Yeah it really does and I am happy I found her because she opening up to us and for me it’s hard to open up to a person tbh but seeing Mai opening to us makes me confident tbh.
I’m just not taking care of myself right now, like im struggling to shower even when i need to and brushing my teeth feels like the biggest task but this really motivates me to just do a little self care night bc i could see the pleasure and energy you got when you just felt nice in your skin
Hey! You’re a wonderful human being who deserves to feel clean and beautiful. Remember how wonderful self care feels, and that no one can take your self love away because it is yours. What people can do is give love to you, and I hope you get that wherever you are in life now. God bless and a happy Halloween if you celebrate it my friend!
I needed this, my anxiety/depression has been holding me back and I’m tired of not being happy. I hope one day I’ll be happy and I have to remind myself that this is just a moment in time thanks you mai for this I wish you and everyone in the comments all peace of mind if you are struggling
You’re the reason I pulled me weight and tried to be a cleaner / more organized person. I now take showers everyday (instead of every 2-5 days) I do skin care routine which is mostly just cleanser, brush my teeth 2x a day, and keep my room clean. I’m happy I found you.
That’s amazing for you! There was a time in my life that I was the same way mentally but I just forced myself to keep up because I didn’t want anyone to know, but now I take better care of myself for me not for anyone else. For anyone else out there feeling like that just know that you have to want better for yourself not to meet other peoples expectations.
@@blonde6 yeah I am going through a bit of depression and I do want it to go away but it’s mostly my parents that are forcing me into depression and they don’t even know it, but watching people like this boost my confidence that there’s more to just waking up, going to school, eat dinner, sleep and repeat. I do try to hang out with my friends, pets and doing more exercises but I can never get myself out of the habit to eat unhealthy I just can’t do it for the life of me.
My grand father passed away yesterday. Made me realize how life is so fragile and never know when it will be our last day. I have a 9-5 job and absolutely hate it. No self esteem. been overthinking everything and procrastinating. Gotta make a move ! Makes me feel better to read the comments and watch your video ❤ love from 🇨🇦
You’re gonna get out. Btw I’m your 69th like, so that means I MUST be speaking the truth. So lemme tell you, you’re gonna make that move. You’re gonna take that risk, and even if it hurts at first, even if you fall flat on your face, you’re gonna get up and keep going and love yourself. And people will follow your lead. You’re gonna get out, and do and be and love who you want. Lots of love from a stranger on the internet.
I don’t know how to explain it, but you make me feel so heard and seen. I’m a really lonely and down person once I get home and this just always makes me feel so safe and warm. I recommend you to all of my friends because we are all lonely teens together that need a big sister sometimes 😻
It literally breaks my heart when she says she is going to through things cuz she helped me when I was really struggling, and made me start taking caring for my self care and to work on mental health.
I got my exam results today and I was so confident and knew all the answers but when I saw the mark I literally broke down sobbing, I have never cried this hard over a grade because it’s just a grade but this one is different I actually studied and spent all my summer studying and getting this grade is so unbelievable. ik a lot of people told me it’s not that serious and I shouldn’t react this way but I’m so depressed, mad and shocked edit: it’s hard to be sad when you’re literally the funniest person ever 😭😭
@@dayinthelifeofashley it used to effect me so much too but over the years I just naturally stopped caring 😭 but I literally put my blood sweat and TEARS into this.. so I spent a week and half trying to get myself back together 😭😭
@@a11res I have always struggled in school. I know how it feels to to be sick from it. My best advise would be to either take self care time to yourself and not care maybe even miss an assignment for yourself, or study for hours straight bc that can also feel rewarding just being proud of yourself for doing something so boring and emotionally draining. Sometimes it feels like I cry every time I study. My professor for an online class gives the least amount of information possible. I have no clue what I am supposed to be writing about. So I cry and sleep all day. Because escaping seems easier than doing work most of the time. But it isn’t. I get in a bad state from that. Except this time I really don’t know how to start you know? So I am skipping class tomorrow twice this week because I need to study and but I keep sleeping in until the evening. I will talk a sleeping pill and stay up until 5 am anyway. I need to go to bed I am really trying this day. Ima watch one more video though. This is so embarrassing idk why but I do feel good about sharing. I hope I helped. Also if you are in high school I feel like advise is different for that you know.
@@chershoopshoop7942 no no no this is not embarrassing at all!! I appreciate this so much thank you dear :( it was really hard at the beginning but I did exactly what you said, i started taking a course and tomorrow is my last day :) I will take more courses and surprisingly I feel so hopeful and excited !! I hope things go will for you, just take it slowly and give yourself the time that you need
@Veronika Grumlová wow that sounds terrible. The people in my PE class have been making fun of me. It has been getting better for me so I know your week will get better too. 🤎
Mai is literally the best person to talk to. I love how Mai literally doesn't give a shit about anything i could literally listen to Mai talk for hours and hours and I would never get bored of her talking because I feel like she is talking to us.
Hi Mai , I lost my Twin Sister a few years ago with cancer. It really hits me sometimes. To the people reading this.-Don't listen to people who tell you that you need to stop crying
Mai is one of the most real TH-camr I’ve ever watched. She’s so funny and so honest. She makes it feel like I’m just hanging out with one of my friends. If anyones seeing this and isn’t subscribed wtf are you doing she is amazing!
I literally have second hand happiness hearing how you’re putting your mental and physical health first. You truly have come so far and I couldn’t be more proud of you ❤
I need gif of Mai with the lights up mask saying “You need to have the downs to appreciate the ups”. This felt so laid back and easy. Loved hearing you just talk aloud
I feel so awakened from this video no bc i actually do i feel so shitty whenever i’m in a slump or going thru it. thank u for building this community and being the most down to earth human being ever. pls start a damn podcasts mai. talking helps u and we love hearing u talk 😭
Literally have never loved a TH-camr more than Mai and it doesn’t even feel like she’s a TH-cam she feels like a best friend to me, Mai you have helped me through so much, literally ur energy is just so perfect. Thank you for doing what u do.
