People still believe it's a form of intelligence next to IQ. It's not and never has been. Btw, if you want to refer to the ability to manage one's own emotions, then use the term "emotional maturity". No gender is more emotionally intelligent or mature than the other. That's just a fluke and one of the main reasons we're always forced to mention just how misunderstood those terms are.
Practicality.....men talk to each other to exchange information.....women talk to each other to feel good
And they will share private information just to feel good.
Women also lead each other astray enabling a myopic view of what men want and empowering a narcissistic mindset based on solipsism.
Not every fat chick is attractive or sexy but lacking in relationship prospects and not every attractive chick is relationship material
@reedmartin6614 the definition of love is the Generative principle.
= care...care is the driving force behind taking action...thus showing "love"
Actually, women exchange a lot of information and many times are more practical than men. Men are often too silent and do not exchange information.
A familiar scene when I wait for the doctor - many women waiting for various doctors were exchanging information about healthy lifestyle, biology, the quality of doctors, various types of therapies, prices, how the health system works, and so on.
Almost all the men were waiting silent like retards. Many times i saw a woman with the man, helping him to navigate how the health system works, asking questions for him, etc.
Women talk, just to talk. Listen to a group of women talking, just listen. Most of the time they aren't even listening to each other or talking about the same things.
I don't mean to sound harsh, but most of the modern women I've met today don't seem to show even the slightest bit of nurturing or compassion. Virtue-signaling is just narcissm, not empathy or compassion.
It's like everything the AI said about them was outsourced virtue signaling.
That's what women have become by taking God and Jesus out of the equation.
AI was describing women from 1970
They do to young kids (their own) and their pets
I agree....it's sad reality that job market values and promotes such cold, harsh and even aggressive women.
Me, being compassionate and respectful, as well as open minded is seen as a child and bullied since school times (32 yo, so at workplace I'm also bullied)
Emotional intelligence = controlling your own emotions.
Active listening is a male characteristic. Men listen to women telling the story of her day. Then the man tries to talk about his day, and his woman drifts off, falls asleep, or changes the subject.
too real of a comment.
Will never forget when wifee told me "I'm not interested in your angst". Classic.
emotional intelligence does not exist. emotional maturity is a skill.
@@speedypete4987 wow....
When the man tries to talk about his day she deflects the conversation, derails, changes the subject, interrupts, or at best smugly sits there stubbornly and deliberately not listening.
I was in my thirties before I understood female nature. I’m baffled why nobody taught me these things from my youth. My life would have been very different if I only understood
Because they didn't know either. We are blessed with the internet.
@@disinformationstation2072they did actually. After I got redpilled a few years ago I was telling all this new found information to my dad and he laughed at me. He said "Everybody in my generation knows this stuff!" For the record he was born in '48 and is totally the man of the house. I think it was more a failure of our fathers to teach us these things properly. But they had a tidal wave of feminism in every form of media to fight against. We probably wouldn't have believed them.
Why would those running western society want you to know female nature?
Same, it only took me being married to understand what women can be like
@@disinformationstation2072 the internet has been largely responsible for revealing female behavior and it's largely to women's disadvantage because men are wakening up to it. Women will increasingly fail to get an easy, parasitical life. But they asked for equality didn't they?
They had immense 'soft power' and advertised it enough when saying 'behind every famous man there's a woman's implying that she was the power behind the throne. Well what of that today now that they've revealed their manipulative ways and men avoiding them? I'm pretty sure there will still be powerful, rich and influential men without a scheming woman piggybacking on their back.
It’s been my experience that women have selective empathy. It’s either full out one way or the other.
YES. I was at a bar the other night watching the Tyson fight. Of course most of us men around the bar were sentimental about Tyson and wanted to see him win. The female bartender said "I hope he dies." Obviously because of his sex history...no redemption I guess according to them.
@@Canadian_Eh_I if it's no redemption according to them then their own past should also not be forgiven.
Indeed. This is why the news exploits this. Remember that picture of that dead child on the beach...
@@Canadian_Eh_I That was an emotional response from that female bartender, and pretty evil. I'm pretty sure that most of the men watching that fight didn't say anything like that, because most men are logical. And i do believe that people who are emotional, can be easier to manipulate to do evil as opposed to logical thinking people. You see it with the post election reactions. They're literally saying that people who didn't vote their way should be poisioned. Emotional response check ✅ Evil check✅
I agree. I've being saying for ages that most women have tunnel vision empathy.
Honestly; I completely believe men are more caring and loving than women are.
We give up our life and freedom to try and make a women and kids happy.
Women just take take take take take then say they aren’t happy. The man must….. give more
You are spot on with your analysis
I'm so sad for you my heart breaks. you have to give up your freedom to be with a woman who constantly wants to cheat on you if anyone asks her and will do so if she had money and when you get older no matter how much time you spent together she'll happily replace you with a younger person. As you sit at home and raise the kids and even work outside, and bear with it all and she takes and takes and takes, she gets more desirable and rich as you lose your beauty and she constantly says you have done nothing for her and that being with you has made her lose her freedom even though you wasted your life and youth playing second fiddle to her.. oh wait I got the roles mixed up!
As an irrational emotional woman I do that sometimes, I also get angry a lot and men fear me. Most women are even in jail just for failing to control themselves, like me!
I hope one day I get better though and manage to be as caring as a man who leaves their aging spouse and kids to go have fun, and control my emotions well so I can not hurt others, and make others around me happy. Like men do.
Pray for me brothers.
@@fictionaddiction4706 "She gets more desirable and rich" No, you completely don't understand how this works. Women rapidly lose value as they age meanwhile men become more attractive. Money adds nothing to a woman but everything to a man. And also, no, she doesn't have the ability to replace you with a younger man because no man wants an old woman.
Upvote 💯
@@thomashenshallhydraxis yes!
I always tell my family that femininity is a luxury and masculinity is a necessity. All the feminine traits are only valued once all the masculine tasks are complete. Also psychologically women tend to be more agreeable, so they are less likely to be true to their word and more likely to be scheming to first survive and then thrive.
Wants vs Needs
Power vs Responsibility
I agree, but my caveat is Male and Female traits are asynchronistic to a post modernist era , more so for female traits as women have been pushed more into roles that were more traditionally performed by males and find the roles very tough.
@@lindseyg9666
Women were not "pushed" into male roles, they chose them very often to shirk their own responsibilities because they find them demeaning.
@@lindseyg9666 Only women begged for feminism, you get what you deserve frankly.
Boom goes the dynamite!
Women select subconsciously to give you empathy if they like you. At the end of a relationship… omg women are shocking. Zero empathy
My last ex
When I was leaving I was telling her one of the locks on the garage door was broke.
But I got another lock so she’s all good.
She literally couldn’t stop screaming about how I was man-spraining.
How it was broken
And I calmly said no.
I’m trying to show u I already fixed it.
