Story 1: My heart broke for OP and her nephew. What kind of mother and grandparents left their baby alone starving for days, the child could've died. Cut off all of this toxic people, they don't deserve OP's help.
I agree with you 💯%, if nextdoor neighbors, or randos saw what happened, they'll contact the authorities to not only arrest Daisy for neglect, but also place the baby in foster care, and ultimately, adopt him out to a good and kind family who will provide him with a stable home.
Yeah I don't understand why Daisy and her parents are not in prison for starving a baby and attempted murder. It wouldn't be the first young child dying like that. Also that bit about the rich ex wsa also crazy, they must all be on drugs to think like that.
Rich ex took nuclear revenge by appealing to sister and her parents greed, he actually did the child a favor by parting him from those scumbags permanently.
The ex with child care problems. They aren't your problems. You offered a solution and she doesn't like it. It's not your responsibility to listen to her complain. If your sister thinks your ex is entitled to an audience for her venting, your sister can do it.
It’s not a good sign that Mom doesn’t want OPs family watching her child. Add that she’s emotionally needy and feels entitled to OPS attention and compassion- What we have here is a high - conflict co-parent in the making. I pity OPs next girlfriend. 9/10 the Mom will get really messy.
Agree with both of you. NTA, OP yes you could try to do as your sister suggested but Why? Your Ex wanting just to be able to vent about problems of her own making do not directly concern your daughters well being, since as she said she isn't looking for a solution. But be careful, you may want to change it to "Wait, before you go any further, does this directly concern our daughter and are you looking for helpful suggestions or do you just want to vent?" If she asks why, tell her then you can decide if you want to listen or not. But I think someone mentioned an app or at least communicating through email, which is a great idea as then everything is in writing.
1) RUN. Sis is off the deep end. Restraining orders all around. Write off your sister. You can't fix her. You have nothing wrong. Break all attachments, including child. Get down off the cross, someone else needs the wood.
The OP of this story needs to think of her own personal safety. Screw her sister and anyone else. OP's own personal safety is all that matters and must take top priority. I do not know what sick and twisted game the sister and ex are playing but it does not matter. The parents seem to be reacting out of guilt due to their perception of failure regarding the sister. OP has no responsibility to the sister, the ex, the parents, or the sister's child. OP needs to focus on herself and cut the rest of the family out.
Story 1: You ruin someone's life and abandon a helpless child all to improve your own? That is not okay. And it's pathetic they thought otherwise. They can stay trapped in that city because what do you know it's consequences. OP doesn't need any of them since they are so determined to follow money instead of their conscious. They played a stupid game, they can reap its stupid rewards.
Three adults left an infant alone not planning on coming back? What were they hoping he would die? Moreover, CPS said they give the infant back to mother who left him alone for two days with no evidence she was planning on returning? This story does not sound real. I think the mom would had jail time and her parental rights terminated. The baby could have died from horrible neglect within a day or two. Horrible
first ... NTA ... Daisy lied there was an emergency. she "was so excited you get to meet this great person" who had made your life a living hell. you have no reason to feel guilty.
Unreasonable ex and childcare: so, several people telling OP that he’s going to have to deal with the ex for years, so placate her. Let’s put that another way - suck it up and put up with the one causing problems - because you’re the guy. You know full well if it was the ex husband being a nuisance they wouldn’t have told the ex wife to just placate and put up with his crazy.
Damn, all of these stories hurt, that last one tho, that mom SUCKS SO MUCH. She deserves how her kids are treating her, because they're only putting their foot down. The step-sibling is going to grow up being hated by everyone because she has a shit personality.
NTA . Her problems are not your problems and when the problem has a solution and she doesn't want to take it that's definitely her problem... The last story I would have snatched that 14 yr old up for disrespect alone
I was under the impression she did them herself. This isn't a very big channel, so I thought everything, finding stories, recording, video editing, and art were all done by one person.
Story 3 - It is obvious the stepfather is overstepping his boundaries and causing all this strife. OP and brother are doing the right thing to stay away from him. And by staying away from him, solving all the little problems posed by his children.
S1: Hmmm, visiting with your sister, that is where everything goes horribly wrong. Getting away from your sister and your toxic ex was the smartest move you made, watch out for the old family helps out family. Looks like you opened a 55 gallon drum of lunacy. Go full on NC with your parents and especially your sister. Best of luck.
