You know you're NOT an ENFP when...
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I agree with this. As an ENFP, I do try to make people laugh, but often they laugh the hardest when I wasn't trying at all. Then I come home and ask my husband to explain to me what happened.
HAHAH can totally relate!
Haha! Well this made me laugh intentionally (hopefully?) ~ Nathan
I RELATE! 🙄😭
yess
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you called us cute. we love you forever.
That cute comment I made was specifically for you Sandra ~ Nathan
Lol...the one thing I took from it! 🤣
LOL
@@lovewho I am not only deeply disturbed, but also perturbed that that comment was not catered to the big bois out here looking for love. My disappointment is immeasurable, and my day is ruined.
Love who..... dum dum tss
You make me feel like it's OKAY to be an ENFP.
It’s more than ok, it’s essential! ~ Nathan
We're awesome, lol.
What made you think it's not in the first place? 😂
What? Enfps are awesome! Super cool and make wonderful friends
I love being enfp 😀
you know you're not an ENFP when you're an ISTJ...
Haha!!! ~ Nathan
ahaha
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Wasn't expecting that to be so well received tbh. I failed as an INTJ...
I know an ENFP woman who has an ISTJ twin sister. Each one thinks the other is the evil twin.
ENFP Gang where you at?
HEY IK IM 4 MONTHS LATE BUT IM HERE 😂😂😂😂😂
im hereee
late but so
Hellloooooo ! UwU
HEREEEEEE :3
ayo
ENFPs are pleasant to be around. They listen and respond respectfully. They are playful and admirable. They are diplomatic, especially when negotiating a truce between people who disagree. The one I know communicates clearly, is a hard worker and generous with what he has materially and affectionately. I feel lucky to know him!
theyre very good communicator n someone to go to for positive advices. I noticed people come to me confiding in me their biggest secrets bc i never tell a soul. we have the ability to have ppl know we listen n understand where they're at, making us good friends to have.
Sounds like a Taurus tbh
As a Libra ENFP, yes. YES
@@visa9313 I'm a Taurus and an ENFP lol
These are traits that I really cherish about myself and always try to work on! It’s soo nice seeing that other people appreciate it 🥺🥺🥺
you know that you're a enfp when you accidentally flirt with others because you're to nice and charming :)
100% true unfortunately 😂
Yea but when im really tried to flirting, its so awkward idk why
THIS?! PEOPLE MISUNDERSTAND ME SO MUCH OMG
@@WindMaster06 Yea
But when you actually try it fails miserably
You know, I used to think that being sensitive, thinking and feeling deeply was a curse, after some years I realized it's a wonderful gift and strength and it's what makes us, us.
Yeah it's really problematic the way media portrays emotions and sensitivity, it's getting better a bit.
I soooo agreee
I still think it's a difficult for me from time to time haha. I wish I could stop pondering on things and feeling so deeply about everything but it's also good because I guess it makes me feel and seem alive hahah
Yeah, and you don't have to take drugs to feel (unless you are feeling to much, in which case you should go to therapy Or eat chocolate).
exactly! we ENFPS are definetly special!
This week on: am I ADHD or ENFP?
I'm both!
Yep! I sometimes wonder if my ENFP personality is the reason for my ADHD diagnosis.
Lili Lawless I wonder this all the time
Riley _ i am ESFP/ENFP(IDK exactly) and i definitely have adhd
likely both lol
I made a new ENFP friend right before the lockdown and having to stay at home. He calls me nightly and we laugh and laugh. In fact, his conversation is the highlight of my day as an INFJ. Thank you ENFPs for bringing us all joy.
Well said! ~ Nathan
I (INFJ) have platonic chemistry out the wazoo with ENFPs, love 'em
That's so nice to hear! I personally love INFJ's, they really get me and listen to me. You guys stay awesome!
I am an enfp, and my best friend (who I like hehe) it's an infj and I just love how he opens to me about any subject I want to talk.
I also have a infj girl friend who is amazing! I really feel comfortable with infj's , it's like a never ending world being with infj's. I just love the universe in their heads and their softness in their hearts
You are amazing!
Heidy MR yes there is a very special connection between ENFPs and INFJs! I once read somewhere in the MBTI world that they’re soulmates and since then recognise even more how those INFPs in my life are my favourites.
I want to be INTP, but I'm undeniably ENFP. I don't understand why people use drugs to get high. I'm a natural high.
that made me laugh
I actually used to think I was an intp, everytime I took the test I got it, but it just didn't FEEL right and I knew I acted unlike that depending on who I'm around. Turns out im just really shy, was probably depressed, and couldn't express myself unless around a select few people, and I coped using thinking instead of feeling
I- so true for me
I'm an enfp and I love drugs because it helps me when I get disillusioned with reality
What I love to do is creating story and then making the test as if I was one of the character.
