The Dark Side of Being an Influencer
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.พ. 2025
- This is Niki and Gabi's experience on the Dark Side of Being an Influencer. Enjoy.
#nikiandgabi
*loneliness / lifestyle / can’t relate to anyone - 02:11
*influencer friends - 03:58
*being used - 04:29
*social anxiety / going in public / being recognized - 05:33
*the demand for constant content - 06:42
*worth and numbers association - 08:23
*the pressure to be a “role model” - 09:23
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I love their evolution. The more they get older, the more open and honest they seem. Honesty, they are the most real influencers I have seen ever since around 2020-2021. It's amazing.
I wouldn’t say the _most real_ as far as influencers out there, but with what they do share, they absolutely try to be as authentic and honest as possible in a classy way.
It could not be more sad that their teacher friends' students all want to be influencers. That makes me so worried for the future
We’re not living in the 1800s, there are other jobs available
True. We need people wanting to become a technician
You shouldn’t not everyone will make it as an influencers
That's very appreciated for y'all to open up to us and not make us also insecure about ourselves ly
True, this means a lot
Weak
Aw
Yes agreed ❤️😢
Definitely agreed
Am i the only one who just want to like- pass through the screen, give them a big hug and tell them everything is gonna be fine ?
We need a trend showing how you actually feel about your profession, the struggles the stress everything
Sick idea and profile!
Yes. It was real and a good video
lol people would just get canceled
@@andrea.valdez literally lol
Yesss
“You can sit back and enjoy your coffee”....my face because I really am having coffee right now 😳😂.
"niki did WHAT at the bar?!" A podcast would be SOOOO much fun!
omg wait a niki and gabi podcast would be great!!
Podcast video style would be cool on this channel as they have multiple channels already, would like to see the style changed on here, kinda like Jessie (Harry potters Lavender Brown) and Bebe Cave on ytube
YESSSSS
yesss an uncensored podcast
do more videos like this
Yes :) 💗
A bit more demanding pls /:
Nah it was boring
Nekem is tetszik
it flopped so uhm
the fact that they had the guts to admit that their lives aren’t as glamorous as they seem shows maturity. they’ve grown so much and learned from their mistakes. this is why they’re my role models. they realized what they’ve done in the past and have made so so much better choices. i love you both 💞
Even though its a well known fact and much more influential, busy, better creators have said the dame thing multiple times......
I love this new vibe and energy. I've been waiting for y'all to be yourselves and not being someone that people want you to be. These new videos are the vibe
NIKI PLEASE BRING BACK THE TRUTH ABOUT SERIES I LOVED THAT ONE it felt so real and raw
Petition to bring it back!!!!
to see and grow with niki and gabi and seeing how mature and independent women they have grown into just makes me so warm this is so so important
I clicked faster then they could say “hey guys! I’m Niki and I’m gabi”
Same
Ok?
@@norahgreens3991 PHIL
Uh good to know
This is everything ❤️
Really
@@savannahdriscoll4970 het
Really
Okay but like Gabi's hair is 🔥🔥🔥 Who did that hair?? It's so gorgeous
Her friend Val, it’s stunning isn’t it? She did a video getting it done and getting people’s reactions on her channel!😃
right? it’s so cute and fresh, i hope she keeps styling it like this, i love it!
@@staceykwafo-akoto3313 why can't I find it on gabis channel?
@@staceykwafo-akoto3313 that was Niki not Gabi 🙃
@@shortti3 OH LMAOO
U guys promised us a story time about dating the same guy in the truth or drink video
Spill the tea ☕️ 💞👏🏼
Yessss
yes please!
YES
They were just saying how stressed they were about needing to open up or having to do something for us, why are you putting more pressure on them
When you're trying to be an influencer yourself and see this video title to add to the anxious feelings but you click it anyway bc its Niki and Gabi. I want these girls to be happy 😊
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i like when Niki and Gabi hug each other they need to start hugging in every video from now on 😂
Can we all appreciate how much gratitude Niki and Gabi have 🤞❤️😭
We love you
nah
this is influencers promoting influencers, telling us how we all should appreciate.. whatever
ikrr and so humble
Being a film student I really appreciate what you do and the work behind all the videos you produce both individually and together! Love from Ireland ❤️xx
okay but I love how much they've grown individually AND within their own relationship with each other 🥺
Yes
Ikr like omg dude wowwwwuhhhh
Women are ALWAYS told that they have to be role models and it’s so frustrating
I feel like SmokeyGlows video really helped them take a look at themselves for the better. Good for you girls for being honest.
For sure 👏🏼
Yes
I hope so!
Yea I was thinking the same!
I felt the same way
A podcast would be awesome or a separate channel with more content like this!! Thanks for opening up and being honest. I've been watching you guys since the diy's and the diy don'ts and I'm glad to see you guys happier :))
It’s so refreshing to see that y’all are actual people, and not internet content robots iykwim
Yess
It'll pass
Wow I never realized the like social anxiety aspect and how you wouldn’t be comfortable alone in public. Damn
Never realised the “like”?