Last story. I feel dreadfully sorry for the two young people who have a mother who is as much use as a chocolate chastity belt, a step-sister who will become a hateful, entitled, vile, sad excuse for an adult and a step-I can't bring myself to say father - who is an utter knobjockey. I would suggest that the kids take one more trip to mummy dearest's house in order to record every word that is said. They can then present this in court and in therapy. That awful woman should be utterly shamed, publicly, for her lack of action in defending her children.
Story 2- when you divorce, you take your problems somewhere else. It’s not OPs responsibility to tend to his ex’s feelings. It’s his job to communicate about kid stuff. Instead, it would be better for the mom to be more respectful about OPs boundaries.
I'll sue the sister the ex plus my parents I would think that the sister was thinking ohh cool I can set them up together and they can adopt my son together if it was not for her abandoning him.
OMG, the only people who are not wrong in this story are the Bio-Dad and his two kids. The stepdad and his kids are monsters. How dare they insist on erasing the bio-dad from these kids' lives and replacing him with the stepdad. The other monster is the bio-mom who just sat there and allowed it to happen. Because she has chosen her new family her step-children over her own kids. The question is which own is the worst monster.
Mom is the worse. She should be the one protecting her children from people like that. A mother that would leave her baby in a scorpion pit, would be a monster. The scorpions in question are just scorpions.
I don’t understand the first story. What was the motivation for the sister to drive OP to the stalker boyfriend? We’re they in a relationship? If the sister and parents left the baby to go off to the other city did they expect baby to just die?
I don’t understand why the baby mama didn’t give the baby up for adoption in the first place. Taking in her baby will just keep you in their life, he’d be better off in a different family and u could move on with your life
The story with the complaining ex about childcare, I'm wondering if she's trying to get OP to pay for the childcare/pay for part of the childcare. She wants to vent, yes, but I get the feeling that if OP commiserates with her, she's going to insist on help because *he's* not paying childcare. I could be way off base, but it just seems to me that she's heading that direction.
Nta. Call the cops. She is aiding a psycho. Jumping into his arms. Seriously these piece of trash once known as OPs sister needs to leave and never come back again
OP is the ex and this issue has nothing to do with him. The ex brought it up and OP offered a solution. The ex did not like the solution nor want to hear any more about that solution. Therefore the ex should stop bring up the issue.
OP and spouse need to learn that babies cry and scream at times. Get over it. That being said, both parents are behaving like fools. Their daughter needs to grow up with parents who work together and do not give her mixed messages.
YOU SAY NTA however do you know the ex-mother perhaps the OP ex-girlfriend /wife know something we do not know the ex-husband will not say his mother is toxic or interfering so free childcare take with a pinch of salt op get your act together
Story 1 : i had to listen 10 times at least to understand, so to be clear : a woman (of your family, but that's not my point) abandon her kids, plain and simple, without even a caretaker for the baby, just to live happy new rich family ? Save the children, please, but go away from this snake's nest !!!
I believe Daisy was in on your ex. look as though they where going to kidnap you and torment you. Luckily you call the police. Your sister should also be facing charges with your ex...
Story one is confusing and doubtful. Other commenters seem confused as well. Was OP's sister trying to steal OP's ex? Or get OP back with him? Then the ex at the end of the story was apparently the sister's ex who whe had cheated on. But what family leaves a baby alone for days???
s1; OP was a fool for taking in the kid. It is going to seriously screw up all sorts of opportunities for her. On the plus side, she sounds like a rare to the point of presumed mythical, reasonably "safe" type of single mother to get into a relationship with. OP needs to DNA test the kid to try to find the father. That will become a mess eventually if she just sticks her head in the sand over it.
The child is still apart of her family and doesn’t deserve to be abandoned even if it would make her life easier. I agree that she should look for the father if possible but honestly considering the type of person the sister is that may be putting the child in more danger who knows what kind of person the father is
I'm getting a really odd vibe from Story 2. OP keeps repeating "I'm interested in solutions, not problems." It really makes him come across as self-centered. Also, there's not enough information as to why his Ex turned down his mom as childcard. Is OP's mom as self-centered as he is? If that's the case, why in the world would any parent want their child left with them? OP very conveniently doesn't give any information about why--which again makes me think that he's self-centered and ignores anything that doesn't benefit him. I could be completely wrong, of course, but much more info is needed here.
