GRWM while I overshare about my boy problems...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- so this has been my love life for the past year...
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so y'all have heard me say "I DONT KISS BOYS" for the past year... and this is the explanation on why. lol this is in no way advice at alllllll by the way. just me oversharing about my love life ahahahah
Love a good story time and I’m proud of how much you’ve grown
Slayyyy🤚💅🙄
The way that she’s thinking about a boy now OMGGGGGGGGG
ok but you still slay every video you do 💕
Okayyy puuur
That last smile GIRRRRL, someone’s in love 🫶🏽💗😚
Omg Hi!
Hey Nat,
I love you so much. I hope you're doing well. Wishing you peace of mind.
I WAS JUST THINKING THAT
THATS WHAT I WAS THINKINGGGG
YESSSSS, LIKE HER GENUINE SMILE AND LIKE GRATEFULNESS FOR THE GIFTS, IS LIKE ANOTHER LEVEL OF JUST THINKING BEST FRIENDDSSSS
The vibe at the end, the whole smile Mai has at the end while applying the Chanel lip balm and showing us the BFF necklace is everything. ❤️
and frank ocean playing too - hes a keeper
Mai is so open with us and doesn’t give a f abt others opinions! Everyone needs a friend like Mai.
I love how she isn't afraid to say that she indeed was looking for a guy and thinks about him 24/7, and admits it unlike girls who just want to appear like "not like the other girls".
the happiness on Mai's face in the end when she showed us those gift ,, that made me happy too
as a person who doesn’t have friends this video makes me feel like I have someone to talk to
I agree.
I just moved to another country to go to a univeristy. I don't know anyone cause the classes haven't started yet, so I'm basically alone everyday. And these videos make me feel like I have a friend and we're just talking.
@@Alrorosmile mmm you're here being rude at someone who has difficulties in finding friends, it looks like you don't have anything better to do, who's the depressing person now huh?
Same. Haven't had friends in 9 years
Bestie be my friend wtf
Mai needs to make a podcast, like I was cleaning my room and listening to her talk and it's so relaxing
Omg yes
Agreed
Literally same!!
literally
the fact that apparently we're both 19 but you make it seem like you're a whole ass well put together ADULT- like I could never survive on my own in NY I can't even go to the store by myself (yay for grocery delivery services)
This girl has MONEY. I'm 10 years older and left NYC because I lived in a shoebox with 3 guys younger than me. Yes, I have a college degree and a full resume. This girl is not living in a standard reality...
Fr same
girl i'm 26 and i look up to her so much lmao she's more an adult than i am
@@sweetmarasmesame
Love a good story time with my favorite online bestie ❤️ and don’t worry we’ve all fallen pray to crying over boys 🥲
Omg I’ve seen ur comments on Annie long’s vids!!
Me too especially boys who have gave me trauma
It's prey not pray.
Can we appreciate how she likes everyone’s comments like Mai is so relatable love her! 💙💙
Always 💜 she’s the best
Exactly😩
isn't that just a bot? lol plenty youtubers have it
She has always been a real one
liked this on 777
this could not have come at a better time, literally love how true you are to yourself
girl same....., was so heartbroken over a situationship with a guy... never felt like this before. still healing from it but literally, I can feel it changing me as a person. I'm more dedicated to my routines and being healthy, and more true to myself. It does get better :)) but I feel like you need to let yourself hurt a bit, surround yourself with good friends or find an outlet for those emotions. give yourself time, let yourself heal, and know that good and better things are coming because you deserve it.
i needed this, thank you for sharing:(
Fr girl. people need to go through grief whether that be over a guy a death of a loved one losing a friend anything. It makes you stronger we have emotions for a reason you gotta feel them all the way through so you can get over them if you shove them down they will always be there till you address them.
You looked so genuinely happy in the end there and oml me and so many others have been so invested(is that the right word idfk??) and it got me smiling and (maybe its cuz im about to start my period💀 but) fr abt to tear up
I like how you were just smilling at the end while showing us the gifts😭😍💗made me feel so happy
I love her get ready talks she’s so relatable. And yup boys they’re just so complicated but the worst thing is letting them take hold of the bad independent bitch you were. I literally lost my self in that for two years… we finally broke up a week ago. I feel so much happier. Love you Maiiii wish I lived in ny or you still lived in LA cause I live there😩🤎
This girl is everything gorgeous,Funny, Entertaining and acts like we are her best friends.
