How men are lied to about marriage

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  • @akai.christo
    @akai.christo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you Rabbi Friedman!! Wish you and all here a Great Monday!!💪✡️🙏❤️🔥🎶

  • @arthurhill365
    @arthurhill365 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    From a Christian brother. If only this was taught to every young person in the church, many ruinied lives would be avoided.

    • @ez2u1
      @ez2u1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      From a long time Christian sister… Stop sitting on a pew and listening to a man. Get serious with your life and study in Hebrew and Greek the entire Bible. Reference… That is what needs to be taught. Study yourself the word of God … too many lazy people.

    • @catchmany95
      @catchmany95 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ez2u1please don’t speak in that way, it only discourages and creates hurtful men.
      It also goes to women as well…

    • @rebirthofgodrics907
      @rebirthofgodrics907 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@ez2u1 gods church is a community Christianity isn't individual but communal saying stop listening to man is entirely unbiblical cause all the Bible was written by men taught by man preached by men and propagated by men.
      God puts kings prophets apostles pastors missionaries teachers for a reason. Not everyone has to know Greek and Hebrew heck it can take years to learn the language so he should just stop studying the word till he finally can read in the old tongue. Just so he can read the same Bible with a few more exact words that still reads almost the same.
      You just sound like pride is your actual God. You have a superiority complex

    • @ez2u1
      @ez2u1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@catchmany95 the Holy word says: 2 Timothy 2:15 KJV
      Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. Yes we must speak the word of God… Our times are such that we must know the truth.

    • @cjsjedi73
      @cjsjedi73 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@ez2u1100% agree with this. I started this 17 years ago. As I learned what the foundation of the book wrote. I read the NT under a totally different light. I understand Paul way better. Then I realized Yahshua never claimed to be God and actually claimed the other side. After 3 years I left the church because of anti biblical teachings. I became messianic and then realized I sat on the fence of 2 different religions. Can't be good. So I did exactly what the Bible teaches. Walk away from filthy doctrines and their teachers. I'm now Jewish by blood and choice. It's been an amazing journey to live for Our Father and be grateful for even my hardships and struggles. I'm not condemning Christians. We are a family under 1 Father. The only difference. You talk to Yahshua. I speak to HaShem our Father. I'm not saying be Jewish. You have a Jewish soul or you don't. I'm saying cling to Father.

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    @sofiayudelzon4830 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for your shared wisdom !

  • @leonidd00
    @leonidd00 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "It's not a beauty contest!" You nailed it Mr. Friedman 🙂👌

  • @user-oe7cm6tn3g
    @user-oe7cm6tn3g 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you Rabbi!

  • @josephdilorenzo5314
    @josephdilorenzo5314 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    No marriage is better than a lousy marriage!

  • @Genady-n5h
    @Genady-n5h 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Simply profound, this type of wisdom can fix entire societies
    Thank you Rabbi, my deepest and sincerest gratitude

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    @elizabethbooth5446 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you rabbi

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  • @maryw4609
    @maryw4609 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤

  • @gracelevy-qo2og
    @gracelevy-qo2og 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Though it seems a have-no-answer problem and driving me crazy when it occurs to see my tragic reality that no one ever suffered this much around the world like me, for your help, I think I may overcome those long-term sufferings started by myself and someone behind the scenes .I'll try my best. thank you Rabbi.

  • @raquelduquedeestrada1129
    @raquelduquedeestrada1129 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    RABBI FRIEDMAN, Sometimes it can take years, you invest the time, love, etc., but most men are afraid of commitment. They feel like they would be giving up so much by committing to one woman, Ike their freedom. They feel like marriage is a trap, we women feel different, we are nurturers by heart. We like the security of our home, we are the pleasers, at least I speak for myself. Some men have huge egos and they dont allow us women to feel or want for anything. I fell in love with the wrong person.

    • @MichaelMartusevich
      @MichaelMartusevich 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don't give up, Good man are out there.

  • @Almneur
    @Almneur 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Never tell your wife of your extramarital affairs!

    • @humanerror7
      @humanerror7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      erm affairs r bad mmmkay

    • @Almneur
      @Almneur 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@humanerror7 bad? but they feel so good.

    • @aizighodeobinyan5310
      @aizighodeobinyan5310 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      End the marriage first, then go have a new relationship.