@@1LauraMeow what😃
@@1LauraMeow yeah.
That’s because people watch you
this is actually my favourite video they have posted in YEARS
your name is cute babe !
same it's more like they are talking to you as your best friend
Ikr it’s like this video gave me a power surge, and I can feel it in my chest like EUGGHH
I luv how open and not fake they r to their fans unlike other influencers
and this is why I love them so much. Gabi has healed and Niki has really found herself.
I love how genuine you guys are! This right here is why I've been watching this channel since the beginning! You're so real it's refreshing
can we just talk about how GOOD they both look!! Literally they're so GORGEOUS
I was just about to comment this, they're both stunning !!
Ikr like there looks just have me a power boost, it hit me in the chest like EUGH
You can see that you both got into a better relationship with eachother. You are raw and honest, I love that. You both care for yourself and each other and try to open up. I love that and i needed that. Much more relatable.
I feel like you can physically see that they enjoy their time together more, like them sitting closer together and just the way they look at each other, it makes me happy for you guys!!
Gabi - “I love that the thing these days is being relatable” YES 💛💛
From hating each other to turning into 3:52 thinking about having each other these two have all my heart❤🥺
I love how honest you guys are, every job has difficulties and we understand how hard it is not being able to show them because every one will be like “oh be grateful”. Stay strong 💗
I hate when people shame you for complaining about a "good life." I have yet to meet one person who loves EVERY SINGLE aspect about their jobs.
okay but can we talk about the SICK editing?!😍
Facts
can we appreciate how much theyve both grown as people?? Their both so strong and gratefull.. We love you guys:))
Can we appreciate what we think is how we know we see u??
Y’all should focus on the positive. You’re very blessed to live the lives that you do
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When niki said where not kids anymore my brain went STRANGER THINGS 😂
SO RELATABLE I LITTERLY THOUGHT THE SAME THING 😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😭😭🤣😭🤣🤣😂🤣😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭🤣😭🤣😭😂😅😭😂😭🤣🤣😂😭😂🤣😂
Omg me too lol and I’m wearing my st shirt right now lol
I love that Gaby is posting what she wants to on her channel
Being an influencer is fun but can be wild at times! It can be draining too that’s why I encourage ppl to take a break when needed so you can focus on your mental health
Yeah but like some jobs are just as draining without having the opportunity to take a break
@Freya S yea every job can get draining but social media can really be on your mental so can other labor jobs tho!
I love that Niki and Gabi are so honest with us. That’s there’s so much behind the cameras. And how much time and effort they put in for us. I can always count on them to give us the tea. 🤍
Ok I’m still raving over your background set up it’s so cute and aesthetic can my room be like that
We won't leave yall because u decided to open up to us. Thank you for having trust in us.
Love this video!❤︎
Your makeup looks are insane! Woah 😦 🤩
Me too it’s very truthful
Me 7
omggg HIIII
you’re happiness is glowing, you both look so beautiful and healthy, living for it
I love that they are honest and not show us the glamorizied amazing life
niki and gabi are the realest youtubers out there. i love how they can just be so honest with their viewers, they're the big sisters i never had. ❤︎
Like they said, there are many people who want to be “influencers”, and all I would say is....WATCH THIS VIDEO!
I love the sit down video segments. You are grown women and talking to the camera like this makes it feel like we are all friends just spilling tea.
I love when Niki and Gabi keep it real with us😩💜
I'm excited to see Niki and Gabi feel more comfortable being themselves. I watched them as a young girl so seeing them grow too is lovely.
I love the podcast video style! Super into the deep talks and relatability. Life is too short to worry about what others say or think about you. Live life on your own terms. I personally love how this channel keeps it real. Keep doing you, Niki and Gabi!
Hope you can ‘influence’ more positivity to your platform 💜
It also really shows your maturity and how you’ve gained self-awareness on your journey as TH-camrs. Your viewers can see how genuine you both are and we love to see that!
I love how they explained things in such a simple and relatable way for us to understand
it’s so important for influencers to open up. it shows true confidence. thank you so much. love u guys
Watched this entire video thinking omg they should have a podcast ❤️
Can we talk about how real these girls are ?!? I LOVE YOU NIKI AND GABI!
There is nothing “real” about these two😂
They are both as fake as the flat earth theory . Spewing anything they want to make you feel like they could be real. They even blocked my comment about them being fake
They are both as fake as my booty
this is why i love niki and gabi. i can always just si and listen to them talk when i’m stressed. i love yalll
“Your life is special”- Niki, 2021
this made me cry. ily guys so much
It’s so odd to hear some people unfollow after not seeing videos or posts.
I find myself unfollowing when someone posts soooo much content I can tell they’re not interested in.