My quest to my "soulmate" literally led me to be so over conscious around almost any guy. Like i subconsciously treated most guys and girls diff. Any guy that found attractive always held up a small "what if he's the one" question in my brain. That led to me not moving with ease with the opposite gender due to trying present myself in the most put together way. Like geez, i need to relax... the one" ain't running away. "And this video was a good reminder that.💞
i literally relate to the part about not being able to be friends with guys without feeling like they could like you in that way or just not being able to be friends. I've had that problem throughout highschool, but now that i'm almost done, ive learnt this year that all i have to do is see guys the same way i see my friends that are girls and just treat everyone equally, anyways you look really happy!! love your videos sm
if only guys adopted that attitude 😭
@@randomcommenter420 Fr lmao- they be really messing up when you're tryna have a good perspective.
@@blinkeuisaswiftie8397 they either see us as a different species creatures to analyse and “figure out” or objects. lol.
@@randomcommenter420 agreed and some of my guy friends do both of it, I've had some guy friends who are like so nice and polite to you in person but are pretty misogynistic irl and some had gross things of their girl classmates on their phones, that was traumatizing 😭
@@randomcommenter420 not all of us are like that 😩 but I do get where you coming that from. I had a really nice friend (which was girl) but guys in my class ruined it and girls from her side , they always romancize us and say some s*itty things , even when we were literally studying . And it was easy to tease people like me and her becouse both of us were the one who got really bad bullied . Still she was my really good friend till end of my 10th grade , after that we went into different journey and sadly couldn't exchange number or anything
The way I've been watching mai since before she moved in with her sister, and then traveling and then living alone. Absolutely insane, I've just been living vicariously through her we're both the same age and it's just like watching my bestie grow from a distance. Insane how time flies
Is it just me or does she always say she’s over sharing on yt but everything she shares is still so vague 😭 like what did he do to make u so in love how did u meet etc every story is too vague n I’m not patient enough to follow her spam n click through all those stories 💀
When you take a break from dating and on a random day you decide to get back at it and you actually start seeing guys and realize how bad some of them are and feel so proud of yourself for not letting them play you because the old you definitely would.
I’ve been without boys for TWO years now and I cannot even describe how
Amazing
My
Life
Is
Now
omg....I made this rule - no guys for one year. I havent been with guys for more than a year now...and I didnt even think about it!. My life is amazing, and I dont have a guy in it! This is awesome because I used to be really lonely and obsessed about finding a boyfriend or dating
I'm 19 and almost a year into my first relationship and it's so refreshing to hear that other people go through the experience of thinking about someone all the time and just giving them your soul, basically. It made me reframe my thoughts to realize that other people go through this too and it's not just me (and that it's not a serious attachment issue or something, which is what my mind has been telling me)
Mai makes me feel good about feeling insecure
omg, it's feels so good to watch mai rant about literally everything especially boys, i feel like i'm talking to my bestfriend lmao. love you queen! 💗👑
Are you a spam phamily member?
@@vanessaadelin yes!!!
@@fay7012 great! otherwise would've recommended following it bc of all the ranting :)
Girl ily so much. You’re literally so relatable and so entertaining to watch. LOVE YOUUUU!!!
Can I just start off by saying Mai your literally like a big sister to me! I grew up with 2 older brothers so I never got to experience what having an older sister was like, and now it feels like I have! You motivate me so much, just to like be my best self and also be kind to people. Seeing you generally happy makes me so proud because I know how hard life has been for you! I’m so glad your happy and thriving just by being you! 🥰🥰
this video rlly opened my mind to a lot of things. Ive been so conscious about this boy that ive neglected a lot of things and people in life, especially myself
Mai talking to us is literally like a FaceTime!! She is like the best friend we wish we all have.
this comment 🥺
I love how open Mai is with us. It truly feels like we are just her besties and just chatting about random crap. I love it.
Honestly Mai is like everyone’s big sister,I love her SM!!
she's like my bigger sister and im 22 yo
Here’s some advice: when you sleep with a guy mark that date on the calendar and mark 2 months after that first day of sleeping with him. When you reach that 2 month mark make the decision on whether or not to keep seeing him or to cut it off. If you continue to see him after that 2 month mark you will automatically begin to have feelings for him regardless if he’s a fuck boy. If he’s bad news cut it off at the 2 month mark. 2months!!!!!
