As an ENFP it always shocks me when I find people that don't want to explore who they are and study themselves and learn about their types and behavior. I want to know everyone, but most of all, know who I am. But others don't even care to study themselves, it's weird to me. They just live in the present and not think about this type of stuff.
As an INTJ (probably), I studied myself intensely. I never stop learning my true personality. I always doubt the test result as If I'm really an INTJ. When I view other people, I can almost read people's mind. Sometimes, I can predict their next move based on their patterns of thinking and feeling.
in my experience , its just a default reaction / state as a result of Ne 😭🎭 but it is sad that when i am expressive about the fact that im actually struggling people dont believe me , as a result . another thing that we see as normal but isnt to others is the ability to hold more than 1 idea , perspective , or even " state " at once ☯️ .. people often expect us to just be 1 dimensional , but life is not so .
In my opinion, I think you’re right, as an ENFP. Me personally, I do wholeheartedly believe that when I act up, get frustrated, or begin to get freaked out through troublesome experiences, it is abnormal. So I’m that sense, I agree. I don’t particularly think it’s a specific ENFP trait, though, looking at my fellow ENFP replies, lmfao. It’s just.. a bad coping mechanism, that we seem to believe is normal, but im slowly realising its.. just not.
I feel attacked. You’re so very right. 😂 I don’t know why we’re this way. I will be heartbroken AF and still try to cheer up the person I’m talking to and cracking jokes.
As an enfp I agree! i am a very optimistic person and whenever I encounter problems I always think it will get better. I believe I'm a lucky person because I ignore and forget the bad incidents!
If I'm being like her when I'm older, I'm happy I'm an ENFP. She is gorgeous and I'd love to talk to her 🥰 Aaaand she can give a hug and even if it is a small one, I'm gping to be so happy!!!!
Number 2 hit me the hardest 😂 but I’ve always experiencing people being annoyed with me dumping loads of information on them regarding my interests lol
Hmmm.. As an INTJ, I also tend to offer people trust until they prove unworthy of it. It is the best way to gain more information. But I also always have a back up plan for if and when they betray me. I'm an optimistic pessimist. I always have something brewing for when life goes wrong. Anyway, perhaps this is part of the basis for why ENFPs and INTJs get on famously, if we understand something that is part of their normal.
*I realized as an ENFP that i trust too easily, but also try to not trust and it's so weird. *My family HATES when i talk about personal growth and i accept that. * Lastly, i learned the hard way not everyone likes hugs. Unironacally I'm not a hugger
The very first one I really, really identify with. I'm 57 years old, and i still struggle with gullibility. I still truly really want to believe everybody at face value until proven otherwise. I know better, but that's not my bent to know better. For some reason, I still feel that being skeptical or leary of people is wrong and cruel. It puts assumptions on people that were not earned, and that's not fair to them. But being gullible's not good either. So there you go.🤷🏾♀️
That first one is hard, even after multiple instances of backstabs and abused trust. I want to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, not necessarily because I want to, but because I would want others to do the same for me.
@Aphrodite intp , I 💯 % relate to the recent intp short ... I wish i could genuinely open up & trust more , I could make more friends if I balanced out my personality with this more energetic positive upbeat personality
@Aphrodite I wish I had NI high in my cognitive functions... it would be amazing to just have a vision for a single future I want / deeply believe in ... tho I have taken the concept of Letting off good emotional vibrations to receive it back & it has been working, I've made more surface level friendships & has helped me with breaking shyness with girls ... but I still see & know of the many potential possibilities people/ humanity is capable of & and I'm always Taking information I get from people , Tracking patterns in their Behavior And habits and extrapolating a predictable future based on the information They tell me and what I observe ... And since humans are creatures of habit it makes them very predictable And it gives me the data points to let me know if I want that person or To deal with the potential possibilities Their behavior is likely to lead to in the future ... And I most definitely ask questions to confirm before Making judgment i'm always reading the current the situation & making future possibilities ... Basically Anything happening in the present leads to the future, so action reaction cause effect So I just naturally am. Not trusting & it takes me too long to make real friends if I do
I often doubt if I am truly an ENFP and well, I relate to these. I am still young but I learnt about the last two and gosh, the hug stuff really hurts. I love hugs and cuddles. ToT
My partner is an ENFP and I love him. ENFPs are so sweet in my experience. I'm an INFJ so if I'm gonna trust anyone it's because they've proven themselves, and if they don't I just won't trust them. It can be really simple things that will make me decide, not necessarily anything extravagant.
ENFP here and I instantly liked you! Was ensuring me again that I am and always was an ENFP. And yes ENFP kids actually need more protection because of nr 1....