I found you guys when you started doing the more honest and open videos and I love them soooo much.
I love that you guys aren't like the typical LA youtubers..
Omg a podcast would be awesome💜
Yess
i appreciate how open and honest you guys have gotten over this break. love the realness sm
I’m SOOOO down for sit down talk videos!! Their my favorite, I love feeling connected to you guys through a video, it feels so real and keep doing what your doing I love this new vibe ✨✨✨
please do a series reacting to older videos! showing bloopers/ arguments that happened when filming them and tell us what was actually happening behind the scenes ♡ ♡ ♡
I love how niki and gabi are so honest with us. They are my comfort you tubers. I appreciate them so much!
Talking over each other is totally fine and must be a twin thing. We get those comments too. Watch any Mary-kate and Ashley or Tia and Tamera interview and you'll see them talking over each other and finishing sentences. I love seeing that. This was an awesome video.
I love when twin talk over each other! it's really entertaining and trippy lol. Keep doing you!
I love sister sister!! 💕
omg gabi is looking SOO pretty today!! She always does but today her curly hair and style is soooo cute but mature at the same time wow
Can we appreciate how beautiful they look😩
Yes.....because that is the most important thing on this planet..........geeze.
@@shelbyonehalf ikr
I love sit down videos like this when niki and gabi get real and spill tea and give advice, influencers is just like us they are human 🤍💜
y’all are amazing for opening up to something that’s hard to talk about 🤍
This is my fave video in months, so creative and interesting!!
Me: (lays down on the couch) im only gonna skip thru and only sit down for a few minutes, 15 minutes later omg I didn’t realize how long I was sitting here for lol
You should do a girl talk video like a similar one that laurdiy did. She sat down and answered girl questions while painting something.
Please start a podcast you guys truly look like you're in a good sister relationship and we'd love to listen to you guy's podcast
It’s nice that you guys explained this in a humble way :)
You girls are so amazing for opening up about this! Not many influencers are raw and honest when it comes to these topics, thank you both for the reminder that not everything we see is always picture perfect, Forever Stan you girls 💕🙏🏼
I was LITERALLY about to click another video, then saw a blue dot nect to Niki and Gabi.... CANCEL EVERYTHING. IT'S TIME TO WATCH NIKI AND GABI.
please make more videos like this, they’re very informative and eye opening. feeling relatable and heard are the most amazing feelings ever. a podcast would be incredible! 🤍
i love the way gabi styled her hair, it’s so fluffy!
it’s the honesty for me✨
but for real though, I love this content, I love their relationship, I love the growth! keep blooming🌹
I'm not an influencer but work in marketing and the first four points SPOKE to me!! Especially the anxiety, ugh.
Thank you guys for being raw & real 💙💗.
Y’all aren’t alone. You can feel lonely but I promise you that you’re not alone. Praying for you guys and your strength and anxiety. I’m sorry guys. You guys get so much hate. I’m sorry. You’re so loved.
Being real and uploading a sit down video is awesome Bc what everyone really wants to see and know is how you really think and really feel about things and being relatableeee
Their content is so Niki and gabi and it feels amazing knowing that their relationship is getting stronger u can see it through content 💕💕💕💕
*niki*
@@theyluvv_layla1080just corrected it thx😂😂
@@shadaeq9654 np
YALL REALLY CREATING A DOCUMENTARY WITH THE EDITING HERE-
Love this
I love this
I clicked as soon as I saw the notification thank u for being so REAL 💕
Ahhhh I get niki “I’m not a physical touch person”😭😂cuz same .also I loveeee Gabi’s hairrr
I love how real their content is getting, it’s so refreshing and I’m here for it!! 😘❤️
YES- make a podcast! I’m actually surprised you two haven’t yet. Just really think about what you want to talk about. Like make it about the things you think about and tell absolutely nobody, including even yourselves. Make it something you are passionate about and not something that gives into or feed into any trends/media/what’s popular. Make it REAL and make it you..and include as much about pa as you can because why not?! Pa clearly rocks! 💓✌🏼
Thank you guys for showing us what the other side looks like, I've never understood how hard it is.
please do a podcast! 💕 i like listening to them when I do my homework lol
Niki interrupts Gabi all the time. But gabi doesn’t get as annoyed anymore lol
There is a reason why you two are my favorite youtubers. I love how real you two are🥺
dude they are so close rn literally i couldn’t tell their voices apart at one point i love this video sm
Me too uhhhhhhh
niki and gabi r literally my childhood
I love how raw and open they are!
please do more videos like this! also, i love whenever Gabi hugs Niki, and Niki is just sitting there rigidly 😂😂😂
if i thought i loved y’all before, i LOVE y’all extra now 🤍🤍 i appreciate the rawness and realness. this is the content i live for from ya’ll. also, i’m 100% on board for a podcast or video style podcast 🙂