I love her line "the hormones are hormining" it's so cute. Oh and yes, the ending is superb...her cute smile
The ending. Girl I’m hoping you get more happy days ahead whether it is alone or with someone. You deserve it. 🥺
Trust me mai you really don't need get ready even you are naturally beautiful,even though the makeup was fire🔥, ily sooo much♡
Thank you for helping me out of my depression, i've still got loads of issues but after i ended my long term relationship recently i got really depressed. So that on top of a bunch of family stress i just became bedridden and developed loads of physical issues, i quit my job and stopped going to therapy, basically i was just going through it; but when i stumbled onto your channel around June of this year you really helped pull me out of that depressing state and helped me with the decision to go back to therapy. So again, thank you. I wish you the best and i hope you're well.
wasn’t she just kissing a boy last month..
i love how mai is so comfortable talking to us about her problems, she is so relatable. I love you sm mai you saved me 🥰
She is so reaaaal y’all.ive never seen an influencer so relatable and so real with their viewers because they are only showing the good sides and them looking hot as fuck but I looove mai she is so real and relatable❤️
Slayed tbh 💅💀
The way you smiled at the end made my heart ache❤️ I’m so happy for u Mai
She tells everything I’m literally thinking. Feels like she’s talking about me💀 exactly the reason I love her
The way I relate to every single thing she says is just wow...
I love how realistic Mai is like it makes me feel so much better about my life!
I love how realistic and real Mai always is. She’s my fav TH-camr
The ending was so heartwarming. I’m so glad that your happy!
i genuinely love her so much she makes me feel so much better about myself just in general and she truly feels like a friend even though ive never even directly spoken w her i dont have a lot of friends irl so i always feel very comforted while watching mai's videos
This video was honestly so cute, just loved everything about it.
I honestly love her she is so comfortable and when your alone it feels like she is their. I love her videos and watch them over and over !!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼
WHY DO WE HAVE THE EXACT SAME THOUGHTS?? I’ve been celibate after my ex who I was in love with too and who broke me. We are at the same place, me also being 19. We got this, and whats meant to be will be. Self love above all else. But we are still allowed to have fun. Like I legit don’t want to get that physical with anyone rn but we can still go on dates and explore.
MAI OMG. i needed this video so fricking bad. i'm going through a breakup right now that affected me this exact way. before i watched this i thought he was the only one for me and i NEEDED him but no, what i need to do it love myself before i can love someone else.
Mai you are literally my role model i love how relatable and kind you are and i love love love how you are always yourself !!! I'm still trying to find my true self and you are the biggest help to me right now. Lovee you Mai ❤
girll im still a young teenager rn, and listening to this makes me feel so happy and comfortable. Like the moment when you say the advices when we might feel like "what if he likes me, or what if he's this or this.." I felt so wowow. I thought I was the only one who felt this way but I wasn't, I'm def gonna take this advice tysm!!!
“basically the epitome of my existence” 😭😭😭😭. litterally me and how i feel
This was a good one, I very much loved the vlog. And, the little speech you did about doing what you need to do for yourself (when it comes to romantic relationships) was what I needed to hear cuz gurl lately tingz been crazy when it comes to romantic relationships/love/hormones, so thank you for that gurl
I swear I’ve never watched a better video this is my whole entire existence like it’s so aesthetically pleasing and satisfying and I am loving the intro that girl every day is another slay
Her explanation of going out and wanting talk to guys but not actually talking to them could not have been more of an accurate description of me ahhhh hahaha
Mai baby I literally did the same thing the past year after being in toxic relationship after toxic relationship. I can relate to everything you said. Expect now I don’t even wanna date 😂 I hate men and like no one meet my standards🤣😭 I love youuuu 💞
Hi Mai I would just like to take a second to tell you how much you have helped me with my mental health. You make me laugh when I want to cry and make me feel on top of the world when I'm happy. I love the way your following hasn't changed your personality. Your videos have made me so much more comfortable in my own skin. I think you dropped this 👑.
Love Grace ❤️, also have you thought about trying horse riding?
Mai is my favorite TH-camr, so real and relatable, whenever she posts i get so excited to watch!! ❤️ you Mai
you’re literally goals🤍😭 love how confident you portray yourself, you’re so gorgeous. you deserve a fine man mai
Your smile at the end got me in tears you literally look so happy and that genuinely made me happier ❤love you mai
omg i hope someday you get someone that's like the lyrics of your yt intro/outro
you are so freakin gorgeous in every sense and way of that word!!! i literally adore watching you so much because of how genuine and real you are!!
Love this, Mai is literally so open with us and relatable and she is my literal role model. Love you Mai
Love ur vidsss it gives me confidence all the time really appreciate you for the effort u put in to ur videosss 💟💟💟
having a healthy platonic male bff is so healing
This is why its good to have male friends so you dont feel as cynical towards guys if theyve been a shitty experience 🤣
YESSS
At the end u were so giddy and happy, in pure bliss. That is literally the best feeling in the world. I’m glad you had a good time 🥺
Girl you make my whole day when you post!! 💗💗💗
I cant wait to go on fancy little dates with friends, it literally seems so fun
omg yess I'd love to go on little dates or even just walking around the city and getting food somewhere cute in cute outfits. basically anything where we can dress up
Mai, you are such an inspiration. I have been going through some dark times and watching your videos gives me the motivation to keep going thank you for being here you will always be my comfort TH-camr.
