Helping a Gamer Who Feels Stuck | Dr.K Interviews

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ก.พ. 2025

ความคิดเห็น • 463

  • @Fedayken
    @Fedayken 5 ปีที่แล้ว +790

    Sometimes its scary how much u can relate to those videos

    • @AXharoth
      @AXharoth 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      if by sometime u mean every fuking time then absolutely xD

    • @mafa5534
      @mafa5534 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@AXharoth You got it 100% right mate 😂

    • @AXharoth
      @AXharoth 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mafa5534 thanks xD high 5

    • @SuperMortalix
      @SuperMortalix 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thats why its good tho right? Cause then you can reverse the things you want to work on or change.

    • @chrispgaffney
      @chrispgaffney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this was exactly my situation 3 years ago in high school. hg is always on point.

  • @patticakie5861
    @patticakie5861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    I hope no one ever sues Dr. K. He's literally the only one out here trying to help us.

    • @erdenemunkhkhashbat9049
      @erdenemunkhkhashbat9049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Don't jinx it, bruh lmao.

    • @nathanharrell7240
      @nathanharrell7240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@PowerK1 This comment is underrated. Yes Dr. K is one of the few reaching us literally where we are, but even he encourages us to seek help in our communities IRL. There are dozens of him, dozens!!! But yes I agree, he is amazing for coming to us

    • @RahulSharma-oq2ut
      @RahulSharma-oq2ut 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao someone recently tried to

    • @RahulSharma-oq2ut
      @RahulSharma-oq2ut 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@erdenemunkhkhashbat9049 someone literally tried to sue drk few months ago, still trying to, the guy did jinx it

    • @joaosolreis3004
      @joaosolreis3004 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RahulSharma-oq2ut for what reason he was sued?

  • @BaguetteHD
    @BaguetteHD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    I'm heavily invested in the Dr K story arc at this point

    • @LionHrodgari
      @LionHrodgari 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      same dude...what this guy is doing is almost revolutionary

    • @BaguetteHD
      @BaguetteHD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@LionHrodgari He's brilliant, a genuinely intelligent guy trying to help a lot of people. I just love the discreet sassiness to how he deals with a lot of these conversations, lots of indirect suggestions and whatnot lol

    • @moldycarrot9267
      @moldycarrot9267 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@LionHrodgari ikr, I've never seen stuff like this. When everything is so superficial nowadays, this is lit.

    • @vaevictus4637
      @vaevictus4637 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      HealthyGamerGG is now in my top 10 list of Shonen Anime.

    • @snkenjoyer4989
      @snkenjoyer4989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What do you think of the arc so far

  • @jonathanparsons461
    @jonathanparsons461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    I've watched so many of these videos and I found myself almost scared in a way to watch them to the full extent because I feel like I have too unique problems but as I watch these more and more in depth I start to see I have a lot of similarities to the people interviewed and the tips that Dr. K gives are more helpful to me personally than I would have otherwise thought. I once thought AoE healing was a myth--and here I am getting AoE healed.

    • @SuperLotus
      @SuperLotus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I feel like my problems are pretty unique too, but these are still some of the best content I've found. I think I were to have the meditation experiences some of the people on stream have had, I might get further along in my journey.

  • @Plorxium
    @Plorxium 5 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    It's so weird watching this. This is exactly how I was in psychotherapy, it's like watching a recording of myself if I had red hair and could grow a beard. My psychologist would ask me a simple question and I wouldn't be able to answer it. It seemed like there was a right answer at the time that she expected and I was worried about looking foolish. It took me a long time to realize that she was just trying to explore how I was thinking. I always found it hard to just utter the words to simple questions even though I always knew what my answer was. Saying that you feel like a failure to someone, rather than just thinking it is really fucking hard, even if it's just a psychologist.

    • @artisticfix3392
      @artisticfix3392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Beautifully said and so true.

  • @RamKumar-yi6wn
    @RamKumar-yi6wn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    My man has the patience of a saint.

    • @grimthedeathlord8998
      @grimthedeathlord8998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah well you need to be patient in the medical field.

    • @otavioluiz554
      @otavioluiz554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Some of the time is the other way around.
      Most people go to the hospital just by being Patient!

    • @matiaslangon6799
      @matiaslangon6799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@otavioluiz554 that's one hell of a dad joke. Have a like.