I love for being open an vulnerable. I had the worst day at work, saw this, and now doing my skin care tryna get out my own mind. Mai and anyone in the comments, I’m here for all of you we besties over here haha 💞
We all have days where we are happy sometimes we are not. But I think with time I learned that real peace is being able to accept yourself, and don't worry too much about elements we can't control... You are the best version being honest to yourself get going ❤
Bro I feel so awakened mia is like my inspiration for life she is already out of her moms house at 19 and that takes hard work and she is a really good person to talk to :)
That is so true she’s like a best friend or a big sister today and she could just be so true and honest with herself which is indeed in fact amazing and that’s why we all love her so much indeed we love her❤❤❤❤
Hey Mai, so I think a rly cool video idea would be to make a almost unedited video that we can follow along with. So a video where you clean out your room or apartment but it’s like 45 minutes long so we the viewers can follow along in real time. Another one could be like this video but it’s 30 minutes maybe and we do our skin care too and we can actually follow along. I love your videos sm and they motivate me almost every time! LOVE YOU!❤
Yes! I just spoke to my therapist about meditation, Yoga, and breath-work. For me personally it’s helped me regain strength mentally and be aware and grounded when having issues with PTSD. ❤ Self improvement looks great on ya Mai!! 😊
Yeah I also love Mayor because she’s just open and down to earth and she’s like the big sister I never could’ve had you know I’m the oldest of my two younger brothers and sometimes it’s hard to talk to my mom about how I feel and sometimes I feel a little bit uncomfy like uncomfortable and it can sometimes be hard to talk about with a woman with a grown full grown woman or like them your mother and I’m always been asked my mom if I could get a fireplace but she haven’t found one yet and that’s why I have sometimes felt a little bit lonely and when I finally got the voiceover average in weight impaired so I use voiceover who vision impaired or blind people use and I use it on my phone and it helped me a lot and when I found Mayour and she really help me and she’s always down to earth and funny and like that crazy big sister and this is like a big family to me like it like this is a big community and my mind is always like so funny and sweet and she’s lovely and kind and also funny and crazy in both ways and sometimes I’ve been asking my mom if she has if she has found a therapist for me it’s not really hard and I come from Belgium so I mean I moved here five years ago so yeah it’s been kind of hard and I come from Denmark so yeah I’m Copenhagen oh yeah I mean I was born and raised in Copenhagen so yeah oh yeah and Mayour has a friend who has a company Copenhagen I think so that’s kind of funny so I am but raise danish but my family comes from morocco but this is like a big family and a big community for me if you’d like I think I have watched her for two years now❤❤
I started watching Mai after getting out of an abusive relationship and she’s helped me so much. Thank you for bringing a smile to my face and being that light in the dark. Thank you mai for helping me remember who I am and for helping me gain back my confidence.❤ With lots of love, Liv :)
Mai I'm so proud of how you handled the merch situation. When I first heard of it i was like "this isn't something she would intentionally do" and I'm glad you were able to give proper recognition to the artists and apologize and take responsibility in a genuine way. This in itself differentiates you from other TH-camrs and I'm glad that I can choose you to be one of the few influencers I view bc you are so transparent with everything.
Mai is the only youtuber that has genuinely helped me through my mental health problems. Literally in tears rn typing this. But we love you so much Mai. You’re so genuine & real 💕
Mai's Channel literally helps me calm down recently. I've had a bad few months and sitting down to relax and watch these videos helps so much. It gives me a moment to breath and not think about whats happening in front of me.
The fact that she takes the time to like all of these comments and even respond to some is amazing. She isn’t like them rich spoilt girls she’s honest and is always positive. I was going through some stuff and when I watched her videos they brightened my day! Ilysm Mai ❤️❤️❤️
i just love mai so much no joke i watch her everyday (nearly) and i watch old videos while waiting for new videos as u can see from my late comment. thank you mai i never thought someone on youtube could truely inspire me and feel loved
Something you said in the video really hit me. You saying you create youtube videos in order to talk about your life problems and overshare about things reminds me of why I started youtube in the first place. It's hard as a 19 year old creator myself to get the motivation to create more music, podcasts, & learn the languages I want to learn. If you look at my channel there was a point in time where I was just thriving living my own life and having fun. Now I work for more hours in a day and sometimes it gets in the way of me focusing on my passions. My life recently has been a mess. And every time I try to either clean up these messes or these messes clean up themselves shit gets messy again. I decided to take a month off of college to figure out what I want to do, but I always find myself going back to the same old habits of pondering + getting so much anxiety because I wasted my Freshman year of college taking every single class in the book you could think of. I have way too many interests but people in this world say you have to pick one for a stable career. This is something I love about youtube. You can do anything as long as you have fun with it and roll. The hardest part is to post consistently sometimes especially when you're feeling extremely burnt out. ... Something I'm proud of myself for doing is getting out of my comfort zone and speaking to so many different people. As a person that gets so much anxiety or gets super quiet when others try to communicate with me I find working at a retail store helpful at times. Each day I learn it's okay to make mistakes but what matters is that we laugh it off and keep moving forward. It's really good if you have a nice community of people to back you up or make you feel like you're truly at home while you're developing into a better version of yourself. As a person who doesn't really have many friends I've learned that when a stranger talks to me like I've known them for a long time it makes me feel happy. It truly allows me to feel like I'm not alone & that everyone has each other. ... I know I've written a lot and Mai if you're reading this you might relate. Even though we are the same age & you are a little bit older than me by a few months I really look up to you as a content creator & older sister I've never really had. As an older sister to three siblings you inspire me daily to try my best to get my shit together no matter how much I end up going backwards. Thank you for being an inspiration to me