  • @sierrasky2491
    @sierrasky2491 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I enjoyed this very much thank you for sharing. All Americans should come to this Rabbi can come to him for his advice for marriage. We would be much more successful❤

  • @josephdilorenzo5314
    @josephdilorenzo5314 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How can you know a person after 4 or 5 dates? We are not living in medieval times. People live together nowadays for a year or two before they decide get married and have kids. They check each other out and then decide. What happens if the man has major psych issues and goes into periodic rages, then what? If the woman lives with this man, then she could say, "listen this is not working," and she could move on without having kids endure suffering.

    • @thesweetlifeeveryday8143
      @thesweetlifeeveryday8143 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I married my husband after dating for two months, dating meant getting to know each other’s values and interests, no sex, no touching. we decided we wanted to marry. We planned the wedding in one additional month and married . I was 18 he was 27. This year it will be our 20th anniversary with 4 kids. I am married to the most amazing man in the World. We did this as Christians. I think everyone understands your reasonable comment but, When it works it works, and from what I’ve seen it works more often than not. We should not throw out the baby with the bath water. Have a good day.

    • @patnor7354
      @patnor7354 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In medieval times people married other people in their village or friends of their family. -People they and their parents had known their entire lives.

  • @JeanMarcelino-qr9ju
    @JeanMarcelino-qr9ju 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My Spiritual spouse 100 percent He must knew❤❤❤❤

  • @josephdilorenzo5314
    @josephdilorenzo5314 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What happens if the woman turns out to be a drill- sergeant in the house? Where she tells what to do, how to do, when to do? It's better to be alone then and thank G-d for that.

  • @michelangelope830
    @michelangelope830 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    If one person is reading is enough. I just need time. As long as I am allowed to talk you will be listening. Remember the truth is atheism is a logical fallacy that assumes God is the religious idea of the creator of the creation to conclude wrongly no creator exists because a particular idea of God doesn’t exist. Humanity are deceived, for real, for eternity. God is the most important and the true God is the only that matters. The true God is Spinoza's God. I can not speak clearer. He was right, we only have only life and it is forever. To die is to resurrect to meet God, without deceptions. I need to rest. I am a psychologist, not a charlatan looking for attention. I am tired, I have explained myself too many times. I am who I am and I know what I am doing. I want a world without religion and atheism understanding God is everything always. When a molecule is divided God is literally divided. I have to sort out a conflict at work talking with a workmate. It has become the most important issue for me at the moment, something I think about. I want an apology. I accuse humanity of having hurt God. I am ashamed of myself. The past is the past and what happened can not be changed. God is Time and Space transforming. It is just an idea that can not do any harm to anyone and is censored. I want to be respected. I want to be able to stand for myself. I want to be better. I want to be perfect. I want to not make mistakes. How is the perfect way to resolve the conflict? Why I was a victim if I was a victim? I am talking about psychology and knowledge, not about religion. The idea of God is not religious. God is the intelligent eternal entity that created the universe from self because from nothing can not be created something. What I am going through mentally i hope you can imagine is a lot. Put yourself in my mind. Put yourself in my life. Put yourself in my circumstances. Emergency! The war must stop. Thank you.

    • @Almneur
      @Almneur 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is a God which I define as The Source and Originator of All Things. Judaism anthropomorphizes God like the ancient Greeks did except that the Jews use only one god. The belief in "the personal God" creates division and conflict and war.

  • @tzm1843
    @tzm1843 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The chances of marrying someone with a personality disorder, which can horribly harm all that they touch, or marry someone with a psychiatric problems, which also harms and destroys all that they touch, is very high now a days. It is sad. This the the reality on the ground. I was set up with at least 6 men, each of them had horrible psychological problems. It would have been suicidal for me to marry any of them. I have talked to and counselled both men and women who have married people with serious personality disorders, malicious Borderline with psychopathic tendencies, bipolar disorder, Borderline with narcissism, narcissists, etc. etc. One must be very careful when one chooses a marriage partner. Often if the person with these problems are very intelligent and manipulative, they can hide these problems until after the marriage. Then getting out the marriage is very difficult and costly: psychologically, mentally, emotionally, on one's healthy and financially. You are also forgetting about the horrific price feminism has cost to the family and the legal systems (both Torah and secular). Marriage is important, bringing children into the world is important. It should not be at the cost of one's mental, physical and emotional health and one's finances.