One of them was an ENFP singer that became depress and decided to pretend he was dead, abandoned all his friend, move in a new country and change his name and personality. I tried to do the personality test after those events and he became INTP
You know you're not ENFP when you are not sensitive
Happy birthday
800sexy attacked 😂😂
Well played, also thank you ~ Nathan
then I'm definitely not lol
@@naturalinstinct4950 yeah we cry and get hurt alot sorry
ᄋᄉᄋnora i feel like sometimes ENFPs are not very conscientious but we’re really sensitive towards criticism and things that go against our values
The only thing I wanna say is that I have always hated making friends with a big group of people.
me too
i discovered recently that i really hate making friends with big groups of people, my best friends are the ones i have a more 1-1 relationship with
apparently we make a lot of 'acquaintances' but only keep a very few close friends that we really 'let in'. Probably because most people don't 'get' us. :)
@@defsoul01s50 well same I thought I was bestfriends with everyone .I recently realized I was just frnds with them. I got only 2 bestfriends..
as an enfp i don't have any extremely close one-on-one friends, and it's been making me feel very lonely. thinking about it now, all the "true" friendships i've ever had have been with one person.
I have an ENFP mom and she's the best ever. She always laughs the hardest at herself and is just a joy to be around. Also very loving and understanding :)
That’s what I aspire to be 🥺🥺🥺
I'm an ENFP mom to two girls, aged 10 and 6. I hope some day they would be able to say the same about me ❤
@@smittenwithsugar aww just having this thought makes you such a great mum in my eyes! Bless you family💕
😭😭😭😭 Thank you!!! There’s hope!! Maybe my kids will see this in me and not just 🤪🤪🤪🤪
My very close friend is an ENFP and she's so funny and smart at the same time I love her
And she's very open-minded, but also sometimes irresponsible,this is so true
@@tahababikir1577 what I don't know you
@@destroyer6945 HAHAHAH DUDE I LOVE YOUR ANSWER
Taha Babikir how did you find her name? I want to improve stalking skills
@@jakobfroberg6715 I was talking about my girl friend from school and my name is definitely not windy and her name definitely isn't Taha babikr because we live in Central Europe sksksk
My heart melted at "cute" - ENFP ❤️
I love a good heart melting ~ Nathan
@@lovewho Is this a threat?
Yeah I definitely swooned a bit😗
time pls?
Me too😭
Types with high Ne often do not seem to finish when they start projects, while in actuality they do finish them. The miconception they might even have themselves is that they started them to finish these projects in the concrete, while in actuality the real project was always to extract the abstract patterns. Once the patterns are harvested, the concrete project is now only an empty shell for them, without any meaning left in it and is thus obviously abandoned.
This interpretation is excellent, extremely well said. I might need to use this way of understanding it in a future video. The fact that "finishing something" or "achieving the goal" differs greatly depending on your type ~ Nathan
P O W E R - R E D - B U L L You nailed it buddy! Bless your ass to high heaven with this reality.
Love Who “finishing something” v “achieving goal” break down video by type would be a service to humanity’s collective subconscious. A compassion strength training exercise. Do it! Do it!! Do it!!! (Please)
Thank you for this comment, it makes so much sense!!
@@alicealexandrescu4549 thanks!
My sister, an ENFP, says people suck but she is passionate about environmental issues.
Same
SHES PROBABLY AN INFP!! (Maybe 60-40). I know many infps with similar ideas
Ava funny because I am an INFP, she lacks the Si child discipline of the INFP
same!
I think alot of us thought that way at some point in our lifes, I would bet she isnt older then 25 with that viewpoint
I always say... I don't care if you're laughing at me or laughing with me, as long as you're laughing! Happy Birthday! You know you're not an ENFP if you don't use an extraordinary amount of exclamation points... so there's that :-)
Love that quote! ~ Nathan
MikeShawTV !!!Exclamation Points!!! Yes.
Oh I'm not alone with using too many exclamation points!?!?! So it's an ENFP thing! **mind blown lol**
@@lovewho Happy belated birthday!!! ;D
hahaha yes, I look back at emails written by 5th grade me and cringe at the sheer amounts of exclamation marks I used... sometimes they filled rows, haha
Yes, ENFP's are the cutest things ever. I love the way they are so open and soft that they break through your armour and then have the decency not to abuse that. Also I kind of want to help them. They are these clumsy, unorganised goofballs that I feel I have to help organise in small ways without them knowing e.g. reminding them of things they have to do, secretly organise their school bags, teach them time management etc. And they do tend to wear their hearts on their sleeves and would often get hurt, so I kind of feel the need to protect them from the 'bad' of the world and enjoy hearing them talk about their idealistic plans for humankind.
-INTJ
This is so cute 😭 I wish I had an INTJ in my life!