I had to call her sister from other side of the country to come and calm her down.
One of her INSANE screaming rants she did while she was on a business meeting broadcasted on Skype.
Blames me of course.
Even tho all I did was walk by
My last ex
When I was leaving I was telling her one of the locks on the garage door was broke.
But I got another lock so she’s all good.
She literally couldn’t stop screaming about how I was man-spraining.
How it was broken
And I calmly said no.
I’m trying to show u I already fixed it.
I had to call her sister from other side of the country to come and calm her down.
One of her INSANE screaming rants she did while she was on a business meeting broadcasted on Skype.
Blames me of course.
Even tho all I did was walk by
Women do not and have never "loved" men, they only love what a man can do for them and for as long as they are able to do those things for them. The moment a man no longer fulfills those conditions, they will move onto the next man or simp who will.
When women use the term "self care" they are talking about selfishness & narcissism. Just look at how many children are left fatherless by their "self care".
AKA "Me Time" Selfcenteredness.
Most women of the west is totally ruined by the narcissism epidemic and have absolutely 0 empathy (they only pretend to have empathy because that is expected of women).
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"Self Care" means they sit in a bubble bath surrounded by perfumed candles so they can pretend they are Cleopatra.
My ex wife put on makeup the other day , that was "self care"
Women’s definition of, self care in a relationship, is code for space, break or trial separation.
From my experience, modern women's positive traits are based on the potential for a positive outcome for themselves. If there is no upside, their positive traits are mostly lacking.
Their whole reason in life is to gain resources they did not earn. When a woman sees a man has nothing more to offer her she cuts and runs, While a man will see a woman who is lacking and steps in to help her live a better life hoping she will see benefit in him.
@@elonever.2.071 Positive outcome is not totally resource based. It can also be based on the attagirl social validation. That's why they will show some positive traits towards Chad. Even if Chad provides no resources, she gains social standing points; making her feel good about herself that she was able to get the interest from a desirable man.
This is a very profound insight. Thank you.
It’s literally proven by the explanation AI gave.
@@HateDietPepsi quote: "@elonever.2.071 Positive outcome is not totally resource based. It can also be based on the attagirl social validation. That's why they will show some positive traits towards Chad. Even if Chad provides no resources, she gains social standing points; making her feel good about herself that she was able to get the interest from a desirable man."
Response: Agreed, Chad has value through confirmation bias, he may seem desirable due to providing nothing more than infamy and status, you see this when women talk about their prison boo bad boys, gush over mass murderers, and serial killers. I remember the first time I heard about this was Richard Ramirez how women of all walks of life including teachers, nurses, doctors, and lawyers were sending their soiled panties, letters, and reloading his commissary at the rate of 300-500 things per day (they didn't say how much money he was getting but it was implied he lived well in jail). Even Charles Manson got married and the girl had to go through a lot of hoops to meet up and do this, sick sick world.
6:07 im going to throw you a bone here john. When men are being logical, women call that misogynistic because when we are logical we can see through their lies.
100% correct
Anything they disagree with or don't want to hear is misogyny I've said this to my mom's face.
It cannot be coincidence that the most challenging times in my life were all down to a woman's needs and manipulations.
Bingo. Same here.
Every time I had a hard time working with a customer, 9/10 times it was a woman
So true. If you had a graph of all your peak stress points in life nearly every one would be caused by a woman. Other than holding down a job, life isn't all that tough.
Same
@@tedwilson1477 the most amount of nonsense involving customer service was indeed women about 95% of the time, you can only imagine my sentiment towards those 5% men 🤣
As soon as you tell one your weakness you are put on the "no respect" list.
Sounds like women need an AI robot as a relationship who doesn't have any weaknesses
And are reminded of them at every argument. 🤣
And she will use it against you.
When a woman says, "A penny for your thoughts," don't get sucked into feigned intimacy. All she wants is to readjust her mortar fire. Women respect a man of mystery.
Nobody cares.
"self-care" is a buzzword for women... to self-justify their mistakes by providing relief from accepting guilt and responsibilities.
Most women are good at empathy for babies babies. If a man needs praise or empathy, get it from other men.
Zero empathy for men.
If he somehow gets it, it's only until she feels differently, no loyalty.
Most women would be very uncomfortable and unhappy with a man who needs praise from a woman.
yeah, they care about babies.. even though they're doing 4B because they're mad they can't kill their babies
In most cases it's because she gets resources in the form of welfare or child support so the kid has to appear cared for in western societies she can flaunt the child to show others how she's "strong" but provides "caring" for her child, when we know good and well it's welfare and child support. In societies where women get neither if they were single they'll kill the child and play off like they never had a kid to line up a husband, this is pretty common in third world countries without social safety nets.
I've said this for years but custody should automatically go to the woman for the first two years if she breast feeds otherwise the kid should always go to the father. We see the damage of single mothers, but statistically single fathers raise kids as well as a two parent household showing how little women really do contribute after birthing the child.
I doubt it, I've seen tonnes of women outside completely ignore their offspring. I've been to plenty of households where women are irritated by crying babies while the fathers take care of the child.
They never mature mentally beyond teenage girl.
I think teenage girls are preferable to women in their 20s and 30s, because most of them can at least still pair bond and have some sense of romance. The only girls I ever felt any love from were when I was a teenager dating girls that were like 15 and 16, but once I became an adult and went to university, all the women I met from then on were totally incapable of giving love. By their 20s, most modern Western women have had too many sex partners to be able to pair bond anymore. Plus, teenage girls actually enjoy sex as an act in and of itself, and like to make emotional connections before having sex. Girls in their 20s and older just use sex as a bargaining chip to get access to status and resources, it's all transactional. And teenage girls aren't so picky, they don't have insanely high standards, and they can actually choose a guy to be with based on nothing but his appearance and personality, without money being a major factor. From their 20s on, tons of women become obsessed with wealth and status. The idea of romantic love and sticking together through thick and thin appeals to the romantic idealism of teenage girls, who basically just have the natural tendency of women that haven't been socially engineered to be heartless and promiscuous like modern adult women. Social media and dating sites and universities and most of all feminism have made women totally unnatural and unpleasant on a scale that is historically unprecedented. Never before have women had such poor character. They have been coddled and spoiled beyond belief. Overcoming adversity is necessary for creating a decent character. And we just don't hold women to any standards anymore.
What a generalization.
My 13 year old grandaughter is more emotionally balanced than my 60 year old wife.
@@raspberrykissable But, as a general rule, is it wrong?
@@raspberrykissable Not wrong, though. Facts over feelings, 100% of the time.
I had fun making this video. I was shocked at how little credit AI gave women for doing anything but making people feel things. This is a semi-comedy.
Look at all the things men do to keep the country going. Making life easier. So the way I see it men ate more valuable.