The first story is stupid- by all accounts the sister was made the 'black sheep' for being 'Alternative', and op always had famial love and support. Why is it surprising sister is now toxic?? Op cut her off for 'smoking and drinking'- until she abandoned her baby I felt pretty bad for her. I don't believe the parents would suddenly switch sides over money if it didn't matter to them before- there's just something missing. I can't with these tall tales sometimes.....Also, we should make an 'Oh boy...'/ 'Had the grace to...'/ Cinderella story/Last minute character with miracle 'proof' of op's innocence/Everyone has CCTV/Restraining orders are easy to get and 'Everything's a 'Lawsuit'(??) Bingo card.
As funny as the thought of the "golf alternative scene" is, you NEED to fix your subtitles for the hard of hearing. Why don't you just copy paste the messages instead of rewriting them from scratch or using a voice to text program? It does reek of laziness and lack of care for your viewers.
Story 1: My heart broke for OP and her nephew. What kind of mother and grandparents left their baby alone starving for days, the child could've died. Cut off all of this toxic people, they don't deserve OP's help.
so weak and pathetic. people get what they deserve when they act like doormats.
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I agree with you 💯%, if nextdoor neighbors, or randos saw what happened, they'll contact the authorities to not only arrest Daisy for neglect, but also place the baby in foster care, and ultimately, adopt him out to a good and kind family who will provide him with a stable home.
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Yeah I don't understand why Daisy and her parents are not in prison for starving a baby and attempted murder. It wouldn't be the first young child dying like that. Also that bit about the rich ex wsa also crazy, they must all be on drugs to think like that.
That is sick leaving a child alone to starve to death. That is just evil
You can't help people out of a hole when they just keep digging.
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Rich ex took nuclear revenge by appealing to sister and her parents greed, he actually did the child a favor by parting him from those scumbags permanently.
The ex with child care problems. They aren't your problems. You offered a solution and she doesn't like it. It's not your responsibility to listen to her complain. If your sister thinks your ex is entitled to an audience for her venting, your sister can do it.
It’s not a good sign that Mom doesn’t want OPs family watching her child. Add that she’s emotionally needy and feels entitled to OPS attention and compassion-
What we have here is a high - conflict co-parent in the making. I pity OPs next girlfriend. 9/10 the Mom will get really messy.
Agree with both of you. NTA, OP yes you could try to do as your sister suggested but Why? Your Ex wanting just to be able to vent about problems of her own making do not directly concern your daughters well being, since as she said she isn't looking for a solution. But be careful, you may want to change it to "Wait, before you go any further, does this directly concern our daughter and are you looking for helpful suggestions or do you just want to vent?" If she asks why, tell her then you can decide if you want to listen or not. But I think someone mentioned an app or at least communicating through email, which is a great idea as then everything is in writing.
1) RUN. Sis is off the deep end. Restraining orders all around. Write off your sister. You can't fix her. You have nothing wrong. Break all attachments, including child. Get down off the cross, someone else needs the wood.
well said.
The OP of this story needs to think of her own personal safety. Screw her sister and anyone else. OP's own personal safety is all that matters and must take top priority.
I do not know what sick and twisted game the sister and ex are playing but it does not matter. The parents seem to be reacting out of guilt due to their perception of failure regarding the sister.
OP has no responsibility to the sister, the ex, the parents, or the sister's child.
OP needs to focus on herself and cut the rest of the family out.
Story 1: You ruin someone's life and abandon a helpless child all to improve your own? That is not okay. And it's pathetic they thought otherwise. They can stay trapped in that city because what do you know it's consequences. OP doesn't need any of them since they are so determined to follow money instead of their conscious. They played a stupid game, they can reap its stupid rewards.
3. They are divorced. She needs to get her own support system.
Three adults left an infant alone not planning on coming back? What were they hoping he would die? Moreover, CPS said they give the infant back to mother who left him alone for two days with no evidence she was planning on returning? This story does not sound real. I think the mom would had jail time and her parental rights terminated. The baby could have died from horrible neglect within a day or two. Horrible
Unfortunately, CPS isn't the miracle agency people like to think it is.
They give back beaten bloody children cps is a joke
Sadly, some CPS caseworkers Don care about the safety of the kids if it means less work for them
It sounds like they were planning to force Op to take in the nephew.
I don't understand why they weren't arrested. It is horrible.
Story 1. OP should sue her sister, her ex, and her parents for child support for the nephew.
Only one to sue would be her sister, and she has no money.
I'm glad she was able to save her nephew.
first ... NTA ... Daisy lied there was an emergency. she "was so excited you get to meet this great person" who had made your life a living hell. you have no reason to feel guilty.
