Bleachers - I Wanna Get Better

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  • @MarchKitty
    @MarchKitty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5938

    I use to listen to this song when i was heavily addicted to heroin. I'm three years clean and sober and and this song gives me chills. I got better. 💖

    • @Sharkdanko
      @Sharkdanko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Congrats Kitty, well done!

    • @SuperMacik1
      @SuperMacik1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      That's weird.. I was just reliving those years when I heard this song.. this song was popular while I was in rehab for heroin and that's where I heard it for the first time. Music from that time period hits me in an entirely different way than anything else

    • @samanthaw8637
      @samanthaw8637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      MarchKitty1994 me too, I feel so much better now and congratulations to you too

    • @mowyattlowdon617
      @mowyattlowdon617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Congrats to both of you for getting clean! I'm super proud and impressed. 💜

    • @devildawg1065
      @devildawg1065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Great job MarchKitty , you go girl. Hard work I know. Just over 23 years for me.The song is fantastic and everything is better with a bit of clarity.

  • @Hakajin
    @Hakajin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1491

    This is one of the only music videos I've ever seen where I feel like the cinematic bits actually add to the experience.

    • @MeanBeanComedy
      @MeanBeanComedy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's the whole point to a music video.

    • @chefdeputas
      @chefdeputas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@MeanBeanComedy and they said it's the only one where they feel like it adds value, dumbass

    • @nofurtherwest3474
      @nofurtherwest3474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Agreed. I kinda wish the beginning was a real tv show or movie.

    • @artemisspawnofzeus7732
      @artemisspawnofzeus7732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@MeanBeanComedy the cinematic bits are actually generally there to keep you from ripping it off of youtube. Thats why they only became like super common after youtube. Thats why it feels like it ruins the song a lot of the time cause its explicitly designed to ruin the song.

    • @Shapes_Quality_Control
      @Shapes_Quality_Control 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Have... have you never seen Thriller?

  • @Katie-mw7pd
    @Katie-mw7pd 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4036

    "I didn't know I was lonely till I saw your face"
    I hope someday I meet someone who makes me feel like that.

  • @clock3443
    @clock3443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2273

    If an artist makes you scream 'I wanna get better' at the top of your lungs, that's a good artist

    • @toastedjoe1013
      @toastedjoe1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      While holding your abortion dog.

    • @LeonardoSilva-ih9ld
      @LeonardoSilva-ih9ld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This makes sense to me. I totally agrre.

    • @luciamatysakova5781
      @luciamatysakova5781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know this comment is old, but try Nothing But Thieves- I wanna get better :)

    • @OttrPopAnimations
      @OttrPopAnimations 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ikr!!

    • @Rachel-jb6ht
      @Rachel-jb6ht 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was lucky to see them at Bonaroo some years back. To hear hundreds of people screaming "I wanna get better", I will never experience anything quite like that ever again. Incredibly moving

  • @PeepsILoveEllie
    @PeepsILoveEllie 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2975

    "I chase that feeling of an eighteen year old who didn't know what loss was"
    hits home..

    • @BigPokemonFan987
      @BigPokemonFan987 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      PeepsILoveEllie loss as in the meme?

    • @dcmonnie
      @dcmonnie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I II
      lI. I__

    • @roncrate6424
      @roncrate6424 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Too bad predators ruin their lives

    • @Liv-or5ci
      @Liv-or5ci 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeahhhhhhhh glad I’m not the only one

    • @jmc2845
      @jmc2845 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      PeepsILoveEllie the first time I heard that thought summed up with "...and now I'm a stranger" got me right in the feels. I'm not sure I remember how that person that used to be me ever felt so optimistic.

  • @jaydevanathan374
    @jaydevanathan374 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4215

    "Come back, I will make you an espresso." Genius.

    • @dominicdefelice7974
      @dominicdefelice7974 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Greatest pickup line ever

    • @redundantdna
      @redundantdna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      How did that not work?!!

    • @dariarussu686
      @dariarussu686 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@redundantdna exactly the same question!! :)

    • @richardrennie8221
      @richardrennie8221 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True that!

    • @graemee
      @graemee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I believe it's pronounced "exspresso", you uncultured swine.

  • @kellyclark2806
    @kellyclark2806 8 ปีที่แล้ว +970

    "I didn't know I was broken until I wanted to change" are amazing lyrics. Wanting to live a better life is the first step toward change. Then asking for help. Asking for help is a strength! Do it! Asking for help is just saying "I want my life to get better!" Love this song.

  • @aaqshsh2617
    @aaqshsh2617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +563

    this song helped me so much with stopping selfharming and i am happy that i am finally 1 full year clean.

  • @TheSingingPug
    @TheSingingPug 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1213

    I'm on a binge/cycle of under appreciated music.. How come I've never heard all this gold??

    • @daniellpritchett1763
      @daniellpritchett1763 8 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Tess House any suggestion for good music?