First of all Mai is one of the best youtubers and I will stand on that hill with that. She is always so open and she makes me feel so comfortable when I watch her videos. Even when my mental health takes it toll on me she always helps me, and because of her I've been getting back into self care and learning to love myself. She feels like a big sister that I needed. Thank you Mai
The whole "filming and talkung to the camera everyday" thing REALLLYYYY helps with getting comfortable being yourself in front of the camera frr and it's such good advice for anyone who wants to start a yt channel and you can try different angles and see how it works for you even if you don't post it, definitely going to be doing this
I love how real mai is w us , how she doesn’t try to fake being happy and organised 24/7 when it’s not realistic and I love how she makes us feel like we’re all her best friends and someone we can relate to💕💕love you mai💖
I feel like I grew up watching TH-camrs like Jenn Im, Claire Marshall, Michelle Phan, etc. and they felt like the older sister presence I needed but since discovering Mai her energy is like the little sister presence I need lol and I loveeee the energy in the comments on all her videos it’s so pure. Currently in my life- it’s kinda crazy bc I’m grown and working my dream job, able to afford the kind of apartment and lifestyle I always wanted (bc I also have an amazing partner who is my best friend ever) but it’s also been really lonely and hard to make a circle of girlfriends like what I’ve had in all my other stages of life. All my closest friends live in different cities. Takes me back to being 13 and finding belonging on TH-cam except now I have a therapist and healthy coping mechanisms and like myself a lot more than I did back then. And I’m trying to learn how to thrive in this lonely season. If anyone read this comment thank u for opening up space for me, I hope you know you’re worthy of so much love & abundance in life! 💗
Mai you’re such a down to earth person. Your videos feel like a safe space. You’re so kind to all of your subscribers and viewers, like liking every comment, and creating videos for us to watch. It’s rare to find a TH-camr as kind and humble as her ❤️
this video made me feel so much better. i recently went through my first heartbreak. it was bad. it came out of nowhere. my ex told me that he couldn't be a good enough bf for me and that he couldn't give me the time and commitment I deserve...and I begged and begged and begged for him to stay even though I was constantly compromising for him and his needs and the effort or love was never reciprocated. it's been a month now and I have been in and out of severe depression and anxiety. i have an amazing support system of people encouraging, supporting, and loving me, yet I've never felt more alone. even though I know he treated me bad I miss the person he promised me he could be (and I believed those promises even though he never followed through). seeing this and reading the comments made me actually feel something...more than I have in like a month. so thank you
It’s amazing how she talks about random things and still manages to make me laugh snd smile. It’s weird I feel like she’s my close friend. Love you Mai ❤
Oh my gosh I feel so awakened from this video I literally love Mai so much she’s like a big sister but she’s everybody’s big sister like let’s be so for real❤❤❤
i genuinely don't know what i would do without you, you are such an amazing pure soul mai. thank you for making all of us feel loved and like we have someone. we love and care for you so much ily mai !!
i am an overweight 16 y/o girl, and i face alot of self doubt with insecurites. like other people, i have emotions, and i have feeling towards a guy, but i think he will never like me, considering the fact that i'm ugly and fat. i tried different weight loss method but none seems to work. watching you, mai, has always been one of the best decision i've ever made. you bring the energy even though its only online, but all the positivity, like i can feel it. and i am happy watching your video. please treat yourself nicely too. i love you so so muchh
I love how the Pham is so open and we all can communicate with each other and not judge one another it makes me feel like I have a bunch of siblings and I thank all of you for the and I thank Mai also because it’s really hard finding a good group of people to talk to and I’m glad I can do it here and watch my favorite TH-camr 💕
Bro like I don’t even know what my life would be like without watching her?????she just has so much life and is her own person,she is also so confident and funny
uhg the comments here are everything. even i wanna overshare because this family really is something else. i love you all and thanks for being your awesome selves! thank you mai for creating this safe space for all of us!
hearing mai being so open and venting just makes me feel so happy and sad. i’m happy cuz she feels comfortable enough and trusts us, but i’m also sad cuz she helped me through my first few years of my teen years and seeing her go through this makes me sad. i hope you’re doing great mai!!! Omg I feel so awakened from this video
Hey I’m literally going thru it too bro 😭 with a horrible home life, but adding on that someone told me “we need to talk” and I responded but they haven’t I’m so scared. But this really made me happier- I’ve always seen you as a big sister and i always get happy when you post :D
Mai is fr that best friend that is basically our sister that give you some top tier advice but doesn't follow them herself and gives some elite relationship advice even though she don't follow it!!!😌XD And omg I feel so awakened by this video...I'm woke ya'll!
Been watching Mai since she dropped out of high school and she genuinely has made so much progress and made me make so much progress in life, love you Mai. Also as a Brit love that your in love with central cee like the rest of us 😂
Mai, i cant even explain how much i love your videos! Your not afraid to put yourself out there and you making this video is so BOLD! Thank you for how much you helped me throughout my life. I like how you treat us as family and friends. Your so true to us and your not afraid to talk about your features that you dont like 😊. Love you! ❤
Her inspirational talk is so meaningful! She is helping me survive rn and just in general! I always watch her videos for inspirational things to help me move on! Mai you are amazing!
Been watching you from 2 3 years now or maybe more than that, u literally feel like tht long distance BESTIE who lives in other part of the world but still manages to cheer me up while struggling for herself. Love you loads Mai. Hold up- here- you dropped your crown 👑🌹♥️
It's a ritual for me to watch mai's videos😤 mai is literally my therapist who's sassy, has bad b1tch energy, yet a whole ball of sunshine. She's all I wanna be. I'm just 15 and depressed😅😑 but ngl how mai is influencing me to be that girl and throw out poisitive vibezz. She's my whole time favorite youtuber. She is real. She shares her flaws and insecurities. she's not realizing for a teen like me how much she means to me. I just wish mai see this comment and know how much fucking I love her😭💞 fingers crossed🙆🙏
Bro before I started watching mai I couldn't get out of bed in the morning due to depression, but after I've started waking up earlier, working out, and getting out more. Thank you mai!