Ooh the trust thing is soooo sooo true😐and about learning wierd stuff and talking about it .. I stop doing it at some point after people made fun of me a lot ...mostly my friends .
I'm INFP, but I really relate to a lot of this as well. Especially the hugs. I always ask people "do you want/need a hug?" because some people just don't want to be touched
i relate to all of these so much! but especially the hug one! I use to hug all my friends until i made one friend who would push me away and say no. It took me a while to realise not everyone wants hugs, so now I ask!!
Relating so much to your 2nd point, and embarrassingly i started this whole personal growth thing at the age of 15 and everyone was like ??? (Am 17 now btw :P
I think culture plays a HUGE role in your openness to hugging. I come from a culture that does not have a lot of physical touching and, despite being an ENFP, still have trouble with people wanting to hug a lot
God the second one is so embarrassingly accurate. I have an epiphany and i run off to tell the next person who will hear like did you know this???? Oh my god i finally cracked what i have been doing wrong all this while. Wow i hope this helps me and helps you too. People dont wanna hear it, they are just beign nice humouring me because of manners, kindness, civility or just love 😂😅 my god im cringing about the thousands of moments like this through my twenties (im still in it).
That's true i love to hug others in fact whenever i make new friends i hug them in the end just to break little baundrise between us but some of them push me away and it feels so embarrassing and shameful......😢
I learned that hug thing the hard way when a friend stopped being friends with me cause I hugged her too much in the regular 😭 This was back in elementary school but that’s why I don’t hug ppl anymore
Yeah, sometimes, it's a hug, to not hug somebody. Like, if they don't want to be hugged, and you don't hug them, that is a sort of hug. You have effectively hugged them. That is one of my pet peeves, is when people try and force me to have an emotional experience that they are demanding that I have. When they try and get me to follow a script that I'm not saying or thinking. But usually it's not something as innocent as a hug. Usually it's somebody trying to get me to go along with their jerky ideology. But sometimes it can also be trying to make me feel happy when I'm not feeling happy
This is fabulous! I for sure trust until given a reason not to. I know there are bad people in the world. I'm not naive, but I give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they give me reason to doubt. As for the second one, I'm in that self discovery phase right now. Deep diving into ENFP. Thankfully, some people at my church are super into MBTI, so they don't mind talking about it with me while I nerd out with all the details. Third one, this is where I'm slightly different. I love physical touch, but for me... that is reserved only for those I bare my heart to. My closest inner circle. They are the only ones I feel comfortable hugging. Those outside of that circle will sometimes hug me, and I'm fine reciprocating, but I'm not the initiator. My ISTJ mom was not physically affectionate or warm, at all. My ENFP Dad was, so naturally he was in my inner circle, and I was used to hugs from him. So, that one works slightly different for me, and I think those are the reasons why. 💃🏻🌈 🧜♀️
As and ENFP, the first guy I ever liked, I never imagined him doing anything bad to anyone especially me, he said he loved me, then I heard from his friend that he was toying with me AND he was still talking to his ex... so lets just say I learned abt my over-trusting issue the hard way. 🥺
I am ENFP and I don’t trust anyone Edit: my first instinct is to hug people that are sad and the second 1 is rlly true and i am also a Gemini (Not related)
I strongly like and admire the mindset of the ENFP it couldn't be me but I wish it could I get it, but it also sucks how distrustful people are, I had an ESFJ friend get accused of being fake just because he was being nice to people, and it kinda made him go into his shell quite a bit, which I think really sucks because the nice people shouldn't be the ones being made to feel bad, and even if he was being a bit fake, so what? it's not like they have anything special that he could use to his benefit Seriously though, why are people so paranoid about that anyway? what do they think someone's end goal is?
As an ENFP it always shocks me when I find people that don't want to explore who they are and study themselves and learn about their types and behavior. I want to know everyone, but most of all, know who I am. But others don't even care to study themselves, it's weird to me. They just live in the present and not think about this type of stuff.
Omg same! I literally spend hours attending personality quiz etc...
-ENFP
As an ENFP I am EXTREMELY interested about what its like to be an ENFP.
Inihhhhhhb it drives me crazyyyyyyyy
Like why not 😭😭😭😭
As an INTJ (probably), I studied myself intensely. I never stop learning my true personality. I always doubt the test result as If I'm really an INTJ. When I view other people, I can almost read people's mind. Sometimes, I can predict their next move based on their patterns of thinking and feeling.
Aww, virtual hug for all enfps :))
Virtual hug for you too! 💞
~ENFP
Awwie thanks virtual hug for you too!❤
I appreciate your virtual hug (･ω･)つ⊂(･ω･)
I felt that.