CRYING RN. NEVER KNEW AN INTJ, BUT SUDDENLY I WANT ONE 😭😭😭
enfp here, you are so incredibly kind for doing that, as we do tend to be disorganized and scatterbrained at times. thank you, i am glad to see such considerate and thoughtful people like you in the world!!!!! :)
YOU ARE SO CUTE, WE LOVE YOU TOO 😍
I WANT YOU IN MY LIFE. YOU ARE SO CUTE !
from enfp
I like that you shed a positive light on ENFP’s multi-tasking and sometimes scattered way of being. My mom is an ENFP and has been criticized for that but the truth is no one could be as much for as many people and projects as she (they) can. She (they) may not finish the little details or may jump to new approaches but she (they) accomplishes more than anyone I know. - from an INFJ
Exactly! Those traits exist for a reason! ~ Nathan
I’m an enfp and I agree on this. A lot of my friends laugh when i talk, most of the times it’s unintentional. I love sharing my thoughts on world issues with my classmates, because although i’ve already have a strong opinion about the issue, i like to know what others think. And about abandoning projects? I love writing and the amount of books i’ve abandoned finishing is alarming 😂
Oh , you are literally my soulmate🤣🤣🤣
The one dislike is from someone who thinks they are ENFP but didn't relate to this video much and is butt hurt. Sorry person out there. Look deeper, find your type.
only if what was told is an absolute truth itself haha
I relate to this on a personal level. although I'm still questioning if I'm ENTP or ENFP
Husk have you explored socionics?
@@faywillowstream I did before but not in depth. I got ENFP. Although I'm still wondering if I'm just emotionally burnt out or was at cloud nine due to a stimulation
Husk here's a link on enfp vs entp !! psychologia.co/entp-vs-enfp/
When you said that we can always come back to our project later and use Mona Lisa as the sample, it lighten my heart and soul right away! I always struggle w finishing my own projects and that makes me sad and wonder if I can ever finish them at all 😔 Oh and I was always wondering if I'm truly an ENFP and you made it clear now, thank you sooo muchhh!! 💛
Glad you enjoyed the video!! This is great to hear!! Thank you for your comment ~ Nathan
@@lovewho Totally! Oh and Happy late birthday! 🎂🎉 May all your dreams and goals come true, Nathan!🥂 And it's actually true we (sometimes) send happy birthday singing video 🤣
I felt exactly the same with that comparision, also gave me comfort, knowing im not quite yet done with certain ongoing projects
Btw Nathan, are you infp, or intj?
It once took me 4 years to finish a painting slightly larger than printer paper sized.
Oh golly, and there I though I was a sociopath, but turns out I’m just an enfp
Haha! ~ Nathan
Lol me too
What made you think you are a sociopath?
How could you think that? I’m an ISTP, I’m the sociopath
@@rebekahw.8990 I was going to volunteer the ESTP for that lol. You guys can be hard working and sweet although you won't share that unless you know someone well enough that deserves it.
As an ENFP, I absolutely agree that I have a strong set of moral values. I am religious and much more conservative than many of my friends. That being said, while I may not be willing to budge on my Christian perspective of certain topics, I am ALWAYS willing to listen to what the other side has to say. I understand that everyone has different experiences than me, and so while I have a general idea of how the world works, I am willing to hear other people's perspectives, views and ideas. We may disagree on certain issues, but I am one who wants to be friends with others who have different ideas than me.
As a pantheist I would like to agree on this too, I understand others have differing perspectives and we (for the most part) want our neighbours, our brothers and sisters, our friends to succeed. We mustn't not let our biases to cause others harm.
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"there's no limit to what they can accomplish when they should have been doing something else"
A great quote I resonate with ENFP's. My mum is an ENFP, she could take over the world and help everybody but she has a ping-pong mind of ideas and gets that passionate about something then leaves the task half done, book half-written then forgets, starts a new task.
I love them.
INTJ here with an ENFP sister. "Just kind of cute" haha yes. When we were kids, she would walk up to other kids in the playplace and just radiate cuteness until a friendship manifested. It only took four seconds. Oh heck, we're in our thirties and she still does it.
"ENFP's love people, but they think that, as a people we can do better" - I Definitely feel that!!
Yes same
I'm an INTJ and my ENFP friend changed my life. Its totally true that we are made for each other
How?
Yup ENFP here! I never finish my projects! And when I go to sleep I lay awake in the night thinking of all the projects I want to finish and coming up with new ideas. Ugh, it does annoy me sometimes... Thanks for the video tho, it was very informative!
Glad you enjoyed the video! I listened to your music, you're really good!! Please make more videos ~ Nathan
@@lovewho Wow thanks! I will!!