Mai I haven’t watched you’re videos for like a two years, then I rediscovered you it was so nice to see how much you changed in you’re life I’ve seen you grow up into a strong confident woman, and sometimes it makes me sad seeing you say bad things about yourself or just you saying you’re still depressed, we all have bad things happen in life but I just hope to see you happy you’re beautiful and I love you’re videos ❤❤❤
I love that she is like our older sis I have never had one and obviously I never will but there she is to save us like the older one who you always want to go to their house
Mai, you are the person which I really want to be and I'm trying to be but sometimes it really hurts when people won't understand our efforts for being positive, funny etc and talk shit behind our back and those words always ring in our ears and tears roll in our eyes and whole day whole week is ruined by those people.
When Mai said “TH-cam isn’t the same I’m not like mm I can’t wait to watch her videos” that is the opposite for me right when I get home from school I’m so excited to watch Mai ❤
Just one video can change SO many things and this is one of them! I really appreciate the effort and time in to these videos because they have helped me with so many of negatives thoughts in my head and your videos just make me know other people are feeling what I'm feeling💗 Luv you girl! Keep up the grind💪💪💪
every time you post a new video, i take myself to my local cafe and sit with my favourite coffee watching - gets me out of bed and into the fresh air and honestly it’s an unbeatable boost to start days where i’m really not feeling good. love you mai
mai is literally so relatable and always relates to what i’m going thru in the current moment and gives such good advice and just reminds me that i’m alone
let’s just take a sec to acknowledge how fing BEAUTIFUL mai’s voice is?? like girl is serving with not only her skin, but her voice too ❤️ love u so much big sis
let’s over share about our lives in the comments :) and talk to eachother
hi bae ily
lmao same
ur probably the love of my life ngl
that was deep ong
Well right now my life is going good I am just focusing on my dreams x
mai is a sister to all of us.
Agreed ❤
Yessss agreed
hey sis
Literally shes like my sister
@@maiphammy Heyy sis
idk if it’s just me but personally I adore listening to Mai talk to us it really does feel like FaceTiming with a friend
Yeah it really does and I am happy I found her because she opening up to us and for me it’s hard to open up to a person tbh but seeing Mai opening to us makes me confident tbh.
Honestly when my bestie can’t call I just go to Mia bc she’s basically my bestie lol
Listening to her vent is honestly therapeutic and watching this while doing my night routine is even better
venting to y’all is therapeutic to me ❤
I feel like Mai is the most open and honest youtuber and it's so refreshing 😩
It’s so true and I love it ❤
So trueee she is our sweet friend
FR
I couldn't agree more
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I’m just not taking care of myself right now, like im struggling to shower even when i need to and brushing my teeth feels like the biggest task but this really motivates me to just do a little self care night bc i could see the pleasure and energy you got when you just felt nice in your skin
Hey! You’re a wonderful human being who deserves to feel clean and beautiful. Remember how wonderful self care feels, and that no one can take your self love away because it is yours. What people can do is give love to you, and I hope you get that wherever you are in life now. God bless and a happy Halloween if you celebrate it my friend!
You got this! Do what makes u happy
Mai could talk for hours and id never get bored
Ong
omgg fr 😭😭
this right here😭😭
LITERALLY
Fr tho
I needed this, my anxiety/depression has been holding me back and I’m tired of not being happy. I hope one day I’ll be happy and I have to remind myself that this is just a moment in time thanks you mai for this I wish you and everyone in the comments all peace of mind if you are struggling
And remember that everything happens for a reason and I am sending you love! Stay strong💓💗
@@cruzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 🫶🏼
@@brooklynfyrst5497 thank you 😊🫶🏼
stay strong. i am literally SO proud of you!! 💕
You put into words exact how I feel. Hope you feel better soon though 💝💐
You’re the reason I pulled me weight and tried to be a cleaner / more organized person. I now take showers everyday (instead of every 2-5 days) I do skin care routine which is mostly just cleanser, brush my teeth 2x a day, and keep my room clean. I’m happy I found you.
That’s amazing for you! There was a time in my life that I was the same way mentally but I just forced myself to keep up because I didn’t want anyone to know, but now I take better care of myself for me not for anyone else. For anyone else out there feeling like that just know that you have to want better for yourself not to meet other peoples expectations.
@@blonde6 yeah I am going through a bit of depression and I do want it to go away but it’s mostly my parents that are forcing me into depression and they don’t even know it, but watching people like this boost my confidence that there’s more to just waking up, going to school, eat dinner, sleep and repeat. I do try to hang out with my friends, pets and doing more exercises but I can never get myself out of the habit to eat unhealthy I just can’t do it for the life of me.
@@cat.9586 girl always glow ❤🍒 love ya
HEY YOU!! YEAH YOU!!! YOURE BEAUTIFUL AND HAVE GROWN AS A PERSON. LOVE YOURSELF YOU WONDERFUL BEING!!
This is what I should be doing but I’m not😅
My grand father passed away yesterday. Made me realize how life is so fragile and never know when it will be our last day. I have a 9-5 job and absolutely hate it. No self esteem. been overthinking everything and procrastinating. Gotta make a move ! Makes me feel better to read the comments and watch your video ❤ love from 🇨🇦
Stay strong bae❤️❤️
You’re gonna get out. Btw I’m your 69th like, so that means I MUST be speaking the truth. So lemme tell you, you’re gonna make that move. You’re gonna take that risk, and even if it hurts at first, even if you fall flat on your face, you’re gonna get up and keep going and love yourself. And people will follow your lead. You’re gonna get out, and do and be and love who you want. Lots of love from a stranger on the internet.