    • @KnzoVortex
      @KnzoVortex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Such is the power of regular meditation.

  • @deathmechanism89
    @deathmechanism89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    Joro I hope you know that you have helped me and alot of people just by telling your experiences. It takes alot of courage to do that (especially in front of an audience). Thank you and I hope you find success in your future endeavors.

    • @Joromonni
      @Joromonni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      :) Glad to hear.

    • @Hunter7023
      @Hunter7023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Joromonni Hey man, how you doing nowadays?

    • @RahulSharma-oq2ut
      @RahulSharma-oq2ut 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Joromonni heyy you doing good now?

    • @HeyHowRUdoing
      @HeyHowRUdoing ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Joromonni How are you dude

    • @seamusjohnson477
      @seamusjohnson477 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Joromonnihope you’re doing well!

  • @gogglesXL
    @gogglesXL 5 ปีที่แล้ว +797

    "what's your name"
    *mentally attempts to calculate gravity on pluto*

    • @Joromonni
      @Joromonni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      Oh my god my sides

    • @DaddysBathTime
      @DaddysBathTime 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Joromonni Did you go on your walk? And contact any companies?

    • @Joromonni
      @Joromonni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@DaddysBathTime yes I did. Walks are OP. A lot of the companies are not in my radius (120km) and the one that answered said not right now. Going to careerchoice therapist type of thing soon.

    • @DaddysBathTime
      @DaddysBathTime 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@Joromonni Hell ya dude, it makes me happy to hear that

    • @mareksajner8567
      @mareksajner8567 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      don't make fun of this :D it's good to be thinking

  • @revvilo
    @revvilo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    "Do I need a yacht?"
    "YES"
    That legit cracked me up

  • @Thedragonwithin
    @Thedragonwithin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    He is sooo brave for coming online and being vulnerable with the world. I applaud you!!! The first step in recovery and finding purpose is admitting that you need help!
    So much blessings to you!!! You can do this!!!
    💗💗💗

    • @HolyEG
      @HolyEG 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Liquid Spartan imagine playing roblox

  • @Kwansmusic
    @Kwansmusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    my hearts melts every time they realize something that was painful and start crying. Because I see myself in them and having compassion for them is also having compassion for myself.

  • @AndyBun
    @AndyBun ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm reminded of a choir rehearsal we had where a disabled singer needed a chair. Everyone looked around and talked about chairs while just standing there. I silently walked backstage until I encountered a chair and then returned with it. It was so very little effort, and yet it was more effort than everyone was prepared to make (no shade, they're a kindly bunch). I don't understand why there's a difference between folks who do and folks who do not, sounds like you're tapping into that and I'm glad. ❤

  • @samkim8614
    @samkim8614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Today i called a suicide hotline and was met with a bot and i hung up straight away. Honestly i felt much better just listening to your videos and i have been binging one episode after the other relating to a few and finding good advice along the way. You are doing gods work and honestly i want to thank you.
    Keep it up and fuck all your hatter coworkers saying what you do isnt good
    Thanks for the aoe heal

    • @popojelly1895
      @popojelly1895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @The Tyro of Toriyama Thanks for sharing dude :) Sometimes months or even years after those dark days happen I always feel grateful that I didn't end it then. And even in the middle of those times all I think to myself is to "just wait it out," "just wait it out" over and over. I don't know if this method is helpful for others or not but it certainly helped me. By waiting it out and letting it pass, I get to experience things to be grateful for.

  • @Foxsterdota
    @Foxsterdota 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This guy is literally me. I could fully relate to everything in this conversation and I too will do what you asked of him. Thank you

    • @pseudojap5
      @pseudojap5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      hey Fox, did you do it? How did it go?

    • @howwwlx8286
      @howwwlx8286 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How's life now?

  • @Nammedit
    @Nammedit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Let me tell you one thing I think is just great with these interviews. You're teaching me, and my fellow nerds through letting us hear a conversation like this that we're not flawed or broken and that we're deserving of love and affection just like "normal" people. I've felt like a loser for such a long time, and I've whipped myself to try to act normal and confident, but it has just made it worse. Thanks to your work I'm now starting to have some love for myself and seeing that I'm worth love and other people liking me for who I am. Thank you for the immense respect, understanding and kindness that you show!