I believe that ENFP's are the most adorable human beings.. like srlsly they are so cuute T.T
-INFJ right here
Oh really my crush Infj doesn't give a shit to me 😭😭😭😤, altho other people say I'm cute😌
@@Bharat_motivates yo as an infj-t, most of us are too hesitant to compliment someones' physical characteristics (eg. Cute , handsome).. so i guess that crush of urs might shy to say it to u directly :D and who knows? maybe he/she has a mutual feelings to u! ♡ we are scared to make the first move specially in a serious romantic way
I swear infj are so nice to us wth I love yall😭😭
y'all are too sweet stg
Like an INTP, I think ENFP's feel that joy of having new ideas and they also feel happy when they learn something new.
you made us ENFPs justice, love to see it :))
oh and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
Thank you! ~ Nathan
ENFP the most intellectual type outside of the intellectual temperament.
I might agree with that.
I can tell that I am very intellectual but not too intellectual in some cases.
I agree and it's probably why they get along well with INTx types.
@@jenniferk219 Right.
@Luce M from my experience infjs are quite capable and smart, but often cocky and don't care to improve, which makes them fall behind the enfp who can store up quite a bit of knowledge with that inf Si when maturing, and are interested in basically everything with Ne.
It’s not always rainbows and fun being an enfp but I’m proud of who I am. People around me enjoys my present but I’ve suffered from darkness too (don’t wanna call it depression). Last night was super tough, but today was so much fun. Sometimes people disappoints, other time they’re not. I hate fake, negative, bully and provocative people. I really hope they change for the better. But I always believe deep down they’re kind hearted people who is hurting.. what even am I writing. So yeah.. that’s that lol 😅😂
Him: they’re also kinda cute
Me: I am kinda cute “blush”
And the butterfly mind thing yes very true but I also have ADHD
i mean it makes sense but who'd say that they're "unfunny and close-minded"?
Haha, this exact thought crossed my mind! ~ Nathan
@@lovewho *gasp* we're all ENFPs! 💜
a lot of the world, actually
Hahaha true, but people should be realistic though, if you neither eventually make people laugh nor is described by others as being open-minded, then you're probably not an ENFP hahahah
i'm open minded and ready to hear your dumb idea - Arrogant Istp's
I agree a lot with the laugh at/with/for part. I will often be intentionally dumb or intentionally not understand or do something incorrectly just for the entertainment of others.
Also: you know you're not en ENFP if you don't enjoy chaotic environments. As chaos ourselves, we can take center role within and perpetuate it (for fun)! The few classes I've felt popular in are the ones that have been the most chaotic. I also implemented the above point in that class pretty often and it works pretty well
Thankyou for making this! Would you consider doing an INFP VS ENFP video about the differences and how to tell them apart? Thanks for your great content 👍
INFP Fi Ne Si Te
ENFP Ne Fi Te Si
Double observer vs double decider is what might be more noticable. I'm ENFP and my single observer makes me constantly take in information but I don't do the best job of organising it. I'd like to have it super well organized but it's kind of a drag to have to organize it all since there's so much and I so easily go into gather concepts, patterns and information mode.
Also is it still a thing to say introverts get their energy from being alone and get drained from being around people and vice versa? If they don't get their energy that way introverts at least don't expend it while being alone and extraverts don't while being with people.
I certainly will do that video at some point!! Glad you're enjoying the videos! ~ Nathan
TuroSaave Thankyou, this is informative! I think I get so confused though because I overthink so much haha. I would definitely say that I have difficulty organizing my thoughts and I gather information and connect patterns easily. But organizing it is so challenging! As for the introvert/extravert aspect, I’d say I generally recharge much better alone but I also need to verbally process my thoughts with another person a lot of the time. But I have a hard time figuring out if I use Fi or Ne more! Anyways I appreciated your comment and if you have more feedback I’m open to hearing it :)
This is such a positive video!! Your saying that starting a lot of projects and only finishing a few of them is part of the "creative process" is a really good reframe of how ENFPs are usually portrayed (i.e., never getting anything done). I'm going to carry that forward in my growth so that I can defuse from this image of myself as a flake and see myself more as engaging in a natural process that I use to move me ahead. Thank you!
Love this! ~ Nathan
3:47 Leonardo da Vinci has achieved his "The Mona Lisa" (and some other Renaissance paintings) by leaving something to the imagination. The outline is not firmly drawn and is softened, almost merging with the background, and the colours are mellowed. This also allows the forms to merge with each other.
This harmonious artistic painting technique has been given the Italian name 'sfumato,' meaning 'to diffuse like smoke.' Sfumato painting is nearly impossible to replicate! It rivals the finest ink-jet printing of computers, today.
It's nice to have knowledgable people around!!! Thank you for this info, I now feel compelled to watch a Leonardo Da Vinci documentary ~ Nathan
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Interesting..thank you!
Happy birthday Dude! What a wonderful gift for ENFP’s (highly energizing validation and reflection of the external). And a gift for you (a concentration of the life creating attention of the ENFP love energy) I’m sure you’ll feel it in your britches for days and days!