Unreasonable ex and childcare: so, several people telling OP that he’s going to have to deal with the ex for years, so placate her. Let’s put that another way - suck it up and put up with the one causing problems - because you’re the guy. You know full well if it was the ex husband being a nuisance they wouldn’t have told the ex wife to just placate and put up with his crazy.
Damn, all of these stories hurt, that last one tho, that mom SUCKS SO MUCH. She deserves how her kids are treating her, because they're only putting their foot down. The step-sibling is going to grow up being hated by everyone because she has a shit personality.
S2 NTA you offered her a solution, she doesn't want to listen. Your sister is right you do have to communicate with your ex for your child's sake.
NTA . Her problems are not your problems and when the problem has a solution and she doesn't want to take it that's definitely her problem... The last story I would have snatched that 14 yr old up for disrespect alone
You really need to fire whoever does your subtitles. I spent ages trying to figure out what was wrong with the Golf crowd.
I was under the impression she did them herself. This isn't a very big channel, so I thought everything, finding stories, recording, video editing, and art were all done by one person.
@@ivorynk752 I honestly think it's not just one person.
I suspect some speech to text thing. Honestly it gives me a laugh! But a bit of proofreading would fix it.
@@ivorynk752 I believe the channel is ran by a group. Watch really old videos (like 6-7-8 months ago), the narrator is NOT the same person
Or could be autocorrect
Story 3 - It is obvious the stepfather is overstepping his boundaries and causing all this strife. OP and brother are doing the right thing to stay away from him. And by staying away from him, solving all the little problems posed by his children.
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That is a clear case of parental alienation on the step-dads part and not only is he emotionally abusing his step kids but his own child as well.
Why were they not arrested for child endangerment?
I think it is Goth not golf. Although the latter is arguably worse.
S1: Hmmm, visiting with your sister, that is where everything goes horribly wrong.
Getting away from your sister and your toxic ex was the smartest move you made, watch out for the old family helps out family.
Looks like you opened a 55 gallon drum of lunacy.
Go full on NC with your parents and especially your sister.
Best of luck.
I WOULD SUGGEST TO THE EX-WIFE
TO ASK HER MOTHER TO HELP
TAKE CARE OF THE CHILD.
Last story. I feel dreadfully sorry for the two young people who have a mother who is as much use as a chocolate chastity belt, a step-sister who will become a hateful, entitled, vile, sad excuse for an adult and a step-I can't bring myself to say father - who is an utter knobjockey.
I would suggest that the kids take one more trip to mummy dearest's house in order to record every word that is said. They can then present this in court and in therapy.
That awful woman should be utterly shamed, publicly, for her lack of action in defending her children.
Time for "Goth to Boss, with Richmond"
Op needs to cut ties with her family and move on with her life and stop trying to save people who doesn’t want to do right in life.
holy child abandonment Batman !!!
Story 2- when you divorce, you take your problems somewhere else. It’s not OPs responsibility to tend to his ex’s feelings. It’s his job to communicate about kid stuff. Instead, it would be better for the mom to be more respectful about OPs boundaries.
I'll sue the sister the ex plus my parents I would think that the sister was thinking ohh cool I can set them up together and they can adopt my son together if it was not for her abandoning him.
OMG, the only people who are not wrong in this story are the Bio-Dad and his two kids.
The stepdad and his kids are monsters. How dare they insist on erasing the bio-dad from these kids' lives and replacing him with the stepdad.
The other monster is the bio-mom who just sat there and allowed it to happen. Because she has chosen her new family her step-children over her own kids.
The question is which own is the worst monster.
Mom is the worse. She should be the one protecting her children from people like that. A mother that would leave her baby in a scorpion pit, would be a monster. The scorpions in question are just scorpions.
I don’t understand the first story. What was the motivation for the sister to drive OP to the stalker boyfriend? We’re they in a relationship? If the sister and parents left the baby to go off to the other city did they expect baby to just die?
I don’t understand why the baby mama didn’t give the baby up for adoption in the first place. Taking in her baby will just keep you in their life, he’d be better off in a different family and u could move on with your life
The story with the complaining ex about childcare, I'm wondering if she's trying to get OP to pay for the childcare/pay for part of the childcare. She wants to vent, yes, but I get the feeling that if OP commiserates with her, she's going to insist on help because *he's* not paying childcare. I could be way off base, but it just seems to me that she's heading that direction.