No, it's not semi-comedy at all and you know it. AI is not infected with the woke mind virus and anti male, pro woman propaganda that has not been challenged for a century or more. It can observe. Women rarely try to solve problems. They create drama and influence emotions to manipulate men into doing things for the pretty little dears.
Great video - If you consider everyone as just people, then the cognitive dissonance starts, e.g. the advantages their bestowed for no valid reasons, etc.
Courage requires a personal cost.
You earned a subscriber. Good sense of humor
Women are all about themselves. All about their feelings.. nothing else
Glad someone gets it. We are acoutrements. Some have what they all want most do not. And all can be discarded depending on feelings, situations, needs. Past deeds have no weight in the balance. You and everything you have done will become void and she can convince herself something never was if it fits the new chapter of her life. The past does not exist and they work damn hard to make us see things that way or hide it from us.
Solipsistic
@kengaroo5170 Precisely.
Go for men, then, if they are so perfect and selfless.
@@MacAucha-kiltedbikerReptilian Oh no. Men have their flaws also. The difference is most of them still have reason and are accountable...often doubly so.
"Don't be sad, everybody dies" Well I think that just sums it all up. In my 61 years I've heard variations of this in all intense situations I've been in when a woman was around. Helped out at 4 horrible car accidents, 1 shooting, 2 stabbings and 2 house fires in my life. I held a guy when I was 19 as he died in one of those wrecks covered in blood not wanting to die. Some woman standing there was yelling "We need to do something" as she was running around like a chicken with her head cut off totally panicking. WE did try, but couldn't do anything he was just too crushed and broken. The paramedics told me after the fact they were shocked he even lived 1 minute not the 15 or so that he did after the wreck. It made me feel better that they said I did the right things that kept him alive that long. Still think about this at least once a week or so even all these years later. I can't remember what was exactly said, but it was woman at each spouting off some sort of unhelpful nonsense at each scene. Not all, but most women bring panic and screaming in these situations. If I am ever in a tuff spot I want a man coming to rescue me not a woman. Helpful platitudes don't save lives. I don't hate women they just shouldn't be in some situations.
Amazing compassion to hold the dying man - so many would have been scared. Good man!
The difference between the way men manage intense situations and the way women do is stark. They aren't wired for it. Plain and simple.
I can only imagine how it must feel to hold someone as they die. You are a very compassionate guy to be there for him in his final moments, especially considering all the pain he must have been in
Once I was in a bar which my friend worked in, she invited us after hours to have private party. One of the guy friends which also worked there was missing for some time, I went looking for him, he cut his arms open and was bleeding in storage room with his "sorry" written on the floor with his blood. It was first time for me and I was suprised how I was able to be calm cool and collected whole time. I strangled his hands with towels and held his hands above his head as I was speaking with paramedic on phone because the women there was totally useless, screaming and running around like scared chickens. What shattered me was when we took him out of hospital few days later with that female they were sitting in back of my car, we were going in my apartment she whispered him that they should get away from useless human (me) and get somewhere private. This happend 10 years ago, didnt recovered yet, but saved other 2 ppl from death or beating, but lost all those friends I saved or helped. I guess God wants me to know, its nothing special and its my duty to save those lifes and protect them and anyone would do it.
please be in my foxhole!
With my experience, and knowledge of women, I can say with confidence that women can moderate their love for others, turning it on, or off at will, as well as their empathy.
That’s not true. Why do are men in the comments section generalizing. It’s different for all women. Should I say all men are abusers just because one is?
If you can off love
It never was real
@@fastinradfordable: I concur. unlike men, women are need-driven, not love-driven. Whoever loves the least in the relationship controls the relationship, and 95% of the time it's the woman who wins, because she is an emotional self regulator. Men have no control over their love. They're stuck on the on position, until she turns him off.
They are cold as ice
@@Night_Raptor_5991: Sounds like a line from a Foreigner song. 😃
If you want to get laid get a woman, if you want true love get a dog.
I heard, “I love to do a woman doggie style”. 😅
@@TheHillrat4wd Blink 182 would like to have a word… 😂
True, as long as you don't commit to the woman.
@@elonever.2.071 or the dog...
or if having the money or time get a horse instead of a dog as dogs are parstic in nature seeing that how they evolved.
As a boy raised by the Greatest Generation, I never got coddled. If I failed I was told to work harder or life will eat me alive. Over drinks, I asked my father why he never had an encouraging word for me growing up. He said, “If you weren’t doing anything wrong there was no need to say anything”
It makes one wonder how boomers went so wrong when they were raised by the greatest generation.
Greatest generation. 😂 Jesus that's so damn stupid when y'all say that.
@@Tay.Rae773 Right. Boomers talk about how great/tough they are because they were raised by WWII generation. Yet they raised a generation of simps. Thanks for nothing boomers!
You don't need to have AI to realize that they have 90% positive correlation with narcisism and psycopathy.
@@rodrigo100kk 90% narcissism is too low. Look at women's social media and you'll find almost all are covered with pics of themselves.
@@rodrigo100kk
I'm not too impressed with the AI results.
Guess I was expecting something more insightful.
The insight was that men need to stop pedalizing women just because they have a pink taco and curves
Yes, most women in the "western world" is totally ruined by the narcissism epidemic and have 0 empathy, pretty much the same as being a psychopath...
@@GS-zc4sk AI we have today is not really actual AI... It is a large language model which makes it an advanced chatbot, sometimes it can act like it is intelligent but all it does it take text humans have made and give you a reply that statistically is what majority of people say about the matter. Sometimes the AI is horribly horribly wrong... Like one time it claimed that water ice melt at -38c because it had been fed climate hysteria data.
I love and admire the women in my life, but I’ve noted many if not most of them seem to continually run in a circular state of perpetual crisis. I think the coddling and pedastalization (if that’s even a word), has stunted their ability to know themselves. Most of them seem to be complete strangers to themselves. They are constantly told if things don’t break their way, to look outward at what the people around you have done wrong, because as a woman you couldn’t possibly hold any accountability for the outcome or your own circumstances.
They seem to run the same experiments, make the same decisions, over and over again and are constantly surprised at the results. I can so accurately predict what the women around me will do and yet can’t begin to grasp their motives. We’re told this is because women are “complicated” and “operating on a higher emotional plane” than men, but I’ve started to believe that they don’t understand their motives either. No one in society ever asks them to look inward. I think their ability to introspect has been deprived by a society more interested in pacifying them than teaching them how to look inward and grow. If every woman is “perfect just the way she is” then surely there is no room for improvement, right? Nothing left to learn?
The inverse is true for men in society today. If they are struggling or failing or unhappy, they are told ONLY to look inward and to figure out what is wrong with them. This leads to men shutting down, because not every problem you have is because something is wrong with YOU. Sometimes you’re in the wrong context, the wrong community, the wrong job, the wrong relationship, etc.
Most men I know seem to want most of all a stable and loving relationship with someone they can trust and depend on and build a life with. However, many are too damaged to make that happen in their current state.