My fellow ENFP’s and (subsequent subtypes derivatives in the Objective Personality System). Are precious resources in this world. A world in desperate need for curiosity, humor, authenticity and connection.
My the ENForceP be with you!
May the ENForce be with you too! ~ Nathan
Woowww.this is how I know I AM an ENFP. Through and through.
It's eerie how accurate it is actually.
I'm scared, hiding under the bed in fear!!!
Anyway, Belated Happy Birthday!!!
And pleeeaasseeee do make MORE ENFP videos.
Cause we rock and the world needs to know more about us.✌✌me included
Glad you found it accurate! Yes I will make sure to keep doing more ENFP videos ~ Nathan
I’m an INFP and all of my closest friends are ENFPs I love their energy
Am an ENFP who has been recently rly let down and discouraged bc the people around me haven’t been reciprocating friendships and I feel like I’ve not been appreciated enough. Then I go in a loop that I’m too sensitive and feel too much and it bums be out. I haven’t done any wrong and I’m trying to come to terms w that ppl can just do what they want and that might mean I may not be a part of it but it’s makes me sad sometimes when I rly enjoy ppl and try to create a bond but it’s just not reciprocated
I can relate to the struggle, I took a test that says I’m ENFP but I hate people but a lot of the personality traits I have are ENFP i’m getting rejected by women for not reciprocating to romantic interests or unreciprocated attraction from getting ghosted or blocked or never once in my number or straight up were just being cold and giving out the uninterested body language when I just wanted so bad, he defeated me a lot from many women and girls that I had crushes on when I was in school, trying to become friends with bullies or in general with people who hate me. Got taken advantage of when I was being trying to be kind to others, I hate that I can be annoying sometimes which can make people hate me, I try to love people, but at the same time I hate people it makes me act cold a lot. And because we ENFPs are people pleasures, being hated on hurts us like atleast with me I felt like I disappointed some for something that’s unforgivable but sometimes I think that some people are not worth dealing with because well we are too different
Happy Birthday! Not an ENFP but respect your effort a lot! :D
Why thank you very much ~ Nathan
My oldest friend is an ENFP and I can attest that this is spot on . . . and entertaining as always :)
Happy Birthday!
Always glad to hear when the videos are accurate, also thank you! ~ Nathan
i'm such an enfp i teared up a bit at the end. thanks for your lovely breakdown sir.
Glad you enjoyed it! ~ Nathan
You've made me feel way better about my lack of focus and discipline, which doesn't happen often, so thanks
This made me happy, I thought you were so cute when you said "starting a million project and finishing hardly any of them is, I believe, simply part of the creative process for some people." That was so sweet, because there are so many people who like to be malicious and use that against you to mock you and make you feel bad about yourself. I saw someone writing that it's not always about the concrete in that project, and that is so true! It's often that I start to learn about something but then the point of it gets fulfilled, I don't take it all that seriously, I live life and learn. You are so sweet anyway! I will subscribe now. What is your type?
Also! I really liked that George Carlin quote! Funny how others think exactly like me "see the universe in their eyes". It hurts to love people so much because a lot of the time they wont be able to love you the same or think it's weird but I know now that's ok hahaha
Already subscribed, already have my ENFP mug from your mug creation (gifted from an ENTJ).
I relate hard to the ‘unintentionally funny’ part. I love to entertain, but also people never know if I’m being sarcastic or not because of my everyday tone.
Finishing used to be a big problem for me. As I have developed, I now finish many projects - even if only to see them to completion and to have that sense of accomplishment and closure. However, like you said, some things take a long time to complete.
There is variation within each type. ENFPs 🤹 are their most fabulous when they are (intelligent>flakey), relatively stress free, and have at least a few close people in their lives who understand and enjoy them. Thanks Nathan! 👏
I know that I'm INFJ but I still watch it bc Iike to hear you talking:) Happy B-Day
Ohhh some birthday flattery, best present I could ask for ~ Nathan
Awww, I feel very happy and honoured as an ENFP by this video. I'm getting into these types of personalities recently, so, I'm finding it magnificent, and at the same time scary, to see people who I never met describing my life lol.
Please do a video on ENTP VS. ENFP. I love your videos. They are so insightful
I will definitely do that video some point soon. I love that...you love the videos! Lot of love in this chat ~ Nathan
Happy birthday! Im so glad u were born 🥳
Me too! And thank you ~ Nathan
yesss!!!! i so resonate with "loving people, but as a people thinking we can do much better". you're not enfp but you can speak to it like this?!
"They are drinking the world around them" Wow, thats a quite good description of it. Its like everything comes into my mind without anykind of filter...