ENFP CLUB! 🙌
Yes, ENFPs can be so passionate and enthusiastic about their beliefs and values sometimes they forget to not overstep other’s boundaries.
Awww, love ENFP's! I have plenty of ENFP friends and I love these 3 things about them!
- ESFJ
Lol I’m an enfp about to hang out with my esfj friend and I just read this
I have a lot of ESFJ friends as well, we love you too! 🤗 - ENFP
Thank you.... I'm an ENFP too... happy to hear this from an ESFJ
My favourite person ever is an esfj and I love her so much 💯
I don't really have friends but my mother is an esfj and she's the sweetest
the hug bit hurt my ENFP soul
Same :[
Me too 😢
I always hug my friends to say thank you for things or to say hi but I don’t want people to feel uncomfortable about it
ENFP’s are so cute 😭 (INTJ, lol)
Who invited this guy?
Jk 😂
I think they think it's normal to get through difficult life experiences and still stay upbeat and calm.
Nope, that’s just a coping mechanism from not being allowed to be sad or down by the way others react to us
in my experience , its just a default reaction / state as a result of Ne 😭🎭 but it is sad that when i am expressive about the fact that im actually struggling people dont believe me , as a result . another thing that we see as normal but isnt to others is the ability to hold more than 1 idea , perspective , or even " state " at once ☯️ .. people often expect us to just be 1 dimensional , but life is not so .
In my opinion, I think you’re right, as an ENFP. Me personally, I do wholeheartedly believe that when I act up, get frustrated, or begin to get freaked out through troublesome experiences, it is abnormal. So I’m that sense, I agree. I don’t particularly think it’s a specific ENFP trait, though, looking at my fellow ENFP replies, lmfao.
It’s just.. a bad coping mechanism, that we seem to believe is normal, but im slowly realising its.. just not.
I feel attacked. You’re so very right. 😂 I don’t know why we’re this way. I will be heartbroken AF and still try to cheer up the person I’m talking to and cracking jokes.
As an enfp I agree! i am a very optimistic person and whenever I encounter problems I always think it will get better. I believe I'm a lucky person because I ignore and forget the bad incidents!
If I'm being like her when I'm older, I'm happy I'm an ENFP. She is gorgeous and I'd love to talk to her 🥰 Aaaand she can give a hug and even if it is a small one, I'm gping to be so happy!!!!
((HUG))
Number 2 hit me the hardest 😂 but I’ve always experiencing people being annoyed with me dumping loads of information on them regarding my interests lol
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@@Dailyvibesandinspo it’s coming….someday….but, it’s coming 😂😂😂
the hug is so real😭
omg yes my ego gets hurt but boundaries, people!
Me too.
Before I hug people I ask them if they like one and respect when they say no
she's so sweet, and i relate to what she said100%!!!!!!!
The hug one is sooooo real. I love hugs and physical touch. I get offended when people don’t want my hugs 🫂 this is why I love INFPs
Y'ALL BETTER GIVE THEM ENFPS HUGZZZZ!!!!!
Hmmm.. As an INTJ, I also tend to offer people trust until they prove unworthy of it. It is the best way to gain more information.
But I also always have a back up plan for if and when they betray me. I'm an optimistic pessimist. I always have something brewing for when life goes wrong.
Anyway, perhaps this is part of the basis for why ENFPs and INTJs get on famously, if we understand something that is part of their normal.
I actually think your approach to trusting others is quite smart and suitable for the real-world
*I realized as an ENFP that i trust too easily, but also try to not trust and it's so weird.
*My family HATES when i talk about personal growth and i accept that.
* Lastly, i learned the hard way not everyone likes hugs. Unironacally I'm not a hugger
Aww right now I just wanna hug that lady and all the other enfps❤ - infj
The very first one I really, really identify with. I'm 57 years old, and i still struggle with gullibility. I still truly really want to believe everybody at face value until proven otherwise. I know better, but that's not my bent to know better. For some reason, I still feel that being skeptical or leary of people is wrong and cruel. It puts assumptions on people that were not earned, and that's not fair to them. But being gullible's not good either. So there you go.🤷🏾♀️
Sameeeeeeee, friend. Same. 🥰❤️
That first one is hard, even after multiple instances of backstabs and abused trust. I want to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, not necessarily because I want to, but because I would want others to do the same for me.