  • @RedPlayerOne
    @RedPlayerOne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Had an extremely emotional experience during the meditation, when he said this feeling is your "birthright" it really hit me hard. Truly amazing stream, thank you so much!! The West desperately needs Eastern philosophy and practices and Dr. K is going to help a lot of people self-actualize. Such a positive force.

    • @RoanoraZoro123
      @RoanoraZoro123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then make it your job to reduce misinformation about Eastern philosophy.

  • @NumairRana
    @NumairRana ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an amazing interview, randomly recommended to me late at night and was an real eye opener! Hope Joro is doing well nowadays, wish we could see follow up interviews years after, would be so fun and interesting to see how much progress he had made all these years.

  • @Mowxel
    @Mowxel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I genuinely cried when he started crying as well like you were talking to me and almost broke down. The yoga exercise thing definitely helped. I needed a cry like this as well haven't let myself go like this in a while.
    Either way, thank you so much for your work I just found this channel randomly and I thank the youtube gods for recommending me it.

  • @Ataraxia95
    @Ataraxia95 5 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    When he said "when was the last time you have had a good day" I thought to myself and I honestly can't remember. Most days I kind of just kind of do the same stuff and it's not like I am having bad days a lot, but I mean a "good day" hasn't happened in awhile I would say.

    • @williamonthetongas4174
      @williamonthetongas4174 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's a thing I just thought about the other day, like not having a lot of bad days, but also not having a lot of good days

    • @normanwei529
      @normanwei529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yesterday if not today tbh ^^"

    • @mintyCS
      @mintyCS 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      one time i woke up in this like euphoric state and i just started crying because i couldnt remember the last time i felt this feeling. Needless to say it went away shortly after i left my room but i will forever thank that person for the small moments of happiness they brought to me, you know who you are.

    • @vgorp3849
      @vgorp3849 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I almost teared up at that part. I don't remember any singular day in.. probably 10 years or more that was "good"? What does that even mean? Are people even happy out there? It just seems like I'm miserable and literally every single person I see is too.

    • @Ataraxia95
      @Ataraxia95 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@vgorp3849 It does feel like that doesn't it? I guess it's people not taking their mental health seriously. I just hope we can both as well as everyone else out there find out how to make ourselves feel better.

  • @Mimlebimle
    @Mimlebimle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Amazing transition when comparing 54:14 to 1:27:30. He looks so happy at the end. I'm sure this conversation helped him.

  • @BenignGamer7
    @BenignGamer7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I feel exactly like this guy, and I've been trying really hard to figure out what I care about. It's really hard, I wish him all the luck in this endeavor.

  • @user-ue9xt5vr2p
    @user-ue9xt5vr2p 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    such a nice guy, really thoughtful on what he replies too

  • @Zalamandar
    @Zalamandar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a legend. This interview is so heartwarming, I hope this best for this guy!

    • @Joromonni
      @Joromonni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks :)

  • @JusBlayze85
    @JusBlayze85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Man this was gold. I feel the same like why do anything if i really don't feel i have to. Seeing dr.k help him connect to his reason for being is going to help me too.

  • @Koeras16
    @Koeras16 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Highly interesting exchange. Respect for the "interviewed". He does seems quite uncomfortable with the subject and is quite likely suffering in his "stuckness".
    Your question are quite spot on. Interesting attitude. I lost over the years that habit to ask questions to make a point. Simple and obvious, yet I should do that more often in my life.

  • @eromir247
    @eromir247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    bless your patience

  • @oedipascourage6262
    @oedipascourage6262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    "There are some people in this world only you can help." Wow

  • @bruhmoment-me2hw
    @bruhmoment-me2hw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    "You were not put on this Earth to play World of Warcraft" he said that as i was playing my Night Elf Warrior, I feel so called out rn

    • @PrayToChrist
      @PrayToChrist 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amethyst Rose nightelf warrior lmao ur fuckin bad

    • @Jaaziar
      @Jaaziar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@PrayToChrist bruh...