    • @fionaautumn
      @fionaautumn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Tess House Same, I just discovered this song today

    • @DarthVader-di4sz
      @DarthVader-di4sz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Please, let us know what else besides "I Wanna Get Better" you've discovered as gold in your binge of under appreciated music.

    • @zachcovington8829
      @zachcovington8829 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Check out Max Frost. You will thank me later

    • @poodychulak
      @poodychulak 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      TV Girl if y'all wanna get really indie with me. Has a lot of that old-school sampling stuff, upbeat and danceable while being relatably depressing.

  • @skybingus
    @skybingus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    I used to listen to this A LOT around the time that I was coming to terms with severe depression and overcoming trauma. I struggled with everything and this song really helped me feel normal and even find humor in it. I just want to wish everyone who listens to this song to cope with something, absolute luck. I’m rooting for you 💛

    • @jaysabz7355
      @jaysabz7355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love that bud, loving each other and taking care of each other is priority

    • @PJK0PA15
      @PJK0PA15 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did you overcome

    • @lindseypowell01
      @lindseypowell01 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love your positivity, I really needed it today!

    • @vidaknox3188
      @vidaknox3188 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Find a good support system ​@@PJK0PA15

  • @ronnietaylor3548
    @ronnietaylor3548 8 ปีที่แล้ว +561

    this is such a good music video, it's realistic and a thing that a lot of people can relate to. being in therapy and not feeling like anything's going to make you Get Better.

    • @c.swinford8283
      @c.swinford8283 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It also shows how they're all expecting this magical answer from the therapist and he's just there like "I can't even get my own life together." It's funny but also true. Everyone's just doing their best and no one is going to reach perfect but we can listen to each other and give ourselves and each other a break.

  • @joleneangelicsingarrett5837
    @joleneangelicsingarrett5837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    This song means literally so much to me... Sang it to my mom when I picked her up from hospital... Had the best 3 days before she passed... She was like "I really like this song it's catchy"... She was pretty awesome. Xoxo

    • @archieclark1139
      @archieclark1139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That's such a nice memory you'll have forever. Sorry for your loss ♥️

    • @joleneangelicsingarrett5837
      @joleneangelicsingarrett5837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@archieclark1139 thank you xoxo ♥️

    • @christopherpeninger324
      @christopherpeninger324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry for your loss but sounds like she found a happy thought!

    • @Rainy-In-The-Desert
      @Rainy-In-The-Desert 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss. It's beautiful that you were able to share this with her and have those three days. Three days doesn't sound like much unless you're in the situation. I spent a week holding my dad's hand in the hospital.. even though he was in a coma I still wouldn't give up that time. Blessings to your mom's memory ❤️

    • @stevehuskey9037
      @stevehuskey9037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @gardenbimbo6531
    @gardenbimbo6531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2518

    Damn aging is so weird. I remember hearing this as a pre-teen being like "wow he must be living a wild party life filled with drugs, sex, and rock and roll" but now I get it. He's just a tired confused 20 something who has no idea what tf is going on and I feel that man.

    • @alexandriaking2410
      @alexandriaking2410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Ellie Bean sometimes it’s the little things

    • @luciagarcia4820
      @luciagarcia4820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      I mean... "While my friends were getting high and chasing girls down parkway lines, I was losing my mind"

    • @squamish4244
      @squamish4244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Wait another 20 years and it will make even more sense.

    • @darktagmaster1861
      @darktagmaster1861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@squamish4244 fuck, 10 yrs it makes more sense. And that is to say....nothing makes sense. The only thing I'm certain of is my own uncertainty

    • @BigBrother1993
      @BigBrother1993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      From what I've read, the song is about losing his sister, he spirals out and he has a dream to which she tells him to get better.

  • @DemonsxXxHeart
    @DemonsxXxHeart 8 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    "I didn't know I was broken til I wanted to change."
    I think that's like... my new favorite quote.

  • @maefae21
    @maefae21 8 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    i also love how into character these people get for the music video. one of my all-time favorites.

    • @michaelfell4167
      @michaelfell4167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's an abortion dog. I almost died.

  • @coryobrien8879
    @coryobrien8879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I’m a musician, grew up on the Beatles, Petty, Springsteen. All of my musical tastes have evolved many times over. I think this is a perfect pop song. Jack is so nonchalant about writing and recording but I think hundreds of people screaming “I WANNA GET BETTER” night after night should clue him in. He did something really special with this song.

  • @georgeferreira1715
    @georgeferreira1715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    I love this song not only bc it's catchy but it's also lyrically really really deep, and the video strikes a great balance between dark humor and serious issues

  • @naomi3184
    @naomi3184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    This song came out a few months before I was sent to a residential eating disorder treatment facility and is one of the only reasons i didn't feel like a failure or give up on myself. Thank you Jack

    • @vickmalham8191
      @vickmalham8191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Good luck gal

    • @autumn7809
      @autumn7809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same, but inpatient for suicidal intention. Best of luck

    • @OnionBread-41
      @OnionBread-41 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This song also helped me get through and eating disorder res program

    • @roadworkaheadsign3707
      @roadworkaheadsign3707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Eating disorders are so tough (know from experience) and I hope you’re still doing ok. A big, giant mental trap where nobody wins is the only way I can think about it.
      Remember you’re worth the same if you eat today. Keep trying to get better ❤️

  • @DeathbatDrone
    @DeathbatDrone 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2966

    One doesn't simply listen to this song at a normal volume.