Most women I know SAY they want the same things, but for some bizarre reason, many of them act almost pathologically averse to any option that would actually provide those things.
Well said, and observed!
Indeed!
Amen
Profound and resonates with my 64y of experience with women. I’ve completely given up on women, the same pattern I’ve seen time and time again is no coincidence, they never ever have any mental peace and quiet, that brain is constantly, feverishly busy with a million random thoughts, fears, frustrations, what have you, this must be exhausting. If you take out the sexual aspect there’s not much left to keep a man interested is there ?
@@bigthey1827 you just summed up humanity in a few paragraphs
John ,You don't sound like you hate on women. Quite the contrary, you understand female nature. Our society calls that and subsequently acting upon that understanding, misogyny. It's not. Thanks. Stay single lads.
It’s because women can’t separate the two. If they feel a guy is inferior, weaker or lower in some aspect to them they despise him. Men can understand how weak women are, irrational, and tons of other traits that aren’t perfect and not have an emotion associated with it. We don’t hate children for acting like children.
@@eddiejohnson4434 What reinforces female nature is there are too many simps out there just hoping for some attention or p@$$y.
What's exactly wrong with having a negative opinion on woman in a world where woman constantly insult and humiliate men?
That is years of democratic/social "woke" engineering
It's because they need to sell themselves, and I don't mean this in a sexual way. They need social acceptance to survive while bringing little valuable skills to the table. So they, to put it mildly, exaggerate and sweettalk, they're better at it when believing in themselves and, as you can probably guess, they get angry when you expose it. This is the reason they've been cuddled for millenia.
What I got out of this is that AI understands men but doesn't understand women. Welcome to the club, AI!
Haha
The AI tried to fathom their depths, but they had none.
@@helmeteyeThey are without honor.
"There are NO unicorns, there are ONLY chameleons, you can't spell NAWALT without AWALT. Stay Strong, Stay Focused and Stay Free." -- MR
Men are nearly always the same, women can change with the wind.
@@khaledhussain3214
It is an act for women. If they desire your resources they can be very convincing, Once they have those resources they can be brutal.
Stay Free. There is no good on the other side.
WTF is nawalt mean?
@@ChondroMani too was annoyed by this comment saying the acronym without saying what it means. Then i was like why am i mad when i have 99% of all human knowledge in my pocket and all i have to do is tap on the screen a few times to learn literally anything i want. Sometimes i disappoint myself.
When I was very young, I used to “fight” with my younger sister.
All the adults used to tell me, “Go easy! You don’t know your own strength!”.
I’m 43 now, and I definitely know my own strength.
My sister NEVER got the same advice.
Are you saying she never got any of the blame or?
Although AI seems interesting, we don't need it to inform us about female nature. A wise man learns from other's mistakes, a smart man learns from their own mistakes, and a fool keeps making the same mistake.
@@kwk111
No. You don't need to swap the wize and smart.
Because wise people become wiser through jusst observing others and their experiences, where as just a smart guy will dive into action first with no wisdom and gain wisdom as he goes.
Unfortunately, there are people that are just naturally born wiser than the mass. This difference can be seen even from kindergarten.
Learn from other people's mistakes because you will not live long enough to make all those mistakes yourself.
Yeah, I am done playing the fool. It took the second attempt for the same results to get it through my head. Vows to them are situational, optional. A Vow to them is merely a signed and stated current preference, that's all. If and when a man does that, he's a dirt-bag.
When a Woman does it, she is soaking up all of the sympathetic support, validating reassurances and help that she can get and usually does. Little, if any of these things are extended to the Man. Usually none. They're expected to "suck it up and move on, you man you. Take care of yourself!"
That's right. Take care of yourselves, men. You have to. It all starts there. Besides, you would have to in order to be in any position to help anyone else. Then, only help those who are helping themselves, whose actions are congruent with their statements.
If they lept to you in order to be in a better position than their current situation, they will do so again. Or, they think that they can do better going off on their own, but they still need your support until that happens, of course.
@@Eric-dd8bk Exactly. Just because someone has experience doesn't mean they are wise. There are many men who have been married and divorced many times. Sure, they have experience, but they do not have wisdom. A wise man, on the other hand, observes the other man's self-induced suffering and learns from that.
The major factor that I heard is most of these qualities men do for the benefit of someone else while the women use them to benefit themselves.
Self care = self love = selfishness. Opposite of selflessness.
So true
If I was in a foxhole with someone who didn’t have some self care like hygiene that’s available? One upping is more of a male trait. Women want fantasy and to be safe. Most have the maternal instinct. Men usually have to learn what their purpose/legacy is and how to achieve it via sacrifice. Hormones. Fear, ego. All affect us and the survival instinct is subconscious. Every day is combat taking a walk in the park 😂
And emotional intelligence is an oxymoron.
@@Hope_Boatbut it sells books and creates another layer of virtue signaling by women
@@Hope_Boat
True emotional intelligence is understanding what triggers you and what gets you excited and why they do this. Then recognizing these traits in those you interact with.
Tell a woman to calm down. See how well she manages her emotions.
Lol
Men have more "emotional intelligence". Women have more "emotionality".
women have fake emotions. they don't count as emotions to me.
The concept of emotional intelligence is nothing more then stoicism and what they describe as emotional intelligence for women is nothing more then being driven by your emotions 24/7. So it's obvious if you will be emotional all the time. You will understand other emotions with them telling them it's called experience I think but there is no benifit to it because humans have language to share problem and being driven by emotions. lead you to dipression
"Intelligence" from what I get from IQ tests is pattern recognition. Emotional intelligence, if I understand it, is being able to tune into someone based on body English or vocal expression. Women think they are better at manipulating others based on their emotional intelligence. Men on the other hand, I think, recognize the emotional state of others, but rather than exploit it, try to either redirect it, or ignore it. This Stoicism is misunderstood as a lack of recognition rather than a different approach to reacting to a situation. I don't think women would appreciate men reacting to a crisis like women do, but are eager to claim a superior emotional intelligence to men while looking to them for a source of stability.
@@johnweir3168There is no such thing as EQ. Intelligence came in one form which is G loading. If you do better then in one you will do better in all. EQ is not a thing because there is only one intelligence used in different ways
They are hormonal and breeders. Relying on female reproduction instincts.
Now, they identify themselves with masculine traits.
It's a no-win situation long term, so don't get married.
Some wise man said "You can either love them or understand them, you can not do both".
Perfect
@ndub4014 Anyone who understands them is a liar, and those who love them are fools.
I love women, and I understand MYSELF why I love women.
You just gotta be p1mp tight, and treat people accordingly, in a way the situation demands.
@@JariSatta Right, the point is understanding them, not yourself. Personally speaking, if you wouldn't die for someone I don't consider you loving them. And honestly, I wouldn't die for someone who'd cheat on me for $100.