    • @HolyEG
      @HolyEG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Warcraft Fan imagine

    • @bruhmoment-me2hw
      @bruhmoment-me2hw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@PrayToChrist bruh I main a nelf druid :^( ur lame

    • @PrayToChrist
      @PrayToChrist 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amethyst Rose nobody asked u fuckboy nightelf warrior is BAD fuck u

  • @Off-mY-mEDDss
    @Off-mY-mEDDss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    WOW moment for me personally at 49:35 . U want stuff, but u just don’t care about anything.
    Loved this video

  • @ToriKo_
    @ToriKo_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    1:12:00 ish. It took me ages to realize that action in the future is impossible. It doesn’t make sense. You can only do action in the now. The next step is the most important step

  • @TheKhashix
    @TheKhashix 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    please don't stop any time soon. im not all that close to getting better, but with these clips im miles closer to a healthy state of mind than i would be on my own ♥

  • @timworld86
    @timworld86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    These videos are so good I cant even describe how much you helped me to understand myself

  • @tlo_oly
    @tlo_oly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are ABSOLUTELY fantastic and I LOVE your mission and videos. PLEASE keep making content, the world NEEDS this.

  • @jennywoodward7814
    @jennywoodward7814 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Yoga Nidra was powerful. Never tried that before. Sending peaceful vibes to you both (albeit, 4 yrs on from this video!). Thank you DR K 💜

  • @codyi7119
    @codyi7119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can relate to this so much right now. Glhf to everybody that is going through this, you got it! Thank you Dr. K! :]

  • @tychobruggink4407
    @tychobruggink4407 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This one was so close to me i have not felt this emotional in a long time, and its from a video online that is not even directed at me

  • @cesarperez10
    @cesarperez10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    (06:22) "-because we can do all three."
    If only I could find/afford a therapist as talented as Dr.K. What an inspiration this man is

    • @DudleyOP
      @DudleyOP 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Thatshow ED This whole session was literally about creating a drive/motivation to do or achieve something. It can be learnt that was the whole point...

    • @UCvow2TUIH0d2Ax2vik9ILzg
      @UCvow2TUIH0d2Ax2vik9ILzg 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DudleyOP I'm pretty sure he meant that you can't learn it in med school. You can learn it but most psychiatrists are not as driven, even if they're good at their job.

  • @KbIPbIL0
    @KbIPbIL0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    man this is so sweet
    good luck to Joro!

    • @Joromonni
      @Joromonni 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks :)

  • @weryut154
    @weryut154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cried while watching it, at first it feels boring bc it was too slow, then dr k start to talk a lot without asking too much and i realise that thats one of the best interview, because it is just dr k

    • @weryut154
      @weryut154 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hi, I cried again

  • @AndyBun
    @AndyBun ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "How do you think your brain computes that?"
    Several moments of awkward silence... me too, mate, me too

  • @naoltitude9516
    @naoltitude9516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This applied to my life so much man. Dr. K and Devin Nash have turned my life basically 180 degrees.

  • @bennson13
    @bennson13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love listening to these talks because they're so easy to relate to. Every time I listen to one of these conversations I completely grasp what Dr.K is saying.
    The annoying part is that I seem to need a Dr.K along my side in the moments I try to apply what I learned in these talks. It feels like I need someone during those moments to acknowledge these things I learned are true and that they are in fact gonna help me. For some reason when I try to remind MYSELF of these things, I don't value it as much as when someone else tells me these things... Even though I clearly remember what was discussed in these talks.
    I'm not sure if I'm making any sense but basically it boils down to not being able to hold on to that ''motivation'' or ''drive'' I get while watching these talks. Anyone else have that issue?

    • @kartoffeldrucker
      @kartoffeldrucker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      write 2 or 3 words down and carry that little note with you. look at that note or remind yourself of the points/mantra and soon you will align your actions more with what you really want. Maybe that helps. do the self-reflection. What do I really need? Am I responsible to help myself? Am I worth it?
      Everyone struggles, but it's all about shifting the perspective and suddenly you become less motivated to do the same old stuff.

  • @bokchoiman
    @bokchoiman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is absolutely amazing. This interview proves that any insecurities will stop us dead in our tracks along the path to success, at different points for everyone.

  • @unknownentity8256
    @unknownentity8256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The one and only channel that I disable my adblock for.

  • @redpanda9060
    @redpanda9060 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I LOVE the way he personifies the brain.

  • @GuillaumeLeValiant
    @GuillaumeLeValiant 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    55:13 so true, i relate so much to this part, always ready to help people over doing things for myself...

