How do you know you're gay? - Lesbian Answers Episode 1
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 ม.ค. 2014
- Are you wondering if you are gay? This is episode 1 of a series I made called Lesbian Answers.
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I asked all of you for questions you'd like me to ask some of my out lesbian friends and this is what happened! The questions I asked this video are: How do you know you're gay? When did you choose to be gay? and Do you wish you were straight? (Or, do lesbians wish they were straight? ) Thanks for watching and please subscribe!
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"When did you choose to be straight?" THANK YOU
I can't believe people think we are are pretending. If there were more gay than straight people we'd probably think they were faking.
no you'd think they were faking if they were faking. most people can spot a phony
This is too perfect for words
YOU'RE too perfect for words
Steph!! Hey, good to see you chillin on the youtubes, stay golden you!
Yes it is, and thanks for your help, too, Steph!
charlize841 c
"That's what Christi... no I shouldn't say that" oh my god lmfao
This made me cry, as a straight girl I don't think nor will I ever think that being a lesbian or bisexual is wrong. It's sad that people look down on the LGBT community that ALL of these women said if they could be straight they would because it's easier. It's fucked up and it's upsetting. I wasn't raised like that, to judge like that. I don't care who you sleep with or fall in love with, just be happy. That's the ONLY thing that matters. Happiness. I know I'm not anyone but if you're in the LGBT community, here's a hug: -hugs- you're awesome :)
hugs back for you x I'm in the gay part of that community so... does anyone see the need for homophobia? just wondering
+LeeWang85 excuse you. that was a disgusting statement.
+purity ring couldn't agree more with you on that...soo disgusting!
purity ring well it's how Harvard idiots sum it as one of the many answers for why women go lesbian..and sorry I don't believe in the "they are born this way" bullshit.
LittleHickey trus me I read about that too, it can also be: well to make it simple (getting bored of the opposite sex attention too)..and it makes sense, like it no longer turns them on to be appealing to males, because they get enough of it or something like that, in the end , it's always a choice made, but there are those who have gender ID disorders, but those are a different story, those are really actually born being attracted to the same sex because they are actually not the gender they are mentally..a woman who feels like a woman and identifies AS a woman but attracted to women is a choice made by her, she's not born that way..the "born that way" deal is science propaganda made by the politically supported gay agenda to reduce world population.
My best friend is so awesome and a badass. When she was in church and they said it was a sin to be gay she just started talking to the priest like," um actually they're born that way so you can't say it's a sin because they can't help their interests and preferences so stop it." Everyone looked at her like she was crazy. She's straight, but some of her close friends (like me) are part of the LGBT community and when people make fun of her friends she turns into a real badass woman. I love her lol.
She sounds incredible!
say thanks to her for me! I'm with you in the LGBT community, as a lesbian... tell her that many people appreciate it!
"you just know" doesn't help
true story :/
It's the truth though
It's realy awesome! Because in my stupid country you can't just say that you're gay and be calm for your health.
I'm so sad to hear that. Baby steps. Keep your chin up. :)
Thanks you guys so much
+Св «МК» Пр Which country? I'm assuming it's very religious.
+Stocky Comdt Reborn Russia,Ukraine or other countries speaking in azbuka
same... Im from Russia...and it sucks(
girl with the fedora 💗💗
Ugh yes... Who is sheeeeee
+ThatChurchGirl Jess Weiner
Thank you so much. I think at the first stages you really don't know what you are feeling is whats it's meant to be. It takes a lot of time to accept it and realise it's okay.
i know right, and it was so hard to actually accept you for who you are.
SunnyAegyoify3 ella sone I love how both of you guys are SONEs haha... Me too. Lately the videos I've been watching, or any, they have some comments from sones made me realize how big our community really is now
ow ow!!! I'm a SONE too! count me in! :D
oh my god! our fandom is so gay XD
omg i cant believe this XDD
Great video, love the message =)
what the fuck is gender? doesn't gay mean happy? do I get a mention in the guinness world book of records?
Anyway, I like cats a lot. I guess words cannot explain what happens and what chemistry makes lesbians become monogamous and bisexual. It's more than just saliva, though.
Wise Vision ...what...?
Lyann Duff In the video most of those girls would like to be straight. What did you not understand?
Your grammar made it hard for me to read the post, it's all over the place, and same goes for the spelling. I just didn't understand what you said. I've been trying to decipher it for a while now and to no avail.
Wise Vision lol u dumb as fuck :)
The girl at the beginning of the video is so attractive I honestly could die.
oh my god, who is that beautiful creature at the beginning with the yorkie on her lap?
jessweiner
nicerah1 Is that her youtube name or?