Pls whys dis so true😭😭I always try to hug my friends I even hug my own blanket while sleeping💀
Wow I wish I had that kinda energy n love
@Aphrodite intp , I 💯 % relate to the recent intp short ... I wish i could genuinely open up & trust more , I could make more friends if I balanced out my personality with this more energetic positive upbeat personality
@Aphrodite I wish I had NI high in my cognitive functions... it would be amazing to just have a vision for a single future I want / deeply believe in ... tho I have taken the concept of Letting off good emotional vibrations to receive it back & it has been working, I've made more surface level friendships & has helped me with breaking shyness with girls ...
but I still see & know of the many potential possibilities people/ humanity is capable of & and I'm always Taking information I get from people , Tracking patterns in their Behavior And habits and extrapolating a predictable future based on the information They tell me and what I observe ... And since humans are creatures of habit it makes them very predictable And it gives me the data points to let me know if I want that person or To deal with the potential possibilities Their behavior is likely to lead to in the future ... And I most definitely ask questions to confirm before Making judgment
i'm always reading the current the situation & making future possibilities ... Basically Anything happening in the present leads to the future, so action reaction cause effect
So I just naturally am. Not trusting & it takes me too long to make real friends if I do
As an ENFP, I don't like hugging people either 😂
Infp here, and I soooo relate❣😊
I often doubt if I am truly an ENFP and well, I relate to these. I am still young but I learnt about the last two and gosh, the hug stuff really hurts. I love hugs and cuddles. ToT
My partner is an ENFP and I love him. ENFPs are so sweet in my experience. I'm an INFJ so if I'm gonna trust anyone it's because they've proven themselves, and if they don't I just won't trust them. It can be really simple things that will make me decide, not necessarily anything extravagant.
ENFP here and I instantly liked you! Was ensuring me again that I am and always was an ENFP. And yes ENFP kids actually need more protection because of nr 1....
I literally hug people when meeting them for the first time. Instructor, friend, coworker. Doesn’t matter. 😂
❤❤❤ I love all Enfp!! ❤️❤️❤️ You are so funny and loving! 😂❣️
/Infp
Ooh the trust thing is soooo sooo true😐and about learning wierd stuff and talking about it .. I stop doing it at some point after people made fun of me a lot ...mostly my friends .
I'm INFP, but I really relate to a lot of this as well. Especially the hugs. I always ask people "do you want/need a hug?" because some people just don't want to be touched
she is so cute tho T-T ❤
I love how energetic and bubbly she is.
HUUUUUUUUG
HUUUUUUUUG ❤
Yep every person with the Ne/Fi ego that I’ve encountered loves physical affection
The 2nd one really hits home for me.
i relate to all of these so much! but especially the hug one! I use to hug all my friends until i made one friend who would push me away and say no. It took me a while to realise not everyone wants hugs, so now I ask!!
Relating so much to your 2nd point, and embarrassingly i started this whole personal growth thing at the age of 15 and everyone was like ???
(Am 17 now btw :P
Yup. And feeling misunderstood by my sensor family^^
I felt this, especially the hugs one. Had to learn it the hard way
I can't imagine a world without hugs.
But...but I WANT to hug everyone...
I think culture plays a HUGE role in your openness to hugging. I come from a culture that does not have a lot of physical touching and, despite being an ENFP, still have trouble with people wanting to hug a lot
She’s so adorable
Man these are sooo right lol
This is so real. Number one got me in so much trouble 😭
Oh wow... I thought I was normal I think I'm enfp
I like her energy. Hugs 🥳☺️🥰
I'd give my soul to meet an real ENFP
God the second one is so embarrassingly accurate. I have an epiphany and i run off to tell the next person who will hear like did you know this???? Oh my god i finally cracked what i have been doing wrong all this while. Wow i hope this helps me and helps you too.
People dont wanna hear it, they are just beign nice humouring me because of manners, kindness, civility or just love 😂😅 my god im cringing about the thousands of moments like this through my twenties (im still in it).
That's true i love to hug others in fact whenever i make new friends i hug them in the end just to break little baundrise between us but some of them push me away and it feels so embarrassing and shameful......😢
I learned that hug thing the hard way when a friend stopped being friends with me cause I hugged her too much in the regular 😭
This was back in elementary school but that’s why I don’t hug ppl anymore
Yeah, sometimes, it's a hug, to not hug somebody.
Like, if they don't want to be hugged, and you don't hug them, that is a sort of hug. You have effectively hugged them.