  • @valariesusan52
    @valariesusan52 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In a trial marriage where you only give your hand each person is free to leave anytime .Its a trial marriage.Getting to know you ...its a song

    • @DanielKoch-kw6fw
      @DanielKoch-kw6fw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello Valerie, good evening 🌆. How're you feeling today ?

  • @tesfamikael7486
    @tesfamikael7486 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nationhood approval. Yes the benefit of life.

  • @divinepv3427
    @divinepv3427 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So how do two people assess themselves for compatibility before they get into marriage? Reason for my ask is, politics have taken over everything, and new social standards drawn, where it's now key to identify we have common interests before you venture into it, otherwise almost all men are getting screwed day in, day out, cos socio political standards have empowered the women

    • @plnbdy
      @plnbdy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Compatability" is in the hands of the almighty..... for us that means..... make it work with whomever you married. This is not "trying on clothes".❤

  • @Almneur
    @Almneur 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Dating is cruel for women but marriage is cruel for men.

    • @user-wq7hw2ow9l
      @user-wq7hw2ow9l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Why?

    • @Almneur
      @Almneur 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-wq7hw2ow9l Testosterone.

    • @thestorybehindthat5236
      @thestorybehindthat5236 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How? He initiated the whole thing. What are you talking about?

    • @saras.1912
      @saras.1912 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      People are cruel, that's all

  • @jdod64
    @jdod64 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Out of curiosity, how is infidelity handled if the husband stops and repents of his behavior before a wife finds out? Obviously telling her would be a extreme burden.

  • @Freshsaltedtitipukefuckit
    @Freshsaltedtitipukefuckit 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pit bulls vs lions, it would be better then raining fire and fury like we have heard

  • @frances.ca.1191
    @frances.ca.1191 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    there are People who may need a Psychiatrist but never meet one, and on the other Hand, ''let's find a 'good' or 'correct' Pschyatrist in Today's global Village'': it may be that in ''original Villages'' Marriages occurred as it happened between ''Jaqob'' and ''Rachel'', and without the ''Problem'' encountered by ''Jaqob'' himself, that prevented the ''Couple'' to marry ''immediately'', despite this occurred ''as soon as possible'' (after 14 Years and another less desired ''Wife'' in between), and ''Jaqob'' and ''Rachel'' were ''Twin Souls'', from ''G.d'' (that is the ''best and pivotal'' Condition for a ''Marriage'' that ''makes 'Sense', in the 'Sense' of G.d's evolutionary Plan for the 'living sentient Creation or Work of Art' indeed'', and ''Children'' come from this ''divinely ordained Marriage, Couple'', who are ''Benim HaElhim''). ''Shlom'' for everyone, simultaneously.

  • @Freshsaltedtitipukefuckit
    @Freshsaltedtitipukefuckit 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have heard them say aaaaaaa we are on fire 🔥

  • @josephdilorenzo5314
    @josephdilorenzo5314 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have to know the person well before you get married. Otherwise, you could be confronted by a "rude awakening." A couple has to click.

  • @Freshsaltedtitipukefuckit
    @Freshsaltedtitipukefuckit 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Put the cash 💸

  • @humanerror7
    @humanerror7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    sometimes I wish I wasn't raised secular x.x dating was so confusing....

    • @michaelmelamed9103
      @michaelmelamed9103 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everything about one’s existence is confusing; a caring family, good teachers and favorable circumstances could make it easier.

    • @humanerror7
      @humanerror7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@michaelmelamed9103 I was really blessed with all three of those, but there's something to be said for a strong structure as well, particularly in terms of male female dynamics and discipline in all areas of life.

  • @IonDru-rm3ot
    @IonDru-rm3ot 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Take my Wife Please ! - Eddy Schekel

  • @ChristianPrince1
    @ChristianPrince1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm sure his daughter will date everyone and they come to school about life

  • @Freshsaltedtitipukefuckit
    @Freshsaltedtitipukefuckit 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just have Nation rise against Nation, like a dog fight a beware, stand back put the money on the gold in the temple

  • @corneliuscornia3189
    @corneliuscornia3189 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Get married if you want to end up poor in a shelter somewhere 😊

    • @SusanRubinstein
      @SusanRubinstein 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wrong a woman staying single or divorced w kids will end up in a shelter

  • @whatsthemonsterbelow
    @whatsthemonsterbelow 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love you Rabbi, but this advice has holes in it.