@@ReinertZerker The point is to understand how you were when you attracted her and to remain consistent. Your type is what likes YOU.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned - This is the value of emotion that a woman brings. I find that a lot of modern women have no forgiveness or compromise. Its there way or no way. After you cross their emotional barrier it is a fight to the end. No compromise, no forgivness.
That sure describes my ex wife to a T
Spot on. Remorseless they can be. They lack reason and accountability.
A man sleeping on the couch after winning an argument with his wife.
and a man sleeping on the couch after losing an argument with his wife.
@@flittlefield if the laws still allowed a little rough stuff, they'd be sorted out fast enough.
It's interesting how often he says "If I'm wrong let me know" or something like that, showing empathy and humility... When was the last time anyone saw a woman online or in the media show an attitude that even approaches that mentality?
They show empathy by speaking in a way that allows the other feel validated by the emotions being felt. They show humility by showcasing and underestimating their current social standing versus others cause it also validates others emotion from showing that you care about how they may feel threatened by self empowering immediately.
@vixi1677 In social interactions some do, many only rarely, but online or in the media, pretty much never
"Women have no sympathy and my experience of women is almost as large as Europe. In having sympathy, women crave being loved, not for loving. They scream out at you for sympathy all day long, they are incapable of giving any in return, for they cannot remember your affairs long enough to do so. They cannot state a fact accurately to another, nor can that other attend to it accurately enough for it to become information." --- Florence Nightingale, 1861
Being good is something you have to learn. But they taught girls that they just are good. In general we have been taught that passivity and niceness is good.
Yes we have been programmed to be that way. The good thing about programming is that it can be updated anytime you want. Remember women want men that do not want them so act accordingly. Always have options even if that means walking away.
You are absolutely spot on in regards to us fooling ourselves. We play along with these things either because we're scared of the consequences of not doing so, or because we feel kind of bad for them like we might feel bad for someone with a disability. Or both. There's a reason they're often referred to as 'perpetual children' you know.
Women are more emotional, not more emotionally intelligent. It is normal for women to be frustrated, for instance, and not even know why, how is that being emotionally intelligent? Or when they have trouble accurately remembering things based on the current emotion they’re experiencing?
Let me change this real quick "Women are more prone to emotional outbursts." Men are far more emotionally Intelligent on average.
@@eddiejohnson4434 Don't forget, emotions are the opposite of feeling. Emotions are an external display, feelings are internal .
Emotional intelligence is a term women have molded into meaning the man acknowledges and justifies any sort of bat sh*t crazy behaviour they commit as reasonable and beyond question so she can retain her perfect self image.
No dude, your not a jerk. Your just telling it like it is. Something for which all men need to do these days.
I’ve been pointing out for years that American men tend to treat women like these magical, mythical figures and that men are inherently the opposite and are lucky for the opportunity to be graciously redeemed by them. It’s absolutely absurd. They’re humans with all the flaws of being humans, not mythical magical beings.
They are not unicorns and mermaids, modern women are more like witches.
Repeal the 19th, bring back force doctrine and reinstate the Salem trials!
@@khaledhussain3214 yet, men keep fighting for them. Biology and the urge to secure continuity of the species still undefeated.
It's no different in the UK
When men say they like w_m_n what they are really saying is they like pu$$y and put up with w-m-n.
Being on the earth for awhile we see things more clearly, the rose colored glasses come off. I used too hate to hear this saying. It is what it is. But that's true.
@@joeramirez7879 until you realise it's not.
Until you realize it is what you are willing to accept. You have to be willing to walk away and not look back.
Proverbs- king Solomon said he's searched the land over for wisdom and among men- one in a thousand and among women- NONE
Good post.
Women understand women…and they don’t like them.
Accountability in women is a rare thing. To point out deficits in a woman is to be toxic, controlling, insecure ,etc…and part of the patriarchy. Women say they want simps…but they don’t. And somehow problems are always somebody else’s fault.
They sure want simps, because that's who they overwhelmingly date and marry. They even date fake simps who admit to other men they're faking it.
I simply treat them how they should be treated I mean their brain stops developing in their teenage years they can't help that they're criminally insane 😂
Woman are empathetic towards Chad and Tyrone (good looking top 1% guys) and narcissist towards beta males 💯💯💯
@@MrHDProd 😂
@@wasgibtesleute3318 😆😆
And they can't stand it when they get treated the same way (by those 1% guys) as they treat other regular guys.
Don't get me wrong they love the challenge but complain about getting treated the exact same way they treat dudes they don't care for.
I was doing research on the brown sparrow and it struck me how close the female behavior of this bird is similar to modern womens behaviors.
Ditto. Raised zebrafinches for >25 yrs. It's a miracle they reproduce.
could do worse, could be the parasitic cookoo bird, that'd be a catastrophe!
It would be for the mother and chicks but it would be about the same for a lot of the males.
@Brent-z2s well in your research what does a brown sparrow do or have a particular evolutionary or reproductive strategy or? U said brown sparrow not magpie or seagull hahaha
@@williambowes-xt2sm several things they have a flying test then they keep around simps and betas as a possible replacement they have extra pairing copulation with other males away from the nest and about 20 percent of the offspring won't be his. They don't have divorce courts so they can't steal the nest.
Men think with logic and women think with emotions. It’s that simple why we make different choices
Women think that overcoming their insecurities is courage.
John, you have been a awake- up for myself. 61 and single since 50. Survived 30yrs with a Narcissist. Had two heart attacks in 2019 and suffered from a chronic pain. I went down the opiate route for yrs. Since I found the channel. I have started the detox at home. Monitoring my bp and using another drug to ease me off the opiates. My goal is only to take my heart meds and nothing else. Got good healthy food today and waiting till I`m better with my health to get back outside. I was a big walker. I remember, when I got the boot in Newfoundland. I had to walk the last 15 miles to catch a plane back to Toronto. So Thanks again.
Bless ypu.
You know what’s crazy; I realized my xwife was a source of chronic pain; and constantly getting sick.
She was such a drag on my life; after leaving and completely shutting off her side.
I’ve started to heal in many ways.
Stay strong. Apparently you’ve done tougher things
I’m 54 years old and retired military.
My life changed significantly when I discovered MBTI personality types and understood who I’m compatible with. Not everyone is the same and not everyone will value you the same.
I was divorced after 20 years with a woman I wasn’t compatible with.
I’m an INTJ man dating an ENTP woman. We’re considered a golden pair and it absolutely lives up to the hype.
I recommend taking a personality test and figure out who you’re compatible with. The rabbit hole goes very deep on this.
Good luck out there.
I'm an INFJ... Dunno who i'd be compatible with
@ this website makes it very easy. They put all the personality types in order for you. INFP is your golden pair.
@@StanHowse do an internet search for INFJ compatibility. I tried to share an website link but apparently that’s not acceptable to TH-cam.