I can’t tell if I’m an ENTP or ENFP so I’m watching this
Do you make decisions usually based on logic or feeling? What is your first nature. Also do you have strong values you always consider when making a decision or more of a set of thinking patterns? The way is to realise which do you have: introverted thinking (entp) or introverted feeling (enfp). Search for the definition of those and determine which is more natural to you. They are among the 8 cognitive functions of the person according to theory. Both enfps and entps have extroverted intuition as their first and perceiving function, so you should look for the second ones, the ones I had mentioned above.
Same thing I think I’m more ENFP
ENTP argues to get others to think the way they think (Ti). They care more about the harmony of others (Fe)
ENFP argues to get others to think outside the box (Te). They care more about their own desires (Fi)
same, honestly I just say im both it's been too long
Lots of stereotyping here.
First, it was me who begged for Enfp content over and over again hahaha. Secondly, holy shit thank you so much for taking your audience's recommendations into consideration. Really, this means so much to your audience, you make them feel connected at least, on a virtual level. Thirdly, happy birthday man! keep slaying with that huge-ass brain!
Your wish is my command. Also "huge-ass brain" - I'm going to insist that people refer to me as that from now on ~ Nathan
Let me just say that George Carlin quote is a godsend. I've never come across another statement that encapsulates my sentiments towards people as perfectly as this one. I've always had an aversion to the idea of exclusively belonging to a clique. A friend of mine once said she couldn't wait to join a sorority in university and I just couldn't understand why. For me, being part of a group like that would be such a stifling experience. One of the struggles of being an ENFP is the constant pressure from less understanding types for us to commit to one friend group. Growing up, I've had many conflicts with possessive friends who eventually ostracised me simply because I wasn't willing to hang out with them every lunch period. I'm glad that has changed since high school.
Leonardo took 16 yrs to finish the Mona Lisa.....this gives me a lot of hope. I can't stop my self from coming up with new exciting ideas and starting new things before finishing my projects! I really want to go back and finish past passion projects, however, I've come to embrace the fact that I actually love the process or the journey of a project more than the satisfaction of simply just finishing a project. (with that said....I really do need to finish some of my projects like the adventure film I started around the U.S. (California, NY, Florida, Kansas, Missourri) Beliza, Guatemala, Dominican Republic, Italy, Tanzania, Kenya, Zanzibar, Germany, Mexico etc. I got so caught up in the filming, fun and experience that friends and others ended up asking, " Is there actually an ending to this film?" . After 10 yrs I would really like to say 'yes'. But hey...whatever, its been a blast!
Right on! Love my ENFP NE Dom Brothers & Sisters! They are my better twin (ENTP here). I love you and respect you so much! The world is a better place with ENFPs!
Happy belated birthday to you. 😊 Thank you for this video and doing us justice. I always find it annoying whenever I see ENFP videos on TH-cam where we arent described for our creativity and intellect and are just seen as spontaneous unicorn backpackers who don't like to discuss intellectual ideas and concepts. I love to discuss deep matters, but I also have a curious 'child like' side to myself too. It sometimes confuses people. You're right about the projects thing, I've done my best to limit the amount of projects at the same time so I feel its a little more manageable and not overwhelming. As an ENFP I see so many possibilities and have so many ideas that it can be overwhelming regarding what to start and do etc. I'm doing my best to be more organised and it's helping me tho 😊 thank you for your video.
I'm really glad you think that this video did you guys justice! I love ENFPs a lot ~ Nathan
@@lovewho thanks for the great video Nathan 😊 have a lovely evening 😊
As an INFJ I absolutely adore enfp's literally every single one I've met, I get along with immediately they're honestly sunshine personified :D
I agree, I’m an ENFP and I’m a Stand up comedian and I’m also accidentally funny off stage, I learned to laugh at myself at a very young age so I enjoy it
I just want to say...
I always forget to like videos but I just did.
Also somehow I feel like the best ENFP videos come from other types. Possibly they understand more from observance and people tend to not see themselves for who they truly are?
And your bit of advice on how to be productive despite how many endeavors we undertake is the most helpful I've heard.
You make me feel understood Nathan and I appreciate you! 😭
And I heard an interesting thing about people of a certain type that resemble a similar one in certain aspects possibly having a different "savior" than normal?
Someone suggested I'm an ENFP with stronger Te than normal and that's why I seem to be an ENTP sometimes.
Do you know anything about that?
Thank you, Nathan! 😊😊😊
Ok thank you so much for this comment!! It really means a lot to hear things like this. Yes it does seem like people of a particular type can struggle to fully see their own type correctly. So what you're referring to with the 'saviours' is most likely the Objective Personality system, go and check them out, in their system you might be a "jumper type." ~ Nathan
@@lovewho I actually didn't even know if savior was the right word or I remembered incorrectly hahaha!