That is one of my pet peeves, is when people try and force me to have an emotional experience that they are demanding that I have. When they try and get me to follow a script that I'm not saying or thinking. But usually it's not something as innocent as a hug. Usually it's somebody trying to get me to go along with their jerky ideology. But sometimes it can also be trying to make me feel happy when I'm not feeling happy
Ahhh, me thinking about two people I hugged that didn’t want to be hugged just in the past week. Yeeeaahhhh
This is fabulous! I for sure trust until given a reason not to. I know there are bad people in the world. I'm not naive, but I give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they give me reason to doubt. As for the second one, I'm in that self discovery phase right now. Deep diving into ENFP. Thankfully, some people at my church are super into MBTI, so they don't mind talking about it with me while I nerd out with all the details. Third one, this is where I'm slightly different. I love physical touch, but for me... that is reserved only for those I bare my heart to. My closest inner circle. They are the only ones I feel comfortable hugging. Those outside of that circle will sometimes hug me, and I'm fine reciprocating, but I'm not the initiator. My ISTJ mom was not physically affectionate or warm, at all. My ENFP Dad was, so naturally he was in my inner circle, and I was used to hugs from him. So, that one works slightly different for me, and I think those are the reasons why. 💃🏻🌈 🧜♀️
The way i am an ENFP on paper but definitely actually and INFP is crazy
I have that friend who does not want to be hugged but she got used to me eventually lol
Sending hugs to Carol 🤗
The world doesn’t deserve such a angel like her 😢
As and ENFP, the first guy I ever liked, I never imagined him doing anything bad to anyone especially me, he said he loved me, then I heard from his friend that he was toying with me AND he was still talking to his ex... so lets just say I learned abt my over-trusting issue the hard way. 🥺
I don't like being hugged normally, but if someone wants to, yes I'll be uncomfortable but as an ENFJ, I can't say no
I am ENFP and I don’t trust anyone
Edit: my first instinct is to hug people that are sad and the second 1 is rlly true and i am also a Gemini (Not related)
😂 I hug a lot of people at work.
I think enfp is the most healthy personality type of all ones.
So sweet of her 🥹❤️❤️
I‘m an Enfp and I feel dumb because I actually thought everyone was like that-
I don't trust others that easily but my mind always gives me reminder to trust them😅
And I am here wanting to know everyone's MBTI and wanting to hug everyone... Hugs from an INFJ
Lol weird I am definitely not interfering with people's boundaries AT ALL, no one touches me and I don't touch anyone.
Why are enfps so cute
The second one i am still trying to learn 😂 how’d you do it??? Honestly thought I needed to move country or something 😭
They don't need a hug but we do lol
Just hug an enfp we don't initiate sometimes but we want it.
THE SECOND ONE IS TOO REAL OMG
I hug all my friend even tho i know some of them doesn't like physical touch😅😅😅
Oh gosh,
Way to call it.
Spot on!
I was an INTP at my 1st Year of College and now an ENFP at 3rd Year College,
huh seems like College do some bizarre things to people.
I strongly like and admire the mindset of the ENFP it couldn't be me but I wish it could
I get it, but it also sucks how distrustful people are, I had an ESFJ friend get accused of being fake just because he was being nice to people, and it kinda made him go into his shell quite a bit, which I think really sucks because the nice people shouldn't be the ones being made to feel bad, and even if he was being a bit fake, so what? it's not like they have anything special that he could use to his benefit
Seriously though, why are people so paranoid about that anyway? what do they think someone's end goal is?
lol, I hate being hugged as an enfp
Oh my gosh she is so cute! You can hug me! (I’m INFJ by the way.)
I'm an Intp... I'll take a hug... from that.. one... particular Enfp.
And yes... I'd like to hear your endless ramblings
Anyone doesn't wanna be hugged.
Yh i learned that when i was 10
I'm an ENFP and this describes me to a tee.
Asan ENFP…please don’t touch me
Hahaha yea she's right about all of it i feel her on all of these 😅
Hahahahaha enfp here … i can totally relate !
I would love an enfp hug🥹
I am a ENFP and I hate Hugging
Time for a pack of cigarettes
She is sooo cute 😍
I learnt 2 the hard way and now i thik everyone secretly hates me :)
The most accurate fact about me
Drew Barrymore vibes
I think this lovely lady is giving ESFP energy. Not sure about ENFP.
Just three?
So relatable 🤯
Ok basically INFPs except about hugs ig
Am I the only ENFP who doesn’t like hugs? I like them from my girlfriend and sometimes my mom or sister, but otherwise, hands off please
A lesser enfp.
Hard same. I think these might be a little more cultural than specific to ENFPs.
I am in Denial
Yoooo i ask everyone if they want a hug 😂😂 omg
Agreed 100%
Ok but tbh I'm an enfp and I don't like hugs that much tbh
how the fuck there's somebody that wouldn't like a hug