Ni/Te and Ne/Ti come at reality from extreme opposites - I'd say it may "work" in the short-term from a novelty aspect but at some point, it is just living in completely different worlds. Completely different values. But then, time will tell.
Also if we are using the same math (basic shadow type) then INFJ (Ni/Fe) would need ENFP (Ne/Fi) as a "golden pair" by flipping the orientation of the first two functions.
@Yes, I agree we appear to be opposites. Our energy is very different and outlook on things is different but we complemented each other very well and have great understanding of each other. It’s really is like hanging out with my best friend.
You hit on something I've been saying for years... women are simply children in adult bodies.
What is most frustrating as a man is watching the amount of coddling women get for making poor life decisions, and how much undeserved support they get for accomplishing basic life tasks.
So yeah, it's like dealing with a child, you always have to make sure she feels important even if the things she is contributing are not.
@@CaptoCapri ---- exactly. A woman brags about having a job, paying her bills, doing the dishes, doing the laundry, cooking, cleaning, getting the car washed and oil changed, as if these are some world changing achievements and she is super human at age 45 because she's forced to do those thing since she divorced her husband two years ago. Men have been doing all that and more since we were 16 years old and younger
You instill all discipline in children from ages 18 to 24 months. The entire exercise is about teaching them the word "no". Baby girls tend to react emotionally and cry, and the lesson is over until they calm down. You can not reason with a crying baby girl, so you have to speak softly and emotionally to them. Baby boys tend to get angry, but you can use words to reason with them. In today's society, too many kids don't hear the word "no" and they are out of control as they enter their terrible 2's. This is how you get kids 2 years old and older drawing on the walls with their own sharts.
Women are radically different towards each other and become different people with men. They interact with each other, they manage men and children
That is truth
I've been having trouble with my wife for years. I've been working a lot on my emotions, thoughts and perceptions. It's led me to a place where I'm working on regaining some independence and autonomy. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR VIDEOS. They have really been helping me feel some groundedness.
I am glad they are helping you get through this rough patch. Relationships are the master class. You will get through this and you will be better no matter how it turns out. That I can guarantee!
Isn't it funny that when most of you men are experiencing issues with your women, YOU are the ones who have the problem that needs to be resolved
? Why isn't SHE working on herself? Why do YOU have to change?
Psh. Please. You men are weak
Throw her away and get a new model.
I think the mythos around women used to be true because of the constraints that existed, the mythos of empathy etc. was as much clearly stating expectations of behavior. Those constraints have been removed, not true nature is allowed to emerged instead of being molded. It is a dark and bleak time. With the past constraints removed we now need a new approach to constrain the deeply rooted dark manipulative nature that has been revealed. We need to tell the truth and dismantle the mythos
@@kevindowell6003
Having strong boundaries is a huge factor in this endeavor. Never chase women and work on doing what makes you happy. You have to learn to battle like with like meaning all interactions with women have to be transactional. Practice saying "What's in it for me" and wait for an answer that you like not just can live with. If you are not happy with a woman 95% of the time move on. This will help you get rid of the fixer and provider mindset. The biggest transformation that you can make for yourself is to learn to say no and walk away. If she really likes you she will join your agenda if she doesn't she is trying to play you. Make a game out of knowing you will have to engage 100 women to find one that may have the qualities for a relationship with you. Always remember she may have those qualities today and lose them tomorrow so under no circumstances ever commit to them.
Men create the context in which women's contributions become valuable. You're conflating wartime with peacetime, imo. The real issue is that people forget what wartime is like, and that peacetime requires upkeep. So you get entitlement and terms like "emotional intelligence." "
My wife says I can’t control my emotions, which is erroneous. She expects me to completely suppress my emotions all together is what she actually wants me to do and I refuse to do that. In her eyes I cannot get upset about anything, ever. She literally locks herself in our walk in closet when I’m simply trying to talk to her about something.
She’s acting like a child and she knows it. Stop reacting at all good or bad. Just be indifferent and don’t try to point a finger at her. It will drive her Nuts. Just work on improving yourself without blame and keep the peace. She’s either gonna bend or break. Then it’s up to you. Hope you’ve war gamed an exit plan. “ just in case”.
Hi John, Great video, information, and analysis! I'm a high functioning autistic and don't have the ability to communicate non-verbally, including no ability to send or receive non-verbal communication via tone-of-voice or facial expressions. Feminists expect men to be "emotionally intelligent," which means men "get the message" by reading the unspoken expressions of emotion by women. At 69-years-old, I've experienced and increasing societal hostility in direct relation in increased influence of feminism. In particular, women tend to engage in "ferret out, expose, and challenge deep-seated bigotry" activism everywhere they go, including academic and workplace settings. Much of their activism is non-verbal, so people like me can't participate. Due to confirmation bias, the empty spaces of my autism are filled with the presumptions of feminism. That is true of anyone like me. We are seeing a huge surge in heterosexual, cissexual, white males being diagnosed as autistic and in need of "intervention." In reality, feminism and academia have created an environment of explicit focused hostility toward heterosexual, cissexual, white males, which is an implicit exploitation of disability and communication differences. Thus, feminist and academic activism has pushed some of us out full functionality into social disability. The feminist and academic problematization of heterosexual, cissexual, white males have pushed people like me from being a functional normal variant of human into something abominable and intolerable. From the feminist and academic perspectives, how can an autistic, heterosexual, cissexual, white male appropriately show non-verbal awareness, sensitivity, and humility? And, what about a blind, heterosexual, cissexual, white male? What about a deaf, heterosexual, cissexual, white male? In effect, the characteristics of disabilities are being exploited as "confirmations and deep-seated bigotry." I'm a retired software engineer. I retired early, due to increase workplace hostility and social exploitation of my disability. A young person like me, may never have a functional career.
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I always prefer to talk to my father over my sisters and mother. My father is straight forward and logical when it comes to my problems and isn’t afraid to make me reflect on myself even if it’s negative. My mother and sisters literally just lie to me and try to make me feel better but it angers me more knowing the truth of a situation and having them lie to me. I don’t care to feel good if it’s not based off logic and facts. It’s just a lie.
This is the glory of the internet. It enables thoughts like this to be expressed. Could you imagine this content on PBS? Well, 20 years ago, PBS / NPR were as close as we could get to a deep discussion on this topic.
You’re not wrong about society propping women up to seem more important than they actually are. However, the real role women serve is to inspire men to be their best selves, bearing children and helping to raise them, and lastly to help foster a social networking in their community. TLDR. Men do stuff and women are the inspiration for men to do stuff.
Great insights
There is a book called "the myth of male power" i think it will be interesting to hear what u gonna say after u reed it, even though there is a small chance of u notice this comment, i really admire u and i learn a lot from u
Also a good read. 'The Predatory Female' by Lawrence Shannon & 'The Manipulated Man' by Esther Villar (yes, written by woman, but fully and brutally exposing women's true nature). Both are great quick reads and can be found as free downloads.
@@MrSheymieI read them all. Great reads.
you dont need AI to figure out that female empathy and emotional intelligence are highly contextual, depending on their mood, who they're dealing with and what they get can get out of it. there is no set of principles or morals that makes these qualities consistent. few women are truly defined by their caring, empathy and understanding.
Led Zeppelin said it best - The Soul of a Woman was created below 🎸
Humility, downplaying to keep harmony. Right, because otherwise the other women attack. Self preservation is not humility.
Mr. Griffin thank you again . I was kind of over these type of programs as my life is going very well however your angle is interesting. I would like to take woman serious and provide and protect ,love them however I just can't unsee the truth.
how can "self care" not be a thing? All women really care about is themselves.
I also see a dual perception. When a woman stands up for herself against a man, it is praised by society. When a man does that in reverse, it is seen as bullying. In todays society women have a lot better chances for saying whatever they want to say without recriminations. However, most women will be still shy to say that, and they generally get bad treatment in many areas, so I do not think things are out of balance. Yet, on the whole, society encourages woman to be aggressive and punishes men badly for the same behavior.
Hi John. To simplify this, from a scientific, evolutionary, Darwinian perspective, just as hypergamy explains female desire, there is only one master concept we need to know to understand women's psychology: *neoteny*. Humans are more neotenous than other primates, and women are more neotenous than men. So, the trick is to take ideas from developmental psychology, such as Piaget's and Elkind's ideas about children and young adults, and apply them to the fairer sex. Relevant concepts to Google here include "imaginary audience," "personal fable," and "apparent hypocrisy." There are also higher levels of narcissism (in the emotional sense as an inability to process shame), which is correlated with low conscientiousness, magical thinking, higher levels of envy, etc., along with higher levels of disassociation, which is a reality-removing mechanism, like lying until it becomes the truth, and solipsism, which takes only the contents of one's own mind as meaningful. If you've ever made the mistake of arguing with women, this should sound familiar.
wow. excellent comment.
@@unhadconversations6752 bro cooked
In all the years of dating and observing others. Mostly all women I have experienced have a great nurturing side. For Themselves! IT's Me, me, me, me!
John your analysis and perspective on women is always spot on accurate. I’m glad I discovered your channel. Keep up the excellent work.
AI and robotics will end up replacing women for most men.
100%. People are still really asleep to this, but it will happen. The funny thing is I don't think AI / robots will be a substitute to women for men, since they won't have any social status or money to steal. Which is why in the future there will be a battle between men who like AI/robots and women who want them banned. In fact I have already heard women be disgruntled by the idea, saying it's sexist etc.
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Yea and those same feemales that are complaing ARE plugging toys into a wall socket and putting batteries into their seggs toyz.
If a man finds a substitute the same ones I'm positive would shame him,.
Free internet porn and video games ,along with A.I. GF's has already replaced dating for many men. The amount of single w-m-n today that are ignored or at best pumped and dumped is crazy.
Women don’t seem to be very loving, at least in this world, at this time. But the thing is, love is the strongest, most important force in all of creation. Men are still capable of love. And they are absolutely craving it. And if men can’t find it in this world, then they’ll either create it, or find it in the next world. They’ll find it, one way or another.
The idea of a robot girlfriend used to be a joke. It’s not. Love is something you can’t kill, because it’s an idea. It’s a dream. People always talk about “Disney movie happy ever after endings”. Walt Disney was an artist, a visionary, and above all, a dreamer. The artists who designed Disney films are actually dreaming up worlds in which women are genuinely empathetic, like in the movie Beauty and the Beast. It’s a movie about a woman who falls in love with a monster, which cures his curse. People can only dream that women were like that. In a way, men have already replaced the women in this world with the women in their dreams.
John, you are my new favorite creator in this space. Much of the value AI gave women are associated to the Erin Brockovich (sp?) storyline. Where it is the huge amount of empathy was required to fight that battle. Which I believe when women do act for others in the way those stories portray women is a great model for modern women. Unfortunately, I think there is a little bit of hidden darkness in most of those type of stories. I feel connected to the pain you expose in these videos. It is good you have your pets, the forced solitude is deafening at times. I applaud your courage, even though I do not approach the "why do they do this?" question from the same angle as you. I've decided to look at them as people that do not look at the world as I do. I create a filter in my mind when I want to behave in a particular way for a long term goal. Woman seem to use the same sort of filter, but it is set to how do I feel this event, person or item affects my life. I believe this "I feel" behavior is why they cannot engage in a general discussion about the state of womanhood without also expressing anecdotal stories related to how the discussion makes them feel. They are truly broken here in the west. I believe that if we tied a woman's right to vote to something similar to men going to war, then they may understand the meaning of consequences of their choices. Not positive how to change this craziness.,
It's not that you're being too hard on women, it's that the AI is being too kind to women.
It's a cliche by now but Melvin Udall's observation is still the best sentence on women ever written.
Emotional intelligence? More like emotional damage.
I think he meant manipulation.
E-motion-nal Damage!
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All the facts of actual reality show women are not emotionally intelligent (typically). Most are an emotional mess.
They flit from one emotion to the next in rapid succession. Like a child.
Women show integrity by staying true to their desires. AI mixed the word desire and values, because women value themselves, and their wants
In short, narsisism... Most women of the west is totally ruined by the narcissism epidemic and have absolutely 0 empathy (they only pretend to have empathy because that is expected of women).
75 now, in Crazy Coastal Cslifornia for my whole life . Thank you , sir, for your articulate observations .
Four kids and just one divorce ( I learned early ) . The kids were all under five , nice nee house in Capitola ( beach town ), newer Volvo , dream life .
She tells me , “ I need to start my life over “ . At 34 yrs . Married 10 yrs . Good financially . No alcohol or drug problem .
Result : 10 yrs in “ Family Destruction Court “ .
Nutzo !!!
Women DO show empathy, just not for men
Cats and dogs...?
@@johnstephens101 Women show empathy for their own children... *if* they have children, *if* they want to be a good mother to their children, and *if* they wanted their children in the first place, *if* they aren't sick and tired of their children's tantrums... along with a great number of other ifs...
As always, John gives us great wisdom.
Everyone should watch the movies, 'Ex Machina' and 'Dave'. Even AI women leave men behind.
The future will be just like the past. Except the AI that dumps us will at least be able to explain why!
This is my 2c after 41 years of living and feedback from your video, which was excellent.
You are not being a complete jerk about any of this, facts are facts. Often women get upset at how something was said in order to dodge the initial truthful claim to face any chance of understanding what was said, as they might have to change their behavior which is an uphill task for any person. If you follow evolution and evolutionary psychology, it all makes sense. Why are women smaller in size than men? Cause for millions of years, men had to fight and do hard work to meet goals for the group/ civilization to survive. Doing minor tasks may be work, but harder work resulted that men have done, evidence in our larger bodies through sexual dimorphism, that’s science fact. Resources are finite and pursuit of them can create cohesion of groups through trade or fighting over resources. We had to fight, that’s nature and we’re a part of it, like it or not.