Reading the first couple words made me cry
I actually genuinely love Mai like she’s so genuine and addictive
I don’t know how to explain it, but you make me feel so heard and seen. I’m a really lonely and down person once I get home and this just always makes me feel so safe and warm. I recommend you to all of my friends because we are all lonely teens together that need a big sister sometimes 😻
i can tell through this comment alone that you are such an amazing person!! i hope that you receive all the love in the world :DDD
yes same!! the loneliness when i get home is rough
@@macykangaroogang3544 right back at you
You saying, "you are loved" LITERALLY melted my heart at the end. i really needed that. luv u SO MUCH Mai and i wish you the universes BEST blessings
watching you whenever i pull an all nighter is honestly just a tradition by now
I relate 😭
Sameeeee
omg same i will always watch mais videos when i pull all nighters
It literally breaks my heart when she says she is going to through things cuz she helped me when I was really struggling, and made me start taking caring for my self care and to work on mental health.
you watching my videos and listening to me helps me through it ❤
@@maiphammy like sissy we are here for you ♥️ and just know we love you ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I got my exam results today and I was so confident and knew all the answers but when I saw the mark I literally broke down sobbing, I have never cried this hard over a grade because it’s just a grade but this one is different I actually studied and spent all my summer studying and getting this grade is so unbelievable. ik a lot of people told me it’s not that serious and I shouldn’t react this way but I’m so depressed, mad and shocked
edit: it’s hard to be sad when you’re literally the funniest person ever 😭😭
i get it bro. if my grades are bad my mental health is so bad
@@dayinthelifeofashley it used to effect me so much too but over the years I just naturally stopped caring 😭 but I literally put my blood sweat and TEARS into this.. so I spent a week and half trying to get myself back together 😭😭
@@a11res I have always struggled in school. I know how it feels to to be sick from it. My best advise would be to either take self care time to yourself and not care maybe even miss an assignment for yourself, or study for hours straight bc that can also feel rewarding just being proud of yourself for doing something so boring and emotionally draining. Sometimes it feels like I cry every time I study. My professor for an online class gives the least amount of information possible. I have no clue what I am supposed to be writing about. So I cry and sleep all day. Because escaping seems easier than doing work most of the time. But it isn’t. I get in a bad state from that. Except this time I really don’t know how to start you know? So I am skipping class tomorrow twice this week because I need to study and but I keep sleeping in until the evening. I will talk a sleeping pill and stay up until 5 am anyway. I need to go to bed I am really trying this day. Ima watch one more video though. This is so embarrassing idk why but I do feel good about sharing. I hope I helped. Also if you are in high school I feel like advise is different for that you know.
@@chershoopshoop7942 no no no this is not embarrassing at all!! I appreciate this so much thank you dear :( it was really hard at the beginning but I did exactly what you said, i started taking a course and tomorrow is my last day :) I will take more courses and surprisingly I feel so hopeful and excited !! I hope things go will for you, just take it slowly and give yourself the time that you need
I have been having a terrible week. You don’t know how much I needed this video.
I feel that dude. I hope things get better for you as the week progresses ❤️
trust me, things will get better, keep your head up ❤
Omg girl same
I hope next week is better 🤍
@Veronika Grumlová wow that sounds terrible. The people in my PE class have been making fun of me. It has been getting better for me so I know your week will get better too. 🤎
Mai is literally the best person to talk to. I love how Mai literally doesn't give a shit about anything i could literally listen to Mai talk for hours and hours and I would never get bored of her talking because I feel like she is talking to us.
Sooo true fell the same way❤
Hi Mai , I lost my Twin Sister a few years ago with cancer. It really hits me sometimes. To the people reading this.-Don't listen to people who tell you that you need to stop crying
sending love
sometimes thing are too strong to just get over them so we just have to try are best, sending love
sometimes thing are too strong to just get over them so we just have to try are best, sending love
I'm sorry for that ,sending love❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
Mai is one of the most real TH-camr I’ve ever watched. She’s so funny and so honest. She makes it feel like I’m just hanging out with one of my friends. If anyones seeing this and isn’t subscribed wtf are you doing she is amazing!
mhmmmm they better subscribe
@@maiphammy Omg I can’t believe she replied aaaaaaaaaah I’m freaking out ❤️❤️
I feel like spilling life tea while doing skincare is an equivalent to a long, therapeutic, & honest kitchen floor talk 💕✨
Kitchen floor talk. I forgot about those! ❤
i love this idea for mai sooo much
this idea omgg
so relaxing :)
i’ve had a tough few months, and today just made it all so much worse. this is literally healing me. tysm mai ❤
Mai has such a god and positive impact on all of us like bro you makes us feel like we are at home and make us feel happier and addicted to her
I literally have second hand happiness hearing how you’re putting your mental and physical health first. You truly have come so far and I couldn’t be more proud of you ❤
thank you❤ this truly means a lot to me khalilah
@@maiphammy some of the girls wanna go shopping you wanna come
@@gigakaya626 omg yes Mai should comeee
Mai is literally my comfort TH-camr.
oml yes
I need gif of Mai with the lights up mask saying “You need to have the downs to appreciate the ups”. This felt so laid back and easy. Loved hearing you just talk aloud
I feel so awakened from this video
no bc i actually do i feel so shitty whenever i’m in a slump or going thru it. thank u for building this community and being the most down to earth human being ever.
pls start a damn podcasts mai. talking helps u and we love hearing u talk 😭
Literally have never loved a TH-camr more than Mai and it doesn’t even feel like she’s a TH-cam she feels like a best friend to me, Mai you have helped me through so much, literally ur energy is just so perfect. Thank you for doing what u do.