  • @computergeekabot
    @computergeekabot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    So much more beneficial listening you talk to a guy a lot of people can relate to rather than someone like Athene who is quite unusual. This way the AOE healing is more effective!

    • @fractal_mind562
      @fractal_mind562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with this and I didnt think I would when I started watching these... Like I dont relate to streamers, but I do relate with how out of place they felt and I knew them, so it was almost like watching a friend get therapy... But watching a stranger I'll never meet pour their heart out has a different, more powerful effect...

    • @johndoe-is2fw
      @johndoe-is2fw 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      such agreat interview, great comment, love the community!

  • @shorfan
    @shorfan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So grateful for this talk, as I can relate so damn much as I’m laying here early morning having not slept yet and being stuck in a rut where my sleep schedule is all messed up. Thank you

  • @vaevictus4637
    @vaevictus4637 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These videos bring me so much joy. ^_^

  • @Vyden
    @Vyden 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    "Action can only take place in the present" - Galaxy Brain

  • @muffinland
    @muffinland 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Joro is so Finnish it hurts haha. But for real, Dr. K these videos have helped me process so much of my own issues, so thank you for what you do.

  • @drearmouse9510
    @drearmouse9510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The brass balls to not only confront the problem let alone online what with the near elimination of intimacy and growing detachment that comes with being always connected. God damn.

  • @Ilovequran105
    @Ilovequran105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    thank you doctor, i take these sessions very seriously and i write everything.
    Thank you.

  • @littlecurrybread
    @littlecurrybread 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    If anybody is looking for a dramatization of these therapy sessions, I recommend the HBO show, "In Treatment," it's completely set inside the office of a therapist as he talks to different patients across seasons.

  • @mitchelldavies5508
    @mitchelldavies5508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A bit on the tough love side but he really understands this struggle! Very good information.

    • @Dislob
      @Dislob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its not tough love. He has to say things how they really are. We can't live in denial if we're trying to be happy with who we are.

  • @Yojimbo711
    @Yojimbo711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yet another interview that hit deep. Brilliant stuff!!!!

  • @drquantum6548
    @drquantum6548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This hit me hard. I can relate alot. Thanks!

  • @jamesdurowse7445
    @jamesdurowse7445 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    At 53 mins I broke down crying for a good minute out of nowhere when I was only half listening, I guess that means you did a good job

  • @J.Darwin
    @J.Darwin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    really makes you remind yourself of your own values, I like it

  • @armandolopez6302
    @armandolopez6302 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you you have made this trip worth while 👏

  • @jasonzong7811
    @jasonzong7811 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    honestly this is really nice to listen to. thank you for this all my blessings to you

  • @Huss31n
    @Huss31n ปีที่แล้ว +1

    damn I love dr.k, what a great human

  • @Spinova88
    @Spinova88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    these videos are amazing. I hope you're able to pursue helping gamers and making videos to reach a larger audience for a long time.

  • @xxx1x47x41x3
    @xxx1x47x41x3 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Many of the things talked about during the vid resonated with me a lot.
    Great video, looking forward to more great content

  • @DydraLIVE
    @DydraLIVE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Dr. K!
    I've stumbled upon your channel last year and I have to say, that it's immensely helpful for Gamers (and not only!). You made me try meditation for the first time on the stream with Reckful and it has been a small blessing to relax that way and put my mind at ease. I'm a passionate gamer since I remember myself, yet never really stepped into streaming or gaming industry. Currently working for an IT corporation and receiving a bit above average salary for my country. However, when now I face the decision to purchase real estate in the capital for A LOT of money and 30 year mortgage, this is definitely frightening. Got two lovely boys ( 4 and 2 ) and I want to give them that home where they will grow up in the next 10-15 years. That's why we are focused on a good neighborhood and get some points for the better schools. You've touched on many of your vids but, I'd like to ask:
    "How do you deal with such long term decision, that definitely leads to massive anxiety?"

  • @ctx4241
    @ctx4241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Holy fuck, Dr. K finding Jorro's 'what's wrong with the world' thing was bigger plot twist than MJ kissing Peter Parker in first movie.

    • @treasurechest2951
      @treasurechest2951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah was that total coincidence? I was half watching it. That was wild!

  • @HeyItsLights
    @HeyItsLights 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hope Joro is doing okay these days! I've been feeling stuck myself, decided to scroll through Dr. K's videos and found this one. AoE healing is the best.