    • @physcoclown1238
      @physcoclown1238 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Beautifully written my friend

    • @mney4403
      @mney4403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      FULL BLAST

    • @Jdub54
      @Jdub54 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Big facts

    • @jessicamarie6611
      @jessicamarie6611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I blast t hff e living F$$$out of this.

    • @punkygrl01
      @punkygrl01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      As loud as you can play it, and screaming along with it. Only way.

  • @fistfullcoronation3512
    @fistfullcoronation3512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +580

    This really should be made into a movie in some way. A therapist's life where they struggle with their own problems, meanwhile also need to bear the weight of everyone who comes in

    • @BigIronEnjoyer
      @BigIronEnjoyer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      That's just the TV show "Frasier".

    • @ninboy97
      @ninboy97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      'hector and the search for happiness ' pops into mind

    • @Jadejasminebentley
      @Jadejasminebentley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Check out Gypsy on Netflix! Only one series but so so good!

    • @natashaphelps4653
      @natashaphelps4653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This song reminds me of “It’s Kind of a Funny Story.” The book is better than the movie.

    • @CobaltLobo
      @CobaltLobo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me everyday at work as a cashier

  • @chiggers8889
    @chiggers8889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1096

    I somehow forgot the name of this song, I legit just searched “Your ketchup toast is ready” and here I am

    • @michaelaj5977
      @michaelaj5977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣🤣

    • @JMaruska
      @JMaruska 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂❤

    • @terryf8398
      @terryf8398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmfao🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @petercarrillo751
      @petercarrillo751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I could have sworn he said Texas toast but... ketchup toast makes the song great but I love Texas toast and who doesn't

    • @thelegendkillersshittyduff1335
      @thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao nice

  • @ghostlyhugs
    @ghostlyhugs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    I'm quitting smoking. I'm getting out of depression. I didn't know I was broken till i wanted to change and now. I'm gonna get better.

    • @scottbarbee4392
      @scottbarbee4392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am riding high upon a deep depression-i can relate-in time it always gets better-it is part of the total human experience-you live you learn, and you will become better- in your own special way

    • @delir1um
      @delir1um 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      we'll get better

    • @gabrieldepaula7609
      @gabrieldepaula7609 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I want to be fine I don't want to feel sad anymore
      i wanna get better

    • @sonachouldjian9945
      @sonachouldjian9945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you will im absolutely certain

    • @thelegendkillersshittyduff1335
      @thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nice hope everything goes well

  • @Tbonekid34
    @Tbonekid34 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1563

    All these comments talking about Soso and no one mentions Donna?!
    TREAT YO SELF

  • @ditto7139
    @ditto7139 7 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    God, I wish there was a way to like this more than once. Amazing, sad lyrics combined with a catchy uplifting beat and a music video that is actually entertaining and powerful and not just people singing in a field? Sign me the hell up

  • @SleezyMcZeelius
    @SleezyMcZeelius 6 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    "Timings great, I just came out of my coma." "Are you gonna keep using that?" I couldn't stop laughing.

  • @dane2156
    @dane2156 6 ปีที่แล้ว +804

    Hey, I hear the voice of a preacher from the back room
    Calling my name and I follow just to find you
    I trace the faith to a broken down television and put on the weather
    And I've trained myself to give up on the past 'cause
    I frozen time between hearses and caskets
    Lost control when I panicked at the acid test
    I wanna get better
    While my friends were getting high and chasing girls down parkway lines
    I was losing my mind 'cause the love, the love, the love, the love, the love
    That I gave wasted on a nice face
    In a blaze of fear I put a helmet on a helmet
    Counting seconds through the night and got carried away
    So now I'm standing on the overpass screaming at the cars,
    Hey, I wanna get better!
    I didn’t know I was lonely 'til I saw your face
    I wanna get better, better, better, better,
    I wanna get better
    I didn't know I was broken 'til I wanted to change
    I wanna get better, better, better, better,
    I wanna get better
    I go up to my room and there's girls on the ceiling
    Cut out their pictures and I chase that feeling
    Of an eighteen year old who didn't know what loss was
    Now I'm a stranger
    And I miss the days of a life still permanent
    Mourn the years before I got carried away
    So now I'm staring at the interstate screaming at myself,
    Hey, I wanna get better!
    I didn't know I was lonely 'til I saw your face
    I wanna get better, better, better, better,
    I wanna get better
    I didn't know I was broken 'til I wanted to change
    I wanna get better, better, better, better,
    I wanna get better
    Better, 'cause I'm sleeping in the back of a taxi
    I'm screaming from my bedroom window
    Even if its gonna kill me
    Woke up this morning early before my family
    From this dream where she was trying to show me
    How a life can move from the darkness
    She said to get better
    So I put a bullet where I shoulda put a helmet
    And I crash my car 'cause I wanna get carried away
    That's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself
    Hey, I wanna get better!
    I didn't know I was lonely 'til I saw your face
    I wanna get better, better, better, better,
    I wanna get better
    I didn't know I was broken 'til I wanted to change
    I wanna get better, better, better, better,
    I wanna get better