Nta. Call the cops. She is aiding a psycho. Jumping into his arms. Seriously these piece of trash once known as OPs sister needs to leave and never come back again
Jail is a good place for Daisy and ex. What did she think was going to happen to you? What was Michael thinking?
Reap what you sow ☢️
OP is the ex and this issue has nothing to do with him. The ex brought it up and OP offered a solution. The ex did not like the solution nor want to hear any more about that solution. Therefore the ex should stop bring up the issue.
OP and spouse need to learn that babies cry and scream at times. Get over it. That being said, both parents are behaving like fools. Their daughter needs to grow up with parents who work together and do not give her mixed messages.
St1: I was waiting for the part that an orange kraken makes its appearance
When she says """golf""" does mean '''goth""""
Ohh I thought you were talking about a retriever dog, I need to be more attentive sorry about that.
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I know your sis was flakey enough to not realize the consequences of violating the restraining order ... but the ex should have known.
I wouldn’t have took in her kid I strongly believe In not my kid not my problem op is a better person than I would be 😅
SIS is nuts.. your parents are nuts... the rich ex is nuts.. your EX is nuts.... You need a NEW START! ELSEWHERE !
YOU SAY NTA however do you know the ex-mother perhaps the OP ex-girlfriend /wife know something we do not know the ex-husband will not say his mother is toxic or interfering so free childcare take with a pinch of salt op get your act together
Story 1 : i had to listen 10 times at least to understand, so to be clear : a woman (of your family, but that's not my point) abandon her kids, plain and simple, without even a caretaker for the baby, just to live happy new rich family ? Save the children, please, but go away from this snake's nest !!!
I believe Daisy was in on your ex. look as though they where going to kidnap you and torment you. Luckily you call the police. Your sister should also be facing charges with your ex...
Story one is confusing and doubtful. Other commenters seem confused as well. Was OP's sister trying to steal OP's ex? Or get OP back with him? Then the ex at the end of the story was apparently the sister's ex who whe had cheated on. But what family leaves a baby alone for days???
s1; OP was a fool for taking in the kid. It is going to seriously screw up all sorts of opportunities for her. On the plus side, she sounds like a rare to the point of presumed mythical, reasonably "safe" type of single mother to get into a relationship with. OP needs to DNA test the kid to try to find the father. That will become a mess eventually if she just sticks her head in the sand over it.
The child is still apart of her family and doesn’t deserve to be abandoned even if it would make her life easier. I agree that she should look for the father if possible but honestly considering the type of person the sister is that may be putting the child in more danger who knows what kind of person the father is
I'm getting a really odd vibe from Story 2. OP keeps repeating "I'm interested in solutions, not problems." It really makes him come across as self-centered. Also, there's not enough information as to why his Ex turned down his mom as childcard. Is OP's mom as self-centered as he is? If that's the case, why in the world would any parent want their child left with them? OP very conveniently doesn't give any information about why--which again makes me think that he's self-centered and ignores anything that doesn't benefit him. I could be completely wrong, of course, but much more info is needed here.
The first story is stupid- by all accounts the sister was made the 'black sheep' for being 'Alternative', and op always had famial love and support. Why is it surprising sister is now toxic?? Op cut her off for 'smoking and drinking'- until she abandoned her baby I felt pretty bad for her. I don't believe the parents would suddenly switch sides over money if it didn't matter to them before- there's just something missing. I can't with these tall tales sometimes.....Also, we should make an 'Oh boy...'/ 'Had the grace to...'/ Cinderella story/Last minute character with miracle 'proof' of op's innocence/Everyone has CCTV/Restraining orders are easy to get and 'Everything's a 'Lawsuit'(??) Bingo card.
Wait, is Daisy her dog or sister? The beginning confused me.
3 story I kinda don't know to believe it or not because it's come from the one side
As funny as the thought of the "golf alternative scene" is, you NEED to fix your subtitles for the hard of hearing. Why don't you just copy paste the messages instead of rewriting them from scratch or using a voice to text program? It does reek of laziness and lack of care for your viewers.
So badly written, incoherent.
You and sis were estranged for a while. Are you sure that she knew he was your ex?
Please proof your work . It’s just lazy
Your parents left the kid alone???
When given a solution why do I have to listen to you whine about something that has been resolved but not the answer you want. ugh
Because she wants OP to be the bad guy and she wants to be the victim. 🤔
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