JessicasLife101 it's her instgram ;)
it's called a girl
This video literally just made me realize that I'm bisexual. One girl said that she knows she's gay because she's attracted to women and not to men, at all. I realized I could never say that and mean it, about either sex. I am definitely attracted to them both. Alrighty then.
This video makes me not wanna hide that I'm gay anymore. I love who I am. And after seeing this I don't really care who knows. I wanna be happy. And I can see that coming out is the only way that I can have that look in my eyes like you did when Sarah was talking. It's beautiful.
Love the new thumbnail pic and looking forward to episode 2.
This is helpful but in a relaxed and open way. Thanks for making this girls, you are all great people! :)
All of you had really great answers in the video! and Lauren is so cute! You all are! I feel fuzzy now.
This is awesome!!! Love it Stevie
Thankyou for these videos, they make me feel so blessed and normal
Ok if I have short nails and I wear converse and wear bow ties, I'm gay. Sarah: looks down
Awesome Vid Stevie!!! Will be waiting until episode 2.
Loved the honesty!
This is so good and deserves way more views & likes!
Gaaahhd!! Sarah is so freaking amazing!
I don't know why but this video is so inspiring. To see women proud of who they are and not afraid how the world is going to judge them! Thank you for this! Always been a big fan of your videos!
Brill video, can't wait for more to come out
You guys should post more videos! I absolutely love watching them!
I like this series Stevie! It ended and I just wanted it to keep going. You chose a cool bunch of people :)
you guy's caught me on an emot-day, this vid did pretty much stir my emotions and you didn't even have to include Mr bow-tie.
Nice video, can't wait to see more of this.
I LOVED THIS!!! You should definitely do more!!
Can't wait for the next episode!!!
I loved everything about this!!
you guys are awesome stevie & sarah! kisses from the Netherlands!
Honestly - if I could be straight I would. I get boys falling all over themselves to message me and ask me out, but I've never been able to land a date with a girl I'm interested in. I've never been in a relationship with a girl, I've never had sex with a girl, I've never even kissed a girl. I know with all my heart I am gay and it just makes me sad that I can't have the experiences I could easily get if I was into boys.
Someday girl. I totally know that feeling, as I've never been with a girl before either (my gaydar must be broken af) but I still have hope. Never lose that and you'll end up just fine ^-^
It's ok and same I'm gay to💗
good stuff. loved that you all gave genuine answers :)
I love this video so much. Great job!
Stevie I love this! I can't wait for the rest of lesbian answers!
I think this video made me cry. So I am either really emotional right now or this is super beautiful. Let's go with the latter
I love this video, it was different than the other 'How do you know you're gay?" videos out there. :) Please continue.
This is an awesome idea Id love to see more videos in the future
I honestly love this so much
ITS BEEN 2 MONTHS STEVIA CMON AND UPLOAD THE NEXT ONE JEEZUZ SPRITE
I love the "lottery theory". Awesome video!
THIS.IS.AMAZING.
Amazing video! Love the honesty and depth in their answers. I deff relate to many things said :-)
omg just the thumbnail picture for this video made me smile like an idiot. yall are too cute together. Love me some Starah
But, seriously, a great video. Such diversity in one group, yet a commonality that encompasses everything we all stand for. I loved it!
I agree with the girl at 2:15 (once you're comfortable with it) it feels like you've won the lottery.. And I thought I had never won anything ;)
Looking forward to episode 2! Oh and Lauren/Button is gorgeous :)
My favorite part of this video was in the minute 1:25 when appears the question:
"Ask when they choose to be gay!
and Sarah says: When did you choose to be straight?"
Whatever people say, the truth is that is not an option, you born this way. And you shouldn't have to "come out" to people because you're not a freak; you are who you are. Nothing change on you after saying: "Hey, I'm gay" you still being the same person that you have been all you're life. Unfortunally, the ignorance of society doesn't allow us to see the real meaning of love and life.
Great video Stevie and Sarah, you're such a great couple! ;)
Love this!!
This was so fucking good. I'm looking forward to the rest of the series.
I love this!
The end was really uplifting:)
I really love your music choises for your videos! Excellent Video!! We really won the lotery!!!
Get me in one of these vids ahah! Loved it!!
Amazing video!
the emotional connection, that really got me..
def loved this video!!!
Do those other women have channels themselves?
Loved this video!
I had no clue you were a lesbian when I've subscribed.
Now that I know ... doesn't change the fact that you're great :D
omg these girls were honest ! i applaud that!
Awesome vid!!!!
Who's the girl with the fedora?! I'm so in love! Lol
you need to post more!!! I look forward to your videos when you do post them!!!!
Wow amazing video!!
THANKS, THANK YOU SO MUCH stevie for this videos.. You just cant imagine how much this helps ❤️
You're welcome! So many more to come! :D
Thanks for making a great video!