    • @gtbkts
      @gtbkts 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks

    • @julsb9347
      @julsb9347 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      1 year after and I'm here. I'm finally chasing the dreams I had. It's been a year from my recovery and I'm still here. I'm not finished. I'm still working on myself and most days, I feel like shit. I gotta trust that I'll get there. I'll be better...

    • @Silver-gd9lg
      @Silver-gd9lg 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wouldn't it be Hey I, ?

    • @j-quanpadgett2934
      @j-quanpadgett2934 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're a legend

    • @helenarosno
      @helenarosno 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you❤️❤️❤️

  • @andrewwestgard2057
    @andrewwestgard2057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I listen to this song every day to remind me that my anxiety does not control, and that I can get better. This song helps me change my life. Thank you Jack!

  • @lazyangelgirl
    @lazyangelgirl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I wanna say the third time I heard this song, it hit hard. I cried and blasted this on repeat. I finally got around to getting help. I didn't realize that I had a few mental illnesses. I am currently doing much better then I was. This song is a reminder that music can change your life.

    • @TheStnrbtch
      @TheStnrbtch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This song inspired me to get help ♡♡♡ this song is a life changer

    • @bigb333
      @bigb333 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope you're still on the up & up! x

    • @hastithakkar
      @hastithakkar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this is the only song i can listen to when i'm not ok. and i'm not ok a lot. idk about saving but it's comforting me and i couldn't thank jack enough for it

  • @jjb0894
    @jjb0894 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “I didn’t know I was broken until I wanted to change” really resonated with me.
    I ignored my mental health problems and alcoholism and didn’t want to address them, convincing myself I didn’t have a problem.
    I finally admitted I had a problem when I went to get help.

  • @michaelhochstetler5020
    @michaelhochstetler5020 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This song is currently keeping me alive

    • @robtownsend4336
      @robtownsend4336 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hope your still with us

  • @madamDOOM105
    @madamDOOM105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My friend died 4 years ago in a bad car wreck.... He just got clean, just bought a house, and just had two little girls... He used to quote this song... I didn't know he was until now and it is hitting me so hard..... Not just that he quoted it but that I needed to hear this

  • @peje1214
    @peje1214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i like the how the music video revolves around jack listening to other people's problems while the lyrics of the song talk about his own. it reinforces the message that yeah, he SHOULD probably start analyzing himself just like he does others... and maybe he'd get somewhere. and he does, when the video shifts to him singing. this song makes me think good things. i love it so much.

  • @jaysabz7355
    @jaysabz7355 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I'm starting my journey to get better. This song, as silly as it seems, was a major part of that decision. Love to everyone struggling to get by day to day. Hope to report back successfuly soon!

  • @mayamagination
    @mayamagination 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1603

    This song is actually really sad

    • @seanknuth4819
      @seanknuth4819 9 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +Maya Magination Yeah. It is.

    • @BatTaz19
      @BatTaz19 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Maya Magination As sad as Jack Dunham?

    • @birdsqautchman1116
      @birdsqautchman1116 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Maya Magination is it about suicide?

    • @blinktheworld33
      @blinktheworld33 9 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      +Maya Magination Unless you don't speak English. Than it sounds like a happy anthem!

    • @mayamagination
      @mayamagination 9 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      +Samuel Day The songs pretty much about most of the shitty things that have happened in his life (his sister's death, his cousin's death during the Iraq War, 9/11) and how he 'wants to get better'. Antonoff himself calls it a 'mission statement'.

  • @bdash32
    @bdash32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1759

    "I didn't know I was broken, till I wanted to change."
    Let's go, 2021 is the year we get better.

    • @irequirecaffeine
      @irequirecaffeine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me on new years lmaoooo maybe next year man.

    • @williammckimm8318
      @williammckimm8318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said sir

    • @williammckimm8318
      @williammckimm8318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@irequirecaffeine I'm sorry man but now you get todo whatever you want whenever you want so what's the down side.

    • @squamish4244
      @squamish4244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@irequirecaffeine Well dude, look at it as you have all of 2021 to get better, so the sentiment is still true!

    • @anthonyhuman4625
      @anthonyhuman4625 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      G3t it bdash!

  • @piyush1365
    @piyush1365 5 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    one doesn't realise this song really helps people like me who thinks every day is a turmoil of millions of different feeling trying to get hold of me that i cannot handle and ends my day with an anxiety

  • @eleanor8370
    @eleanor8370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I loved this song as a 10 yr old because it sounded cool, not knowing what it meant, not knowing knowing that someday in the future I would be screaming “I wanna get better” into the sky with every nuance of meaning hanging from it

  • @PaulaPatioOfficial
    @PaulaPatioOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I have NO idea where I've been BUT... I can't get enough of this very VERY talented band!!!!

  • @Rodsteelington813
    @Rodsteelington813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    If anyone is going through things mentally and feels alone, just know that this will get better as long as you’re willing to fight. Even if you aren’t willing to do it for yourself. Do not give up, breathe, know that I don’t even have to know your name or where you’re from but I love you and we’re all fighting together. We will get through this. You are strong, you are beautiful, and you will get better.

    • @oleksandras8300
      @oleksandras8300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are such a kind soul. Thank you for this ❤

    • @itsflippint0ni
      @itsflippint0ni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Needed this. ❤️❤️

    • @hastithakkar
      @hastithakkar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you. i love you too and we'll get better

    • @murraynone-ya9729
      @murraynone-ya9729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My name is Murray.

    • @missmurphy7977
      @missmurphy7977 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤗✨

  • @ellagrace8986
    @ellagrace8986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This song made me cry cause like kinda speaks facts. Didn’t know I was broken till I wanted to change

  • @X-3K
    @X-3K 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1669

    "Your ketchup toast is ready."

    • @pcarebear1
      @pcarebear1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I thought that was what she said...but I was like "who the hell does that?!?" Then I remembered some people use ketchup for pasta sauce :P

    • @qreilly1978
      @qreilly1978 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Texas Toast

    • @AppaJooey
      @AppaJooey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think it's just one word ... ketchuptoast ... lol

    • @brianleonard6290
      @brianleonard6290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Had to rewind to make sure I heard right.

    • @Sayonarami
      @Sayonarami 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I heared cutTED toast tho. Its weird

  • @shannonventura8435
    @shannonventura8435 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    When I was at my lowest with my PTSD and depression, I heard this song for the first time, and it really did inspire me to keep going and want to get as healthy as I could.

    • @thienxuanpham2215
      @thienxuanpham2215 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope you can achieve the better. Keep doing the good work. I'm cheering for you 🥰❤️🌹

  • @michaelthomas8077
    @michaelthomas8077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is our year! Just remember, "every passing moment is a chance to turn it all around."

  • @stephanieborn3444
    @stephanieborn3444 9 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    "The timing's great... I just got out of a coma..."
    "Are you gonna keep using that?"

  • @lacrimosa5213
    @lacrimosa5213 9 ปีที่แล้ว +311

    And this is how you start a band.

    • @lionnoir654
      @lionnoir654 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      alhjlkarFrance dans

  • @therealdanfan
    @therealdanfan 9 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    Is that SoSo from OITNB? And Donna from Parks and Rec? :P Love it even more

    • @PeepsILoveEllie
      @PeepsILoveEllie 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +emma n SOSO FROM OITNB. fuck, I was thinking so hard.

  • @happi0420
    @happi0420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    "Waiting til I get dressed and then putting on the same thing; is not fixing yourself." Makes me cackle every time

    • @toastedjoe1013
      @toastedjoe1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If people see me and I'm not wearing pajama's, they should know I put in effort for them.

    • @crookedywookedy8736
      @crookedywookedy8736 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I love that actress SOOOOOO much.

    • @c.swinford8283
      @c.swinford8283 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@crookedywookedy8736 who is she? this was like my 80th watch of the video and my first time realizing her acting was like the pinnacle of it lol.

  • @evan
    @evan 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3306

    This was a great music video!

    • @brooklynfaith9097
      @brooklynfaith9097 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agreed

    • @maliksanchez3476
      @maliksanchez3476 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Evan Edinger yeah

    • @nowhxreboy-4607
      @nowhxreboy-4607 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Evan! :)

    • @w1nterb4by
      @w1nterb4by 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Evan Edinger same evan

    • @alexjonesey7454
      @alexjonesey7454 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      EVANNNNN you reminded me how much I love this song, and when you said it in your new video I was like 'YES I LOVE THAT SONG OMFG THANK YOU FOR REMINDING ME!!!' And here I am. Thank youuu 😂

  • @SophieArabella
    @SophieArabella 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5184

    the real question: why did she only take the lamp

    • @oliviaaugust5744
      @oliviaaugust5744 9 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      true lmfao

    • @Rauulra
      @Rauulra 9 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      +Sophie Arabella Lightning for selfies

    • @sylviapike4235
      @sylviapike4235 9 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      +Sophie Arabella I may be wrong but I think that it is a play off of the movie The Jerk...

    • @brooklynfaith9097
      @brooklynfaith9097 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good question

    • @Dwight_Lee
      @Dwight_Lee 8 ปีที่แล้ว +193

      +Sophie Arabella I think it's supposed to show how the light of his life (her) is walking out on him.
      Edit: I noticed how the scene of her leaving is the only time he's fully lit in the video. The parts afterward he's mostly only lit on half of his face, showing his feeling of emptiness.
      Also after the line "...So I put a bullet where I should of put a helmet and crashed my car 'cause I wanna get carried away" (Saying he blew his brains out in his car, so he could at least have a decent funeral) He is completely dark on this point forward from the video, signifying his death.
      Just added this to support my theory, any other ideas anyone?