Women have a vagina to receive copulation and become pregnant to bear children, then they raise them which requires attention and safety in order for them to survive, because our offspring are very dependent (like most mammals) to make it to adulthood to do the same thing again and so on. Is that the meaning of life? Well, without it, we have no people, which means no society, no culture, no humans, so in turn yes, it’s vital. Having children is vital to society continuing, for any living organism. That’s the basis of all the context. That being said, you don’t need to of great intellect to raise a baby.Mammals do it all the time on instinct and teachings from their forbearers, they had no books or tutorials, not ever in millions of years of evolution, it as all natural. So in the lineage of women, only a certain level of intellectual skills are needed to raise a baby, just be honest. , and even less physical when the males are doing the leg work for all of history. We’re sexually dimorphic as a species and because we are complex thinkers, there in comes the whole “social manipulation” from women. Doing whatever they need to do to get what they want, without little repercussions because they are valuable in the sense that they reproduce and are sought after by men for reasons of sexual drive to reproduce and partnership. Don’t get upset, but by no means does a man need a woman. The standards of doing things are measured by the absolute best you can do them, pure meritocracy, so if men can create and build the world, then we don’t need any help, except by other men. Myself and countless other men are fine examples of those who are successful and needed no woman to be part of that success to happen. So now with the advent of social media, you see women affected most with the social disorders because they were always the most vulnerable, they and children always have been. The men don’t receive attention in failing society until it’s far too late, and the red flags for women will have been there for far too long already to be fixed, which is why we are where we are and western society is failing. Rotting from the inside because the feminine liberal mindset wanting to be free of responsibility has indoctrinated society and been etched into the government. That why you are seeing all that you are seeing with men leaving the dating scene and women complaining about lack of men. All their own doing because responsibility has always been on the backs of men. You see it start in the female peers as a child, they always got it easy on whatever it is they did. It’s like perpetual helplessness. The pity, the crying, the drama, the screaming, the gaslighting and all the other social taboos, they cultivate and perpetuate, with very little pushback, in fact it is encouraged. Forbid you say the unspoken truth, the frailness of their sensibilities will only make them cry out more. Oh blame it on the hormones! But men are humans and have hormones too but we don’t get to use that as an excuse ever, right? That’s equity, not equality… Remember, the squeaky wheel gets rhetorical grease and most of them squeak constantly. I believe men and women are both capable of the same emotions, but men have much more control and that’s the difference.
I’m shocked to learn that I was so blind to women’s way of being. Grew up with cluster b parents. Raised by a bulimic nasty step mother and went on to marry similar. My sisters were bpd. Grandmother as well. Its no wonder I married a bpd woman. The hardest lesson is losing my relationship with my kids because of their toxic mother and my reactive abuse. Imo we learn about this way too late in life after the damage is done. So do I hate women? No..but I do see so many with these cluster b qualities. I kick myself for not learning all of this sooner. I sure hope my two boys learn this lesson beforehand. Thx for listening ❤
I wish I would have learned all this stuff 30 years ago.
Teach your boys. Break the cycle of despair.
@@flightevolution8132 gladly if they’d ever answer the phone or text.
You have great trails! Nice camera work- gives these insightful videos a bit extra in these beautiful places - Thank you
I think it all depends on the "monster" of childhood trauma the woman experienced as a child.
“Don’t be sad, everyone dies” …… classic woman response. Only you missed the bit where they turn it around and make it all about them!! 😂
8:59 "Self Care" is 'Vehicular/Vessel maintenance' on all levels brother.🛠
It includes knowing WHEN to do it, and HOW to seek the latest tech to effectively deploy it for Maximum results, and WHY you need to scan the OPERATING SYSTEM for toxic trash!
SELF CARE is about the inner and outer aspects of:
- Stress = [👉includes crappy learned beliefs and meanings _we blindly hang on to_ like I'm not enough/ not loved/ worthless - and ALL the emotional darkness that contributes to the displacement of INNER PEACE] - Crucial factors we should ALL focus _Self Care_ toward!
- Exercise
- Diet
- Sleep
- Meeting _perceived_ Social needs
- Drug/Alcohol minimisation
Aren't emotions and intelligence polar opposites? Decision making based on surging feelings is not an "intelligent" choice.
I LOVE THE REDPILLING OF JOHN GRIFFIN CHANNEL. John, you just levelled up. They are Adult Children. Wait till you read Schopenhauer on women.
The fact that female integrity is tied to their values, which change according to their desire, rather than a moral compass is telling. As for emotional intelligence, men are more empathetic, understanding, compassionate, and willing to offer solutions.
The differences between women and men are quite profound.
I’ve run counselling groups for both women and men for 30,000 hours.
I’d not even try to talk about the differences. Getting us to get along will determine how many of us survive the crisis point of the sixth great extinction event.
As a hint all the deaths happen close to the end of these thing in waves.
The question to ask is how can we best help each other?
When ANYTHING, or anyone says, emotional intelligents, run away. Far away.
Years ago i left a comment on a similar men vs women discussion that was full of the typical vague lies about women's contributions to this world and i simply asked everyone anywhere in the world to look around them and count things made by men vs by women. That simple exercise is an easy answer, the walls, ceiling, floor, tv, computers, cars, plumbing, lights, appliances, roads, towers, etc. Made by men, women cook, take of children, lately work in marketing, hr and now onlyfans.
Beyond the tangible men also contribute much more to philosophy, science and a large portion of the arts, especially throughout history.
Most of what we and now ai "knows" about women are lies both men and women tell themselves and my apologies to believers, but the reason the invisible and non existent god is the greatest of all is the same reason empty human vessels such as women are worshipped by society. Only a blank canvas allows for a beautiful picture, both women and god are blank canvases suitable for men's fantasies, but feminism has been spraying all over one for the past decades, science has been spraying over the other and its getting harder and harder to paint beautiful pictures.
You need to be carful about asking simple questions of women. You will blow their minds and then what will they do?
If the situation does not benefit the woman then she won’t participate…
Another banger video! Thank you.
Glad to find you brother.
Love and blessings!
Thanks
Honestly I find myself and most men more empathetic than most women I know
"emotional intelligence" is an umbrella term we do NOT use anymore because of how misunderstood the term is. People still believe it's a form of intelligence next to IQ. It's not and never has been.
Btw, if you want to refer to the ability to manage one's own emotions, then use the term "emotional maturity".
No gender is more emotionally intelligent or mature than the other. That's just a fluke and one of the main reasons we're always forced to mention just how misunderstood those terms are.
Ever heard the saying "Garbage in and garbage out?"
Who is training the AI? Get it now?