    • @Joromonni
      @Joromonni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I am doing very well!

    • @HeyItsLights
      @HeyItsLights 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Joromonni Awesome, glad to hear!

    • @ThisIsNotWhatItLooksLik
      @ThisIsNotWhatItLooksLik 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Joromonni If at all possible, could you give an update. Did the talk have impact on your life? Has your life chanced? If so how has it changed and how did you manage to change it. It would also be interesting to have a squeal talk with Dr. K. This is all just to fill my curiosity, no pressure to put yourself out there online.

  • @mineralisk
    @mineralisk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Dr. K and thanks Jorro for sharing this video.

  • @NamelessNamezza
    @NamelessNamezza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    18:49
    you don't lack motivation, your motivation is just in a direction that you don't want it to go

  • @ThirdEye710
    @ThirdEye710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    heavily relate to the same position hes in, except im so numb that i cant even react properly. just soaking up information like a lifeless machine

    • @Shadow77999
      @Shadow77999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol right. Its incredible how many of us are

    • @Corvus2222
      @Corvus2222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same.

    • @SSTricky
      @SSTricky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That sucks. I hope things have gotten better for you.

    • @ThirdEye710
      @ThirdEye710 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SSTricky if it keeps me from being like most people walking this earth, i will carry the weight til my last breath without a fuck to give.

    • @SSTricky
      @SSTricky 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThirdEye710 When I said "that sucks", I mean't it endearingly. I didn't mean to insult you.

  • @bebeezra
    @bebeezra 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Analysis Paralysis...can totally relate.

  • @evaldsmarksstrautins131
    @evaldsmarksstrautins131 5 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    This is gonna make a lot of people realise they need a psychotherapist.

    • @Kevfactor
      @Kevfactor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      BigGayDog and then they realize they can’t afford one hehe

    • @OliDaChilla
      @OliDaChilla 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Kevfactor And they say America is a first world country LUL

    • @Koeras16
      @Koeras16 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well that life you know. We all would get something out of one throughout our life. Taking the time is not always an option though

    • @dazeen9591
      @dazeen9591 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Been in therapy since May. So it has been like over 7 months and my former therapist just realized she can't help me so I'm going to a new one I guess. I don't feel like therapy helps at all tbh and I don't even want to go to therapy since it's just additional stress and time wasted. Starting the use of SSRIs but no clue what's gonna happen. I'm very anti-medicine and honestly feel like they'll just make me feel worse. Nothing in my life is going to change for the better for at least the next 4 years. Life sucks.

    • @Kevfactor
      @Kevfactor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@dazeen9591 I remember from my morals class, Philosopher Socrates described happiness not being how successful one is. It was more about having a sense of focus and purpose. A shrink maybe will set ya on the path but you really got to walk it imo. )

  • @johnnycigar7699
    @johnnycigar7699 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This made me really emotional, fuck man.
    I'm super depressed and this hit really hard, Juro seems like a super good guy. Props to you both for this video.

  • @wesleylachance1555
    @wesleylachance1555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jorro

  • @timworld86
    @timworld86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are gonna be at 1mil subs in a year or two keep doing what you doing pls.

  • @ConspiracyCraftersStudio
    @ConspiracyCraftersStudio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    47:20 that part jesus how insightful

  • @probablystoned
    @probablystoned 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    5:30 when he mentioned that going to the store would be easy; i realized that i say that to myself all the time.

  • @nightelf4161
    @nightelf4161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i love how slow this guy is, it reminds me of myself

    • @itsjustanapple5452
      @itsjustanapple5452 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha. Same here

    • @nightelf4161
      @nightelf4161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@SacredCASHcow how does it mean something different? you mean mentally? we both know i didn't mean it that way

  • @tristanNC
    @tristanNC 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    These videos are the best :)

  • @Rocketdave47
    @Rocketdave47 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wish your channel was around a few years ago. Had hard time with all this. Kinda still do. But I'm back to my focus.
    Keep making great content👊🏾

  • @Joxa514
    @Joxa514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bro you dont even know the struggle is too real. never used to be addicted like i am now escaping reality after something traumatic happened to me. i don't and can't even enjoy playing any of the games but i just play to keep myself busy and to pass the time, only to hate myself more every night laying in bed for being so pathetic unlike I've never been having had my life destroyed. i just sit and stare at the screen and just blank out sometimes as a coping mechanism dealing with the ptsd and shit. i havent even gamed with any of my friends for about a year and a half now just playing stupid fucking games on my own this whole time. meanwhile my life and soul is sucked away and drained by this god damn computer. I just feel so trapped not knowing what to do or where to start to rebuild my life but im seriously considering rehab for a while now. i've completely regressed as a person and I hate myself so much for allowing myself to have become so weak, but im still fighting with myself everyday to makes improvements as small and as slow as things come. hopefully one day i can break free from this bullshit.