Thank you so much, Nathan! 😆
It’s tough being an Ne Dom. I’ve often wondered if I’m an ENFP instead, since Ti and Fi can be difficult to tell apart at times. - ENTP
Interesting, I want to do a comparison video between them at some point! ~ Nathan
I'm an ENFP and my best friend is an ENTP, i was the one who told him to do the test and once it was done and we were talking, he said that the big difference between us was that he was more rational. I'll give the example he use, we're both vegans and have different reasons to choose this lifestyle. He did it because he was thiking on the convinience on prices and the impact of his health, so when the lockdown happened and prices rised up AS HELL, he started introducing egg and milk again and stuff like that. On the other hand, i quit meat because of my morals, because i value animals and i just feel its not fair to kill them when i can get the nutrients from plants, surely the price and the convinience during lockdown is killing me, but i just feel that could be my dog and i just can't.
I'm an ENFP and the credit for my survival so far goes to my extroverted intuition. Praised be the gods of magical plot armour that has protected me so far for I'm stubbornly ignoring my brain far too often 😂😂😂
@@senseofwonder0 SAME SAME IM ALIVE
thanks man. I feel so scatterbrained and lost half the time, you give me hope that the storm will all come together one day :D
Happy Birthday, Nathan!!! 🥳🎉
Why thank you. I'll await the video of you singing happy birthday to me... ~ Nathan
🤣🤓 not happenin’! I do hope you had a nice birthday, though 🎈
@@sammyj1183 Had to try, thank you again! ~ Nathan
Happy Birthday, Ethan!! I hope it's amazing!!
Thank you! ~ Nathan
is it normal that i got emo about this? thank you for the pleasing words, let me give you a glitter hug!!! 🤩🥰🥲
First, where have you been all my life? Second, I love your way and vocabulary choices of describing anything. Third, as an ENFP, you have liberated me with the line "Starting a million projects and finishing hardly any of them is - I believe - part of the creative process for some people." It makes complete sense! I have been given a hard time for this, as you've mentioned, and made the mistake of internalising it as a failure... This new piece of information is going to be so helpful in 'unlocking' myself. Thank you!
Happy Birthday Nathan :D *tips tophat
Aahh the ENFPs, my two younger sisters.
They are ridiculously funny, love the limelight, kinda reminds me of a jester at times. But the way they express their humour could get them in trouble too.
Nothing beats their warm caring heart though. They care without wanting or pressuring you for thanks/validation, it amazes me.
Loved the quotes! I feel the same, I love individuals but I hate society as a whole. Also, happy birthday :D
Glad you enjoyed it! Always great to see you in the comments and thank you! ~ Nathan
I joined a choir at an Episcopal church where a friend of mine became musical director. I am perfectly happy with being a congregant without becoming an Episcopalian. The rector is a First Nations female with an extensive background in anthropology and history. Her sermons and a congregation that has several warmly accepted gay married couples makes it a place I want to be, but I also have my lifelong identity as a Roman Catholic to nurture in my own special way. When I get to read, cantor or solo, then I have the audience I've been needing.
Great description of ENFP. Creativity is big with me. I need to write poems and stories down. I was telling a friend all my shopping experiences. She wants me to help her decorate her place.
I saw a pillow online hat with a line from Tom Petty's Wildflowers. And I thought I might study interior design.
Good night
Can you do a video where you tell the differences between infps and enfps? I have a very difficult time figuring which one i am
yes!!
I know from experience that they have a lot in common and that where there is a ENFP there's usually an INFP nearby.
You're infp trust me.
Georgios Moutafis so true
I certainly will! ~ Nathan
Happy bird-day!
Great quote that of Carlin's btw. I 100% agree with it. But I'm not sure ENFPs do.
Edit: Here's an ancient Greek birthday wish for you.
O Supreme Goddess of births, Artemis, accept this humble hymn and bestow your blessing on the one who celebrates the day of his birth in the material realm of existence.
You who give the perfect gift, Anisidora, give gifts of health, bliss, spiritual and material development, joy, cheerfulness, and any other mental or material gift that you judge for the virtue of existence.
Stand as a guide of this existence, paving the excellent paths of virtue that lead to eternal rewards so that the soul may resemble Your glorious grace.
Pure Goddess, keep the soul immaculate from all evil.
Blessed Goddess bestow the greatest happiness of fate as an aid to help the thought to go safely in her quest.
Saofron, give a healthy thought O Modest Goddess, give importance and respect to this existence.
Well... you just raised the bar of sophistication to a potentially uncatchable level...~ Nathan
@@lovewho Haha didn't want it to sound too weird, but I'm glad that you liked it.
Keep it up, Nathan (and Lu)!
One of the bestest mbti channels on the youtubes ;p
Happy birthday! Thank you for the explanation! Sometimes people have a hard time understanding us, and we can frustrate people, so this is nice to see. 😊
Glad you enjoyed it, love getting comments like this ~ Nathan
I’m an enfp-t but for the longest I thought I was an infp, took the quiz a couple times and realized I was just shy, also happy birthday! I love intpss, one of my closest friends are intps, so hearing ur perspective on us is nice to hear!
My ex, an ENFP, would start many amazing projects, while I, an INFJ, would dig in and try to complete these projects. I needed that box ticked dammit, while at the same time flabbergasted that he's now off with something else! Sigh. In this respect, it did help me to start something which I find hard to do. It was complimentary to some degree (minus the odd frustration).
Damn man, I hope you two had a gentle breakup😥 I have two INFJ friends and I care for them a lot, no one has to hurt you INFJs
As an ISFP teacher of high school freshman, I can say that most ENFP students’ energy and hilarious random observations make their distracting rambunctiousness and academic laziness a little easier to put up with. The challenge is focusing that energy and insight into something productive. 😂
I swear ENFPs along with INFPs are just my favorite people. I worship the ground they walk on.
-INFJ
Excellent video. Saying what ENFP isn't is more insightful than saying what we are.
My beloved roommate is an ENFP. This is so accurate 😍😂
WOW. 😮 You are so mean to us!
"It's possible to laugh with, because of, and at the ENFP"? Harsh! (Yet accurate to what my friends do.)
Also, I loved it. 😍 Subscribed.
Little bit of pain, little bit of pleasure. Also thank you lol! ~ Nathan
Awww, Happy Birthday!!!
I'm an ENFP during certain chapters of my life, Iliterally flip, or maybe the situation pushes me into it... I'm only a slight I on the original scale, so it doesn't take much...
So, in honor of your special day, I've decided to flip out, like, now, and go full on ENFP...
MUAH, MUAH, MUAH, British Taurus Bull Man, you gorgeous thing, you! Everybody loves you, and why wouldn't they?! The day you were born is just hot, you share it with the likes of Bono, so why don't you get up and sing us a song?! It would be far better than any of us tone deaf dorks singing happy birthday to you...
You rock! Love you so much, enjoy your special day, because you're so very special to all of us!!!
🎊💐🥳💋🍹🎂🍹💋🥳💐🎊
-INFP, mostly
I will name this the best comment of this comment section!!! Love it when INFPs go into WILD MODE! ~ Nathan
That's me. Believe it or not, I am trying to change my numbers. I have spent 6 months without any TV, and just reading and learning. My E,N and F numbers are too high, so I can balance these numbers out this year. I know, I can with discipline and mindfulness. Plus, I am trying to act more serious. I truely believe if you are too open minded and consiensions, you think about everything you do and say way too much.
I have seem a Psyciatrist since 20 because of my bad upbringing, and I think I am too conscience, intuitive, neurotic, and open minded because of my life. It's like being super hyper vigilant of every moment, every feeling, every word, every task, every person, every custom, every thing you eat, self discipline, ect... Plus, you remember too much about everything good and bad. My self esteem suffers because of this feeling. I act funny and silly to make life fun.
I am looking forward for a video about difference between an ENTP and INTP.
you know you're not an enfp if this never happened to you:
you're literally dying inside but somebody complaining about something and you say: "Oh my god that must be awful tell me everything!!! *hugs"
The accuracy in this is beyond me really, absolutely love it! And happy birthday Nathan!
This is always great to hear, thank you for your comment ~ Nathan
Bruh the way you talk is like super detailed explanation I understand the analogies and everything...
Happy Birthday! Make more ESTP videos! Please! :D
Ohhh I certainly will, I love that type and need to revisit it! ~ Nathan
Waiting for the you know you are not an ENTP when video😅 and
Happy birthday 🥳
Someone did a chart comparing George Carlin an ENFP with Bill Hicks an ENTP, it explains the differences. And you aren't an ENTP if you don't immediately Google that chart while you are doing 5 other things.
Will definitely do this at some point ~ Nathan
Love Who 🤩
gisforgary actually I’m an INFJ, but my love intrest is ENTP😁
As an ENFP I wanna say a few things.
1. This is by far the best channel on the MBTI types. Thank you.
2. What type is the author of this channel? I would say INFJ, INTJ, or smth of the sort. They're normally the people who do these things. Or perhaps better put, the ones who can talk about the different MBTI types in a most impartial and objective way.
3. I didn't compleetely like the 2mins and the 5mins video on ENFPs. I felt he digressed a few times in them like an ENFP would (so perhaps there was some intentionality in that), whereas I looked at his videos on other types and I thought they were remarkably spot on. This video on ENFPs is really accurate imho, however.
4. I've liked and subscribed. Thank you for your great work!
5. You hair looks good to me pretty much always.
stunned how well you are able to understand others! thank you for creating these vids!!
I wish you many happy trips around the sun :)
Same to you! ~ Nathan