Came out to a few of my friends, n they asked me how did i figure it out... i showed em this vid!!!
u guys are awesome! :D
I loved this video so much adding it to my favs
Being gay is both born and change. When i was young, my parents only showed love between man and woman and i actually just couldnt think out of the box. But now everything has changed, i love being me and i love being gay.
i am very uncomfortable when i meet girls, i am not who i am and i am in tension. when i meet boys i am relaxed and don't change the way i am... but i never have that sexual attraction to women, i only like em in pornos, i can not explain why
Whats the song at the end????? btw i love the video!! can't wait to see the rest on the episodes :D xox
Thank you! (Check the links in the description)
awsum.. well when u knw tht u r gay.. life give a damn good answers to all the questions u have like this video ... and rly I got many answers ty so much stevie
Well done, well done! I love it!
I LOVE THIS
wow... the last question hurts. Sometimes I think oh maybe it would be easier to be str8 like fully since I'm bisexual (tend to lean more towards women tho) but no. It will not be easier. Not when you're basically dying inside because you want to feel a woman and not a man. I rather take the bad with my girlfriend than make everyone else happy with a man. BUT there is places like Russia and Nigeria... I'm just truly lucky to be Canadian (Still get discrimination but at least the law doesn't want you dead).
I think that question was referring to if you could choose to literally be straight. To feel 100% straight, and be happy with a man, since they are already in the situation that they had a choice to be in a straight relationship and not like it. And that's a really hard question for every member of the LGBT community to answer- I know what my choice would be.
Sarah Kahn Yeah. What would your choice be? I would still be bisexual. I rather fight than chill. Even knowing I would be happy with a guy because I'll be 100% straight. But nothing compares to my girlfriend's skin. Nothing compares to her lips so it doesn't matter, I'll choose me, now. I'll choose her.
I live in Moscow,Russia and my generation (I'm 15) is not homophobic, my closest friends know that I'm bisexual and my best dude-friend is happy, cause we can talk about girls lol. On the other hand older people don't undersand and even hate gay people. It's sad but our generation will change it, I hope so. Hugs and kisses from Russia :3
Елизавета Касьянова Thank you, it makes me really happy and gives me hope for the future :) I'm french and I have only heard about what is happenning in Russia, not about what Russian people think about it. I knew that there are lot of people who are not homophobic in Russia, but the fact that you are optimist for all your generation is very cool ^^
Coralie Naze Happy that I made you happy and gave you hope:)
If these are the people you hang out with, I wanna hang out with you. (I've never been a fan girl type lol) They all seem intellectual, mature, down to earth and honest people. I'd much rather being around them than the typical loud and proud type. I mean, being proud is very nice, but some have that attitude 24/7 and that's just not me. This is one of the few gay advice videos I didn't find cliche or 'angry lesbian'. I love the balance between wit and serious discussion. Thanks for making this. :)
Love it !
Stevie and Sarah! 😭😭😭😭😭😭I love you two so much!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️😭😭💔
+Princess Kay uhm allyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
+Shaunti Dollaga I miss Sarah😢💔
Just fell in love with the girl with the dog :-) She is so cute!
Converse and a Bow Tie, lol. That was cute, great message though. Cheers!
I've tried dating guys but kissing was so boring every time that I realized I wasn't Bi and I'm just gay. It's difficult coming to the realization that I don't have control over it and I can't be Bi or straight. I don't like the label of being gay because I don't like dealing with ignorant people who have a problem with people being different. It's not that I don't want to be apart of the gay community it's just life it hard enough already and now I have to deal with homophobic people as well. I see that look of shock when I tell people about a girlfriend or ex girlfriend and it gets annoying after a while like I'm a freak or something.
I am gay and I know this because I just don't like men. I don't feel an attraction to men like I do with women... my sister said that I suit girls more than boys because: I can be myself around them, and I look and feel out of place with boys
littleripper312 insightful
i like your outro song and i loved this video
Im a gay conservative christian who came out to my conservative christain mother, and she just hugged me and said "As long as you're happy."
The opening scene just makes the whole video.
this made me emotional
Great video :)
"I just don't want all the difficulties that come with it!" Yea... I agree. But I'm happy with who I am :)
Love this
I love this video
I LOVE this video!!!!!!
The first 4 seconds of this video are priceless
Well, well done!
I love Button & Bly!
YESSSSS!
so weird to here u said "i'm really lucky to found you in my life". but u are with ally hills now. so YEAYYY!!
Ally and Stevie broke up
Make more of these videos their my favorite!!!
this is perfect in so many ways... all of the feels D:
I agree also
Wow. AWESOME VIDEO! :D
Being gay makes life less boring:|
Anyway,nice vid:D
Wow, so much so well said and pointed out