  • @alexthomas962
    @alexthomas962 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just discovered this amazing song. Crazy how music like this can fly under the radar.

  • @bobfreak96
    @bobfreak96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    sitting outside AA 2 hours before they open at 8am and after the suicide hotline didnt answer listening to this song because i needed to change my life is the most powerful thing ive ever felt. lip syncing, smoking the remnants of a pack of cigarettes realizing i really do want to change and after almost a year living the life i know i deserve, a loving wife, a baby on the way. this song has truly changed my life in a way i never thought possible by music (i never wanted it to mean so much to me imagine being influenced by music lol) but it was and it kept me sitting there for the whole 2 hours so i can change my life for the better. And it worked!~ there is hope people its just 1 more week its just 1 more day from now. trust me a random guy on the internet who had nothing and gained everything even if it feels like nothing is going your way it truly is i only did the 1 AA meeting so this isnt some religious thing but really truly you can do it you know you can and i know you can just hold on please.

  • @Tfries_
    @Tfries_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    [Verse 1]
    Hey, I hear the voice of a preacher from the back room
    Calling my name and I follow just to find you
    I trace the faith to a broken down television, and put on the weather
    And I've trained myself to give up on the past cause
    I frozen time between hearses and caskets
    Lost control when I panicked at the acid test
    I wanna get better
    [Verse 2]
    While my friends were getting high and chasing girls down parkway lines
    I was losing my mind cause the love, the love, the love, the love, the love
    That I gave wasted on a nice face
    In a blaze of fear I put a helmet on a helmet
    Counting seconds through the night and got carried away
    [Pre-Chorus]
    So now I'm standing on the overpass screaming at the cars
    "Hey, I wanna get better!"
    [Chorus]
    I didn’t know I was lonely 'til I saw your face
    I wanna get better, better, better, better
    I wanna get better
    I didn't know I was broken 'til I wanted to change
    I wanna get better, better, better, better
    I wanna get better
    [Verse 3]
    I go up to my room and there's girls on the ceiling
    Cut out their pictures and I chase that feeling
    Of an eighteen year old who didn't know what loss was
    Now I'm a stranger
    And I miss the days of a life still permanent
    Mourn the years before I got carried away
    [Pre-Chorus]
    So now I'm staring at the interstate screaming at myself
    "Hey, I wanna get better!"
    [Chorus]
    I didn’t know I was lonely 'til I saw your face
    I wanna get better, better, better, better
    I wanna get better
    I didn't know I was broken 'til i wanted to change
    I wanna get better, better, better, better
    I wanna get better
    [Bridge]
    Cause I'm sleeping in the back of a taxi
    I'm screaming from my bedroom window
    Even if it's gonna kill me
    [Verse 4]
    Woke up this morning early before my family
    From this dream where she was trying to show me
    How a life can move from the darkness
    She said to get better
    So I put a bullet where I shoulda put a helmet
    And I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away

  • @jacobadderley2643
    @jacobadderley2643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This song... says words I couldn’t say for myself, whilst simultaneously rocking my world. Thank you for the beauty.

  • @alexdeschenes243
    @alexdeschenes243 8 ปีที่แล้ว +562

    I'm surprised this doesn't have more views.

    • @badumtiss5288
      @badumtiss5288 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly...

    • @pvrpl313
      @pvrpl313 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      at least a 100 are from me lol

    • @bishbach310
      @bishbach310 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      more than 5 million ?

    • @alexdeschenes243
      @alexdeschenes243 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ThermoNuclear GR ya but this was a pretty big song for a couple weeks, just seems like 5 mil is low is all

    • @chiadikajoeadigwe145
      @chiadikajoeadigwe145 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @lindseypowell01
    @lindseypowell01 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the few songs (and even artists) that how I think of their songs has grown with me. COMPLETELY different than the first time I heard it. AMAZING.

  • @markanthonytorres9624
    @markanthonytorres9624 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Their songs and vidoes give me this old MTV early 90s nostalgia vibe. Love it

  • @thatchocobro
    @thatchocobro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I've loved this song for years and always felt it in my bones. This last year some things finally shifted and I can feel it in my heart too. I don't just want to get better, I'm GOING to.

  • @LowKeyLokiDyes
    @LowKeyLokiDyes ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The middle aged lady's performance was amazing. "I'm not crazy!" Whole heartedly believed the need to convince us she's not just making it up.

    • @soupadai.75
      @soupadai.75 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her name is Mary Kay Place, she"s been in many films (Big Chill).., and before her acting career took off, she was a songwriter/ singer

  • @serenity2655
    @serenity2655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As someone who started therapy at 19 I sooooooo love this video. I got one therapist that truly was human and very harmful. Their real people too. My 7th grade counselor was a blessing Sister Helen - thank you for yellow walls and Judy Blume books and an ear.