Fuuuuuuck.... girl mai preach!!!
I am suffering the same fking problem rn!! "Boys" problem caused me to go through severe depression and lack of self confidence! I cried like sh*t alone because of that we'll I won't go into my longass story just.. watch your video made me feel a little better that im not alone in this crap lol. Thanks mai💛
LETS GO OUT BABE! LMAOOO I’m headed to New York for my birthday October 14-17th. We can be vlog buddies, take cute pics, and go out 😘 Manifesting you into my life now 😂🤣~ Thank you Universe in advance 🙋♀️✨🌎 My hotel is in Upper Manhattan 💕
yesss
I love when you just talk to us while getting ready sit so therapeutic
Mai is literally glowing in all of her videos 😩 So proud of how far you've gotten
Dude- I always thought she was gorgeous when she was normally dressed in her videos. BUT DAYUM IS SHE’S SO FREAKIN FINE WHEN SHE DRESSES UP TOO 😭💕
girl you are so amazing to talk to and I wish every girl sees u becoming a boss of there own
Mai!! I appreciate you being so honest about all this but I did want to address one thing real fast!!! At around 10:47, you said females release oxytocin. Both females AND males release oxytocin when physical touch occurs! Sorry, the psych major in me just had to let you know. :) I love watching your videos!
the more she uploads and rants like this the more i feel closer to her!!! and always she looks extremely gorgeous with the best vibes of her!! im so in love with her she my bestie frr
mai, you actually give me life. you chatting with us in a grwm really makes me feel like we're on facetime. ilysm 💗
I love Mai, you’re my inspiration. You have no idea how much you’ve helped me.
What you said about like every boy you talked to you thought of scenarios, dude same, that's why it was so hard for me to keep any guy friends. I came to similar conclusions lmao
Girl the end makes me fold ughhhh😩😩 your gorgeous and you deserve to be so happy . Just know we love you and just tell us if he does something naughty I’ll be booking my flight to nyc faster then Elon Musks rocket space ship mobele what ever the fuck. 🙄 period. K now luv u
It's great to see Mai growing more confident with herself. She's super inspiring and she helps me to feel more confident in myself too. If I want to go somewhere, I'll do it, even if no one can come with me. For example, if I want to go to the symphony, and unfortunately no one can come with me, I'm confident enough in myself to go by myself and have a good time. Which is a huge improvement from where I was a few years ago. Keep up the great work Mai!
maiiiiii u have helped me so mucjhthis year in being more confident and happy with myself and as a fellow teen its so hard to love urself and so easy to break urself down so i really appreciate everything u do! :) ilysm!!!
Mai,you really evolved and you re glowing!I can see a big change in the past months in you and I wish all the best for you!❤
0:01 is literally me rn
Hey girl Mai this video is so relatable and your not the only one feels like this I been talking to a guy recently and I thank god for this video btw love you
Absolutely gorgeous ❤️ I love that this feels like a FaceTime and honestly I relate so much to you and it’s nice to know that someone has the same thoughts as me.
Mai is literally the one person I can listen to just talk for hours like dude the accuracy. I missed you💖💖🧙🏻♂️cough cough spampham cough *🛐 slayyy miss gurll☕️
guys i try being JUST FRIENDS WITH, end up tryna get with me or just being weird towards me i hate it. idfk what i be doing that makes me do that stuff.
The way she's true to herself makes me so proud I see myself in her alott
Mai We All Love When You Overshare Girl!!!! Hope You Have A Wonderful Month Of September!!!! 🙌🙌✨✨
1. Pop off💕
2. Love a good story time
3. THE MAKEUP IS FIREEEE
Hey gurrlll, been watching you for a while now and somehow when im watching your videos i always end up cleaning up my room :')
Hope you're doing well Mai
I can't believe she's 19. She looks and behaves like a 30 year old (which is not something bad since I'm also 31) I meant it as a compliment, soo mature in both looks and attitude
I just love your videos!! It encourages me to do better in my life andddd maybe start a TH-cam channel😪😍😍😍you sooo pretttyy!!
i love these type of videos where it feels like we’re on ft, Mai just has the best big sister energy! 🫶🏽
Transformer Mai...haha you look astonishing! I miss having a girl group that would get dressed up like this just to go eat. It has also been incredible watching you learn and grow as a genuine human sharing your moments with us. Thank you 💕