I love for being open an vulnerable. I had the worst day at work, saw this, and now doing my skin care tryna get out my own mind. Mai and anyone in the comments, I’m here for all of you we besties over here haha 💞
We all have days where we are happy sometimes we are not. But I think with time I learned that real peace is being able to accept yourself, and don't worry too much about elements we can't control... You are the best version being honest to yourself get going ❤
@@jini1765 Well said honey💞
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Bro I feel so awakened mia is like my inspiration for life she is already out of her moms house at 19 and that takes hard work and she is a really good person to talk to :)
Mai needs a podcast Soooooooooooo bad!! I could listen to her talk about her life for an hour once a day, so get on it Mai 😊👏👏🔥
Omg yes, it would honestly improve my week so much!
@@georgialinney7141 Same!
okay let’s just face it Mai is that one best friend that we all want so we can just vent to and not get interrupted by idk i just love her so much 💓💓💓
So true ♥️♥️♥️♥️
That is so true she’s like a best friend or a big sister today and she could just be so true and honest with herself which is indeed in fact amazing and that’s why we all love her so much indeed we love her❤❤❤❤
Hey Mai, so I think a rly cool video idea would be to make a almost unedited video that we can follow along with. So a video where you clean out your room or apartment but it’s like 45 minutes long so we the viewers can follow along in real time. Another one could be like this video but it’s 30 minutes maybe and we do our skin care too and we can actually follow along. I love your videos sm and they motivate me almost every time! LOVE YOU!❤
Yesss that’s wound be so cool 😄
Yes! I just spoke to my therapist about meditation, Yoga, and breath-work. For me personally it’s helped me regain strength mentally and be aware and grounded when having issues with PTSD. ❤ Self improvement looks great on ya Mai!! 😊
Love this for you ❤
i’m so happy for uuuu
It sounds so nice I have to try it
yesss im glad it helps u!
Omg! A big thank you to all those who responded with so much positivity! 😊😊☺️☺️ Made my day brighter that Mai replied as well haha. Bless you all
Thank you Mai for being the big sister we all need. As the oldest child who's mom is never around, you really have an impact on my life. ❤️
Yeah I also love Mayor because she’s just open and down to earth and she’s like the big sister I never could’ve had you know I’m the oldest of my two younger brothers and sometimes it’s hard to talk to my mom about how I feel and sometimes I feel a little bit uncomfy like uncomfortable and it can sometimes be hard to talk about with a woman with a grown full grown woman or like them your mother and I’m always been asked my mom if I could get a fireplace but she haven’t found one yet and that’s why I have sometimes felt a little bit lonely and when I finally got the voiceover average in weight impaired so I use voiceover who vision impaired or blind people use and I use it on my phone and it helped me a lot and when I found Mayour and she really help me and she’s always down to earth and funny and like that crazy big sister and this is like a big family to me like it like this is a big community and my mind is always like so funny and sweet and she’s lovely and kind and also funny and crazy in both ways and sometimes I’ve been asking my mom if she has if she has found a therapist for me it’s not really hard and I come from Belgium so I mean I moved here five years ago so yeah it’s been kind of hard and I come from Denmark so yeah I’m Copenhagen oh yeah I mean I was born and raised in Copenhagen so yeah oh yeah and Mayour has a friend who has a company Copenhagen I think so that’s kind of funny so I am but raise danish but my family comes from morocco but this is like a big family and a big community for me if you’d like I think I have watched her for two years now❤❤
I started watching Mai after getting out of an abusive relationship and she’s helped me so much. Thank you for bringing a smile to my face and being that light in the dark. Thank you mai for helping me remember who I am and for helping me gain back my confidence.❤
With lots of love,
Liv :)
Mai I'm so proud of how you handled the merch situation. When I first heard of it i was like "this isn't something she would intentionally do" and I'm glad you were able to give proper recognition to the artists and apologize and take responsibility in a genuine way. This in itself differentiates you from other TH-camrs and I'm glad that I can choose you to be one of the few influencers I view bc you are so transparent with everything.
Who doesn’t love Mai? She is like a friend that even tho she doesn’t know you she already loves you, she is so unique and special, I just love her
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for real tho!
Yeahh, is true
Loll
literally you are the person i go on youtube to watch and i’m going through all your videos and just watching back to back
Mai is the only youtuber that has genuinely helped me through my mental health problems. Literally in tears rn typing this. But we love you so much Mai. You’re so genuine & real 💕
Mai is LITERALLY too perfect without being perfect. it’s like we’re besties. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
watching mais vidoes just makes me want to move to ny more than ever
it really is!
U r my favorite TH-camr u made me confident and feel better about myself and my body
Mai's Channel literally helps me calm down recently. I've had a bad few months and sitting down to relax and watch these videos helps so much. It gives me a moment to breath and not think about whats happening in front of me.
I hope everything will be okay soon!
@@ryaten9970 thank you! I've just got some health stuff going on thats taking a bit to figure out😁
@@summerhambrick7618 I'm sure u will figure it out, stay strong 💪
The fact that she takes the time to like all of these comments and even respond to some is amazing. She isn’t like them rich spoilt girls she’s honest and is always positive. I was going through some stuff and when I watched her videos they brightened my day! Ilysm Mai ❤️❤️❤️
i just love mai so much no joke i watch her everyday (nearly) and i watch old videos while waiting for new videos as u can see from my late comment. thank you mai i never thought someone on youtube could truely inspire me and feel loved
Something you said in the video really hit me. You saying you create youtube videos in order to talk about your life problems and overshare about things reminds me of why I started youtube in the first place. It's hard as a 19 year old creator myself to get the motivation to create more music, podcasts, & learn the languages I want to learn. If you look at my channel there was a point in time where I was just thriving living my own life and having fun. Now I work for more hours in a day and sometimes it gets in the way of me focusing on my passions. My life recently has been a mess. And every time I try to either clean up these messes or these messes clean up themselves shit gets messy again. I decided to take a month off of college to figure out what I want to do, but I always find myself going back to the same old habits of pondering + getting so much anxiety because I wasted my Freshman year of college taking every single class in the book you could think of. I have way too many interests but people in this world say you have to pick one for a stable career. This is something I love about youtube. You can do anything as long as you have fun with it and roll. The hardest part is to post consistently sometimes especially when you're feeling extremely burnt out.
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Something I'm proud of myself for doing is getting out of my comfort zone and speaking to so many different people. As a person that gets so much anxiety or gets super quiet when others try to communicate with me I find working at a retail store helpful at times. Each day I learn it's okay to make mistakes but what matters is that we laugh it off and keep moving forward. It's really good if you have a nice community of people to back you up or make you feel like you're truly at home while you're developing into a better version of yourself. As a person who doesn't really have many friends I've learned that when a stranger talks to me like I've known them for a long time it makes me feel happy. It truly allows me to feel like I'm not alone & that everyone has each other.
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I know I've written a lot and Mai if you're reading this you might relate. Even though we are the same age & you are a little bit older than me by a few months I really look up to you as a content creator & older sister I've never really had. As an older sister to three siblings you inspire me daily to try my best to get my shit together no matter how much I end up going backwards. Thank you for being an inspiration to me
I respect how down to earth and humble mai is
First of all Mai is one of the best youtubers and I will stand on that hill with that. She is always so open and she makes me feel so comfortable when I watch her videos. Even when my mental health takes it toll on me she always helps me, and because of her I've been getting back into self care and learning to love myself. She feels like a big sister that I needed. Thank you Mai
The whole "filming and talkung to the camera everyday" thing REALLLYYYY helps with getting comfortable being yourself in front of the camera frr and it's such good advice for anyone who wants to start a yt channel and you can try different angles and see how it works for you even if you don't post it, definitely going to be doing this
Maiiii whatever you are on, I neeeeed it 😫😫 this energy is everything 💓💓💓
I love how real mai is w us , how she doesn’t try to fake being happy and organised 24/7 when it’s not realistic and I love how she makes us feel like we’re all her best friends and someone we can relate to💕💕love you mai💖
I love these facetime kind of videos, they are so real and personal + it makes you and us happy 🫶🏼💕
I love how chill and funny u are and how open you are luv you ❤️
I feel like I grew up watching TH-camrs like Jenn Im, Claire Marshall, Michelle Phan, etc. and they felt like the older sister presence I needed but since discovering Mai her energy is like the little sister presence I need lol and I loveeee the energy in the comments on all her videos it’s so pure.
Currently in my life- it’s kinda crazy bc I’m grown and working my dream job, able to afford the kind of apartment and lifestyle I always wanted (bc I also have an amazing partner who is my best friend ever) but it’s also been really lonely and hard to make a circle of girlfriends like what I’ve had in all my other stages of life. All my closest friends live in different cities. Takes me back to being 13 and finding belonging on TH-cam except now I have a therapist and healthy coping mechanisms and like myself a lot more than I did back then. And I’m
trying to learn how to thrive in this lonely season. If anyone read this comment thank u for opening up space for me, I hope you know you’re worthy of so much love & abundance in life! 💗
Sending love💞 I am so proud of you!!❤️
im 14 and i feel like none of my friends are real except for one that i pushed away so ik wat ur going through
@@ediewillford1797 hope it gets better
@@ediewillford1797 Ugh 14 was such a tough year for me too. Sending you love
Mai you’re such a down to earth person. Your videos feel like a safe space. You’re so kind to all of your subscribers and viewers, like liking every comment, and creating videos for us to watch. It’s rare to find a TH-camr as kind and humble as her ❤️
this video made me feel so much better. i recently went through my first heartbreak. it was bad. it came out of nowhere. my ex told me that he couldn't be a good enough bf for me and that he couldn't give me the time and commitment I deserve...and I begged and begged and begged for him to stay even though I was constantly compromising for him and his needs and the effort or love was never reciprocated. it's been a month now and I have been in and out of severe depression and anxiety. i have an amazing support system of people encouraging, supporting, and loving me, yet I've never felt more alone. even though I know he treated me bad I miss the person he promised me he could be (and I believed those promises even though he never followed through). seeing this and reading the comments made me actually feel something...more than I have in like a month. so thank you
It’s amazing how she talks about random things and still manages to make me laugh snd smile. It’s weird I feel like she’s my close friend. Love you Mai ❤
Mai is literally like a long distance friend I’ve always had. I always feel like it’s just like a FaceTime call and I love it!! ❤️
Oh my gosh I feel so awakened from this video I literally love Mai so much she’s like a big sister but she’s everybody’s big sister like let’s be so for real❤❤❤
Thank you so much for making me smile! You have helped me so much through my depression
Same 🥺❤️
Awhhh, I am so happy you are doing better
She has for me too, depression is hitting me in the face right now
same 💕💕
i genuinely don't know what i would do without you, you are such an amazing pure soul mai. thank you for making all of us feel loved and like we have someone. we love and care for you so much ily mai !!
i am an overweight 16 y/o girl, and i face alot of self doubt with insecurites. like other people, i have emotions, and i have feeling towards a guy, but i think he will never like me, considering the fact that i'm ugly and fat. i tried different weight loss method but none seems to work. watching you, mai, has always been one of the best decision i've ever made. you bring the energy even though its only online, but all the positivity, like i can feel it. and i am happy watching your video. please treat yourself nicely too. i love you so so muchh
I love how the Pham is so open and we all can communicate with each other and not judge one another it makes me feel like I have a bunch of siblings and I thank all of you for the and I thank Mai also because it’s really hard finding a good group of people to talk to and I’m glad I can do it here and watch my favorite TH-camr 💕
AWE same here!
Doing skin care is always the most relaxing part of the day!
i love mai honestly , her videos just make me happy . She is the moment .
THATS WHY I LOVE HER. SHE FEELS LIKE AN OLDER SISTER THAT I CAN TALK TO WITHOUT BEING SCARED ❤️❤️❤️
Same ❤
exactly ‼️
Bro like I don’t even know what my life would be like without watching her?????she just has so much life and is her own person,she is also so confident and funny
i luv u so much mai, i’m so glad i found your channel because honestly having someone to relate to and be like an older sister is so comforting
uhg the comments here are everything. even i wanna overshare because this family really is something else. i love you all and thanks for being your awesome selves! thank you mai for creating this safe space for all of us!
lu2 x
hearing mai being so open and venting just makes me feel so happy and sad. i’m happy cuz she feels comfortable enough and trusts us, but i’m also sad cuz she helped me through my first few years of my teen years and seeing her go through this makes me sad. i hope you’re doing great mai!!! Omg I feel so awakened from this video
Hey I’m literally going thru it too bro 😭 with a horrible home life, but adding on that someone told me “we need to talk” and I responded but they haven’t I’m so scared. But this really made me happier- I’ve always seen you as a big sister and i always get happy when you post :D
I love the fact that Mai trusts enough to do this. Slay queen I love it.
Mai is fr that best friend that is basically our sister that give you some top tier advice but doesn't follow them herself and gives some elite relationship advice even though she don't follow it!!!😌XD And omg I feel so awakened by this video...I'm woke ya'll!
I love the intro omg she legit exactly like me understands my vibe she legit good energy she makes me feel like home
Been watching Mai since she dropped out of high school and she genuinely has made so much progress and made me make so much progress in life, love you Mai. Also as a Brit love that your in love with central cee like the rest of us 😂
Mai liked I can now peacefully sleep, I actually can’t I’ve watched ALL her videos I love you mai
Mai, i cant even explain how much i love your videos! Your not afraid to put yourself out there and you making this video is so BOLD! Thank you for how much you helped me throughout my life. I like how you treat us as family and friends. Your so true to us and your not afraid to talk about your features that you dont like 😊. Love you! ❤
Her inspirational talk is so meaningful! She is helping me survive rn and just in general! I always watch her videos for inspirational things to help me move on! Mai you are amazing!
Been watching you from 2 3 years now or maybe more than that, u literally feel like tht long distance BESTIE who lives in other part of the world but still manages to cheer me up while struggling for herself. Love you loads Mai. Hold up- here- you dropped your crown 👑🌹♥️
It's a ritual for me to watch mai's videos😤 mai is literally my therapist who's sassy, has bad b1tch energy, yet a whole ball of sunshine. She's all I wanna be. I'm just 15 and depressed😅😑 but ngl how mai is influencing me to be that girl and throw out poisitive vibezz. She's my whole time favorite youtuber. She is real. She shares her flaws and insecurities. she's not realizing for a teen like me how much she means to me. I just wish mai see this comment and know how much fucking I love her😭💞 fingers crossed🙆🙏
Myself u go gurlll yasssss queeeen⚡✨🌙
okay
yes same🥰🥰
@@serafinavalkauskas8517 yes she is def our own lil therapist lol
I can't ever see a video from you pop up and skip it. like i physically cannot. i love you so much
I just need to find the right friends and Mai just makes me feel so much better about life and it's so calming
She is someone I feel a connection with
im only 14 and i have been watching you forever, and i love you. you have help me so much
one thing that makes mai’s videos so special is how she makes all her viewers so comfortable yet entertained i could watch for hours 💓
i can sit and watch all of mai’s videos without getting bored, even the old ones from when she was 15 🤭 big slay because she’s iconic
Bro before I started watching mai I couldn't get out of bed in the morning due to depression, but after I've started waking up earlier, working out, and getting out more. Thank you mai!
Omg I can't belive it's been 2 years watching her and I learned so much things and was the best years of my life love u mai❤️❤️❤️
No way mai just liked my commentttt
@@Aesthetichabeshas a girl likes all her comments! 😛
Mai I haven’t watched you’re videos for like a two years, then I rediscovered you it was so nice to see how much you changed in you’re life I’ve seen you grow up into a strong confident woman, and sometimes it makes me sad seeing you say bad things about yourself or just you saying you’re still depressed, we all have bad things happen in life but I just hope to see you happy you’re beautiful and I love you’re videos ❤❤❤
I love that she is like our older sis I have never had one and obviously I never will but there she is to save us like the older one who you always want to go to their house
I Love how she truly just loves us ♥️ she’s a real one ♥️
Mai, you are the person which I really want to be and I'm trying to be but sometimes it really hurts when people won't understand our efforts for being positive, funny etc and talk shit behind our back and those words always ring in our ears and tears roll in our eyes and whole day whole week is ruined by those people.
the end of this video made me cry, i never knew how much i needed someone to say that
Mai is a sister we all need
Gurl what makes me happy is you , like i swear . When you do that post a video I’m like alone in this world but with you I don’t feel alone .
When Mai said “TH-cam isn’t the same I’m not like mm I can’t wait to watch her videos” that is the opposite for me right when I get home from school I’m so excited to watch Mai ❤
Just one video can change SO many things and this is one of them! I really appreciate the effort and time in to these videos because they have helped me with so many of negatives thoughts in my head and your videos just make me know other people are feeling what I'm feeling💗 Luv you girl! Keep up the grind💪💪💪
every time you post a new video, i take myself to my local cafe and sit with my favourite coffee watching - gets me out of bed and into the fresh air and honestly it’s an unbeatable boost to start days where i’m really not feeling good. love you mai
mai is literally so relatable and always relates to what i’m going thru in the current moment and gives such good advice and just reminds me that i’m alone
Mai is the only realest TH-camr I get so excited for, like seriously I can watch her videos for hours!!!🥰
let’s just take a sec to acknowledge how fing BEAUTIFUL mai’s voice is?? like girl is serving with not only her skin, but her voice too ❤️ love u so much big sis