  • @ignaciobeltran5047
    @ignaciobeltran5047 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The way I see it, in the video at least, he's sitting down and examining each part of himself that is in need of change. The younger person signifies his childish insolence, the abortion dog girl is his lust, the couple signifies his inability to understand someone else's point if view, while at the same time making every excuse under the sun and the older woman signifies his paranoia in relationships. He's sitting down examining each part of himself. This is a great song, catchy and worth more than just listening to but also understanding.

  • @jej.claess269
    @jej.claess269 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I’m in an eating disorder recovery program and bruh this song makes me feel less abnormal and more like just another person going through some stuff.

    • @sophiarojas1659
      @sophiarojas1659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hey darling! how r u doing?

    • @jej.claess269
      @jej.claess269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@sophiarojas1659 Pretty great!! Out of the ED Recovery program and officially in recovery now! Going back to school, engaged to the best man I’ve ever met, and just living life basically! I still struggle but I’m a whole lot better than a year ago!

    • @marshm3llow467
      @marshm3llow467 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jej.claess269 Wow, I am so glad for you! My life is kind of a complete mess right now so good to hear it actually will get better.

  • @EdCates
    @EdCates 10 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    It's always nice when you hear a song on the radio and get hooked on it, then see the video and wind up liking it even more. :-)

    • @NathanMahon
      @NathanMahon 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      the closing sold it for me :D

    • @EdCates
      @EdCates 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      :-D

    • @brendanmcgowan2225
      @brendanmcgowan2225 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "You gonna keep using that." Prob my fav P&R character. Perfect

    • @Wishbonegreco
      @Wishbonegreco 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!

    • @lilacs-n-kiwi
      @lilacs-n-kiwi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      💜💜💜

  • @gianasarha7221
    @gianasarha7221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So thankful for this song. It's the only song that got me through my brother passing. I love you Justin, I miss you everyday 🖤

  • @gldnkltz101
    @gldnkltz101 10 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    She left with one bag, two fake birds, and a lamp. Priorities.

    • @jennyb1496
      @jennyb1496 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Emotional support lamp obv.

  • @AaronAtkinsHonorableChairman
    @AaronAtkinsHonorableChairman 10 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    this video's casting is an allstar team of comedy show extras

    • @danielborah6889
      @danielborah6889 10 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Phoenix fan!!!!!

    • @blakewang5299
      @blakewang5299 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Aaron Atkins the perks of having Lena Dunham as your SO

    • @nathanhasegawa4937
      @nathanhasegawa4937 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lena Dun- 🤢 🤮 🤮

  • @Iamahumanehuman
    @Iamahumanehuman 9 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Hey! It's Soso, and she finally got out of Litchfield! Good to see man

  • @diomnibeyonce591
    @diomnibeyonce591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Still to this day this song still gives me that tingling feeling. I can’t describe it (only when I blast it obviously)

  • @julesdeward9951
    @julesdeward9951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have 9 years, 4 months, and 8 days, of getting better without alcohol or pills... and every morning I still say, Please, and Thank You, and Turn it Over and I Wanna Get (even) Better

  • @RaeBae7
    @RaeBae7 10 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    i could've sworn that i had heard this song before when i heard it the first time

    • @stevew278
      @stevew278 10 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      you probably did, artists today are very unoriginal and often use songs from 30 years ago by replacing the lyrics and maybe adding a slightly different beat

    • @athena5795
      @athena5795 10 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Steven F Yo no though not really

    • @Skyte100
      @Skyte100 10 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Steven F "Creating drama needlessly and making this all up"

    • @stevew278
      @stevew278 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Skyte100 go listen to "werewolves of London" by Warren Zevon and then "sweet home Alabama" by Kid rock and tell me Im wrong. Sorry artists today aren't original , hate to break to to you.

    • @athena5795
      @athena5795 10 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That's only one artist though, not everyone.

  • @annaotto7256
    @annaotto7256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can’t explain how much I love this song

  • @Stickerbombsquad
    @Stickerbombsquad ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Still listening to this song after years and years of depression, Still trying to get better

  • @TheRedKing247
    @TheRedKing247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    "Woke up this morning early before my family
    From this dream where she was trying to show me
    How a life can move from the darkness
    She said to get better
    *So I put a bullet where I shoulda put a helmet*
    And I crash my car 'cause I wanna get carried away"
    Jesus christ that line hits like a freight train

  • @fmvobsession6733
    @fmvobsession6733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This song/video IS therapy.

  • @puppXet
    @puppXet 10 ปีที่แล้ว +726

    Isn't that SoSo from Orange Is The New Black in the beginning?

    • @MegaBitHead
      @MegaBitHead 10 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      That's where I know her from! It couldn't think of where I saw her before

    • @Angelcrazy98amy
      @Angelcrazy98amy 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah! That's her, ahah incredible

    • @everygorgeousmoment
      @everygorgeousmoment 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg thank you!! She was so familiar!

    • @jameslaskowski9259
      @jameslaskowski9259 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Elizabeth Purvis ur cute

    • @iLiveExtreme
      @iLiveExtreme 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I KNEW I KNEW HER FROM SOMEWHERE, lol thanks, it was bothering me so much

  • @flxwercxrpse1871
    @flxwercxrpse1871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This song always make me cry. At first it was mainly the, “i didn’t know i was lonely till i saw your face, i wanna get better, better better better i wanna get better, i didn’t know i was broken till i wanted to change.” And now the lines for his sister make me think of my brother who passed away when i was 18.

    • @rubydeep1191
      @rubydeep1191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jack Antonof's sister passed of brain cancer when he was in high school, its been a major influence on his songwriting. I hope you're well

  • @WeatherReport63
    @WeatherReport63 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    giving hope when you need some. perfect song

  • @furbabyangels
    @furbabyangels 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I discovered this band today and am so happy I did.

  • @dudds6699
    @dudds6699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A friend who I thought was a friend dropped off of the world. This song help me move forward. It continues to help.

  • @throwmack
    @throwmack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i listen to this song every day of my life. its whats getting me through everything. i dont think i would still be here without it.

  • @hopeh6616
    @hopeh6616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was my anthem when I thought I was losing my mind. Thanks for being there.

  • @pcsecuritychannel
    @pcsecuritychannel 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1203

    That is how you make a music video.

  • @Lena-wk2by
    @Lena-wk2by 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One of my all time favorite songs
    Don't think I'll ever get tired of this

  • @BennSewell
    @BennSewell ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Saw these guys at Finsbury park supporting the 1975. Bit skeptical at first but they were awesome, great stage presence and music. Would recommend seeing live.

  • @kirbsyde6490
    @kirbsyde6490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm thrilled this song conjured up such emotion in people. It's good to feel & interpret those feelings. You'll grow more as a person.

  • @matthiasck
    @matthiasck 10 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    holy shit, real music :)

  • @sarahluv7
    @sarahluv7 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The music video goes along perfectly with the song. I liked the song but now I LOVE the song.

  • @mrchiefloud1590
    @mrchiefloud1590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And I miss the days of a life still permanent. Morn the years before I got carried away. Hits home for me.

  • @MajorGrokey
    @MajorGrokey 10 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    It's one of those days that doesn't come around too often, but when it does, you refuse to make eye contact but do anyway because you know you have to and you feel okay but hope that it's really okay and not just okay because you're not looking at the floor anymore.
    Man, I need to sweep.

    • @queenwyntir
      @queenwyntir 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Poetry.

    • @Wishbonegreco
      @Wishbonegreco 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That made my day

    • @MajorGrokey
      @MajorGrokey 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      keith greco and your comment made mine - thanks :)

    • @neoshoprof
      @neoshoprof 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I wrote that...

  • @MegaDhop
    @MegaDhop 10 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This is a very good music video unlike that crap mainstream pop puts out

  • @CronkyAF
    @CronkyAF 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I only realized this dude was from the band “fun.” just now. I was rewatching We Are Young n I was wondering why that one band member looked so familiar.

    • @ddngblsng1135
      @ddngblsng1135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was literally scratching my brain thinking, where have I seen this guy. Thank you.

    • @jennifersun2638
      @jennifersun2638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He is super talented....he produced and co wrote a ton of good albums. Lordes Melodrama,Taylor Swifts folklore etc.

  • @aaronlove2683
    @aaronlove2683 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This song almost made me cry, for all the right reasons.

  • @billiondollardan
    @billiondollardan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can't understand why this only has 12 million views. It seems like it's worthy of a lot more

  • @lardesouza
    @lardesouza 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The casting in this is beautiful :)

  • @AndArrington
    @AndArrington 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    "I wanna get better" Donna: *TREAT YO SELF*

  • @ZDanielPhoenix
    @ZDanielPhoenix หลายเดือนก่อน

    Almost 2 years ago, this song came over the radio, and helped me come to terms with needing help in my life.

  • @youknow3219
    @youknow3219 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I saw this video for the first time in jail. It was a step towards me being better and I didn't remember that until just now. Just became a new favorite. Again.

  • @azcrum
    @azcrum 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I heard this song on an episode of New Girl. Love this song and the video is so fun👍. Glad I discovered this group.

  • @ericacorwin9650
    @ericacorwin9650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Me and my boyfriend put this song on repeat and screamed this song when we were moving to maine to get sober such an anthem.

  • @mangohabanero2460
    @mangohabanero2460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So glad I grew up with this song. Just found it back again and I couldn't be happier...

  • @myrahbeverly1242
    @myrahbeverly1242 10 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    anthem of the human race

    • @erickneipfer4025
      @erickneipfer4025 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Best comment I ever read anywhere, period. Well done.

    • @myrahbeverly1242
      @myrahbeverly1242 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eric Kneipfer well thanks dude (: