I thought the brother and husband were going to be the ones having an affair together when I saw the title. There was a story like that with the genders reversed recently.
Considering the title said op understood why I thought her brother tried something with him. If it was an affair I doubt she would have been OK with her husband.
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Parent has to go away for "tax reasons"? Hmm....the only time I've heard of that is when a guy left his family in the US & moved to somewhere in the Caribbean for 2 years to avoid a large lump sum tax payment on a redundancy (6-7 figures) as a fait accompli. Went to "visit" family & the locks had been changed (surprised Pikachu face). You don't get to 320 lbs at 15 without a lot of comfort eating (probably, unless there's an underlying genetic tendency or health issue) and also possibly parental & social body shaming. If OP can, it might be better to have a long talk & get the girl help, not simply refuse to cook an extra meal. Perhaps also involve her in how to plan meals, what's healthy, how to cook? If time etc permit. There's more going on in this kids life than meets the eye. Maybe even some sinister stuff in her past, who knows? No mention of Dad. OP is possibly doing her best given the size if her household, so NTA but despite her behaviour the kid silently screams for help. NOT body shaming BTW. As a larger person who is old enough to have health issues because of it, I can attest to trying to lose weight being a difficult and lengthy process, you can't quit cold turkey like a lot of other things that can harm you, and a lot has to do with your headspace as well as physical factors. Being larger can be a protection, a notice me cry, defiantly taking up more space or being bigger/stronger to fend off something, food can be used to numb pain, deal with boredom, soothe anxiety or anger. And you can't go without it, unlike drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, anything else used to avoid facing painful stuff.
Sooooo, OP’s husband couldn’t just tell OP that her brother was cheating? And he needed to ring the doorbell to his own house? Yeah, this doesn’t sound real.
Well Jared clearly has morals because he is disgusted with Alex’s infidelity like poor Nita like she had his kids and he does this behind her back. Like op is lucky to have a husband like Jared who’s die hard faithful
Why would her husband ring her doorbell? But more importantly "Die hard faithful", Oh you poor sweet summer child. Fewer things are more irritating than someone who has the same sort of secret that you have and hides it poorly. That mean he will get caught soon enough making it harder to keep your secret. This may or may not be the case here but to think that is the reaction of a die hard faithful person only is quite naive. Also consider that they have known each other for a very long time including the ages where people tend to be the most hedonistic. Are you telling me this came as a shock to somebody who lived with him and attended the same parties and in the same friend group? Yeah, not bloody likely. There are two likely possibilities. 1. This is really is aberrant behavior from this guy so rather than throwing a fit it would be wiser to get him back on the "straight and narrow" which is more of his default setting anyway. 2. This behavior is to telling. This is not unexpected and with them being so close for so long means he is probably doing the same sort of thing but this guy is being indiscreet. In order to keep himself hidden he immediately distances himself. I remain flabbergasted at the incredible naivety that so many redditors and youtubers seem to have on the subject of unfaithful spouses.
Okay so while I commend Jared for being so harsh on his best friend for what he did… why the hell did he keep it from OP? Y’know, HIS WIFE and Alex’s SISTER. And he just told her to not invite her brother into their house with NO explanation? Literally any other situation and I’d think he was isolating her, y’know?
Story 2 if your niece is using food to cope get her into therapy before she gets to the point that she making herself sick, it when they get enabled like your wondering you should do that they end up on the TLC show my 600 pound life one thing that that the people in the show have in common is that someone or many family members enabled their eating out of guilt from the hardship they may of had to cause food addicted I know because my family is struggling to help my teen cousin who bio parents let go hungry in childhood control his eating addiction before he gets himself to the point where he has severe health issues he currently denies he has a problem while sneaking food he doesn't have to sneak (a habit he got when he wasn't being fed properly) but at the very least talk to her about how her eating habits can harm her down the line if she doesn't want therapy cause my cousin won't go either but is trying to exercise more and eat healthier though he can't seem to completely curved his snacking food habit despite us telling him that he doesn't have to sneak just eat a healthy snack if hungry instead of juno that harming him not that junk isn't ok in moderation it just he eats large amounts at a time that contains high amounts of sugar and sodium and our family has history of diabetes and heart issues on all sides.
Yeah, the kid is already morbidly obese. That sounds like mom already trained her to stuff her face to a seriously unhealthy state. As cautious as I am personally about "therapists", sounds like she really needs one, to help with her issues with mom, her eating disorder, or just behavioral help.
Why does Jaden ring the doorbell to get into his own home Why does Jaden need his wife to let him into his own home Why doesn't Jaden carry keys to his own home
Was wondering the same thing. Only reason I could think is he saw ops brothers car, didn't want to see him, so rang the bell so op would go to the door and he wouldn't have to see her brother.
@@tonyblake7569 OP "knew" when the doorbell rang that it was her husband so it can safely be assumed he relies on her to grant him access to his home on a regular basis
@@FoxPhantomThief she also expected him home later. If it was the time she expected him I could see that but the fact it was at a time she didn't expect him home her "immediately knowing" it was him sounds more like it was a gut feeling, not business as usual.
Some people like to ring because they like to be received. My friend or my dad make the same, they still have keys in case there is nobody but they prefer to be open. Me i am opposite because I hate to wait!
@@Sifya No offense but that's so weird to me! I get knocking first for a place where you might otherwise see something you shouldn't see, like a bedroom or bathroom, but your own home? If there's something going on in the common areas that you wouldn't want to see, it's probably better to see it sooner rather than later
S2 NTA your niece doesn't need two plates of food. You are doing great by her. She's 15 and acting like 8, let her rant all she wants. She's greedy and a liar so shut that crap down NOW
When I was 15 there was one hot meal prepared and school lunch only when there was school. All else I had to do myself. That teen needs to grow up. Obviously she needs to be put in therapy of some kind because her behavior towards food isn't normal, but OP doesn't keep food from her, she just tells the nice to make something for herself if the meals aren't enough.
NTA - story 2 :- You have given the lassie the correct amount of food per day. Please don't give in to her. If she actually NEEDS more, she can make it herself, as you've said - pizza, hamburger etc. You are not there to make her extra food AFTER her meal. It's almost as if she doesn't know HOW to cook any extras she wants. Wonder if mother does it for her, and that's why she is overweight ?? Just thinking out loud.
I would make videos of your meal prep and her eating those meals to serve as proof . Post the videos on her page and confront her for being a liar . After that, I would kick her out of the house. Either family members can take her or place her with CPS . Who knows if she will make up other lies about you . Get rid of her as soon as you can.
Story 2: Why isn't OP more concerned about their niece? Clearly, she is struggling. This child needs guidance from a therapist and a dietitian to help them learn healthy coping strategies and eating habits. This could turn into an eating disorder with the potential to ruin her life.
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First of all, it's not your husbands place to tell you not to see your brother without telling you why, what your brother has done is way out of line, and now is living with consequences.
Could I live with you I grew up in a foster orphanage workhouse situation i weighed 30 pds in the 3rd grade I gained 10 pounds each grade 40 in the 4h etc. 2200 calories Would be heaven
It actually makes me Ashley when I see people suffer such severe obesity because I know that people did this to them. Why would you feel guilty for not overfeeding a child? That's the opposite of rationality. You are being gaslit.
Story 2. Feed the kid two plates. It’s better that she overeats nutritious meals than eating a pizza or ramen. Give her two dinners and maybe encourage her to go with you to the gym.
The process of cooking additional food will often allow time for chemicals to say you are full or for the brain to overcome the lack of inhibition for extra food where a 2nd serving is being eaten no matter what.
I am wondering if she might have a condition like Prader-Willi where you never feel full. It's quite rare but it is always an advantage to get the full picture of the situation. Not Prader-Willi nor another disorder? OK, time to do X, Y and Z, then.
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Why did I think the husband and brother were sleeping with each other ? 😂
Too much time on Reddit like me lol
Ditto
Wincest?
Because like other things today sleeping with an SO's sibling is being normalized.
I thought the same thing
He should have told op from the begining what was going on, I would have been furious if I found out the secret he kept
She should not have apologized. He should be the one apologizing for not telling his wife what was going on.
I thought the brother and husband were going to be the ones having an affair together when I saw the title. There was a story like that with the genders reversed recently.
Right that’s what I thought
It definitely felt that way right? lol
Right! I thought it was something dark and sinister but an affair? I guess but I feel like something is missing.
Considering the title said op understood why I thought her brother tried something with him. If it was an affair I doubt she would have been OK with her husband.
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320lbs at 5'4" and only 15 is ridiculous
Parent has to go away for "tax reasons"? Hmm....the only time I've heard of that is when a guy left his family in the US & moved to somewhere in the Caribbean for 2 years to avoid a large lump sum tax payment on a redundancy (6-7 figures) as a fait accompli. Went to "visit" family & the locks had been changed (surprised Pikachu face). You don't get to 320 lbs at 15 without a lot of comfort eating (probably, unless there's an underlying genetic tendency or health issue) and also possibly parental & social body shaming. If OP can, it might be better to have a long talk & get the girl help, not simply refuse to cook an extra meal. Perhaps also involve her in how to plan meals, what's healthy, how to cook? If time etc permit. There's more going on in this kids life than meets the eye. Maybe even some sinister stuff in her past, who knows? No mention of Dad. OP is possibly doing her best given the size if her household, so NTA but despite her behaviour the kid silently screams for help. NOT body shaming BTW. As a larger person who is old enough to have health issues because of it, I can attest to trying to lose weight being a difficult and lengthy process, you can't quit cold turkey like a lot of other things that can harm you, and a lot has to do with your headspace as well as physical factors. Being larger can be a protection, a notice me cry, defiantly taking up more space or being bigger/stronger to fend off something, food can be used to numb pain, deal with boredom, soothe anxiety or anger. And you can't go without it, unlike drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, anything else used to avoid facing painful stuff.
Even if she was 30 that’s ridiculous.
yup, absolutely ridiculous. The average weight of an professional NFL player is 245.86 pounds, sure a lineman is likely more but others are less.
Sooooo, OP’s husband couldn’t just tell OP that her brother was cheating? And he needed to ring the doorbell to his own house? Yeah, this doesn’t sound real.
Well Jared clearly has morals because he is disgusted with Alex’s infidelity like poor Nita like she had his kids and he does this behind her back. Like op is lucky to have a husband like Jared who’s die hard faithful
Why would her husband ring her doorbell?
But more importantly "Die hard faithful", Oh you poor sweet summer child. Fewer things are more irritating than someone who has the same sort of secret that you have and hides it poorly. That mean he will get caught soon enough making it harder to keep your secret. This may or may not be the case here but to think that is the reaction of a die hard faithful person only is quite naive. Also consider that they have known each other for a very long time including the ages where people tend to be the most hedonistic. Are you telling me this came as a shock to somebody who lived with him and attended the same parties and in the same friend group? Yeah, not bloody likely.
There are two likely possibilities. 1. This is really is aberrant behavior from this guy so rather than throwing a fit it would be wiser to get him back on the "straight and narrow" which is more of his default setting anyway. 2. This behavior is to telling. This is not unexpected and with them being so close for so long means he is probably doing the same sort of thing but this guy is being indiscreet. In order to keep himself hidden he immediately distances himself.
I remain flabbergasted at the incredible naivety that so many redditors and youtubers seem to have on the subject of unfaithful spouses.
If someone bashed me online and talked about me to others. Pack your bag NOW little girly. You do not need this, it's scary.
Okay so while I commend Jared for being so harsh on his best friend for what he did… why the hell did he keep it from OP? Y’know, HIS WIFE and Alex’s SISTER. And he just told her to not invite her brother into their house with NO explanation? Literally any other situation and I’d think he was isolating her, y’know?
It isn’t coping if she got to you that way. She was obese before her mom went away. She has a food addiction and needs help.
Why would husband need to ring the doorbell to his own home?
S3 NTA Amanda is a teenager enough said.shes trying out her wings and pushing boundaries and rebelling against her parents. Normal
Story 2 if your niece is using food to cope get her into therapy before she gets to the point that she making herself sick, it when they get enabled like your wondering you should do that they end up on the TLC show my 600 pound life one thing that that the people in the show have in common is that someone or many family members enabled their eating out of guilt from the hardship they may of had to cause food addicted I know because my family is struggling to help my teen cousin who bio parents let go hungry in childhood control his eating addiction before he gets himself to the point where he has severe health issues he currently denies he has a problem while sneaking food he doesn't have to sneak (a habit he got when he wasn't being fed properly) but at the very least talk to her about how her eating habits can harm her down the line if she doesn't want therapy cause my cousin won't go either but is trying to exercise more and eat healthier though he can't seem to completely curved his snacking food habit despite us telling him that he doesn't have to sneak just eat a healthy snack if hungry instead of juno that harming him not that junk isn't ok in moderation it just he eats large amounts at a time that contains high amounts of sugar and sodium and our family has history of diabetes and heart issues on all sides.
Yeah, the kid is already morbidly obese. That sounds like mom already trained her to stuff her face to a seriously unhealthy state. As cautious as I am personally about "therapists", sounds like she really needs one, to help with her issues with mom, her eating disorder, or just behavioral help.
Why does Jaden ring the doorbell to get into his own home
Why does Jaden need his wife to let him into his own home
Why doesn't Jaden carry keys to his own home
Was wondering the same thing. Only reason I could think is he saw ops brothers car, didn't want to see him, so rang the bell so op would go to the door and he wouldn't have to see her brother.
@@tonyblake7569 OP "knew" when the doorbell rang that it was her husband so it can safely be assumed he relies on her to grant him access to his home on a regular basis
@@FoxPhantomThief she also expected him home later. If it was the time she expected him I could see that but the fact it was at a time she didn't expect him home her "immediately knowing" it was him sounds more like it was a gut feeling, not business as usual.
Some people like to ring because they like to be received. My friend or my dad make the same, they still have keys in case there is nobody but they prefer to be open. Me i am opposite because I hate to wait!
@@Sifya No offense but that's so weird to me! I get knocking first for a place where you might otherwise see something you shouldn't see, like a bedroom or bathroom, but your own home? If there's something going on in the common areas that you wouldn't want to see, it's probably better to see it sooner rather than later
S2 NTA your niece doesn't need two plates of food. You are doing great by her. She's 15 and acting like 8, let her rant all she wants. She's greedy and a liar so shut that crap down NOW
When I was 15 there was one hot meal prepared and school lunch only when there was school. All else I had to do myself. That teen needs to grow up. Obviously she needs to be put in therapy of some kind because her behavior towards food isn't normal, but OP doesn't keep food from her, she just tells the nice to make something for herself if the meals aren't enough.
NTA - story 2 :- You have given the lassie the correct amount of food per day. Please don't give in to her. If she actually NEEDS more, she can make it herself, as you've said - pizza, hamburger etc. You are not there to make her extra food AFTER her meal. It's almost as if she doesn't know HOW to cook any extras she wants. Wonder if mother does it for her, and that's why she is overweight ?? Just thinking out loud.
Nta. She is 15 and weighs 320lbs. That is child abuse.
I would make videos of your meal prep and her eating those meals to serve as proof . Post the videos on her page and confront her for being a liar . After that, I would kick her out of the house. Either family members can take her or place her with CPS . Who knows if she will make up other lies about you . Get rid of her as soon as you can.
Omg alex cheated
Update ha! I was right! That suuuuuuucks
Story 2: the niece needs therapy. Something is wrong if she doesn’t have the winds to make ramen or a pizza in the oven/microwave
Story 2: Why isn't OP more concerned about their niece? Clearly, she is struggling. This child needs guidance from a therapist and a dietitian to help them learn healthy coping strategies and eating habits. This could turn into an eating disorder with the potential to ruin her life.
I thought for sure I'd see some SJW fat shaming bullshit in the comments. Maybe there are more people with sense than I feared.
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Brother hubs and you are the AH in that order.
First of all, it's not your husbands place to tell you not to see your brother without telling you why, what your brother has done is way out of line, and now is living with consequences.
Could I live with you I grew up in a foster orphanage workhouse situation i weighed 30 pds in the 3rd grade I gained 10 pounds each grade 40 in the 4h etc. 2200 calories
Would be heaven
It actually makes me Ashley when I see people suffer such severe obesity because I know that people did this to them. Why would you feel guilty for not overfeeding a child? That's the opposite of rationality. You are being gaslit.
Had to stop listening, the adverts were too many, too often.
Story 2. Feed the kid two plates. It’s better that she overeats nutritious meals than eating a pizza or ramen. Give her two dinners and maybe encourage her to go with you to the gym.
No. Overfeeding children is wrong. It's abusive. Feed children the right amount of the right foods.
The process of cooking additional food will often allow time for chemicals to say you are full or for the brain to overcome the lack of inhibition for extra food where a 2nd serving is being eaten no matter what.
I am wondering if she might have a condition like Prader-Willi where you never feel full. It's quite rare but it is always an advantage to get the full picture of the situation. Not Prader-Willi nor another disorder? OK, time to do X, Y and Z, then.
Why is there always so much damn spelling errors on this channel? Am I missing something? Do you only read stories written by dyslexics or something?
£50 is £Stirliing. 50llb is weight
Person posting this is using voice recognition software to generate text displays for the vids so not to get in trouble by using screenshot of reddit posts. Unfortunately, the software translate the word pound to the currency symbol. There are a lot of text oopsies in this VR text so you almost have to close your eyes and listen, as the software has probs with her speech patterns.