  • @lucasa8710
    @lucasa8710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm tearing up

  • @Azuurinho
    @Azuurinho 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm thorn between amazed and frustrated from the pauses.

  • @DamianSzajnowski
    @DamianSzajnowski 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fucking amazing, and the method he teaches/works with the questions and metaphors!

  • @imaginenation5158
    @imaginenation5158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bruh when Dr K said your brain doesn't know what the fuck fulfillment is I felt that

    • @Joromonni
      @Joromonni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Earlier this year I had the pleasure of knowing that feeling.

  • @childofhonor
    @childofhonor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really want to see a follow up with this champion of the light

  • @J.Darwin
    @J.Darwin 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    very cool, even though the think breaks can get a bit slow, dont know if you can really change that. Keep up the good work and thanks for uploading your streams

  • @RandyReeTV
    @RandyReeTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank You Joro

  • @Cker04
    @Cker04 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you dr K.

  • @marcuswonder5057
    @marcuswonder5057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1:15:00 meditation

  • @Kalecgoose
    @Kalecgoose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    when someone came in and turned off the light :ROFL: that caught me off guard

  • @Hooz97
    @Hooz97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Save the world because I am gonna be streaming on twitch playing dota. That last line just sounds off, but I appreciate you trying to empower him.

  • @evaldsmarksstrautins131
    @evaldsmarksstrautins131 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I seriously can't express how good this is for the world. He's gonna to start a cult. At first I thought this is shit but then I realised that that indian is a genius.

    • @antlerman7644
      @antlerman7644 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Starting a cult is dangerous.
      He is mixing spiritual psudoscience blurred into real help. If he cut that 'closing the 7 gates crap' he'd be fine.

    • @LameBushido
      @LameBushido 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@antlerman7644 Science concerns itself with what is empirical. You can make spiritual claims about reality, but there's no way to really prove them. He's aware of that, he doesn't push it too hard but people seem to be asking him about spirituality more because they feel disenchanted with the world. All our needs are met, the world in our eyes has become more mechanical and deterministic. Reintroducing some mystery isn't always a bad thing.

  • @aaqibpanjwani4985
    @aaqibpanjwani4985 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these videos, I long to have a conversation with Doctor K. I've submitted an application and definitely want to see where and how things go!

  • @antonshutov2274
    @antonshutov2274 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really like the guy

  • @parkla4098
    @parkla4098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ok this one was painful to watch. This kid needs some serious help.

  • @grantivie
    @grantivie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man you're fucking awesome. This is so good.

  • @brv1n
    @brv1n 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey HealthyGamerGG
    I’m typing this in the middle of night which is when my thoughts get to me the most. Essentially when I struggle the most and wrestle my thoughts that convict me. I’m a teenager that struggles that shows strong symptoms of severe clinical depression. Don’t want to give out too much information about myself out here on the internet, but I was wondering if I could reach out to you for help.

    • @Joromonni
      @Joromonni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Consider joining the discord, there's other people there that might be able to help aswell.

    • @jrodftw4565
      @jrodftw4565 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey buddy join the discord! That’s the place to go. There are people to help

  • @ClassyJohn
    @ClassyJohn 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am this guy. The only difference is that I'm in college graduating with a degree in Math. But, I want a career in programming computers (known as Embedded Systems). Theres A LOT I need to learn but I've been being very fucking lazy and its always been happening my entire life. Theres something I know I can achieve if I put my full hearted effort into it and don't slack off to play games/watch videos/surf reddit/etc.

  • @marcvesper
    @marcvesper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "WoW lets you be a good person" - both a critique of our cultural lack of understanding of ourselves, and respect for the awe, good and bad, of WoW

    • @Joromonni
      @Joromonni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed.